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 @Clover-tf7jc . What we have learned from studying the theory of personality of children, regular people, mentally disturbed people, personality disorders and even type B personalities and serial killers is people get what they give.
Do you know how many women Ted Bundy dated that he never attacked?
Do you know why he never attacked them?
Do you know the percentage of serial killers you come in contact with in your lifetime?
What we have learned is if you are kind to even a serial killer they will be kind to you. We see this time and time again in their descriptions of their life, what led them to do what they did. The method in which they choose their victims.
Since I already used bundy as an example, he never picked off anyone who was kind to him. He let women go unharmed that he had picked up expressly for the purpose of killing them because they were polite and respectful. However the women he choose as victims he said were rude, prideful, mocked him and laughed at him.
This is the same with all serial killers. There's no exception to this rule thus far.
Also there is no such thing as bad children. Only bad parents.
The study of nature vs nurture has taught us this.
You can take a child who is "a bad child" and put them qith good parents and they will become good children. You can take a child who "is a good child" and put them with bad people and they become a bad child.
You can take the child of a serial killer who had bank robbers, murders and rapist in their family and give them to a good family and they become a good child.
You can take a child from a family with no criminal history and give them to a criminal family and they become a criminal.
We have also seen people at every age respond to therapy and counseling with great results.
It all depends on how you treat people.
We have seen children be well behaved in all their classes accept one. We have seen children be bad in all their classes accept one. We have seen children be well behaved for one parent and be a holy terror for the other parent. We have seen a child behave well for only one aunt, uncle, sister, brother, cousin, or even just one grandparent, or even a neighbor.
The difference is if the child feels they are being heard. A little bit of kindness and attention can take a child who would be a school shooter and make them an all A+ student.
What's sad and criminal is teachers think they play no role in the sad affairs of our current social and economical situation.
Not taking responsibility for one's own actions is a symptom of type B personality disorders.
I believe all teachers and anyone in a profession that comes in contact with children should be required by law to submit to drug test every month and a mental health evaluation every three months and anytime there is a complaint alleged against them.
We've all had teachers that aren't respectful or kind that don't deserve the respect and compassion they don't give. Children respond to the stimulation given. They are a product of their environment. If you have a problem with children you need to check you. That's the bottom line.
If you are in fact a teacher then you should use spaces when typing. Most people wouldn't care to read such a long comment.
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