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Comments by "Wellness Path For Me" (@wellnesspathforme6236) on "The Better-Sex Doctor: The Link Between Masturbating u0026 Prostate Cancer! Dr Rena Malik" video.
The Big Elephant in the middle of the room is that sex often becomes a mode of control over someone one is supposed to love and care about. It becomes the thing that proves one person doesn't really care about the other person unless they naturally understand (men and women tend be different, and individuals tend to be different). This is not new. A couple thousand years ago...
"Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment. For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that."
~1 Corinthians 7
However much sexual intimacy a married couple have should be by MUTUAL consent, each rendering concern and compassion for the other.
As it turns out, many 'spouses' believe their way is the right way and the other partner can fork off in every way but the one they want!
Narcissism is out of control... but too few people discuss it.
Paul called acting in that manner a fraud (against the one you are supposed to love -- how evil!) and turns one into an agent of Satan. They don't care... they want want they want and Paul can fork off.
This applies to sex, but also to intimacy and togetherness. It is not all women, and men who view their wives as sex-on-demand are equal pigs.
THIS is the elephant in the middle of the room that everyone is blind to, but most are getting torched by behind closed doors.
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