Comments by "TaichiStraightlife" (@TaichiStraightlife) on "8 Signs of an Avoidant Attachment Style" video.
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So, I used to fall heavily for someone (this happened a number of times). Hearts and flowers, etc. Then, after a few weeks, I'd wake up one morning and be absolutely cold about them (which was scary). I just wanted nothing to do with them, really. I'd hide this feeling for awhile, hoping that it would pass, but it never did, and I'd have to break up clean. Finally, I gave up on relationships totally- I thought it wasn't fair to the other party, and never wanted to hurt anyone like that, but it happened enough times that I thought: I can't keep doing this to others. PS- My mother was a narcissist (that's my own layman's diagnosis, for what it's worth). So what kind of attachment disorder is that?
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