Comments by "Elaine R" (@elainer8288) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. I think most of the time the problem is that sex for men begins in the bedroom and for women it starts way before that. In the beginning, the circumstances lead to what women want: the context + the sex. The context being: going out, dinner together, a lot of conversation, maybe flowers, a simple gift, some compliment, companionship, spending time doing other fun things together and a man who is a gentleman. All man do this in the beginning and then, they stop, since "the job is done" and they don't need to put in all this "effort" anymore. A lot of married women feel they are now trapped: the guy just wants something raw, just a "little relief" and throw all the rest away. And then the men say the women are not "fullfilling their obligations" in the marriage, which makes it all worse. They don't understand that it s because they took all the fun of it for the woman removing the "context." The video above ilustrates this point by saying that it is possible to get "all the rest" (companionship, etc from other sources), but for a woman the whole package has to be inside the relationship for the sex to be good. Or else, they just feel frustrated and lose interest. Sex for a woman is the final result of a long process with many phases of connection and most man don't get that at all and just want to skip to the final phase, which is really frustrating and boring for a woman. Even if men do a lot and are very good husbands, many times they do not give the woman what she wants (context) and they start to feel like they are not being appreciated, respected, they feel offended and feel like the guy just wants a sex slave, although this is not true most of the time. It is just how a woman feels if she doens't get "the context" anymore.
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  2. This is what psychopaths do, not most women.
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  3. Fantastic piece of advice. I agree 100%. I came to this exact conclusion during a very hard break up (I was still in love) and it is absolutely true. Keeping the feeling of love and not fighting it really is the best alternative. We will only hurt ourselves more if we try to change love into hate or something negative. Really wishing the person well and still loving them is the best way to go. It will still hurt for some time, but it will pass and a great feeling will stay. Real love is unselfish.
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  4. I am a woman and I always apologize. Saying "thank you" and "I'm sorry" is never too much for any human being. 😊
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  5. A friend of my father's came to us and said that his wife was being very mean to him and wanted to divorce him "for no reason". Later we found out that not only did he have a mistress and had been with her for years, but also had been hiring different "love workers" every week. She found out and filed for divorce "for no reason". When psychologists and lawyers listen to only one side of the story, the man may "forget" to tell them some things.
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  6. Everybody likes to spoil people they like, specially women. But there has to be RECIPROCITY, or people feel taken for granted, and undervalued. BALANCE is the key. SELFISHNESS destroys relationships.
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  7. I think your advice is better than the video's. I agree 100%.
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  8. I think all men should give all women the same advice they would give to their daughter. Would anybody here recommend this to their daughters: Sleep with the guy you like as fast as you can? (As fast as you can probably includes before you even get to know him better and; therefore, before you even know you really like him.) And also, a lot of women don't like to move so fast. They prefer to get emotionally involved first. But the first video of the series was great in my opinion.
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  9. Finally a men who understands women! Guys, listen to this video! He is 100% correct! If there is a solution, this is it. Best video of this channel so far!
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  10. Your comment is way better than this video. People have lost common sense.
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  11. Hi, I am woman, I am over 30 and I can tell you: Never in my life have my feelings for a man changed. Never. The most important thing is: make sure she really loves you. If a woman loves you, it will never stop. Unless the man is physically agressive, verbally abusive or a cheater. Woman's emotions change, but the feelings are very stable. I have broken up with men I liked that: were crazily jealous (not in a cute way, in a crazy way), verbally abusive, cheated, etc. Never because my feelings changed. Emotions can be unstable, but feelings are not.
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  12. I also agree with Jordan Peterson. He said that a sophisticated woman says "NO" and high-value men appreciate that. Women: Take time to get to know somebody. Being promiscuous / "easy" is not good for anybody. This should be common sense to men too. Both should want someone who has self control. (Video: "The Main sign that SHE IS GOOD.")
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  13.  @Alice-hp4wo  I saw several divorce lawyers say most cases come from the men being physically violent or infidelity. Are you sure none of these happened?
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  14. Not true at all. My mother took care of my dad after a stroke, my friend's aunt took care of her husband for 10 years personally after he had a stroke and couldn't move or talk anymore. For 10 years took care of him and dedicated her life to him. Love still exists!
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  15. Submitting to? Are we in the 1950's? Wtf? Unbelievable.
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  16. Everybody likes to spoil people they like, specially women. But there has to be reciprocity,or people feel taken for granted and undervalued. BALANCE is the key.
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  17. Not true at all. My mother took care of my dad after a stroke, my friend's aunt took care of her husband for 10 years personally after he had a stroke and couldn't move or talk anymore. For 10 years took care of him and dedicated her life to him. Love still exists!
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  18. Hi! I am sorry to intrude, but as a woman, maybe I can help. I think your wife is just too busy and tired with so many kids and the house. It can be very exhausting and leave you with no energy at all. In the stories where a man leaves for this reason, nobody understands the woman either. She is just beyond exhausted. If you can, hire a nanny on Fridays so she can rest and take her out on a date to have dinner and maybe go to a movie. Bring her flowers. She needs a boyfriend in order to be a girlfriend again. Women need the "magic", the context, the "before" they get into the mood. They need to talk and feel like a person again, not like someone who is just available for sex. Try her routine one day on Saturday taking care of the house and kids and tell her to go shopping, do something for herself. Make her feel appreciated. And by doing this, you will understand how tired she is and even you won't have the energy to have sex on that day! I can assure you that. Men forget that for a woman sex does not start in the bedroom. It starts way before that. I hope it helps. She doens't want to feel she has just obligations with the house, kids and being available for sex. This kind of sex with no going out, conversation, companionship, understanding is not satisfying for women.
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  19. I am a teacher and I love my job. After the kids grow up, I don't see why a woman should stop working and studying if she doesn't want to. The cleaning can be shared by the whole family and the cooking too. And I think each human being can do their own laundry.
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  20. True, but difficult to accept.
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  21. Everbody is being too promiscuous and it is causing a big mess.
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  22. Excellent quote, but we can't forget it works for all human beings, not only women. Discipline and hard work build character for BOTH.
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  23. ​ @dianabalan  It is a known fact that most psychopaths are men, but there are women too.
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  24. ​ @BlackLion76  This is not what she meant. Jordan Peterson means not being promiscuous and "easy" as this video suggests.
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  25. I never forget to RECIPROCATE. Everybody likes to spoil people they like, specially women. But there has to be RECIPROCITY, or people feel taken for granted, and undervalued. BALANCE is the key. SELFISHNESS destroys relationships.
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  26. I think even better than low body count is a woman with low body count for a specific reason. This reason being because the woman has ever only slept with someone in a long term relationship, and associates physical intimacy with feelings and connection. This way, you decrease your chances of being cheated on to almost zero because this kind of person doesn't even want to cheat. But, on the other hand, this kind of woman won't tolerate if you ever cheat. So I guess a man needs to think if he is able to do the same of what he is looking for.
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  27. ​@user-ro5tn3zt1d I completely agree with you. Working = Freedom. A woman has to keep developing her mind and her ability to work and survive in this world.
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  28. It's true.
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  29. This is a good balance. Both doing both. 😊
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  30. It's good to hear that! I also enjoy doing things for people I like to make them happy.
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  31.  @ThePhabulousYvelise  But he is saying a "high-value" man with many options won't wait and he thinks waiting or not is just a strategy for women. They don't understand that most women prefer to wait as a natural process that is better for both. If a guy has no patience and self control to wait and take things slow, what self control will he have to be faithful in the future? They just think it is a strategy, manipulation, punishment or reward. It sounds like men that think in this way give zero value to building an emotional and spiritual connection first.
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  32. Exactly. Very well put.
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  33. He's talking about gold-diggers, not women. A woman with character would be ashamed to accept that.
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  34. We have to learn how to spot a psychopath and run away from them quickly. They are all very similar: selfish, promiscuous, pretend to be nice, but it is all fake, no feelings, leaches, don't like to study and many times don't like to work either and are just with women for some advantage: physical and financial. They are always very abusive saying horrible things like a bully and many times physically violent too. Sometimes jealous in a crazy way, not in an innocent / cute way. They never change and play victims too. And there are a lot more man than women like that. So glad you got away from this!!! Thank God.
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  35. It is not at all about power. It amazes me how clueless so many men are.
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  36. ​ @anwarmamun2020 Of course flowers and little gifs don't need to be an everyday thing. It is the whole attitude that matters.
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  37. I agree with these conclusions about women for men. I just don't agree that a woman breaking her rules for you is something good. It think it actually shows a lack of self- esteem, which is something to be avoided. This is a measure of self respect, nit of attraction. And I also think that there are other far better ways to measure her attraction. But for women the conclusion from this video is that even if a man is happy with the physical aspect of the relationship, that will not lower the chances of him cheating. Then it would be nice to have a video to help women evaluate the cheating potential of a men describing the psychological profile of a classic cheater and the profile of men that in therapy said that they never cheated. Help the girls too. 😉
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  38. As a woman, I agree. Be the best for yourself and forget about manipulation. It doesn't work.
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  39. Excellent comment.
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  40. ​ @roses6564 What you said is respect. Very important from both sides. It's not the same as being submissive.
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  41. ​ @kevin9218 It's not about doing the dishes or helping around the house (althought this important, of course). It is about behaving a little like a boyfriend and being a little romantic, spending time together outside the bedroom. Really... how hard can that be?
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  42. ​ @wayward03  This is what I see almost 100% of women in my life say. And a lot of women here seem to agree and say something similar to what I said. Being a little caring is not that hard. Maybe you don't understand what I meant.
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  43. This risk is being ignored in the video and the comments. The woman's side of the story.
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  44. This is terrible advice. If a guy likes you, he will wait. This is obvious.
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  45.  @geekonomist  Why? This seems like a fair and balanced way of living.
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  46.  @EntrepreneursInCars  Not true. They fall in love when there is a balance between giving and taking. When they find one unselfish man in a sea of selfishness. I saw a great comment here in one of the videos from a man. He said relationships only work when both want to give more than to receive, when both are unselfish. I agree with him. More selfishness is not gonna solve any problems in a world where most problems are caused exactly by that. The same old story over and over again.
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  47. Excellent comment. We want to be nice because we want to make people happy. Only psychopaths do things just to get what they want.
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  48. It looks like good advice to me.
