Comments by "Manosij Roy" (@manosijroy8282) on "Jak Piggott" channel.

  1. I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal and never had a girlfriend and only been on 1 first date many months ago at the age of 22 and then a month later hanged out with my female friend, hugged only 2 girls in person and still never had my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and in my University too had crush on this girl for 7 months who is also 23 now but 5 months ago got crush on another prettier girl(sadly she wasn't into me either but she was the 2nd girl I hugged in person) in the same University so my previous crush stopped talking to me and I miss her. I had a summer break from University for 3 months and today finally new semester started for us and I literally initiated conversation with 3 girls in my University who are MBA students too and within 21-23 age range and I had a long enough conversation with one of them who too was comfortable enough to talk to me but idk about my chances as I look like a nerd in my glasses and she is really pretty too. But it was a big change and improvement for me as I had always been shy near girls and in my high school days I completely avoided talking with girls as I was bullied a lot in school and continued being shy further too in my undergrad and even in my MBA too few months ago, I was still shy to initiate conversation with girls and even though I could talk with my crushes, there was still some nervousness here and there but today I went out of my comfort zone and talked with not 1 not 2 but 3 girls. Thats only because I initiated conversation with 3 expat women in my city Bangalore and they were white Caucasian women (yes foreigners do come to Bangalore as expats as its one of the major metropolitan city of India and popular for its IT(tech). First one was a French woman with whom I talked near my University almost 5 months ago who was within 22-26 age range and the next was a German woman 2 months ago and then yesterday again I saw another white blonde lady who looked to be within 26-30 age range and probably from Germany or maybe some Scandinavian country too and I waved my hand at her as she was walking and smiled at her saying her Hi and she too waved her hand back at me with a bit of a smile but couldn't have a conversation as the cab that I booked had arrived but would love to meet her again. So yeah I am happy that finally I can talk with women now whether Indian or foreigner but sadly it took me 23 years to get rid of my shyness.
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  2. I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and it makes me feel really bad. I did go on my first ever date 5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(20 now) and had my first hug too but sadly she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere and I also went out with a female friend 4 months ago who is also 23 and ate in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date. But almost 3 weeks ago, I got a new crush on this girl in a class where we go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 7 months ago but we are in different classrooms. She is also within the 21-23 age range and I had been too shy to talk to her but 2 weeks ago eventually with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was able to talk to her and again said her Hi last week. That classmate of her did say she is single but last week another of her classmate said that she probably has a boyfriend so that makes me feel confused whether to pursue her or not but I won't believe it unless she herself says she has a bf. 3 days ago, I again talked with her a bit and even we did handshake and she smiled too but I was definitely still sounding a bit nervous while talking with her. Sadly she still didn't follow me back or reply to my first dm to her on Instagram and its been 7 days already so idk whats up as she was still friendly with me 3 days ago. She is very very pretty almost model like and I just look average. Without my glasses, I look better but I have high power so should wear them all the time and look really nerdy and dorky in it so idk whether I even have a chance with her. I had crush on another girl in the same classes for the past 6-7 months and she also turned 23 last month. I liked her a lot and she even called me cute several times and I also gave her chocolate 2 weeks ago but was too shy to say her that I liked her but she probably knew I had a crush on her tho. Sadly she is ignoring me these days as she came to know about my new crush on this another girl. I also have been chatting with this girl on Instagram for the past 7 months and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other that time and now she is in a different college. She is 19(turning 20 in April) and she is super sweet and we are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs and chat daily talking about almost everything. We will meet soon too and go to eat somewhere but I am still single in the end.
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  3. So is 22 late? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2-3 months ago I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 very soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took pretty much a month too reply to it but she did reply yeah ok and we even said we will meet maybe on some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. I also got crush on a new girl recently in a class where I started going for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I am about to finish college. She is also 22 or maybe 23 now and very pretty and on the first day of our class there (13th July 2023), she did handshake with me and we said our names and introduced ourselves. Till last week she was trying to initiate convo with me asking whether I had lunch or not and many more but for the past 5-6 days, she is no longer trying to talk with me. Actually I am still kinda shy near girls in person so I usually don't initiate further convos with her and just answer what she asks. I am shy to try to talk with her. I followed her on Instagram and she followed me back too but I am yet to dm her. I also have been chatting with this another girl who is 19 on Instagram since 28th May 2023. We used to be in the same school but now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We chat about literally everything daily and even send each other virtual hugs but it still looks she just sees me as a good friend and nothing more so I am nervous to ask her out too as I also got rejected by 4 girls recently.
