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  1. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  2. Is 22 late too if I never even dated before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. After 3 rejections recently, I did ask out my childhood friend who is 21 year old now turning 22 soon by messaging her on Instagram and she did reply yeah ok but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and now again she hasn't been online for weeks and still yet to reply about when we can meet but I am still waiting. But since 28th May 2023, I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days. Now she is 19 year old and is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and we chat daily about pretty much everything and we send each other virtual hugs too and I think I started liking her too but so far it still looks like she just sees me as a friend as the chats doesn't get very flirty yet and we have been chatting for almost a month. We are also in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. I do wanna ask her out but my childhood friend didn't reject me too and I like both of them.
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  3. I am a guy who turned 22 almost 9 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and its bothering me so much. I use dating apps but hardly any matches. I got matched with 2 girls 2 weeks ago. One is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April but no plan of first date or anything. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I do follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are all 19-22 age range and I started chatting with this girl for 4 days who was my junior in my school days. Now she is 20 about to be 21 after 4 months and we only sent virtual hugs to each other today but she only sees me as a friend so idk whether I have chance with her or not
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  4. I am in the same boat as you but I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never kissed or hugged a girl in real life. After having no luck on dating apps, I started messaging girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me and are 18-23 year olds now(mostly 19-22). 4 days ago, I tried asking out one of the girl for a coffee who is 19 turning 20 in August. We had been chatting on Instagram for a month and were in the same school too but now in different colleges. She literally agreed to meet me up and said she will let me know when we can meet. I was super happy as this was the first time a girl didn't reject or block me(I was rejected by 3 girls before that) but I could see her replies getting slower and shorter after that. Yesterday she said she was just having mood swings so I said her how to feel better if she is sad and then sent her a virtual hug and then she replied Thanks and suddenly I saw she blocked me. I was shocked because we planned to meet up one day but it can no longer happen as I have no other way of contacting her. What hurt me a lot is that she gave me false hope by not rejecting or blocking me 4 days ago itself when I asked her out and she just agreed to it. Pretty much tears came into my eyes.
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  5.  @pingeee  no it isn't. I am just 22 and that's still young enough. I have plenty of time
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  6. Damn man really at 55? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon but I just have a massive crush on one of them who is also 22 or maybe 23. She initiated convo with me saying hi and telling her name and asking mine last week Thursday(our first class there) and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. I really can't stop thinking about this girl as she is very pretty and she is very sweet as she tries to initiate convo with me asking whether I had lunch and today she also asked how far my home is from the classes but I just answer what she asks and I am too shy to initiate a convo further with her but I really wanna get to know her and idk whether it would be fine to message her on Whatsapp by seeing her number from our class whatsapp group. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also this new 22/23 year old on whom I newly got crush.
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  7. Damn man really at 40? Have you dated before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. Since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college last week and wanna study MBA next. There in the classes, I got a massive crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on our first class and introduced ourselves and she sometimes tries to initiate convos with me asking whether I had lunch or not and some more she does say me hi but I just answer what she asks or say hi back but I am still shy to initiate further talks with her. I am still kinda shy near girls in person so I don't really feel the confidence to initiate any conversation with her unless she initiates one with me. But yesterday she actually said I am cute as I keep smiling(like a shy smile) almost all the time in class and I blushed hard after she said I am cute and my friends too teased me about it hehe. I also had been chatting with this another girl who is 19 on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago and she is 21 now turning 22 soon. My childhood friend did agree to meet up but she is so inactive on Instagram that I still don't know when we will meet as she takes weeks or even a month to reply to me whereas I chat with the 19 year old daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs daily. We used to be in the same school but now she is in a different college which is very near to my home tho. I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I get rejected by 4 girls recently and it looks like she still sees me as just a friend.
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  8. Did I miss out a lot as I am 22 now and never dated before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. I got rejected very recently by 3 girls( rejected by 7 girls in total so far tho). These 3 girls were all in the same school as me but now in different colleges and we had been chatting on Instagram for months. One of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up after I asked her out few weeks ago but she blocked me mysteriously after few days whereas another girl blocked me immediately after I asked her out. 5 days ago I tried asking out another girl who is 20 now and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she rejected me saying that even though I am really nice, she just isn't comfortable to meet up with me and it hit me hard. But there is still some hope as I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months. We were very close friends when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. But she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see that message in which I asked her out so still no reply yet. I am still waiting for her reply and hoping a positive reply as I genuinely like her a lot but idk.
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  9. Damn man really at 56? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to even get my first kiss. I started going some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and planning to study MBA next and there I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23. She does sometimes try to initiate conversations with me or just say me hi with a smile daily but I just answer what she asks or just say her hi back and I am still shy to initiate any further conversations with her. 3 weeks ago she did say she finds me cute and that made me blush hard and my friends too teased me about it hehe and last week I also gave her a chocolate and she smiled and thanked me and we did a handshake but I feel worried as I see her having 3-4 male friends so I feel scared that what if she goes for either of them. Also next Saturday, me and this girl who is 19 year old did plan to meet up in Mcdonalds. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other those days. We had been chatting on Instagram for several months and finally decided to meet but I am nervous whether she is serious about the meet up or not because I got rejected by 4 girls previously. I am excited but also afraid as I have never really hanged out with a girl before. I hope the plan doesn't get cancelled. I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago who is 21 now turning 22 next month and she did agree to meet up one day but I still don't know when exactly we will meet because she isn't really active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to my messages.
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  10. Would you find never being in a relationship at 22 is still as bad as it would have been at 30? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and it bothers me a lot. Btw is a month long enough to know whether someone is interested in me or not? I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up she haven't replied yet about when we can meet. I have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. We are in different colleges now but we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school. So we only have been getting to know each other for a bit over a month. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily and talk about literally everything and we are both foodies too and send each other virtual hugs but there isn't any flirting in the chats yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but is 1 month already long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not or does it take longer?
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  11. So are you one or not? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. I started going for some classes to prepare for some exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3 weeks ago and I am planning to study MBA next. There in the class, I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She tries to initiate conversations with me and say me hi but I just say her hi back and answer what she asks but I am still shy to initiate any further talks with her. Almost 2 weeks ago, she actually said that I am cute and that made me blush a lot and 2 days ago I gave her chocolate too. I was really shy but with my friends being with me, I gave her the chocolate and she thanked me with a smile and we did a handshake but I am worried that what if I made her uncomfortable by giving her the chocolate as she didn't say me hi in class since yesterday and that made me upset. I do also feel a bit worried as she has 2-3 male friends in our class so I feel scared thinking what if she goes for either of them. Also in next Saturday, me and a girl who is 19 year old now planned to meet in a McDonald's near her college. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and we just have been kinda knowing each other for several months via Instagram. I have never been on a date or even a normal hang out with a girl so I am nervous. I am also worried whether she is really serious about hanging out with me on Saturday or she is joking as I just got rejected by several girls before. I am afraid that what if I mess up or something. I am hoping things will be fine and it won't get cancelled. I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago and she is 21 turning 22 soon and even she agreed to meet up but she is very inactive on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to my messages so she still haven't replied when we can exactly meet.
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  12. Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 22 almost 9 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and its bothering me so much. I use dating apps but hardly any matches. I got matched with 2 girls 2 weeks ago. One is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April but no plan of first date or anything. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I do follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are all 19-22 age range and I started chatting with this girl for 4 days who was my junior in my school days. Now she is 20 about to be 21 after 4 months and we only sent virtual hugs to each other today but she only sees me as a friend so idk whether I have chance with her or not
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  13. I am in a similar boat but 11 years younger and never even been kissed. I am a guy who turned 23 almost 2 months ago(on 22nd December) and never had a girlfriend before and only had my first ever date 5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(20 now) and had my first ever hug but she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere and also almost 4 months ago I went out with a female friend who is also 23 and ate in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date. 2-3 weeks ago, I got a new crush on this girl in the classes where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I graduated college about 6-7 months ago, but she is in another classroom. She is within the 21-23 age range and I was really shy to talk her but almost 2 weeks ago I did talk a bit to her with the help of my friends and one of her classmate. Her classmate said she is single so I was happy and said her Hi again and she too smiled and said me Hi back. But 4 days ago one of her another classmate said that she probably has a boyfriend who isn't in the institute where I go for classes. Idk whether to believe it or not. Anyways I again talked a bit with her today and even did handshake with her and she has such a sweet smile and voice but its kinda bothering me whether she is really single or not. She is very very pretty almost model like whereas I look better without my glasses but I have high power so have to wear them which makes me look dorky and nerdy and I still sound a bit nervous while talking with her. I sent her a follow request on Instagram and a dm too but no reply yet and its been 4 days already so its bothering me too. Whats worse is I had crush on this another girl in our class there who also turned 23 last month and she has called me cute and i gave her chocolates too but was too shy to confess it to her. Now she is ignoring me and not talking with me after she came to know about my new crush on this other girl. I still have this girl who is 19 turning 20 in April and we have been chatting on Instagram for 7 months and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other that time and now she is in a different college and we send each other virtual hugs daily and are both foodies and plan to meet up and eat somewhere too one day but in the end I am still single.
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  14. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. I got rejected very recently by 3 girls( rejected by 7 girls in total so far tho). These 3 girls were all in the same school as me but now in different colleges and we had been chatting on Instagram for months. One of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up after I asked her out few weeks ago but she blocked me mysteriously after few days whereas another girl blocked me immediately after I asked her out. 5 days ago I tried asking out another girl who is 20 now and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she rejected me saying that even though I am really nice, she just isn't comfortable to meet up with me and it hit me hard. But there is still some hope as I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months. We were very close friends when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. But she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see that message in which I asked her out so still no reply yet. I am still waiting for her reply and hoping a positive reply as I genuinely like her a lot but idk.
