Comments by "John Barlow" (@johnbarlow4572) on "Danielle Kirsty" channel.

  1. I would have been in tears as well. It would have been from the ass kicking i got from my father for being stupid enough to get involved in this crap.
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  2.  @raregrimebeats1352  My parents were not the " my little darling can do no wrong kind" you get today and expected me to take responsibility for my actions. My father would have been pissed that i was stupid enough to get involved in something that was going to get someone into trouble in more ways than one
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  3.  @mskyn150  Covering his own ass. No problem when its all going on but crumble when the going gets tough . Happens all the time in these cases
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  4. I was thinking the same about Americans and the number of 13 year olds involved in this sort of thing ..Zamora , Vera , Bodine ,Krause. Shires etc
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  5.  @Delbel_Giggles91 Parents knew i had a brain and knew how to use it . They knew i was capable of making the decision to say " No miss not interested " . The ass kicking would not only be for getting involved but being a dumbass for believing her i can't get pregnant crap and landing them with a child to take care of . Highly unlikely this would have happened because i was well aware of the fact protection is for other things as well as preventing pregnancy , Dure to my fear of needles i had no desire to be visiting a doctor to be treated for some STD or other. Youth of today are just to dumb to get involved in these shenanigans
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  6. Judges in the UK i think have guidelines on sentences but in the U.S it appears at the whim of the judge . Three U.S cases involving teachers and 13 year olds . Brittany Zamora - 20 years no parole / Alexandra Vera - 10 years with parole / Marca Bodine - 60 DAYS and 10 years probation . Doubt there would be such a vast difference in sentences in the UK . Florida teacher Jennifer Fichter got 22 years for relationships with three 17 year old students but female who KILLED three teens in dui only got 15 years . Consensual sex a bigger crime than killing people . American justice is a strange thing indeed .
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  7. All of them except the poor child having them for parents
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  8. Did they know about her mental problems and looking to take advantage ??
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  9. They probably knew the situation she was in and took advantage of it.
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  10. Jails are full we are told . Would have given it as house arrest so she could get a job working from home and take care of the child . They all knew what they were doing and no sympathy for any of them apart from the child . Should have had the sense to use condoms
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  11. Just teach him the word NO and to use it when a teacher starts making advances on him . Most seem unable or unwilling to do so these day's .
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  12. If parents were teaching there little darlings to say NO to a teacher or any other older person who were making advances to them you would not have to dress like a granny . Have to be honest and say i sure as hell was not saying it to the older lady i had my first experience with at 15 . Not a teacher thing as it was a few months after i left. Not much chance of me getting with a teacher as i hated every one of the b------s in secondary school
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  13. If i remember it rightly the student was the same as in this case . Knew exactly what he was doing from the beginning
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  14. And they possibly knew that and took advantage of it
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  15.  @mizzbee7406 At 15/16 i was no child that's for sure . These two knew what they were up to
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  16.  @yolandaogim  Could be . Just saw those experiences in my teens as a bit of good fortune that came my way .We did go looking for it as we used to try and blag our way into student union discos to try and get laid as Americans put it by a student in there 20s and a club that older females frequented and that was referred to as a " grab a granny " night and got lucky a couple of times . Did date a 25 year old at 18 but i was young man by then
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  17.  @yolandaogim  Could be that is what she was doing . I think these guys may have known of her mental state and took advantage of it . Would like to think i would not have done that but at 16 the willpower may have been lacking . Its more likely the arse kicking my father would have given me for getting involved in something that was going to get someone in trouble with the law that would have put me off
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  18.  @yolandaogim  Both parents were not the "my little darling can do no wrong" kind so many have today
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  19. They all seemed to know what they were doing . Only one i feel sorry for is the child .
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  20. Could have gone in for the prosecution side of things ?
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  21. This one took that a bit to seriously
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  22. Would agree regarding the one who acted as lookout . Think he was not wanting to be involved maybe bullied into it , The guy himself appears to have known exactly what he was doing . No idea what she thought she was doing or what made her think they would not get caught
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  23. Was i a little boy at 15/16? . Absolutely not . Would i have turned down her advances at that age ? Not a chance .
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  24. Sad for the child and that's about as far as my sympathy goes
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  25.  @ZeeKansiime  Go through what . I left school at 15 because it was the earliest i could due to the fact i hated the place and every b-----d teacher in it . I was delighted to get out in the world and get a job ( left Friday started work Monday) and my freedom to make my own decisions . Look back on the time mostly with fond memories .
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  26. Illegal no matter age of student in both countries .