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  49. ​ @workingshlub8861  I agree. Having no privacy is uncomfortable. If possible, separate bedrooms and bathrooms would be great, I think. Both have their own space.
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  50. I am woman and I agree. Be fair: share the bills 50-50 or do more housework in proportion to what the other person is paying.
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  51. ​ @wayward03 I'm taking my time to write here because I think people could be so much happier if men could understand women a little better. A lot of womanizers know how to treat a woman (but with bad intentions of course). Why can't the nice guys do this too? Men seem so clueless when it comes to understanding women's complaints.
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  52. ​ @RedOakPictures  Most women are victims of physical violence, infidelity and drug abuse on the male part that's why they get a divorce most of the time.
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  53. ​​ @scartissuefilms I agree. Not having to work because you have enough passive income is freedom. Everybody's dream. But getting married and not having your own money and having to clean everyday like like a slave with no help is definitely not freedom.
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  54. Everybody likes to spoil people they like, specially women. But there has to be RECIPROCITY, or people feel taken for granted, and undervalued. BALANCE is the key. SELFISHNESS destroys relationships. If she is the only one doing things for you, she will fall out of love very quickly.
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  55. ​ @RameshbabuKoonan  I meant to say that I think most of the time it has nothing to do with manipulation, or power. A woman wants a man who is her best friend, not someone distant that just comes to her to have sex. That's what I see women complaining about.
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  56. ​ @Emundas455  But if a woman is working, she is not another mouth to feed. Only when she is pregnant and taking care of a young baby and child.
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  57. Women like a little suspense. Exactly. I agree. Great comment!
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  58. I recommend watching Jordan Peterson's video: "The Main Sign that SHE IS GOO.". A lot better advice to a woman than this one. Don't listen to this BS.
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  59. I'm a woman and I agree. It's unnecessary to do this good morning texts. Talking after work during a call is better. We all need to focus at work in the morning.
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  60. ​ @hizzle1885 Why do you say this? What is wrong with that in your opinion?
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  61. ​ @BlackLion76  It is good to be with a financially independent woman because she will be with you because she wants you and loves you. The presence of a good man in a woman's life is something great that no kind of independence can replace. 😉
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  62. Not true. She may be a lot more attractive, make the same amount of money as you, and have a lot more options than you, and still like you and want to spoil you. It happened to me. Not everything is so "economic" in real life. This is too pessimistic. Women don't see you as a cold list of characteristics and benefits. Your essence, sense of humor, intelligence and other fascinating human qualities go way beyond this cold evaluation.
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  63. Not true at all. My mother took care of my dad after a stroke, my friend's aunt took care of her husband for 10 years personally after he had a stroke and couldn't move or talk anymore. For 10 years took care of him and dedicated her life to him. Love still exists!
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  64. I agree with what was said in this video. I had a friend twice my age who was the author of more than 80 books. And continued working 12hs a day even after he was 80! He was writing 5 books at the same time when he passed away at 89. One day, I asked him: "How do we find motivation?" He said that we have to build our motivation through discipline. That would create the energy that we can use to do things. Discipline, he said was doing useful things: exercise, go to bed early, work, study, eat very healthly, meditation, prayer, being grateful and avoiding wasting our time. He also said all people that get clinically depressed are always someone with no discipline. So wasting time, eating too much or in the wrong way, wasting the body's energy too much are not discipline and, therefore, lower's your energy and motivation to do things. So discipline in general, I guess, is the key to building motivation. Excellent video with which I agree 100%!
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  65. Good deal.
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  66.  @kreativeforce532  How do you know? Where do you get this information? It is wrong. All the women I know who got a divorce was because of infidelity and physical violence. And all divorce lawyers say the exact same thing. We should try to find this statistics somewhere, so all the discussions could be on a solid basis. Do you have a source?
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  67. I think most of the time the problem is that sex for men begins in the bedroom and for women it starts way before that. In the beginning, the circumstances lead to what women want: the context + the sex. The context being: going out, dinner together, a lot of conversation, maybe flowers, a simple gift, some compliment, companionship, and a man who is a gentleman. All man do this in the beginning and then, they stop, since "the job is done" and they don't need to put in all this "effort" anymore. A lot of married women feel they are now trapped: the guy just wants something raw, just a "little relief" and throw all the rest away. And then the men say the women are not "fullfilling their obligations" in the marriage, which makes it all worse. They don't understand that it s because they took all the fun of it for the woman removing the "context." The video above ilustrates this point by saying that it is possible to get "all the rest" (companionship, etc from other sources), but for a woman the whole package has to be inside the relationship for the sex to be good. Or else, they just feel frustrated and lose interest. Sex for a woman is the final result of a long process with many phases of connection and most man don't get that at all and just want to skip to the final phase, which is really frustrating and boring for a woman. Although he does a lot and is a good husband, he is not giving her what she wants and I think she feels like she is not being appreciated, is offended and the guy just wants a sex slave.
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  68. ​​ @ariannecapote7260  But being easy and promiscuous is not going to help a woman in any case. Even in this channel, there are videos showing clearly that Dr. Taraban recommends picking a woman with low "body count." It is better to try to get to know the men you like better and not sleep with him right away, and if he doesn't want you, find somebody else.
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  69. But was a she a wife or a girfriend? Did they live together? If she was only his girfriend, living in a separate home and paying her bills as a waitress, it doesn't make any sense to want her to do anything. It would make sense for her to help with the house and kid only if she is living with him and he is paying all the bills. I don't undertand what the situation was. She was just a girfriend and living with them and working as a waitress at the same time?
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  70. ​​​​ @brera2434  Over time, that may be room for someone else as we heal. But I think it is important to enjoy some time alone with no dates, etc, after a break up. When we find someone again after there has been some time after the break up, it would never feel like cheating because it is not cheating if you are broken up. Why would it feel like cheating? I think it can only feel like cheating or anything weird if we don't spend enough time alone before being with someone new.
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  71. Sure. His video lacks common sense.
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  72. ​​ @alice-hp7dh  Sure. I have the impression that some men (not all men) don't see a woman as their life companion and best friend first and foremost, but are more focused on what she can provide to them: sex, reproduction, housework, etc, the same way some women are also only focusing on receiving some advantages from the relationship, instead of looking for companionship and love above everything else. I think maybe that is the root of the problem.
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  73. I agree. A man should like you for who you are, not the "services" you provide.
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  74. ​ @martinjewell1335 I am sorry this happened to you. Some women are not acting right either.
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  75. ​ @wayward03 It is not just about going out, it's a hole different attitude of respect, kindness and companionship.
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  76. lynnferry291's comment in this video, also states she would leave a man that said that. I agree. If a man told me I need to sleep with him whenever he wants or else he will look for it elsewhere, I would leave him and think of all the other demands he would try to force on me. Take a look at her comment 8 months ago.
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  77. Very important for both. Only people who are happy with their own lives can be happy with someone.
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  78. Find a high-character woman: takes care of parents, treats everybody well, calm, disciplined, helps other people, not promiscuous, works hard, studies hard, loves to spoil you, generous, nd not selfish..
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  79.  @janidani1  He was an actor before being a psychologist.
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  80. Come on! It's not like that are all! Once attracted, always attracted. You just have to be a good person and hard-working. It's a lot simpler. We, women, have to go through countless beauty procedures just to be attractive:hair blow-dry, blong highlights, hair removal, skin care, make up, nails, etc. Endless hours again, and again, and again. That's exhausting. Be happy you are a man! 😉
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  81. ​​​​ @pappajohndodgybob So you are saying that a woman shouldn't go to university and have a job if she likes her job? (I'm a teacher and I like my job. I was in finance, but hated the environment. I changed careers. Too masculine and agressive for me. All about competition and I hate that. I prefer a job that is about helping people. Less money, but a more loving environment.)
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  82. ​ @feedyoursoul6630 But a man would want to commit to a woman that is so easy? If I were a man, I wouldn't. Get to know somebody better makes a lot more sense to me.
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  83. It's having the opposite effect on me when I read the comments like yours, and I see there are romantic men that care about more things than sex. A lot of women have a distorted view of men, and when I saw this channel with so many men being so wrong and blind about women, I could realize how blind I was about men.
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  84. Absolutely! Great comment.
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  85.  @fineless  I have apologized sincerely to a man and other people a thousand times like any other human being. It is never too much to say this. I think mostly when we are very young, teenagers and kids this is really more difficult. At least it was like that for me.
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  86. These descriptions of women in this channel are very caricatural, so we have to take them with a pinch of salt. They tend to be exaggerated.
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  87.  @neilmckay8649  Unfortunately some man act this way and seem to not even realize it.
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  88. That's real love. 😊❤
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  89. ​​ @Reallgeemachine  What I have seen happening to all women who got a divorce in my life was what I said: physical violence and cheating . But I forgot one more reason I have also seen: the 40-year-old husband left his wife with three kids for a 20-year-old. There was also a friend of mine from college who was a womanizer and suggested an open marriage to the mother of his two kids. She was furious and filed for divorce.
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  90. ​​ @smokingcrab2290  No. When a woman cheats, it is just as bad, of course. There is no difference. If people want to cheat, just don't get married and ruin somebody else's life.
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  91. ​ @smokingcrab2290  So instead of learning how to select high-character women, just be alone forever believing that bs.
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  92. All women want a boyfriend t enjoy life with. Most women don't care about flings and casual situations. It's better to be alone than waste time with something casual in the view of most women. Casual sex is trash, worth zero to most of us.
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  93. Perfect comment.
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  94. ​ @pappajohndodgybob  But clueless about what? That women shouldn't be so promiscuous and easy or that they should have their own income?
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  95. Exactly. He is only talking about a rich man who will do that, but many men in the comments seem to think they should get this too.
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  96. Great topic. How to select a high-character person. Still no video on that. Find a womam who loves you, and wants you to grow and be happy. One that took care of family when they were ill and helps people is a good start. 😊 Hard-working, disciplined, eats healthly I think is also a good start.
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  97. ​ @sirmeurtrier6951 This is good advice. Not the manipulation suggested in the video. You should be the one making the video.
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  98.  @iamtheoffenderofall  Sometimes it is a man's fault and sometimes it is a woman's fault. Sometimes a guy or a woman are just promiscuous and can't control it. I don't know what that feels like because I don't feel this way, but I've heard people tell me they just can't be with only one person.
