Comments by "Jim Luebke" (@jimluebke3869) on "Q\u0026A 05-22-2021 | Jordan B. Peterson" video.

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  2. On empathy - The birth of my first child was not only new to me (and therefore alarming), but technically difficult, and it is only thanks to medical attention that he is alive today. The birth of my second was alarming because of my experience with the first, but it went comparatively smoothly. It was only during the birth of my third child that I calmed down a great deal. By then I had internalized, that even if things went terribly wrong, I was not going to be the one suffering the physical effects of that, and that was a good thing. This could be considered a "lack of empathy". However, the fact that this allowed me not to be at loose ends, and to perhaps be a source of calm in a situation where others were going through difficulty, made me more of an asset than I'd been in previous situations. Similarly, I found myself in a situation where one of my group of friends had betrayed the trust of other members of that group, because he was in a significantly worse position than he had ever let on. He hadn't screwed me over, so I was not personally wronged; this allowed me to be more empathetic and helpful to him, than any of the others could be. They were ready to abandon him to his difficult situation, and understandably so. Just as there is a thought that cancels thought, there is also empathy that cancels empathy. Whatever degree of empathy you have, can be put to good use. By the way, you're more likely to be useful at your uncle's funeral, if you're not falling apart yourself.
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