Comments by "Manosij Roy" (@manosijroy8282) on "The Rise Of Incels: A Generation Of Sexless Men" video.

  1. Damn man that's sad and a bit scary too that you are 40 and in the same boat as me. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed so far. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted by the girls and one 20 year old girl who matched with me on one of the dating app even rejected me because she only prefers bad guys. Btw a week ago, I did see a girl in a class where I joined recently. She is also a college student from a different college and she is definitely 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too and I think I got a little crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her that day. I haven't been able to see her after that as she is out of city for 2 weeks and will come for classes again on 1st Nov but idk whether she would want me as she is from a different college and also I am a bit shy.
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  2. I just want my first kiss for now. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and had no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since we were in high school. I got only 3 matches on tinder and 5 matches on Hinge so far after using them for almost 5 months but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come briefly online for 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  3. You are probably from the boomer generation I guess who had things easier in the past. I am a guy who turned 22 almost 8 weeks ago and never had a gf and obviously a virg. It's much harder for us Gen Z guys to get a girlfriend compared to the Gen X and boomers when they were my age.
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  4.  @GoldKingsMan  It's hard for me to initiate a convo with a girl whom I don't know in person. I need to chat with them first on social media to gain some confidence before talking with them in person. I am afraid that they would find me creepy and I may get into trouble. I used Instagram to get to know even the 2 girls in my college on whom I had crush too before confessing my feelings to them because I was shy to initiate a convo with them in person for the first time.
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  5. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and had no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since we were in high school. I got only 3 matches on tinder and 5 matches on Hinge so far after using them for almost 5 months but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come briefly online for 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  6. Is 22 still fine for an 18 or 19 year old? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and I kinda like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in a couple of weeks.
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  7. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and had no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since we were in high school. I get only 3 matches on tinder and 5 matches on Hinge so far after using them for almost 5 months but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come briefly online for 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  8. I am a 22 year old guy and never had a girlfriend before. I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 19-22 age range. Yesterday I ended up messaging another girl who is 21 and suddenly she got angry on me for randomly messaging her even though i just messaged her hey whats up and she told a guy who is also 21 and we were friends during high school. He got mad at me because she happened to be his girlfriend but I didn't know it and he called me a creep and also said me to never message any girls and he kept insulting me for that. I got angry and gave an angry reply and blocked him. Suddenly I saw 3 or 4 girls blocked me which means I lost 4 followers. I am really angry and upset. I never said anything wrong to those girls and the chats were normal about college, hobbies, music etc and I was just trying to get to know them.
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  9. Even dating apps aren't giving me any luck. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed so far. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted by the girls and one 20 year old girl who matched with me on one of the dating app even rejected me because she only prefers bad guys. Btw a week ago, I did see a girl in a class where I joined recently. She is also a college student from a different college and she is definitely 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too and I think I got a little crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her that day. I haven't been able to see her after that as she is out of city for 2 weeks and will come for classes again on 1st Nov but idk whether she would want me as she is from a different college and also I am a bit shy.
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  10.  @Herozonex200  Not really. I started feeling lonely since last year at 20. Now I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and 3 days ago got horrible rejected by a 19 year old girl who matched with me dating app and she called me ugly and said no girl will ever want me. But on Instagram, I saw some girls who were suggested to me. I knew them when we were in high school so I followed them but we weren't even classmates but still in the same grade. They are all 21-22 year olds. Today 2 of them did follow me back and both are 21 so the same age as me but I haven't messaged them yet and idk what to write because we never really interacted in high school days due to not being classmates.
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  11. I am a guy who turned 22 almost 9 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and its bothering me so much. But at 22, I wouldn't go for a woman your age as you are same age as my mom and I prefer 18-26 age range and 27 or maybe 28 is the absolute oldest i would go for now. I use dating apps but hardly any matches. I got matched with 2 girls 2 weeks ago. One is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April but no plan of first date or anything. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I do follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are all 19-22 age range and I started chatting with this girl for 4 days who was my junior in my school days. Now she is 20 about to be 21 after 4 months and we only sent virtual hugs to each other but she only sees me as a friend so idk whether I have chance with her or not
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  12. Btw why am I not getting matches even on Hinge? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and have been using tinder, bumble and Hinge since June or July 2022 but pretty much no matches at all on tinder and bumble but got 15 matches so far on Hinge but most of the girls ended up ghosting and unmatching me. But Hinge is different than tinder. On tinder, its just swiping left and right whereas on Hinge, you can send likes and even comment. I comment and ask questions to the girls but still hardly any matches. Why is it that way?
