Comments by "Wellness Path For Me" (@wellnesspathforme6236) on "PsycHacks" channel.

Be very glad if they reveal this in dating. Some are sophisticated enough to keep this secret until after they have their state issued business contract euphemistically called ‘marriage.’
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It is NOT a relationship from a narcissist’s perspective (women and men). It is a CONFORManceship to ‘how they feel’ ‘right now.’
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@pwilliams4073 Defined as 'I want my way or I will make a problem.' The elephant in the middle of the room of the difference in sex drives between men and women and the outright hostility, even if passive aggressive, that women have towards the male sex drive. Women should be happily compromising here, the way the man is supposed to happily compromise over providing his wife's desires. I know of one case where the woman asked 50x of the man than the man asked of the woman, and what little the man asked was treated with derision. THAT crap, coupled with the acting ability of women and the male lack of ability to discern the acting, is why many men will NEVER get married. The reasonable men and women will suffer in this toxic environment.
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He just told the narcissistic women how to more effectively manipulate a man into signing over his life... so she can then flip the script once she gets the her business deal inked.
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Stop engaging with her. Narcissists are gone gone.
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By the sound of it, she’s 100% manipulating you. Her goal is to do as absolutely little as possible for her to feel comfortable she can control you. You actually have little to do with it. She decides and expects you to conform. It almost always gets worse in marriage. Almost all women are like this.
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@antonyjh1234 Pathologically narcissistic women (and men) are next level. Assume they are excluded from any reasonable discussion.
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My experience is that nothing causes a more delusional disconnect with reality than incontrovertible facts that contradicted her feelings. Nothing. Narcissism is the abomination of desolation.
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>>Those who fail to develop this skill will learn to regret it.<< Where were you 30 years ago?
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@MarinaM-o6p Are you dating men at your level, or waaay higher? IOW, if you are 70 percentile woman, are you dating 70 percentile guys? If you are only interested in Top 3% guys then they don’t take you seriously because every woman above you is interested in them, too.
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@manifest2203 Some, but most of the top 3% of men that women think would make accessory/ATM. Not all. Most, though. And just because others can be demonic… doesn’t reduce one’s own demonism.
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Let’s get real here — how many guys want to be with a woman if you have to manipulate her to want to be intimate with you? This is why so many guys are out of the market. The acid is not worth the squeeze.
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@1246-g2v >>but have you ever seen a real life example of a woman doing those things<< A narcissist love bombing an A+ celebrity type guy is when it goes down, but that's just the bait to reel in the sucker.
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That's not true. They do want peace, but the non-narcissistic versions also want a partner who values who they are, and this includes their sexual wiring. The latter is usually a big problem. Women want to be dictatorial when it comes to marital intimacy and get angry and toxic when they are confronted with their selfishness. It is just as wrong for a woman to be sexually dictatorial as for a man to be sexually dictatorial. It is all about finding a HAPPY balance. Narcissists of all sexes want conformance to their agenda and see their spouse's contrary agenda as something TO WAGE WAR AGAINST. That's just EVIL.
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@hiannahgus574 >> If a man is a good lover, treats her well, and still dates her (and she him), she’ll want sex with him.<< Do you really think that ALL women think in accord with your desires? That is delusional. You are simply wrong... sort of. Many may want to have sex with their spouse but only on her terms and demand. What does the man want? She doesn't figure that in because she's obviously right and he's wrong. Not all, but very, very many.
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She’s mentally ill, but still pathologically toxic. Have empathy for her, but still avoid her if she’s so toxic it brings you down.
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@airthrowDBT These are typical symptoms associated with a pathological narcissist, rage version. There is a good chance he was really nice to surface-level acquaintances. I believe this personality trait is being promoted via the non-food rusty iron filings and toxic seed oils in the food system. Reactive cell membranes toxified with metallic iron filings trigger the NLRP3 Fe-ar sensor inside the cell. Now, imagine a person composed of cells set to Fe-ar mode. The base psychology would be negative and demanding things they perceive as assuaging this Fe-ar. The sympathetic nervous system would be in hair-trigger mode, which means the blood flowing through the pre-frontal cortex by, perhaps, 60%. This turns humans into uncomfortable amygdala-based people… or a beast-human. They operate at a very low level of consciousness and awareness. It outs the analogy of end-time empire as a ‘beast’ in proper context. I’d venture most people in cities are operating under some form of metabolic condition. Morley Robbins, Dr. Chris Knobbe and Mary Ruddick are good sources of free information.
