Comments by "Zen\x27s All-in-1 Life Sharings 🧡 ( not a pro )" (@zensvlognotapro) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. We want a person who is excited to us, who support us in what we want to become. Only few wants an open- relationship. Most of us wants an exciting, happy, adventurous, committed, progressive relationship . However sometimes out of desperation people tend to enter into a not so good relationship just to have a partner that's an ugly sad truth. To some there is a saying : It's better to be single than in a bad relationship that's make sense too.
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  2. There's an authenticity on your contents as you grow Dr. O , keep sharing , keep educating boys . I'm not surprised anyway that you're growing the moment that I saw your channel I told this will grow and he'll touch ppl's lives and can open ppl's eyes and minds. Though sometimes I hardly understand because terminologies are too deep 😃for me but it's fine🤚. Love, Peace , Joy, Wisdom and Abundance to All 🙏
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  3. God gave you strength ( men )and intelligence to rule on Earth and a woman as partner, helper not just domestically but in all man 's wants to do . God never hate no one in fact He loves us can we see beautiful nature trees, plants, flowers , oceans, farms, fruits , animals, the sky/ clouds and everything that all of us is enjoying . You are given a special task but humans are insisting to change it .
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  4. Forgiveness or having a forgiving heart is hard to do by majority of people. If only people will know that forgiveness is our gift to our ourselves . If we will not forgive we poison ourselves little by little . Forgiveness is good for our health and well-being. When I learn about forgiving I become a person who easily let go and forgive easily . Life is good when we forgive 🤗👍🏻🤚 In the Bible it says we forgive not 7 times but 77 times meaning we need to forgive many times.
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  5. What we resist persist 👍🏻🤚. Total surrendering helps me a lot to suffer less or not to worry 👍🏻
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  6. Life is about giving and receiving and vice versa. Giving gift is one of the languages of love. For me if you want to b likeable you must give also but not give too much. However it makes sense also. Good morning Dr. O ☀️☕🌿
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  7. That's why I recognise MySelf 🤗🖐️.
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  8. My mother once told me your pureness ( virginity) is one of the best gift you can give to your chosen man. The more body count or sex experiences of a woman with men the less she become valuable to him my thoughts.
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  9. Hi! Everyone on here 😊🌄. Dr. O it depends on both men and women how they define or their perception on what is rich and what is attractive . On loyalty: people become loyal to whom they want to be loyal and there's still loyal men and women. Loyalists still exist 😊.
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  10. Yeah you're right 👍 . However pain is part of life 🙂. In order for us to make a better person we undergone a lot of pains.
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  11. I never did that on my 20's busy improving life and that's okay. I only attended parties when I'm working but no alcoholic drinks just foods and beverages. We are considered poor we never had that kind of experiences. I only knew those( parties) in the movies 😀😀😀.Do you think my life is boring?😊 However now I'm enjoying life with family 😊. And I'm enjoying life when FB, YT came I can do what I want in FB and YT by expressing mySelf🤗 Good Morning Dr. O ☕🌿🌞 Great advise for young generation. I'm concerned with youth too 🧡
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  12. BTW HaPpY birthday to Dr. O🎉🎂.Wishing you All the best 🙏
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  13. There is a shortage of chivalrous men nowadays because there's plenty of women who are strong, self- sufficient. For me still chivalrous men are sexy and there are still alive I'm lucky I met some 😊🧡 . Chivalry has a different meaning for me. Chivalry is gentleness and respect .
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  14. This is one post I laugh with : No two clever people will fall in love . True love needs one idiot 😆 . It's okay to be an idiot in a relationship as long as the one you're fighting for is worth fighting for 😊. Even I want to be spoiled by man , there's a danger there because when a man is gone she'll get lost herself . I have a story one woman I know, his hubby spoiled her , this man don't want her to work, give what she wants then a man cheat. The woman almost get depressed and she feels very devastated. I told to myself ohh thanks I never been spoiled😁 I don't understand what she's talking about because I'm the one who get what I want by myself.
