Comments by "Crazy Eyes" (@CrizzyEyes) on "Don't Be Like This Guy" video.

@takeruhomura You're projecting hard, obviously you have to stop once you start dating each other seriously. Do you think anyone on a dating app or website only talks to one person and never visits the website again until that one person responds? People often never respond.
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@znegjorinorino5735 The phrase "why do men" or "all men" doesn't affect men, that's not the problem with it. The phrase (and videos like this in general) are sent by women to other women to discuss issues they have on a regular basis. Rarely will men actually see a video like this unless it goes viral, even then they'll be the minority of viewers. It's fine to vent frustrations, nothing wrong with that, and this guy in the video is a creep who "flirts" like he's trying to skim data off a website. The problem is when you generalize and make it political, you start creating an echo chamber. Studies have began to show sex is at a low, dating and romance are going downhill throughout the US. It went up among established couples during COVID (because they had nothing better to do) but it was trending down before that. I doubt that women convincing other, younger women or ones who aren't as social that all men are like this is going to do them any favors. We're building a society where nobody trusts each other; ironically through the use of social media because you get to build a bubble for yourself and never talk to anyone you might be slightly uncomfortable with. We're trending towards a zeitgeist where flirting is seen as totally unacceptable.
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@razzledazzledorito6552 But the context of the interaction is on a dating website. If you just wanted to chat about something, then go to a topic-based forum for the topic you want to talk about. I'm not sure how you confuse "wanting to be more than a friend" with "hook-up culture."
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@razzledazzledorito6552 The point is that it's unreasonable to expect someone to wait with bated breath for your perfect prince/princess response on a dating website because the people who DO use it for hook-up culture, or who are otherwise shallow/undesirable, may not respond to your messages at all. So messaging multiple people isn't necessarily about wanting to get laid, it's about wanting to get any form of response at all.
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Honestly, the calling a girl beautiful and running away thing isn't that bad. He could have said "nice tits" or "I want to make you my slave." It could only be construed as creepy because he ran away. Asking a girl if they're in high school first thing on the other hand is pretty creepy.
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She wasn't rude, in fact I think she would have had an easier time if she was more blunt and said "You need to leave if you aren't going to buy anything" or "You're making me uncomfortable" sooner. Why even answer a direct question about your age? But the thing that bothers me is the "why do men? I'm just trying to do my job" caption. If she liked the guy, it suddenly wouldn't have been about "all men," just saying.
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@MrsAnnThropy I'm a man and I get paranoid enough just walking around downtown in the city I live in so I started carrying (both lethal and non-lethal) and I started training martial arts again. Romance isn't the only angle that someone can attack you from. So I have a hard time sympathizing with the "I'm afraid he will fucking slay me if I say no" mindset. If you're that scared, I'm not sure what to tell you -- literally no one can help you unless you do something to make yourself feel more at peace. The drive for humans to reproduce is simply too strong for all men to stop because you get scared from watching too many news stories. Bitching online about it won't help, help yourself instead.
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