Comments by "Wellness Path For Me" (@wellnesspathforme6236) on "Alexander Grace" channel.

  1. Is "opportunistic love" a contradictory state by definition?
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  2. They care, but only about themselves and their agenda within their emotional framework. Not all, but almost all. They immediately stress out when anyone else's paradigm conflicts with their own. This can be hidden for a long time, but not forever. The Little Shaman and Surviving Narcissism provide information that is necessary to know in this age.
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  3. As you get older, you will also value the lack-of-crazy-narcissism. A lot. Not all. A lot.
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  4. Everyone needs to become very well versed in narcissism. For men looking for women, this often expresses as covert narcissism, or covert wounded narcissism. Note that some so afflicted can present a "face" (or mask) in order to get what they want, but very few will maintain that "face" after they get what they want. If toxic narcissism personality traits aren't the norm in committed relationships ("face" is long gone), it has to be close. The odds are not good. Also, if it seems to good to be true, you are probably being played. And this may well apply more to more attractive women. Some excellent resources to learn more are: YT The Little Shaman and Surviving Narcissism. There other good ones, too, so feel free to check others out as well. The main point here is to get up to speed to minimize the risk and potential damage. A narcissist literally is NOT capable of caring about anything more than their emotional-driven feelings. If you cross those, they will make your life miserable. They can't help it. They will make their life miserable, too. They can't help it.
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  5. Correlation is not necessarily causation. The vast majority of men are interested in attractive women more than an age. A hot 30 year old will get more attention than an unattractive 21 year old in most cases. Most people are confused. Age is more correlation than causation, and attractiveness is more causation than correlation, across a pretty wide swath of ages.
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  6.  @dancinongravestones  >>upsetting << Nature's Law. Lots of people fight it, but not a single person has won, male or female. It is why there are so many people on the planet, if you think about it. Do you think men would put up with all the demands of a women without one helluvan incentive? The problem is that so many women (not all, but most!) have jumped the shark, so many men aren't even interested in women. Most guys turn to using women. Those guys with morals just step out of the arena, as it were. This really isn't a male or female issue, it is more of a narcissistic vs. empathic issue. But, hey, if we frame the argument, we might actually progress, and who wants that, right?
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  7.  @ryanhays429  >> Yeah, but lack of moral values makes a person ugly.<< The combination of feminine attraction, the ability to live a very effective lie for along periods of time, and a lack of moral values has almost all the men with moral values on the sidelines. Most of the guys left just want to use-em-and-lose-em. This is true for women as well... because the use-em-an-lose-em that actually get interaction are the attractive guys who only want to use women... And that is the experience for the vast majority of women.
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  8. Be careful what you wish for, you might just get it. This is a universal principle -- it applies to men and women, and anyone inbetween. Everyone would do well to become experts in narcissism, and then spread the wisdom. The Little Shaman and Surviving Narcissism are two good places to start, but there are other options, just not so much in the Establishment, Inc. system. They mostly ignore it. Just like they ignore the microscopic rusty iron filings they put in processed foods, and the skyrocketing sick management cost growth associated with their ingestion: https://qph.fs.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-d7898e134cfb164c9c8e8451df8396e6
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  9.  Trinder3467  Get up to speed on narcissism. YT The Little Shaman and Surviving Narcissism. The truth is, some problems are NOT solvable. There is often NO SECRET SAUCE. Decent people treat other people DECENTLY. The trick is finding decent people -- for both sexes. Playing the mind games on people who play mind games will wear the h*ll out of a person. Ask someone in their 50's how it has worked out -- if they are still alive!
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  10.  Trinder3467  What does a common toxic mental illness (in my observation) have to do with potential dating those so afflicted? Because the chaos, havoc, and misery they can create in your life can make you absolutely miserable, and they are often VERY DECEPTIVE up front. Read the comment sections of related topics to see how both men and women are affected by behaviors consistent with this personality disorder. Words to the wise...
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  11.  @OchiiDinUmbraa  That may well be true in some women, but the narcissitic version of women, and there numbers are legion (just as they are for men) has lost the ability to love consciously. So many are basically 100% opportunistic creatures. "The all seeing eye DOES relate to the subconscious. What most, if not all have missed is the astounding fact that the subconscious is actually ALIEN to the human host. I've given up on the Socratic method with the lump-heads on this forum, so presumably this is CLEAR and straight-forwarded enough for even the dimmest wit to understand. Humans everywhere are anxiously awaiting the so-called ALIENS...never once stopping to consider they arrived long ago and inhabit the original humans inhabiting this planet. This has NOTHING to do with everything I have explained previously of bloodlines et al...these are very separate and distinct fields of study. The subconscious controls the human, and the subconscious is an ALIEN presence in humans. Not hard to go back and estimate when all THIS took place! Laughing out Loud!! What humans "know" via the conscious brain is analogus to that of other dumb beasts...cow, oxen, horse...those are your intellectual equals! Laughing out Loud~" ~A Rothschild family member Search archive.org (not the wayback machine) for "RO**CHILD" after replacing the asterisks with "FS." Download the oldest of the files, navigate to the HTML file, right click it, and open it in your browser. Then read it... all of it. He says who he is in the first paragraph, and he says who he believes us to be as well. Then he uses the rest of the document to prove his claim as to who he is.
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