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  15. For me my past is part who I Am today , I Am what I Am now because of my past no regrets just grateful 👍🤗
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  16. When I was on my middle 20' my mother died at the age of 53 . I feel so bad up to the extent I question God why so early that my mother died. She's my inspiration she's the reason why I dream big. When she died I lost myself, I suddenly stop my dreams. But later on when I got my own family another darkness of the soul happened when my children were still young.When I got operated my ectopic pregnancy during my early 30's . I experienced a near death experience however that's the reason I Iove life. I become enthusiastic, Inspired because I told to myself I hav only one life I make sure I wanna spend it joyfully. I decided to think that life has a purpose and we need to use it to inspire people . I use social media esp FB to post something that people can smile, can think and learn . Some ppl don't understand my energy . One person I need to take medicine she feels I'm insane. They never knew or they have no idea how to be me my pains, my frustrations or disappointments in life, my mistakes and failures my insecurities. But that's long time ago I'm ok now we're good life is good now . God gave what I need and what I want that's bonus 🙂.
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  17. On my observation there are young generations that they're scared to have children sometimes because of traumatic experiences on their own family like poverty, dysfunctional relationship of their parents , and overall what's happening on earth. During pandemic I'm so scared about the safety of my children. When I'm alone and I think if nowadays I am on a stage of having family I chose not to have children because of the anxiety and traumatic experiences during pandemic. Now I'm not sure if some women are scared to have no children also with some men. My sharing thoughts but again it's up to the person's preferences on what they want in their life. Most people nowadays think more of themselves and I can't say it's good or bad.
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  18. Yaay i composed my first 1st comment but don't show it. Anyway tip to women let's not expect men to do what we want. If we can let's do it for ourselves. If we want flowers there are 2 things we can do: 1. Buy yourself flowers 2. Let's plant rose 🌹. A man who loves his woman will initiate. He will give what she wants and what makes her happy even she's not asking. If you find that man never let him go. A successful man doesn't have much time to relationship because he's busy on becoming rich and successful. The reason why some women gets bored and find another man who has time for them. Its hard to compete to mission vision of man, you are not his priority. If a woman is not open-minded and supportive of his mission vision their relationship will fail . Yes that's inconsiderate if a man making efforts and woman is demanding of flowers 😅 that's insane 😅 Another tip ladies if a man is making effort let's give them flowers for a change. Is that cool 😎?
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  19. Our mind can be a master and can be a servant. It's all in the mind . Our perperstive is very important. Our perspective and preference we become. Good morning Dr. O ☀️☕ from Philippines 🖐️🖖🤗 I don't compete I cooperate and I keep on making life better even it causes me suffer. On the other side there are some people who wants their own boss or their own master. However even a boss is a slave in some aspect 🙂
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  20. What I learn from life find any positive or pleasant in any negative or unpleasantness. Rejection to some is negative but to optimistic person theres always lessons, learnings in every sides . I cannot express well what I want to tell. Love and Peace to All 🧡✌️
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  21. When a man is good the woman is bad , when a woman is good a man is bad , there's also a good to good bad to bad person that's life some ppl don't find their match. Also pains , hurts make a good person still good or they become bad . There's a person that can influence us to be better , to be a good person however nobody can change a person except himself , herself. There's a woman also who hurts so much but she never become a man hater she can reciprocate or equate what a good man does . The sin or fault of one is not fault or sin of all. Some ppl find responsible person because they're responsible also some are not. Some ppl cheat because they find and get their needs and wants to that person however I don't recommend cheating we never win on that no matter how good the person we have a relationship with because in the end you'll just hurting each other because it's NOT accepted by society.
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  22. To women never go to a man's place too soon 😅. Never gave them what they need too soon 😊. Challenge them to become a better person, teach them how to be responsible and disciplined men.
