Comments by "B Dale" (@bdale5231) on "VICE Life" channel.

  1. Many men say 'What's wrong with women today?' When what they mean is 'They won't do as we say' Well, hey It's better that way!
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  2. Katheleen Garay If this were a random mix of people, (age/gender) who simply feel the need to escape an untenable life situation, then it could be classed purely as self-preservation. But as it is only female people, who have separated themselves from a life which treats them more harshly, solely on the basis of the gender they are born into, then it becomes a 'feminist' concern. I hope this is helpful.
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  3. Emma Frost Whatever your own feelings and experiences, it is not helpful to tell a twelve year old that half the population of their world is scum
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  4. Emma Frost It's nobody's 'place' to be subjugated
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  5. Why does there have to be 'a head' of household at all - what happened to the equal partnership?
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  6. Amira Hussein Cringy? You mean honest. What world you living in?
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  7. Lesbian Amazon Sister Thank you for that, it is much appreciated. I've written a fair bit over the years, and used to contribute to a feminist magazine in the past. But i think it's a little beyond me now
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  8. Atomic Bubblegum Generally, men hate those too
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  9. Vanoha Chiam The clothes, okay. The beating up, no
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  10. Kirsty Buller 'Involuntary Celibate' Thank you
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  11. delagrazia Or to exploit ANYONE!
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  12. Emma Frost MY 'kind'? And protectors of what? I'm afraid i don't understand
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  13. Angelica Mock Follow your own path. Make your own judgments. Don't be jaded by the opinions of others. Keep a good and open heart :)
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  14. I have the greatest, undying respect for the Sufragettes
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  15. Jamie Maclean Have you two not hooked up yet? ;)
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  16. Jamie Maclean I think she - and many others(some other men too),hates the behaviour and attitude that she sees in many men, and perhaps hasn't encountered many of 'the better kind'. Sad to say, she is far from alone. It can seem as though you really have to seek out decent men, whereas the awful kind appear to be in clear view and abundance. Unfortunately, greater proof of goodness is necessary to counteract the negative. It's a natural human way of protecting ourselves from hurt/pain/disappointment. If you care, prove yourself.. if you do not.. let things be ;)
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  17. Vox Nihili So top earner then.. not head of?
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  18. Emma Frost What rot are you spewing? You sound a little overwrought
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  19. I'm off to watch some fun stuff now.. you?
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  20. I’m the Android sent by Cyberlife Good for you - much healthier than this ;)
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  21. Eva Kaye Sadly, to many men, children ARE their 'belongings'! (shown most clearly at divorce)
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  22. Jamie Maclean Each person is different, and looks for different things in a partner. Confidence can be improved on in many ways - the simplest way to overcome the obstacle, without taking courses to actually boost it, is to 'bluff' it fake it..til you make it (you'd be surprised at how many of us do just that)! And shyness - practice is the best for that. In a situation where you may feel shy, cocentrate on the other person/people, and not think about yourself. Put to the back of your mind how you think you may be coming across (only worry about that if there is a recurring problem) and just be Be yourself. These are just simple hints, without trawling through books, or watching hundreds 'youtube vids' ;D
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  23. shelah fennel What would that be? I'm not being facetious!
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  24. zero red To whom are you directing your questions/comment?
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  25. Jamie Maclean My partner and i worked varying shifts, so whoever was home first, cooked for both. Nice!
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  26. DickJohnson3434 And the world would cease turning if you gave up your job?
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  27. delagrazia Indeed so. Hateful!
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  28. Vox Nihili If your relationship with someone, with whom you have children, were to end, (the children still being dependants), i don't believe that any financial considerations/settlements, would differ greatly with regard to your marital status
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  29. jimmy fallon We differ from one another.. that is all
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  30. Andrew Erhartic Most women are fine with equity. We aren't fine with men who say that they hate women, because they are women
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  31. Emma Frost I don't have fantasies about ANYONE being dominated, it's not my thing
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  32. Jasmine Simmons Stating your point might have been better :)
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  33. Emma Frost I think you are on the wrong thread! There was a perfectly reasonable exchange between two people here There were no problems
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  34. Emma Frost and her BROTHER??
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  35. Satan Monasteries and convents seemed to work okay
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  36. Emma Frost How is that different from men not 'allowing' women to vote because their views differed from their own? Those who fought for women's right to vote would turn in their graves at this!
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  37. Man O' War That's not balance, that's alternating. Balance is what we should be seeking. It seems that's a never ending road!
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  38. Man O' War I don't think any amount of looking at history is helpful. All that does is rehash the wrongs, and open old wounds. It is the present which we should look at, and look properly. What got us to where we are is largely irrelevant. What we do now is what matters.