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  27.  @tritchie6272  I f the student is over the age of consent and they keep everything outside the school i don't really see the problem. If anything goes on inside the school then punishment is warranted
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  28. Sentenced in 2018 to 20 years in jail with no parole . Have seen a story the guy involved is now married and they have a child.
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  29. Adoption best for the child and well away from all involved
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  30. Killing someone in America does seem a lesser crime than than one that involves sex . A teacher in Florida had affairs with three 17 year old students that lasted a period of time and sex on a number of occasions so assume they were happy with the situation and she got 22 years . A female who KILLED three teenagers in dui only got 15 years. Seems odd to me
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  31. I have seen comments that he is now married . Big pay outs from lawsuits will help all get over things
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  32. At 15/16 i was expected to take responsibility for my actions and my father would probably have kicked my arse for getting involved in something i knew was going to get someone in trouble with the law and could have serious consequences for me by getting her pregnant . Would have been unlikely as i was not dumb enough to believe a female if she told me she could not get pregnant . Protection every time .
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  33. Reckon they knew she was having problems and took advantage of it
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  34. In my case i was 15 and she was late 20s i think , not polite to ask a lady her age back in the day, and i never thought for one second i was being molested . She was definitely not married as even in my teens i had the sense not to mess with married women as i knew irate husbands area dangerous breed and a military man even more so .
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  35.  @GeekishLexi He knew more to be made from lawsuits after she was convicted . Wonder how much they got?
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  36.  @travisdourn  She divorced him after she was jailed . Believe it was something to do with him being sued
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  37. Jails are full they tell us . If she is going to be responsible for the child they should have made it house arrest and she could get a job working from home and take care of it
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  38. First time was at 15 with an older lady . Not sure about her age as it was not polite to ask a lady that in my day but late 20s . Far from creeped me out
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  39. Jails are full . House arrest would have done
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  40. Must have been love after all
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  41.  @Ceen511  Lost virginity at 15 to a lady in late 20s and had one of dalliances with another couple in my teens but doubt i would dated one , Did at 18 with a 25 year old . Fond memories of the experiences but when i came to marriage it was to a young thing of 2o when i was 22
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  42. Would only really defend the one victim in all this I.E the child . Imagine growing up having this pair for parents .
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  43. Threaten individual with a sentence like 28 years to make them plead guilty . Think that's the idea of the plea deal system .
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  44. Who the hell came up with a consent age of 18 . Are the young people of Florida very slow at maturing ??
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  45. Don't think it would apply in her case as a paedophile is someone who desires to have sex with a child . Would not say a 15 year old is one or at least i sure wasn't
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  46.  @TristanMaiolo  Who should decide when you stop being a child . At 15 i was expected to take responsibility for my actions and if i had done something like this my father would have kicked my arse for getting involved and being stupid enough to believe her can't get pregnant story.
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  47. What was the guy's response to your actions. I would have told you to mind your own business and keep out of mine . It my teens i had a brain and knew how to use it and did not need anyone telling me what i should be doing.
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  48.  @2admirable  Sorry but never liked people who stuck there noses in other peoples business and especially mine .
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  49. Only victim in all this
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  50.  @ipissinlitterboxes  They knew exactly what they were doing and happy to be involved so what are they victims of exactly . No problem when its all going on but suddenly do when what exposed for some reason . Personally would i have got involved with her had i been in there situation . If i knew of her mental problems i would like to think not but the willpower may not have been there for me to do that otherwise i doubt i would be turning down her advances . Would she have got pregnant . Highly unlikely as i would not be dumbass enough to not use condoms. Not much chance of me having been in this situation as i left school at 15 and hated every b-----d teacher i had the whole time i was there . I did lose my virginity to an older female a few months after i left and had one of dalliances with a couple of others in my teens and dated a25 year old at 18 . Did any of these experiences do me any harm . None what so ever . Just grew out my fascination with the older ladies and married a young think of 20 at 22. Females these days just as likely to get involved in this crap but you do not see so many case's of it happening . Either are better at keeping it quiet or not getting involved in the first place . They also do not have the thing that rules a males thinking process in such matters I.E a dick
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  51. The guy himself i think knew exactly what he was doing but the other one sounds more like he didn't want to be involved and maybe bullied into it .
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  52. Parents seem supportive so hopefully keep her on the right path when released .Have some sympathy for her as these guys knew exactly what they were doing
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  53. Have to look at it from the prospective of what i would have done as a 15/16 old . Not likely to have turned down her advances. Would i have if i knew her mental problems? . Would like to think so but willpower may have been lacking . Would she have got pregnant ?. Not likely as i was not dumb enough not to use protection no matter what she was telling me . Other reasons to use them than preventing pregnancy . Thing that may have stopped me was the ass kicking i would have got from my father if he found out for getting involved in something i knew was going to get others into trouble .