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  23. nice polo shirt 🤗👍🏻 Love is everywhere. Movies are boring if there is no little romance involved 🤗
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  24. That's my problem before I had a hard time saying " No " because of being nice, compassionate, kind and for the sake of peace and harmony . However some people don't know their limits sometimes including MySelf. Now as I aged I learn to say NO even if some people like friends, family, neighbors get dissatisfied or disappointed . Same as well if I cross on other people's boundary then it's okay to say/ tell me NO. I'm a believer of There's time for Everything. Time to respond, time to pause, time to relax, time to think, work , time to sleep and eat etc. etc. time to closeness and separation. I totally agree on this 👍.
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  25. When I talk to mySelf in front of a mirror , you are cute then I feel cute😁😁😁 Kidding aside I always talk to myself I Am well, I Am healthy, I Am generous. I usually talk to mySelf to be " Maayos na tao " in Tagalog.
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  26. Total surrendering helps me a lot not to worry and change my life for the better.
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  27. ​ @olga.aleksandra777 Hahaha it's a tie 😂.
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  28. Yes it happened to me. I quit to meet new opportunities. I always want something better . I can't say it's bad or good however my, our life change when I almost gave up. Thanks all my efforts and mistakes I'm here we're here good and I can say life is magical because of the breakthrough that happened on our life. God saw my efforts our family's efforts 💪 Be Well Every1 🧡🖐️✌️
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  29. Give him/ her what he/she wants so he/she can't get that elsewhere or to anyone 😊. Fulfill their desires, needs and wants in all aspect . Is it hard ? Yes of course it takes effort to do that . This is for both man and woman in a relationship.
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  30. Some ppl want to have what they don't have, they want what is lacking in their life and not what they already have. 🤗
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  31. In addition to love ourselves also is not allowing hate, unforgiveness, and other negative feelings to dwell inside of us because it will cause sufferings.
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  32.  @maxjohnson1758  a woman when bearing children our life is in danger but some women never say God hates us.
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  33. I read something : our gift to humanity is our success . I agree because I, we experienced because I'm/we're blessed and abundant I , we helped more ,we give more literally . During pandemics we experienced abundance we gave basic goods to our family and others . I remember one boy told me he said to me in Tagalog " di ba binigyan mo kami dati ng milo " 😊 he remembered when we gave them milo and other basic needs because we have lots during that time.
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  34. Women are yes with moods, we have different seasons 4 seasons 😀. Usually some women must be happy and rested in order for her to give her all in bed. However If a right man understand and love her woman he will understand that and if a woman understand his man she will give what her man needs . However women must know to provide her partner, her hubby because it is a need not only wants by a man . In fact one of the reasons why some men cheat because they deprive from that one thing. We don't want to generalized because not all ppl is similar. In a committed relationship the women must provide his man on that area, same with men he needs to provide his woman in the area which she needs the most. There are failed relationships because needs and wants never met .
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  35. A child who was taken away her pureness at the age of six I think was not her choice. Your story is an exception.