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  15. Wow man 46? Have you been on a date? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but had my first ever date and first hug 7 months ago at the age of 22 and sadly it didn't work out. Got ignored and rejected by several crushes. Currently having a crush on this girl in my University where I am pursuing my MBA and I am in 1st year and she too is an MBA 1st year student and she is also within 21-23 age range but we aren't in the same classrooms so we have brief conversations mostly and she has been my crush for the past 2 months. I even got her number 2 weeks ago in a clever way but she didn't see my whatsapp text and when I asked she said she had 2 exams in the same day. 2 days ago I even hugged her finally as it was her last exam that day and yesterday was my last exam so we won't be able to meet in person for 3 months as we all have to do a 2-3 months internship between May to July and our next semester classes will start in August so I gave her a goodbye hug for now. She did give a bit of an awkward smile tho when I hugged her. I literally put all my arms around her while hugging whereas she didn't really put both her arms around me but she pat my back once and said ok I have to study now as I have an exam in an hour so bye and then even I said ok bye and we walked our own ways. It was brief few seconds hug but it was also my 2nd time I ever hugged a girl in person. I hope she wasn't uncomfortable but it was really one of my happiest day and even my classmates were surprised seeing that.
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  16. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I feel FOMO all the time. Honestly I am an introvert too so I am relying on online dating to meet girls but having no matches on dating apps. Even if I rarely get one, they ghost me all the time. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in school days and they are mostly 19-22 age range but many of them ghosted and blocked me too because I was too shy near girls in my school days so never interacted with them in school so I am almost a stranger to them. Only 4 or 5 of them chats daily with me and 2 of them both 20 year olds are sweet to me and we send virtual hugs to each other. I wanna try my luck with this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school. She is 21 now turning 22 after 3–4 months and I really wanna ask her out for a date but I don't know whether she would want to or not.
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  17. Damn man really at 44? I am over 2 decades younger than you and in the same boat as you. I am a 22 year old guy(turning 23 in just 7 days) who never had a girlfriend before but I did have my first ever date 3 months ago. She is 19(turning 20 in Feb) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and we hugged each other and I pinched her cheeks too but 2 weeks after the date she turned out of be toxic to me and blocked me on every social media. She basically just used me for free food and taking lots of pics to post on social media. I also have a massive crush on this girl who is also 22(turning 23 next month) in a class where I go for classes for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college about 5 months ago and about to study MBA next. I like her a lot but I am usually shy near her so she is the one who initiates conversations with me. Few weeks ago, she actually said I was looking cute that day and I also said she looked cute and I pinched her cheeks too and she blushed a bit. Sadly she has several male friends which makes me afraid that she might go for them. Almost 2 months ago, I went out with this another girl who is 23 from the same class. We roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant but I was shy to ask for a hug from her but finally I pinched her cheeks too and we might go out again next month but we are just friends. I also follow several girls on Instagram who are in the same institute where I go for this classes for exam preparations and they are all within 21-25 age range and some of them followed me back and I might message them too. I also have been chatting with this another girl who is 19 now(turning 20 in April) for several months on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but didn't know each other those days and we get along well now and have many things in common and send each other virtual hugs and we might meet up soon too especially to experiment with food as we are both foodies.
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  18. Damn man but you can go for women in their mid or late 20s tho at 35. I am a 22 year old guy who too never had a girlfriend before and I was losing hope but I finally got my first ever date at the age of 22 on 16th September 2023 which was about 2 weeks ago. She is 19 year old and is in 2nd year of college and we used to be in the same school but didn’t know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since 28th May 2023 after chatting on Instagram. We went to the mall that day and ate in Mcdonalds there. I was pinching her cheeks too as she is really cute and finally we hugged a little and then took pics. I still didn’t get my first kiss and still single but at least I am not dateless and hugless anymore and gained some confidence. I also like 2 girls in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 2 months ago and now planning to study MBA next. One of the girl is also 22 and another one is 23 or 24 now. I was shy near them but hopefully after the date I will be more confident now but idk. I also like the 19 year old with whom I went to the date and she is really sweet too.
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  19. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon. Those 3 girls are around 22-24 year olds and very pretty and initiated convo with me saying hi and telling names and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. Today too they tried to talk with me but I am still kinda shy near girls in person so we didn't talk much but for the past 2 days I can't stop thinking about them. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also the three 22-24 year olds on whom I newly got crush.
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  20. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. Recently I got unmatched by 2 girls(One is 19 and the other one is 21) on dating app after asking them out for a coffee even though we had a good chat. I also have been chatting with a girl who is 19 turning 20 in August on Instagram for a month and she was in the same school as me but now different colleges and I asked her out too for a coffee and she even agreed to meet up one day but she suddenly blocked me last week. I also tried asking out another girl 7 days ago and she is turning 20 after a couple of weeks and she too was in the same school as me but she blocked me immediately after I asked her out. Now my last hope is this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 and she is 21 now turning 22 after about 4 months. I asked her out too for coffee and I genuinely like her a lot but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to that message yet. I am honestly hoping a positive reply from her and she agrees to meet up but I am worried too that she might reject me but idk.
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  21. I am a 22 year old guy(turning 23 in just 6 days) who never had a girlfriend before but I did have my first ever date 3 months ago. She is 19(turning 20 in Feb) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and we hugged each other and I pinched her cheeks too but 2 weeks after the date she turned out of be toxic to me and blocked me on every social media. She basically just used me for free food and taking lots of pics to post on social media. I also have a massive crush on this girl who is also 22(turning 23 next month) in a class where I go for classes for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college about 5 months ago and about to study MBA next. I like her a lot but I am usually shy near her so she is the one who initiates conversations with me. Few weeks ago, she actually said I was looking cute that day and I also said she looked cute and I pinched her cheeks too and she blushed a bit. Sadly she has several male friends which makes me afraid that she might go for them. Almost 2 months ago, I went out with this another girl who is 23 from the same class. We roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant but I was shy to ask for a hug from her but finally I pinched her cheeks too and we might go out again next month but we are just friends. I also follow several girls on Instagram who are in the same institute where I go for this classes for exam preparations and they are all within 21-25 age range and some of them followed me back and I might message them too. I also have been chatting with this another girl who is 19 now(turning 20 in April) for several months on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but didn't know each other those days and we get along well now and have many things in common and send each other virtual hugs and we might meet up soon too especially to experiment with food as we are both foodies.
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  22. So is even 22 or 23 late too? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but went on my first ever date on 16th September 2023 which was just a bit over a month ago. She is 19 and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and we hugged and I was pinching her cheeks a lot. But 2 weeks after the date, she became toxic after I messaged her saying me to go to hell and said swear words and then blocked me on all social media apps. It looks like she just used me for free lunch and to take pics of her so she can post them on Instagram. I lost some hope. But almost 2 weeks ago, I went out with this another girl who is also either 22 or 23 now. She is in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3-4 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had a great day and I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie and had lunch in a restaurant too. We are just friends tho and we might again go out on 22nd November. I also have big crush on this another girl in the same class who is also 22. I am kinda shy near her and usually she is the one who initiates conversations with me but 3 weeks ago she asked me how was she looking and I said she is cute and I pinched her cheeks too and she blushed a bit. Nowadays I noticed she smiles at me whenever I look at her and tells her friend about me while looking at me and smiling. But she has several male friends so idk whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  23. I just turned 22 yesterday and I never had a girlfriend before and its bothering me a lot now. Had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched by 18-23 age girls but they too ghost or reject me. I also follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now too but I only chat with 2 or 3 of them and they hardly chat much. I really wanna try my luck on them but we hardly chat much.
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  24. Are you really 36? Btw yeah I still feel I missed out on young love. I am a 22 year old guy who too never had a girlfriend before and I was losing hope but I finally got my first ever date at the age of 22 on 16th September 2023 which was about 2 weeks ago. She is 19 year old and is in 2nd year of college and we used to be in the same school but didn’t know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since 28th May 2023 after chatting on Instagram. We went to the mall that day and ate in Mcdonalds there. I was pinching her cheeks too as she is really cute and finally we hugged a little and then took pics. I still didn’t get my first kiss and still single but at least I am not dateless and hugless anymore and gained some confidence. I also like 2 girls in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 2 months ago and now planning to study MBA next. One of the girl is also 22 and another one is 23 or 24 now. I was shy near them but hopefully after the date I will be more confident now but idk and the one who is 22 finds me cute too. I also like the 19 year old with whom I went to the date and she is really sweet too.
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  25. But I don't wanna be 40 and date 20 year olds. I wanna date 18-25 year olds now at 22. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. Recently I got unmatched by 2 girls(One is 19 and the other one is 21) on dating app after asking them out for a coffee even though we had a good chat. I also have been chatting with a girl who is 19 turning 20 in August on Instagram for a month and she was in the same school as me but now different colleges and I asked her out too for a coffee and she even agreed to meet up one day but she suddenly blocked me last week. I also tried asking out another girl 8 days ago and she is turning 20 after a couple of weeks and she too was in the same school as me but she blocked me immediately after I asked her out. Now my last hope is this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 and she is 21 now turning 22 after about 4 months. I asked her out too for coffee and I genuinely like her a lot but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to that message yet. I am honestly hoping a positive reply from her and she agrees to meet up but I am worried too that she might reject me but idk.
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  26. I am in the same boat as you but I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. I got rejected very recently by 3 girls( rejected by 7 girls in total so far tho). These 3 girls were all in the same school as me but now in different colleges and we had been chatting on Instagram for months. One of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up after I asked her out few weeks ago but she blocked me mysteriously after few days whereas another girl blocked me immediately after I asked her out. Few days ago I tried asking out another girl who is 20 now and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she rejected me saying that even though I am really nice, she just isn't comfortable to meet up with me and it hit me hard. But there is still some hope as I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months. We were very close friends when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. But she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see that message in which I asked her out so still no reply yet. I am still waiting for her reply and hoping a positive reply as I genuinely like her a lot but idk.
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  27.  @j.d.s.1837  Haha true. Btw he is 41 so he is either the oldest millennial or starting of Gen X but yeah he talks like a boomer. Btw I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago so I am Gen Z and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  28. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I tried asking out my childhood friend who is 21 turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply. She agreed to meet up and we even decided that we will meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. Since 13th July 2023, I also started going for some classes for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I am pretty much done with college and I got a new crush on this girl in the class who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She tried to initiate convo with me on that day and we did handshake too and it was the first time I did handshake with a girl. She also asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she asked me some more things too about myself. I answered her all but I am still shy to initiate any further conversation with her. I wanna get to know her more but I am kinda shy. I also wanna ask her for a hug as she is really sweet and pretty but I am just not confident enough. I also had been chatting with another girl who is 19 now on Instagram. She also used to be in the same school as me but now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho and we chat a lot daily and even send each other virtual hugs but I am nervous to ask her out too as I got rejected by 4 girls recently and she still seems to see me just as a friend. What should I do as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also this new crush who is 22/23 year old?