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  99.  @KeyaCares  I agree. Even as a joke, it sounds like the joke of a snob womanizer that does not care about you or respects you.
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  100. ​​ @dekev7503  Would you envy younger guys and be hostile to them when you get old and less girls want you? I'm not old, but that's crazy.
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  101. I agree 100%. I think it is because without discipline, our mind drowns. Every depressed person is always someone with no discipline. I agree about the "drug dealers" too.
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  102. ​​There are many good videos, but I think it is strange that he never talks about love. It is as if it doesn't exist.
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  103. I think so. It is better to try that than threatening to cheat or any kind of agressive and selfish behavior.
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  104. ​ @Roman_4x5  Want someone to like you: When they voluntarily do something nice for you, find a way to reciprocate.
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  105. Women like men who like to do things to make other people happy. This is a big part of being a really successful men.
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  106.  @michaeldowd5545  Good point! I said exactly what a lot of women would like. You can say exactly what you think men would like and women will read it. I think you are absolutely right saying women should keep the same attitude as in the beginning too.
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  107. That's really terrible. But I think in this case, maybe they didn't choose a woman who really loved them. That's the mistake in this case, I think. Being a good husband is not the mistake. Choosing a woman who doesn't really love them is.
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  108. Very good comment. It applies to everybody.
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  109. ​ @ringoheinrich7021 Hypergamy is bs. If that really existed, there would be a lot of single men that could not get married. Not what hapoens in most states.
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  110. Many comments of men here saying this is manipulation, and other things too are clueless. Try to understand the other person instead of interpreting everything as manipulation. In many videos of this channel I see this comment.
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  111.  @ElimEx1  My God! This is so pessimistic and not true at all. A lot of women think men don't fall in love and just care about sex. You just have to find a high-character person who loves people in general. They are the only ones really able to love you too.
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  112. Bullies are psychopaths and we are all victims of them someday one way or another. I'm happy you are free from these bastards. They are still being bad to someone in their lives. We have to be around people who love us only and get away from the human garbage that bullies / psychopaths are. Be happy you don't have one in your family because they are the worst! Being around loving people is the best thing everybody can do.😊 Wish you all the best!
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  113.  @claraisnotmebutilikeit  Although it is, a lot of men in the comments seem to think Dr. Taraban is talking about all men...
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  114. I agree with you. And I'm a woman. We need to be happy in our own company too.
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  115.  @angelamwatts  It's really disgusting. Some even hide the wedding ring. The guy that hit on my sister, dropped his wedding ring on the floor before going in the sauna and she heard the noise. The fact that they were in their honeymoon and we would see them at breakfast in the morning made it all creepier.
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  116. 1,2 times a week seems pretty normal to me.
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  117. Fantastic comment. Exactly.
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  118. ​ @robiocraft Come on... No women are very interesting or funny? There are a lot of funny and intelligent people in this world. You need to meet more women. 😊
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  119. To all men: I admire how more in control of your emotions you are in general, how more disciplined and focused you usually are with your work, your capacity to be so much less dramatic and make problems smaller by removing that aspect of it, your protective attitude towards everybody and how more objective men are in general, more than women.
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  120.  @Marking_The_Way  I agree. It's very rude, and even if it's a joke it definitely goes against you because it shows you don't care what happens for taking such a big risk. Most women wouldn't like this joke.
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  121. I'm sorry that happened. But don't stop being like that. This world needs more men like you. 😊
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  122. We will never know if we were someone's first choice or not. But should be with someone who makes us feel we are.
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  123. Excellent!
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  124. People who are honest don't need to say this.
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  125. ​ @RameshbabuKoonan  But I didn't say anything about what you are saying. I just said a woman wants her boyfriend / husbando to be their best friend. How is that abusive or offend anybody?
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  126. That's bs. I would never say anything and find extremely disrespecful. It's amazing how 1 guy says any bs about women and everybody thinks it's true. Generalizations are usualky not very smart.
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  127. He didn't mean any of this. He meant women are less likely to cheat if they are happy in the physical aspect of the relationship, while for men no matter how happy he is physically in the relationship, it doesn't change the likelihood of them cheating.
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  128. ​ @obviouslyasockpuppet  I'm not referring to that either.
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  129. ​ @Aribbonofsoundmen  Come on, that's not such a difficult thing to do. Mostly young and immature people do this. (not apologize)
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  130.  @fineless  Sometimes we also apologize to be nice and show appreciation or to show that we are being careful with that person to avoid any misunderstandings. There are good and bad people men and women. You have to see if somebody has a good character or not. Not believe in words, but actions. We can't be narrow-minded and say "I don't trust any man" or "I don't trust any woman". We have to develop the ability to judge people's character.
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  131.  @celiajames600  In this channel, there are many pre-conceived ideas about women. Maybe it is because being Dr. Taraban such an adorable handsome and intelligent hard-working man, he ends up having a lot of options and dating younger women who are immature women because all the characteristics he describes seems to be from immature women. Maybe that's why. He also seems to be one of the guys who is under the impression that women are primarily interested in a guy's money, when, in reality, a man so full of qualities like him, would have a lot of women interested even if he wasn't successful and had a simpler job.
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  132. As long as they reciprocate and aren't selfish.
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  133. Great arrangement!
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  134. What about male body count? No one ever even mentions. 😅 I wonder if there are men with high optionality with relatively low body count because they don't enjoy being promiscuous.
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  135. Me too. I just want a man that is hard-working and middle class like me. I don't care about money. Just want to be with someone who is attractive in my opinion, intelligent, has a great sense of humor and a gentleman.
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  136. What? This is absurd. A lot of women work and are middle class and just want a hard-working men like them. Most women are not psychopaths just interested in money looking for rich men. You can find more high-character people like this girl you said. There are still a lot of good people in this world. 😊
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  137. Excellent comment.
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  138. Very interesting video. I think it applies to other kinds of relationships as well. It's a good a idea to try that to calm down a nervous and loud person so that an actual conversation is possible later. I have a friend who was able to do that with a very angry husband.
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  139. ​​ @paccawacca4069  But aren't we here to give our opinion and make comments and try to understand other people's point of view??? Why do you think it is bad if a woman starts working again after the kids grow up and are spending most of their time at school?
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  140. Very good! More women need to read this!
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  141. ​ @brianmeen2158  I agree.
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  142. She won't take cheating no matter what level of attraction. If you cheat, you become disgusting and unnatractive. Period.
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  143. I love to cook and I like to do some cleaning and organization. It is part of life. The problem is being financially dependent and not being appreciated. This is what a lot of women are tired of. It is not a matter of pride. They don't want to go through what they saw their mothers and other women going through.
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  144. I agree.
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  145. Better safe than sorry. Women have to keep that in mind in the kind of world we live in. The risk of not having that is too high.
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  146. Not true.I'm here trying to understand the male perspective better. And I know a lot of women that are curious and care too. Maybe your friends didn't feel comfortable asking you as a men.
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  147. ​ @mudblood9699  But she had this rules for a reason. So she is basically going against what she likes. I just want to say to men that they shouldn't measure attraction this way and be disappointed if the answer is no. It doesn't mean the attraction is not high. There are better ways to know the level of attraction. I think this has nothing to do with it.
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  148. ​​ @Straga_Severa_  What is your source? This is not what I see or heard. All psyquiatrists I heard always said the opposite.
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  149. ​ @rhinoskin7550  I agree. The best option not only for a man is to find a well-balanced person who has a job they like and their own goals in life. These disciplined people are always more balanced, calm, and rational compared to the ones whose lives are a mess. All people with depression, agressive, etc are always people with no discipline.
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  150.  @TheAdditionalPylons  Maybe sugar babies think like that. I think there are only two options: work, help pay the bills and share housework and childcare or do housework and childcare. If married to a wealthy man, he can get a maid to help, but she should at least cook and take care of the kids. I think some women are angry that they work and share the bills and the man still thinks all the housework / childcare should be done by the woman too. Or that if they want to work and study and share the housework with the whole family after the kids grow up, they don't let them. But not working and not doing anything is crazy.
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  151. ​​ @BH-he3wg No. A lot of people who want to immigrate start out in cleaning. I saw a Brazilian doctor working as a cleaner. It does happen.
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  152. ​​​ @hman2912  Please don't give a woman any tasks. Women fall in love when men reciprocate what women VOLUNTARILY do for them And fall out of love with selfish men. Just common sense.
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  153. Come on! If attraction is there in the beggining, it will always be there. Men get sick of the same woman (my male friends say), but women never get sick of the same men. Physically. If the man is a good man (hard-working, not violent, not drug user, not a cheater, no major character flaw, etc), if there was ever a strong attraction, it will always be there for a woman. For us it is worse because men seem to get sick from being with the same woman.
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  154. I usually really like a lot of the videos here and always pay a compliment and think they are great. But, as a woman, I'm sorry to say this, but I don't know about that... I think it sounds a little agressive to me. I've never heard this, but I think I would consider breaking up with a man that said that. It makes him look agressive and women are afraid of this kind of behavior. A man that gets angry or annoyed about this shows a red flag to a woman... Sex is supposed to be spontaneous and fun and that would kill the magic. I think this is not a good idea. Better to try to be with someone that has similar eating habbits: carnivores, vegetarians and vegans because they will have a more similar drive or just try to insist a little in a more subtle way.
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  155.  @ForceAlfaF1  Yes, I agree that there are a lot of psychopaths (people who want to take sth from other people and feel no love), but saying that all women or most women are psychopaths and just a few are exceptions is a little too much, don't you think? Or saying that most men are.
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  156. ​​ @Kharnellius  I'm not saying anything should be given to anybody. I meant to say that everybody should work hard to achieve financial freedom. And a married woman should go back to working and studying after the kids grow up. And the cleaning tasks can be divided by everybody in the family.
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  157. Only the male perspective is shown.
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  158. ​​ @Dejavu20248  Maybe he could do a second part to address the problems it creates for women. Not being independent financially is the problem, not cooking and cleaning.
