Comments by "Theory Of Personality" (@theoryofpersonality1420) on "Preschooler Found in Freezer, Boyfriend of Mom Arrested" video.
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@nunceccemortiferiscultu7826 you don't get it. They pretend to be you. They mirror you back to you. They like what you like. If you don't like something, they don't like it either.
They pay attention to you when you talk, they listen to every word so they can make you believe they think, feel and act like you. Why? Because they are trying to become you.
They become you and make you believe they are just like you. You literally fall in love with yourself. Then they love bomb you. I love you, I want to be around you, anything you want to do I want to do, I want to eat where you want to eat. I want to watch whatever movie you want to watch, I want to listen to you, I am attentive, I am compassionate, then it begins slowly, I want to be your everything. Sounds great right?
But what that means is they want to replace everyone and everything in your life with them. They slowly push out one person at a time. Monopolize your time and attention. They want to go everywhere with you. If you want to go without them they act like it makes them sad. Like a puppy left out in the freezing rain. They act like they are hurt. So you let them go.
Then your friends don't want to go with them they make it like your friends are the mean ones. They sabotage your job, hide your keys. Make you think your crazy. They will move your keys from by the door to somewhere else in the house, or even go put them in the ignition of your car and lock the doors. Then tell you, no I unlocked the door, you must have left them in there. Hide your phone, hide one shoe. Take your clothes out of the dyer and put them back in the wash and they to convince you that you never put them in the dyer. Take your clean clothes and put them in the basket. Sabotage your car. Factory reset your phone and then lie and say it was an accident. Then a week later say it never happened at all.
Try and turn your children against you. Be mean to your children behind your back and say mom told me. Even if it's their own children. Try and turn your whole family against you and you against them. Just so you will be completely alone.
The list goes on and on and on.
The abuse doesn't begin for at least 18 months. At least. Then one day the mask drops.
It's not as simple as "oh they dated them".
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