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  13. ​ @christiandenault7606  Is it still bad to dm girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me? Like I said I am 22 now and never had a gf and after having no luck on dating apps, I have been following and messaging girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me and are 19-22 age range. I don't have to worry about fake accounts because I have seen them in school so they are all real people but many have ghosted and blocked me too because I was too shy near girls throughout my school days so never really interacted with them so many of them probably sees me as a stranger. Only 4 or 5 girls chat with me. 2 of them both 20 year olds are sweet to me and we send virtual hugs to each other and a 19 year old girl too chats regularly with me and she is single but has a male bestie so idk. I wanna try my luck on this girl who was my childhood friend in elementary and now she is 21 turning 22 after 4 months and I wanna ask her out but we haven't talked in person since 2011 and she isn't that active on Insta so idk whether she will be comfortable.
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  14.  @BLUESKY-zt1nv  wow man you are 60 and never even held a girl's hand? Why? What happened? I am in the same boat as you but much younger. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. After getting rejected by 2 girls in my college and no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since my high school days and also no luck on dating apps, finally 7 days ago, a girl matched with me on one of the dating apps and for the first time, I had a decent chat with a girl on dating app without getting ghosted. She is a 19 year old girl and for the past 5-6 days, the chats were decent enough but yesterday she didn't come online so we couldn't chat. We live in the same city but different college and different course too. Do you think this time I will at least get my first kiss? I also get worried thinking what if she ends up ghosting me too or wouldn't want me.
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  15. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never kissed or hugged a girl in real life. After having no luck on dating apps, I started messaging girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me and are 18-23 year olds now(mostly 19-22). 4 days ago, I tried asking out one of the girl for a coffee who is 19 turning 20 in August. We had been chatting on Instagram for a month and were in the same school too but now in different colleges. She literally agreed to meet me up and said she will let me know when we can meet. I was super happy as this was the first time a girl didn't reject or block me(I was rejected by 3 girls before that) but I could see her replies getting slower and shorter after that. Yesterday she said she was just having mood swings so I said her how to feel better if she is sad and then sent her a virtual hug and then she replied Thanks and suddenly I saw she blocked me. I was shocked because we planned to meet up one day but it can no longer happen as I have no other way of contacting her. What hurt me a lot is that she gave me false hope by not rejecting or blocking me 4 days ago itself when I asked her out and she just agreed to it. Pretty much tears came into my eyes.
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  16. Yeah girls are so confusing. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 8 days and its been bothering me that I still don't have a girlfriend. I am on dating apps but only got some matches. Most of these matches are 18-23 year old girls and they end up ghosting or rejecting me. Sometimes I get ghosted for no reason at all. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me as well. I follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now and I even chat with some of them but many times, they kinda ignore my messages too for a day or so.
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  17. Wow 50 and never had a gf? BTW I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend. Btw is it fine for me to think about trying my luck on a girl who was my childhood friend? There is a girl named Aishu who was my close friend when we were in elementary school and we were neighbors too so we used to often study together, play together, make silly drawings together etc and even fight sometimes but again become friends. But in 2011, my parents bought a new apartment so we came to a different area, so me and Aishu never really talked with each other since 2011. Now we are both 21 and I saw her on Instagram few days ago and I tried following her but she isn't even accepting my follow request and idk why and it makes me sad. I really wanna talk with her, hug her and kiss her but I feel like it won't happen.
