Comments by "Jim Luebke" (@jimluebke3869) on "Epic Backfire For Toxic Female Comic Who Spends Her Days Complaining About Her Husband! Mom Life!" video.

  1. Woman: Judges her husband constantly in public Also woman: "Don't you judge me!"
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  2.  Future Trends  No. The problem is feminism. I had a relationship with a woman, where we rarely argued for about 15 years. The way we avoided arguments, is I knuckled under and went along with things. There were a huge number of issues that I just swept under the rug. This was because I loved her, more fool I. Then it came to a number of things I absolutely COULD NOT live with (her putting a premium on her career, her cats, and reckless spending, to the constant and absolute exclusion of her family -- everything that feminists say is A-OK!), it all exploded. The important thing is not that you never argue; the important thing is that you have a way to COMMUNICATE and to SETTLE arguments in a way that does not allow intolerable grievances to accumulate. Also important is to have similar values in the first place; feminist values are 100% at odds with having children. NEVER have children with a woman who is a feminist, or even is comfortable around feminists. If she has a feminist friend (perhaps from childhood), the rest of her friend group needs to be oriented around converting that friend away from feminism and into a decent human being. You call yourself "Future Trends" -- it looks like you haven't noticed that fertility rates are collapsing, which will cause society to collapse as there would be insufficient young people to support the elderly. Your advice would exacerbate that problem rather than solve it. You should rethink all of the assumptions that led you to the conclusions you state. Expecting people never to argue is utterly naive, and actually counterproductive. A better solution is to take feminists and make them the villain of every story and the butt of every joke for about 50 years or so, until people forget it was ever fashionable.
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  3.  Future Trends  Also, this is a little impractical -- women are best off (healthiest, most energetic, etc) having children in their 20s. To hit that 10-15 year mark, you'd have to have the guys living with them as preteens, which is kinda gross, or limiting pairings to brother / sister, which is even worse. The best idea? A culture that doesn't tell women they can and should have everything exactly their way all the time, and they should learn to be open and constructive about disagreements instead of passive-aggressive (always changing the subject when something they don't like comes up, going out and unilaterally taking actions the way they like instead of discussing them, etc.) Guys are really pretty easy to deal with, we're open about what we want and willing to compromise (and even please) a woman we're in love with, as long as what she wants isn't degrading to the us and she's willing to make concessions too.
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  4.  Future Trends  I think we overestimate the amount of preparedness any given generation has ever had, in becoming parents. We underestimate the importance of listening to the wisdom of previous generations, which covered for that. Unfortunately, a huge percentage of the Boomer generation explicitly rejected the wisdom of their parents (although many continued to subconsciously practice it) so current generations have been severely handicapped. Pregnancies aren't as easy or healthy when women are in their 30's, especially their late 30's (which are known as "geriatric" pregnancies.) Also, the transition to being a parent is less easy at that point in life, after work-oriented habits have gotten ingrained and fluid intelligence has crystallized around it. The cultures that don't change as I suggested, are simply going to wither into irrelevance over the next generation or two. Only subcultures (or foreign cultures that displace the infertile ones) that do things more like they've been done for just about all of human history, are going to be around by the middle of this century, much less by its end. Biological reality wins. That's a trend you can bank on.
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  5.  Future Trends  I don't disagree with you, that our current crop of elites ranges from incompetent to malignant. That just identifies where our actual problem is.
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