Comments by "Sammy B" (@sammyb1651) on "Responding to my female critics: the importance of intentional sexuality" video.

Logically flawless, however the reality is their wild abandonment is triggered by ideas of gain and fomo. It's completely effortless to them when those conditions are in place. Once they've got the financial commitment, kids, house and know they can retain all of that post divorce however it becomes a case of diminishing returns. No more to gain. No fomo. Thus it takes effort to get freaky. And if you haven't noticed, they're not keen on effort. It's not sexy. It isn't a 'vibe'. Sorry to say but there really are no answers in the space. It's well meaning and all but it's not going to move the dial.
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Whichever way you formulate it, they date for gain. What Orion is describing is the placing of a performative burden on the woman. This is something they successfully re-branded as "misogyny" decades ago. So it's not going to change. They enforce a performative burden on the male. They don't discharge one themselves.
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TL;DR What you're describing is the placing of a performative burden on the woman. This is something they successfully re-branded as "misogyny" decades ago. So it's not going to change. They enforce a performative burden on the male. They don't discharge one themselves. They date for gain.
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Logically flawless, however the reality is their wild abandonment is triggered by ideas of gain and fomo. It's completely effortless to them when those conditions are in place. Once they've got the financial commitment, kids, house and know they can retain all of that post divorce however it becomes a case of diminishing returns. No more to gain. No fomo. Thus it takes effort to get freaky. And if you haven't noticed, they're not keen on effort. It's not sexy. It isn't a 'vibe'. Sorry to say but there really are no answers in the space. It's well meaning and all but it's not going to move the dial.
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Logically flawless, however the reality is their wild abandonment is triggered by ideas of gain and fomo. It's completely effortless to them when those conditions are in place. Once they've got the financial commitment, kids, house and know they can retain all of that post divorce however it becomes a case of diminishing returns. No more to gain. No fomo. Thus it takes effort to get freaky. And if you haven't noticed, they're not keen on effort. It's not sexy. It isn't a 'vibe'. Sorry to say but there really are no answers in the space. It's well meaning and all but it's not going to move the dial.
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