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  159. I think the problem is survival strategy and self development, not ego, and that this structure needs adjustments. First, this scheme has flaws because the woman puts herself in a very vulnerable position. What if the guy gets sick and can't work anymore and doesn't have money anymore? What if there is a divorce and she has to work? What if the guy cheats? What if he becomes violent? What if he dies? Second, every humam being needs to study and work to constantly develop their minds and capacity to survive in this world. Not having that, is very frustrating. And third, I think a woman needs time to be a mother and time for herself too. With so much cooking and cleaning, my mom never really had time to play with us and spend time with us. Properly cleaning a house, specially with kids, takes a lot more than 2 hours a month. What about the bathrooms? When everybody was on vacation, my mom was still working. She could only rest when we traveled. She didn't have a vacation. And also: what happens when the kids grow up? They will spend most of their days out of the house and the woman will be doing what? So, if the guy has a lot of money, and if he really loves a woman, he should take all that into account. And women: money = freedom. So I think it is better to pay a cleaning lady and leave only the cooking and child raising for the woman so she really has time to be a mother. And after the kids grow up a little, the woman goes back to studying and working in a job she loves. The cooking in the woman's hands I think is important and strategic so she can create healthy habbits for the kids and improve the husband's health and quality of life. She can feel like a woman and spoil him creating healthy and delicious food. But the cleaning, I think it doesn't make sense for a woman who went to university and grad school quit her work permanently to become a maid. It is better to invest more time raising the kids and cooking. And going back to work when the kids grow up.
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  160. I think this is an excellent piece of advice that applies to everybody. Thank you.
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  161. ​​​​ @babyamyxo-o6c  Exactly. I agree with you 100%. It is better for the woman to keep working or else she has no power in life. They don't care about the female perspective. Why not go back to working and studying after the kids grow up? I wrote it in the most recent comments. If the man has money, it makes no sense to want their wifes to have such a miserable life.
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  162. I agree.
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  163. ​ @andrew6815 Excellent tip!
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  164. But do you want a romantic relationship with a woman? Or you just don't want both? Because as a woman, I don't need a lot of sex, but want a partner. People exagerate, I think. So I am curious to know if there is a man who wants a relationship with a woman with not so much sex or no sex.
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  165. There was a fantasy that there was enough affinity to make it work, but there wasn't.
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  166. I agree.
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  167. I think people should be more focused on giving then receiving for relationships to work peacefully. Both men and women.
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  168. I love Japanese culture and high ethical values. There are a lot of Japanese people in my country. The happiest couple I know are my friends who are Japanese. There is a big Japanese community here and they became a mix of high ethics and the easy-going sociable friendly Brazilian way. All women I know married to Japanese guys are happily married. Maybe I should try this out too. 😂
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  169. Maybe all humanity will end up in relationships with robots that act exactly how we want. It will be a tempting option.
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  170. ​ @elibennett6168  Women fall in love when men reciprocate what women VOLUNTARILY do for them.
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  171. ​ @anthonynosike  Excellent comment!
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  172. ​ @tinap8227 Good one! 😂
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  173. ​ @nickim270  Exactly. Some people, men and women, are abusive and selfish by nature. We have to find someone loving, or it's just better to be alone and free.
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  174. ​ @celiajames600  Exactly. This is not more common in women. A better tittle would be "why some people don't apologize".
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  175. ​​ @mminniear984  You don't have to be. I don't know your age, but a lot of women are single at a later age because they thought it was better for them to have a serious boyfriend, but have their own house or did not want to have kids or wanted to go to grad school, travel, achieve financial independence first. It's not necessarily a bad person. Probably more mature to deal with the responsabilities of marriage.
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  176. ​ @kathsmith4749 Exactly! Very well put! You should state all this in the general comments.😊
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  177. There should be a video adressing male hypergamy too. Women's hypergamy tend to be intelectual and financial and male hypergamy is biological. (Always want to date a younger and more attractive female.) Both hypergamies creating problems nowadays for both sides.
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  178. Not getting to know somebody first sounds so superficial. It is amazing it became so normal nowadays. No courtship removes all the fun for women.
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  179.  @fte6525  Both, of course. A transaction would be the opposite. If these basic things are not present, expecting something as an obligation.
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  180. ​ @smokingcrab2290 This is not complicated. It is actually very simple and basic.
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  181.  @michaeldowd5545  But is not jumping ropes. It is the attitude that matters.
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  182. ​ @davidhaines238  I'm sorry to hear that. It seems you were being so nice and doing all the right things. I don't know what the problem was then. She should have told you. But please don't do what you said (stop winning and dining) because I think it is just going to make everything worse with another woman. I think women should be honest and give the men a reason, whatever it is.
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  183. The 2 things women want: 1. high character; 2. an intelligent man who is always working on developing himself and his mind (high character includes: hard working, kind, helps other people, faithful who are able to be happy with a monogamous relationship and not promiscuous. intelligent includes: takes good care of his health).
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  184. ​ @Straga_Severa  What you are saying makes a lot of sense. I probably misinterpreted what he said then. Thanks. 😊
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  185. My grandpa played chess and botcha and made a lot of friends this way. 😊
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  186. I also had the same impression.
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  187. ​ @EE12CSVT But a trad will be like a child: can't help pay the bills and be a real partner. Not so good for a man too.
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  188. Everybody likes to spoil people they like, specially women. But there has to be RECIPROCITY, or people feel taken for granted, and undervalued. BALANCE is the key.
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  189. TO ALL MAN: All women want a calm rational angel like Dr. Taraban teaches you to be in this video and seems to be so himself. Learn to be like this, respecful and calm and as long as you choose well, you will have a peaceful relationship. I tested it myself and I can say that it really works. Do whatever it takes: meditation, passiflora tea, etc.
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  190. I would do this too if I could.😊
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  191. It will lead to attracting gold-diggers that just care about money. Really successful men are gentlemen and nice to everybody.
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  192. ​​ @Beethovenviolin  Very good. You are right. When it is not about love, and so much about selfishness, not about giving, but only receiving, we get what we see today in so many cases.
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  193. ​ @lauracolo06 I am amazed to see men nowadays still think a woman should be their maids!
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  194. ​ @lauracolo06  So if I work and make good money, I would want a man to be my driver, plumber, construction worker to renovate my house, chef and sex slave with no free will, available for the service all the time. Plus: with no salary or vacation. He can't have a job or an income because if I cheat or become violent to him, he can not do anything about it. Would they be happy with that???
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  195. Agree. They can just look for a professional service.
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  196. Ask a "professional lover" to take care of you if you are ever old and sick with no money and you will see the difference between a professional and wife who loves you. Don't let a bitter man who made bad decisions in life ruin yours. Just choose better than he did.😉
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  197. ​ @Casutama Excellent. I agree 100%.
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  198. ​​ @ggrthemostgodless8713  That's a new one I've never heard! I thought all sugar babies were providing "the service" right from the beginning. But I guess a lot of these men are gentlemen deep inside, so they don't act this way even in this situation.
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  199. It's funny that nobody talks about how delusional are the men in their 50's wanting to date women half their age, and thinking the gold-diggers that they end up with really want to be with them. I had a teacher at the university who was from a Greek descent. She and her brother were stunningly attractive. She said her brother "played the field" a lot for many years because he could. When he turned 50, he finally wanted to commit, and was depressed because no girl in his target age wanted to be with him. I'm not saying this to be bad to men. All I'm saying is if you care about finding true love, don't wait until you're 50 to commit. A woman in her 20's and early 30's is full of options and prefer to date the youbg guy her own age. Women like youbg men too. They are not from another planet. So a lot of people are delusional, not only women. How many unattractive or not rich man do you see with a much younger woman? I see a lit if delusional men in the comments of these videos too. Be careful.
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  200. There has to be a balance in giving. I 100% agree. If a woman is not contributing 50%-50% with money they should compensate with housework. I agree. It's just common sense. That's why women who want more freedom should work hard to make more money or be single and only date the men who has more money. Each one can pay their own bills and do their own housework this way. I think the real problem is a lot of people being too selfish; always wanting the arrangement to benefit them more than the other person.
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  201. ​ @Cindybabe99 Sure. Cooking creates tradition and raising kids has value of course. But there is no reason for the wife of a rich man to spend her time cleaning. That's ridiculous. She'd better spend her time studying and working a job that she likes and developing her mind after the kids grow up a little, if they have kids.
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  202. ​ @eeaotly It is a amazing how they all seem to think a woman should be their maids. Raising kids and cooking can create value, traditions of course. But why not spend her time studying or working instead of cleaning if the guy has money? I'm amazed to see it seems no man care about having an intelligent woman with them. They prefer to have a submissive maid!
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  203. ​ @dancingrl7350  But I didn't say any rich man would marry a maid. That never happens. What I said is that I am shocked to see that a lot of men in these comments and in the video think an educated woman should be their maid even if the guy has money. I think cooking and child raisin has value, but if the guy is rich, he should pay a maid. And the woman should go back to working and studying when the kids grow up.
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  204. As a woman, I don't agree. Any pasdive-agressive approach doesn't work.
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  205. ​ @Gmmmgm  I agree.
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  206. We only really respect people who love us and have character. I agree.
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  207. ​ @hiannahgus574  Excellent.
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  208.  @jeffbetz7344  Sure! They are talking about psychopaths, not most people.
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  209. ​ @learncadadia7832  This is about psychopaths not women! Come on!
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  210. So make your course for women. Maybe a book like Steve Santagati's "The Manual". 😁 Teach us how to find a pattner that wants a woman who likes to read and does not want a submissive servant. Women want a partner and a best friend, not a boss.
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  211. Did you keep working as a therapist while doing all that?
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  212. Excellent. I agree 100%.
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  213.  @sa.sa3917  I hope you get better. 🙏 I've been dealing with some physical problems too.
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  214. I also prefer to be with someone my own age. 😊
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  215. It's crazy how things are in the US. In Germany, nobody has kids before 30. A lot of women are having kids in their 40's.
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  216. ​ @robdavidson4812 I agree. I wish there were more men that respect women like you.
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  217. Very good comment.
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  218. A walk in the park is a great idea for a date.
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  219. Very interesting. It would be nice to see a part 2 with the solution that you recommend to your patients. I saw a channel in which real life cases are discussed in the videos and the therapist says what he would suggest to improve the situation. It was very interesting too. 😊
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  220. ​ @SHANONisRegenerate I've seen this happen too.
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  221. I think women should get married over 30 because they filter out the men who only want to be with young women and see them as a product with an expiration date. Every time a much older men was hitting on me, I thought: "Why can't he be with someone his own age??" These men who only want to be with women who are much younger are the ones that will trade their wives at 40, the "old product" for one who is 20. I have seen cases of women who were 40 and their husbands left them with three kids for one who was 20.