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  18. Not everyone has a social life especially the introverts. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. Recently I got unmatched by 2 girls(One is 19 and the other one is 21) on dating app after asking them out for a coffee even though we had a good chat. I also have been chatting with a girl who is 19 turning 20 in August on Instagram for a month and she was in the same school as me but now different colleges and I asked her out too for a coffee and she even agreed to meet up one day but she suddenly blocked me last week. I also tried asking out another girl 6 days ago and she is turning 20 after a couple of weeks and she too was in the same school as me but she blocked me immediately after I asked her out. Now my last hope is this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 and she is 21 now turning 22 after about 4 months. I asked her out too for coffee and I genuinely like her a lot but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to that message yet. I am honestly hoping a positive reply from her and she agrees to meet up but I am worried too that she might reject me but idk.
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  19. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and had no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since we were in high school. I get only 3 matches on tinder and 5 matches on Hinge so far after using them for almost 5 months but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come briefly online for 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  20. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and had no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since we were in high school. I get some matches on tinder and Hinge but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come briefly online for 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  21. Wow man its scary that you are 40 and in the same boat as me who is about 2 decades younger than you. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. I had crush on 2 girls in college recently but both rejected me. I use dating apps but having no luck either. I got 2 matches recently on tinder. One of the match is 22 years old and the other match is 20 years old who matched with me today but both of them never replied to my message yet. 2 weeks ago, I did see a girl in a class I joined recently for some classes. She is from a different college tho and she is definitely 19-21 years old but she can be 18 too and I was too shy to talk with her that day. I can again see her on 1st Nov but I am scared that I might still be shy near her.
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  22.  @kingrobotnik6950  I am myself an Asian. I am an Indian living in Bangalore in India but born in West Bengal in India
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  23. But it's true. I am a 21 year old guy and I am a vìrgin and I still didn't even get my first kiss yet. Tinder isn't giving me luck as I only got 3 matches so far and none of the girls replied to me. On another dating app Hinge too I got 5 matches so far and even there I get ghosted and unmatched. Finally I got matched by a girl last week on Meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. We still chat on the dating app and haven't added each other on other social media yet. I am worried thinking why she isn't coming online.
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  24. I am turning 22 tomorrow and I never had a girlfriend before. 3 days ago, I was matched with another girl who is 18 turning 19 in Feb and she seemed quite interested in knowing me but when we shared about our hobbies and I told her about my singing which I upload on my youtube channel(not this one, another one). She said she was gonna check it and then I saw she unmatched me. I guess she found me ugly in my videos or my singing is bad. I got matched by another girl too who is 21 on that same day 3 days ago and we had a good chat too and even added each other on Instagram but she said I seem like an introvert and she didn't chat much with me. When I asked, she said she is a medical college student so she isn't that much free. Idk whether she lied or she is genuinely busy.
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  25. Dude at least you are only 15 and have plenty of time. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and still no first kiss either. I will be turning 22 next month just 3 days before Christmas and it has been bothering me so much. You are still a kid and shouldn't worry too much about it.
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  26. I am a guy who turned 22 just 8 weeks ago and never even had a girlfriend before and its bothering me a lot. I use dating apps and get few matches but get ghosted. Recently got 2 matches, one of them is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April and they are sweet but still no plan of first date or anything. I also got rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago. I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are within 19-22 age range. I chat with 3 of those girls so far. One of them is 19 almost 20, another one is 20 and another is 22. The 19 and the 22 year old doesn't chat regularly with me whereas the 20 year old does chat with me regularly but she gets a bit uncomfortable when I compliment her or something so I am too scared to even ask her out as she definitely doesn't seem to want anything more than just friends
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  27. I am a guy who turned 22 just over 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and never had a real kiss with a girl either except getting kissed on the cheek by a female friend when we both were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls and they end up ghosting me. Only one girl who is 19 on dating app didn't ghost me yet and we have things in common to chat about but idk. I also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now. I had the best chat with a girl who is 20 now and she was 2 years my junior in school. She is better than most of the girls I have chatted with and we had been chatting for the past 10 days. But 4 days ago I kinda messed up by giving her a cheesy compliment after only 6 days of chatting with her which made her a little uncomfortable but I apologized and said I only said it to make her smile so she forgive me and thanked me. We still chat but idk whether I can try out my luck on her or not.
