Comments by "Manosij Roy" (@manosijroy8282) on "Jordan Green" channel.

  1. Same here. I don't have a good social life and only have few close friends who also lives far from my home. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had 2 crushes in college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches. The few 18-24 age girls who matches with me ends up ghosting me. Yesterday I saw a girl in a class where I newly joined for some courses. She is a college student too so she is like 19 or 20 or maybe 21(idk her exact age but I think she is 19-21 so within my age group) and she is beautiful and I might get a crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her. She will be going out of city for 2 weeks so she won't come for the classes for 2 weeks until 1st Nov so I can only see her again on 1st Nov.
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  2. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Don't feel sad if you are a virgin. I am sure you are a very beautiful girl. Maybe you can go for younger guys in their early 20s like me because most men your age will be more experienced in relationships than you whereas we are both equally as inexperienced. The oldest I would go for is 28 for now but you are 29 which is only a year older than it and we are just 8 years apart which is less than 10 years. Here is one hug to you just to make you smile 🤗
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  3. Wow man even at 32? BTW I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far recently and 2 were from my college and another was by a 19 year old girl who matched with me on a dating app and she literally insulted me. I tried following some girls on Instagram who were shown as suggested profiles and I knew those girls in my high school days. One of the girl even followed me back and she is also 21 now so the same age as me. We were in the same grade but weren't classmates. I didn't message her yet because I just don't know what to write to her because we never really interacted in high school as we weren't classmates.
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  4. I am in the same boat as you. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend, never dated and never been kissed. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and got rejected by both. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and most of my matches who were in the 18-24 age range ended up ghosting me. Btw 2 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is a college student from a different college. Idk her age but she is definitely within the 19-21 age range and she is beautiful but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her. I can again meet her only on 1st Nov in the classes because she is going out of city for 2 weeks. But Idk whether she would like me or not as she is from a different college.
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  5. Same here but 4 years younger than you.I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and I tried to connect with girls whom I knew in my high school days by following them on IG but they didn't even accept my follow request and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls who matches with me on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me or end up ghosting me. But one 19 year old girl who matched with me last week turned out to be very mean to me 2 days ago and insulted me after I tried to ask her out after chatting with her for over a week and she literally called me ugly and said no girl would want me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  6. Dude at least you are lucky enough to have a girlfriend at 20 and probably could even experience teenage love. I just turned 22 yesterday and never had a girlfriend and never been kissed.
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  7. Honestly after what happened yesterday I feel completely hopeless. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and I tried to connect with girls whom I knew in my high school days by following them on IG but they didn't even accept my follow request and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls who matches with me on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me or end up ghosting me. But one 19 year old girl who matched with me last week turned out to be very mean to me yesterday and insulted me after I tried to ask her out after chatting with her for over a week and she literally called me ugly and said no girl would want me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  8. I can't. Thats because I am a 21 year old guy and still a student who will be graduating college next year and still living with parents so I am not financially independent yet and I don't wanna waste my dad's money on a hooker and also I want a girlfriend.
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  9. Did you have a gf before? I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. After having no luck with 2 girls in my college and 2 girls whom I knew since my high school days and also no luck on dating apps, finally 3 days ago, a girl matched with me on one of the dating apps and for the first time, I had a decent chat with a girl on dating app without getting ghosted. She is a 19 year old girl and for the past 3-4 days, the chats were decent enough. We live in the same city but different college and different course too. Do you think this time I will at least get my first kiss? I also get worried thinking what if she ends up ghosting me too or wouldn't want me.
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  10. Don't feel sad about it. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Btw I am sure you are a very beautiful girl and I bet I would have got a crush on you if we were in the same college. Here is one virtual hug for you to make you smile 🤗. Honestly we would have goofed around a lot and ate lots of chocolates and ice creams and I would have hugged you a lot so you would have never felt lonely 😊
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  11. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far(2 from my college and another from a dating app who insulted me too). I tried following some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and one from my college too but we aren't classmates and 5 of them followed me back and I still didn't message them yet as idk what to write and they are all 20-22 year olds. But I am sad that the girl named Britney didn't accept my follow request yet. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and she is very pretty and I wish she follow me back because I think I again got a crush on her just seeing her profile pic on IG and she is even prettier now at 21 and I can't stop thing about her.
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  12. @Devin Christopher yeah man it's great. But it's been bothering me a lot that I am 21 and still didn't even get my first kiss yet and I will be turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas. I feel like I am missing out and feel sad that I couldn't experience young love at an younger age like 16. And most of these girls around my age are mean to me and one even insulted me yesterday and said I am too ugly and no girl will want me.
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  13. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. I feel like I am such a repellant to girls. 2 of my crushes in college rejected me recently. 3 days ago I heard a song which reminded me of a girl whom I knew since my school days and we were in same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so we are the same age. She is very beautiful and I followed her on Instagram. Her account is private so I sent her a follow request but she literally rejected my follow request and I am so down. Why did she do that? Is it because she can't recognize me or it's just I am too repellant to girls or is it because she finds me lame because I used to get bullied a lot in high school and was considered a loser by most guys in my grade? Is it fine if I send her a message?
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  14. Wow man really even at 42? Did you have a girlfriend before? BTW I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend, never dated and never been kissed. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and got rejected by both. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and most of my matches who were in the 18-24 age range ended up ghosting me. Btw 2 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is a college student from a different college. Idk her age but she is definitely within the 19-21 age range and she is beautiful but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her. I can again meet her only on 1st Nov in the classes because she is going out of city for 2 weeks. But Idk whether she would like me or not as she is from a different college.
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  15.  @HonderdtachtigCC  How old are you? What about being a virg at 22? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend, never hugged or even kissed a girl in real life and I am having 0 luck when it comes to getting a girlfriend.
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  16. Oh wow really? And here I am turning 22 tomorrow and I never had a girlfriend before and its bothering me so much. 3 days ago, I was matched with another girl who is 18 turning 19 in Feb and she seemed quite interested in knowing me but when we shared about our hobbies and I told her about my singing which I upload on my youtube channel(not this one, another one). She said she was gonna check it and then I saw she unmatched me. I guess she found me ugly in my videos or my singing is bad. I got matched by another girl too who is 21 on that same day 3 days ago and we had a good chat too and even added each other on Instagram but she said I seem like an introvert and she didn't chat much with me. When I asked, she said she is a medical college student so she isn't that much free. Idk whether she lied or she is genuinely busy.
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  17.  @vigneshdev9587  I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend either and got rejected by 2 of my crushes in my college recently. Btw yesterday I heard a song which was released in 2009 and I felt nostalgic hearing it and it reminds me of a girl whom I knew since my school days. She was in the same grade as me but we weren't in the same class and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so the same age as me and I followed her on Instagram but she hasn't accepted my follow request yet. I wish she could be my girlfriend now but she is too pretty and I was considered a loser by most guys in my grade in high school so maybe she would still find me lame even though she probably didn't know me properly. She also probably has a boyfriend. I really wish she follow me back so I can chat with her and get to know her.
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  18. I am a guy who turned 22 just 8 weeks ago and never even had a girlfriend before. I use dating apps and get few matches but get ghosted. Recently got 2 matches, one of them is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April and they are sweet but still no plan of first date or anything. I also got rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago. I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are within 19-22 age range. I chat with 3 of those girls so far. One of them is 19 almost 20, another one is 20 and another is 22. The 19 and the 22 year old doesn't chat regularly with me whereas the 20 year old does chat with me regularly but she gets a bit uncomfortable when I compliment her or something so I am too scared to even ask her out as she definitely doesn't seem to want anything more than just friends
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  19.  @luis-lj7es  Whats wrong in that? It's just a positive comment to her. Plus she is 18 and I am 21 so we are both quite close in age too
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  20. I don't care about virginity. All I want now is at least my first kiss. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had his first kiss and I never had a girlfriend. After having no luck with 4 girls I know in real life, finally 3 days ago I was matched with a girl on one of the dating apps who isn't ghosting me so far. She is 19 years old and we had a decent chat for the past 3 days and she too lives in my city but we are in different college and different course too. Do you think I will at least get my first kiss this time? I am scared that she might ghost me too or wouldn't want me
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  21. Damn man but at least you are better than me as you had a gf when you were a teen whereas I never had one. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but I just had my first ever date 2 months ago. She is 19 and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and then took pics and we hugged too and I was pinching her cheeks a lot. But 2 weeks after the date, she became toxic to me after I texted her and she replied very rudely saying me to go to hell and leave her alone forever and then she blocked me. She basically used me for free lunch and take pics of her so she can post them on Instagram and other social media. I was shocked and lost hope. Then few weeks ago, I went out with this another girl who is also either 22 or 23 now. We go to the same class for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 4 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We both roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant and we had fun. I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie but was a bit shy to ask her for a hug. We might hang out like this again. I also have crush on this another girl in that same class and she is also 22 but I am shy so she is the one who initiates conversations with me and last month she asked me how was she looking and I answered she looked cute and pinched her cheeks too which made her blush a bit. I also gave her a chocolate about 2 months ago. Nowadays she does smile often at me and wave her hand at me and the others tease me as they know I have crush on her and I blush a lot when she tries to talk to me these days. Sadly she has several male friends so I feel scared.