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  29. Same but 8 years younger. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  30. Come on dude you had a good life. I am the same age as you and have 0 experience in relationships. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. Recently I started going for some classes to get coaching for upcoming exams(which starts from Nov last week) to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 2 weeks ago and planning to study MBA next. There I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on our first class which was on 13th July 2023 and she sometimes tries to initiate convos with me asking whether I had lunch or not and says me hi but I just answer her what she asks or say hi back and I am still shy near girls in person so I am usually shy to try to initiate any talks with her unless she herself is the one who tries to talk with me first. BTW last week she actually said she finds me cute and that really made me blush hard and my friends too teased me hehe so I feel a little more hopeful now but she also has 2 or 3 male friends in our class so I feel really worried that she might go for them as they are more confident and much less shy than me. Since 28th May 2023, I also have been chatting with this 19 year old girl on Instagram. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other and now she is in a different college which is very near to my home tho and I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago who is 21 now turning 22 very soon. But my childhood friend is very inactive on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up, she didn't reply about when exactly we can meet up as she takes weeks and even a month to reply to me. I do chat with the 19 year old regularly sending each other virtual hugs and sharing everything like about our day, classes, about ourselves and many more but it still looks like she just sees me as a friend so I am still nervous to ask her out as I also got rejected recently by 4 girls.
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  31. Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 23 like 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before. I went on my first ever date 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 few days ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds there and got my first hug from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she was cute. But 2 weeks after the date she became toxic and mean to me and blocked me on all social media. She basically used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. I also have massive crush on this another girl for the past 6 months where I go for some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college about 6 months ago and going to study MBA next. She also turned 23 just a few days ago. She has even called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too but I am shy near women in person so she is the one who initiates conversation with me. Few months ago I gave her a chocolate too but I often see her with her male friends so I get worried whether I have chance with her or not. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in the same class who is also 23 but so far we are just friends. We just roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant and I pulled her cheeks a bit too when we took selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. It was a fun day and we might go out again probably next month. I also have been following some girls on Instagram who are in the 21-25 age range from the same institute but different classrooms and messaged few of them and had been chatting with 2 or 3 of them who are also about 22 and 23 year olds. Since July 2023, I also have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who is 19(turning 20 in April). We were in the same school but didn't know each other in school days so we only have been knowing each other for 6 months. We also send each other virtual hugs and she is very sweet and we have many things in common like we are both foodies, like similar types of movies and many more and we plan to meet up to eat somewhere very soon too but in the end I am still single.
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  32. I am a 22 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend before. Dating apps aren't giving me luck and 2 of my crushes in college too rejected me few months ago. I chat with some girls on Instagram who are 19-22 age range and we were in the same school but only 1 girl who is 20 year old chats with me regularly. We were also in the same school but now in different colleges in the same city. We send each other virtual hugs daily and she makes me blush. She is very sweet and I was falling in love with her but 2 weeks ago she said she is in a relationship but I am confused because she is still flirty to me and calls me cute and sends hugs so idk whether she lied to me about being in a relationship. We even talk about meeting up and hugging for real but idk when and unfortunately I still feel lonely maybe because its just a chat so far and we didn't hang out yet.
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  33. So is being a virg at 22 a red flag? I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  34. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. Recently got unmatched by 2 girls(one is 19 and another is 21) on dating app after I asked them out even after a decent chat. I also tried asking out this girl who is 19 turning 20 in August and we were in the same school but now in different colleges and we have been chatting on Instagram for a month and she even agreed to meet up and I was super happy but she blocked me mysteriously for no reason last week. Then 4 days ago I tried asking out another girl who is turning 20 after a few weeks and we also were in the same school and have been chatting on insta for over 3 weeks but she immediately blocked me after I asked her out for a coffee. My only last hope is this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 and now she is 21 turning 22 after like 4 months. I asked her out too for a coffee but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't even see or reply to my message yet but honestly I am hoping for a positive reply but also worried that she might reject me too.
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  35.  @yasminflower5140  I turned 23 just last month and still single. I did go on my first ever date 4 months ago at the age of 22 but she turned out to be toxic
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  36. Yeah but I really wanna feel loved. I just turned 22 yesterday and I never had a girlfriend before and its bothering me a lot now. Had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched by 18-23 age girls but they too ghost or reject me. I also follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now too but I only chat with 2 or 3 of them and they hardly chat much. I really wanna try my luck on them but we hardly chat much.
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  37.  @squamish4244  yeah but my birthday isn't too far. It's in December just 3 days before Christmas and I will turn 23 that day so it's scary.
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  38. At least you had a girlfriend before. I am a guy who turned 23 just 6 days ago and I never had a girlfriend before. I did have my first ever date 3 months ago at the age of 22. She is 19(turning 20 next month) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and then we hugged and took pics and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she was really cute. But 2 weeks after the date, she became toxic to me and blocked me on all social media apps. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her. I also have crush on this another girl who is also 22 (turning 23 next month) in a class where I go for preparation of several exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college like 5 months ago and planning to study MBA next. I am generally shy near her and she is the one who starts conversations with me. She also has called me cute a several times and I pulled her cheeks twice too and gave her chocolate once but I see her being with her male friends a lot and now due to exams we aren't able to meet. 2 months ago, I went out with this another girl in the same class who is also 23. We are just friends tho and we roamed around the city that day and had lunch in a big restaurant. We also took several selfie and I pulled her cheeks as well but was shy to ask for a hug. She even called me an amazing person on my birthday 6 days ago. I also am following several girls from the institute I go to who are within 21-25 age range on Instagram but I am yet to send them a message. I also have been chatting with this another girl for several months on Instagram and she is 19(turning 20 in April) and we used to be in the same school but she was my junior so we didn't know each other during school days. She is very sweet and caring and chatting with her makes my mood much better. We send each other virtual hugs daily too and we are both foodies and like talking about food a lot. We plan to meet one day too and eat somewhere nice. But in the end, I am still single.
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  39. Damn man really in your 50s? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon but I just have a massive crush on one of them who is also 22 or maybe 23. She initiated convo with me saying hi and telling her name and asking mine last week Thursday(our first class there) and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. I really can't stop thinking about this girl as she is very pretty and she is very sweet as she tries to initiate convo with me asking whether I had lunch and today she also asked how far my home is from the classes but I just answer what she asks and I am too shy to initiate a convo further with her but I really wanna get to know her and idk whether it would be fine to message her on Whatsapp by seeing her number from our class whatsapp group. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also this new 22/23 year old on whom I newly got crush.
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  40. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to even get my first kiss. I started going some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and planning to study MBA next and there I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23. She does sometimes try to initiate conversations with me or just say me hi with a smile daily but I just answer what she asks or just say her hi back and I am still shy to initiate any further conversations with her. 3 weeks ago she did say she finds me cute and that made me blush hard and my friends too teased me about it hehe and last week I also gave her a chocolate and she smiled and thanked me and we did a handshake but I feel worried as I see her having 3-4 male friends so I feel scared that what if she goes for either of them. Also next Saturday, me and this girl who is 19 year old did plan to meet up in Mcdonalds. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other those days. We had been chatting on Instagram for several months and finally decided to meet but I am nervous whether she is serious about the meet up or not because I got rejected by 4 girls previously. I am excited but also afraid as I have never really hanged out with a girl before. I hope the plan doesn't get cancelled. I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago who is 21 now turning 22 next month and she did agree to meet up one day but I still don't know when exactly we will meet because she isn't really active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to my messages.
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  41. Damn man really at 58? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend but I had my first ever date on 16th September 2023 at the age of 22. She is 19 and the date kinda went ok and I even got my first ever hug but she turned out to be toxic. 2 days ago after I messaged her, she replied very rudely telling me go to hell and some more mean things and told me to leave her alone forever and then blocked me on both Instagram and Whatsapp. She basically used me and mainly met me so I can take lots of pics of her and she can post them on Instagram. I also had to pay the entire amount in Mcdonald's where we ate and she didn't contribute anything and it was my dad's money I spent as I am still a student. This made me lose some hopes and trust. I have crush on 2 girls in a class where I go these days to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 2-3 months ago and planning to study MBA next. One of the girl is also 22 and another one is 23 or 24 but after this I am afraid that they might do the same too. I heard another girl in the class who is 22 too likes me but I guess she is pranking or something as she kinda looks like a model so I have no chance with her. She tries to talk to me but I am kinda shy near girls so we don't talk much.
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  42. I already feel running out of time at my age. I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago. She was 19(turned 20 a couple of weeks ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and got my first hug but yet to get my first kiss and I pulled her cheeks a lot but 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically used me for free lunch and to take pics of her which she can post on social media. I also have a big crush on this girl who is in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA. She also turned 23 just 2 weeks ago and she has been my crush for 6 months. She has called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too and 3 days ago I even gave her a chocolate but I am shy near her and girls in general in person so she is the one who initiates convos with me and she has some male friends too so I feel worried. Last week, I got a new crush on this another girl in the same institute who is also within 21-23 age range and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen. We aren't in the same classrooms and I have been too shy to approach her but yesterday finally with the help of my friends and one of her classmate, I did approach her and was able to talk to her asking each other's names and which classroom we are in but I am afraid that she is probably out of my league but her classmate said she is single but idk whether my nervousness was a turnoff for her and I am still nervous about talking with her next time again. 3-4 months ago, I also went out with a female friend in the same class in that institute who is also 23 and we had a lunch in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date and we had fun and might go out again. For the past 7 months, I also have been chatting on Instagram with this another girl who is 19(turning 20 in April). She used to be in the same school as me but didn't know each other in school days. We are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs daily in the chats and plan to meet up to eat somewhere too and she is very sweet. Sadly in the end I am still single.