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  28. Why is being over 25 such a big deal even though late 20s is young too? Btw I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  29.  @fayelis  but I am 22 now so is it still bad? I still have 3 more years to go to be 25 so give your opinion. I am a student who will be graduating college in mid 2023 and then study MBA so I will still be a student for 2 more years.
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  30. Because I missed out on young love and I am well into my 20s now and I feel lonely. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. After having no luck with 2 girls in my college and 2 girls whom I knew since my high school days and also no luck on dating apps, finally 5 days ago, a girl matched with me on one of the dating apps and for the first time, I had a decent chat with a girl on dating app without getting ghosted. She is a 19 year old girl and for the past 5 days, the chats were decent enough. We live in the same city but different college and different course too. Do you think this time I will at least get my first kiss? I also get worried thinking what if she ends up ghosting me too or wouldn't want me or she would get bored of me.
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  31. I am a guy who turned 22 just 2 weeks ago and I never had a girlfriend and it's already bothering me. I had crush on 2 girls in my college and both rejected me. I also use dating apps for months and get matches by 18-24 age girls and they all end up ghosting or unmatching me. I also follow some girls on Instagram and chat with 4 of them. I knew 3 of them in my high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds and another one is an 18-19 year old girl who was suggested to me on IG as we have a common follower and she is still fine chatting with me and followed me back but even she isn't chatting with me at all for the past 3 days and even the other 3 also are chatting rarely with me. These girls go to different colleges than me but we still live in the same city.
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  32. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago and got rejected. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  33. Is 7 rejections still bad enough? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. I got rejected by 3 girls very recently(I got rejected by 7 girls so far in total). I got blocked by 2 of them on Instagram after I asked them out and they were in the same school as me too and one of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up but blocked me after few days. Today I tried asking out another girl who is 20 and she too was in the same school as me and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she too rejected me saying that I am nice but she isn't comfortable with meeting up with me so we can't meet up and she unfollowed me on Instagram. But there is still some hope as I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months and I genuinely like her too and we used to be very close friends when we were both in elementary school but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to my message yet. I am still waiting for her reply and I am honestly expecting a positive reply but idk.
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  34. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 8 days and its been bothering me that I still don't have a girlfriend. I am on dating apps but only got some matches. Most of these matches are 18-23 year old girls and they end up ghosting or rejecting me. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me as well. I follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now and I even chat with some of them but many times, they kinda ignore my messages too for a day or so.
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  35. Thats true. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and I tried to connect with girls whom I knew in my high school days by following them on IG but they didn't even accept my follow request and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls who matches with me on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me or end up ghosting me and one 19 year old girl who matched with me turned out to be very mean to me yesterday and insulted me after I tried to ask her out after chatting with her for over a week and she literally called me ugly and said no girl would want me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  36. I can understand how you feel man. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend. Btw is it fine for me to think about trying my luck on a girl who was my childhood friend? There is a girl named Aishu who was my close friend when we were in elementary school and we were neighbors too so we used to often study together, play together, make silly drawings together etc and even fight sometimes but again become friends. But in 2011, my parents bought a new apartment so we came to a different area, so me and Aishu never really talked with each other since 2011. Now we are both 21 and I saw her on Instagram few days ago and I tried following her but she isn't even accepting my follow request and idk why and it makes me sad. I really wanna talk with her, hug her and kiss her but I feel like it won't happen.
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  37. Dude not everyone has luck with dating apps. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed so far. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted by the girls and one 20 year old girl who matched with me on one of the dating app even rejected me because she only prefers bad guys. Btw a week ago, I did see a girl in a class where I joined recently. She is also a college student from a different college and she is definitely 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too and I think I got a little crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her that day. I haven't been able to see her after that as she is out of city for 2 weeks and will come for classes again on 1st Nov but idk whether she would want me as she is from a different college and also I am a bit shy.