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  22. My luck has been terrible so far. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far recently and 2 were from my college and another was by a 19 year old girl who matched with me on a dating app and she literally insulted me. I tried following some girls on Instagram who were shown as suggested profiles and I knew those girls in my high school days. One of the girl even followed me back and she is also 21 now so the same age as me. We were in the same grade but weren't classmates. I didn't message her yet because I just don't know what to write to her because we never really interacted in high school as we weren't classmates.
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  23. Damn man really? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. Recently I started going for some classes to get coaching for upcoming exams(which starts from Nov last week) to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 2 weeks ago and planning to study MBA next. There I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on our first class which was on 13th July 2023 and she sometimes tries to initiate convos with me asking whether I had lunch or not and says me hi but I just answer her what she asks or say hi back and I am still shy near girls in person so I am usually shy to try to initiate any talks with her unless she herself is the one who tries to talk with me first. BTW last week she actually said she finds me cute and that really made me blush hard and my friends too teased me hehe so I feel a little more hopeful now but she also has 2 or 3 male friends in our class so I feel really worried that she might go for them as they are more confident and much less shy than me. Since 28th May 2023, I also have been chatting with this 19 year old girl on Instagram. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other and now she is in a different college which is very near to my home tho and I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago who is 21 now turning 22 very soon. But my childhood friend is very inactive on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up, she didn't reply about when exactly we can meet up as she takes weeks and even a month to reply to me. I do chat with the 19 year old regularly sending each other virtual hugs and sharing everything like about our day, classes, about ourselves and many more but it still looks like she just sees me as a friend so I am still nervous to ask her out as I also got rejected recently by 4 girls.
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  24. I am sure I would have if we were in the same city. I am a 21 year old guy so 5 years younger but we are both adults and close enough in age. I also never had a girlfriend before. I am sure you are a very beautiful girl. One virtual hug for you just to make you smile 🤗.
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  25. Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a gf before. After having not much luck on dating apps and getting rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago, I feel some hope as I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 19-22 age range. And I had been chatting with a really sweet girl on insta for over 2 weeks and she is 20 year old and we were in the same college but she was my junior. We send each other virtual hugs daily and she says I am sweet and cute too and that made me feel butterflies. But we are in different colleges but still same city and I think I am falling in love with her but idk whether she is just being friendly or does she actually like me.
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  26. By seeing your name "Sonia" I am sure you are a girl. Anyways I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Maybe you can go for a younger guy in his early 20s like me because most 29 and 30 year old men will be more experienced than you in relationships so it's hard whereas I am equally as inexperienced as you. Even though, 28 is the oldest I would date for now, you are just a year older than it and we are just 8 years apart which is less than 10 years. Here is one hug to you just to make you smile 🤗.
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  27. It's hard when you are 22 and never dated. I am a guy who turned 22 just over 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and never had a real kiss with a girl either except getting kissed on the cheek by a female friend when we both were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls and they end up ghosting me. Only one girl who is 19 on dating app didn't ghost me yet and we have things in common to chat about but idk. I also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now. I had the best chat with a girl who is 20 now and she was 2 years my junior in school. She is better than most of the girls I have chatted with and we had been chatting for the past 10 days. But 4 days ago I kinda messed up by giving her a cheesy compliment after only 6 days of chatting with her which made her a little uncomfortable but I apologized and said I only said it to make her smile so she forgive me and thanked me. We still chat but idk whether I can try out my luck on her or not.
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  28. I am a guy who turned 22 just 2 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and never been kissed before. Honestly after getting ghosted and rejected by girls, I am thinking about trying my luck on a girl who was my childhood friend. She was friend when we both were in elementary school in 2008-2011. We used to play together, study together, have sleepovers etc but since 2011, we never really talked as my parents bought a new apartment and we came to a different area. She is 21 now and only 5 months younger than me. I messaged her on Instagram recently and she still remembers me. I think I kinda fall in love with her seeing her pics on IG as she looks very cute. I really wanna go on date with her but idk how. I would love to give her a long hug too but idk when it will happen.
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  29. Same age. I am also a 21 year old guy who will be turning 22 next month just 3 days before Christmas and I never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far(2 from my college and another from a dating app who insulted me too). I tried following some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school but only 3 of them followed me back and I still didn't message them yet as idk what to write and they are also 21-22 year olds. But I am sad that the girl named Britney didn't accept my follow request yet. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and she is very pretty and I wish she follow me back because I think I again got a crush on her just seeing her profile pic on IG and she is even prettier now at 21.
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  30. I honestly feel as if I am already running out of time at just 22. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before either and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took a month to reply to it but she replied yeah ok. We also told that maybe we can meet on some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I have been going for some classes to prepare for some exams to get into MBA as I am pretty much done with college and there I got a new crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on the first day of our class and said our names and it was the first time I did handshake with a girl. Last week she was initiating convo with me asking whether I had lunch or not and some more and I answered them but I am still shy to initiate any further convos with her so the our conversations end soon and for the past 2-3 days she isn't trying to talk to me anymore and I am shy to try to start any conversation with her. I did follow her on Instagram yesterday and she followed me back too but I didn't dm her yet. I always think about her and wanna get to know her. I also have been chatting with this another girl who is 19 now on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she too used to be in the same school as me but now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho and we chat daily about everything and even send each other virtual hugs too but I am nervous to ask her out too as I got rejected by 4 girls recently and it still looks like she only sees me as a friend. Whats crazy is I like this 19 year old and I also like my childhood friend and this new crush who is 22/23 year old.
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  31. I am also 21 and never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and tried to connect with girls whom I knew in high school by following them on IG but they didn't follow me back and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me and one 19 year old girl who matched with me turned out to be very mean to me yesterday and insulted me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me
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  32. Dude, 23 is still young. I am a 21 year old guy and we are both super close in age. And I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet.
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  33. I am turning 22 tomorrow and I never had a girlfriend before. 3 days ago, I was matched with another girl who is 18 turning 19 in Feb and she seemed quite interested in knowing me but when we shared about our hobbies and I told her about my singing which I upload on my youtube channel(not this one, another one). She said she was gonna check it and then I saw she unmatched me. I guess she found me ugly in my videos or my singing is bad. I got matched by another girl too who is 21 on that same day 3 days ago and we had a good chat too and even added each other on Instagram but she said I seem like an introvert and she didn't chat much with me. When I asked, she said she is a medical college student so she isn't that much free. Idk whether she lied or she is genuinely busy.
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  34. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  35.  @juice-mm7kj  Yeah but its not easy as I am shy and the previous 2 rejections did make me a bit scared.
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  36. Is being a virg at 22 a red flag too? I am a guy who turned 22 just 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and never had a real kiss with a girl except getting kissed on the cheek by a girl when we were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched by 18-23 age girls but they ghost me for no reason. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but got rejected. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now and I had the best chat with a girl for the past 6-7 days. She is 20 and I knew her in school and she was 2 years my junior. She seems so much better than other girls I have chatted with. I kinda messed up a bit today by giving her a cheesy compliment today but I apologized and said that I just wanted to make her smile and she thanked me and said it was sweet of me. Btw I have no idea whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  37. Don't feel sad. I am a 21 year old guy so we are almost the same age and I never even had a girlfriend. You are a very beautiful girl and I would have dated you if we were in the same city or same college. Here is one hug for you just to make you smile 🤗. Honestly you can cry by keeping your head on my shoulder and I would slowly wipe your tears. 😊
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  38. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. After 3 rejections recently, I did ask out my childhood friend who is 21 year old now turning 22 soon by messaging her on Instagram and she did reply yeah ok but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and now again she hasn't been online for weeks and still yet to reply about when we can meet but I am still waiting. But since 28th May 2023, I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days. Now she is 19 year old and is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and we chat daily about pretty much everything and we send each other virtual hugs too and I think I started liking her too but so far it still looks like she just sees me as a friend as the chats doesn't get very flirty yet and we have been chatting for almost a month. We are also in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. I do wanna ask her out but my childhood friend didn't reject me too and I like both of them.