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  43. Is it still bad if he is 22 and in the same boat? I am a guy who turned 22 exactly 2 weeks ago and I never had a girlfriend and it's bothering me a lot. I am in last year of college who will be graduating in mid 2023 and then get into a grad school so I will be a student for 2 more years. I had crush on 2 girls in my college but both rejected me. I use dating apps and get matched by 18-23 age girls but they end up ghosting or unmatching me. I also follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days. I only chat with 4 of them. 3 of them are 20-22 year olds and another one is an 18-19 year old girl who was suggested to me on IG as we both have a common follower. Idk her really and we go to different college but same city and she said she is fine with chatting with me but her replies are short or one word so far and the other ones aren't chatting much with me either.
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  44. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend and didn't even get my first kiss yet and I feel lonely and down. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One of them is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I have been using 3 dating apps for 4 months but barely getting any matches at all and one 20 year old girl who matched with me 2 months ago rejected me saying she only prefers bad guys and that I am too nice for her. About 2 weeks ago, I saw another girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is from a different college tho and she is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but can be 18 too as idk her real age but I was too shy to even say her a hi that day and now I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she went out of city for 2 weeks and I am afraid that she might reject me as well especially because we are from different college.
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  45.  @pigsrock93  it sucks man. Even dating apps aren't giving me luck. Got 2 matches recently on tinder. A 22 year old girl matched with me on tinder 4 days ago and I messaged her but no reply yet. Today another girl who is 20 matched with me and even she isn't replying to my message. I wonder why they matched with me just to ghost me. I am 21 so both are pretty much the same age as me and Gen Z but still ignoring me.
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  46.  @kattodoggo3868  its not only dating apps. Nothing works. I heard a song 4 days ago which reminds me of a girl. We were in the same school and same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is 21 or maybe 22 now and I am also 21 so we are the same age too. I sent her a follow request on Instagram and yesterday I saw she declined or rejected the follow request I sent her. I even messaged her saying her in detail that we were in the same school and grade but she haven't replied to it either. I am really down since yesterday. I really wish she could be my girlfriend.
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  47. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and it bothers me a lot. Btw is a month long enough to know whether someone is interested in me or not? I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up she haven't replied yet about when we can meet. I have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. We are in different colleges now but we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school. So we only have been getting to know each other for a bit over a month. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily and talk about literally everything and we are both foodies too and send each other virtual hugs but there isn't any flirting in the chats yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but is 1 month already long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not or does it take longer?
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  48. Is 22 or 23 still kinda late to get first girlfriend? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but went on my first ever date on 16th September 2023 which was just a bit over a month ago. She is 19 and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and we hugged and I was pinching her cheeks a lot. But 2 weeks after the date, she became toxic after I messaged her saying me to go to hell and said swear words and then blocked me on all social media apps. It looks like she just used me for free lunch and to take pics of her so she can post them on Instagram. I lost some hope. But almost 2 weeks ago, I went out with this another girl who is also either 22 or 23 now. She is in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3-4 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had a great day and I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie and had lunch in a restaurant too. We are just friends tho and we might again go out on 22nd November. I also have big crush on this another girl in the same class who is also 22. I am kinda shy near her and usually she is the one who initiates conversations with me but 3 weeks ago she asked me how was she looking and I said she is cute and I pinched her cheeks too and she blushed a bit. Nowadays I noticed she smiles at me whenever I look at her and tells her friend about me while looking at me and smiling. But she has several male friends so idk whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  49. Is it still kinda late at my age? I am a guy who turned 23 just over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date a bit over 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 a week ago) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and had my first hug ever from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she is really cute. 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean and toxic to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. For the past 6 months, I also have been crushing on this girl in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA next. She also just turned 23 over a week ago and she has called me cute before and I pulled her cheeks twice too but I am usually shy near girls in person so she is the one who usually initiates conversations with me and its usually short as I have nothing more to say as an introvert. I do see her with some male friends so that makes me worried thinking what if she goes for either of them. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in that same class and she is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends. We just roamed around our city and then had lunch in a big restaurant and had lots of fun. I did pull her cheeks once while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. We might go out again in Feb probably. But today I got a new crush(yeah I am a mess haha) on this another girl who is also 22 or 23 in the same institute but different classrooms and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen but I was again shy to approach her but I got to know her name and followed her on Instagram but she is yet to accept it and maybe then I will message her after 2-3 days but its possible that she probably has a boyfriend too. I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram for over 6 months. She is 19(turning 20 in April). We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since July 2023. We are planning to meet up too and eat somewhere as we are both foodies and we send each other virtual hugs in the chats daily and she is really sweet too. But in the end I am still single.
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  50. Would you still consider 22 or 23 late too to get your first gf? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but went on my first ever date on 16th September 2023 which was just a bit over a month ago. She is 19 and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and we hugged and I was pinching her cheeks a lot. But 2 weeks after the date, she became toxic after I messaged her saying me to go to hell and said swear words and then blocked me on all social media apps. It looks like she just used me for free lunch and to take pics of her so she can post them on Instagram. I lost some hope. But almost 2 weeks ago, I went out with this another girl who is also either 22 or 23 now. She is in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3-4 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had a great day and I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie and had lunch in a restaurant too. We are just friends tho and we might again go out on 22nd November. I also have big crush on this another girl in the same class who is also 22. I am kinda shy near her and usually she is the one who initiates conversations with me but 3 weeks ago she asked me how was she looking and I said she is cute and I pinched her cheeks too and she blushed a bit. Nowadays I noticed she smiles at me whenever I look at her and tells her friend about me while looking at me and smiling. But she has several male friends so idk whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  51. I feel the same as you but I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  52. Damn man. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2-3 months ago I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 very soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took pretty much a month too reply to it but she did reply yeah ok and we even said we will meet maybe on some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. I also got crush on a new girl recently in a class where I started going for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I am about to finish college. She is also 22 or maybe 23 now and very pretty and on the first day of our class there (13th July 2023), she did handshake with me and we said our names and introduced ourselves. Till last week she was trying to initiate convo with me asking whether I had lunch or not and many more but for the past 5-6 days, she is no longer trying to talk with me. Actually I am still kinda shy near girls in person so I usually don't initiate further convos with her and just answer what she asks. I am shy to try to talk with her. I followed her on Instagram and she followed me back too but I am yet to dm her. I also have been chatting with this another girl who is 19 on Instagram since 28th May 2023. We used to be in the same school but now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We chat about literally everything daily and even send each other virtual hugs but it still looks she just sees me as a good friend and nothing more so I am nervous to ask her out too as I also got rejected by 4 girls recently.
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  53. Wow really at 41? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal and never had a girlfriend and only been on 1 first date many months ago at the age of 22 and then a month later hanged out with my female friend, hugged only 2 girls in person and still never had my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and in my University too had crush on this girl for 7 months who is also 23 now but 5 months ago got crush on another prettier girl(sadly she wasn't into me either but she was the 2nd girl I hugged in person) in the same University so my previous crush stopped talking to me and I miss her. I had a summer break from University for 3 months and yesterday finally new semester started for us and I literally initiated conversation with 3 girls in my University who are MBA students too and within 21-23 age range and today too had conversation with 3 more(6 in total so far) but I had a long enough conversation with one of them who too is comfortable enough to talk to me and seems kinda introvert too with just a few female friends and we had a decent conversation today too and I think I am getting crush on her as she is so damn cute and pretty but idk about my chances as I look like a nerd in my glasses and she is really pretty too plus idk whether she is single or not even though she never mentioned about any boyfriend so far. She is a North Indian and I am Bengali. But it was a big change and improvement for me as I had always been shy near girls and in my high school days I completely avoided talking with girls as I was bullied a lot in school and continued being shy further too in my undergrad and even in my MBA too few months ago, I was still shy to initiate conversation with girls and even though I could talk with my crushes, there was still some nervousness here and there but today I went out of my comfort zone and talked with not 1 not 2 but 3 girls. Thats only because I initiated conversation with 3 expat women in my city Bangalore and they were white Caucasian women (yes foreigners do come to Bangalore as expats as its one of the major metropolitan city of India and popular for its IT(tech). First one was a French woman with whom I talked near my University almost 5 months ago who was within 22-26 age range and the next was a German woman 2 months ago and then yesterday again I saw another white blonde lady who looked to be within 26-30 age range and probably from Germany or maybe some Scandinavian country too and I waved my hand at her as she was walking and smiled at her saying her Hi and she too waved her hand back at me with a bit of a smile but couldn't have a conversation as the cab that I booked had arrived but would love to meet her again. So yeah I am happy that finally I can talk with women now whether Indian or foreigner but sadly it took me 23 years to get rid of my shyness.
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  54. Is it already late at 22 or do I have some time? I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  55. Is 22 still late or is it normal? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and yet to even get my first kiss. I started going for some classes for almost 2 months for preparation of upcoming exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and I wanna study MBA next. There I got a crush on this girl in my class who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She says me hi daily with a smile and we do handshake and she tries to initiate conversations with me but I just answer what she asks or say hi back but I am still shy to initiate any further talks with her. 4 weeks ago, I came to know that she finds me cute and that made me blush a lot and my friends teased me too and 2 weeks ago I gave her a chocolate too and she smiled and thanked me with a handshake. Today she heard my singing too along with several of my friends and she seemed to have liked my singing too. The only problem is I am shy and I also smile a lot in class plus she has 3 or 4 male friends so I feel worried whether she will go for either of them. Also this Saturday, me and this other girl who is 19 year old planned to meet up in a mall in our city. We had been chatting on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other those days. We seem to have several things in common and send each other virtual hugs too but I am worried whether she is really serious about meeting and hanging out with me that day because I have been rejected by 4 girls so far so I don't trust my luck. I am also hoping to get my first kiss that day or at least a hug from her or hold hands. I hope the plan doesn't get cancelled. 4 months ago I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 by the end of this month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to me so even though she agreed to meet with me, I don't know yet when we will meet.
