Comments by "roidroid" (@roidroid) on "Does grammar matter? - Andreea S. Calude" video.
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+Jesse Steck Since communication is a 2 person process, it's incorrect to assume that your inability to understand someone would be solely their fault (why not your fault? Why automatically assume you're in the correct position by default?).
You should look at people's differences in talking as the same as people who speak entirely different languages. You're going to have to be immersed in their culture for some time, to properly understand the nuances of what is being communicated. I very regularly have the sensation while listening to people from other cultures, where i can understand the words but i can also tell that there's something important that i'm missing out on. i don't assume i'm listening to idiots, what i assume is that i havn't been around this person or their culture enough to be able to pick up on the nuances, what they're really saying. It's not their fault per-se, since they're not a part of my culture either, they likely don't know all the nuances of my culture just as i don't know theirs.
Neither of us are speaking the universal default language/grammar, we both just have our own languages - i wouldn't want them to think i was an idiot because of how i talked, so why would i do that to them. Lets not let our first reactions be shallow, this is a real actual person infront of me, they have depth.
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