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  39. Sadly I am a 21 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 but both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot and she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted. 2 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined for some courses. She is a college student too from a different college and she is 19 or 20 or maybe 21(idk her exact age yet but she is definitely 19-21). She is beautiful and I might get a crush on her but that day I didn't have the confidence to initiate a convo with her and I won't be able to meet her for 2 weeks and I have to wait till 1st Nov as she is going out of city for 2 weeks and will come to classes from 1st Nov.
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  40.  @SniperFoxx420  I am 21 and I call her crush because she doesn't know I like her. She in my classes where I joined for some extra courses and she is a college student too from a different college. She is 19-21 so about my age anyways. Why is it wrong to have crushes?
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  41. Same here. I am a 21 year old guy so almost the same age as you and never had a girlfriend. Btw I am sure you are a very beautiful girl and I am sure I would have got a crush on you if we were in the same college. Here is one virtual hug for you just to make you smile hugggggssss 🤗.
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  42.  @vigneshdev9587  you are also Indian and I am also Indian living in Bangalore so I will share which song is making me think of her as you probably would know the song. That same name is Kya Karoon from the movie Wake Up Sid. It was Ranbir Kapoor's movie. I remember I was in 4th standard when this song came out back in 2009. But this song is reminding me of this girl. I can't stop thinking about her but she still didn't follow me back on Instagram yet. She is very beautiful.
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  43.  @ItsMeggy04  What do you mean?
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  44.  @ItsMeggy04  How is 19 too young for 21? It's just a 2 year gap which is nothing. We are so close in age
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  45. Same here. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend. Btw I am sure you are a very beautiful girl and I am sure I would have got a crush on you if we were in the same college. Here is one virtual hug for you just to make you smile hugggggssss
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  46.  Ashly Sosa  You are judging me. She is 23 and I am 22 so we are both super close in age so what's your problem? I prefer girls within 18 to 26 age range. Young Indian guys like me shouldn't be judged as we are more modern and open minded.
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  47. Yeah man 30 is too old for 18 or 19. Btw what do you feel about 22 year old dating an 18/19 year old? I am a 22 year old guy in last year of college and I like her a girl in my college who is in 1st year and she is 19 now so we are only 3 years apart in age so would it be fine to ask her out?
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  48. Dude no way. I am still a student who will be graduating next year so I am not even financially independent yet and I won't waste my dad's money on them. BTW I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had 2 crushes in college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches. The few 18-24 age girls who matches with me ends up ghosting me. Yesterday I saw a girl in a class where I newly joined for some courses. She is a college student too so she is like 19 or 20 or maybe 21(idk her exact age but I think she is 19-21 so within my age group) and she is beautiful and I might get a crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her. She will be going out of city for 2 weeks so she won't come for the classes for 2 weeks until 1st Nov so I can only see her again on 1st Nov.
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  49.  @BrianHARVET-fx6gk  did you read my full comment? Nothing about the girls with whom I went out?
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  50. How old are you both? Don't worry dude at least you have a girlfriend and got your first kiss. I am literally a 21 year old guy who will be turning 22 next month just 3 days before Christmas and didn't even get my first kiss yet.
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  51.  @aniketb3513  bro but I am not looking to get laid. I just want a girlfriend whom I can hug, cuddle and kiss. I just want my first kiss for now.
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  52. Maybe you are right. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 5 days and still no girlfriend. Btw say honestly, is it really creepy of me to follow girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days? They are all 20-22 year olds now and I follow many of them and even chat with 2 or 3 of them. Why do some people say its creepy even though I knew them high school?
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  53. You are lucky. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Had crush on 2 girls in college recently and got rejected by both. Few days ago I heard a song which reminds me of a girl who was in my school and same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so same age as me and I followed her on Insta but she declined or rejected my follow request. I tried sending her a message but she didn't reply. Today I followed another girl on Insta who too was in my school and same grade but we weren't classmates either. I remember having a little crush on her when we were both in 10th grade and she has a beautiful smile too. She is also 21 so again the same age as me but I found out that she lives in another country now goes to college in that country abroad so I have no chance with her.
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  54. I am a 21 year old guy who will be turning 22 this December and I never had a girlfriend and didn't even get my first kiss yet and I feel lonely and down. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One of them is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I have been using 3 dating apps for 4 months but barely getting any matches at all and one 20 year old girl who matched with me 2 months ago rejected me saying she only prefers bad guys and that I am too nice for her. About 2 weeks ago, I saw another girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is from a different college tho and she is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but can be 18 too as idk her real age but I was too shy to even say her a hi that day and now I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she went out of city for 2 weeks and I am afraid that she might reject me as well especially because we are from different college.
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  55. Sadly I am also a 21 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 but both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot and she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted. 2 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined for some courses. She is a college student too from a different college and she is 19 or 20 or maybe 21(idk her exact age yet but she is definitely 19-21). She is beautiful and I might get a crush on her but that day I didn't have the confidence to initiate a convo with her and I won't be able to meet her for 2 weeks and I have to wait till 1st Nov as she is going out of city for 2 weeks and will come to classes from 1st Nov.
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  56.  @anemopixie5220  You are just judging people for not having girlfriends. I can paste my experience however I want to kiddo
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  57. I turned 22 just 3 days ago and I never had a girlfriend either and its bothering me a lot. Got rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago and had not much luck in dating apps. Btw yesterday I got some hope after one girl finally accepted my follow request on Instagram. I knew her in high school days and we were in the same grade but we weren't classmates. I had crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. Now she is also either 21 or 22 and she is even prettier now and she accepted my follow request after about 2 months. I guess she doesn't remember me much tho as she didn't follow me back so idk how can I get to know her and I am afraid that she might be having a boyfriend now.
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  58. At least you know girls like you but it's not the same for me. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. Got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently. Last week, I got matched by a 19 year old girl on one of the dating apps I use and we had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all in the app. So I am worried that this might not work so I tried keeping an option by following a girl named Britney on Instagram who was my classmate when we were in 6th to 10th grade. I remember having crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or probably even 22 now so same age as me. She was the prettiest girl in our class in high school days and she is even prettier now at 21 and I tried following her on Instagram today but she didn't even accept my follow request yet.
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  59.  @GreenToast01  It happens man. I had crush on 2 girls in college recently but both rejected me. I also use dating apps but very rarely get any matches.
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  60. Same but its not happening. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 6 days and its been bothering me that I still don't have a girlfriend. I am on dating apps but only got some matches. Most of these matches are 18-23 year old girls and they end up ghosting or rejecting me. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me as well. I follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now and I even chat with some of them but many times, they kinda ignore my messages too for a day or so.
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  61.  @zealotreacts  You are lucky that you could experience young love. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and tried to connect with girls whom I knew in high school by following them on IG but they didn't follow me back and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me and one 19 year old girl who matched with me turned out to be very mean to me yesterday and insulted me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  62. I am a 21 year old guy so same age as you and I never had a girlfriend. Btw I am sure you are a very beautiful girl just like the painting in your profile pic and I would have loved to date you if we were in the same city or same college. Here is one hug to you just to make you smile 🤗
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  63. How old are you? Is 22 still fine? I am a guy who turned 22 almost 7 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and its bothering me. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched with some 18-23 age girls but most of them ghost me. I am having a decent chat with 2 girls, one of them is 18 almost 19 and another one is 20 almost 21 but thats it. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago and both rejected me. I also follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds now. I am having a very good chat with a girl who is 20 for almost 3 weeks and I knew her in school too but idk whether she would wanna date me as she became uncomfortable once when I gave her a cheesy compliment. Another one is my childhood friend who is 21 now and only 5-6 months younger than me and she didn't reply to my last message for over 4 weeks. I also chat with another one who is 22 but she is pretty busy and doesn't chat regularly with me.
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  64.  @joeyshofner639  Woah thats scary. Did you have a gf before? Did you read my full comment?
