Comments by "" (@sirtra) on "So About The Idubbbz Apology Video..." video.

@Motus_Noctis regret and remorse are 2 entirely different things. A self serving "apology" in order to "move on" is neither a sign of remorse or empathy, but merely regret. If he truly had remorse he would have reached out directly to those he hurt and asked what he could do to make amends - a sincere apology involves more than just saying sorry. But by all means, please lecture the rest of us on what a caring, kind and considerate person you are, dude.
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@Motus_Noctis oh i watched Ian's entire video btw, on the day he released it roughly a week ago... heard a whole lot of self loathing, scolding and regret with absolutely zero restitution. Don't get me wrong, he does seem to have genuine regret and a desire for change so it wasn't all bad. I did find the shameless boxing plug in the middle a bit weird though, but maybe it's just me, what would i know.. perhaps a proper apology involves self-promotion? 🤷
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@Motus_Noctis i'm using the logic that is so common in knowledge there are literally thousands of psychology references and memes about it... A proper apology contains 3 simple parts. Most people forget the last one. Want to have a guess what part 3 is or did you want to just skip ahead and look it up?
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@b_delta9725 presumably, you're adorable!! 🌸😹💜
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@MTH3h3l0l i take it you didn't look it up before replying too? Just put "3 parts of an apology" into your fav search engine, image results for the memes and web results for the psychology. .......... You're welcome..............
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