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  39. Man O' War I understand your point, particularly when talking of extremes and failings, and i don't disregard that. But they are the failures. My point is that, if we now do what is actually right.. then historic failings are neither here nor there in that picture. Only the misguided, who seem headed toward nagative repetition; because they do not have it right, need to take heed from past mistakes. I suppose really, that i am looking at it from the view of individual responsibility, leading to the collective, rather than an already gathered sheep-like collective.
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  40. Jessica Tyler-Whiteman Sadly i think few people will have read your comment. Shorter works better. If you could condense this, more would read it. It is a good comment
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  41. Marik While i believe that you mean well, there is so much wrong with what you state!
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  42. Emma Frost It's like the oft used phrase, 'son-of-a-bitch'! If we have to blame parents, then where's the 'son-of-a-bastard' part? No-one ever seems to catch these small things (women themselves use them all the time! Oh boy
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  43. Emma Frost It is not necessary for someone to be 'submissive', simply reasonable. I would personally hate to be with someone who was either, submissive, or dominant. It is unnecessary, and would feel.. ugh (sorry, but i can't think of appropriate words for that ) ;)
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  44. happy life More people who KNOW that men and women are equal!
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  45. Tommy Tucker You can be a decent/good person in a hut, and a bad person in a palace. People cannot help what they are born into, but they have every choice in how they are
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  46. Vox Nihili Ah! I see, thank you. But if you have a resident partner, with whom you have children (whether you are married or not), would being the taxable 'head of household' make much difference to financial settlements should your relationship end?
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  47. Joanie mallen I do not know what 'MRA' stands for in this instance?
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  48. Lisa Guest The evils that have been performed in the name of 'tradition'!
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  49. Kyle Savage I'm sure that there are as many women who wish to be classed as superior as there are men. These are not the women who i speak of/for. Fortunately, i know of none of this type of woman personally, nor would i count them amongst my friends
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  50. Kyle Savage I do not agree that 'they are a pretty big portion' of the female population at all. I think this is perceived to be the case because of that loud and well publicised media you mention. I think that perception, and that group, do a great disservice to the actual general population.. both of women, AND men
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  51. Kyle Savage But there are billions of women. You cannot believe that this is the attitude of the majority! I obviously cannot say that you personally, do not see this type on your streets, but can only reiterate, that i only hear that small group shouting from screens, and yes, the occasional lunatic.. somewhere in my vicinity. I have never encountered this attitude in my work environment (it truly would not last long there) and do not know anyone of this nature personally. It is all very sad, and disappointing, that we cannot seem to get the balance right, between only two sexes of the same species. If things were unbalanced, then simply switching the positions is not going to help. The whole of life is about balance. That was the aim of true feminism. It should remain the aim of all people. This group - those who have hijacked the title, will be of no use, and will remain detremental to their supposed origins, until they remember that, and work towards it.
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  52. Emma Frost I'm fairly sure that i don't have a 'bumchum'! Your responses to me have been most inappropriate. Would it kill you to restrain your obvious antagonism to anyone who does not appear to hold your extreme views, and show some civility?
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  53. LOZZAXOX Nobody is!
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  54. Fari Absolutely
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  55. AMRIT SINGH Why would that make you aggressive?
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  56. Emma Frost Apologies Emma, for seeming to speak in you name - i was generalising of course :)
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  57.  @saturn2855  ???? The road near me has just had to be resurfaced, due to all the cracks in it Edit: it is black
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  58. Nor are they 'queens'! That's just patronising, and puts aside the very real and serious reasons for their present situation
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  59. Just listen to yourselves Children!
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  60. Why??
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  61. Liam Does If you want to look at 'black' lives (however you define that with regard to people), then you cannot 'fuck everything else', because if they matter, then what concerns them matters. Obvious, i would have thought?
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  62. Can we leave deities out of this?
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  63. Callum Gallacher Oh my! Head from up your....son! Are you from another planet? From all the comments on here, from the banal to the intelligent and back down to the hate-filled, yours is about the most ridiculous!
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  64. Kirsty Buller What is an 'incel'?
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  65. aattitude I believe you mean it when you say that you have never wanted to rape a woman. But I'm sorry, I would not be as trusting of your friends as you are! Do you honestly think that anyone you know, (trusting that you believe rape to be abhorrent), would ever express any other opinion to you?
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  66. SamWallace Artisan While i agree with you on some points, i can't understand your suggestion of 'experimentation'? These are people who have separated themselves from the 'traditional' lives they had been born into, in order to survive, and hopefully find peace and dignity. I very much doubt that they view their situation as any kind of 'experiment'!