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  65. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had his first kiss and I never had a girlfriend. After having no luck with 4 girls I know in real life, finally 2 days ago I was matched with a girl on one of the dating apps who isn't ghosting me so far. She is 19 years old and we had a decent chat for the past 2 days and she too lives in my city but we are in different college and different course too. Do you think I will at least get my first kiss this time? I am scared that she might ghost me too. I will be turning 22 this December and I at least want my first kiss before 22nd December which is my 22nd birthday.
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  66.  @beyondwilline3634  I just say sweet things to any girl within in the 18 to 28 age range.
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  67.  @shotgunmuscles4900  come on I am still 22 and young so I have plenty of time. At least I still have time to make mistakes now and get into a relationship without the girls finding it a red flag. It becomes a red flag if the guy who is 30+ and still a virg and never had a girlfriend.
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  68. At least you get matches. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a gf or even first kiss and I use 3 dating apps and barely get any matches even after using them for 4 months and even if I get one, then I get ghosted.
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  69. I am a guy who turned 22 just 2 weeks ago and never even had a girlfriend and it's bothering me a lot. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago and both rejected me and I use 4 dating apps but hardly get matches and even they ghost me for no reason. I also follow some girls on Instagram and chat with like 4 of them. I knew 3 of them in my high school days and they are 20-22 year olds but they hardly chat much with me and their replies are slow. I also started chatting with another girl who is 18 turning 19 after 2 months and she was suggested to me on IG as we have a common follower and she said she is fine chatting with me but her replies are slow or one word maybe because she doesn't know me and we go to different college but still live in the same city.
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  70. I am in the same boat as you but not by choice. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Got rejected by 2 girks in my college on whom I had a crush. Btw yesterday I heard a song which was released in 2009 when I was in 4th grade and it made me feel so nostalgic. It reminded me of a girl who was in the same grade as me but we weren't in the same class and she changed school after 10th grade. She is 21 or 22 now so the same age as me and saw her Instagram profile yesterday and saw her reels and she is super pretty. I followed her but she haven't followed me back yet. I wish she could be my girlfriend now but she is just too beautiful and I remember seeing her break up with a popular guy in school when we were in 10th grade so I have no chance with her as I used to get bullied so much in high school and was a loser. Also she probably already has a boyfriend. I wish she follow me back so I can chat with her and get to know her more.
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  71. I am 21 turning 22 after 5 days and still no girlfriend and its freaking me out and I feel like my youth is over so imagine how I feel. You are still so young at 17.
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  72. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend either and got rejected by 2 of my crushes in my college recently but I can't stop thinking about a girl. Actually yesterday I heard a song which was released in 2009 and I felt nostalgic hearing it and it reminds me of a girl whom I knew since my school days. She was in the same grade as me but we weren't in the same class and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so the same age as me and I followed her on Instagram but she hasn't accepted my follow request yet. I wish she could be my girlfriend now but she is too pretty and I was considered a loser by most guys in my grade in high school so maybe she would still find me lame even though she probably didn't know me properly. She also probably has a boyfriend. I really wish she follow me back so I can chat with her and get to know her.
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  73. Same here. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 of my crushes in college recently and no luck on dating apps either. Got a match on tinder 4 days ago by a 22 year old girl and she hasn't replied to my message at all. I did see a girl in a class 2 weeks ago where I joined recently who is from a different college and she is 19-21 but can also be 18 but I was too shy to talk with her that day and I can again see her on 1st Nov and I am worried that I might still be shy.
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  74. Haha you are lucky. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had 2 crushes in college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches. The few 18-24 age girls who matches with me ends up ghosting me. Yesterday I saw a girl in a class where I newly joined for some courses. She is a college student too so she is like 19 or 20 or maybe 21(idk her exact age but I think she is 19-21 so within my age group) and she is beautiful and I might get a crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her. She will be going out of city for 2 weeks so she won't come for the classes for 2 weeks until 1st Nov so I can only see her again on 1st Nov.
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  75.  @micheas_westward  Haha yeah true. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after just 3 days and never had a girlfriend. I only talk with girls via chatting on social media and the dating apps I am on but not face to face. I got matched by few girls on dating apps who are 18-23 year olds but they end up ghosting or rejecting me. I also follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and only 2 or 3 of them chats with me.
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  76. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 6 days and its been bothering me that I still don't have a girlfriend. I am on dating apps but only got some matches. Most of these matches are 18-23 year old girls and they end up ghosting or rejecting me. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me as well. I follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now and I even chat with some of them but many times, they kinda ignore my messages too for a day or so.
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  77.  @tino897  I am a grown adult and still have no girlfriend and that makes me sad. Sadly I am a 21 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 but both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot and she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted. 2 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined for some courses. She is a college student too from a different college and she is 19 or 20 or maybe 21(idk her exact age yet but she is definitely 19-21). She is beautiful and I might get a crush on her but that day I didn't have the confidence to initiate a convo with her and I won't be able to meet her for 2 weeks and I have to wait till 1st Nov as she is going out of city for 2 weeks and will come to classes from 1st Nov.
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  78. I am also a shy person and kinda socially awkward. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed so far. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted by the girls and one 20 year old girl who matched with me on one of the dating app even rejected me because she only prefers bad guys. Btw a week ago, I did see a girl in a class where I joined recently. She is also a college student from a different college and she is definitely 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too and I think I got a little crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her that day. I haven't been able to see her after that as she is out of city for 2 weeks and will come for classes again on 1st Nov but idk whether she would want me as she is from a different college and also I am a bit shy.
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  79.  @SniperFoxx420  Why should I cry? How old are you? Why are you being mean? I said I have a new crush so why should I cry?
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  80.  @veep0stal  OH you are young. I am 21 and never had a girlfriend and I want a girl in the 18 to 28 age range only as they are close in age to me.
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  81. Lucky dude. I am 21 turning 22 after 5 days and still no girlfriend. I just get rejected and ghosted by girls on dating apps and also got rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago.
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  82.  @ilsanking4334  whats wrong in that? She is 20 and I am 21 so we are about the same age and both of us are adults.
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  83. Wow you are 30 and never had a boyfriend? I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend either. You can go for guys in their early 20s like me because at your age most men your age are more experienced than you whereas we both are equally inexperienced in relationships. Even though 28 is the max I would go for, I can still date a 30 year old as long as she is single and sweet.
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  84. What age range guys would you prefer to date? I am asking because I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and last week got matched by a 19 year old girl on one of the dating apps I use. We live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat so far. But I will be turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas whereas her birthday is in June so she will still be 19 for 6 months even after I turn 22. Is it fine for a 21-22 year old guy to date an 18 or even a 19 year old girl?
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  85.  @ItsMeggy04  I just call any females under 30 as girls
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  86. Damn man. I am in the same boat as you. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never kissed before but I had my first ever date last month with this girl. She is 19 and we went to the mall. We hugged too and I pinched her cheeks a lot but she turned out to be toxic 2 weeks after the date and replied rudely to my messages and blocked me. She basically used me for free lunch and taking pics of her so she can post them on Instagram. But last Saturday I went out with another girl who is also either 22 or 23 now. She is in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We are just friends but we had a great day that day and had lunch. I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie but was a bit shy to ask for a hug but we might go out again next month. I also have crush on this another girl in the same class who is also 22. She too tries to initiate conversations with me but I am kinda shy in front of her. But 2-3 weeks ago, she asked me how she was looking and I said she looked cute and pinched her cheeks and she blushed a bit. Sadly I am still single tho.
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  87. Wow dude you are Indian and lost it? How? India is much more conservative than the West. I am also an Indian and I am a 21 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend. Most Indian parents don't like if their son or daughter has a girlfriend or a boyfriend. I was pretty adamant last year that I will only date an American or European girl but it sucks that I might have to wait like 2 years before I can move abroad. Thankfully I still live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city in India so there is some hope as metropolitan cities are less conservative than the smaller cities and towns.
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  88. Yeah true. BTW is it a bad thing if a girl has many male friends her college and we go to different colleges? I am a guy who just turned 22 last week and I never had a gf before. I follow some girls on Instagram and chat with 4 of them. 3 of them are 20-22 year olds and I knew them in high school days and one of them is 18-19 year old who was suggested to me on IG as we have a common follower. Those girls go to different colleges compared to me and one of the 21-22 year old has freshly graduated college too. They all have many male friends too in their college and they all hang out often. Does it mean I have no chance with them?