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  38. I am a guy who turned 23 just over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date a bit over 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 a week ago) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and had my first hug ever from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she is really cute. 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean and toxic to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. For the past 6 months, I also have been crushing on this girl in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA next. She also just turned 23 over a week ago and she has called me cute before and I pulled her cheeks twice too but I am usually shy near girls in person so she is the one who usually initiates conversations with me and its usually short as I have nothing more to say as an introvert. I do see her with some male friends so that makes me worried thinking what if she goes for either of them. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in that same class and she is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends. We just roamed around our city and then had lunch in a big restaurant and had lots of fun. I did pull her cheeks once while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. We might go out again in Feb probably. But today I got a new crush(yeah I am a mess haha) on this another girl who is also 22 or 23 in the same institute but different classrooms and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen but I was again shy to approach her but I got to know her name and followed her on Instagram but she is yet to accept it and maybe then I will message her after 2-3 days. I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram for over 6 months. She is 19(turning 20 in April). We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since July 2023. We are planning to meet up too and eat somewhere as we are both foodies and we send each other virtual hugs in the chats daily and she is really sweet too. But in the end I am still single.
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  39. But its so hard for me. BTW are introvert guys a turn off for girls? I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after just 2 days and I never had a girlfriend before and after getting ghosted and rejected by girls on dating apps and also in college, finally 2 days ago I was matched with a girl on dating app who seemed much better than my previous matches. She is also 21 and she seemed interested in knowing me too and we talked about many things and yesterday we added each other on Instagram, but she said judging by my IG profile, she can tell that I am an introvert. Yeah I am an introvert and I am scared that it might be a turn off for her and she might ghost me as well.
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  40. Thats sad. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and didn't even get my first kiss yet and I feel lonely and down. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One of them is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I have been using 3 dating apps for 4 months but barely getting any matches at all and one 20 year old girl who matched with me 2 months ago rejected me saying she only prefers bad guys and that I am too nice for her. About 2 weeks ago, I saw another girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is from a different college tho and she is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but can be 18 too as idk her real age but I was too shy to even say her a hi that day and now I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she went out of city for 2 weeks and I am afraid that she might reject me as well especially because we are from different college.
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  41. I am turning 22 tomorrow and I never had a girlfriend before. 3 days ago, I was matched with another girl who is 18 turning 19 in Feb and she seemed quite interested in knowing me but when we shared about our hobbies and I told her about my singing which I upload on my youtube channel(not this one, another one). She said she was gonna check it and then I saw she unmatched me. I guess she found me ugly in my videos or my singing is bad. I got matched by another girl too who is 21 on that same day 3 days ago and we had a good chat too and even added each other on Instagram but she said I seem like an introvert and she didn't chat much with me. When I asked, she said she is a medical college student so she isn't that much free. Idk whether she lied or she is genuinely busy.
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  42. I guess things are more open minded in big metro cities. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 8 days and its been bothering me that I still don't have a girlfriend. I am a Bengali guy living in Bangalore. I am on dating apps but only got some matches. Most of these matches are 18-23 year old girls and they end up ghosting or rejecting me. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me as well. I follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now and I even chat with some of them but many times, they kinda ignore my messages too for a day or so.
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  43.  @sankkham  I was really adamant last year that I will only date an American or European girl because Western countries are more open minded than India but I might have to wait few years before I can move abroad so I wanted to give Indian girls a chance too as I live in Bangalore which is a big city so things would be better here than smaller cities and towns. I can't pay for escorts because I still live with my parents and will be graduating college in 2023 so I am not financially independent for it and I don't wanna spend my dad's money on them.
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  44. Dude I am also an Indian(Bengali) and I live in Bangalore. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had his first kiss and I never had a girlfriend. After having no luck with 4 girls I know in real life, finally 2 days ago I was matched with a girl on one of the dating apps who isn't ghosting me so far. She is 19 years old and we had a decent chat for the past 2 days and she too lives in my city but we are in different college and different course too. Do you think I will at least get my first kiss this time? I am scared that she might ghost me too or wouldn't want me.
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  45.  @samueljackson6188  Haha you got jealous reading my comment thats why you replied that.
