Comments by "Ida Larsen" (@idalarsen2540) on "Woman Describes Day She Was Kidnapped By Serial Killer Andrew Urdiales" video.

  1. Stop that. Just stop it. It doesn't matter, she did NOTHING wrong, regardless if she knew him or not. It doesn't matter. Sometimes things kinda just happen. Although certain things can be forseeable, doesn't mean we always manage to think about all the possibilities of each situation. This kind of questioning or whatever is partly the reason survivors are often times so afraid of speaking up. "This awful thing happened to me, BUT I did this and that 'wrong' therefore I'm to blame" and all of that is what survivors often think, which many times makes people too scared to speak up and/or report incidenses like this, which only benefits perpetrators. I get your point, but still. It can be dangerous. Really dangerous.
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