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  222. Very good.
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  223. Instead of looking for a balanced solution for 2024, some men still think we should go back to the 1950! They just ignore all the problems and risks the old scheme had.
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  224.  @andyjohnson5484  I think just some people (not only women) do that. It is too pessimistic to think that most women or most people are psychopathic like this. It is not our true nature.
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  225. ​ @borisnegrarosa9113  I don't think one generation later we as a group involuted to more psychos. Saying most are like this may be too pessimistic.
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  226. ​​ @angelamwatts  I can't believe they do this either. I think it is disgusting when a married man hits on other women. Once I was in a hotel with my sister and there was a couple there in their honeymoon. The guy tried to kiss my sister in the sauna, which she considered disgusting and immediately left! He was in his honeymoon! We felt so sorry for his wife.
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  227. I am a teacher and I love my job. After the kids grow up, I don't see why a woman should stop working and studying if she doesn't want too. The cleaning can be shared by the whole family and the cooking too. And each human being can do their own laundry.
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  228.  @johntim3491  I think he means another kind of respect. He means the attitude of not doing something bad against someone. Of course real respect is based on love, not fear. He just meant something else.
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  229. I work as teacher and I love my job. I would love to be a therapist too. I think studying and working is not with the purpose of becoming a CEO, or anything like it. I think we need to work and study to develop our minds, to grow as a human being, to develop discipline. Women are in a vulnerable position if they don't have their own income. And that is what needed to change.
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  230. The men that think this way, are exactly the ones that will cheat.
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  231. ​ @mandaloin  The same happens to women. It's hard to find both at the same time.
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  232. Good piece of advice. Wow, six months sounds like a long time. Women, be wise! We tend to get attached too fast. So it is better to find an excuse to take things slow to have time to evaluate who you are dealing with.
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  233. The problem is not too much interest in sex; is too little interest in doing other things outside the bedroom. Talking to a lot of married women, what I always see them complain about is: their husbands just come to them for sex, and don't spend enough time with them doing other things outside the bedroom. For a woman, sex begins outside the bedroom and is a long process of connection. A lot of them say this. I would recommend, go on a date once a week, do other things together. It's extremely frustrating for a woman if a man only comes to her for sex, and don't spend enough time with them doing other things.
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  234. ​​​ @claraisnotmebutilikeit  I agree100%. I'd rather have an egalitarian relationship with everybody doing their part of house chores e doing their own laundry and a salary. Throw your brain in the trash, stop going to university and just be someone's accessory. Very tempting proposal... (not)
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  235. I also prefer to talk to people who don't wear a mask and are humble and natural. I feel the same as you with kids and people who suffered.
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  236. I think there is no contradiction. The easy milk is for sport and practice, and the not promiscuous milk can be taken seriously.
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  237. ​ @NolandaNolanda  I agree.
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  238. ​ @EC-yl7xk Exactly. Thank God.
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  239. ​ @marpro212  Wow! You should be the one making the videos! A lot more common sense!
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  240. Wisemen from all time explain that men loose a lot of energy when they have sex or masturbate, more than women. Having a weird feeling afterwards they say is a reflex of this loss. Like feeling guilty for wasting your personal energy and harming your own personal energy and power. Throughout history, they say people should use their sexual energy very carefully because it is very powerful. They reccomend not wasting it with anyone, and using it carefully to connect deeper with someone you already know and love or to create a new life. It's not a "moral lesson" they say, it's just the disciplined way of using these energy to benefit ourselves and be able to apply these energy to our objectives. These wisemen have always said that incentivising people to be promiscuous is making them less powerful. Nothing to do with empty morals, just physics.
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  241. Absolutely agree.
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  242. Dr. Taraban has a really good video about that (for married man) in this channel. I also wrote a big comment on the video The Importance of Sex in a Relationship to which a lot of the few women that watch this channel agreed. I wrote it to help men with this particular question.
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  243. And when this young woman becomes older, you look for a younger one? And why would a 20 something year old woman enjoying her youth want to be with a guy 10 years older? Everything goes both ways. I know a man who is 60 years old, very well financially, who only wants to date women in their 20's! Needless to say he is alone and always afraid the women he dates are only interested in his money. Never got married and never will.
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  244. ​ @Smartcom5  Only superficial people feel this way. But it must be hard for an actress... Suddenly, you can't do your job anymore. That's brutal.
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  245. ​ @TGP109  True! They forget that a lot of this "attention" can be disrespecful, not always loving.
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  246. Hey! 😅
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  247. I love Trump and I'm for women studying, working and having their own money as something very important. I don't know if you can call this feminist. I love men, and love to cook and spoil them and don't want to be a "girl boss" type. By the way: I'M SO HAPPY TRUMP WON!!!!!!!!! THANK GOD! 🙏😊
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  248. It that was true, everybody would be happy and all monks would unhappy, and that is not what happens.
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  249. ​ @MrIrishscouse  Sorry to intrude. I think it is of course easier if you are sure they feel the same for you. If you chose well, they probably do. If they don't, and show it through their actions, you can be relieved and be happy that you are letting go off a psychopath, which is a great thing for your future happiness.
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  250. I think all human beings like to spoil people they like, specially women. But there has to be RECIPROCITY, or people feel taken for granted, and undervalued. BALANCE is the key. SELFISHNESS destroys relationships.
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  251. Why don't you try doing for her what you want her to do for you or doing something for her? Mayeb she will feell happy and want to reciprocate. I think is't worth trying. 🙂
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  252. Honestly, women usually want to date men their own age or just a little older. If there is a big age difference, they are usually looking for a "sugar daddy". If I were a men looking for real love, I would date a woman my own age to avoid gold-diggers.
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  253. I think we still have to get to know people better before sleeping with them. It's just common sense. I know handsome, intelligent, rich men who said they think easy women are disposable and they get sick of them.
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  254. ​ @stevegaines-vq3bd  I'm saying women and everybody should be fair. 😉
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  255. ​ @psychacks Sorry, but I completely disagree! If a man does not invest emotionally and does not invest time in a relationship, it is a huge turn off for a woman. Maybe some woman act like that because they are in love, not because they are happy with this behavior.
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  256. ​ @SirShiv7  I meant to say that this is a good strategy in the video, but it only works if you reciprocate,. Wanting reciprocity, it's not being selfish; it's being fair. You just twisted everything. Think of what you just said.
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  257. ​ @Jughead24  They only resent you if you don't reciprocate.
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  258. ​ @donkeyparadise9276  They were in complete control of the finances because women didn't have any money and didn't use to work.
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  259. ​ @IAmTheEggMan111  It's very disrespecful. A lot of women here said they would never do this too. Generalizing never works. Most women consider that disgusting.
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  260. ​​ @ssing7113 Thank God I don't have a boss. I work online with a lot of freedom. 😊 Good luck finding a woman that wants to be like an employee.
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  261. ​​​ @ssing7113 Thank God I don't have a boss. I work online with a lot of freedom. 😊 Women want a partner in life and a best friend. Not a comander and chief.
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  262. ​ @mminniear984  What a cute unicorn.🤗 Come one, most people apologize. This channel makes women look like psychos. A little exaggerated.
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  263.  @ChadAV69  How old are you?
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  264. Why don't you ask a woman friend to talk to her and find out why she wants to break up? Someone who could get an honest answer from her. Maybe there is something you can do. I think it all depends on why she wanted to break up. I think if there was no cheating or physical violence, you may still have a chance.
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  265. ​What I meant to say is that if you are dealing with a mature woman, her feelings will most likely be stable if a man doesn't mess up by doing something like I described.
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  266.  @rayrwyr  Not everybody is impulsive.
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  267. ​ @VivatVeritas1  I meant to say that the feelings of a woman who really loves a man tend to be very stable and women will only leave them if they do something like cheat, be verbally or physically agressive, jealous in a crazy way, etc.
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  268. This channel seems to be all about manipulation and how men can get the most sex possible, so women should study this channel to get better at identifying this type of one- dimensional men and behavior. I am learning a lot and recommend to all women.
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  269. Very smart solution. 😊
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  270.  @Khan-rz8qi  Is this comment from a man or a woman? It makes me happy if it's a man saying this.
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  271. I agree a 100%.
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  272. But why would you be with a narcissist? Just vet these people and choose well. 😉
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  273. 😂😂😂😂
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  274. I'm a woman and 100% agree this behavior is ridiculous. The librarian woman's comment is beyond stupid. She is lucky to find a hard-working and intelligent man who actually enjoys reading and acts in the most ridiculous way possible. Unbelievable! This is not a feminist; it is a complete idiot.
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  275. Sure.
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  276. ​ @pazzodi3 That must be a joke 😂
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  277. Me too. Very superficial.
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  278. Better to have your own life and money and find a high character man.
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  279.  @paccawacca4069  Ok. If a woman can go back to work after the kids grow up, and share the cleaning with the kids, and each one does their own laundry, that seems fair to me.
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  280. ​ @francoisebekaert8137 Exactly.
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  281. ​​ @miovicdina7706 Maybe that would be good. I see this happening so many times.
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  282. ​ @cheetavontiebolt9971  Yes, she has to put in an effort too. So much can be done for such a long time. Take a look at Tanny Raw. She's over 50, and as a raw vegan, looking thin, young and pretty. She's even getting married again.
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  283.  @keithbernstein7436  I'm glad to help. 😊
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  284.  @charlesmartin783  What can a woman do so that they don't feel this way?
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  285. ​ @suemalone5394  So simple and tbey don't get it. Look at the comment just above yours saying it is "manipulation".
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  286. ​ @jasonsamuel6601  We try to explain, but men just don't get it.
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  287. Makes sense. I read something similar in the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". Do all men feel this way? Prefer not to talk to feel better. What do you guys think?
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  288. ​ @abraxadabra4224 Some are good, but many are exactly like you said and I agree with you. This passive-agressive approach doesn't work. Specially in this particular video.
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  289. ​ @HannahV554 I agree.
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  290. That was cute. 😊 I think even better for a recent date would be: I think you are very attractive, I like your sense of humor and I really enjoy talking to you, but unfortunately I had a recent break up and we are going to give it another try. 😊 A handsome intelligent guy told me this once after one date and I thought he was a real gentleman. It was probably a lie, but it was really nice.
