Comments by "Stevie" (@matthewhorizon6050) on "Mike Tyson on Why He Smokes Weed | Joe Rogan" video.
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Manny Santiago
Agreed! Out of all the psychosocial theories used to explain our personalities and behavioral markings, I've always been partial to Systems Theory. But social-nurturing theories don't explain entirely how we arrive at our adult selves. However, when merged with existential and psychoanalytical models we then have all the variables in place to expound on every influential aspect of human development.
If Mike never met Cus D'Amato, maybe he doesn't even take boxing seriously? Cus was very father-like towards Mike and genuinly cared about his wellbeing. Mike adored him!
According to the stories, Mike was bullied to no end as a young child. He would hide in the project hallways to avoid other kids. Occasionally, he was so scared that he'd stay hidden for 6 to 10 hours. Clearly, he was traumatized and it followed him into adulthood. With no one to protect him during those times, it set the stage for the cultivation of a monster.
An environment that causes a child to feel afraid, angry, lonely and frustrated regularly will manifest eventually into antisocial behavior: the behavior of Mike Tyson in a nutshell. But the positive relationship w Cus affected him too. It was his caring and attention that gave Mike the confidence and drive to focus on boxing and not run the wheels off the track. As Mike stated, "All I wanted to do was please my mentor."
Your examples are spot on -- I totally agree. Check out an illustration on systems theory. You'll find it fascinating.
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@Dominik Klán,
Yep, the experience of being parented is different for everyone. My family was totally broke when I was young, but my parents were driven folks. My mother went to school and eventually became an RN and was the head nurse at a hospital unit. My dad upholstered furniture and eventually his business blew up. We moved to a nicer part of town and life changed radically for us.
I'm 43 now and just finished my LMSW clinical (an LCSW now! -- took 10 fuckin yrs of school, field placements, licensing exam, and multiple yrs working on my clinical). I still have a few buddies that I see from back in the day, most of them are dead or in prison though, and the rest aren't doing well.
My point, up until about 23-yrs-old I was NO DUFFERENT THAY ANY OF THEM. I was in Rikers 3 times, and accumulativly spent 5 yrs in the prison industrial complex in upstate NY. I truly believe that the only reason I made it out of that life was due to my parents not letting my run wild and laid down a foundation of morals and etiquette, so when I finally grew up I was able to transition out of the destructive antisocial mentality. Unfortunately, my friends parents didn't do that for them. I used to be so jealous that they could stay out later than me, not disaplined as much, etc. Now I'm grateful beyond words! My mom and dad saved my life. I'd probably be dead by now if not for them.
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