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Comments by "Sammy B" (@sammyb1651) on "Most MEN ARE ROMANTICS: understanding the core belief of romanticism" video.
Yup. Willing to bet most men have at least one of those stories!
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His channel used to be well populated by female viewers (if the comments section was anything to go by), but they've mainly scarpered now. They liked the original content that highlighted mens shortcomings but as soon as he turned the spotlight onto behaviour that didn't reflect well on them they all disappeared. Lol.
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@chrishnah What a profoundly silly question. Was there a single syllable within his post that came across as unintelligent?
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@Ashtonishing1812 It's hardly some massive strategic error if he isn't planning on dating them. You can do it simply for your own entertainment.
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@Ashtonishing1812 I'll conclude by saying I think it depends where in your RP journey you are tbh. Some of us are quite a few years in and beyond the RP rage stage. I suspect that allows for a bit more levity. There's a peace that eventually descends upon knowing you can't change anything other than your own attitude towards it. Women become less attractive (physicality aside) so theres a bit more licence to treat them without the reverence they never really deserved anyway.
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@Ashtonishing1812 That all sounds a bit "worthy" to me. "Fun" is not the purpose, but it can be a useful vehicle. In fact comedy is the only way certain (unpalatable) truths are permitted any consideration at all. It doesn't have to be "for" women or "do anything for them" to inform a man's use of the knowledge in any environment. Why should that be any consideration of mine?
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Same. Knowing what I now know the best I can offer these days is a very conditional affection, which is strictly performance based. It's a highly unusual state, (ie it doesn't come naturally), however it's the only thing I feel is reconcilable to the maintenance of self respect, long term. When you examine it, a settlement where the man must provide value, but the woman gets to insist you "love her as she is" is an unconscionable deal.
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Most men are romantics and this WILL be used against you. So be wary.
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As opposed to when you treat them the other way and they don't like it and start complaining.
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@Ashtonishing1812 What are you talking about? If you think it's "hidden" (I agree) then ventilating it is hardly going to be to anyone's detriment. It will only bring it more to light. It's such a depressingly harsh reality I think you're entitled to have fun with it. It's very healthy in fact.
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@Ashtonishing1812 Rollo says don't bother sharing it with women in the sense it's not going to "impress" them that you understand the way their minds truly work etc etc. Nor turn them on. I quite agree. I wasn't contradicting that, or suggesting you could go about "converting" women by red pilling them as to their nature. Most women I'm not trying to bed however, so I'm supremely indifferent to whether it does or doesn't impress them. In that capacity it's quite cathartic letting them know I don't believe a word of their sh!t. And I do, as and when I feel the situation deems it appropriate. I wouldn't bother showing them RP videos though, personally. I get that. But then I'm not in the habit of going round showing people YouTube videos generally.
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@Ashtonishing1812 👍
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It's getting fairly well covered now online. This message isn't original, it's merely re-packaged.
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