Comments by "Aga" (@aga5109) on "Divorce lawyer on Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard trial | James Sexton and Lex Fridman" video.
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That's true about domestic violence dynamics, looking at them from the therapy room. It is extremely difficult to get out of abusive relationships in many cases. A person needs a lot of support. People are getting so damaged. The longer they are in it, the harder it gets.
Trial of serial killer Ted Bundy shows the dynamics of psychopatic, sadistic, cruel criminal who killed over 100 women. He was adored by so many women. They thought he is innocent, charismatic, handsome & charming. He manipulated them into seeing him in that way. But it must have been something in them to be susceptible to his charm. One got married to him while he was waiting for the result of the trial, which ended in the death sentence. Terrifying.
I don't know what it is exactly. Probably repeating trauma on unconscious level. How some people get deeply attached to highly broken people. How they get used to the abuse from narcisistic, psychopatic individuals. It always makes me amazed in terrifying way. They cannot see what is obvious, living in illusions, lying to themselves. How badly they are treated. Them and they children. The only way is to get out & emotionally recover.
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