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  4. Damn man really at 41? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and have always been shy near girls and only recently I am talking some girls in my University where I am studying MBA now and I have only been on 1 first date last year September, only hugged 2 girls in person and just pinched cheeks of one of my crush and still haven't been kissed. I am talking with some girls in my University but there is this girl with whom things have been a bit turbulent. She is 22 and my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year of MBA a month ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far but all our in person conversations were positive and she even smiled at times while talking. She is an introvert similar to me and an introvert too so we got along well but recently I had to go to my hometown Siliguri for 8-9 days and suddenly she unfollowed me on Instagram 5-6 days ago right after viewing my stories so I am confused what happened and sad as we only had positive conversations with her in person so far. I asked my close male friend for an advice and he suggested me to reach out to her in person and clarify any misunderstanding by keeping the conversation light at first so I will do it tomorrow when I meet her in person as I am back to Bangalore now but I am so nervous about it.
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  5. Wow man have you been on a date before btw? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and have always been shy near girls and only recently I am talking some girls in my University where I am studying MBA now and I have only been on 1 first date last year September, only hugged 2 girls in person and just pinched cheeks of one of my crush and still haven't been kissed. I am talking with some girls in my University but there is this girl with whom things have been a bit turbulent. She is 22 and my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year of MBA a month ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far but all our in person conversations were positive and she even smiled at times while talking. She is an introvert similar to me and an introvert too so we got along well but recently I had to go to my hometown Siliguri for 8-9 days and suddenly she unfollowed me on Instagram 5-6 days ago right after viewing my stories so I am confused what happened and sad as we only had positive conversations with her in person so far. I asked my close male friend for an advice and he suggested me to reach out to her in person and clarify any misunderstanding by keeping the conversation light at first so I will do it tomorrow when I meet her in person as I am back to Bangalore now but I am so nervous about it.
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  6. How old are you? Did you have a gf before? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and have always been shy near girls and only recently I am talking some girls in my University where I am studying MBA now and I have only been on 1 first date last year September, only hugged 2 girls in person and just pinched cheeks of one of my crush and still haven't been kissed. I am talking with some girls in my University but there is this girl with whom things have been a bit turbulent. She is 22 and my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year of MBA a month ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far but all our in person conversations were positive and she even smiled at times while talking. She is an introvert similar to me and an introvert too so we got along well but recently I had to go to my hometown Siliguri for 8-9 days and suddenly she unfollowed me on Instagram 5-6 days ago right after viewing my stories so I am confused what happened and sad as we only had positive conversations with her in person so far. I asked my close male friend for an advice and he suggested me to reach out to her in person and clarify any misunderstanding by keeping the conversation light at first so I will do it tomorrow when I meet her in person as I am back to Bangalore now but I am so nervous about it.
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  7. Wow man really at 42? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend, barely been on 1 first date last year Sept, then hanged out with a female friend last year Oct, hugged only 2 girls in person and still didn't get my first kiss. I had always been shy near girls in person due to lot of bullying in school and only recently I am socializing with girls in my University where I am studying MBA. I am talking with several girls now in my MBA who are all within 21-25 age range but so far our conversations had been short just limited to Hi and How are you. One girl recently in my MBA who is 22 even distanced herself saying she doesn't wanna talk to me anymore after talking with her in person for 10-11 days probably because I got way too attached to her and she got overwhelmed but idk and I was broken and sad for over 2 weeks about it. Currently having the best conversations with another girl in my MBA who is also an introvert like me and 21 or 22 too but she said she doesn't have Instagram so we connected on LinkedIn which feels a bit unusual but our conversations has been more balanced so far and less one sided compared to with some of the other girls. I also said a pickup line recently to another girl (within 21-23 age range) who was my crush in previous semester and the 2nd girl I hugged and she did smile and thanked me but she is super pretty and she definitely doesn't seem to be into me.
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  8. Woah man really at 64? Did you have a gf or even a date? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend but I went on my first ever date a bit over 2 months ago. She is 19 and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and we hugged too and I was pinching her cheeks a lot. But 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be toxic and mean and blocked me on social media. I also have a massive crush on this girl who is also 22. We go to the same class for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 4-5 months ago and planning to study MBA next. I am usually shy near her and she is the one who tries to talk with me. I pinched her cheeks last month and again last week when she actually said that I am looking cute and I also said she looks cute too and pinched her cheeks. She smiled and I also blushed after she called me cute. Sadly she does have several male friends which makes me worried that she might go for either of them. A bit over a month ago, I also went out with this another girl from the same class who is also 22 or 23 now. We are just friends tho but we roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant. I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie but I was kinda shy to ask her for a hug. Overall it was a great day and we might go out again. I also chat daily with this another girl who is 19 on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but didn't know each other in school days. We send each other virtual hugs daily and she is very sweet and caring too and we always talk about our favorite food as we are both foodies haha and we will meet soon too and eat somewhere and hug each other for real. Sadly, in the end I am still single.
