Comments by "" (@vvcc-kg9dp) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. I don’t want to attend matchmaking events. They make no sense. It feels like shopping for a product.
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  2. Why should men pay for entry when women get in free? It shows that men are still seen as "providers" and women as the "prize." Until that changes, I doubt the attendance will improve.
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  3. Marriage shouldn't be a transaction. If the bride's family values money more than the relationship, it's better for the guy to move on. Why should a man spend his life paying off a debt just to get married?
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  4. To be honest, age is a huge factor. No matter how capable you are, men are naturally attracted to youth.
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  5. It’s not that we don’t want to date beautiful women, but the maintenance costs are simply too high.
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  6. Why would I waste my time chasing women who only care about money and looks? Video games give me real satisfaction without the drama!
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  7. Why do Chinese men choose foreign women? Many people say it's an 'overseas study' fantasy, but that's not the case. What Chinese men value is not just foreign women's looks, but their sincere attitude toward family and marriage.
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  8. Over thirty and still demanding 'tall, rich, and handsome'—isn't that a bit unrealistic?
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  9. It’s a harsh reality—losing a job at forty makes it almost impossible to find employment again, especially in major cities. We worked tirelessly in our youth, only to find we lack competitiveness in middle age. This society truly feels heartless.
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  10. Why is it "reasonable" when women make high demands, but when men set conditions, they are accused of "dreaming big"? Isn't marriage supposed to be a two-way choice?
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  11. A 600,000 yuan dowry is an insult to men. Are we just marrying for money?
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  12. She divorced just because her bestie said so? Where’s her own judgment?"
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  13. A man asking for a premarital checkup isn't distrust, it's about protecting himself!
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  14. Honestly, the standards of older women in choosing partners are often disconnected from reality. They missed good opportunities and still expect everything to align with their ideals.
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  15. The reality is, when a man is poor, even having dreams is a mistake.
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  16. Why does marriage feel like a transaction now? The bride price makes me feel like I’m buying someone, not marrying a loved one.
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  17. These so-called "leftover women" have no one to blame but themselves for ending up in this situation. It was their own choice, and now they must taste the bitter fruit of it.
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  18. The husband's stance is understandable—divorce means moving on separately. Her demands seem a bit excessive.
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  19. We don't need to be married to be happy. Society's pressure to marry is outdated. I'm happier living alone.
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  20. Many women had unrealistically high standards when they were younger, thinking they could wait for something better. Now they regret it—who's to blame?
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  21. I’m tired of hearing how men are expected to carry all the burden. What about the women’s role?
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  22. This mother's behavior is so selfish. She abandoned her kids for 16 years and now wants them to take care of her. It's not that simple!
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  23. A woman over 40 still asking for a 390,000 yuan bride price? She must be dreaming. The reality is men don’t pay for 'expired goods'.
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  24. Matchmaking agencies are businesses, not miracle workers. If a woman at 40 is still dreaming of a prince, isn’t that her own issue?
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  25. Flight attendants are attractive, but is their lifestyle really compatible with marriage?
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  26. If a man brought 23 relatives to a blind date, would the woman be willing to pay?
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  27. Totally agree! Handing over money to your wife to manage is risky, once something goes wrong, you have nothing left. Men should maintain their independence.
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  28. A 43-year-old woman with all these expectations? She’s living in a dream world.
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  29. Women born in the '80s who are still single now have to taste the bitter fruit of their own choices. There's no other way, many times it's the result of their own actions.
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  30. If marriage means raising someone else's kids for 16 years, what's the point of getting married at all?
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  31. This new marriage law is a win for men! Finally, we won't get robbed in a divorce.
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  32. I love fitness, but I wouldn’t let my wife go to the gym alone. Not because I’m controlling, but because of the environment in most gyms.
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  33. If you're a "leftover woman," would you still stick to your high standards? The male resources in the matchmaking market are shrinking, while the demands are getting higher.
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  34. The man didn't want to pay because he saw through this dating scam. These women are just looking for a free meal ticket, not genuine companionship.
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  35. How can anyone respect a family that sees their daughter as a commodity to be sold? It’s one thing to show respect, but demanding an astronomical bride price is just exploitation.
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  36. You're already 40, and you're still being picky? Be realistic.
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  37. Once women hit their 30s, they rush to find younger guys to relive their youth. Unfortunately, young men might not even be interested, times have changed.
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  38. 1,000 women waiting for men at a matchmaking event, yet not a single man showed up. What does this tell you? Men have seen through the game and refuse to be suckers anymore!