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  89. In your opinion, is 22 too old for 18? I am a 21 year old guy and will be turning 22 on 22nd December and few days ago I was matched with an 18 year old girl and we had a nice chat. Yesterday we added each other on Instagram and I was complimenting her too but she said she won't date me because I am not her type and my personality is opposite of what she is looking for and suddenly she started saying she won't date someone 4 years older than her and said I am too old for her. How is 22 too old for 18? I am not even 22 yet. Anyways I found out, she doesn't even live in my city but still why did she match with me if my age was a problem? My age 21 is clearly written on my profile.
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  90. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far(2 from my college and another from a dating app who insulted me too). I tried following some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school but only 3 of them followed me back and I still didn't message them yet as idk what to write and they are also 21-22 year olds. But I am sad that the girl named Britney didn't accept my follow request yet. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and she is very pretty and I wish she follow me back because I think I again got a crush on her just seeing her profile pic on IG and she is even prettier now at 21.
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  91.  @harunoderso  what's bad in that? She is 18 and I am 21 so close enough in age. Also her name shows she is an Indian and even I am an Indian too.
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  92. I am 21 at the moment and will be graduating college next year and never had a girlfriend but what makes me sad is that I could never experience young love and still didn't get my first kiss yet. I feel envious seeing couples who are in their 20s too or even worse younger than me. BTW would you still call it as young love if I get a girlfriend now?
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  93. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend either and got rejected by 2 of my crushes in my college recently but I can't stop thinking about a girl. Actually yesterday I heard a song which was released in 2009 and I felt nostalgic hearing it and it reminds me of a girl whom I knew since my school days. She was in the same grade as me but we weren't in the same class and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so the same age as me and I followed her on Instagram but she hasn't accepted my follow request yet. I wish she could be my girlfriend now but she is too pretty and I was considered a loser by most guys in my grade in high school so maybe she would still find me lame even though she probably didn't know me properly. She also probably has a boyfriend and now it looks like she probably isn't in my country too but idk about that. I really wish she follow me back so I can chat with her and get to know her.
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  94.  @philspaghet  But I really knew her since we were in school. We weren't classmates but still in the same grade. She is very pretty but I am feeling upset that she isn't accepting my follow request on Instagram. Yeah I used to get bullied a lot in 9th and 10th grade so she probably might have seen it too but idk so maybe she would still find it lame. We are both 21 now too or maybe she is 22 now and even I will be turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas. But I remember seeing her break up with a guy from her class when we were in 10th grade and he was much smarter than me whereas I used to get bullied so I might have no chance with her. There is also a possibility that she probably isn't even in the same country as me anymore. But I just can't stop thinking about her for the past 2 days. I really wish she could be my girlfriend now.
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  95.  @philspaghet  oh ok man but I am having no luck with any girls. I even had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I use dating apps for 4 months but barely getting matches. I got matched by 2 girls(one is 20 and another is 22) few days ago on tinder and none of them replied back to my message yet.
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  96. I am a guy who turned 22 just 5 weeks ago and still a virg too so we are super close in age. I am sure you are a very beautiful girl and I am sure I would have got a crùsh on you if we were in the same college. Here is one virtual hug for you just to make you smile 🤗.
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  97.  Ashly Sosa  I don't live in a village. I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city in India. If you really think being a virg at 22 is bad then idk what to say. I use dating apps and also chat with girls on Instagram whom I knew in my high school days. Funny how you generalise me without even knowing me. I am not an IT tech support. I am an electronics engineering student who will be graduating college by mid 2023.
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  98. Damn man really at 55? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but I had my first ever date last month with this girl. She is 19 and we went to the mall. We hugged too and I pinched her cheeks a lot but she turned out to be toxic 2 weeks after the date and replied rudely to my messages and blocked me. She basically used me for free lunch and taking pics of her so she can post them on Instagram. But last Saturday I went out with another girl who is also either 22 or 23 now. She is in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We are just friends but we had a great day that day and had lunch. I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie but was a bit shy to ask for a hug but we might go out again next month. I also have crush on this another girl in the same class who is also 22. She too tries to initiate conversations with me but I am kinda shy in front of her. But 2-3 weeks ago, she asked me how she was looking and I said she looked cute and pinched her cheeks and she blushed a bit. Sadly I am still single tho.
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  99.  @BrianHARVET-fx6gk  you are probably jealous that I went out with 2 girls and I am just 22 whereas you are 55 and too old for them. I am much younger and still better than you.
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  100. I am a 21 year old guy and I never even had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls recently in college. Last week, a 19 year old girl matched with me on one of the dating apps I use. We had a decent chat so far and we live in the same city too but different college but idk how far this will even go. I tried keeping an option by trying to follow a girl named Britney on IG. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I remember having a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or probably even 22 now so same age as me. She was the most beautiful girl in our class in high school days but she is even prettier now at 21. Sadly she didn't even accept my follow request on IG and idk why.
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  101. Honestly I just want my first kiss for now and see how it feels to hold hands with a girl. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. After getting rejected by 2 girls in my college and no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since my high school days and also no luck on dating apps, finally 6 days ago, a girl matched with me on one of the dating apps and for the first time, I had a decent chat with a girl on dating app without getting ghosted. She is a 19 year old girl and for the past 6 days, the chats were decent enough. We live in the same city but different college and different course too. Do you think this time I will at least get my first kiss? I also get worried thinking what if she ends up ghosting me too or wouldn't want me.
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  102.  @aniketb3513  Dude I am also an Indian. I am a Bengali guy living in Bangalore and even I would love to date a foreign girl but I have to wait 2 years before I can move abroad. I am 21 now and really want a girlfriend. I use dating apps but only got 9 matches so far. Yesterday I got matched by a cute 23 year old guy whose hometown is in Darjeeling and mine is in Siliguri in West Bengal and she looks like a south East Asian like Thai or Filipino and now she lives in Bangalore. We had a decent chat yesterday and I hope she won't ghost me.
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  103.  @aniketb3513  Yeah bro you are right but it has been bothering me so much because I will be turning 22 on 22nd December and still no girlfriend at all. It feels like my youth is over and I missed out a lot.
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  104. Can being inexperienced at 22 still be a turn off? I am a guy who turned 22 just 6 days ago and I never had a girlfriend before and never been kissed. Its been bothering me a lot now. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago. One was 19(turned 20 last month) and another was 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I use dating apps but hardly get matches. Last week I was matched by 2 girls. One was 18 turning 19 in Feb and she unmatched me for no reason whereas another was 21 and she too ended up ghosting and unmatching me. Yesterday I was matched with this 20 year old girl who unmatched me after I told her that my hobby is singing and that was strange. I also follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds too and only like 2 of them chat with me.
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  105. Same man too but I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after just 3 days and I never had a girlfriend so far and its bothering me a lot lately. Btw say honestly, is it really creepy of me to follow girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days? They are all 20-22 year olds now and I follow many of them and even chat with 2 or 3 of them. Why do some people say its creepy even though I knew them high school?
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  106. You are just an old man who doesn't know how things these days are as you grew up in a different time. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never kissed or hugged a girl in real life. After having no luck on dating apps, I started messaging girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me and are 18-23 year olds now(mostly 19-22). 4 days ago, I tried asking out one of the girl for a coffee who is 19 turning 20 in August. We had been chatting on Instagram for a month and were in the same school too but now in different colleges. She literally agreed to meet me up and said she will let me know when we can meet. I was super happy as this was the first time a girl didn't reject or block me(I was rejected by 3 girls before that) but I could see her replies getting slower and shorter after that. Yesterday she said she was just having mood swings so I said her how to feel better if she is sad and then sent her a virtual hug and then she replied Thanks and suddenly I saw she blocked me. I was shocked because we planned to meet up one day but it can no longer happen as I have no other way of contacting her. What hurt me a lot is that she gave me false hope by not rejecting or blocking me 4 days ago itself when I asked her out and she just agreed to it. Pretty much tears came into my eyes.
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  107.  @doopy  No I am not. You are one I guess. I am fine. 21 is still young enough and I have plenty of time. If you are a teenager then don't even bother about me and the girls who are around my age.
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  108.  @doopy  I am not one. I just want a girl to cuddle and hug and I want some love and my first kiss. I haven't even got my first kiss yet and I am 21 and will be turning 22 this December. Thankfully I am still young enough. You are probably not even 18 so you don't know.
