Comments by "Steve C#" (@stevec3526) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. They want equality but demand that their husband be superior to them in every way. The math doesn’t work.
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  2. The level of entitlement and disrespect is over 9000!! No wonder why Chinese men are saying no.
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  3. Sounds like the Chinese woman have priced themselves out of the market.
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  4. Why should a man risk everything on a gold digger?
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  5. “I will only marry when I meet a man who meets all my expectations.” Translation: Her expectations are ridiculous and she will NEVER marry.
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  6. Men aren’t looking for another man or a masculine woman.
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  7. Chinese men are finally learning to reject gold diggers. Men don’t simp, it gets you nowhere.
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  8. This sounds like a business negotiation and not a loving marriage.
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  9. “We have created a generation of narcissistic women.” Sadia Khan
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  10. Leftover Women: Your preferences are ridiculous just marry me and do everything I tell you to do.
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  11. They have priced themselves out of the market.
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  12. @ Johann, that isn’t my experience. Men are happy if they get 80% of what they are looking for. Women often want 110% of what they are looking for.
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  13. I know a number of Chinese and Japanese women married to American men. None of this dowry nonsense.
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  14. Ladies, if you are Strong and Independent why is there a Bride Price? So stupid…
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  15. High Quality women can easily get a boyfriend, or find a husband. When they describe themselves they sound like they are describing a successful MAN. Men want feminine, supportive, submissive women.
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  16. Paternity test should be required for all live births.
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  17. In the West flight attendants often have very high body counts. I don’t know if the same applies to China or not.
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  18. These women aren’t becoming materialistic, they are already materialistic.
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  19. If a woman is single and 30, men know there must be a good reason for that.
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  20. These are women who will end up alone.
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  21. In the US I heard this same story a number of times. Wife is bored, she divorces him, quickly discovers that the single life is much harder than expected. She tries to get back with him but he says no way, no how.
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  22. Men don’t go to these events because the women are only interested in the most handsome and tallest men who also look wealthy.
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  23. Like my hardware store, screw, nut, and bolt.
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  24. In a modern society a bride price or a dowry is saying that a woman is property to be sold for a price.
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  25. Status
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  26. Why is there ANY Bride Price? The whole concept is simply ridiculous, and toxic. Tests like this is “Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.” If you love a man you DON’T do stupid things like “tests”.
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  27. They don’t need to show up.
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  28. Pretty obvious the young guy is pretty clueless. Just looking at her I can tell they are incompatible.
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  29. Ever heard of protesting too much?
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  30. Making women happy is virtually impossible. They are either naturally happy, or they aren’t.
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  31. These women are fooling themselves. These guys are trying to hone their romantic and sexual skills. These guys will dump them and end up with a woman who is much younger than them.
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  32. When she caused the breakup? Come on dude, wake up! Ever read “The Divine Comedy” by Dante? Probably not…
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  33.  @blume0121  My Japanese wife won a beauty pageant in her early twenties. She is a damned fine looking woman. Extremely smart too.
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  34. Judge a woman based upon her friends.
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  35. $40,000? That is ridiculous…
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  36. I know at least a dozen men, including myself, who have married Asian foreign nationals in the US. The Chinese wives I know in the US didn’t require bride prices.
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  37. No, women find men in their 40-50 most attractive. While men find women 20-25 most attractive.
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  38. The exact same thing happens in the USA.
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  39. Fit, feminine, friendly, attractive, sane, and healthy.
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  40. Karma is a witch…
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  41. Absolutely correct…
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  42. @ Dublin, your comment makes ZERO sense.
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  43. I know a Chinese woman who married a European man who lives in the US. There was NO bride price. His family is wealthy but you couldn’t tell it knowing him. Her parents were happy that she married. The couple now has a daughter.
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  44. Oh, they blame his family.
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  45. These aren’t loving relationships. They are business deals.
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  46. They will NEVER lower their ridiculous requirements and standards. They would loose face.
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  47. It became very obvious why these women are left over women.
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  48. Very true
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  49. A pre-marital checkup, and DNA testing of any and all children.
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  50. Universally as women age their requirements go up, and not down.
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  51. Funny how they blame men as to why THEY are single.
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  52. Men want a lot more than just physical beauty from a woman. Fit, fun, friendly, faithful, financially responsible, and intelligence are a few.
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  53. No, more like 900 or 9000 chasing 1 guy. The men they want are quite rare.
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  54. The young guy is pretty clueless about women.
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  55. @ Chinedu, that’s true too.