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  39. This is not just a love story, but a powerful testament to the courage of pursuing happiness.
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  40. The biggest problem for older leftover women is their mindset. On one hand, they want love, but on the other, they are unwilling to let go of past prejudices and fantasies.
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  41. Some women over 40 think they can still demand a man who has a six-figure income and a perfect body. But the reality is, most men in that league prefer younger women. It’s tough, but it’s the truth.
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  42. Women complain about rich guys yet crave their resources and connections. Isn’t that a bit contradictory?
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  43. Many times, women do not cherish their husbands when they have them and treat them poorly. It is only after divorce, when they encounter worse men, that they realize how good their husbands were, but by then, they have already lost the person who loved them the most.
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  44. A wife bought with a bride price can't possibly be loyal to you. Marriage is built on love, not money.
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  45. This case makes me question marriage. Marriage should be a commitment between two people, not a transaction.
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  46. If it were me, I wouldn’t attend either. After all, I know it would just be a waste of money, and those women wouldn’t be interested in me. Why should I go and humiliate myself?
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  47. Women always say men love to watch beauties, but if you keep deceiving with filters, what can we trust?
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  48. This woman is clearly committing marriage fraud. Divorcing after just a few days and refusing to return the bride price? The law should severely punish such behavior!
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  49. Russian women don't ask for too much from men. They value emotions and family more, unlike some Chinese women who list all their demands clearly before marriage.
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  50. Instead of complaining about our gaming, why not ask yourself why we prefer the virtual world to real-life interactions?
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  51. Seeing their happy family of four makes me feel that the meaning of love and family truly transcends borders.
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  52. Marriage is about equality, not financial dictatorship. No man should feel like an ATM in his own home.
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  53. Older women who think they’re still competitive are just fooling themselves.
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  54. Let’s be real. If you think spending money is the way to show love, then you’ve got the wrong idea about relationships.
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  55. Why waste money on nightclub girls when you can find genuine companionship elsewhere?
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  56. Married for 3 hours and the bride ran away? This isn’t marriage, it’s legalized robbery!”
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  57. Beauty filters create an illusion, but reality always catches up. Better to face the truth early.
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  58. If you're willing to offer a bride price, doesn't that mean men are actually the 'scarce resource'?"
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  59. Paternity tests should be mandatory in all marriages. If you have nothing to hide, why refuse it?
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  60. Men deserve respect too. Stop using tests and demands to measure love.
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  61. When a Simp gives everything, he ends up with nothing. It’s time for men to wake up.
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  62. It's reasonable that companies choose not to hire modern women. Many women are too focused on individualism nowadays and ignore the value of teamwork.
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  63. She rejected that man who was chasing her back then. Looking back now, it’s such a pity.
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  64. Some women set high standards for partners, only realizing in their 30s that they've missed many opportunities. They’re reaping what they sow.
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  65. This is because many married men lose themselves in marriage, especially when facing family pressures, financial burdens, and conflicts with their spouse. If marriage is only about stress, who would want to get married?
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  66. Why is it always men who have to provide, earn money, and buy a house? Are women only responsible for "being beautiful"? Isn't marriage supposed to be a partnership?
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  67. Sounds like she values her friend's opinion more than her own boyfriend. In that case, maybe she's not ready for a relationship
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  68. Crossing borders and cultures just to be with each other, this kind of love is so beautiful.
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  69. She ignored her responsibilities as a mother for 30 years, and now she demands her children take care of her? Motherly love isn’t automatic, and neither is responsibility!
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  70. It's rare for a girlfriend to stick around, but a man has to be able to support a family. Can this kind of life truly make her happy?
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  71. Without beauty filters, would these streamers still have an audience?
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  72. Women keep complaining about being urged to marry, but don’t men also want to marry someone who’s less picky?
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  73. Can taking wedding photos alone really bring happiness? This type of romance seems more like self-consolation to me.
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  74. Most of us just want a peaceful life. Marriage and kids? Too much pressure. I'd rather play games and enjoy life alone.
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  75. If a couple has come to the point where they are arguing over every penny like this, it really doesn't make any sense.
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  76. This video really opened my eyes. I’ve been to places where the bill was ridiculously high, but I didn’t realize it was a scam. I guess I was just too embarrassed to leave. It’s messed up that men are expected to pay for everything, but now I know better.
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  77. Demanding 1 million yuan in compensation, is this what we call “standing up for oneself”?
