Comments by "Theory Of Personality" (@theoryofpersonality1420) on ""A Year in Defiance" Someone They Knew... with Tamron Hall" video.

  1. The law says you have the right to defend yourself. Why should defending yourself against the monster who's a stranger be any different than the monster in your house holding you hostage year after year.
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  2. Cea Larkin, that has nothing to do with anything here.
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  3. Kari F, some people ignorantly think that they could spot an abusive person and avoid or get away from them. They have no idea that abuserers are perfect for about 18 months. It's only after they isolate their victim and take away their resources to leave that they drop the mask.
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  4. I'll never understand why people love their shitty abusive parents. I hate mine. I have a lot of words to describe how I feel and love wouldn't even make the list.
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  5. No, people go back because they know if they don't they will be hunted down and murdered. It happens all the time. Leaving is the most dangerous time for a victim. It's not familiar it's self preservation. It's not wanting to die and leave their children at the mercy of a violent psychopath.
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  6. Absolutely
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  7. If law enforcement actually did something about abusers instead of sending them back to beat the victim for calling for help things would be different. I remember back in the day if a man beat his wife the cops beat the 💩 out of him on his way to jail. Then they actually kept them there until the wife and children could be put into protective custody in a shelter in another state. Now they don't do anything.
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  8. To be fair if she killed him and then moved away she would have never been caught.
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  9. That was her first opportunity to defend herself. Completely and positively justified.
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  10. lisa russell, that's because that's the first thing abusers do. Take away your resources and support system.
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  11. I don't understand why no one stood up to him for her. My neighbor was being mean to his wife. So when he mouthed off to me I let him know everyone knew how he was. Everyone knew he treated his wife like crap. Not that nicely though. I haven't heard a peep fe him since. A lot of times public mortification is enough to make them stop and find another outlet for their anger. If you know someone is abusing their spouse out them in a public place around people that know. Just call them out and embarrass the hell out of them. Not only will they avoid you like that plauge they will tiptoe around everyone else who knows. It's important it's on public. Stand up for those who are in a position to not be able to defend themselves. Don't pull them aside and whisper in secret they should leave. Standing in front of both of them look the abuser right in their face and say they need to leave you because you're abusive. If you lay a hand on them again the whole town will know. I'll go door to door and hand out fliers if I have to but everyone will know what a horrible person you are for hitting your spouse. It's the only thing that can stop them is public mortification or humiliation. Never be afraid to help someone who is being abused. Not ever. If you can do it alone then tell others first. Learn what public mortification is. Use it against them. It's why public shaming works.
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  12. Sorry for the typos.
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