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  54.  @liky._  Depends on the individual and the circumstances involved . Had dalliances with three older ladies in my teens including my first time and dated a 25 year old at 18.Never had any problems then or since . Possible its because i never had any "experts" around telling me i was victim of some kind . Suppose i had a thing for them after the first but a all that happened was i grew out of my fascination for them and married a young thing of 20 at 22
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  55. Jails are full in the UK and are now releasing people early that have done worse than her . She could have been given house arrest and tagged etc . Her parents seem to support her so would have made sure she stuck to the rules
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  56. As long as the student is over the age of consent and everything kept outside the school what's the problem. Its when there is anything inside like preferential treatment is when punishment should come in.
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  57. I managed to go through secondary school without sleeping with any of my teachers . The simple reason for that is i hated every one of the b------s and made sure they knew it.
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  58. Play stupid games win stupid prizes .
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  59. Not much chance of him waiting 20 years for her . I believe he is now married with a family
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  60. Play stupid games win stupid prizes .
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  61. My father would have been shocked i was capable of getting up to the stuff this guy was. Sneaking looks at my older brothers Playboys was about my limit at 13
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  62. What male in his right mind is going to believe a female telling them she can't get pregnant. Protection is for more than preventing pregnancies and surly even dumb teens of today know that
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  63. Definitely .
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  64. Sentence seems to be at the whim of the judge what you get from what i' have seen
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  65. He's no child . Knew exactly what he was doing . Is a bit of dumbass believing her i can't get pregnant thing and paying the price of that . Only one i feel sorry for is the child having these two for parents .
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  66. Did everyone think that ? Did these two take advantage of that fact ?
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  67.  @hannahtaylor6746  Think they knew what they were doing and maybe knew about her mental state and took advantage of the situation . Certainly not the brightest as who believes a female telling them they can't get pregnant because of some condition you never heard off. All she would have got from me was yeh right you think i was born yesterday .
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  68. At 15/16 i was certainly no longer a child . Had a brain and knew how to use it ' Would i have got involved with this lady ? . If i knew of her mental state i would like to think not but willpower might have been lacking . Would i have stood by her if we were caught ? . As i was brought up to take responsibility for my actions my parents would have insisted upon it as they were not the " my little darling can do no wrong " type you get today . Would there have been a child involved ? Highly unlikely as i had the sense to use condoms .
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  69.  @raregrimebeats1352  Certainly but the consequences are to great as this guy found out
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  70. Guy seemed to know exactly what he was doing and the other one like he did not want to be involved .
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  71. If they are going to get involve students make sure they are not wimps that are going to crumble when the going gets tough . Make sure they will man up and take some responsibility for there actions. Make sure they will not need to be bribed with fancy gifts . Easier to find back in the day as we stood by our friends but not easy now
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  72. Rape means you are forced into having sex . Not the case here so how is it a rapist's baby
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  73. Looks they caught her on the rebound .
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  74. He did seem to know what he was doing but i doubt i would have got up to the stuff he was at 13 . Sneaking looks at my older brothers Playboy/ Penthouse mags was about my limit
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  75. Does not look like abuse in this case . Knew what they were doing from the start
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  76. Doubt them getting back together like Letourneau and the guy she was involved with once her sentence has been served as he did not exactly stand by her .
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  77. Seen comments saying he recently got married and child on way
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  78. These guys knew what they were dong and appear to be happy to help her do that . No criticism of them for that but at 15/16 i was not dumb enough to believe the i cant get pregnant crap and not use protection . No bribes required either to keep me interested
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  79. As at 15/16 i was capable of making decisions for myself and take responsibility for my actions and my father would have taken the attitude i knew what i was doing and kicked my arse for getting involved in something i knew would get others into trouble in more ways than one. I would not be in the situation of a child being involved because there is no way i would have believed the i can't get pregnant crap like this idiot.
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  80. When i first saw a video about this case i thought they had got the guys age wrong as i was certainly not capable of the stuff he was getting up to at 13
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  81. Doing what she is getting paid for. Do the best for the client
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  82. No way would i be taking a females word for it . Using protection is for other things than preventing pregnancy .
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  83. Would help if parents were telling students to say no to a teachers advances . Most seem unable or unwilling to to do so . Back in the day i would be scared to make any comments to a teacher as if my father found out i would get a severe ass kicking for doing so . If i was to get involved with a teacher and was caught i would get the same think for getting involved in something i knew was going to get other people into trouble .