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  78. Why should I pay for everything just because I'm a man? If she's truly independent, she should be able to pay her own bills!
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  79. Marriage requires a house, a car, and a huge dowry. If you don’t have money, you’re not even qualified for a blind date. Instead of going into debt for marriage, staying single is the better choice!
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  80. If these women don’t genuinely give their hearts to men, they shouldn't expect true sincerity from men either. When they grow old, they will regret it.
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  81. At 39, shouldn't you be more realistic? Love isn't a CEO romance from a novel.
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  82. As a girl, I just want to say that if you are too demanding on a boy, or even deliberately let him spend more money for you, it will be you who will be hurt in the end.
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  83. I do think 30 is a career ‘bottleneck’ for women, but it's not something that can’t be changed.
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  84. Mr. Wang has been more than forgiving to Ms. Li, but she still doesn’t appreciate it. Instead, she returns with anger and jealousy. No matter how good a man is, he can’t keep tolerating this.
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  85. Not every man minds age, but for women over 35 who are still single, it does make one wonder why.
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  86. I understand why young people don't want to get married. It's hard enough to maintain your own life, let alone support a family.
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  87. These tests will only push the relationship towards a breakdown. Trust is the foundation of any relationship, not constant tests.
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  88. I chose not to marry because I've seen too many failed marriages. Marriage is no longer about two people; it's become an economic transaction. Instead of risking it, I'd rather enjoy the freedom of being single.
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  89. Parents are indeed the people who love you the most, and they often worry about your marriage more sincerely than anyone else. When they urge you to get married, it's for your own good. However, many older single women often find their parents annoying and bothersome. Only when your parents pass away will you regret it; when you are alone and grow old in solitude, you will realize how much you hurt parents who loved you so deeply.
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  90. Not working is a personal freedom, but how does society view women who make this choice?
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  91. If you had focused on marriage and children when you were younger, maybe you wouldn't be struggling now.
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  92. I’m willing to give for the person I love, but I don’t want to treat love as a material exchange. Love should be based on understanding and mutual respect, not money.
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  93. If Chinese women weren't so focused on material wealth, maybe more men would choose to stay. It's not just about love anymore."
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  94. The leftover women seem to really regret it only when they reach their 50s. Then they will realize the loneliness once they enter a nursing home.
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  95. If being single for too long leads to mental instability, isn’t it a personal responsibility to address it?
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  96. 1,500 yuan to get married? That’s not even enough to rent a wedding dress!
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  97. What kind of man doesn’t touch his wife for five years? What is he thinking?
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  98. If a woman isn't even willing to go through a premarital health check, how much trust is left? Isn't marriage supposed to be built on honesty? If she has nothing to hide, why is she so afraid?
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  99. I fully support the husband's demand for the return of the bride price. Marriage is not a transaction, why should it be treated as one?
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  100. It’s hard to believe that a woman with such high standards can expect to find someone who meets all her requirements. She’ll be single forever.
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  101. Men are tired of being treated like walking ATMs. If you want equality, why not share the financial burden in marriage?
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  102. What’s the point of such a marriage? Why not just divorce sooner?
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  103. Are young people not getting married because they don't want to or because they can't afford to?
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  104. Honest men always end up as backup options. Women prefer men who keep them guessing, not those who are upfront from the start.
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  105. Women demand us to buy houses and cars, but are they willing to share life’s burdens? Marriage isn’t a transaction!
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  106. Playing games is my only escape from daily stress. I don’t see anything wrong with it. It’s my way of unwinding.
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  107. Some people treat going abroad as an escape, not an opportunity. What you need to realize is that going abroad could also mean starting over.
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  108. Why should we men sign a prenuptial agreement that is unfair to us? Marriage should be based on trust and love, not on splitting assets before it even begins. If there are so many conditions upfront, is it still called marriage?
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  109. I think a woman in her 30s with a man in his 20s is bound to face clashes in viewpoints. Different life experiences — there’s bound to be a generation gap, isn’t there?
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  110. Urban folks mock rural banquet culture, but urban weddings costing hundreds of thousands—aren’t those worse?
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  111. Can the bride price really represent a family's wealth? If it can, then this society is unworthy of discussing love.
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  112. You must cherish your husband. After all, it is not easy to build a family, and divorce will hurt the children too much. And the first one is often the best.
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  113. The car sales industry is so competitive, and some salespeople might let their principles slide just to hit targets.
