Comments by "Eyen Nordic" (@eyennordic348) on "Chinese Historian"
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Well, tastes differ.
I regularly watch China unveiled, and seems, that no Asian man would marry 25+ woman with degree, good job, tall stature and feminist. While in the west they are really desirable, because they do not look too old for European, Slavic and mid-eastern men.
Calling them "leftovers", like Asian guys do, is unacceptable in many eastern countries.
So it actually mutually beneficial, and no one hurt no one there.
Asian guys marry young, uneducated, submissive, thin Asian girls.
Western guys can take tall, educated, rich, dark skinned, chubby, older, sexually skilled Asian women to themselves.
Matchmaking events in China are full of women, yet zero Asian men attend them, so why being possessive of people you even do not want?
Black men , Slavic men and western men still find them marriageable.
Recently seen a video, when Asian guy turned down Chinese woman just because she did not asked proper questions about his former marriage(he was divorced, she was a virgin, yet he somehow put blame on her for done reason)
How on earth girl can read your mind and know, which questions should she ask to not be turned down due to that reason?
One day, asian girls would be tired of going to matchmaker events and either be content or struggling alone, or choose to date, and marry only western men, after the no return point.
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@brianmeen2158 Well, both me and my fiance work 12 hours a day at decent job, yet we cant afford much of own space, except for one small room with problematic neighbours, though we dont have many bad habits or extravagant lifestyle, except for some appearance polish. Depends on country, may be, but globally with more than 60% of population its the same. If children are healthy , its luck, its God's grace. But if you happen to give birth to kid with special needs, its more than just sacrifice, its disaster on many levels.
Many children people have mental traumas, they themselves are kids, and its not that bad of a decision to not having kids when you yourself is still kid and want to find yourself and your core values first.
When you know your values, you may develop a will to spread good ideas into future beyond your timeline. Health problems+ lack of character.
Some people don't have parental skills, and its good they dont have kids to torture with their flaws.
If they are not willing to share their life, that's just means they better not to. Because they would only fuel forums and tiktoks of "I regret having children" theme.
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I am a bit fatslistic, in a, sense that "Women or men can always choose good guys/girls".
80% cheating and abuse by men starts after first child in nuclear family is born.
Before that, most men and women respectively- good and bad - wear good guy/girl mask. Before abuse starts, every female and male narcissist appear nice and caring person. If you are born with narcissistic traits, you tend to be better at deceiving people than 99% people are able to prevent and forsee it to deflect it.
And we now have estimated 25% of narcissist in society.
So.
Safest way is mgtov for men and 4b for women, with emphasis on career and self-protection. That's very dangerous to rely on anyone with such cruelty in the existing world.
Still, I believe that many evils can be healed, some of which are generational trauma, the story of neglect and violence.
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Every single person usually believe that they have met the "one" , then everything goes gradually downhill until hell starts.
I remember series of Whom thevturf did I marry " series.
And about choices of womrn.
As female person, you have only 5 years when you can successfully marry 20-25 years old.
As a man, you have while life to make your choices and result yourself.
If you had only 5 years of being valuable and visible, you would understand it.
If Asian men see 40-30 women as leftover non people, than poor choices of young ones are even more inevitable due to time pressure.
In most cases, its not even possible to have any choice.
Mutual love is rare, and when it seems to happen, people stick to their choice, rather than throw away it due to some reasons against their fate.
You can fall in ❤ multiple times and yet being rejected by most people you are attracted and, want to have serious relationships with.
When someone ❤ you back, you are usually too happy to throw away your youth to possibly stay alone in later years.
There is difference between sexes. Men always have hope, women after 25 lose everything , if their choices were to support their family first and be a better people in general.
So, how to make a good choice, with all of this? You either have good bunch of suitable people around or really bad, and you can control your and only to certain degree. You can become better and more healed person, but you will be better with time, and you literally have no time, if you were born woman.
Most women are as defenseless against romantic nature of their relationships as children are defenceless at the hands of their carers.
You cant defend yourself as a child and you cant defend yourself against make eifebeater as woman . Also, most people are unable to heal alcoholic partner , and anyone can become one, even ideal people.
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