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  56. Because tall men don’t want short women. I am 6’2”. I wouldn’t date a woman who was only 5 feet tall.
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  57. All of these women are very materialistic, and treat men as an ATM.
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  58. Many American women are the same.
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  59. At 9000….
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  60. 188,000¥ is $26,393…
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  61. Chinese women are marrying western men and no bride price is involved.
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  62. You judge a woman based upon her friends.
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  63. I have heard Chinese women say that they have to use digital filters on their photo or they don’t get matches for dates. This tells you how messed up things are.
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  64.  @JohnSmith-bg4hu  A friend of mine is European. He was in Shanghai and met his Chinese wife there. She was attending university in France. Her studies were in English. So they communicate using their second languages. They now have a cute one year old daughter. They often fly to visit her parents in China and his in Europe.
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  65. @ Victor, I understand, but I know 4 Chinese women who have married American or European men and there was NO Bride Price.
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  66. So what is the Bride Price for a woman from Vietnam, Laos, or Thailand? Do I hear crickets???
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  67. Only 5% of Chinese men are 180cm or taller. That 5’11”…
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  68. Chinese Drizzle Drizzle. Ain’t it fresh!!
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  69.  @escapethebotnet  I think that is part of the problem. They see themselves as rare.
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  70. Very true.
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  71. What they do is pick and choose the twenty best characteristics from twenty or more men. So they create in their minds a man that never existed, and want him.
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  72. It is Chinese tradition that has gotten completely out of control.
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  73.  @ATexpat  I met her when she was 25 and we married 2 years later.
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  74. I have seen a few but I know it is the digital filters talking.
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  75.  @fabiourbano6404  I think you should say “The biggest enemy of women are other women.”
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  76. Men look for a woman who is 80% perfect. Women look for a man that is 100% perfect.
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  77. Ah, the pain of the friendzone.
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  78. Ladies, you aren’t the prize. You be unable to find a husband proves my point.
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  79. These women have ridiculous expectations, and men say they aren’t worth the time, money, or effort.
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  80. @ Enrica, I never said all women. When a generalized statement about women is made it covers MOST WOMEN. Statistical research says women want a spouse to earn about 50% more than they do for one example. If women are demanding equal pay but the guy has to earn 50% more this means there are going to be a lot of unmarried women because the math doesn’t work.
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  81. @sub, I think I understand marriage. I have been married 35 years.
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  82. They don’t have high standards, however no man is good enough??
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  83. Hitting 35 is similar to hitting a wall.
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  84.  @TomNook.  That is her side of the story. What the guys were complaining about they conveniently ignored mentioning. These women are demanding ridiculous Bride Prices often 400-500,000 yuan.
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  85.  @antonthemanton3065  I think the Chinese are actually worse.
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  86. Sadly yes…
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  87.  @lepotdefleur9906  Yes, I have to agree with you on her family. Often women are damaged by their family.
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  88. No way could I live with my parents. Also, my wife can only stand staying with her parents for about a week.
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  89. Probably also using digital filters.
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  90. Simp much?
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  91.  @asw654  Men want companions, not partners.
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  92. Karma on the ex.
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  93. The feminists in China are just as delusional as they are in the West.
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  94. These older Chinese women want to be the man in the relationship, and the handsome, younger man her male wife.
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  95. Older single women often have personality disorders that they refuse to acknowledge.
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  96. Too much pride…
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  97. Even in China single women keep their friends single.
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  98. Clearly sociopathic behavior.
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  99. This is clearly spam.
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  100. 8000 yuan is $1,132 for a purse.
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  101. @ Chris, so true. At the same time men with real money don’t flaunt it. I live in the US and my wife is Japanese.
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  102. Time to call the police.
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  103. They want a man who is 180cm or more tall. That is roughly 5% of the Chinese male population.
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  104.  @vectorm4  Women are incredibly sensitive to men’s height. My wife often meets various famous people through her work. Not too long ago she met John Cena and noticed that he was shorter than me. I am 6’2” while he is 6’1”.
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  105. No, this is modern Chinese culture. Even more materialistic than the west.
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  106. Their friends are friendamies.
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  107.  @j.p.5716  Duh, those births matter long term and the expense involved.
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  108. Oh really…
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  109. They want men over 180cm tall excluding 95% of the men. On top of that he has to be rich and handsome.
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  110.  @blume0121  One of my wife’s Japanese friends had a German grandmother. Her eyes were a very light brown. She married a Canadian. Congrats on the marriage. I call the Japanese, the Asiatic Germans.
