Comments by "Sammy B" (@sammyb1651) on "How women TRAIN men to be ANGRY: don't reward what you don't want" video.

Men: Women DO NOT care. End of message.
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@chrisstone2506 It's a fairly reliable heuristic, even if it doesn't constitute an exact science. I don't think we need to get into the weeds over that. Incidentally if you're as fleet-of-foot as you say you are and advocate swapping out one for another at will, you're either: 1. Not married, or 2. Married but without significant assets. Either way, that probably hints at you not being as "desirable" as you like to think you are.
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@Zeuts85 What is it about the proposition that so offends your sense of proportion? That it's a "generlization"? Generalisations are perfectly valid and useful. Men are visual. Is that an "absurd generalisation"? If you honestly go through life thinking women care about men's issues you're in for a very rude awakening. Where there is ever conflict between a man's interests and a woman's prerogative, the latter will prevail. Women uphold and advocate divorce laws that prejudice mens interests in the most egregious way possible. Most of those same women have sons. They do this knowing full well the same law which benefits them will prejudice their own flesh and blood in turn. The instinct I'm describing literally has primacy over the maternal bond. If you think she's any more invested in her spouse's interests you're not only wrong, you're in cloud cuckoo land. I simply repeat: women do not care.
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@ultimatist Good for you. I'll just accept your anecdote and dismiss all evidence to the contrary. Where there is conflict between a man's interests and a woman's (and the reality is much in relationships is antagonistic), the woman will give primacy to her own interests. Virtually without exception. Men are different in that they will frequently favour the females interests to their own detriment. That's the essential difference to the "care" performed by the two. I've had plenty of girlfriends thank you. They've been "good people and I've learned a lot". I count them as positive experiences. Women don't care about men's issues however. You're getting very confused if you think that. Laws would look very different if your hypothesis was in any way true.
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@abecochran4251 Can't claim to have seen "his" input elsewhere but it wouldn't surprise me. Certainly reads like a female. "pleasant guys" "undesirable guys" etc🤣
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@ultimatist Whereas you speak in personal anecdotes so I summarily dismiss them. Lol. The shaming doesn't work. It's a fail from you.
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@frankG335 I didn't say they were "bad". I said they don't care. I'm talking at population level. I'm generalising. Because it's IMPORTANT to generalise. Pattern recognition is one of the ways in which we learn and understand the world around us By contrast you're citing exceptions. Which is fine but they don't disprove the rule. Thats the material point. I'm right btw. Men are very alive to this since the internet permitted them to share their experiences and learn from one another. You're wrong-to the extent you have to put words in my mouth. Which makes you in bad faith so I don't propose to engage further. Trust you understand. ☺
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@Zeuts85 What is it about the proposition that so offends your sense of proportion? That it's a "generalization". Generalisations are perfectly valid. Men are visual. Is that an "absurd overgenerlization?" If you go around honestly thinking that women care about men's issues you are in for a very rude awakening. In as far as those issues conflict with any of their own prerogatives they simply do not. I don't know what else to tell you. Women will literally argue for divorce laws that prejudice men. Most of those same women have sons of their own - knowing full well the same laws will prejudice their own flesh and blood in turn. The instinct I'm describing literally has primacy over maternal bonds. If you think she's more invested in her spouses outcomes you're a certifiable lunatic. I simply repeat; women do not care.
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@ultimatist Zip it, tinsel t!ts.
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@ultimatist Zip it, tinsel t!ts.
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@ultimatist Zip it, tinsel t!ts.
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