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  46. Damn man really at 40? Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(turned 20 few weeks ago) and had my first ever hug too (she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere) and also 3 months ago went out with a female friend who is also 23 where we go for classes for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6-7 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had lunch in a big restaurant(but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends). I also had been crushing on this another girl(lets call her A) in that same class where I go now and she also turned 23 over 2 weeks ago and I even gave her a chocolate 5 days ago and she too knew I had a crush on her and has called me cute before too but things changed as last week I got a new crush on this another girl(lets call her B) in the same institute but different classrooms. She is within 21-23 age range and one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen and I was too shy to approach her but 3 days ago, with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was finally able to talk to her a bit and I was feeling butterflies. Everyone including that girl A came to know about it and she isn't really trying to talk to me and said that I am not loyal enough so she won't talk to me(idk whether she was joking or not). Yesterday was chocolate day and one of my friend jokingly said me to give chocolate to A again but she said she doesn't want a chocolate from me. I am afraid that B is probably out of my league as she is very pretty almost model like and I am just average I guess and plus I was too nervous that day while talking with her in person so idk how it will go. I am such a mess that I like another girl(lets call her S) with whom I had been chatting on Instagram for the past 7 months. She is 19 now(turning 20 in April) and we used to be in the same school but didn't knew each other in school days and now she is in a different college. We send each other virtual hugs daily and we will meet up this month too to eat somewhere as we are both foodies and she has no idea about these 2 girls A and B. But after getting crush newly on this girl B, I am mostly thinking about her and not giving much attention to A and S whom I have known longer than B. Idk what to do. If B rejects me, then I won't have chance with A as she probably have a negative perception about me now for getting multiple crushes.
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  47. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. I got rejected very recently by 3 girls( rejected by 7 girls in total so far tho). These 3 girls were all in the same school as me but now in different colleges and we had been chatting on Instagram for months. One of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up after I asked her out few weeks ago but she blocked me mysteriously after few days whereas another girl blocked me immediately after I asked her out. Few days ago I tried asking out another girl who is 20 now and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she rejected me saying that even though I am really nice, she just isn't comfortable to meet up with me and it hit me hard. But there is still some hope as I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months. We were very close friends when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. But she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see that message in which I asked her out so still no reply yet. I am still waiting for her reply and hoping a positive reply as I genuinely like her a lot but idk.
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  48. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and tried to connect with girls whom I knew in high school by following them on IG but they didn't follow me back and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls who matches with me on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me or end up ghosting me and one 19 year old girl who matched with me turned out to be very mean to me yesterday and insulted me after I tried to ask her out after chatting with her for over a week and she literally called me ugly and said no girl would want me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  49. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon. Those 3 girls are around 22-24 year olds and very pretty and initiated convo with me saying hi and telling names and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. Today too they tried to talk with me but I am still kinda shy near girls in person so we didn't talk much but for the past 2 days I can't stop thinking about them. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also the three 22-24 year olds on whom I newly got crush.
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  50. Wow really at 42? Did you have a girlfriend before?BTW I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 6 days and its been bothering me that I still don't have a girlfriend. I am on dating apps but only got some matches. Most of these matches are 18-23 year old girls and they end up ghosting or rejecting me. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me as well. I follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now and I even chat with some of them but many times, they kinda ignore my messages too for a day or so.
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  51. I am in the same boat as you but I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. After 3 rejections recently, I did ask out my childhood friend who is 21 year old now turning 22 soon by messaging her on Instagram and she did reply yeah ok but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and now again she hasn't been online for weeks and still yet to reply about when we can meet but I am still waiting. But since 28th May 2023, I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days. Now she is 19 year old and is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and we chat daily about pretty much everything and we send each other virtual hugs too and I think I started liking her too but so far it still looks like she just sees me as a friend as the chats doesn't get very flirty yet and we have been chatting for almost a month. We are also in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. I do wanna ask her out but my childhood friend didn't reject me too and I like both of them.
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  52. How old are you now? Is she your gf now? I am a 21 year old guy who never even had his first kiss and I never had a girlfriend. After having no luck with 4 girls I know in real life, finally 2 days ago I was matched with a girl on one of the dating apps who isn't ghosting me so far. She is 19 years old and we had a decent chat for the past 2 days and she too lives in my city but we are in different college and different course too. Do you think I will at least get my first kiss this time? I am scared that she might ghost me too or wouldn't want me
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  53. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed too. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches. A week ago, I saw another girl in a class where I joined for some courses recently and she is also a college student from a different college and I think she is 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too. I think I got crush on her but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her. I can only see her again on 1st Nov because she went out of city for 2 weeks.