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  84. As long as the student is over the age of consent and they keep everything outside the school leave them to it . If anything going on inside then you punish them
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  85. Not sure about the grooming thing as i think they knew what they were doing . Probably knew her mental state and took advantage of it . Not the brightest as who believes a female who tells them she can't get pregnant
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  86. Not a chance of that happening back i the day but not surprised it would happen with the youth of today .
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  87. They knew exactly what they were doing .Feel sorry for the child having these two for parents and would hope its put up for adoption and well away from all involved
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  88. Randy students a worldwide problem by the looks of it
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  89. She got 20 years with no chance of parole which is a lot higher than usual in these cases so maybe that was taken into account
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  90. Who came up with that bullshit .
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  91. Should be up for adoption and well away from all this
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  92. Probably an appeal coming and she has to do her best for her client . That's what they get paid for .
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  93.  @deannak5948  Would not take much time to talk to them about getting involved in this sort of thing or check there phones etc
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  94. If its abuse most certainly harsh punishment required but is it abuse in a lot of cases . These two knew what they were doing but one was dumb enough to believe the i cant get pregnant crap she came out with .
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  95. With so many cases making the headlines i would think parents would be telling there kids entering high school about saying no to a teachers advances .
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  96.  @katierandall6470  I doubt i would have been up to this sort of thing on entering secondary school (UK) at 13 but at 15 /16 i might have succumbed to her advances . It would have be unlikely to happen as i hated every one of the b------s the whole time i was there and left as soon as could which was at 15.
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  97. Not many cases of the student reporting what they have been up to. Its usually parents finding something on social media or someone else grassing on them .
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  98. No idea what she would have got in the U.S .Sentences there seem at the whim of the judge ' Three cases involving teachers and 13 year old students . Brittany Zamora -20 years no parole / Alexandra Vera - 10 years with parole / Marca Bodine - 60 DAYS and 10 years probation . Of the three Bodine's is probably the worst as it started when the guy was 13 and went on for three years and no idea how she only got 60 DAYS in jail and the probation
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  99. Very rarely see students exposing the affairs and that's probably because they are happy to be involved .Normally its parents finding out through thinks like mobiles etc or someone grassing on them . Parents more likely now to come forward when they find out as there is money to be made from inevitable lawsuits than will follow a guilty verdict , Mine would have been more likely to have kicked my arse for getting involved in something that i knew was going to get someone else into trouble when there were no consequences for me
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  100. in her case the guy married her after she served her 7year sentence and they had another kid . Divorced a year before she died. Don't see this happening with her as he basically threw her under the bus
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  101. Stopped being a child the day i left school at 15 and stared making my way in the world . Fortunately had parents who stopped treating me like one from then on ..
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  102. One of dalliances with three older females in my teens including my first at 15 and dated a 25 year old at 18 . Never had any problem with the experiences .As the first was the only one that was illegal i just thought of it as being no big deal and had no reason to tell anyone about it. Just a case of we are all different and don't all handle things in the same way i suppose .
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  103. Female in my daughters class was rumoured to be in a relationship with a young teacher and they did get married a couple of years after she left and still happily so as far as she knows
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  104. And what was the students side of the story. Did he claim something happened or did he back up her story ?
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  105. Consents 16 in UK and after that its up to you regards your sex life . Do have same teacher/ student law as U'S Statutory rape i think just means you were happy ,wanting, willing ,capable of doing what you were doing but the law say's your not . So would say that's about right in this case .
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  106. Stay quiet . Impossible these days even if you have a good thing going .
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  107. I sure as hell not a MINOR at 15/16 . Would not have been dumb enough to believe a female telling me she could not get pregnant . Would have the sense to use protection as i knew it was to prevent things other than pregnancy . Would not have needed bribes like expensive gifts to engage with her as the sex would have been enough to keep me involved. Was brought up to take responsibility for my actions so would not be claiming abuse to cover my own ass if caught .
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  108. I don't really see any abuse involved in this case .
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  109. Think judges in the UK have guidelines on sentences but in the U.S it seems to be at the whim of the judge . Three cases of females involved with 13 year olds .Brittany Zamora - 20 years no parole / Alexandra Vera - 10 years with parole / Marca Bodine - 60 DAYS and 10 years probation . Doubt there would be such a big difference in sentences in the UK
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  110. No social media in my day so easier to keep it under cover if you were involved with an older female teacher or otherwise
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  111.  @KaiLucasZachary  UK government trying to bring in law banning under 16s owning smartphones
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  112. None of them will want to see each other again i would think . Best for the child would be adoption and well away from it all
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  113. WHY??
