Comments by "Wobbles And Bean" (@WobblesandBean) on "Thoughty2"
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@davidscritchfieldds Exactly. Dogs are attention whores who will automatically place their owner at the center of their universe, no matter who. Even if they mistreat the dog, the dog will stay blindly devoted, it's actually kinda pathetic, lol.
But cats? They don't really need you. They can catch their own food, can survive outdoors in most weather conditions, and they clean themselves. They choose to love you; choose to bond with you for life. And they won't bond with everyone, so the person they choose is very, very special. Kitty love is very deep and pure, and extremely loyal. Dogs aren't loyal. They'll throw themselves at literally anyone and will switch alliances in a heartbeat if someone else gives them food or a tummy rub.
All of the kitties I've ever owned throughout my life were just the sweetest, gentlest, biggest snugglebugs so. 💜 They're so unfairly treated, it truly breaks my heart. Cats are such amazing creatures. They deserve to be just as worshipped in our society as dogs are! Cats rule and dogs drool! 😂
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Gotta love all the BPD people in the comments getting big mad cuz they'd rather silence Thoughty2 and anyone else bringing up the objective reality regarding this disorder, than face that reality and have an open and honest discussion about it. How can you whine about a "stigma" when by refusing to allow even the mere mention of typical symptoms of BPD, you yourselves are perpetuating said stigma?
I have CPTSD, which is often misdiagnosed as BPD, but guess what? I fully acknowledge that my behavior can be harmful to others if I don't stay mindful of it. And I sure as heck don't get all defensive and deny that these behaviors can be difficult if not flat out toxic, because I am fully aware that they can be.
Having BPD doesn't automatically make you a bad person, but it does mean a lot of your behaviors can be toxic and even abusive if you don't keep yourself in check. Emotional outbursts, extreme mood swings, and taking drastic measures to prevent rejection are all classic signs of BPD, and can all be mentally damaging to the people around you. Denying any of those traits and getting angry when anyone else even mentions them, tells me you're one of the toxic ones to avoid, because you won't even acknowledge these traits, let alone try to seek treatment or be mindful of yourselves.
It's YOUR responsibility and yours alone to rein in your behavior and put forward a positive example of someone with this disorder. Stop trying to censor others just cuz your ego got bruised.
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