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  109. I feel the same as you but a decade younger than you. I just got my first handshake from a girl on 13th July 2023 and nothing more than that so I somewhat got to feel how it feels to hold a girl's hand. I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes and some more questions about myself. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  110. At least people say you are attractive. No one says that to me and I don't think girls ever had a crush on me. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend, never dated and never been kissed. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and got rejected by both. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and most of my matches who were in the 18-24 age range ended up ghosting me. Btw 4 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is a college student from a different college. Idk her age but she is definitely within the 19-21 age range and she is beautiful but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her. I can again meet her only on 1st Nov in the classes because she is going out of city for 2 weeks. But Idk whether she would like me or not as she is from a different college.
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  111.  @FexWasHere  OK I will. Btw I have another question. Actually like I said I don't know the real age of this new girl but she is a college student so she is 19-21 age range but there is a possibility that she can be an 18 year old college freshman. So should I still go for her even if she is 18? I mean I am 21 and will be turning 22 this December. Is 21 or 22 dating an 18 year old fine?
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  112.  @FexWasHere  How old are you? If you are younger than me then maybe yeah early 20s is mature to you. When I was 15, I used to feel 21 and 22 year olds are mature too. But 22 is not that much mature either. Most of our brain fully develops at 25. Usually a person who is 30 or at least in his late 20s are considered mature. Most 22 year olds are college students or freshly graduated from college. Plenty of guys in their early 20s including me are goofy and immature. 21 or 22 isn't too far from maturity from 18. Most 21 year old guys and 18 year old girls match in maturity so I can easily goof around with that 18 year old girl. I can get along well easily with 18 and 19 year olds too. And like I said she can be 19 or 20 or even 21 too so anything is possible. I would go for her but it sucks that I have to wait till 1st Nov as she is out of city for 2 weeks.
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  113. Same. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend either and got rejected by 2 of my crushes in my college recently. Btw yesterday I heard a song which was released in 2009 and I felt nostalgic hearing it and it reminds me of a girl whom I knew since my school days. She was in the same grade as me but we weren't in the same class and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so the same age as me and I followed her on Instagram but she hasn't accepted my follow request yet. I wish she could be my girlfriend now but she is too pretty and I was considered a loser by most guys in my grade in high school so maybe she would still find me lame even though she probably didn't know me properly. She also probably has a boyfriend. I really wish she follow me back so I can chat with her and get to know her.
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  114. Maybe you are right. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 5 days and still no girlfriend. Btw say honestly, is it really creepy of me to follow girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days? They are all 20-22 year olds now and I follow many of them and even chat with 2 or 3 of them. Why do some people say its creepy even though I knew them high school?
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  115. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and I tried to connect with girls whom I knew in my high school days by following them on IG but they didn't even accept my follow request and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls who matches with me on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me or end up ghosting me. But one 19 year old girl who matched with me last week turned out to be very mean to me 2 days ago and insulted me after I tried to ask her out after chatting with her for over a week and she literally called me ugly and said no girl would want me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  116.  @o0RealLifeWerewolf0o  oh so you are a woman? I thought you were a man. Btw if you were single, would you have gone for a 21 or a 22 year old guy? I am 21 who never had a girlfriend and after seeing most girls around my age being mean to me, I really wanna date an older woman who is at least 27 and older.
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  117. I am a 21 year old male virgin and I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. After getting rejected by 2 girls in my college and no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since my high school days and also no luck on dating apps, finally 6 days ago, a girl matched with me on one of the dating apps and for the first time, I had a decent chat with a girl on dating app without getting ghosted. She is a 19 year old girl and for the past 6 days, the chats were decent enough. We live in the same city but different college and different course too. Do you think this time I will at least get my first kiss? I also get worried thinking what if she ends up ghosting me too or wouldn't want me.
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  118. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. I started going for some classes to prepare for some exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3 weeks ago and I am planning to study MBA next. There in the class, I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She tries to initiate conversations with me and say me hi but I just say her hi back and answer what she asks but I am still shy to initiate any further talks with her. Almost 2 weeks ago, she actually said that I am cute and that made me blush a lot and today I gave her chocolate too. I was really shy but with my friends being with me, I gave her the chocolate and she thanked me with a smile and we did a handshake. I do feel a bit worried as she has 2-3 male friends in our class so I feel scared thinking what if she goes for either of them. Also in this Saturday, me and a girl who is 19 year old now planned to meet in a McDonald's near her college. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and we just have been kinda knowing each other for several months via Instagram. I have never been on a date or even a normal hang out with a girl so I am nervous. I am also worried whether she is really serious about hanging out with me on Saturday or she is joking as I just got rejected by several girls before. I am afraid that what if I mess up or something. I am hoping things will be fine and it won't get cancelled. I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago and she is 21 turning 22 soon and even she agreed to meet up but she is very inactive on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to my messages so she still haven't replied when we can exactly meet.
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  119. I can understand how you feel. I am also an only child too and I feel lonely. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks and she rejected me. I use 3 datings apps but barely get any matches and get ghosted if I get matched by one. 6 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined recently for some course. She is a college student from a different college and she is definitely within the 19-21 age range but idk her exact age so she can be 18 too and she is beautiful but she went out of city for 2 weeks so she hasn't come for the classes and I can see her again on 1st Nov. Idk whether I can go for her as she is from a different college.
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  120.  @enssorceler4754  Same here man I am 21 and too shy to approach girls. I use dating apps but barely get any matches. I saw a girl in a class 6 days ago where I joined and she is 19-21 year old but can be 18 too as idk her age yet and she is from a different college. I really don't know whether she would want me. Even I look younger than my age. Most of my friends say I look around 17.
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  121. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas and will be graduating college next year and I never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far(2 from my college and another from a dating app who insulted me too). I tried following some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school but only 3 of them followed me back and I still didn't message them yet as idk what to write and they are also 21-22 year olds. But I am sad that the girl named Britney didn't accept my follow request yet. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and she is very pretty and I wish she follow me back because I think I again got a crush on her just seeing her profile pic on IG and she is even prettier now at 21.
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  122.  @kmagic11  Haha yeah but I was born in 22nd December 2000 so our years are different but yeah we have birthday on the same day
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  123.  @WideArthur  I am a 21 year old guy and literally got rejected by a 20 year old girl who matched with me on dating app because she prefers bad guys and I was being nice to her. I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had crush on 2 girls in my college too recently. One is 19 and another is 20 or 21. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot but she rejected me. I am barely getting matches on dating apps too and even if I get matched, the girl eventually ghosts me. My most recent match was an 18 year old girl just about 2 weeks ago but she too ghosted me after a small chat.
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  124.  @WideArthur  Sadly it's kinda hard for me as I have no social life and only have few close friends who doesn't live near my home. What's worse is I still live with parents and whenever I go out, most of the time my parents too come out with me which makes it harder for me to meet girls. But even without them coming, I am still shy. I recently joined some classes for some courses and saw a girl today who is a college student too and she is within the 19-21 age range and I am 21 so our ages are perfect but I saw her for the first time today so I was too shy to say her hi. I messed up my college life too. I will be turning 22 this December which makes me even more sad.
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  125. Woah really at 60? I am a guy who turned 22 just 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and never had a real kiss with a girl except getting kissed on the cheek by a girl when we were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched by 18-23 age girls but they ghost me for no reason. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but got rejected. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now and I had the best chat with a girl for the past 6-7 days. She is 20 and I knew her in school and she was 2 years my junior. She seems so much better than other girls I have chatted with. I kinda messed up a bit today by giving her a cheesy compliment today but I apologized and said that I just wanted to make her smile and she thanked me and said it was sweet of me. Btw I have no idea whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  126.  @anemopixie5220  I am not a kiddo. I clearly wrote I am 22.
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  127. That's sad that you are alone. Honestly if we were in the same city, I would have tried my luck on you. I am a 21 year old guy so we are both close enough in age. I would have never make you feel alone. One hug for you just to make you smile 🤗
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  128.  @davethecave6847  so will it be hard for me as well? I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and didn't even get my first kiss yet and I feel lonely and down. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One of them is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I have been using 3 dating apps for 4 months but barely getting any matches at all and one 20 year old girl who matched with me 2 months ago rejected me saying she only prefers bad guys and that I am too nice for her. About 2 weeks ago, I saw another girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is from a different college tho and she is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but can be 18 too as idk her real age but I was too shy to even say her a hi that day and now I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she went out of city for 2 weeks and I am afraid that she might reject me as well especially because we are from different college.