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  114. Not exactly a dating thing but i had dalliances with older females in my teens and never thought of doing that in later life . Simply grew out of my fascination with them and married a young thing of 20 at 22
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  115. Parents don't expect kids to take responsibility for there actions these days . At 15/16 i was expected to do that . If i had got involved in something like this my father would have kicked my arse for being such a dumbass . Especially not using condoms
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  116. If they keep it outside the school fine . Going to the prom is a bit weird
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  117.  @jdbfortney  Where the parents aware of the relationships . if they went to the prom together they were not exactly hiding it so assume others at the school knew
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  118. Has to do the best for her client .Appeal probably in the pipeline so not going to say good things about the guy. Would be interesting to know what she thought about her once the case was finished.
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  119. This child needs to be put up for adoption and kept well away from both of them
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  120. Still not turning her down back in the day
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  121. The problem could be that these "children" do not see themselves as such and will respond to any female giving them the come on . That 's what i was like anyway . I did leave school the Easter after i turned 15 and stared working for a living and that point ceased to be a child and thankfully my parents stopped treating me like one . Doubt i would have got involved with a teacher even if had stayed in school as i hated every one of the b------s the whole time i was there .
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  122. Like myself they re probably looking at it from a personal point of view. What would i have done. Would i have done that. Personally would i have turned down her advances .Probably not . If i knew she was having mental problems would i have got involved . Like to think i would not but willpower may have been lacking . Would i have believed her about not being able to get pregnant . Not a chance plus protection is not only for preventing pregnancy . One thing that might have stopped me getting involved was the ass kicking i knew i would get from my father for getting involved in something i knew was going to get others into trouble . He was not the " my little darling can do no wrong " kind of parent you get these days .
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  123. No doubt abuse does happen but it does not appear to be the case here .
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  124. They will be the usual. "my little darling can do no wrong" type you get all the time now . If i had been up to this crap my father would have kicked my arse for getting involved .
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  125. How do you only get two years for that ?
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  126. Problem i think is we are not all the same . At 15 /16 i was capable of making decisions for myself and had i still been in school ( left at 15) i would most certainly have responded to a good looking teachers advances These guys knew what they were doing but not intelligent enough to do so .Who believes a female telling them they cannot get pregnant . Not a chance of me falling for that one .
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  127.  @vickster5815 According to the law i was a month away from being able to consent (16 in UK) but i didn't really care and sure as hell did when the chance of sex came my way
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  128. She's getting paid to defend her client . Probably appeal in the pipeline so not exactly going to be complementary about the guy. All part of the job
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  129. Would i have believed a female telling me she could not get pregnant . Not a chance and there are other reasons for using protection than preventing pregnancy.
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  130. I think they would in the UK
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  131. Have to agree .
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  132. He didn't stand by her when the trial came so doubt it will paly out the same as Letourneau's case
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  133. I did at that age and was expected to take responsibility for my actions . Was i believing the can't get pregnant stuff. Not a chance.
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  134.  @haileydahlberg4972  Like us all i did but still look back with fond memories on my dalliances with the older ladies . No teachers though as i hated every one of the b------s i had .
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  135.  @haileydahlberg4972  If you are old enough to know what you are doing and not willing to face the consequences of your actions don't get involved. As the saying goes " if you can't stand the heat stay out of the kitchen as they say .
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  136.  @haileydahlberg4972  He's a victim all right . Off being an idiot for believing the can't get pregnant crap from some condition he's never heard of bothered to check if that was the case . Not using protection as any sane person knows that's for preventing against other things apart from pregnancy . Probably knew her mental state and took advantage of it which not a very gentlemanly thing to do . Would say he is paying the price for his stupidity with the child being a result of it but hopefully it will be put up foe adoption and well away from all involved
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  137.  @WorldOfBooks-yc9km  Just see this as a coming together (no pun intended) of a couple of dumbass's and the only one i fell sorry for is the child that was result of it. Would hope it's put up for adoption and well way from them. Personally i was not a child at 15 as i left school a couple of months after reaching that age and started working for a living. Had a brain and knew how to use it . Would i have succumbed to her advances . More than likely yes . Would i have believed her cannot get pregnant from some condition i had never heard off. Not a chance. New protection was for thigs other than preventing pregnancy.
