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@Evealaquisina Okay, I think I have clarified this in my own mind:
First of all, one doesn't experience panic "of" something. You can be panicked "by" something or something can cause panic in an individual. You are using the word "panic" incorrectly. I know this not because I have "explored my mind," but because I have studied the English language and grammar.
What I think you mean is that some people find fetishes disturbing and have a visceral reaction and you take exception to that.
Since I am one who feels disturbed by fetishes, and I have explored my mind about my reaction, I think I feel disturbed because it is not what our bodies are intended to do. I say "intended" because I am a Christian and I believe that God made us with intention and I have no reason to believe He intended us to have some of this fetishes. I believe they are disorders
I agree that these fetishes are likely the result of "cross-wiring" caused by sexual trauma in early life. I don't know this for sure, but since I have now explored my mind, it makes sense to me. I could be wrong about this.
Here is my question: Does indulging a disorder help anything? In my opinion, it could not help reduce the disorder. I suspect it would only make it worse and it would take more and more pain/shoes/whatever to satisfy the disordered craving or fetish.
However, I don't know that psychology has a remedy for these disorders. If there is no known way that these people can be made normal and healthy, then perhaps indulging their disorders in a safe way, is perhaps a relatively helpful thing that is protecting innocent children and other people who might be victims of their fetishes. I don't know.
I also question the motivation of a fetish worker. I don't believe the main goal is to help people. I think the main goal is survival and making a living. I suspect that if these workers had another viable and more socially acceptable way to earn a living, they would do so.
I also suspect that a fetish worker is likely also the victim of childhood sexual trauma. Therefore I can't say that, if these disorders are incurable, then who is to say that a sexually disordered person indulging another sexually disordered person for money is really a terrible thing? It might not be ideal and healthy but perhaps it is a lesser or least of evils.
If anyone has actually read this entire thing I would be shocked.
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LOL Yes Kevin, I have. I would get on a plane, take off the abaya (that black dress we had to wear in Saudi) and when the plane landed in the US, I would be SO grateful.
I like the way you said it, "a sense of belonging." I felt grateful that I belonged here. I know we have problems, but at least I am not covered in black. I can show my face, vote, drive, and work.
And as for our police--again, not perfect--but anyone who puts their life on the line and stands between me and total anarchy, is a friend of mine for sure. I always say hello to them, wave, give them donations, whatever.
Try getting pulled over in Mexico---what a mess!
These snowflakes here have no idea how good they have it.
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