Wellness Path For Me
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Comments by "Wellness Path For Me" (@wellnesspathforme6236) on "Most people DON'T WANT RELATIONSHIPS: understanding the decline in romantic relationships" video.
The modern urban woman, most of them by far, work hard to maximize resources extracted while minimizing intimacy and sexuality. Ironically, most of the guys these women are attracted to (too 3% or so) minimize their effort while maximizing the sex they can extract from women.
What a dilemma, eh?
Good luck figuring that out on your own as more of the 97% of men learn to tune you out.
To the many sane and good women out there, sorry, but the narcissistic women can fake being decent so well for so long, that it is often not possible to differentiate prior to marriage, and losing a good woman is the cost of protecting oneself against being used by a bad one. Or ten.
The same principle holds true for many women with regard to men as well.
Whoever you are, if you are with a good person, lighten up, be more flexible and less narcissistic, and don’t screw up everyone’s lives over small stuff (like I have to be right all the time or he’s a jerk for suggesting my way isn’t always the best way).
Relating is give and take, not just taking.
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