Comments by "" (@reanschwarzer2187) on "Matt Walsh Has An Honest Conversation With A Divorce Lawyer" video.

At 28 years old as a man the discussion at min 57:30 I have done everything myself never had a woman’s support or affection and now I’m kinda good I’m doing well. I overcame all my hardships alone I faced the Loneliness and struggles alone. So at this stage yes with my experience a woman today mostly comes off as a high risk and little else. Part of that is cause I kept my head down worked hard so I would be a stable good man. And truthfully I lost a good amount of women to what the red pill calls chad or the bad boy. None of the girls married that guy but after being passed on I moved on. So I think he’s right you spend most of your life alone through the struggles and hardship there’s nothing to build with I already built it now the only thing that can happen is it being taken away. Or the benefit of children but with the economics and choices of women left I don’t have a high interest anymore.
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Most men who I know got divorced or cheated they were in sexless marriages that’s what I’ve seen I know people don’t like talking about that either
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@Gingerblaze fortunately I grew up in a conservative Christian household vetted my sisters now husband the old school older brother deal she wanted my opinion they dated 8 years and got married and are doing very well. He was a friend of mine that she had an interest in. Fortunately she offered the same and did not like any of the women she had as friends or was around. She’s like they are good friends but I’d never recommend any of them for you. Originally I was like she’s being nice now after years and the red pill stuff I am aware it’s not just me I bet many good Christian men went through this.
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@Gingerblaze yes I do however I am very strict on the no single moms. And relatively guarded against the born again virgin trope that happens after the girls run out of options. No issue with genuine ones but seen a few good men have the wool pulled over their eyes ah that’s the past she won’t cheat anymore. Ring ring what’s up man I just got home and my wife was cheating on me 😭😭. That’s sucks man that divorce is going to cost half your life should’ve listened to me man. Sure I’ll help you move your stuff. I also am a bit more jaded as I had a friend get falsely accused title 9 in college by what I thought was a super sweet Christian girl so our experience like it or not does color our views. Again fortunately my best friend found a great one so far and all his friends from college each got good ones but many of them are on 1-2 years in so prayers it stays that way. But after 28 years I’ve got mostly negative interactions rejection which is part of the game. Disdain, creep wow you’ve only had 2 girlfriends what’s wrong with you what do you mean sex after marriage and a lot of women find a guy being a virgin very off putting today. So I just don’t think this generation is the time for a man like myself I’d go with we can both work but one’s taking care of the kids for at least 7-8 years at home gotta have siblings it’s important in my opinion. And that’s just not in high supply and frankly a lot of the great women got married off early as they should. I just argue I think we didn’t raise enough good women for the amount of good men. Then you add the economics and the vitriol towards men today it’s not encouraging truthfully!
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@eddie-ni5ox yeah I think that’s a lot of guys especially the ones who worked hard to be quote good men then got passed over for the bad boy the girl he liked gets pumped and dumped then comes back around possibly with a kid. It becomes very demoralizing frankly you become very disillusioned with women as a group. Even worse if your from a divorced household
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Matt if you want a good one have Rollo or Aaron clarey on Id recommend Aaron first
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@kc6810 no one wants it to be a chore but to a degree everything is like ughhhh it’s Friday and I’m driving home from traffic. But if I stop at the store and get my gf flowers she will be happy but that’s another 15 min drive till I get home then. Again hopefully your gf smile outweighs your drive time but that is kinda a chore you don’t have to do but it shows effort. I’m 28 and single so this is theoretical as I don’t have much experience but that’s how I imagine it. But considering 90% of OF is from married men in the latest survey I think this shows how pervasive the whole sexless marriage thing is. It’s also telling that many women find that wearing launderie or doing sexual things for the husband they find degrading. Not talking the crazy things that may be out there but coming home to like the basic cutesy thing and an open apron or those tropes I don’t get the disdain for that. I think women get frustrated with that cause they don’t ask similar of their partners I’d have no issues but that’s something I’ve also heard more often from the guys.
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