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  111. @ Cookie, exactly correct 👍
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  112. Men don’t appreciate ignorant and arrogant women.
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  113. @ Dude, what you are describing is narcissism. And yes, you are correct.
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  114. That is the digital filters overdone.
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  115. Yes, very suspicious.
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  116. What? both sets of parents also show up for a first date? WTF?
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  117. It is?
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  118. @alphy, If that is the case then it tells you about their intentions.
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  119. Even in China Modern Women are NEVER happy. Only happy women should be taken seriously.
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  120. Older women are victims of feminism, hypergamy, and pride.
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  121. These women are confusing what they want in a man with what man are looking for in a romantic partner. What men and women are looking for in a relationship are VERY different and the women can’t accept this.
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  122. Men want supportive companions, NOT a controlling partner.
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  123. Many men consider left over women as damaged and they are single because of personality and character flaws.
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  124. These very average looking women with dreadful personalities are so utterly delusional. If they are 30 years old or older are already too old and often are damaged. Maybe they should look into marrying a foreigner.
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  125. I feel sorry for the men that put up with this nonsense and BS.
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  126. They are weak women and not men.
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  127. You are complaining about evolutionary psychology. This has been hard wired into the human genetic and emotional systems for millennia. 😢
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  128. You misspelled horse. 🐎
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  129. Young guys “date” cougars to get experience sexually. They rarely take cougars seriously for a long term relationship.
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  130. That first prenup is absolutely ridiculous, it is economic sl*very.
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  131. Yes…
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  132. @ Victor, thank you for your input.
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  133. @ Stan, we are specifically talking about China. A dowry makes some sense to financially support a new couple who have little assets.
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  134. Excellent move gentleman! Excellent!
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  135. Female NONSENSE.
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  136.  @maynotbe  Women routinely overrate their SMV, and underrate men’s SMV.
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  137. I am sorry, you AREN’T Emotionally Intelligent. If you were you would have already been asked by a man for marriage.
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  138. They are using digital filters. You wouldn’t be able to pick them out of in a crowd.
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  139. Yeah, The Wall is nonsense?? Sounds pretty real here.
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  140. They refuse to listen to their customers. They think they are the customers.
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  141. The first woman is clearly delusional. She is probably a 7, and not a 10. No sane man would put up with that nonsense.
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  142. No men are saying what women are demanding is utterly ridiculous. As the video said in cities of several million only a few hundred men meet the requirements of very ordinary older women..
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  143. The wives want total control over their husbands.
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  144. First Woman should be paying the man 500,00¥, and she should give up her other ridiculous requirements.
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  145. At least she can pay the tip.
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  146. She is a NUT JOB!!
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  147. Head spin?
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  148. I have a friend whose wife can’t cook so does ALL the cooking. 🧑‍🍳
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  149. Sounds like these male Chinese commentators are clueless and weak. If the child is not his why should he have anything to do with the mother or child?
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  150. What does the baseball cap say on it?
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  151. I know a number of Chinese women married to American and one European.
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  152. These women are incredibly arrogant and annoying. That is why they are single.
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  153. @Ninja, I have a close friend who is European who met his wife while working in China. They now live in the US and have a 2 year old daughter. No bride price was involved.
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  154. If it takes that much effort to make her presentable I don’t want her.
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  155. No, we call this insanity. Her family should be paying him.
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  156. Because they aren’t attracted to men.
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  157. No, it is feminism that teaches them that they can do anything a man can do, but the only men worth dating are ones vastly superior to her. They are also taught that the men in their lives only purpose is to spoil her by fulfilling her every whim and desire.
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  158. Digital filters dude.
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  159. @Will, that is why I say 80% of the women are chasing 1% of the men. In her case 0.000001% of the men. On top of that if she did ever find one of those men I doubt he would be interested in her. I was in Whole Foods last month and I saw a tall, handsome Chinese guy who probably met her requirements and he was with a very beautiful, tall blonde.
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  160. Well, she obviously was NOT a lady.
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  161. Well, what have been the results?
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  162. All of these women are using filtering.
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  163. No, No, No! Just meeting more women is NOT the answer. I tell guys to improve themselves mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. I also tell men to watch what women do and NOT what they say. Plus chase success and not women. Be friendly to all people and overcome your shyness.
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  164. Yep…
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  165. This is a world wide phenomenon. Modern women are all chasing the top 1% of men. As Sadia Khan has said “We have created a generation of narcissistic women.”