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The modern urban woman, most of them by far, work hard to maximize resources extracted while minimizing intimacy and sexuality. Ironically, most of the guys these women are attracted to (too 3% or so) minimize their effort while maximizing the sex they can extract from women. What a dilemma, eh? Good luck figuring that out on your own as more of the 97% of men learn to tune you out. To the many sane and good women out there, sorry, but the narcissistic women can fake being decent so well for so long, that it is often not possible to differentiate prior to marriage, and losing a good woman is the cost of protecting oneself against being used by a bad one. Or ten. The same principle holds true for many women with regard to men as well. Whoever you are, if you are with a good person, lighten up, be more flexible and less narcissistic, and don’t screw up everyone’s lives over small stuff (like I have to be right all the time or he’s a jerk for suggesting my way isn’t always the best way). Relating is give and take, not just taking.
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“…not in the most intelligence manner.’” lol If you are sexy to your man ONLY to get your business (corporate marriage) contract with him, then you are committing fraud. You are a moral criminal, even if the corporate state likes you out there wrecking families.
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@mortalkomment8028 >>BUT: you can become more attractive.<< To please a pathological narcissist? lol ROTFLMAO! PS -- 70% of guys can never become close to the 3% of men that women are actually attracted to. Ever. And if it is all about money, you don't have a wife, you have Ho Ho, who may or may not be loyal to your cash flow.
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@veritasliberabitvos454 >> No - aroused not attracted. arousal always wins over attraction. << Arousal to what? I'm convinced most women seek envy from other women in their man -- THAT'S what really turns them on! Perceived envy from other women.
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@monikaogorzalek7 >>Only Atraction won't guarantee you happy relationship/mariage.<< Hence so many women don't have a reliable partner and are miserable. The 3% of men you are attracted to can pretty much have 30% of women on a whim, and they can work most of the other ones due to their attraction -- and they do. The women exclude at least 75% of guys, and 76%-90% are treated like lucky dogs by their women because they are bitter they failed the 3% game. It is what it is. Enjoy! PS -- many men are toxic, especially in the 3%. Many in the 97% are toxic, too. Narcissism is on the rise all around us, exactly as prophesied.
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@stevestruthers6180 >>The juice ain't worth the squeeze, is it?<< That isn't juice. It is acid. Nope, not even a close call to avoid like the plague it is. Having said that, I do feel bad for all people with integrity -- both men and women. They are out there, and they are the biggest losers of all. It is what it is, though.
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@yoooyoyooo >>The lie is the problem not the fact that animals are looking for best possible genes.<< You think these women are worried about genes? lol They are worried about hiding from insecurities and envy-seeking. Not all, but a lot! Their fast food and toxic restaurant food epigenetics is killing off their offspring regardless of the quality of their genes. Did you ever notice how ugly the people that run the world are -- the Allodial Royals and Bankers? Genes aren't about how much envy a man generate from women.
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@popejaimie >>attraction isn't just about looks tho. It's ineffable<< The rule is that it is about envy generation capabilities. The exceptions prove the rule. Women are divorcing the most attractive men on the planet in a split-second... they can't actually stand the man once they've achieved the perceive envy status...
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@veritasliberabitvos454 I think you are right and that envy is an important and very often relevant subset of power, but not the totality of it. I think your view is at least one level deeper. Thanks for sharing.
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@kleindavis550 The answer is whimsical. Good luck!
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@kleinvisuals9905 There is no perfect mate — that’s the point. Each person ought to care about the other person equal to themselves, and does well to relate to natural differences. The rubber hits the road when caring and relating to things you don’t find perfect. That’s love. Expecting perfection in another is akin to wanting a slave. That’s what narcissists want. You may have meant what I’m explaining, but you didn’t make that meaning clear.
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@andrei1637 The only way out is to eat real food — no iron filing fortified foods and no seed oils. Organ meats will build up copper status. Search Morley Robbins, Dr. Chris Knobbe and Mary Ruddick. If she will not eat nature’s diet… she’s gone past the point of no return barring a miracle.
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@matthewhunter6421 There are lottery winners out there -- do you play the lottery because they exist? I suspect your wife wasn't raised in a big city, and perhaps you were not, either. Or it could be you are the raging pathological narcissist who is getting away with abusing their spouse and thinking it is a 'great gift to do so.' Or maybe both of you won the lottery. There are very many variables in play.
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How to manipulate men to get married so you can freeze him out after marriage. lol
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@kmg-369 And yet… after 11 years, you don’t sign that business contract euphemistically called a ‘marriage.’ Powder it up any way you want, but you still don’t trust her. The odds are for a very good reason.
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@tonsssedell4318 I didn't see your comment in the thread -- only my notifications. Anyway, my point is that you can't expect to make consistent with these pathological people. They simply are so self-absorbed that they can't value you. Some, not at all, some a percent at a time. Key -- if you are both doing what you like they are not happy because of you, they are happy because they are getting what they want. The important aspect to consider is how they react when there is a difference in opinion. There should be a balance there. Many will find that their narcissistic / borderline conformanceship simply demands 100% conformance on their part whenever there is disparity in perspectives.