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  291. Fantastic video and analysis! The characters' names are pure genius! My favorite video so far! 😊 I loved the longer video this time. Please make more videos like this! I suggest an analysis of Phantom of the Opera! 😊
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  292. What I refief to hear some common sense.
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  293. Please don't forget to make: "Test him! How to screen men." 😁🙏
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  294. ​ @rayg.2431  Excellent! And it's really true! It happened to me. It's a major red flag if he's rude in this exact situation.
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  295.  @Marking_The_Way  It's a good sign if he does. I agree. Although not a very strong one since most men will do that.
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  296. ​ @aforabe1197 What a great comment! So generous and intelligent. Maybe you should be the one making the video.
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  297. It's not true. I've had great relationships with great men without having sex. They don't value easy women. Womanizers need them to believe in this lie and ilusion or else who are they going to use to have their fun?
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  298. ​ @nancytoregas9380  A guy who really likes you will wait for you and never try to pressure you into anything.
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  299. I'm so sorry. Just tell her you don't agree with this video. It's demeaning to women. She probably didn't get you.
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  300. I agree. A lot of women actually enjoy cooking to spoil a man.
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  301. I love this well written summaries. They are so articulate! Impressive! 😊❤
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  302. I liked this video. It applies to women too who are trying to break up with men in a good way too or deal with men who are immature. A rejection that will make them feel better - Great concept! 😂😂
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  303. ​​ @aim-for-greatn3z947 Become a vegan. That does help your independence. A natural doctor told me animal products make your body out of balance.
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  304. I think sex too soon ruins things. Some things never change. Just common sense, in my opinion.
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  305. Me too.
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  306.  @sinisterkitty8411  Exactly.
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  307. ​ @GrumpyCat-mw5xl  How sad... Such a beautiful woman being an addict... Breaking up is the right thing to do. We can't help these people.
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  308. ​I agree.
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  309. I recommend millermanhall's comment here 2 weeks ago. I think he found a much better solution to this problem.
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  310. ​ @whitneybates168 Excellent comment.
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  311. ​ @witoldschwenke9492 I think you are only talking about immature women in their 20's.
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  312. ​ @EE12CSVT So say exactly what you think modern are doing wrong and whatyou think they should be doing. Some women are studying this channel and trying to understand the man's point of you.
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  313. ​ @soumyodipkanrar3032  But what do you mean by support exactly? Emotional support, sharing the bills, cooking and cleaning?
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  314. So what do you mean by support? Not working, cooking and cleaning and taking care of kids?
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  315. Brilliant comment
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  316. Just missing the reciprocity part.
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  317.  @nightmareTomek  He forgot to mention that there has to be reciprocity. Being selfish is what destroys relationships.
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  318. Exactly. We have a life. We want to enjoy it with a partner, not be their servant.
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  319. Dr. Taraban has a really good video about that (for married man) in this channel. I also wrote a big comment on the video The Importance of Sex in a Relationship to which a lot of the few women that watch this channel agreed. I wrote it to help men with this particular question.
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  320.  @dianafarmer5445  True. There has to be a balance. Both need to do things, not only women.
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  321.  @JPs-q1o  That's your opinion about women? You need to choose better, wow.
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  322.  @willek1335  It is a very strong natural tranquilizer with no side effects. In 15 minutes, you get sleepy. Even stops panic attacks. A natural doctor taught this to my family. 😊
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  323. It's good to hear this. 😊
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  324.  @malekkushimuzik3580  You are right. I was just thinking from the point of view of a single person with no kids.
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  325. ​ @Doberman_6773  What is a 10% guy?
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  326. Sounds nice! 😂😂😂😂😂
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  327. Of course it is. It's just common sense.
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  328. Just common sense.
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  329. Of course he's wrong. Being promiscuous is not good for anybody.
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  330. ​ @RedOakPictures  Most women file for divorce for physical violence, drug abuse (on the male part), and infidelity. Source: All women I saw in my life getting a divorce, books and divorce attorneys on youtube and on tv. Just look around. Very easy to see. Who is more promiscuous? Who is more violent? Who drinks more?
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  331. ​​ @cheanim-jv2tj  Many divorce lawyers say this on youtube. All women I've ever seen in my life getting a divorce was due to physical violence, drug abuse on the male part (especially alcohol) and infidelity. Just look around you: Who is more violent? Who drinks more? Who is more promiscuous? Is it women???
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  332. ​ @cheanim-jv2tj Many divorce lawyers say this on youtube. All women I've ever seen in my life getting a divorce was due to physical violence, drug abuse on the male part (especially alcohol) and infidelity. Just look around you: Who is more violent? Who drinks more? Who is more promiscuous? Is it women???
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  333. ​​ @Beethovenviolin  You're probably right.
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  334. ​ @zenonvandeventer5229  I'm a woman, so, of course, I know many women. Believe all this bs and be alone forever then.
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  335. ​ @zenonvandeventer5229  I actually know a lot of people and this is what I see. I wish I was wrong. But we can still find good people. It's just a little harder with so many psychos in this world.
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  336. ​​ @zmadani341  I didn't say anything that was being "angry towards men". What I'm angry about is people being brainwashed to hate each other. Generalising is very stupid, yet; this is what I see in a lot of the comnents here. I never did that. (Generalise men). That's stupid and unfair to them. I respect good and high-character people.
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  337. ​ @MatheusGambati Hi Matheus. Read the comment I made. Maybe you can have the good sex life again. Try not to impose or demand. Try what I suggested there. I think it can help you.
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  338. ​ @stephanie7572 No woman is drama free just wanting sex like men. Eventually, she will want the whole package .
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  339. This works for men just looking for sex and gold-diggers. I guess they deserve each other. 😂
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  340. Wisemen from all time explain that men loose a lot of energy when they have sex or masturbate, more than women. Having a weird feeling afterwards they say is a reflex of this loss. Like feeling guilty for wasting your personal energy and harming your own personal energy and power. Throughout history, they say people should use their sexual energy very carefully because it is very powerful. They reccomend not wasting it with anyone, and using it carefully to connect deeper with someone you already know and love or to create a new life. It's not a "moral lesson" they say, it's just the disciplined way of using these energy to benefit ourselves and be able to apply these energy to our objectives. These wisemen have always said that incentivising people to be promiscuous is making them less powerful. Nothing to do with empty morals, just physics.
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  341. Perfect! I agree 100%. Probably my favorite video of this channel. I agree that everything has a cause and in this case Dr. Taraban said it perfectly: indiscipline, loneliness and unfulfillment. So, INDISCIPLINE is the primary cause of depression. It is a lot of work to change this, so people look for an easy solution at the drugstore that doesn't solve anything. We can see how much this true in our own lives: depressed people are ALWAYS indisciplined people. Try to find someone very busy with working, studying, doing exercise, eating healthly, helping people, reading, playing an instrument, meditating, etc being depressed. You will find nobody. I hope people really listen to what is being said in this video.
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  342. I agree with you.
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  343. ​ @kelvincasing5265 The problem is that women are very frustrated by putting in so much effort and work and not having an income, independence and freedom. If the guy cheated, became violent or they got a divorce, what would she do? The old system was not good enough. A woman needs to be able to study and develop her mind too.
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  344. I think a man cannot make himself attractive or not to a woman. He can only ruin or not the natural attraction that is already there.
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  345. I think chivalry should be for both sexes and it is not so rational or involves money, but it is rather a loving appreciation of the special characteristics of the opposite sex. It is that loving feeling of a special kind of admiration and respect shown through actions to the opposite sex. When a man opens the door and is specially careful with an old lady, when they admire the feminine nature in their delicate gestures, when they help a woman carry something heavy acknowledging they are physically weaker, when they say something that shows a special kind of admiration for the feminine nature. It is also when a woman behaves in a motherly way towards all men, gives a piece of cake she made to the doorman of her building after someone has been rude to him, or gives motherly advice to a young boy who is not her son, spoils her boyfriend when he has a simple cold by making soup for him and buying him a "cold basket" (a basket with vitamine C, teddy bear, fruit, small gifts to cheer him up, etc) (I thought that was so adorable and bought it for my ex) exaggerating a little bit with some unnecessary care to show her appreciation. It is also when a woman is extremelly careful with what she says to a man, making sure it serves only to improve his self confidence and well being, or is specially supportive in her comments because she knows his male friends are not as careful in their words as her female friends are with her. It is a special respecful attention paid to the opposite sex.
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  346. All men should watch a movie called: Alfie.
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  347. I think no woman expects that. They either work or take care of the house and raise kids. But all women I know married to wealthy men have a maid to help them.
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  348. Exactly! I bet a lot are.
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  349. ​ @dekev7503 An option to be with gold-diggers mostly. Most women prefer to date around their age. Not only women are delusional. Some men really think they can date 30 years younger and find someone who loves them. Not impossible, but very unlikely.
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  350. ​ @jeanr8359 You got married at 60? Very interesting. 😊
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  351. ​ @georgeelder8415 Not true. Many people validate their diplomas abroad.
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  352. ​ @EC-yl7xk Exactly. Why not want her to study and work if she wants after the kids grow up a little, instead of spend her whole day mostly cleaning? I saw a woman married to a rich guy who spent an enourmous amount of time cleaning a huge house like a maid. What's the point?
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  353. ​ @moleahy6880 Happy for you guys!
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  354. ​ @pimphandstrong6620 What are the right things?
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  355.  @tiaanders5542  He didn't marry her. Just f_ her. But no woman is as useless as in this little story. Either has a job or work in the house and raises kids. This is just a charicatural description. I've never seen anyone like this is my life.
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  356. ​ @jesusisgod4992  Congratulations for your achievements! I think what women are upset about here is not that they think cleaning is "low-level service", but the fact that in 2024 so many men still think a woman should be at home doing all the cleaning instead of going back to work after the kids grow up if she wants to and everybody in the house sharing the cleaning. Cleaning is part of life and some people even enjoy doing some (my case). What many women don't like is the idea of being financially dependent, and not having the freedom to go back to working and studying if she wants to after the kids grow up because all the cleaning is only her responsibility.
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  357. ​ @iacangelofinancialgroup1580 Fantastic! 😊
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  358. ​​ @bolt-dbtfg I think it is also not your willingness to walk away or any kind of direct or implied verbal or psychological threat or anything based on fear that can give any kind of good result. There is a guy here that tested something with actual good results. And even Dr. Taraban has a much better video on that in this channel. I'll copy the name here.