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  138. Bit on the dumb side believing the i can't get pregnant crap . His parents are paying the price as i believe they are taking care of the child
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  139.  @CarlaaBL-z1n  Maybe not all . Would give Brittany Zamora parole as the guy who was supposedly ruined for life is now married with a child and Jennifer Fichter who got 22 years because of the religious bias of the judge
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  140. There are other reasons for using protection than preventing pregnancy and the idiot should have known that . Just because she said she could not get pregnant he had to believe . Not that dumb in my teens
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  141.  @ZeeKansiime  The baby yes but these guys knew exactly what they were doing and stupid enough not to use protection hence no sympathy from me .
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  142.  @ZeeKansiime  Should should have known better that's true but at 15/16 i sure as heck was no child
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  143.  @ZeeKansiime  Depends on the individual . Left school Easter after i turned 15 and by the end of the year was working for a living , smoking, drinking in pubs, in bookie shops gambling on the horses, no longer a virgin thanks to an encounter with an older lady . 100% no longer a child and thankfully had parents who could see that.
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  144. Zamora's 5'4 and 132lbs . Average for a 13 y.o male 5'1 and 102 lbs . May not have been much physical difference between them . Not really an excuse for her actions though
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  145. Tell him all about the word no and how to use it if a teacher starts making advances to him and you will be able to avoid that.
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  146. Would have given her house arrest and she could get a job working from home and take care of the child . Save the tax payer some money and they are going to let people out of jail early that have done worse things than her because jails are full
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  147. Probably an appeal in the works so not going to make the student good
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  148. Adoption best thing for this unfortunate child
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  149. They seem ok
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  150. Knew exactly what they were doing but as is normally the case with the youth of today all fine when things are going well but crumble when the going gets tough .
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  151. In America it seems at the whim of the judge what you get going by the difference in sentences . This one got 4 years but thought she would have got more for the gun thing . Three others involved with 13 year olds. Brittany Zamora 20 years no parole . Alexandra Vera 10 with parole , Marca Bodine 60 DAYS and 10 years probation
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  152. 15/16 year old old kid/ child? Does not equate for me .Left school Easter after i turned 15 and by 16 i was working, smoking, drinking in pubs , gambling on the horses , no longer a virgin. Changed days it seems . Would i have got involved with a teacher had i still been in school ? No ta chance as i hated every one of the b------s
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  153. Sentences seem at the whim of the judge and there do not seem to any guidelines like they have in the UK .
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  154. Lost it at 15 and she was about 30 and still see it as just a bit of good fortune that came my way .
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  155. Not what his other was saying
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  156. Never thought i was a victim when i had dalliances with a couple of older ladies including my first time at 15 . Just looked on it as a bit of good fortune that came my way
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  157. School full of randy students it seems and not many going to turn down the likes of this lady .
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  158. Teach him how to say NO THANKS MISS NOT INTERESTED if his teacher starts making advances to him . Students seem unaware or unwilling to do that nowadays
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  159. I was no child at 15 /16
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  160. Advise him about keeping it in his pants as that seems to be something beyond a lot of teens capabilities these days
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  161. Sure i saw something about her parents looking after it . Best option would be adoption
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  162. If they are molesting children yes but most of these teacher cases involve students old enough to know what they were doing . Usually its over a period of time and sex on a number of occasions so not exactly unhappy with there situation. Never see a student exposing the affair and normally its the parents or someone grass's . If the likes of Hanson stuck his nose in my business as a teenager he would get a sore face for his trouble
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  163.  @tohitAC0  Just look at these things from a personal point of view . Lost my virginity to an older lady at 15 . Not teacher thing as i left School the Easter after turning 15 and it was after a office Christmas party were i was working . Had dalliances with another couple on my teens . Look back on the experiences with fond memories and just looked on it as a bit of good fortune that came my way . As far as teachers were concerned there was little chance of me being involved with one as i hated every one of the b------s i had in school.
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  164. Never had that dream about any teacher when i was in school . Hated every one of the b------s
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  165. First time was with an older lady at 15 . 100% consented no matter what some dumbass experts or the law says
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  166. They will be the usual " my little darling can do no wrong" kind so don't think he would be up to no good .
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  167. These guys knew what they were doing but she is still guilty of being a dumbass for getting involved with them . Would have given her sentence as house arrest so she could get a job working from home and take care of the child . Jails are full and they are going to let people out early that have probably done worse things than her , Save a jail space and the tax payer from child costs .
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  168. There to do the best for the client so she probably would say the same thing
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  169. He told her that there was no amount they could offer to settle it and not go to police because he knew there was a lot more to be made from lawsuits when she was found guilty They were seeking two and a half million in damages but not sure what they got.
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  170. Had encounters with older females in my teens and just saw them it as a bit of good fortune that came my way
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  171. He did seem to know what he was doing so would blame him for getting involved with married woman . Even in my teens i was not that dumb
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  172. OK if student is over the age of consent or at least old enough to know what they were doing but not in cases like this .