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@tonsssedell4318 BTW, I don't consider people with narcissistic personalities to be rare. It is the norm in the big cities. The clinical diagnosis is rigged to way under report the phenomenon. The #1 complaint of men and women is that the other sex is too selfish, demanding and doesn't value their input... the definition of narcissistic behavior.
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@grundegrimstad4703 She cares, but about what? Losing her the slave she’s entitled to? Not all, but an awful lot! Some men, too. A narcissistic whiny dude (little boy) is even uglier than a narcissistic whiny woman (little girl).
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@markomeker7789 The amount of iron filings ingested over time as well. They damage the nervous system and the upregulated fight/flight sympathetic nervous system then drains blood from the prefrontal cortex. Effectively, everything becomes fight/flight, competition, win or lose, and defend against anything no selfish. The Money Power Families added the rusty iron to the food supply based on Daniel 2:43. Read 2:44 for the timing of doing so.
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Not always successful. The tradition of monetary illiteracy is humanity’s death knell.
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@rayrwyr Men, too., especially the Chads of the world. You know, the 3% of guys 80% of women want… Narcissism is an engineered plague, all by design.
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@lenkamaresova4116 And when society collapse, the effects of their narcissism will be revealed to them. Men, too, especially the 3% that 90% of women feel entitled to, but who they will end up divorcing anyway... Jordan, Brady, et al.
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@chercher304 Men are failing to teach their princes that marriage is not about being a princess. I would want my daughter to have a good sex life with her husband. If she didn’t then I’d be concerned. The average marriage has sex 3x a month and women are driving that. If my daughter wanted that and it was important, I’d tell her to make sure any potential husband knew that upfront. Pretending to be sexy-weazy and then flipping the script after the business deal is done with the state is fraud and immoral. I would want my daughter to have integrity — especially with someone she claims to love. Now, let’s say my daughter wasn’t physically comfortable with sex 2-3 times a week. OK. She should be comfortable. She has hands and a sweet voice… and a loving husband… I’m sure they could work out a HAPPY compromise for 20m plus/minus. I believe the main problem is most women hold male sexuality in complete and total contempt outside of the woman’s perspective of what they want it to be. Essentially, this means they hold men in contempt. If my daughter held men in contempt I would counsel her to avoid getting married, or even dating, unless she could reframe her perspective into something positive. ^^^ This is NOT rocket science, but it does take a women who actually cares about another person who has a very different biochemical makeup than she does. Not many women like that exist.
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@hiannahgus574 >>A woman needs to feel seen, heard, respected, and desired in order to want to have sex with her husband. If he doesn’t get into her head, and figure out how to make her feel appreciated, she’s not going to be letting him into her body, because she loses respect and desire for him. << While this sounds good, how do you know? Has any man ever done this for you? Did you marry him and are you both living happily ever after? I know this is false from personal experience. Some men/women just want everything their way and what is not their way is wrong. They are incapable of caring about the feelings of others -- it is called narcissism. To deny that this exists is delusional... and you protesting too much like your subconscious might feel guilty about something and be trying to hide in the masses 'women.'
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@tdaye6978 >>And the HIGHEST level of woman I can get that "burning desire" from<< And it all goes downhill once she gets the business contract. Don't believe me? Married guys, how many of you had the intimacy increase after marriage? How many had it drop off significantly? How many out had no idea queens were a dime-a-dozen... ice queens! But keep paying those bills, you are under a business contract now!
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@encore_un_jour >> Never marry anyone. Period. << People are NOT marriage material anymore. They don't want to commune with another, they want to manipulate another person into satisfying their personal agenda. They don't want a relationship, they want a conformanceship. And narcissists don't like people who are different from themselves, and men and women tend to be sufficiently different that it causes problems. There are exceptions... appreciate them if you are fortunate enough to have them. Narcissism is an abomination that leads to desolation.
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@grantwithers >>Oh they want them alright, they just want them to be church chad and well off, high status and not have other women (but be loved by other women). << Most women want their own personal B*. Tell the truth... straight as can be. They want their narcissism fed all day long. The problem for them is that pretty much all the men they are physically attracted to are narcissists on testosterone! Two narcs sitting in a tree... does not end well.
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Dr. Jekyll and Mr./Mrs. Hyde syndrome is quite common. Usually, the destructive Hyde personality comes out in ‘cleave’ environments… they can’t do it, so they act out. They are fine doing surface-level amusements, but there is bo depth.
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