Comments by "Sammy B" (@sammyb1651) on "Get used to DISAPPOINTING WOMEN: consumptive love is never satisfied" video.

You're not comparing like with like, respectfully. Men are very accustomed to not having their wants catered to by women and to being told: no. It's basically our default setting. Men also have fewer wants and demands to begin with. Not so women.
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Good luck, man! Take comfort in the fact you're living a universal male experience. Ie it's nothing to do with you/it's not your fault. I think that's where we typically err the most as men. By thinking her moods/disappointment are a product of us not doing enough and the answer is to do even more. Because thats what she's asking for, right?! Her disappointment isn't due to a defect in us. Her happiness is her responsibility. As men we're built to be relied upon. We'll be there WHEN IT COUNTS. Our identity is built around that-but it has to come with a very healthy serving of: "No!" when we know it doesn't.
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@DNA350ppm You think a man is "needy" and "despotic" (for which read: has to get their own way) compared to a woman? Lol. Is this supposed to be a serious comment?
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@toxicmale2264 What an absolute sh!tshow! All round. Lol.
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Careful. You sound like you could sleep-walk straight into the next simping opportunity that presents itself.
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On one level they definitely want that. It needs to be acknowledged. And simultaneously, on another level, they don't. It "disappoints" them. You couldn't make this ish up. For all these channels elucidate (and they're useful-make no mistake-they shine a light) the basic problem is insoluble. I think you either decide to "live with it" or you don't. Literally.
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@EE12CSVT Strikes me as an increasingly wise choice!
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Yes. Thats a start. And attempt to have empathy for the person you're "disappointed" by because you're probably a consistently MASSIVE disappointment to him too. It's not good to constantly portray yourself as a victim in your own mind.
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@valentinavsl4148 I suppose you could ask yourself how soon would you want someone to leave you if you were consistently disappointing them? That might be a starting point.
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@DNA350ppm What women feel they are "burdened with" is one thing. What women are ACTUALLY burdened with BY THEIR HUSBANDS is another. And let me be rightly understood, it is a FRACTION of the performative burden they themselves place ON their husbands. That is literally the only material issue in a conversation of this kind. Whatever other sort of burdens they chose to place on themselves with "friends" "needy relatives" etc etc is entirely their own affair. Even the "burdens" of kids are complicated by women themselves. Men despair at how idiotically expensive women make kids, as they attempt to keep up with other "friends" in their intra female p!ssing contests. The level of analysis on this has been sub par for too long. Men are not "needy" relative to women. Quite, quite the opposite.
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It's also the surest way she cheats on you/ditches you sooner. Not saying thats a bad thing necessarily (on balance its good to be rid of trash sooner rather than later), just the advice is incomplete if it doesn't come with this codicil. Put differently, it doesn't guarantee she'll respond positively to your enforcing of boundaries. It's just as likely (perhaps more likely) to see her running to a simp who's more "understanding" of her.
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@Leoo117 Granted. But if we can agree it's more of a female trait to look to a partner to "provision" so many things, surely we can agree the "unpleasable" state is more a female state than a male one. Not necessarily that women are more "displeased" than men. Thats the material distinction. Many men and women alike are displeased with their lot. But the phenomenon of them taking their displeasure out on their partner who they feel is responsible FOR pleasing them is the quality I feel George is referring to.
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