Comments by "Sammy B" (@sammyb1651) on "Women PUNISH the men they LIKE: how women get in their own way" video.

@joygibbons5482 That isn't sexual neediness. It's ANY form of neediness. Ideally they want someone who exhibits zero needs (of her) but provides endlessly for her wants and needs without question or qualification. Even to the extent that they ANTICIPATE her needs and she doesn't even have to point them out. "I shouldn't have to tell you!" etc etc. Women fight tooth and nail to avoid any performative burden on their part. Which going back to your point is explainable biologically (virtually everything is "explainable biologically") but ultimately results in utterly pathetic asymmetry in a relationship.
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@otimismoedoenca6749 No article. It's just observable reality.
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@mealovesyu No, I think I'll keep making the generalisations, thanks. Pattern recognition is valid and extremely useful as a learning tool. A fail from you. Must try harder.
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@GregorioVazquezJr I've been told all sorts of nonsense in my life.
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@AlexandreSNunes So be less natural then in other words. As long as EVERYTHING is in service of not disturbing her emotions. Be honest at least.
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@VoiceOvaGuy I didn't say they were deserving of it. Far from it. I'm merely pointing out that they're unanimously looking for an exchange of time and resources that favours them. However they assess that on a personal basis-it will differ according to their individual priorities, objectives and experiences. The other thing they all have in common is the unshakeable belief that they should get their own way. Fully absorb that information and do with it as you will.
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@Juliet_Capulet Fail.
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@MsInsaneNMembrane Sorry, but what GI D said was just patent nonsense until the nature of the relationship is established and behavioural expectations are negotiated and settled. You're not entitled to expect reciprocation from someone merely because you've shown interest yourself. Imagine a man (you weren't attracted to) taking that attitude to you. Lol. You've just heard what you wanted to hear and allowed it to confirm your biases. Congratulations! You managed to watch the video, miss the lesson and fail the litmus test in one fell swoop!
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@brendanthompson2082 Sorry Brendan, I don't recognise that characterisation at all. I fear you may be over estimating your influence over a woman.
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@K92834 I mean that ultimately the female believes the relationship is essentially about her. So her needs should be given primacy over his. Women don't care what a man wants. They may say that they do, but that is only to the extent it aligns with (or promotes) what the female wants. So essentially even that circles back to it being 'about' her. The majority of relationships are men ministering to women's (never ending) needs in some way or another. Men really do not ask for much from women in return. Sadly most of what a man does is taken for granted, which makes the female even more miserable as they're unable to experience gratitude and the male miserable because they're constantly cast as either a villain or an incompetent.
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@K92834 You're welcome. Thanks for the courteous exchange.
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