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  359. This guy tried something out that he said really worked: take a look at millermanhall's comment here 2 weeks ago. I think he found a much better solution to this problem. 😉
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  360. ​ @cliffthecoolcat  Great piece of advice.
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  361. 100% agree.
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  362. Sure!
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  363.  @Kim-oo9vv  Excellent point! She just said that to hurt himbecause he wouldn't commit.
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  364. This is a description of a psychopaths, not of women! This is what keeps them around. You must be kidding that you think that's how it is.
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  365. ​ @VivatVeritas1 Say that to the women in New York. The highest amount of single women because there are a lot more women than men there. Only in cold states there are more men than women. In all the other ones there are more men.
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  366. ​ @roses6564 Very good comment.
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  367. ​ @roses6564  Polygamy is for animals, not for human beings with any level of conciousness. Even a lot of animals are monogamous. I think it is something disgusting that would never be a social norm because it is against our nature. Completely disrespectful to humans. A satanic concept, for lack of a better word. Destructive.
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  368. When it comes to suffering, I think the biggest help we can get is the budhist phylosophy, which states that "without mud, (suffering), there is no lotus (enlightment). Thinking that suffering is a process through which we will atain enlightment and true happiness, makes us not feel as a victim and complain, but actually be grateful and see that everything brings us something positive. We can also chant daimoku to gatter energy and power to overcome the situation that is causing the suffering through our actions. Studying this phylosophy of life and applying it, I think is what helps us the most to overcome suffering.
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  369. Perfect comment!
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  370. More madness than manipulation. It is true. Manipulation would require more rationality.
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  371. ​ @Snoop_Dugg Not everybody. Or we would have to believe that we are not evolving.
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  372. ​ @tehufn  Exactly! And it's a pitty because Dr. T is an extremely intelligent man. Maybe it will get better over time. There are a few videos of a higher level though.
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  373.  @UTJK.  My goodness. I thought only women were able to think disgusting things about the opposite sex. Come on. You can find high-character and low-character people of both sexes.
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  374. ​​ Exactly. Most abusive men are psychopaths. They start nice and many only change after a long time. There is no guarantee. What about divorce, cheating, death? How can anybody prevent that?
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  375. The title is not demeaning. Only the video. 😉 I wouldn't want an "easy" woman if I were a man.
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  376. What do you recommend women do to select a good companion then?
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  377. I think I always want my own cat and a kind of cat that only wants to drink my milk. 😅
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  378. Excellent video. I think this is a great piece of advice.
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  379. ​​ @BlackLion76  But feminists think being promiscuous is having "freedom", and I don't agree with that. I am saying the exact opposite.
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  380. ​ @BlackLion76  Feminists believe they should sleep around and be promiscuous like some men as a form of "freedom" and I am saying the exact opposite of that.
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  381. ​​ @BlackLion76  But even if a woman is only working a few hours a day at home through the computer and is not making enough money to be 100% financially independent, you think that makes her unattractive?
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  382. ​​ @MachoMan-o5r  But why do you say that? Women here are trying to understand.
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  383. ​​ @BlackLion76  But submissive is what exactly? Can she work from the computer at home a few hours a day after the kids grow up, for example? Can she go back to university if it is online if she wants to?
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  384. ​​​ @BlackLion76  But this is not what I'm asking. I just wanted to know that if a man that thinks like you would be ok with your wife working online and making money after the kids grow up and are spending most of their time at school. And wanted to understand what exactly you meant by submissive.
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  385. Excellent comment! Thank you for sharing!
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  386. I think before thirty is a little too early. What do you think?
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  387. I was actually talking to somebody else that removed their answer. But I think in Germany, it makes more sense. In your twenties, you have to study and work. I think it is better to have kids when you are 33-35.
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  388. ​ @edennis8578 Me too.
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  389. ​ @cecielhelder5923 Of course. Either one or the other.
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  390. ​ @just_lurking4833  Come on. This is too pessimistic. Reality doesn't work as a cold game of money and attractiveness. Generalizations are so problematic.
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  391. ​​ @just_lurking4833  No, of course not. I'm not trying to do that. I respect your experience and point of view. I'm just trying to give men a little hope because there are a lot more human and loving people in this world. We have to put in a little work to find them. And also be the best version of ourselves we can be, at least try. I think some videos here are soul crushing and not true. I don't want men to feel so pessimistic about these things.
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  392. I think you are right. You did a lot of nice things. A lot of women would appreciate that. Opening the door sometimes is nice, but it doesn't have to be an obligation.
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  393. ​ @jasonkrick1614 When he sees women and men as selfish psychos, I also don't agree.
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  394. Just gold-diggers do this. A lot of these men only want to date girls who are 10, 15 years youn ger than they are. What did they expect? Would you like to date a woman who is 10, 15 years older than you? Neither do young women. I think these women who date guys who are a lot older expect something in return for their "sacrifice". If I were a man, I would date someone my own age and a little younger tops.
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  395. ​ @yourcommentmakesmecomment.3423  I think she is not blaming the other woman. Just saying it is unbelievable a woman would do this. (Be with a married man).
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  396. ​ @9686-n3l  I had a corporate job that I hated. Now I make much less money as a teacher, but I love it. I bet Dr. Taraban also loves being a therapist. I am talking about these kind of jobs. Being a maid at home with no payment is slavery. I'd rather do a job that develops my mind and gives me an income.
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  397. ​ @9686-n3l Raising kids, cooking and cleaning is heavy work, but undervalued and with no salary. It is not my case, but I see a lot of women complaining that people say what they do is not work.
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  398. ​ @9686-n3l  Strange thing. My answer here disappeared. I am a teacher and I love my job. After the kids grow up, I don't see why a woman should stop working and studying if she doesn't want too. The cleaning can be shared by the whole family and the cooking too. And each human being can do their own laundry.
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  399. ​​ @9686-n3l  Strange thing. My answer here disappeared again. I am a teacher and I love my job. After the kids grow up, I don't see why a woman should stop working and studying if she doesn't want too. The cleaning can be shared by the whole family and the cooking too. And each human being can do their own laundry.
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  400. ​ @acidsurfers  Because this is indiscipline. If you feel hungry for something all the time, you loose your focus, and loose energy. Specially as a man, you will waste a lot of energy, and will be more tired and less focused to work.
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  401. ​​ @acidsurfers  It has to with masturbating because this is indiscipline. Disciplines will increase your energy (exercise, eating well, working, studying, praying, meditating, helping people, doing useful things in general) and indiscipline (eating junk, drinking, wasting time, masturbating, doing useless things in general) will decrease it. The disciplined way of applying our sexual energy would be using it for its correct purpose: to increase the connection with someone we already know and love and to create life. So if men masturbate less frequently, it helps them have more energy to invest in productive things.
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  402. ​​ @acidsurfers It has to with masturbating because this is indiscipline. Disciplines will increase your energy (exercise, eating well, working, studying, praying, meditating, helping people, doing useful things in general) and indiscipline (eating junk, drinking, wasting time, masturbating, doing useless things in general) will decrease it. The disciplined way of applying our sexual energy would be using it for its correct purpose: to increase the connection with someone we already know and love and to create life. So if men masturbate less frequently, it helps them have more energy to invest in productive things.
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  403. Makes me feel the same way!
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  404. I also love them. I think they are beautiful.
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  405. In Brazil, most women are slim, go to the gymn a lot and eat in a healthy way, are feminine, faithful and are hard-working. Junk food is not as popular here, it is more of a teenager thing. Everybody wants to look good at the beach here. American men are seen as more faithful, serious, hard-working, more cultured (Few men read in Brazil 😢) and have a positive image here. They are considered less promiscuous than the guys here. I loved how I was treated when I studied in the University in the US both by men and women. People are very friendly to foreigners here too. The promiscuous / vulgar fame of women is from the northeast region, where poverty leads to sexual tourism and a different kind of behavior in general, unfortunately. In the Southern regions, most women prefer to dress in a more feminine classic way and behave in a different way too. People from North America are very welcomed here. I have two friends who are happily married to American guys. I had a great American best friend who worked with me here who actually reads. I have worked with some people from the US here for a long time and they left a very positive image. In the southern regions, most people come from European descent. (Italian and German).
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  406. What a relief to hear this.
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  407.  @chembrad  Too much too early makes the guy look like a very disrespecful pervert.
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  408. ​ @scarymoose558  Perfect!
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  409. ​ @Mikexxx531 😂😂😂
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  410. ​ @scarymoose558 Perfect!
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  411. How are these 1%?
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  412. ​ @josepsoler4124  I'm not saying this is good. I'm just saying there's no contradiction. That's how they think. At least what he is saying.
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  413. Good point.
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  414. Women love intelligent men who put in an effort to develop their minds. Congratulations! 😊
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  415. As a woman, I have to disagree. Most women I know only want to sleep with men they are in a comitted relationship with. Women are usually, 90% of the cases, not promiscuous as most men are. They can be alone without having the need to sleep with somebody outside of a relationship, so they don't need to be promiscuous if they don't want to. Best thing for men who are promiscuous, financially and physically, is looking for a professional service if they don't want a relationship. Or they could just be "sugar daddys" with gold-diggers. Best for everybody.
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  416. Exactly.
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  417. Even people who don't want to wait until marriage should wait, be friends first, get to know each other, and see if it works before even considering this possibility. People have lost common sense.
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  418. I agree.
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  419. Finally a man with some common sense. If I were a man, I would want the same things. A real partner to travel, talk, grow together intectually and spiritually, and share the bills, not some stupid submissive servant And definetely not some promiscuous woman who sleeps with someone right away like he suggests a woman should do if she wants a "high-value" man. I wonder if he would teach this to his daughter!
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  420. ​Exactly. People should have time to build intimacy and women shouldn't "sleep with a man as fast as you can" when dealing with a "high-value" man, as Dr. Orion suggests in another video. I wonder if he would suggest being promiscuous like that to his daughter!
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  421. ​ @lauracolo06 I agree.
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  422. ​ @ASTROJJEN  I agree with you. All women I saw trying to pursue a men, eventually ended up alone. It's better to wait for someone you find interesting to pursue you. If you pursue, most men will be willing to use most women for sex, so it's a big risk.
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  423. I think it's both. People should be more focused on giving then receiving for things to work.
