Comments by "Wellness Path For Me" (@wellnesspathforme6236) on "Stop Asking Women Out" video.

Everyone needs to become very well versed in narcissism. For men looking for women, this often expresses as covert narcissism, or covert wounded narcissism. Note that some so afflicted can present a "face" (or mask) in order to get what they want, but very few will maintain that "face" after they get what they want. If toxic narcissism personality traits aren't the norm in committed relationships ("face" is long gone), it has to be close. The odds are not good. Also, if it seems to good to be true, you are probably being played. And this may well apply more to more attractive women. Some excellent resources to learn more are: YT The Little Shaman and Surviving Narcissism. There other good ones, too, so feel free to check others out as well. The main point here is to get up to speed to minimize the risk and potential damage. A narcissist literally is NOT capable of caring about anything more than their emotional-driven feelings. If you cross those, they will make your life miserable. They can't help it. They will make their life miserable, too. They can't help it.
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Trinder3467 Get up to speed on narcissism. YT The Little Shaman and Surviving Narcissism. The truth is, some problems are NOT solvable. There is often NO SECRET SAUCE. Decent people treat other people DECENTLY. The trick is finding decent people -- for both sexes. Playing the mind games on people who play mind games will wear the h*ll out of a person. Ask someone in their 50's how it has worked out -- if they are still alive!
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Trinder3467 What does a common toxic mental illness (in my observation) have to do with potential dating those so afflicted? Because the chaos, havoc, and misery they can create in your life can make you absolutely miserable, and they are often VERY DECEPTIVE up front. Read the comment sections of related topics to see how both men and women are affected by behaviors consistent with this personality disorder. Words to the wise...
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