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  114. Being 30 without friends is not just a personal issue, it's a societal problem. With today's cutthroat competition, men simply don’t have time to build friendships!
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  115. Hearing female drivers complain about low income, I honestly think they should switch industries. If they can’t handle ride-hailing, they should try something else.”
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  116. Many women prefer mature men. Does this mean young guys truly lack appeal? It seems like only financial stability can capture their attention.
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  117. This story is truly heartbreaking! Some men just bring it upon themselves. Money can’t buy true love, it only buys "gold-diggers"!
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  118. Is such a high bride price really about selling their daughter? Marriage should be about two people's happiness, not a financial transaction.
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  119. I think this guy's actions are completely justified. After divorce, a man should have his own life and not be constantly controlled by his ex-wife. The real problem is that many women refuse to let go after divorce and try to control the ex-husband's life through the child. Honestly, some women have no sense of responsibility. Raising children should be a joint responsibility, but often it's the man who carries the whole burden.
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  120. A model’s life isn’t as glamorous as people think. The industry is brutal, especially for women. Once you age, you’re replaced. It’s like being thrown away.
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  121. Men today are being taken for granted. If we don’t provide everything, we’re seen as failures. Why is it always our responsibility to make women’s lives better?
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  122. The pressure in society is increasing, especially during times of economic downturn. Working for others is no longer a foolproof solution; you never know when your boss might lay you off. I think the last point makes a lot of sense: the smart approach is to sell your skills directly without relying on your boss.
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  123. Some women are too greedy, and young girls have much lower material requirements.
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  124. The government and developers keep passing the buck, but it's the ordinary people who suffer in the end. How much longer can this model continue?
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  125. If a man is willing to spend money on you, it's because he loves you. You spent so much of his money but don’t plan to marry him—it’s clearly taking advantage of him. This behavior is totally unfair.
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  126. Maybe it's time women realize that relying on a man isn't always a bad thing. Independence is great, but when the economy hits hard, having a partner can provide stability.
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  127. After watching this video, I feel like these women's confessions are just seeking sympathy. Don't they want to make more positive changes in their lives?
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  128. Western countries don’t have bride prices, but women receive spousal support after divorce. I wish China had similar legal protections.
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  129. Why do so many women rely on beauty filters instead of embracing their natural looks? If you’re confident in yourself, aging shouldn’t be such a big deal. Looks fade for everyone, but personality and character matter more!
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  130. It is indeed not easy for women, especially single mothers, but don’t ask for too much.
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  131. I understand that women in their 30s may want to focus on career and freedom, but have you considered what happens when you’re in your 40s or 50s and all your friends have settled down? Will you feel lonely then? Even with financial independence, emotional emptiness can be hard to fill.
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  132. I also want to start a business, but there is really no way out working for the boss all my life.
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  133. Seeing the delivery guy working so hard to save up, I wonder—can those who look down on service jobs work this hard?
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  134. Shouldn’t the men who spend money at nightlife venues reflect on their own actions too?
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  135. After reading it, I felt very angry. It's not that old people are bad, but that bad people are getting older. Girls must pay attention to safety
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  136. There is no doubt that driverless cars will really cause drivers to lose their jobs.
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  137. Thanks to the author for allowing me to see such a real video. I feel that the Chinese people in the Qing Dynasty were so indifferent and ignorant.
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  138. "As a woman, I believe these are their own choices. In fact, they haven't affected anyone else; it's their own decision. However, as they get older, they might regret it."
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  139. I think the anxiety of older unmarried women is not entirely without reason. Society has very harsh standards for women's appearance, especially when it comes to age. Men, on the other hand, face relatively less pressure, since we can still find partners as we age.
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  140. The career switch you talk about is very realistic, but if even programmers can't find suitable positions, who will dare to learn programming? Is programming really just for the young? This issue is worth pondering.
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  141. As an ordinary man, I think the demands of older single women for their partners are really too high! They want to find men who have houses, cars, and successful careers. Don’t we deserve understanding as well? Older single women, don’t just focus on your high standards; consider the feelings of ordinary men too! We also have our own life pressures and aspirations. Just because of our age, we shouldn’t be labeled as "hard to pursue." I sincerely hope we can all understand each other instead of just being overly critical!
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  142. Some women say being single is great, but deep down, they still desire marriage. It's just that their circumstances don't allow it.
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  143. Parents shouldn’t be this irresponsible. Anything could’ve happened to the child.
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  144. This is not love, it's strategic harvesting
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  145. If this happened to you, would you still accept the children?