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  9. Damn man really 42? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal and never had a girlfriend and only been on 1 first date many months ago at the age of 22 and then a month later hanged out with my female friend, hugged only 2 girls in person and still never had my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and in my University too had crush on this girl for 7 months who is also 23 now but 5 months ago got crush on another prettier girl(sadly she wasn't into me either but she was the 2nd girl I hugged in person) in the same University so my previous crush stopped talking to me and I miss her. I had a summer break from University for 3 months and today finally new semester started for us and I literally initiated conversation with 3 girls in my University who are MBA students too and within 21-23 age range and I had a long enough conversation with one of them who too was comfortable enough to talk to me but idk about my chances as I look like a nerd in my glasses and she is really pretty too. But it was a big change and improvement for me as I had always been shy near girls and in my high school days I completely avoided talking with girls as I was bullied a lot in school and continued being shy further too in my undergrad and even in my MBA too few months ago, I was still shy to initiate conversation with girls and even though I could talk with my crushes, there was still some nervousness here and there but today I went out of my comfort zone and talked with not 1 not 2 but 3 girls. Thats only because I initiated conversation with 3 expat women in my city Bangalore and they were white Caucasian women (yes foreigners do come to Bangalore as expats as its one of the major metropolitan city of India and popular for its IT(tech). First one was a French woman with whom I talked near my University almost 5 months ago who was within 22-26 age range and the next was a German woman 2 months ago and then yesterday again I saw another white blonde lady who looked to be within 26-30 age range and probably from Germany or maybe some Scandinavian country too and I waved my hand at her as she was walking and smiled at her saying her Hi and she too waved her hand back at me with a bit of a smile but couldn't have a conversation as the cab that I booked had arrived but would love to meet her again. So yeah I am happy that finally I can talk with women now whether Indian or foreigner but sadly it took me 23 years to get rid of my shyness.
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  10. Wow man did you have a gf before? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but had my first ever date and first hug 7 months ago at the age of 22 and sadly it didn't work out. Got ignored and rejected by several crushes. Currently having a crush on this girl in my University where I am pursuing my MBA and I am in 1st year and she too is an MBA 1st year student and she is also within 21-23 age range but we aren't in the same classrooms so we have brief conversations mostly and she has been my crush for the past 2 months. I even got her number 2 weeks ago in a clever way but she didn't see my whatsapp text and when I asked she said she had 2 exams in the same day. Today I even hugged her finally as it was her last exam today and tomorrow is my last exam so we won't be able to meet in person for 3 months as we all have to do a 2-3 months internship between May to July and our next semester classes will start in August so I gave her a goodbye hug for now. She did give a bit of an awkward smile tho when I hugged her. I literally put all my arms around her while hugging whereas she didn't really put all her arms around me and she pat my back and said ok bye I have to study now as I have an exam in an hour and then even I said ok bye and we walked our own ways. It was brief few seconds hug but it was also my 2nd time I ever hugged a girl in person. I hope she wasn't uncomfortable but today was my really happy day and even my classmates were surprised seeing that.
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  11. Is 23 too late tho if I just overcame my shyness towards girls at this age? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before, only been on 1 first date months ago at the age of 22 and then hanged out with a female friend and hugged only 2 girls in person and never been kissed. I am studying MBA now and had a few crushes in my 1st year of MBA which didn't work but now 2nd year just started for me and I finally initiated conversation with 8 girls in these 3 days after University reopened. One of them(lets call her D) is also within 21-23 age range and is my junior who is in 1st year of her MBA and we have been having good conversations and yesterday we followed each other on Instagram too and yesterday met another girl(lets call her D) who is in my University too in my same year of MBA and also within 22-24 age range and we were walking and talking while going to University and then while going to the bus stop too we went together and she let me under her umbrella too as it was raining. So both D and R had been nice and friendly to me so far. Its a big improvement as I was shy during school days and avoided talking to girls due to facing severe bullying in school. Not only that I also talked with foreign women in our city Bangalore by initiating conversations with them. As Bangalore is a major metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. I talked with 3 expat women so far. Almost 5 months ago was with a French woman who was about 22-26 age range and then 2 months ago was with a German woman who was probably anywhere within 26-35 age range. But today I had the best conversation with an American woman in the cafe in this big shopping complex in the most upscale area of our city. She is an expat too and she is 29 and she was really friendly to me and was comfortable talking with me and we had a long conversation. I asked for her Instagram but unfortunately she said she doesn't even use Insta so we couldn't connect with each other but I really hope I get to meet her again as she is really pretty too but I look nerdy in my glasses too.
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