Comments by "Crazy Eyes" (@CrizzyEyes) on "Charisma on Command" channel.

  1.  @TragicHeroine-kd6uy  "I’ve never interacted with a person who doesn’t like to do it" You've never met a person with low attention span? Hard doubt on that one.
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  2.  @rail7646  "wow, socializing is exhausting!" "you're not an introvert unless you recharge from being alone" bruh, learn to read
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  3. The hypothetical thing is something I really need to take to heart. I find talking about stuff like this WAY more interesting than the weather, or the status of Major World Sportsball Series League.
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  4. I've developed this same inverse relationship with reactions over time. Usually it is because the other person is massively overreacting. It helped that my own father was kind of the opposite of what you described. He had anger issues, which have thankfully faded over time as he got older and started doing more cardio. This taught me not to react when I was young because I didn't want to feed into a cycle of escalation. His brothers had it much worse, in one case leading to his death. I cannot take people who overreact very seriously as a result. That said, I am not immune to overreactions either -- I have buttons just like any other human -- but then when I realize people aren't taking me seriously, it's like a "snap back to reality" moment. It helps keep me level-headed.
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  5.  @4321user-_  In my view small talk does not include detailed conversations about anything, even sports. Establishing a common interest is usually my go to for making friends. I don't think it requires trust in a stranger to talk about something that is not directly related to either of your personal lives, even if it is in depth. For example, an in depth conversation about military history. Of course, the tricky part is getting there without launching into a lecture when the other person isn't interested, but I like to think I've gotten decent at that (because I notice immediately when others do it to me).
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  6.  @4321user-_  I mean, you keep talking about it like it's self-evident when it clearly isn't.
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