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  146. This video really touched me. Society is changing rapidly, and so are perspectives on marriage. Both men and women are facing more complex choices and pressures. For many Chinese men, marriage is not just a personal decision but one that carries the expectations of family and society. For Chinese women, balancing independence with marriage brings its own set of challenges. I hope we can all show more understanding and compassion. No matter what choices are made, I hope everyone can find their own happiness.
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  147. The gate was smashed—just how big was this tiger?
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  148. I think this is a weakness of men — easily being deceived by a woman’s “gentleness.” Massage girls know exactly how to exploit this psychology, it's honestly painful.
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  149. Maybe society puts too much pressure on women to get married. If they were treated like men, they wouldn't feel this desperate.
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  150. Your requirements are too high! Not every man can meet these conditions.
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  151. Honestly, if it were me, I might not choose a girl working as a delivery rider."
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  152. If she expects men to always pay, then she doesn’t understand what independence truly means.
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  153. The collapse of the "simp economy" is a good thing! Men are finally waking up. Spending money on pleasing women is worse than investing in yourself—at least you won’t betray yourself.
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  154. Great video, thank you
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  155. Love knows no borders. True hearts speak the loudest.
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  156. Both parties were at fault, but who is the ultimate victim? Food for thought.
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  157. Women today are also very practical; they still want to find men with good conditions, even if they are single mothers. Their standards remain high.
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  158. Men need to understand that paying the bill is just the start of love, not the only way to sustain a relationship.
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  159. Generally speaking, women cannot compete with men in careers. It is usually much more difficult for a woman to raise children alone than for a man to raise children alone.
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  160. Many men fantasize about 'saving' a nightclub girl, only to realize they were just a temporary stop in her journey.
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  161. I wanted to be a doctor, but that didn't happen.
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  162. Women mainly have to have children, and this congenital condition is not as convenient as men in the workplace.
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  163. Good men aren’t rejecting women because they’re scared or 'stingy'—they're rejecting the entitlement. We want partners, not people who feel owed something from day one.
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  164. It’s only when you’re broke that you know who your true friends are. Bankruptcy is the ultimate test.
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  165. It’s funny how she didn’t realize what she had until it was gone. Men don’t always come back when you snap your fingers.
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  166. This guy found a goldmine at 3,100 meters. I’m inspired!
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  167. Women's demands are incredible. It seems that there are such unreasonable girls all over the world.
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  168. Don’t you think the “privileges” foreigners enjoy in China are over the top? If Chinese men did this, they’d be torn apart online.
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  169. Are men over 40 worthless? Does society only need young people?
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  170. Society has always had high expectations for women. When they are treated like men, are we elevating them or stripping away their feminine qualities? What do you all think?
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  171. Men, just because they are chasing doesn’t mean they respect us. They are just out of options."
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  172. A woman like this would only care about money, there’s no real love in her heart.
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  173. This type of woman doesn’t understand respect at all. She just takes and takes on dates. It’s disgusting.
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  174. The reason leftover and gold-digging women are collapsing is simple: they rely on men's money. Now that we’re not paying, they’re finally noticing the issue.
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  175. Men should be smarter and not be deceived by a pretty face! True love is mutual, not just one side emptying their wallet.
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  176. These wedding pranks are a clear manifestation of societal pathology. To think that some people still consider this “traditional humor.” If this is our tradition, I’d rather we don’t inherit it.
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  177. A man’s dignity means nothing in front of the bride price. All the hard work is swallowed up by the bride price.
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  178. These women have no real abilities but dream of climbing the social ladder overnight. Do you really think wealthy men fall for such fake packaging?
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  179. When women are rejected due to age and being single, they protest. But when men are rejected for lacking money or status, who speaks up for them?
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  180. A 40-year-old woman still dreaming of being a princess? Reality is too harsh.
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  181. Can these women really sell their dignity for money? So pathetic.
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  182. This woman is way too picky. She rejected him eight times in eight years, and now she’s upset he married someone else? She made her bed, now she has to lie in it.
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  183. The "equality" women talk about seems to just mean "men treating me better.
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  184. I’ve been told to spend money if I love her, but that’s not love, that’s a transaction!
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  185. Many women always try to control men, but in reality, the more they try to control, the easier it is for men to walk away.
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  186. This is exactly why more men are afraid of getting married—the risks are just too high!
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  187. Funny how these women think they can live off men forever. Do they really think a man will be there to save them when they’re done with the nightlife?
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