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  129.  @davethecave6847  Btw would you call it young love anymore if I got a girlfriend now? Would it be that same special feelings like when teens fall in love for the first time? I am 21 now and will be turning 22 this December so it kinda makes me feel sad that I couldn't experience young love and couldn't experience that first kiss which many experience as a teen.
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  130.  @anubis4032  So its bad that one of my crush is an 18 year old girl in my college? I am a 21 year old guy and will be turning 22 this December
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  131. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Btw don't worry I would protect you if anyone shamed you. Honestly I am ready to take some beatings when it comes to protecting a girl. I would fight them all for you. Here is one hug for you just to make smile 🤗
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  132. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Got rejected by 3 girls who are 19-21 year olds so far(2 from my college and 1 from a dating app). I tried following few girls on Instagram too whom I knew in my high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now but only 7 of them followed me back and 2 of my high school crushes who are 21-22 now didn't even accept my follow request. Yesterday I got matched by 2 girls on dating app Hinge. One is 21 and the other one is 23. Unfortunately, the 21 year old girl stopped replying after a small chat whereas I had a decent chat with the 23 year old and she is super cute and I really wish she won't ghost me too.
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  133. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. Got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently. Last week, I got matched by a 19 year old girl on one of the dating apps I use and we had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all in the app. So I am worried that this might not work so I tried keeping an option by following a girl named Britney on Instagram who was my classmate when we were in 6th to 10th grade. I remember having crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or probably even 22 now so same age as me. She was the prettiest girl in our class in high school days and she is even prettier now at 21 and I tried following her on Instagram today but she didn't even accept my follow request yet.
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  134. Come on you have girls having lot of interests whereas it never happens with me and I am still kinda shy near girls in person even at 22. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before either and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took a month to reply to it but she replied yeah ok. We also told that maybe we can meet on some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I have been going for some classes to prepare for some exams to get into MBA as I am pretty much done with college and there I got a new crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on the first day of our class and said our names and it was the first time I did handshake with a girl. Last week she was initiating convo with me asking whether I had lunch or not and some more and I answered them but I am still shy to initiate any further convos with her so the our conversations end soon and for the past 2-3 days she isn't trying to talk to me anymore and I am shy to try to start any conversation with her. I did follow her on Instagram yesterday and she followed me back too but I didn't dm her yet. I always think about her and wanna get to know her. I also have been chatting with this another girl who is 19 now on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she too used to be in the same school as me but now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho and we chat daily about everything and even send each other virtual hugs too but I am nervous to ask her out too as I got rejected by 4 girls recently and it still looks like she only sees me as a friend. Whats crazy is I like this 19 year old and I also like my childhood friend and this new crush who is 22/23 year old.
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  135.  @zekko600  BTW yesterday I saw a girl in a class where I joined for some extra course. She is a college student too but from a different college and she is 19 or 20 or maybe 21 so about the same age as me and she is very beautiful and has a very beautiful voice and I might get a crush on her too. But I only saw her for the first time yesterday so I was too shy to initiate any convo with her. Sadly I won't be able to see her for 2 weeks because she is going out of station so she won't come for the classes until 1st Nov.
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  136.  @60HMS60  Wow I am a 21 year old guy so 5 years younger than you and it sounds so scary as I can't imagine going for a war. I never had a girlfriend either. I did see a girl 6 days ago in a class where I joined recently. She is a college student too from a different college and is 19-21 but idk her age so she can be 18 too. I think I got a crush on her and I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she is out of city for 2 weeks.
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  137.  @IsraelLlerena  what about 21 or 22? Is it weird? I am a 21 year old guy who never even had my first kiss yet. I will be turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas.
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  138. What's your opinion about a 21 or 22 year old guy dating an 18 year old girl?
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  139.  @zealotreacts  you both in high school?
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  140. At least you had girlfriends before. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and tried to connect with girls whom I knew in high school by following them on IG but they didn't follow me back and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me and one 19 year old girl who matched with me turned out to be very mean to me yesterday and insulted me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  141.  @Wealo1001  Sadly so far most girls around my age have been mean to me or ghosting me so I am trying to go for a woman who is 27 or older because yesterday that 19 year old girl on the dating app was being very mean to me in the chats after I tried to ask her out after having a chat with her for over a week. She called me ugly and a loser and said no girl will like me. So I am trying to go for older women for real as I want a mature woman now. I am 21 and will be turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas and I am too down since yesterday.
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  142. Just turned 22 yesterday and never had a girlfriend before. At this point, its bothering me so much.
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  143. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. Got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently. Last week, I got matched by a 19 year old girl on one of the dating apps I use and we had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all in the app. So I am worried that this might not work so I tried keeping an option by following a girl named Britney on Instagram who was my classmate when we were in 6th to 10th grade. I remember having crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or probably even 22 now so same age as me. She was the prettiest girl in our class in high school days and she is even prettier now at 21 and I tried following her on Instagram today but she didn't even accept my follow request yet.
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  144. Haha you are still young and have plenty of time. Sadly I am a 21 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 but both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot and she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted. 2 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined for some courses. She is a college student too from a different college and she is 19 or 20 or maybe 21(idk her exact age yet but she is definitely 19-21). She is beautiful and I might get a crush on her but that day I didn't have the confidence to initiate a convo with her and I won't be able to meet her for 2 weeks and I have to wait till 1st Nov as she is going out of city for 2 weeks and will come to classes from 1st Nov.
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  145.  @gravepatch  True man. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and another one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl from my college on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. Last week I heard a song which reminded me of a girl who was in my school and same grade too but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and I am 21 so we are the same age and I followed her on Insta too but she declined my follow request and didn't reply to my message too. That shows I haven't been lucky.
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  146.  @beyondwilline3634  How? She is an adult and so am I and so close in age.
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  147.  @jackiechan1148  How am I creepy? We are both only 3 years apart in age and she is 18 so she isn't underage.
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  148.  @bernthalbabe313  Come on I am just 21 and only 3 years older. She can also be a college freshman. I also like a girl in my college who is 18 and in 1st year and I will be turning 22 this December. The age gap is even less than 5 years.
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  149.  @bernthalbabe313  What if she is almost 19? Would you still find it weird for me to date a 19 year old? Actually I also got matched on a dating app by a 19 year old girl with whom I had a decent chat for 2 days and she lives in my city but we are in different college. What's your opinion about 21 or 22 year old dating a 19 year old girl?
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  150.  @bernthalbabe313  Well I live in Bangalore in India so thankfully age gaps aren't seen as such big deal in Asian and European countries as long as both are 18 and older, like how it is seen in US. You Americans even have problem with a small 3 or 4 year age gap. In my college, lots of 18 year old girls in 1st year dates 20 to 22 year old seniors. It's totally normal in most Asian countries and even in Europe most people don't care. Only American judge age gaps.
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  151. I am also a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. I feel like I am such a repellant to girls. 2 of my crushes in college rejected me recently. 3 days ago I heard a song which reminded me of a girl whom I knew since my school days and we were in same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so we are the same age. She is very beautiful and I followed her on Instagram. Her account is private so I sent her a follow request but she literally rejected my follow request and I am so down. Why did she do that? Is it because she can't recognize me or it's just I am too repellant to girls or is it because she finds me lame because I used to get bullied a lot in high school and was considered a loser by most guys in my grade? Is it fine if I send her a message?
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  152.  @Missunseen  I mainly asked because I am worried whether girls will find it a turn off or not. I prefer girls in the 18 to 26 age range because I prefer someone within 3-4 years my age. Honestly after getting ghosted and rejected by girls, I am thinking about trying my luck on a girl who was my childhood friend. She was friend when we both were in elementary school in 2008-2011. We used to play together, study together, have sleepovers etc but since 2011, we never really talked as my parents bought a new apartment and we came to a different area. She is 21 now and only 5 months younger than me. I messaged her on Instagram recently and she still remembers me. I think I kinda fall in love with her seeing her pics on IG as she looks very cute. I really wanna go on date with her but idk how. I would love to give her a long hug too but idk when it will happen.
