Comments by "Wobbles And Bean" (@WobblesandBean) on "Cop Realized He Is Facing 440 Years In Jail" video.

It happens all the time. About 50% of all male cops beat their wives, and that's just the ones who openly admit it. The actual number is probably even higher than that. Remember a few years ago how everyone was talking about that woman in London who was kidnapped and graped by a police officer? I lived close to the tube station that occurred at. I was there that night. I often think what may have happened if it'd been me walking by at that exact moment, instead of her. But yeah, the cops I did interact with were utterly disinterested when I called 999 after being followed home by some creep. One of them even said, "well what exactly do you expect us to do about it? He hasn't hurt you." Cops protect their own. Cops won't help you if you're being stalked or harassed. Cops victimize women behind closed doors.
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@TheTwinFiles It's almost never out of the blue. I guarantee there were signs this shipmate showed that were blatantly ignored, because other men just don't see those signs as problematic. Signs like, a hateful opinion of women, or certain sexist comments said when there are only other men present, or a previous history of violence and abuse. Guys tend to overlook this stuff, and then are somehow surprised when their buddy turns out to be a monster. Myself and most other women I know have been in at least one abusive relationship. Without exception, every time one of us tried to reach out for help, his guy friends wouldn't believe us. "Well, he's never been like that around me." "He and I go way back, I know he'd never do that." And my favorite, "Hey, so I asked him if he did it and he said no." Another example involves my ex who worked at Rocksteady game studios. He was best friends with the girl who publicly released that document full of signatures from female employees, saying they'd experienced s. harassment. He flat out said he didn't believe her. This thing had dozens of examples of gender discrimination, including her own, and my ex just flat out accused all of them of lying, despite only barely knowing the alleged perpetrator. My ex believed him over his best friend, and the 30+ other women all backing her up with similar stories. TL;DR, The warning signs are always there. It's just that people refuse to see them until it's too late.
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That's the problem, you sailors are all the same when it comes to this kind of thing. I know three men who were in the Navy. One abused his wife and went to prison for choking her, one was a blatant misogynist whose friendship I had to walk away from, and the third left the Navy because he was disgusted by how his fellow sailors talked about and treated women. He was a crewman on a submarine just like you, he told me his shipmates straight up bragged about graping women and even provided a false alibi for another mate who had violently graped a female officer. Messed her up real bad too, apparently she had to be discharged because the damage was so extensive. And not only did the others protect him, they all laughed about how badly she was hurt. You need to do better.
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 @krs1297 Guys in the navy are bad characters, period.
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