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  56. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon but I just have a massive crush on one of them who is also 22 or maybe 23. She initiated convo with me saying hi and telling her name and asking mine last week Thursday(our first class there) and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. I really can't stop thinking about this girl as she is very pretty and she is very sweet as she tries to initiate convo with me asking whether I had lunch and today she also asked how far my home is from the classes but I just answer what she asks and I am too shy to initiate a convo further with her but I really wanna get to know her and idk whether it would be fine to message her on Whatsapp by seeing her number from our class whatsapp group. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also this new 22/23 year old on whom I newly got crush.
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  57. Damn man really at 54? I am a guy who turned 23 like 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before. I went on my first ever date 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 few days ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds there and got my first hug from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she was cute. But 2 weeks after the date she became toxic and mean to me and blocked me on all social media. She basically used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. I also have massive crush on this another girl for the past 6 months where I go for some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college about 6 months ago and going to study MBA next. She also turned 23 just a few days ago. She has even called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too but I am shy near women in person so she is the one who initiates conversation with me. Few months ago I gave her a chocolate too but I often see her with her male friends so I get worried whether I have chance with her or not. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in the same class who is also 23 but so far we are just friends. We just roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant and I pulled her cheeks a bit too when we took selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. It was a fun day and we might go out again probably next month. I also have been following some girls on Instagram who are in the 21-25 age range from the same institute but different classrooms and messaged few of them and had been chatting with 2 or 3 of them who are also about 22 and 23 year olds. Since July 2023, I also have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who is 19(turning 20 in April). We were in the same school but didn't know each other in school days so we only have been knowing each other for 6 months. We also send each other virtual hugs and she is very sweet and we have many things in common like we are both foodies, like similar types of movies and many more and we plan to meet up to eat somewhere very soon too but in the end I am still single.
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  58. Damn. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but finally had my first date just a week ago (on 16th September 2023) and got my first hug but still not my first kiss yet and still single. She is 19 btw and is in 2nd year of college and we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other those days and have been chatting on Instagram since 28th May 2023 but finally that day we decided to meet in the mall and we actually did and ate in the Mcdonald's there and then took photos and selfie and I pinched her cheeks a lot too as she is really cute and asked for a hug and she gave one hug too for a few seconds but it was still nice. I towered over her tho as I am like 5'9(174-175 cm) and she is only like 5' or probably even 4'11. But overall it was a good date. Idk what she feels about me but I still can't believe that everything went so well. But I also like this another girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and I am planning to study MBA next. She also says me hi almost daily and we do handshake and she smiles and sometimes initiates conversations with me but I only answer what she asks and I am still shy to initiate any further conversations near her but hopefully after today's date, my shyness near girls seemed to have reduced for sure. Last month I also came to know that she finds me cute and 3-4 weeks ago I gave her a chocolate too but I often see her having 3 or 4 male friends in our class so that kinda makes me worried that what if she goes for either of them. I honestly like both the girls.
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  59. @Mozzarella stick Would you have dated a 22 year old guy who too never had a girlfriend before? I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before. You are a beautiful girl and I am sure I would have dated you if we were in the same college. Here is one virtual hug for you just to make you smile. *hugs*. I would have never made you feel lonely and taken you to parks and many lovely places and bought you lots of ice creams and chocolates.
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  60. @Mozzarella stick Haha thanks and you are super cute too. Also we would have got along well as I am a college student and you are one too probably and super close in age. I was really scared whether it will be a red flag to girls that I am still single at 22. I would love to see how it feels to hold hands with a girl and have my first kiss.
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  61. @Mozzarella stick I am also shy haha and I am in last year of college. I use dating apps but hardly get matches. I do get some matches from some girls mostly within the 18-23 age range but they end up ghosting me for no reason. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school but they hardly chat. Honestly we both could have got along so well as I am shy too. I would have given you a big hug whenever you felt shy so you could have felt protected in my arms and probably I would have felt protected too in your arms as well especially in this mean and cruel world.
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  62. @Mozzarella stick Me too. You are super cute and sweet too. 😊. Wish we could have get to know each other haha but we probably live in different countries too. 😅.
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  63. @Mozzarella stick I am in the city Bangalore in India so very far
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  64. Wow man really you never had a date or girlfriend even at 40? BTW I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and its bothering me a lot. I use dating apps and sometimes rarely get matched by some 18-23 age girls but they all end up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are 20-22 year olds but even they hardly chat with me. I really wanna try my luck on this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 but we never talked in person since 2011 as my parents bought a new apartment in 2011 and we came to a different area of our city. She is 21 now and only 5-6 months younger than me and she still remembers me as we chat on IG sometimes too but we hardly chat either as she replies to me mostly on Saturdays only. I would love to meet her in person and hug her but idk when.
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  65.  @Lkjnn2287  I got rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago on whom I had crush. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot as I will be graduating college by mid 2023 and then study in a grad school for 2 years and then work. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  66. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  67. Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and it bothers me a lot. Btw is a month long enough to know whether someone is interested in me or not? I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up she haven't replied yet about when we can meet. I have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. We are in different colleges now but we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school. So we only have been getting to know each other for a bit over a month. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily and talk about literally everything and we are both foodies too and send each other virtual hugs but there isn't any flirting in the chats yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but is 1 month already long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not or does it take longer?
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  68. Wow man really at 40? I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(turned 20 few weeks ago) and had my first ever hug too (she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere) and also 3 months ago went out with a female friend who is also 23 where we go for classes for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6-7 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had lunch in a big restaurant(but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends). I also had been crushing on this another girl(lets call her A) in that same class where I go now and she also turned 23 over 2 weeks ago and I even gave her a chocolate last week and she too knew I had a crush on her and has called me cute before too but things changed as last week I got a new crush on this another girl(lets call her B) in the same institute but different classrooms. She is within 21-23 age range and one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen and I was too shy to approach her but 5 days ago, with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was finally able to talk to her a bit and I was feeling butterflies and today I again met her and told her Hi first with a smile and she too smiled back at me and said me Hi back but she was going to her classroom so we couldn't have a conversation today. Everyone including that girl A came to know about it and she isn't really trying to talk to me and said that I am not loyal enough so she won't talk to me(idk whether she was joking or not). 3 days ago, was chocolate day and one of my friend jokingly said me to give chocolate to A again but she said she doesn't want a chocolate from me. I am afraid that B is probably out of my league as she is very pretty almost model like and I am just average I guess and plus I was too nervous that day while talking with her in person so idk how it will go. I am such a mess that I like another girl(lets call her S) with whom I had been chatting on Instagram for the past 7 months. She is 19 now(turning 20 in April) and we used to be in the same school but didn't knew each other in school days and now she is in a different college. We send each other virtual hugs daily and we will meet up this month too to eat somewhere as we are both foodies and she has no idea about these 2 girls A and B. But after getting crush newly on this girl B, I am mostly thinking about her and not giving much attention to A and S whom I have known longer than B. Idk what to do. If B rejects me, then I won't have chance with A as she probably have a negative perception about me now for getting multiple crushes.
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  69. So is 22 already too late? I am a 22 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend before. Dating apps aren't giving me luck and 2 of my crushes in college too rejected me few months ago. I chat with some girls on Instagram who are 19-22 age range and we were in the same school but only 1 girl who is 20 year old chats with me regularly. We were also in the same school but now in different colleges in the same city. We send each other virtual hugs daily and she makes me blush. She is very sweet and I was falling in love with her but 2 weeks ago she said she is in a relationship but I am confused because she is still flirty to me and calls me cute and sends hugs so idk whether she lied to me about being in a relationship. We even talk about meeting up and hugging for real but idk when and unfortunately I still feel lonely maybe because its just a chat so far and we didn't hang out yet.
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  70. Damn she is the same age as me. I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but had my first ever date and hug 7 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. Recently got ignored by this another girl who is 19 turning 20 tomorrow and I knew her for over 8 months and also were in the same school at one point but didn't know each other in school and we chatted on Instagram regularly for 8 months but she suddenly has been ignoring me since the past 3 weeks even though we even planned to eat in many restaurants and sent each other virtual hugs. I am currently having crush on this another girl who is within 21-23 age range and we go for the same institute but in different classrooms. I just graduated college 9 months ago and gonna pursue MBA now and going for classes. I have been having brief conversations with her and even complimented her twice but yesterday I finally got her number in a very clever way. I was learning about Google Forms in my classes so I created one car related survey on Google Form and told her that its a part of an assignment so I need many responses so she agreed to fill the form too so I asked for her number so I can send it to her on Whatsapp and she gave me her number. But after I sent her the form, she didn't even read the whatsapp text. She said she would fill it whenever she can but still she neither read my text nor replied but I am still keeping hopes. She is also very pretty almost model like whereas I am not that attractive especially in my glasses so idk whether she would like me back or not.
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  71. I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but had my first ever date and hug 7 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. Recently got ignored by this another girl who just turned 20 today and I knew her for over 8 months and also were in the same school at one point but didn't know each other in school and we chatted on Instagram regularly for 8 months but she suddenly has been ignoring me since the past 3 weeks even though we even planned to eat in many restaurants and sent each other virtual hugs and couldn't even wish her in her birthday. I am currently having crush on this another girl who is within 21-23 age range and we go for the same institute but in different classrooms. I just graduated college 9 months ago and gonna pursue MBA now and going for classes. I have been having brief conversations with her and even complimented her twice but 2 days ago I finally got her number in a very clever way. I was learning about Google Forms in my classes so I created one car related survey on Google Form and told her that its a part of an assignment so I need many responses so she agreed to fill the form too so I asked for her number so I can send it to her on Whatsapp and she gave me her number. But after I sent her the form, she didn't even read the whatsapp text. She said she would fill it whenever she can but still she neither read my text nor replied but I am still keeping hopes. She is also very pretty almost model like whereas I am not that attractive especially in my glasses so idk whether she would like me back or not.
