Comments by "Eli Nope" (@elinope4745) on "TED" channel.

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  7. ***** you are correct, western nations are not egalitarian nations. they have legal policies that are primarily sexist in men, and here in the united states there are many many subcultures that treat girls and boys differently.  gender equality cannot be reached. it is comparing apples to oranges, in the end both women and men are a bunch of individuals with individual goals that are based both on genetic factors and environmental factors. they will only be truly equal if they neither have genetic differences or environmental differences. if this were to be the case, then one of the genders needs to be eradicated (which would be horrible for everyone).  the women in third world nations have much fewer opportunities than women in first world nations. furthermore the abuses against them are much more dire.  in the united states the typical rape is a guy who got too drunk and made a poor decision in a party after school with a girl who gave him social indications of consent, and later revoked them without him noticing or sometimes without him caring.  the typical rape in a muslim third world country is a brutal affair where a man holds down a woman, often kicking and screaming and forces himself upon her under the threat of imminent death if she resists too much.  these are wildly different crimes. third world countries have much more violent actions against women.  more importantly the western nations are at a point where they can consider the rights of other marginalized groups that are suffering because we aim too much money at women in general instead of specific groups that bear the brunt of abuse, and oppressive actions, for instance, young black women in the united states are at much higher risk of being raped than white upper class women going to college. and yet it is the college girls that we are trying to protect while still allowing the young black girls to get victimized.  so yes the western nations still have problems. but when they are confused with being in the same state as non western nations (especially nations ruled by sharia law) it creates larger divisions between the people and increases crime rates, thus harming more women and girls.  so we have to focus our efforts and put money into systems that help people based upon stopping the most harm and protecting the most vulnerable before moving on to less dire considerations. 
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  12. does anyone honestly believe that we can stop the climate from changing? does anyone believe that there was a time in earth's history where the climate was not changing? let me tell you about a neat little cycle of climate change that the earth has had ever since the moon formed. its called "seasons", maybe you have heard of them. historically we have divided the constant climate change into 4 different "seasons" we call them "winter", "spring", "summer" and "autumn" (or "fall"). this continual cycle of climate change is caused by the wobble of earth on its axis, and the cycle repeats every year. there is long term climate change as well, which is constant and has never been halted in earth's history. we do not have the same climate that there was during the age of the dinosaurs (way more oxygen back then in the atmosphere, way less CO2 and no ice age because of it). i believe in climate change. i just don't believe it can be stopped. i don't believe that climate change is unnatural (although i do believe that humans have a non-negligible impact on it). what i don't believe is that it can be halted or stopped. even if we had thousands of years to design something to stop it, it would take more resources than are available on earth. perhaps one day in the future we will have giant mirrors in space that shine sunlight on the earth in patterns controlled by an immense AI that keeps the climate stable and unchanging. but we are a long way away from that, centuries, perhaps millennia. i also believe in greedy bankers who like to manipulate currency. we have a long history of that as well. it might be easier to stop climate change than it is to stop greedy bankers from finding new ways to fleece you out of your wealth.
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Xanxei i guess we are just split on what is and is not harassment. i don't have a problem with women admiring sexy men whether they are celebrities or not. i go to the gym 5-6 days a week. i have a friend who has been doing this much longer than me and he goes to the gym with me. he is an attractive guy. he carries himself well, he drives a nice car, he is taller than average and has a muscular build. women are constantly eyeballing him. they don't cat call him, but they do check him out, some more bluntly than others. every once and a while he will get a minor cat call. we just laugh it up. and he takes it as a compliment, and says it is good reason to go to the gym. taylor swift can't go anywhere without body guards. it is the price she pays for being famous. when you are in the public eye that much you have to worry about the one out of a million people that nobody likes and what they might do to you. its unrealistic to think that nobody would hurt her even though we all agree that nobody should hurt her. what taylor swift has to do is sad. she has to protect herself from motivated psychopaths. she has no intention of motivating those psychopaths, but there she is in the spot light. some people (this isn't limited to men) make terrible decisions and do terrible things. pretty women have to worry too. they don't have to worry as much as taylor swift, but the more people they are exposed too the more danger they are in. at the same time, the more people they are around, the safer they are at the moment. prettier women catch more attention. they have to worry about what that stranger guy might do if he is turned down. in that sense when she is alone, and a guy cat calls her she may have to consider her safety. this is a reasonable fear. i don't go cat calling women that i don't know when they are alone. that could scare them, i understand. i have some friends i made while going to college, some of them are pretty women. many of them are in long term relationships and have been with the same guy for years. one of them is very pretty and is like a little sister to me. she had gained some weight over winter, and recently worked hard to get that weight off. she looks much better, but i don't see her boyfriend who lives with her saying much about it, i think they have been together too long for her to appreciate how pretty she is anymore. i whistled at her during a party where she was around a lot of her family members, and her boyfriend. she smiled at me and gave me a hug and asked how i was doing. cat calls can be good or bad. if you are suggesting i don't cat call strangers, than you don't have to worry. i don't. but i should have the right to do so, because i am smart enough to identify times when it would be appropriate and when it would not. these are times when it is appropriate to cat call a woman. 1) she is around many friends so that she feels safe and secure, 2) she appears to be in a good mood and is not busy or focused on something at the moment, 3) she is dressed up or at least not dressed down (not in the gym, not in pajamas, not in something that she would feel is not attractive on her). 4) it is a social situation where other people are openly talking about how other people look. 5) you have met her before and she already knows your first name. if those 5 things are true, than it is a great time to cat call a woman. or alternatively 1) she is eyeing you up and down. if that is true than it is appropriate to respond with a cat call if you find her attractive as well. you are returning a non-verbal communication that she started. i might do the original cat call whistle (call me old fashioned, but this is the only form of cat all i ever use) maybe one to three times a year. it never fails to elicit a smile and a positive response. but i know who to do it too, and more importantly when. if your stance is that many men are socially inept and stupid than sure i agree with that. many women are as well. unfortunately in our society the onus is on men to start conversations to meet women when starting a romantic relationship. if you want to change society and the cat calling thing, changing that standard would go a long way. it might extinguish the problem all together. but for the moment cat calling occurs to attractive women because men want to meet them and want to attract their attention. the men send a message of "i find you attractive". this is a compliment. it might get annoying, but it is one of the ways that men get the attention of women. there may be better ways to get her attention. but until we change the social norms we cannot possibly blame men for following the social norm of starting the communication to begin a potential romantic relationship while at the same time expecting them to be the pursuers and the women the pursued. and the only way to change that is to have women pursue men. in that manner, the problem isn't that men cat call women, the problem is that women don't cat call men. in japan it is women who are expected to initiate romantic relationships. the women are much more forward than in western cultures. it is the men who must worry about feeling harassed by women using various methods to get their attention. its not so bad over there though because their culture also is very concerned with causing someone else to become embarrassed. many western people go over there to teach english. women don't stay though, the guys don't try to date them. its not their job, in japan it is the woman's job to get the attention of the guy. western women don't seem to be comfortable in that situation, they get turned down too often for their comfort. they usually leave within the first year. meanwhile western guys love it there. you would never have to worry about guys cat calling you in japan. but they might grope you on the subway or take a picture of you just to be nice and let you know that they won't reject you. they aren't trying to embarrass you or make you uncomfortable, they fear doing something that would do that.
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