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  173. She would not be able to offer them anywhere near what the parents would get from suing various parties when she was found guilty so it was waste of time trying to pay them off
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  174. I was past being a child at 15/16 and neither were the two involved here as they clearly knew exactly what they wee doing . The same applies to her so no excuse for her actions. Only one child involved here and with a bit of luck will be put up for adoption and kept well away from its dumbass parents
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  175. My parents would have been the opposite . My father would have kicked my arse for getting involved in something i knew was going to get another person into trouble with the law . At 15/16 i was expected to take responsibility for my actions. I did not need them to tell me not to believe a female telling me she could not get pregnant . I did not need them to tell me to use protection as its not only pregnancy it prevents . If they thought i knew about her mental state and took advantage of that extra kicks would be added .
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  176. How many of your students would given the chance .
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  177. No mention of him saying anything about her one way or the other or why they broke up.
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  178. Only poor child here is the one born to this pair .
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  179. As would most students but parents and the law seem unaware of this .
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  180. Problem is students happy enough to get involved as no consequences for them . Maybe if they were warned they would face the same punishment as the teacher they may think twice about getting involved .
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  181.  @lydiamissy2811  I refer to most cases where the teacher bares the full consequences of the affair and the student taking responsibility for there part may help them avoid a harsher punishment . That is what i would have been expected to do as that is how i was brought up. In this case my father would have kicked my arse for being stupid enough to get involved in the first place and not using protection as there are other reasons for using it than preventing pregnancy . What idiot believes a female who tells him she can't get pregnant . Play stupid games and win stupid prizes as the saying goes and he has learnt that the hard way. Best thing for the only victim in all this is adoption as opposed to being left with these two for parents
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  182. Possible things have changed but no way was i a child at 15/16
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  183. No sympathy if student under age of consent but do for those involved with older students . Students should man up and take some responsibility . I was brought up to do that from an early age as my parents were not the "my little darling can do no wrong " type you get nowadays
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  184. Had one off dalliances with three older females in my teens and never saw it as anymore than a bit of good fortune that came came my way .
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  185. Not many young men complain . Usually its parents who find out or someone grasses on them .
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  186. All knew what they were doing from the beginning
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  187. Different times now from my teens and the "my little darling can do no wrong " prevails now . If had been involved in this my father would have kicked my arse for getting involved in something i knew was going to get someone into trouble in more ways than one . For being a dumbass and not using condoms . For embarrassing the family . Expect me to take responsibility for my actions
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  188. Assuming he was wearing it where did his parents thing he got it from . Certainly wasn't using it to keep his pants up
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  189. Adoption would be better and get it well way from both of them.
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  190. That's the usual story in most of these cases .
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  191. Teacher . Married the guy after serving her seven year sentence and they had another kid . Doubt this will happen here going by the fact his parents were cheering when she was sentenced . That could of course be that they were now able to go forward with the inevitable lawsuits they will be bringing .
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  192. If your a wimp and can't stand the heat that will come your way when exposed don't get involved .
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  193. She got seven years and they married after she was released . Don't see this guy's parents being to happy with that happening in this case
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  194. No desire to have anything to do with my teachers outside school as i hated every one of the b------s but i would certainly not be turning her down under any other circumstances. Left school at 15 and lost virginity to an older lady at a office Christmas party where i was working so did not consider myself a child at that point
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  195. Think he knew exactly what he was doing
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  196. Funny none of my teachers saw me as a precious baby . They saw me more as a dumbass but that's because i hated every one of the b------s and they probably knew it
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  197. Discovered my older brother's Playboy mags and 13 and a certain activity that came in handy with but no way was i getting up to the stuff this guy was with her.
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  198. Age of consent is 16 in the UK so if she was not a teacher she would only be in trouble for her affair with the 15 year old
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  199. Sounds like he maybe got the wrong idea about all you were doing for his birthday and decided to "brass his case" as we used to say and give you the come on . Probably would have done it myself. After losing my virginity to an older lady at 15 i did have a fascination for them and had one off dalliances with another couple in my teens . Dated a 25 year old at 18 . Never had any problems with it and simply grew out of it and married a young thing of 20 at 22. I think this lady does have mental problems and they possibly knew that and took advantage of it and knew what they were doing . Bit on the dumb side though as who believes a female telling them she cannot get pregnant because of some condition you have never heard off. Not that stupid in my teens and knew protection was for other things than preventing pregnancy . Police usually look for other victims in these cases but have not seen anything to indicate there were any . Only victim i see in all this is the poor child and would hope it is put up for adoption and not left to those two to raise
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  200. Parents like this who do not have the "my little darling can do no wrong " attitude are pretty rare . My parents were like that as i was expected to take responsibility for my actions in my teens .