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  36.  @psychacks  truth, and because I believe in you mission Orion a beautiful name 🤗 I share some of your videos on my FB page I think some of my friends will appreciate your teachings. 🤚 You know Orion is constellation you r a star in the darkness of other people 😁🤗👍🏻🤚. One of my trait is I Am generous in complementing people, its in my veins😁
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  37. have you find your ugly duckling🙂? Hahahaha!!😁 me I'm a late bloomer 😁. Since when I was young my mind is about how to break the chain of poverty from my family . I'm not interested to have a relationship while studying. My focus was to have a medal for my mother and father when graduated in college and gotcha!! I had it👏 My mind , my brain that time was written $ or Phil Peso 😁 meaning I want to earn for my family. I'm not the eldest Im 5th of 7 siblings but I feel Im matured to see why life is so hard during that time then I started dreaming a better life from the time I'm aware of situation. Now I can say if i will write my biography I can say We did it 💪🤚✨. But still I keep on dreaming about how to have the best so we can help more.🧡
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  38. If a man is a wallpaper what is a woman?😊 Just like men women must stand out too😊 . However it's not always about standing up it's about compatibility, our equal, our match , attraction, chemistry and all. Congratulations Dr. O you are growing now 👍👏🏆 Be Inspired and be an inspiration to others 🤚
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  39. Well said. I wanna share my story. I experienced very low point in my life that I almost dont want morning. I want always to sleep during the night bec during this time I am peaceful. But when I ask myself is it depression? Ohh! it shouldn't be I have kids, i have who needs me. I told life has purpose, I Am purposeful , God has plan to my life not just an ordinary life but He wants ppl his creations to thrive. From then on I become the joyful, enthusiastic, inspired version of myself. God provides everything for us meaning He wants Us to experience those beautiful things here on earth. I talk to myself you have purpose to your self, to your family and to other ppl. I like your teachings keep it Up 🤚👍🏻🤗
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  40. Yes love is an action , we will do something to make love works 🤗. It is not just a feeling.
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  41. 👍🏻 Forgiveness is for our OWN well being, we r d one who will benefit from forgiving ppl and esp when we forgive ourselves bec sometimes we are angry or we hate ourselves too there are times. In the Bible ppl teach to forgive not only once, or twice but MANY times.
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  42. Meaning that we can have everything success without time for something that can make us happy or we have time but not too successful. Successful men hard to be in relationship because they're too busy being rich and successful. They are successful but don't have a quality time for relationship. On about flowers , when my man can't give me flowers or anything I bought flowers or the plants itself that produce flowers. Life is simple if you have money then buy what you want if none be content of what we have . Never force anyone to do what they don't want to do that simple. To women appreciate what a man do to us and vice versa. Goodnight..I'm still awake because it's my birthday 🎂🎊. Happy birthday to all October born🎂
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  43. Yes flexibility is very important Dr. O 😊if not the tendency is always we break ourselves but in moderation.
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  44. I'm the most cold person if I never talk. I need to communicate in order to have a good relationship however I believe in good communication or what need to be discussed. Talking is my gift😁My kind of person is about communications , ideas , abundance or variety, caring , advise. If I'm not talkers I'm not into YT 😁🤚
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  45. I'm thankful when someone compliment me and I return it with a compliment too . I believe in reciprocity 🤗 Peace and love to All 👍🧡
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  46. A man who is responsible, disciplined and mature has self- control.
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  47. Good mornining ☕🍵☀️ greetings from Philippines 🤗 That's true people need love, respect , they want to feel there are people who are concern to them. Here in the Phils. I'm a little sad about what's happening . I think there is no confidential anymore because of social medias about whats the issue in a particular country. However there is no problem or issues that cannot be handled. Stay inspired everyOne, stay inspired Doc Orion I like your name and shirt is okay too 🤗
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  48. I remember what the Japanese says about the 3 faces. Sometimes you can really know the true character and attitude of a person until you meet them in real physically especially under one roof. Sometimes our outside is opposite what's on the inside just like what we are publicly is not who we are privately. Yes it's also make sense. There are transparent and open and there are mysterious people on earth.
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  49. Good morning 🌞 This resonates with me someone told me my business will bankrupt because I give it away my goods or merchandise and yes sadly it's true . Also on my experience my store has no cigarettes and liquor I limit myself because I am traumatized with alcoholics and I'm concern with people. I feel other people's sufferings . Most virtuous people have no material gratifications however they can easily accept everything that comes on their way. They're flexible in good and bad times and riches and poorness. If they loss something their quote is The YODA quote 😊.
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  50. Commitment for me is a combinations of benefits and responsibilities.Commitment is willing to be in a relationship with valleys and peaks in life. Commitment is sharing or giving and taking in everything . Commitment is surrendering to one another. Good morning Dr. O have a great life 🖖
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