Comments by "" (@tensevo) on "Lisa Bilyeu" channel.

  1. it would be great to meet somebody who simply loved you for who you are, and not for who you are not.
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  2.  @Magicisreal66  menopause, as in when woman hormones are closest to man's world view.
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  3. a narcissist is basically always trying to tell you how great they are, instead of demonstrating greatness, it is all talk.
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  4. you are seeing life, through the eyes of a man.
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  5. only go with somebody who has mutual feelings for you, somebody who reciprocates interest, asymmetry will crush you.
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  6. if they are criticising or gaining trust, then they are trauma bonding you.
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  7. love is, who you want to be with
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  8. Chemistry is going to be necessary for compatibility
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  9. if he is secure, he will not waste your time. if he is insecure, he will waste your time.
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  10. You are literally describing every relationship, that doesn't work out. And some that still going.
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  11. what is love bombing?
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  12. if i understand correctly, we are suggesting to combat "narcissism" with more "narcissism"
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  13. anybody who shames or guilts you, is toxic.
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  14. yep, the sooner you can stress test somebody if they are the real deal or not, the sooner you can move on.
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  15. a narcissist is somebody that is all about themselves, yet tells you that you are the narcissist.
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  16. better to have loved and lost, than never loved at all
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  17. chemistry is essential foundation of long term relationship
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  18. but, you need more than chemistry, you need to be understood on a deep level, with deep connection.
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  19. yes, avoid the narcissist
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  20. if you are flirting and what not, without wanting a relationship, then that is a form of manipulation.
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  21. So every relationship is toxic then
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  22. actions and body language speaks louder than words.
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  23. In short, Do they have your best interest in mind?
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  24. steer clear from time wasters, they will bring you into their chaos.
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  25. you are essentially describing every relationship
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  26. why are women attracted to men who they are not compatible with? yet, they have connection and commitment bit in place....
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  27. If you are asking, can i be treated like a human? Is probably a toxic relationship.
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  28. why would the man/woman want to stay, just to be your slave? not going to happen
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  29. 1:09:19
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  30. based on suicide rates, you could make the argument that men are more pressured by society. it is hard for everybody, lets face it.
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  31. the nuance is, if a man calls out your bad behaviour that is not toxicity, but if he says, you are ...this, that and the other, then that is toxic
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  32. I.e. the difference between criticising the person versus their actions.
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  33. nobody is getting or giving advice to manipulate women.
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  34. What relationship doesn't start with love bombing if you call it that.?
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  35. you need to spend 200 hours, 4-8 weeks, before love kicks in.
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  36. if they say "i love you" on day 1 of knowing you, that is a major red flag.
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  37. sarcasm is attention seeking, shielding wounds.
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  38. errrrr, healthily, it will be mutual no?
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  39. i literally dont know any man who speaks of intentionally manipulating women,
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  40. hang out with ppl who work in high pressure environment, you will learn.
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  41. i literally got rejected for not love bombing, as it was seen as expected.
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  42. grab the one who is into you, end of. Dont waste your life dreaming about what you cant have.
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  43. 1:09:44 If a man gives you his heart, he is serious, but he cannot sustain it indefinitely, without reciprocation.
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  44. 45:45 We are rushing to confirm our worst suspicion, that we are unlovable!
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  45. women want men who are sure about what they want.
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  46. ask better questions, of your prospect, before diving in
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  47. never s teal your partners story, allow curiosity to prevail.
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  48. your best match, a dating app would never have put you together
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  49. This woman, seems like nothing you do will be right, you try to hold her hand and say you love them, you are being accused of manipulation. You don't hold her hand or say you love her, you are also being accused of manipulation.
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  50. we can only be with somebody we connect with on a deep level
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  51. agree, eyes, body language, kiss, everything else is a distraction.
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  52. he wants to use you as a condom?
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  53. compatibility is balance
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  54. why do you get with toxic men?
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  55. People who can deal with pressure in good humor, are golden.
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  56. i dont know a single man who cheats, but lots of women I know date multiple men. just think for a minute, it takes huge effort for a man to get one woman, let alone cheat, whilst most women, they have 100+ options to cheat, so it is way easier, I am not sure what world you are living in.
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  57. red flag is not a call to run, it is a call to address it, understand if it is a real problem, then run if it is not addressed. it is a potential danger, not an active threat.
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  58. relationships are like houses and cars, they need service, repair and maintenance.
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  59. if you speak the truth, you will never suffer mental health problems.
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  60. If a man is serious about you, he will make it known.
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  61. if you have trauma, or anxiety, you need a secure person more than anything.
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  62. if it feels amazing the keep going and reward him for investing (time, energy and resource) with praise and treats.
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  63. sooo true,
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  64. it's just easier for men to cheat
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  65. can we just break that down a minute, it is no easier or harder for men to cheat than women. It is actually easier for whoever gets approached more, to cheat.
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  66. am i moving too fast or too slow? yes
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  67. You won't have a relationship then
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  68. watch his actions, ignore his words.
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  69. cool word,
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  70. how are you not describing every person, if you think you are not in relationship with a narcissist, then you are the narcissist. it is all a matter of degree.
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  71. useless
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  72. if they have known you for not even 1 hour, and they are confessing feelings, then that is a red flag. agreed.
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  73. classic is the partner who seeks validation then you finally give them validation, and then they ghost you or go silent on you, but with everybody else they are happy and joyful, so only the partner see's the real persona, the world see's a fake persona and the world thinks you are the crazy one.
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