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  201.  @MB-gb2zp  Part of your comment was that the students parents accepted that the sex was consensual . Usually parents claim there kids are not to blame for anything that went on .
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  202.  @MB-gb2zp  Lost virginity to an older lady at 15 ( consent in UK is 16) and can guarantee 100% i consented as i had a brain and knew how to use it . Would point out i was no dumbass schoolboy at the time . Left Easter after turning 15 and it was after a office Christmas party where i was working . Hardly unlikely to be involved with a teacher as i hated every one of the bastards . If i had stayed in school and been involved with a teacher and my father found out he would have kicked my arse for getting involved in something i knew was going to get others into trouble . They expected me to take responsibility for my actions .
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  203.  @MB-gb2zp  Where do i start .When i had my experience with the older lady not only was I working at the time i was smoking, drinking in pubs , gambling on the horses . All 18 to be legal and i was never asked to prove my age doing any of these things as i did look older than i was . 16 is the age of consent in the UK and after that your sex life is your business . I was one month short of that when i consented to the ladies kind offer and don't see what would have happened to me to go from being incapable of consenting or raped as you would call it to being capable of consenting and all being fine in such a short time . Does brain development work that quick . Fine in the eyes of the law that is but there would be some who would find fault with it but did i care . No because i did not care about other peoples opinion when it came to my personal business unless i sked for it. Did not recall thinking about sex until i discovered my older brothers Playboy /Penthouse mags at 13 which did come in very handy , no pun intended, with a certain activity i discovered
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  204. Kid should be up for adoption and well away from all concerned . If the guy had not been a dumbass believing the can't get pregnant crap he would not be in this situation .
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  205. Will if you have a suspicious or dirty mind . To many of that type around these days
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  206.  @KaiLucasZachary  I said you will have SOME who will but i tend to keep my nose out of other peoples business .
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  207. I sure as hell did not look like a baby at 15/16 . I left school the Easter after i turned 15 and started working for a living . In the UK 18 is the age you can drink in pubs and be in bookie shops gambling on horse racing. I was doing that by the end of the year i left school and was never once asked to prove my age .
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  208. I only really thought of my self as a teenager until i was 15 , Left school Easter after turning that age and by the end of the year was working for a living, smoking, drinking in pubs, in bookie shops betting in the horses , no longer a virgin . Saw myself more as a young man then.
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  209. Part of the problem is that students might be thinking that way about you. Maybe some sort of consequences for ones that do make advances on a teacher which i am sure will be the case sometimes
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  210. Could turn into a Mary Kay Leterneau thing where she married the student when she was released after her seven year sentence .
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  211. Think it was a case of her asking him if he would accept money to keep quiet . He told her there was no amount of money she could offer to settle it as he knew he would get a lot more from the lawsuits he would bring when she was found guilty
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  212. Principle might believe they were making advances to you but doubt the parents would . Most have the "my little darling can do no wrong" attitude these days so would not believe they would do that
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  213. No social media back in my day so very little engagement with teachers outside school . Exactly how i liked it as i hated every one of the b------s in secondary school . Left as soon as i could at 15
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  214. When i was a 15/16 year old YOUNG MAN i would not have thought i was doing anything inappropriate .
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  215. Student happy with his lot until the going got tough so it is similar but the usual story in these cases
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  216. Believing the can't get pregnant thing is just dumb . No sympathy
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  217. Believe he is married now
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  218. Looks like it . Bit dumb believing the can't get pregnant thing and not using protection . Paying the price for that
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  219. Maybe she's a court appointed attorney and has to do her best for the client no matter her own thoughts are . Probably appeal in the works so not exactly going to nice things about the guy.
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  220. Bit harsh a 14 year old paying child support . In this case the guy knew what he was doing and should of had the sentence to use condoms so no sympathy for him. Best option would have been to give her house arrest so she could get a job working from home and take care of the child
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  221. Assume this is the U.S . What you get there depends on the judge going by the vast difference in sentences you see for the same crime
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  222. Think that is something the police would look for and the media always ask that question. Money to be made from lawsuits so if there is any they will undoubtably come forward now she has been found guilty
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  223. I stopped being one at 15 when i left school and started working for a living .
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  224. If she has any sense she will not go down the same road as Mary K
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  225.  @travisdourn  Saw the dollar signs right away
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