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  72. I stopped using dating apps for the past 2-3 months as they never worked for me. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. Recently I started going for some classes to get coaching for upcoming exams(which starts from Nov last week) to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 2 weeks ago and planning to study MBA next. There I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on our first class which was on 13th July 2023 and she sometimes tries to initiate convos with me asking whether I had lunch or not and says me hi but I just answer her what she asks or say hi back and I am still shy near girls in person so I am usually shy to try to initiate any talks with her unless she herself is the one who tries to talk with me first. BTW 5 days ago, she actually said she finds me cute and that really made me blush hard and my friends too teased me hehe so I feel a little more hopeful now. Since 28th May 2023, I also have been chatting with this 19 year old girl on Instagram. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other and now she is in a different college which is very near to my home tho and I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago who is 21 now turning 22 very soon. But my childhood friend is very inactive on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up, she didn't reply about when exactly we can meet up as she takes weeks and even a month to reply to me. I do chat with the 19 year old regularly sending each other virtual hugs and sharing everything like about our day, classes, about ourselves and many more but it still looks like she just sees me as a friend so I am still nervous to ask her out as I also got rejected recently by 4 girls.
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  73. Wow really in your 40s? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. I got rejected by 3 girls very recently(I got rejected by 7 girls so far in total). I got blocked by 2 of them on Instagram after I asked them out and they were in the same school as me too and one of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up but blocked me after few days. 4 days ago I tried asking out another girl who is 20 and she too was in the same school as me and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she too rejected me saying that I am nice but she isn't comfortable with meeting up with me so we can't meet up and she unfollowed me on Instagram. But there is still some hope as I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months and I genuinely like her too and we used to be very close friends when we were both in elementary school but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to my message yet. I am still waiting for her reply and I am honestly expecting a positive reply but idk.
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  74. Damn man did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and yet to even get my first kiss. I started going for some classes for almost 2 months for preparation of upcoming exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and I wanna study MBA next. There I got a crush on this girl in my class who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She says me hi daily with a smile and we do handshake and she tries to initiate conversations with me but I just answer what she asks or say hi back but I am still shy to initiate any further talks with her. 4 weeks ago, I came to know that she finds me cute and that made me blush a lot and my friends teased me too and 2 weeks ago I gave her a chocolate too and she smiled and thanked me with a handshake. Today she heard my singing too along with several of my friends and she seemed to have liked my singing too. The only problem is I am shy and I also smile a lot in class plus she has 3 or 4 male friends so I feel worried whether she will go for either of them. Also this Saturday, me and this other girl who is 19 year old planned to meet up in a mall in our city. We had been chatting on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other those days. We seem to have several things in common and send each other virtual hugs too but I am worried whether she is really serious about meeting and hanging out with me that day because I have been rejected by 4 girls so far so I don't trust my luck. I am also hoping to get my first kiss that day or at least a hug from her or hold hands. I hope the plan doesn't get cancelled. 4 months ago I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 by the end of this month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to me so even though she agreed to meet with me, I don't know yet when we will meet.
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  75. Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  76.  @greydeathangel  oh that sucks. Btw did you read my full comment?
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  77. So do you feel I missed out as I am 22 now and never dated? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. Recently got unmatched by 2 girls(one is 19 and another is 21) on dating app after I asked them out even after a decent chat. I also tried asking out this girl who is 19 turning 20 in August and we were in the same school but now in different colleges and we have been chatting on Instagram for a month and she even agreed to meet up and I was super happy but she blocked me mysteriously for no reason last week. Then 5 days ago I tried asking out another girl who is turning 20 after a few weeks and we also were in the same school and have been chatting on insta for over 3 weeks but she immediately blocked me after I asked her out for a coffee. My only last hope is this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 and now she is 21 turning 22 after like 4 months. I asked her out too for a coffee but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't even see or reply to my message yet but honestly I am hoping for a positive reply but also worried that she might reject me too.
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  78. How old are you? Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 22 just 19 days ago and never had a girlfriend and never been kissed before and I only have few friends who are males. Honestly after getting ghosted and rejected by girls, I am thinking about trying my luck on a girl who was my childhood friend. She was friend when we both were in elementary school in 2008-2011. We used to play together, study together, have sleepovers etc but since 2011, we never really talked as my parents bought a new apartment and we came to a different area. She is 21 now and only 5 months younger than me. I messaged her on Instagram recently and she still remembers me. I think I kinda fall in love with her seeing her pics on IG as she looks very cute. I really wanna go on date with her but idk how. I would love to give her a long hug too but idk when it will happen.
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  79. I am a guy who turned 23 like 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before. I went on my first ever date 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 few days ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds there and got my first hug from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she was cute. But 2 weeks after the date she became toxic and mean to me and blocked me on all social media. She basically used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. I also have massive crush on this another girl for the past 6 months where I go for some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college about 6 months ago and going to study MBA next. She also turned 23 just a few days ago. She has even called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too but I am shy near women in person so she is the one who initiates conversation with me. Few months ago I gave her a chocolate too but I often see her with her male friends so I get worried whether I have chance with her or not. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in the same class who is also 23 but so far we are just friends. We just roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant and I pulled her cheeks a bit too when we took selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. It was a fun day and we might go out again probably next month. I also have been following some girls on Instagram who are in the 21-25 age range from the same institute but different classrooms and messaged few of them and had been chatting with 2 or 3 of them who are also about 22 and 23 year olds. Since July 2023, I also have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who is 19(turning 20 in April). We were in the same school but didn't know each other in school days so we only have been knowing each other for 6 months. We also send each other virtual hugs and she is very sweet and we have many things in common like we are both foodies, like similar types of movies and many more and we plan to meet up to eat somewhere very soon too but in the end I am still single.
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  80. Thats sad man. Btw did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes and some more questions about myself. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  81. I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before, only been on 1 first date months ago at the age of 22 and then hanged out with a female friend and hugged only 2 girls in person and never been kissed. I am studying MBA now and had a few crushes in my 1st year of MBA which didn't work but now 2nd year just started for me and I finally initiated conversation with 8 girls in these 3 days after University reopened. One of them(lets call her D) is also within 21-23 age range and is my junior who is in 1st year of her MBA and we have been having good conversations and yesterday we followed each other on Instagram too and yesterday met another girl(lets call her R) who is in my University too in my same year of MBA and also within 22-24 age range and we were walking and talking while going to University and then while going to the bus stop too we went together and she let me under her umbrella too as it was raining. So both D and R had been nice and friendly to me so far. Its a big improvement as I was shy during school days and avoided talking to girls due to facing severe bullying in school. Not only that I also talked with foreign women in our city Bangalore by initiating conversations with them. As Bangalore is a major metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. I talked with 3 expat women so far. Almost 5 months ago was with a French woman who was about 22-26 age range and then 2 months ago was with a German woman who was probably anywhere within 26-35 age range. But today I had the best conversation with an American woman in the cafe in this big shopping complex in the most upscale area of our city. She is an expat too and she is 29 and she was really friendly to me and was comfortable talking with me and we had a long conversation. I asked for her Instagram but unfortunately she said she doesn't even use Insta so we couldn't connect with each other but I really hope I get to meet her again as she is really pretty too but I look nerdy in my glasses too.
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  82. Thats good. Sadly I am turning 22 tomorrow and I never had a girlfriend before and its bothering me so much. 3 days ago, I was matched with another girl who is 18 turning 19 in Feb and she seemed quite interested in knowing me but when we shared about our hobbies and I told her about my singing which I upload on my youtube channel(not this one, another one). She said she was gonna check it and then I saw she unmatched me. I guess she found me ugly in my videos or my singing is bad. I got matched by another girl too who is 21 on that same day 3 days ago and we had a good chat too and even added each other on Instagram but she said I seem like an introvert and she didn't chat much with me yesterday. When I asked why she isn't chatting much with me, she said she is a medical college student so she isn't that much free. Idk whether she lied or she is genuinely busy but today she apologized too saying she is busy with her college stuffs and I apologized too.
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  83. Damn man. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but finally had my first date just last Saturday(on 16th September) and got my first hug but still not my first kiss yet and still single. She is 19 btw and is in 2nd year of college and we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other those days and have been chatting on Instagram since 28th May 2023 but finally last Saturday we decided to meet in the mall and we actually did and ate in the Mcdonald's there and then took photos and selfie and I pinched her cheeks a lot too as she is really cute and asked for a hug and she gave one hug too for a few seconds but it was still nice. I towered over her tho as I am like 5'9(174-175 cm) and she is only like 5' or probably even 4'11. But overall it was a good date. Idk what she feels about me but I still can't believe that everything went so well. But I also like this another girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and I am planning to study MBA next. She also says me hi almost daily and we do handshake and she smiles and sometimes initiates conversations with me but I only answer what she asks and I am still shy to initiate any further conversations near her but hopefully after today's date, my shyness near girls seemed to have reduced for sure. Last month I also came to know that she finds me cute and 3-4 weeks ago I gave her a chocolate too but I often see her having 3 or 4 male friends in our class so that kinda makes me worried that what if she goes for either of them. I honestly like both the girls.
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  84. At least women approached you. I am a guy who turned 22 just over 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and never had a real kiss with a girl either except getting kissed on the cheek by a female friend when we both were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls and they end up ghosting me. Only one girl who is 19 on dating app didn't ghost me yet and we have things in common to chat about but idk. I also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now. I had the best chat with a girl who is 20 now and she was 2 years my junior in school. She is better than most of the girls I have chatted with and we had been chatting for the past 10 days. But 4 days ago I kinda messed up by giving her a cheesy compliment after only 6 days of chatting with her which made her a little uncomfortable but I apologized and said I only said it to make her smile so she forgive me and thanked me. We still chat but idk whether I can try out my luck on her or not.
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  85. Damn man really in your 40s? Have you been on dates before? I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago. She was 19(turned 20 a couple of weeks ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and got my first hug but yet to get my first kiss and I pulled her cheeks a lot but 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically used me for free lunch and to take pics of her which she can post on social media. I also have a big crush on this girl who is in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA. She also turned 23 just 2 weeks ago and she has been my crush for 6 months. She has called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too and 2 days ago I even gave her a chocolate but I am shy near her and girls in general in person so she is the one who initiates convos with me and she has some male friends too so I feel worried. 5 days ago, I got a new crush on this another girl in the same institute who is also within 21-23 age range and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen. We aren't in the same classrooms and I have been too shy to approach her but finally with the help of my friends and one of her classmate, I did approach her and was able to talk to her asking each other's names and which classroom we are in but I am afraid that she is probably out of my league but her classmate said she is single but idk whether my nervousness was a turnoff for her and I am still nervous about talking with her next time again. 3-4 months ago, I also went out with a female friend in the same class in that institute who is also 23 and we had a lunch in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date and we had fun and might go out again. For the past 7 months, I also have been chatting on Instagram with this another girl who is 19(turning 20 in April). She used to be in the same school as me but didn't know each other in school days. We are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs daily in the chats and plan to meet up to eat somewhere too and she is very sweet. Sadly in the end I am still single.
