Comments by "Eli Nope" (@elinope4745) on "How to build your confidence -- and spark it in others | Brittany Packnett Cunningham | TED" video.

Hmm, my confidence comes from defiance of permission and with independence from community. I however was born with a great deal of curiosity. I only learned to trust in myself when I placed myself in care of myself, and without aid of others. Only in fighting against the grain for quite a long time, did I realize that I am simply stronger than most. Learn to be comfortable in isolation if you are a man or a boy. The community is not your friend, they want to use you as a workhorse to provide for others. They don't want you to make your own decisions, they want to rule you.
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