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  424. At least men are not threatened when they break up with someone. Less dangerous for the guys. 😮
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  425. Just make sure you make it look like a joke, she will just laugh, and maybe send you a picture of a monkey or ask for yours first. I think a charming funny charismatic man Dr. T style can pull that off, but a shy guy should avoid this risky test because they will look too serious and maybe look like a real pervert, and the woman will not explode, just run away. Don't make this joke to a shy woman either. 😂 Most women would rather not hear this joke though. Sounds disrespecful even if it's funny.
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  426. Not true. A lot of beautiful women are kind, have a great sense of humor and are generous their whole lives.
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  427. ​​ @dekev7503  Most women in their 20's would prefer a man their father's age over a young guy??? That's absurd! Would you be attracted to a woman 20 years older than you? Women like beauty and youth too. They are not from another planet! That's absurd. You're only talking about gold-diggers. Most women prefer to be with a guy closer to their age they are actually attracted to. No money can buy that. And most women want to work and have their own money. Imagine you are a woman in her 20's. A lot of handsome guys your age, 2 years younger, or a little older want to date you, but you will think: "No! I prefer to be with a dude 20 years older than me old enough to be my father."
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  428. Perfect. There's no free lunch.
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  429. Thank God there are still man that think like you. Your wife has found a good companion and a real high-value man.
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  430. I agree.
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  431. Do all men agree with this? They don't like giving flowers to a woman they like? 😢
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  432. ​​ @kriskris4214 I will make sure to check this channel. 😂 As long as it doesn't tell you to stop working and studying to clean the house, it must be good.
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  433. ​ @whocarescrapsa Not true. Sex is never a woman's priority. Love and emotional connection is.
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  434. ​ @whocarescrapsa  Saying this sounds rude, I think. A weird thing to say.
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  435. Me too!
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  436. Excellent comment. I agree.
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  437. Dr. Taraban has a really good video about that (for married man) in this channel. I also wrote a big comment on the video The Importance of Sex in a Relationship to which a lot of the few women that watch this channel agreed. I wrote it to help men with this particular question. You are a special man with high principles. The woman who will be with you in the future is very lucky. 😊
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  438.  @epicbehavior  Exactly!
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  439. I suggest this video has a second part to go deeper and explain what is missing in a woman's life for her to do this, what is she not doing for helself to create this kind of mechanism, is it insecurity, etc, so they would know how to solve this problem. I wish we could all live in peace in a zen environment.
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  440. ​ @andersnielsen6044  Yeah, but sometimes it is irrational. It happens even when the guy actually likes them.
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  441. Excellent comment!
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  442. ​ @rensii-e8b  Excellent comment!
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  443. Excellent comment! It's good to see people with common sense.
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  444. Exactly. These men are blind.
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  445. Good one! No woman wants to be a doormat.
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  446. Wow, that's a great comment! I hope all men read this!!
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  447. ​ @grail4K There are a lot of different people in this world. As a woman, I know a lot of women who are not promiscuous and don't approve it.
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  448. ​ @justathinker8669  It's worth a try. Maybe she feels unappreciated, like a lot of married women do.
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  449. Finally some common sense.
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  450. Casual sex will never work in a woman's favor.
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  451. You're absolutely correct.
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  452. ​ @annmarieknapp Exactly.
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  453. ​ @canelareina3795 😂
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  454. What a perfect comment! That should be common sense! Women: Get a life!
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  455. I agree with the other ones. Just common sense.
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  456. ​​ @fitnesspoint2006  "pop out some kids" 😂😂😂 very good
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  457. Raise us to become simps 😂😂😂😂😂
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  458. You don't owe anybody anything! A man who loves you will wait for your decision and want to get to know you, go to the movies, and spend time with you. If somebody is pressuring you into doing something, they don't really love you and will leave you after you do it.
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  459. This books have common sense.
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  460. Exactly. Women: Common sense, please.
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  461. Does she work and helps paying the bills?
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  462. Very good video and very good buddhist concept. 😊 Applying spiritual concepts to therapy is what all great therapists should do. I think the whole buddhist phylosophy of life goes very well together with psychology. Great video!
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  463. 100% agree
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  464. I agree 100%.
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  465. Excellent.
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  466.  @rayrwyr  As a woman, I think feminist should only mean a woman studying, having her own income and not taking direspect. That's it. I think this way, and I'm still hard-working, love men, and love to cook and spoil a boyfriend and my family.
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  467. Exactly! If he doesn't want to wait, he isn't.
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  468. ​ @West3720 If you like this woman, don't be agressive with this kind of threat. That will take you nowhere and probably make her leave you. Either accept what she wants or find somebody else.
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  469. ​ @12567NoYouCannot  I am sorry all this happened to you. It is very unfair. I hope you can find your way out of this. My best friend is in a wheelchair now because of a psychopath and doesn't have any money. You have your whole life ahead of you and you can walk. Some people would give everything to have what you have. You can do it! There are many loving people on this planet. You can look for them and create a new life for yourself. Find a work you love and go after these people. You can do it. God bless you. ❤
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  470. Agree 100%.
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  471. Excellent comment! I love it. And I agree.
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  472. Exactly. If women let them.
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  473. ​ @sallybella8824  Sure!
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  474. Kate, reading this comments here, I am really impressed about how clueless a lot of men are! Of course, I agree with you. I thought what you said was pretty obvious to them, but I guess it is just not! Even the psychotherapist here disagreeing with you here really amazes me!
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  475. Or maybe more women had a chance to see him, and think he was cute or intelligent or both. Not everybody is interested in fame and superficial stupid things like that. If he wasn't attractive or smart, no one would've approached him.
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  476. ​ @calltyshon Probably what happened is that they wanted to talk to him about what they were saying on stage and maybe weren't even "hitting" on him. Some men you just talk and smile and they think you are hitting on them. But my point is this ridiculous view of women as such limited stupid human beings is only going to cause harm in people's lives. Imagine a very young man reading all this generalizations in red pill bs and thinking it is true. It is the same bs in some women's channel's saying all men just want sex and don't really care about women. And in men's channel: "all women just care about money, fame and stupid things...
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  477. ​ @Savvynomad225  What a pessimistic view! A lot of people do nice things because they care. Not everybody is a psychopath! (Only does things because of some interest)
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  478. ​ @JS-mh1fh  I agree 100%.
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  479. ​ @pogolas  True.
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  480. ​ @WengertD  Not my case or the case with most women I know. I always showed respect and love to the man I love and liked to spoil them.
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  481. ​ @ssing7113 I answered this twice and my answer disappeared. I just said I don't have a boss. I work online for different clients.
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  482. ​ @mlydick  I guess I'll take that as a compliment 😅. Seriously, come on. This channel exagerates. Make all women look like psychos.
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  483.  @CaroLI-lh2re  It's true. It gets easier over time.
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  484.  @DS-wo8wr  Good one! 🤣🤣🤣
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  485. ​ @GoodLifeBreeze  Thank you. 😊 Even when we think we are right, it is good to apologize to make things better. We apologize for our part of the problem.
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  486.  @IBNED  Thanks.
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  487. ​ @SenorSalubrious  It's true when we are talking about more mature women over 26 probably. It takes some time for people to mature both men and women. Saying"I'm sorry" is a very basic skill in life. Not so dificult or rare. Maybe for teenagers.
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  488. ​ @justsomerandomhomie1794 What a pity if he really is. Such a handsome and intelligent man. 😍
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  489. ​ @canelareina3795  If he meant women behaving as a partner in an egalitarian relationship, instead of as a "prize", then I agree. But if he meant being a maid, I disagree. I think he meant the first thing, but I'm not really sure.
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  490. ​ @moongem222 But he did say "sleep with him as fast as you can", which I think is a big mistake. Having sex too fast is unnatural in my opinion, and it ruins the possibility of a real connection. Watch the other videos of this channel and read the comments, and you will see how they contradict the recommendation of this video, and how conservative men in general still are. They don't respect a woman who isn't carefully selective when it comes to sleeping with a man. Dads and grandma's advice are still very relevant in my opinion. Intimacy has been too banalized, and the consequences have been tragic; specially for women.
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  491. Usually good for the man and not so good for the woman who ends up being involved emotionally in something that has no future in most cases. 😮
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  492. Obviously!
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  493. It's great to hear that. 😊
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  494. Sure! People need to have common sense.
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  495. Exactly. A woman cannot afford the risk of not developing her mind and having her own income nowadays.
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  496. Exactly. Benefits promiscuous men. What would they do if women decided to stop sleeping with someone they don't know very well and were not in a relationship with? What would happen to womanizers if women went back to common sense?
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  497. Very good. 😅 But I think that applies to men too. Some people in general will magnify everything you say and are emotional time bombs. May we all find a way to do this and live in a paradise of calmness. I agree that this is very possible, but only with some people. It is impossible to have this with some human beasts who are a nuclear bomb of crazy emotions. In those cases, the only thing that works is walking away. The number 1 quality a woman wants in a man is calmness and self control. If a man is verbally abusive / agressive, all the other qualities become nothing. Be careful with that guys.
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  498. ​ @ladybug3380  Exactly. They shoyld try harder. There has got to be some give and take.
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  499. ​ @alieganhouse2442  It is an advertising for this counsellor. I have seen this around too. 😂
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  500. ​ @markdatheist9179 Look at statistics to see reasons why divorce happens. How much cheating and violence happens before a woman leaves a marriage.
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  501. ​ @steveb8269  Great thing you are both happy. 😊
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  502. ​ @severussin  Thank you for the excellent explanaton.
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  503. ​ @cosmictreason2242 Yes, there is. Men wanting to date women 10 years younger and later they complain they just meet gold-diggers.
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  504. ​ @cosmictreason2242  We can call it hypergamy when men want to be with women who are a lot younger than they are, 10 years, 15 years younger. Then they complain they are with a gold-digger and immature woman. It is a problem for them and for the women their own age. How many women do you see trading their husbands for a men 20 years younger?
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  505. ​​ @cosmictreason2242  We can call it hypergamy because they want a woman 10, 15 years younger and women prefer to date men their own age. How many women do you see leaving their husbands for a man who is 20 years younger? We can call it biological hypergamy, while the other one is social and educational.
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  506. Exactly! I don't get it! No woman I know wants that! With all the risks and problems this scheme has. A woman not having her own money in 2024 is crazy. Should we just stop going to university then?
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  507. Of course. A woman should at least do remote work at home when the kids grow up.
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