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  86. Is it still bad at my age? I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. I feel like I am such a repellant to girls. 2 of my crushes in college rejected me recently. 3 days ago I heard a song which reminded me of a girl whom I knew since my school days and we were in same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so we are the same age. She is very beautiful and I followed her on Instagram. Her account is private so I sent her a follow request but she literally rejected my follow request and I am so down. Why did she do that? Is it because she can't recognize me or it's just I am too repellant to girls or is it because she finds me lame because I used to get bullied a lot in high school and was considered a loser by most guys in my grade? Is it fine if I send her a message?
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  87.  @csolisr  Will it be fine if I send her a message saying who I am and also saying we were in the same school and grade?
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  88. Thats sad man. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  89. I am turning 22 tomorrow and I never had a girlfriend before and its bothering me so much. 3 days ago, I was matched with another girl who is 18 turning 19 in Feb and she seemed quite interested in knowing me but when we shared about our hobbies and I told her about my singing which I upload on my youtube channel(not this one, another one). She said she was gonna check it and then I saw she unmatched me. I guess she found me ugly in my videos or my singing is bad. I got matched by another girl too who is 21 on that same day 3 days ago and we had a good chat too and even added each other on Instagram but she said I seem like an introvert and she didn't chat much with me yesterday. When I asked why she isn't chatting much with me, she said she is a medical college student so she isn't that much free. Idk whether she lied or she is genuinely busy but today she apologized too saying she is busy with her college stuffs and I apologized too.
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  90. Do I still have some time at 22 or is it late too? I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  91. Wow man you are almost the same age as my dad(he is 53 almost 54). BTW I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(turned 20 few weeks ago) and had my first ever hug too (she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere) and also 3 months ago went out with a female friend who is also 23 where we go for classes for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6-7 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had lunch in a big restaurant(but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends). I also had been crushing on this another girl(lets call her A) in that same class where I go now and she also turned 23 over 3 weeks ago and I even gave her a chocolate last week and she too knew I had a crush on her and has called me cute before too but things changed as last week I got a new crush on this another girl(lets call her B) in the same institute but different classrooms. She is within 21-23 age range and one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen and I was too shy to approach her but 6 days ago, with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was finally able to talk to her a bit and I was feeling butterflies and today I again met her and told her Hi first with a smile and she too smiled back at me and said me Hi back but she was going to her classroom so we couldn't have a conversation today but it was my first time ever saying Hi first to a girl in person so I was happy. Everyone including that girl A came to know about it and she isn't really trying to talk to me and said that I am not loyal enough so she won't talk to me(idk whether she was joking or not). 4 days ago, was chocolate day and one of my friend jokingly said me to give chocolate to A again but she said she doesn't want a chocolate from me. I am afraid that B is probably out of my league as she is very pretty almost model like and I am just average I guess and plus I was too nervous that day while talking with her in person so idk how it will go. I am such a mess that I like another girl(lets call her S) with whom I had been chatting on Instagram for the past 7 months. She is 19 now(turning 20 in April) and we used to be in the same school but didn't knew each other in school days and now she is in a different college. We send each other virtual hugs daily and we will meet up this month too to eat somewhere as we are both foodies and she has no idea about these 2 girls A and B. But after getting crush newly on this girl B, I am mostly thinking about her and not giving much attention to A and S whom I have known longer than B. Idk what to do. If B rejects me, then I won't have chance with A as she probably have a negative perception about me now for getting multiple crushes.
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  92. I am in the same boat as you when it comes to my luck with girls but 8 years younger than you. I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago. She was 19(turned 20 a couple of weeks ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and got my first hug but yet to get my first kiss and I pulled her cheeks a lot but 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically used me for free lunch and to take pics of her which she can post on social media. I also have a big crush on this girl who is in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA. She also turned 23 just 2 weeks ago and she has been my crush for 6 months. She has called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too and 3 days ago I even gave her a chocolate but I am shy near her and girls in general in person so she is the one who initiates convos with me and she has some male friends too so I feel worried. Last week, I got a new crush on this another girl in the same institute who is also within 21-23 age range and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen. We aren't in the same classrooms and I have been too shy to approach her but yesterday finally with the help of my friends and one of her classmate, I did approach her and was able to talk to her asking each other's names and which classroom we are in but I am afraid that she is probably out of my league but her classmate said she is single but idk whether my nervousness was a turnoff for her and I am still nervous about talking with her next time again. 3-4 months ago, I also went out with a female friend in the same class in that institute who is also 23 and we had a lunch in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date and we had fun and might go out again. For the past 7 months, I also have been chatting on Instagram with this another girl who is 19(turning 20 in April). She used to be in the same school as me but didn't know each other in school days. We are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs daily in the chats and plan to meet up to eat somewhere too and she is very sweet. Sadly in the end I am still single.
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  93. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  94. Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and yet to even get my first kiss. I started going for some classes for almost 2 months for preparation of upcoming exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and I wanna study MBA next. There I got a crush on this girl in my class who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She says me hi daily with a smile and we do handshake and she tries to initiate conversations with me but I just answer what she asks or say hi back but I am still shy to initiate any further talks with her. 4 weeks ago, I came to know that she finds me cute and that made me blush a lot and my friends teased me too and 2 weeks ago I gave her a chocolate too and she smiled and thanked me with a handshake. Today she heard my singing too along with several of my friends and she seemed to have liked my singing too. The only problem is I am shy and I also smile a lot in class plus she has 3 or 4 male friends so I feel worried whether she will go for either of them. Also today, me and this other girl who is 19 year old planned to meet up in a mall in our city but I had to cancel the plan as my dad has a medical appointment in hospital so I had to come with him to the hospital. Me and this girl had been chatting on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other those days. We seem to have several things in common and send each other virtual hugs too. I was excited about meeting her today as it was my first time going out with a girl but had to cancel it and hopefully we will meet next week. 4 months ago I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 by the end of this month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to me so even though she agreed to meet with me, I don't know yet when we will meet.
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  95. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  96. Is it still late at 23? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but had my first ever date and first hug 7 months ago at the age of 22 and sadly it didn't work out. Got ignored and rejected by several crushes. Currently having a crush on this girl in my University where I am pursuing my MBA and I am in 1st year and she too is an MBA 1st year student and she is also within 21-23 age range but we aren't in the same classrooms so we have brief conversations mostly and she has been my crush for the past 2 months. I even got her number 2 weeks ago in a clever way but she didn't see my whatsapp text and when I asked she said she had 2 exams in the same day. 2 days ago I even hugged her finally as it was her last exam that day and yesterday was my last exam so we won't be able to meet in person for 3 months as we all have to do a 2-3 months internship between May to July and our next semester classes will start in August so I gave her a goodbye hug for now. She did give a bit of an awkward smile tho when I hugged her. I literally put all my arms around her while hugging whereas she didn't really put both her arms around me but she pat my back once and said ok I have to study now as I have an exam in an hour so bye and then even I said ok bye and we walked our own ways. It was brief few seconds hug but it was also my 2nd time I ever hugged a girl in person. I hope she wasn't uncomfortable but it was really one of my happiest day and even my classmates were surprised seeing that.
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  97. ​ @Yeahbruh200 did you even read my full comment? I literally said I hugged my crush. How is 23 late? I am still young and have plenty of time.
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  98. I am a guy who turned 22 just over 4 weeks ago and I never had a girlfriend before and never had a real kiss with a girl except getting kissed on the cheek by a female friend when we both were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and rarely get matches by 18-23 age girls but they end up ghosting me. Even 2 of my crushes in my college too rejected me few months ago. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and now they are 20-22 year olds but there is one girl with whom I had the best chats for the past 5 days compared to any other girl. She is 20 now and I knew her in school days too and now we go to different colleges and she seems really sweet and we share about so many things and she doesn't seem as shallow as most girls are and our names sound very similar too but she is a bit nerdy so idk whether she wants to even date or not.
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  99. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. I got unmatched by 2 girls recently on dating apps after I asked them out for a coffee even though we had a good chat. I also got blocked by 2 girls on Instagram after asking them out and they were in the same school as me but now we are in different colleges. One of the girl who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up but she blocked me after few days and we had been chatting on insta for a month. I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 turning 22 after 3-4 months and I genuinely like her but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to my message yet but I am still waiting for her reply and hoping that she will agree. I also started newly chatting with another girl who too was in the same school as me but was my junior so she is within the 19-21 age range and she looks so pretty in her profile pic on insta with a smile and I would love to ask her out after knowing each other well but I am afraid that she might be having a boyfriend as she is really pretty and we aren't in the same college either.
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  100. So is it unusual that I still never had a gf at 23 in India? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal and never had a girlfriend and only been on 1 first date many months ago at the age of 22 and then a month later hanged out with my female friend, hugged only 2 girls in person and still never had my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and in my University too had crush on this girl for 7 months who is also 23 now but 5 months ago got crush on another prettier girl(sadly she wasn't into me either but she was the 2nd girl I hugged in person) in the same University so my previous crush stopped talking to me and I miss her. I had a summer break from University for 3 months and yesterday finally new semester started for us and I literally initiated conversation with 3 girls in my University who are MBA students too and within 21-23 age range and today too had conversation with 3 more(6 in total so far) but I had a long enough conversation with one of them who too is comfortable enough to talk to me and seems kinda introvert too with just a few female friends and we had a decent conversation today too and I think I am getting crush on her as she is so damn cute and pretty but idk about my chances as I look like a nerd in my glasses and she is really pretty too plus idk whether she is single or not even though she never mentioned about any boyfriend so far. She is a North Indian and I am Bengali. But it was a big change and improvement for me as I had always been shy near girls and in my high school days I completely avoided talking with girls as I was bullied a lot in school and continued being shy further too in my undergrad and even in my MBA too few months ago, I was still shy to initiate conversation with girls and even though I could talk with my crushes, there was still some nervousness here and there but today I went out of my comfort zone and talked with not 1 not 2 but 3 girls. Thats only because I initiated conversation with 3 expat women in my city Bangalore and they were white Caucasian women (yes foreigners do come to Bangalore as expats as its one of the major metropolitan city of India and popular for its IT(tech). First one was a French woman with whom I talked near my University almost 5 months ago who was within 22-26 age range and the next was a German woman 2 months ago and then yesterday again I saw another white blonde lady who looked to be within 26-30 age range and probably from Germany or maybe some Scandinavian country too and I waved my hand at her as she was walking and smiled at her saying her Hi and she too waved her hand back at me with a bit of a smile but couldn't have a conversation as the cab that I booked had arrived but would love to meet her again. So yeah I am happy that finally I can talk with women now whether Indian or foreigner but sadly it took me 23 years to get rid of my shyness.
