Comments by "Eyen Nordic" (@eyennordic348) on "SPDA" channel.

  1. I rarely read people faces right in real life. But there is like ocean of pain imprinted in her face, that even I can see that😢
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  2. Love, happiness, cimpassiob and joy they also don't feel. So it's more like nibbana, than heaven
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  3. Empathy can do things psychopaths do. Inability to feel fear is good in many situations, but its not the, same as being able to overcome fear , to be actually brave, and actively kind. Also, psychopaths lack feeling of love and happiness . Because of narcissism, psychopaths kinda live with attachment with his or her own interest, without real connection to the meaning of life. Being meaningful being is meaningless to a psychopath, so to speak. As for death. For empath, death is very serious thing, for a psychopath, its just some hussle around non-existing person. There are some relatable things between empaths and non-empaths. Because, worn-out empath can simulate compassion without feeling at the moment. Empaths are also able to not feel grief on collective occasions . Some events are so disastrous that even empath does not feel anything(huge wars with millions of victims, happened long ago) Also, respect. Psychopaths seem to me very ... rude not to care about people inner selves in many occasions. Still, being pro-social psychopath is interesting life experience. Though life without fear is lighter and easier, life without love and happiness on the deepest level is so sad, its a big disadvantage. No sex or guilty fun pleasures can compare with true mutual love and connection.
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  4. She is not afraid of anything , including death. Pain perception is flattened and adrenaline is very welcome.
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  5. Ethically, its like operating without anastetic on patient without pain senditivity. That may look awful, but actually ok for them and very useful for society. Many lifestyle choices are very unethical for some people and very useful for others. Many are highly politically controversial.
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  6. Her child was unusually calm and uninfluenced by negative restrictions from 6 months old. He didvonly what he wanted and had huge rage while growing. Tried to kill her in her sleep constantky. Very deceiving and lying. Psychopaths in childhood are very dangerous and basically uncontrollable by legal methods. And usually parents are blamed by society.
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  7. Psychopath do not experience joy, compassion, true love, attachment, light, bliss, grace, happiness and extasy. Their pallette is closer to Buddhism, but still darker. Its "still shumyata", or "" shunyata that are free from playful light". Heaven is joy, happiness, connection, serenity without fear, guilt or shame, without sadness, lust or anger. One psychopath told in interview that when he touches kitten, he just feels fur , but nothing interesting comes out of touching a kitten. He does not feel pleasure from mirroring others enjoyment even. That so sad, actually.
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  8.  @N8-Doggi  Well, general population build common life meanings, values and goals to achieve, and most people feel deeper connection to life with all the dimensions of it, rather than living empty and ruthless one. Its hard to do, but most people respect meaningful life more than cruel and careless one.
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  9. It depends on person. Some are more open to exchanging experiences, but seems they dont personally relate to your life in general. You are "experience provider", and not , well, someone of "their" kind. No kinship, but sometimes they have slight attachment. Means your are not that disposable and it feels good to be around you. Still, its really not "personal" enough. A bit unsatisfying for empath friend who would like to actually connect with his sociopath friend.
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  10. But only emopats can be consciously evil, being able to choose between good and evol Sociopaths cant feel "evil". They are naturally with low sensitivity and lack of fear of death.
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  11. ​ @martinhommel3420  Punishment and reward are - or + set by norm (0) level. Normally, inmates dont get anything. If they behave extremely badly, they are punished in many ways. If they behave their best they get good things. So, punishment is introducing undesirable stimuli to undesired kinds of behavior. Reward is introducing positive new stimuli when someone go of their ways to do better. When you dont get anything, it's just normal punisent. You are still jailed and punished for your previous actions.
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  12.  @martinhommel3420  Psychopaths sensory level differ from neurotypical person in axway that alters perception of reward. Our "comfort" and "serene" and "happy" levels does not exist for psychopath naturally. "Normal" for them is being in a stste That we would call "angsty and depressive" compared to happiness and empathic norm. For psychopaths themselves, they feel this level not as "depressivd", but, rather, dull, repetitive and unsatisfying, not contrasting enough to get feeling of connection to life. Psychopaths cant normally enjoy norm - nor ours, not their. Their brain, however, lacks fear remorse , self-caring , self-pity and does not mind experirnce suffering without context of humiliation or superiority, if it warms things up a bit for them. Basically, you cant actually punish them. They dont mind punishment. Rather, if lucky, they would feel it as markey instead: if i kill this mab, i will go to jail. Ok, no problem, jail is interesting. They do not have feeling of attachment, so they are ok with their life changing drastically. No attachment, only exciting experience matter. Psychopath usually try to control people to gain positive reward anyway. They would prefer gaining what they want without manipulation, but its possible only if society provides for them it in a more easy and funny way rather than dull way. While being not neurotypically "human", they still are one of us, they cant be left behind, even if they are ok with it. They are part of our very basic , natural way to survive. We are ok with cats being non-human. They are human cats, so to speak.
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  13.  @DeMooniC  Its what we call excitement and pleasure. Satisfaction also. Happiness, joy, extasy does not exist in psychopath spectrum. I read an interview, where make adult psychopath described his feelings towards things and living objects with mostly same wording. He told, for expke, that when he pet a kitten, he just feels warmth and feels of fur, and nothing soecual. And when he squeeze kitten, it feels like his *ick, especially when sqeese his head while suffocating it. I felt sad for kitten, but to psychopaths , too. They dont understand the joy of petting pets at all. For them, mirror neurons of mutual shared pleasure does not work at all. We all are like furniture to them.
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  14. Transeference focused therapy sounds promising. Due to altered chemistry, psychopaths brain lacks some very basic levels of not only empathic interaction with outer people, but within his or her ego as well. Today "me" and future "me" does not have a healthybconnection. Psychopath does not care about even his or her "self".
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  15. ​ @daviedood2503 If rub bing is true, it should be both ways, not just mimiking. Like, is there are a beuroplasticity? So, can an empathy be actually gained by being around many empaths?
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  16. Lucky it ended differently than in case of Erin Caffey. Teenage aspds are very dsngerous to their parents, but they beed them more to not yo do stupid things.
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