Comments by "Sammy B" (@sammyb1651) on "Alexander Grace" channel.

  1. Complete nonsense talking point. Take them very, VERY seriously. Be extremely cognisant of how irrational, emotional, inconsistent (and especially how impetuous) they are. Each one has the potential to have a hugely negative bearing on your own experiences and outcomes as a man. They don't "want" to be subordinate. But they will function more optimally in that position in certain, prescribed circumstances. Those circumstances are not universal however and often are not even particularly long lived. Certainly don't pedestalize them-thats disastrous-but do NOT make the mistake of not taking them seriously.
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  2.  @richardw3347  I think you're probably right in the way that you've characterised it there. The only codicil I would insert is-albeit women undoubtedly find non-reactive men more attractive-that does not mean they won't try, continuously, to provoke a reaction. They will. And that in itself is exhausting to deal with. It may relent eventually or it may not. Personally-on balance-I think that has more to do with the individual female's appetite for drama than the individual male's ability to 'hold frame'.
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  3. 🤣Nice reference! Might be a bit outdated to get the appreciation it deserves though. Lol.
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  4. Hakuna Matata
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  5.  @richardw3347  Absolutely agree with you. The risk jumps exponentially once you have kids with her though. And I don't mean that increased risk is shared evenly. Quite the opposite. In other words the approach you outline is correct, however it gets harder to apply after certain key milestones are reached, not easier.  You can be as stoic and steadfast as you like (and ideally should be), but unless she's mentally defective, she will understand she has leverage over you (via the law) that she did not previously have. If she's had the kids she wants with the man she wants, but now wants someone more pliable (for whatever reason at all, it need only seem like a better idea in the moment), she's out. And many frequently are.  That happens even IF you remain stoic because it is a factor entirely extraneous to your person. If you're completely at your ease with that though then there's absolutely nothing stopping you.
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