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  101. I don't care much about the virginity part. I really wanna just feel how it feels to hug, kiss or hold hand with a girl. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. Recently I started going for some classes to get coaching for upcoming exams(which starts from Nov last week) to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 2 weeks ago and planning to study MBA next. There I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on our first class which was on 13th July 2023 and she sometimes tries to initiate convos with me asking whether I had lunch or not and says me hi but I just answer her what she asks or say hi back and I am still shy near girls in person so I am usually shy to try to initiate any talks with her unless she herself is the one who tries to talk with me first. BTW last week she actually said she finds me cute and that really made me blush hard and my friends too teased me hehe so I feel a little more hopeful now but she also has 2 or 3 male friends in our class so I feel really worried that she might go for them as they are more confident and much less shy than me. Since 28th May 2023, I also have been chatting with this 19 year old girl on Instagram. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other and now she is in a different college which is very near to my home tho and I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago who is 21 now turning 22 very soon. But my childhood friend is very inactive on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up, she didn't reply about when exactly we can meet up as she takes weeks and even a month to reply to me. I do chat with the 19 year old regularly sending each other virtual hugs and sharing everything like about our day, classes, about ourselves and many more but it still looks like she just sees me as a friend so I am still nervous to ask her out as I also got rejected recently by 4 girls.
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  102. Did I miss out a lot because I am 22 and never dated? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. I got unmatched by 2 girls recently on dating apps after I asked them out for a coffee even though we had a good chat. I also got blocked by 2 girls on Instagram after asking them out and they were in the same school as me but now we are in different colleges. One of the girl who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up but she blocked me after few days and we had been chatting on insta for a month. I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 turning 22 after 3-4 months and I genuinely like her but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to my message yet but I am still waiting for her reply and hoping that she will agree. I also started newly chatting with another girl who too was in the same school as me but was my junior so she is within the 19-21 age range and she looks so pretty in her profile pic on insta with a smile and I would love to ask her out after knowing each other well but I am afraid that she might be having a boyfriend as she is really pretty and we aren't in the same college either.
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  103. Damn man really at 50? Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 23 just over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date a bit over 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 a week ago) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and had my first hug ever from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she is really cute. 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean and toxic to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. For the past 6 months, I also have been crushing on this girl in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA next. She also just turned 23 about 2 week ago and she has called me cute before and I pulled her cheeks twice too but I am usually shy near girls in person so she is the one who usually initiates conversations with me and its usually short as I have nothing more to say as an introvert. I do see her with some male friends so that makes me worried thinking what if she goes for either of them. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in that same class and she is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends. We just roamed around our city and then had lunch in a big restaurant and had lots of fun. I did pull her cheeks once while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. We might go out again in Feb probably. But 3 days ago, I got a new crush(yeah I am a mess haha) on this another girl who is also 22 or 23 in the same institute but different classrooms and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen but I was again shy to approach her but I got to know her name and followed her on Instagram but she is yet to accept it and maybe then I will message her after 2-3 days but its possible that she probably has a boyfriend too. I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram for over 6 months. She is 19(turning 20 in April). We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since July 2023. We are planning to meet up too and eat somewhere as we are both foodies and we send each other virtual hugs in the chats daily and she is really sweet too. But in the end I am still single.
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  104. I am a 22 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend before and feel FOMO most of the time. Dating apps aren't giving me luck and 2 of my crushes in college too rejected me few months ago. I chat with some girls on Instagram who are 19-22 age range and we were in the same school but only 1 girl who is 20 year old chats with me regularly. We were also in the same school but now in different colleges in the same city. We send each other virtual hugs daily and she makes me blush. She is very sweet and I was falling in love with her but 2 weeks ago she said she is in a relationship but I am confused because she is still flirty to me and calls me cute and sends hugs so idk whether she lied to me about being in a relationship. We even talk about meeting up and hugging for real but idk when and unfortunately I still feel lonely maybe because its just a chat so far and we didn't hang out yet.
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  105. Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 23 like 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before. I went on my first ever date 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 few days ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds there and got my first hug from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she was cute. But 2 weeks after the date she became toxic and mean to me and blocked me on all social media. She basically used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. I also have massive crush on this another girl for the past 6 months where I go for some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college about 6 months ago and going to study MBA next. She also turned 23 just a few days ago. She has even called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too but I am shy near women in person so she is the one who initiates conversation with me. Few months ago I gave her a chocolate too but I often see her with her male friends so I get worried whether I have chance with her or not. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in the same class who is also 23 but so far we are just friends. We just roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant and I pulled her cheeks a bit too when we took selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. It was a fun day and we might go out again probably next month. I also have been following some girls on Instagram who are in the 21-25 age range from the same institute but different classrooms and messaged few of them and had been chatting with 2 or 3 of them who are also about 22 and 23 year olds. Since July 2023, I also have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who is 19(turning 20 in April). We were in the same school but didn't know each other in school days so we only have been knowing each other for 6 months. We also send each other virtual hugs and she is very sweet and we have many things in common like we are both foodies, like similar types of movies and many more and we plan to meet up to eat somewhere very soon too but in the end I am still single.
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  106. Is it still bad at 22 if I never dated before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  107. Wow man really 41? Have you been on dates before? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but had my first ever date and my first ever hug 5 months ago at the age of 22 with a girl who was 19(20 now) but it didn't work and also went out with a female friend who is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date. Recently got indirectly rejected by one of my crush due to my shyness. But for a month, I have been having a massive crush on this girl in the classes where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 7 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA Student. She is also within 21-23 age range. I was shy to talk to her too initially but I finally could with the help of my friends and one of her classmate. The last time we talked was 4 days ago and I got to know more about her and I was a lot less nervous this time. She is honestly very very pretty almost model like and has a very sweet voice whereas I am definitely not that good looking especially with my glasses(without them I look a bit better) and slightly chubby too. I don't even know whether she is even single or not. One of her classmate said she probably has a boyfriend whereas her another classmate who helped me talk with her said she is single and idk whom to believe. She has some male friends too in her class(we aren't in the same classrooms). She still haven't accepted my follow request on Instagram yet and its been 2 weeks even though she is nice and friendly to me in person. This another girl who is also 23 and on whom I had been crushing on for 7 months is ignoring me after she came to know about my new crush on this girl about whom I shared above. I also like this another girl who is 19 turning 20 in April and we have been chatting on Instagram for the past 7 months too. She used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other that time so we only have been knowing each other for 7 months and she is in a different college. We chat daily and send each other virtual hugs and talk about food a lot as we are both foodies and she is super sweet and we plan to meet up soon too one day and hopefully will get a longer hug this time.
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  108. Damn man. I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but had my first ever date and first hug 7 months ago at the age of 22 and sadly it didn't work out. Got ignored and rejected by several crushes. Currently having a crush on this girl in my University where I am pursuing my MBA and I am in 1st year and she too is an MBA 1st year student and she is also within 21-23 age range but we aren't in the same classrooms so we have brief conversations mostly and she has been my crush for the past 2 months. I even got her number 2 weeks ago in a clever way but she didn't see my whatsapp text and when I asked she said she had 2 exams in the same day. Today I even hugged her finally as it was her last exam today and tomorrow is my last exam so we won't be able to meet in person for 3 months as we all have to do a 2-3 months internship between May to July and our next semester classes will start in August so I gave her a goodbye hug for now. She did give a bit of an awkward smile tho when I hugged her. I literally put all my arms around her while hugging whereas she didn't really put all her arms around me and she pat my back and said ok bye I have to study now as I have an exam in an hour and then even I said ok bye and we walked our own ways. It was brief few seconds hug but it was also my 2nd time I ever hugged a girl in person. I hope she wasn't uncomfortable but today was my really happy day and even my classmates were surprised seeing that.
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  109. Have you never been on a date or just recently no dates? I am a 23 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before but I had my first ever date and first hug over 7 months ago at the age of 22 but it never worked out. Mostly got ignored or rejected by my previous crushes. Currently I have a crush on this girl in my University where we are both are pursuing MBA and are in 1st year now and she is also within 21-23 age range and we both graduated undergrad 10 months ago. But we are in different classrooms so our conversations had been mostly brief but I clever got her number too almost 3 weeks ago but she didn't see my text on Whatsapp and when I asked her about it, she said she had 2 exams in the same day so she had to study. 3 days ago, I hugged her as it was our last exam and we won't be able to meet for 3 months as we have to do an internship for 2-3 months between May to July and our next semester classes will start in August, so it was just a goodbye hug. She did give a bit of an awkward smile when I hugged her and I literally wrapped her in my arms whereas she didn't fully wrap me in her arms but she pat my back once and said ok I have to study now so bye and even I said ok bye. I am a bit worried whether she was comfortable enough or not but it was one of my happiest day and it was my 2nd time I hugged a girl in person and she is one of the prettiest girl in our University so it felt even more good and even my classmates were surprised seeing it.
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  110. What about 21 or 22? I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks and she rejected me. I use 3 datings apps but barely get any matches and get ghosted if I get matched by one. 5 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined recently for some course. She is a college student from a different college and she is definitely within the 19-21 age range but idk her exact age so she can be 18 too and she is beautiful but she went out of city for 2 weeks so she hasn't come for the classes and I can see her again on 1st Nov. Idk whether I can go for her as she is from a different college.
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