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  153. They are lucky enough whereas its hard for me to get a girlfriend. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far(2 from my college and another from a dating app who insulted me too). I tried following some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school but only 3 of them followed me back and I still didn't message them yet as idk what to write and they are also 21-22 year olds. But I am sad that the girl named Britney didn't accept my follow request yet. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and she is very pretty and I wish she follow me back because I think I again got a crush on her just seeing her profile pic on IG and she is even prettier now at 21.
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  154. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never been kissed. After having no luck on dating apps, I had been chatting with some girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me and are 18-23 year olds(mostly 19-22). But there is this girl who is 19 turning 20 in August whom I tried asking out for a coffee 2 days and we had been chatting for a month on insta and we were in the same school too but now in different colleges. And I can't believe that she agreed to meet me. She didn't say when but she said she will let me know when we can meet preferably in the cafe near her college as she is a medical student so she is busy. This is the first time I didn't get rejected or blocked or ghosted so I am still not able to believe it and really happy too but idk when we will meet exactly and I kinda feel worried that what if she ghosts me even though we have been chatting for a month.
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  155. There is no pressure because you are still young. Once you hit 20, you will want a girlfriend. I was also happy being single in my teenage days but since last year when I was 20, I started feeling sad and lonely and wished I had a girlfriend. Now I am a 21 year old guy and still no girlfriend. Most girls in my age group are rude and mean to me and probably only wants gigachad type of guys. Thats why I would go for an older woman who is at least 27 or older because I want a matured woman who would treat me better and love me a lot.
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  156. Same man too but I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after just 3 days and I never had a girlfriend so far and I only have some chat with girls in the 18-23 age range on social media and sometimes on dating apps who eventually ghosts me but I never really talk with a girl in person. Btw say honestly, is it really creepy of me to follow girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days? They are all 20-22 year olds now and I follow many of them and even chat with 2 or 3 of them and I would try my luck on one of them. Why do some people say its creepy even though I knew them high school?
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  157. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend and still didn't get my first kiss. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but I barely get any matches at all and even if I get one, I end up getting ghosted. I did see a girl a week ago in a class I joined recently for some course and she is from a different college. She is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too and she is really beautiful and I think I got a crush on her but I was too shy to even say her a hi that day. Now I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she is out of city for 2 weeks
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  158. You are lucky. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. I feel like I am such a repellant to girls. 2 of my crushes in college rejected me recently. 3 days ago I heard a song which reminded me of a girl whom I knew since my school days and we were in same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so we are the same age. She is very beautiful and I followed her on Instagram. Her account is private so I sent her a follow request but she literally rejected my follow request and I am so down. Why did she do that? Is it because she can't recognize me or it's just I am too repellant to girls or is it because she finds me lame because I used to get bullied a lot in high school and was considered a loser by most guys in my grade? Is it fine if I send her a message?
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  159. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and tried to connect with girls whom I knew in high school by following them on IG but they didn't follow me back and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me and one 19 year old girl who matched with me turned out to be very mean to me yesterday and insulted me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  160.  @elbiscochogamer8095  Thanks but she still haven't followed me back on Instagram. I probably have no chance with her I guess. I remember seeing her breaking up with a guy from her class when we were in 10th grade and that guy was much smarter and popular than me whereas most guys in my grade used to pretty much consider me a loser and I used to get bullied a lot in high school so she probably still finds me lame maybe and that's why she isn't following me back but idk.
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  161.  @cadedrury  No she is on Instagram so I am trying to know her by chatting with her on Instagram but she isn't even accepting my follow request.
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  162. Hey man are you seriously 46? Did you have a gf before? I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend so think how sad I feel. I also had crush on 2 girls in my college recently(both my juniors). One is 19 and the other one is 20 or maybe 21. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use dating apps too but no luck so far and most of my matches who were in the 18-24 age range ghosted me. But yesterday I saw another girl in a class where I joined for some extra courses. She is a college student too but from a different college and she is 19 or 20 or maybe 21 and very beautiful and has a very beautiful voice and I might get a crush on her too. But I only saw her for the first time yesterday so I was too shy to initiate any convo with her. Sadly I won't be able to see her for 2 weeks because she is going out of station so she won't come for the classes until 1st Nov.
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  163. Come on dude you are 27 now. You are a grown adult now so you should feel like an adult. Even I am a 21 year old guy which is a grown adult too and it has been bothering me so much that I am an adult and still no girlfriend or even my first kiss yet and you are 27 and not ready?
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  164. True especially in my case. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. Got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently. Last week, I got matched by a 19 year old girl on one of the dating apps I use and we had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all in the app. So I am worried that this might not work so I tried keeping an option by following a girl named Britney on Instagram who was my classmate when we were in 6th to 10th grade. I remember having crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or probably even 22 now so same age as me. She was the prettiest girl in our class in high school days and she is even prettier now at 21 and I tried following her on Instagram today but she didn't even accept my follow request yet.
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  165. What age range guys do you prefer? I am a 21 year old guy and got matched with a 19 year old girl 6 days ago on one of the dating apps I use and we had a decent chat for the past 6 days. We live in the same city but different college. But I will be turning 22 this December and her birthday is in June so I will be turning 22 about 6 months before she turns 20. Is it fine for a 21-22 year old guy to date an 18 or a 19 year old girl?
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  166.  @emiemorin1540  he is so lucky for dating an older girl. I literally got rejected by a 24 year old girl recently and she said I am young for her even though I am 21. The oldest I would date would be 28 for now but most girls who are 24 and older doesn't want me and don't take me seriously. I wonder how some guys get older girls whereas I am an adult in my 20s and still 24+ girls find me young for them.
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  167.  @SphaxPlays  I would date any girl within the 18 to 28 age range. I am 21 so 24 is only 3 years older than me. The oldest I would go for is 28 which is only 7 years older than me
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  168. @Provo Beats I have been using tinder, bumble and hinge for 4 months but barely get any matches. I got few matches recently but they always end up ghosting me and idk why.
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  169. At least you had your first kiss. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had his first kiss and I never had a girlfriend. After having no luck with like 4 girls I know in real life, finally 2 days ago I was matched with a girl on one of the dating apps who isn't ghosting me so far. She is 19 years old and we had a decent chat for the past 2 days and she too lives in my city but we are in different college and different course too. Do you think I will at least get my first kiss this time? I am scared that she might ghost me too. I will be turning 22 this December and I at least want my first kiss before 22nd December which is my 22nd birthday.
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  170.  @whatdoinamethischannel9749  BTW you are 18 now so say me what's your opinion about a 21 or 22 year old guy dating an 18 year old girl? I am a 21 year old guy and recently got crush on a girl in a class where I go for some courses. She is a college student and I think she is 19-21 age range but idk her age so there is a possibility that she can be 18 too. Should I try my luck even if she is 18? I will be turning 22 this December. She could be any age in the 18-21 age range.
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  171.  @veep0stal  are you a girl? How old are you? I am a 21 year old guy btw.
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  172.  @veep0stal  yeah I got crush on a girl in a class where I joined recently for some course. She is also a college student but from a different college. She is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but she can be 18 too as idk her exact age yet but I was too shy to even say her hi haha. She is really beautiful and has a cute voice too.
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  173.  @SniperFoxx420  Dude leave her alone. She is only 17 and you are 20. You are an adult so leave her alone. Go pick on someone your age.
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  174. I am kinda unlucky too. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Got rejected by 3 girls who are 19-21 year olds so far(2 from my college and 1 from a dating app). I tried following few girls on Instagram too whom I knew in my high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now but only 7 of them followed me back and 2 of my high school crushes who are 21-22 now didn't even accept my follow request. Yesterday I got matched by 2 girls on dating app Hinge. One is 21 and the other one is 23. Unfortunately, the 21 year old girl stopped replying after a small chat whereas I had a decent chat with the 23 year old and she is super cute and I really wish she won't ghost me too.
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  175.  @jamespain2138  btw man tell me is 22 really too old for an 18 year old? Like I said I am 21 and will be turning 22 on 22nd December and few days ago I was also matched with an 18 year old girl and we had a nice chat. Yesterday we added each other on Instagram and I was complimenting her too but she said she won't date me because I am not her type and my personality is opposite of what she is looking for and suddenly she started saying she won't date someone 4 years older than her and said I am too old for her. How is 22 too old for 18? I am not even 22 yet. Anyways I found out, she doesn't even live in my city but still why did she match with me if my age was a problem? My age 21 is clearly written on my profile.
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