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  7.  @jacobphillips9845  I'm not trying to defend Jonah's behavior at all, and I would honestly argue it's far more manly to feel secure with your partner, whether she deserves that trust or not. Living in a relationship with jealous paranoia is simply no way to live. It's not healthy for the relationship, it's not fun for the partner and most of all it's not pleasant for people like Jonah himself who likely uncontrollably obsessed over thoughts of his girlfriend hanging out with buff surfer guys, even though Jonah himself is a famous celebrity & has a lot going for him even despite getting typecast as shitty characters. It's definitely stemming from insecurity issues & simply not loving yourself or even respecting yourself. However, we all have our own shit and issues that sometimes tend to pile up and eventually emerge in ugly ways such as controlling behavior. I would recommend any man or woman falling victim to irrational and emotionally-driven behavior like this to take a step back, get out of your relationship and work to improve yourself, find a way to love yourself (whether it's through therapy, meditation, or self-improvement), and then finally once you love yourself for who you are, you can finally learn to adequately love another person. We shouldn't accept this behavior as normal or acceptable (as it's not good for Anyone) but we should at least understand it to a certain degree & know that it's initially driven by normal human emotions that, if left unchecked or unaware, can snowball into much worse or even hurtful behavior. Based on everything I just said, I find that I at least have a certain level of understanding and empathy for Jonah's clearly deep seated insecurities & he obviously was not happy with himself. However, in the girl's case it's much more difficult to relate to & feel that same type of empathy for why she would feel the need to advertise their private relationship years later in a seemingly hurtful way towards someone who is clearly in that process of trying to improve himself and find a way to be a happier, more secure person. Maybe she felt hurt for all these years, but I highly doubt it. It seems much more likely it is just for attention & internet clout (or even possibly vindictive spite she's held onto for all this time), and if that's the case I just find it far more disgusting human behavior than any actual mental problems and deep-seated issues Jonah was trying to actively work through for the past several years.
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  13.  @rlud304  Like others are saying, what if your partner is an alcoholic and you don't like their behavior while drinking, what if they're a danger to themself or your child when they drink? Ultimatums around this are done ALL THE TIME in relationships & usually it can get the partner to stop drinking & improve their lifestyle, this is why ultimatums are not an inherently negative thing & can be a part of normal communication if all else fails. Just saying ultimatums are abusive and manipulative is pretty childish. I actually personally know of scenarios where it's not even entirely the partner's fault, like say they have bipolar disorder. If the other person just can't live with their extreme mood & behavioral changes, an ultimatum over them taking their prescription medicine or they'll leave is also a fair ultimatum to give if you've ever had to live with someone with bipolar disorder (for instance it can lead to them having a manic episode where they feel the urge to go out and cheat on their partner) - imagine if you were dating Kanye west as the most extreme example. This is another situation where an ultimatum is not the pleasant course of action, but is still warranted given your own feelings on the partnership - nobody should have to live in a relationship where they constantly feel uncomfortable & with high levels of stress and anxiety. Getting back to Jonah Hill though, his boundaries are petty & insecure & she absolutely has the moral high ground to leave him for something so silly & controlling, but the way he presents his line in the sand is about as good as it gets in terms of communicating in a calm & coherent way - you would almost think he was given notes by his therapist & likely did considering they were both in couples therapy at the time.
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