Comments by "" (@thehumanity0) on "Kyle REACTS To Jonah Hill Scandal | The Kyle Kulinski Show" video.
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@jacobphillips9845 I'm not trying to defend Jonah's behavior at all, and I would honestly argue it's far more manly to feel secure with your partner, whether she deserves that trust or not. Living in a relationship with jealous paranoia is simply no way to live. It's not healthy for the relationship, it's not fun for the partner and most of all it's not pleasant for people like Jonah himself who likely uncontrollably obsessed over thoughts of his girlfriend hanging out with buff surfer guys, even though Jonah himself is a famous celebrity & has a lot going for him even despite getting typecast as shitty characters. It's definitely stemming from insecurity issues & simply not loving yourself or even respecting yourself. However, we all have our own shit and issues that sometimes tend to pile up and eventually emerge in ugly ways such as controlling behavior. I would recommend any man or woman falling victim to irrational and emotionally-driven behavior like this to take a step back, get out of your relationship and work to improve yourself, find a way to love yourself (whether it's through therapy, meditation, or self-improvement), and then finally once you love yourself for who you are, you can finally learn to adequately love another person.
We shouldn't accept this behavior as normal or acceptable (as it's not good for Anyone) but we should at least understand it to a certain degree & know that it's initially driven by normal human emotions that, if left unchecked or unaware, can snowball into much worse or even hurtful behavior. Based on everything I just said, I find that I at least have a certain level of understanding and empathy for Jonah's clearly deep seated insecurities & he obviously was not happy with himself. However, in the girl's case it's much more difficult to relate to & feel that same type of empathy for why she would feel the need to advertise their private relationship years later in a seemingly hurtful way towards someone who is clearly in that process of trying to improve himself and find a way to be a happier, more secure person. Maybe she felt hurt for all these years, but I highly doubt it. It seems much more likely it is just for attention & internet clout (or even possibly vindictive spite she's held onto for all this time), and if that's the case I just find it far more disgusting human behavior than any actual mental problems and deep-seated issues Jonah was trying to actively work through for the past several years.
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Yes, having insecurities is a pretty common human issue for both men and women. Unfortunately when it's coupled with other mental issues such as bipolar disorder, PTSD, addiction, or even chronic anxiety or depression, it can potentially lead to ugly behavior that many people let emotionally snowball out of control. We all have our own shit & issues that pile up over time. The way that makes us overcome it is to take step back and deal with it directly either with self-improvement, therapy, meditation, etc. The sad thing is that Jonah was clearly in the process of fixing himself and coming out as a happier, better person, so why oh why would someone feel the need to embarrass him with old private relationship texts, especially when he has a newborn child on the way & seems to be finally in a better place.
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