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  166. You don’t explain yourself very well.
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  167. @ Earth, I am an American and I gave up on American women after dating for 15 years. My wife is Japanese and we live in the US. What we are talking about is a world wide phenomena. Feminism has taught women the need to be equal with men while at the same time they want a man vastly superior to them. THE MATH DOES NOT WORK.
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  168. Yes, she destroyed her own life. Her only option is possibly marrying a foreigner.
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  169. These ridiculous Bride Prices are destroying Chinese society and ultimately will cause unintended social and political consequences.
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  170. Do you speak Mandarin oe Cantonese Chinese? A European friend of mine worked in Shanghai for a while and met a woman who was studying medicine in France. Her English is very good. They now live in the US and they have an 18 month old daughter who is very cute and obviously very bright.
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  171. Men don’t want women who have high body counts or have a history of cheating. The risk is just too high.
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  172. Manipulation technique absolutely.
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  173. All live births should be paternity tested.
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  174. A bunch of entitled narcissists. If a woman pulls this BS don’t reward her toxic behavior. Men need to lead and set boundaries. If two or more women show up demand separate checks.
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  175. Chinese astrology..
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  176. It is really bad in Russia if Russian women prefer living in China.
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  177. I bet it was a lot more than 36. It is just 36 that bought her lies.
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  178. Beauty is much more than just a woman’s face. Personality and character also plays into a woman’s beauty.
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  179. And status..
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  180. Some women are offering men dowries but men are still turning them down.
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  181. Very true.
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  182. “The lady doth protest too much, methinks.”
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  183. @ Lang, when so many women only want a 1% man it is pretty obvious what is going on despite YOUR protestations.
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  184. These women are using filters to the max and it is pretty obvious.
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  185. Absolutely 🎉
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  186. @JM, speak for yourself… The Good Men invisible??
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  187. It isn’t an unwritten rule. Men preferring younger women is written in our DNA.
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  188. The Bride Price makes it sound like the bride is being purchased, or being bribed.
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  189. Reagan said “Trust but verify.” They never verified.
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  190. This sure sounds like blatant purchasing a woman for marriage and bribery of the woman’s parents.
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  191. 88,000 euros is 660,000 yuan.
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  192. Bob, you are right. There are good women out there but they are rare and hard to find. It took me 15 years to find one.
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  193. Even with the filters turned on these older women aren’t that appealing.
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  194. They will still blame men in general.
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  195.  @MrFreeman0179  I have met some VERY attractive Vietnamese women. Easily 9s.
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  196. You must be joking. What you suggest would change nothing.
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  197. Women control sex, men control relationships.
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  198. Even Prince Charming in China has lots of options. Only 5% of the Chinese men are 180cm or taller, which is 5’11”.
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  199. Chinese men are getting passports and seeking foreign options.
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  200. Bride prices should be BANNED in China. 388,000Y is $53,300.
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  201. @ Wilson, 1) Because men and women are biological, emotionally, and evolutionarily different 2) This is China so there are cultural differences 3) Efinism has all these women thinking they are 11s 4) These women think they all deserve the “Perfect Man” even though they are far from perfect themselves
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  202.  @bunbohue369 Quality restaurants want good things associated with the dining experience. They don’t want to be associated with a scam.
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  203. In the major cities there is a surplus of women. While there is a surplus of men in the countryside.
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  204. Practice, practice, practice…
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  205.  @HHH-nv9xb  I live in the US, and my wife is Japanese. I do have friends and coworkers whose wives are Chinese. Tipping is too common in the US but I haven’t seen it in Asia. My European friends say tipping is rare there.
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  206. While using filters
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  207. Sorry, if you are 39 or 40 you aren’t going to have children.
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  208.  @SheikDjibuti-t4b  Yes, I agree with you. My point is that this Bride Price grift only happens in China. Also, I know American men and one European man who have married Chinese women and there was no Bride Price nonsense involved. As far as I can tell these are happy marriages.
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  209.  @clodismccuien8082  Dude, I go to church every Sunday. You are just lousy explaining your thoughts and beliefs.
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  210. Blame feminism…
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  211. ¥ not $s…
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  212. @ It is just digitally modified appearance. She doesn’t actually look like that.
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  213. Filters
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  214. It is women’s natural nature to want a man that is taller, stronger, wealthier, a leader, and with higher status. You are asking them to go against their nature. It just isn’t going to happen.
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  215. The problem is NO ONE is perfect. Not even them.
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