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  67. tubester4567 I agree that there are huge differences in the degree of 'acceptable' abuse, degradation etc. between the example countries/cultures that you mentioned. But this does not take away the fact that abuse exists worldwide. Just as a note too, the laws covering rape in marriage, are not as old as you may think. In Britain, it is only relatively recent that rape in marriage has been acknowledged as such (Scotland being ahead of England in this regard) It is also widely understood that 'culture' takes many more years to catch up to law Sadly and reprehensively!
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  68. tubester4567 I'm sure you are right, but i admit that i have not looked a great deal into the stand of feminists (mainly because they seem to have been totally overshadowed by the group who are often referred to as 'feminazis') these are presumably who you are meaning?
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  69. Mitchiko Parrish Racism and sexism are only alike, in that they show prejudicial thinking
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  70. Mitchiko Parrish And all the sufragettes were so-called 'white'! There is no use in competition. Working together with the same goal of improvement should be the aim
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  71. jimmy fallon So you are hogging all the gold are you?
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  72. Jamie Maclean What man said what?
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  73. Shohan Tutorial Perhaps you only recognised two!? This is part of the problem in itself
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  74. Exuberant Auditor There are words... but right now, i have to recover from some of the remarks that you made, (and in such a casual manner)!! I hope to return here eventually
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  75. I thought what was wanted was for ALL people to be responsible for themselves, and to behave decently to one another?
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  76. Blue Fox I don't understand what you mean?
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  77. Mark Hassenger Where are from? (serious question)
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  78. Satan Which extremists?
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  79. I wish they could all put their hate to the back for a while, and look at WHY they hate each other. Talk about it properly. Find the solution, and implement it
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  80. Hate is a horrible feeling. It achieves nothing, just perpetuates itself
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  81. jenifer jeni It's irrelevant to the subject
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  82. Emma Frost Utopia it would not be!
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  83. Callum Gallacher Which message?
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  84.  @joonvert899  Either it's a word, or it isn't?
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  85. Mr. EPICNESS Simply contradicting someone, is not an opinion
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  86. It’s Ourtube now Try giving birth
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  87. This whole thread is very saddening
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  88. But.. just look at the picture you chose to represent you!?
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  89. fjf djd I keep seeing things about 'fortnite', but i have no idea what it is!? Re: the pic - i just thought (personal taste, yes, but nevertheless), that it looked rather aggressive.. and therefore ugly!
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  90. If you watch the whole vid (at least until interview of the older women) This is not a 'matriarchy'
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  91. Kaepora Gaebora Your whole premise is factually wrong. The physical strength of males (of the human or any other animal) does not exist for any altruistic purpose. This is a myth that people have created in order to harness it in a way that is more socially viable and civilising
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  92. Emma Frost Why did you say that?
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  93. Satan I would say, very angry
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  94. N¡ghtshade * Which joke was that?
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  95. People confuse equality with sameness
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  96. Rixxu Riuzaki Of course you can blame them! That kind of thinking would mean that nothing, and nobody ever improved, or moved on from anything that was bad. How much sense/thought/care do you think it needs for a person to know when another is being harmed? Ridiculous, weak, and absolutely no kind of excuse!
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  97. Emma Frost Or live with the women, and holiday with men! I could handle that better
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  98. Emma Frost I didn't mean THESE women in particular, i just meant women as a group. Generally, i don't look at who the comment comes from, but respond to the comment itself, if i agree with it, i agree, if not, then i don't. And i would hope, as is usually the case, that there would be some things that each two people can agree on, as we are each a unique bundle of thoughts/beliefs
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  99. Jasmine Simmons Irrelevant
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  100. Mr. EPICNESS Try to look at, and learn from the good parts of the internet. Don't pick up how to be more rude to other people :)
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  101. Emma Frost That was kind of my point, yes
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  102. I’m the Android sent by Cyberlife If you're pansexual, then probably, yes! That's just plain greedy
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  103. I’m the Android sent by Cyberlife It was a jest, i thought you would see that.. relax!
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  104. I’m the Android sent by Cyberlife And i am vastly different from the other poster - hence my mistaken desire to lighten things up a little
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  105. For some people, hatred is an addiction, a destructive driving force. I wish i could help
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  106. I’m the Android sent by Cyberlife That's okay :) It's not surprising really, given the atmosphere created
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  107. Jerry Seinfeld This is what matters to you?
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  108. Emma Frost I talk about votes, and you give me 'bitches and penis'!? I make a point, and you give me venom! Hardly a useful argument
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  109. Emma Frost I think you responded here, but it vanished before i was able to read it? Please repost if so
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  110. Fiddle YourTiddle Idiot
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