Comments by "Jim Luebke" (@jimluebke3869) on "On The Boy Crisis | Dr. Warren Farrell" video.
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Melissa Oestreich Your life and your parents' lives would not have been any better, in any way you imagine.
They would have been much, much worse in material terms, in simple logistical terms, and in emotional terms.
Your single complaint about an annoying habit of your parents, would have become 10x that number of problems, many of which you simply would not imagine without going through them.
Your parents did the right thing, mostly. They would have been vastly better off if they had done their marriage right. If they had a support network capable of bridging the gap that short-circuited through you, that would have been vastly better for everyone.
However, you can be thankful that they stayed married, as the problems that you saw would have been made 100x worse by the realities of divorce itself.
I know "it could have been worse" isn't all that comforting, but that's how it is in this case.
I'm curious -- what brought you to a response to a year-old comment? That's ancient history, in YouTube terms.
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