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  54.  @Sylentmana  But that girl is really beautiful and has a cute voice. She is also about the same age as me. Like I said I am 21 and she is also any age within the 18-21 age range so she in the same age group as me and both of us are students but she is in a different college but we go for the same class for that course.
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  55.  @Sylentmana  But I guess it's normal at my age to be shy and not have much confidence with girls and to get crush on beautiful girls. I am 14 years younger than you. When you were 27, I was only 13. Even though I am 21, I still feel mentally as if I am 14-16 especially with all these crushes I get on girls(don't worry I only get crush on girls within the 18 to 28 age range).
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  56.  @leandroleguizamontaz  But it isn't a long distance relationship. We live in the same city so we have a chance of meeting up.
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  57.  @leandroleguizamontaz  It's only been a week since we matched. Is it still bad if she doesn't come online? It's not like she is online but ignoring my messages. I am 21 and she is 19 so we are both super close in age too. We had a very good chat for the first 5 days but the past 2 days she didn't come online on the app itself.
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  58.  @leandroleguizamontaz  I had crush on 2 girls recently in my college. One was 19(now 20) and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl(who just turned 20 few days ago) on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Instagram for 3 weeks and she rejected me. Few days ago I heard a song which reminded me of a girl who was my high school crush. We were in same grade but we weren't classmates and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. Now she is also 21 or maybe even 22 and tried following her on Instagram thinking I could try my luck on her but she didn't even accept my follow request and she didn't even answer my message which I sent her.
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  59. Yeah I am a guy who turned 22 just 6 days ago and I never had a girlfriend before and never been kissed. Its been bothering me a lot now. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago. One was 19(turned 20 last month) and another was 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I use dating apps but hardly get matches. Last week I was matched by 2 girls. One was 18 turning 19 in Feb and she unmatched me for no reason whereas another was 21 and she too ended up ghosting and unmatching me. Yesterday I was matched with this 20 year old girl who unmatched me after I told her that my hobby is singing and that was strange. I also follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds too and only like 2 of them chat with me.
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  60.  @Aleksandar6ix  Btw yesterday I heard a song which was released in 2009 and I felt nostalgic hearing it and it reminds me of a girl whom I knew since my school days. She was in the same grade as me but we weren't in the same class and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so the same age as me and I followed her on Instagram but she hasn't accepted my follow request yet. I wish she could be my girlfriend now but she is too pretty and I was considered a loser by most guys in my grade in high school so maybe she would still find me lame even though she probably didn't know me properly. She also probably has a boyfriend. I really wish she follow me back so I can chat with her and get to know her.
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  61.  @BLUESKY-zt1nv  it's still scary that you are 60 and never had one. I am 22 now and already feel terrible that I have no girlfriend. I see all these teenagers on Quora saying they got girlfriend and boyfriend and they are like 13-15 year olds and I am like how can they have it so easy whereas I am 22 and still not even a single girlfriend. It's crazy that there are also people like you who are 60 and never had one so that shows things are unfair.
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  62.  @BLUESKY-zt1nv  it's scary. I am 22 and will be graduating college in mid 2023 and then study MBA and have 0 social life too as I am an introvert. All I am relying on is dating apps and Instagram to socialize with girls around my age. I chat with some girls on Instagram but my only hope is on my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months but it's been a long time since we talked in person so idk whether she would be comfortable if I dared to ask her out
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  63.  @Cole_Cross  How am I a baby? I am 22 now which is considered a grown adult. I never had a gf and having 0 luck
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  64. Wow did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 22 several weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before. I use dating apps and get matched by 18-23 age girls but get ghosted by them. Only one girl who is 19 didn't ghost me completely but we don't chat regularly. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds now. I had the best chat with a girl who is 20 for 2 weeks. She was my junior in school days. Unfortunately I messed up a bit a week ago by giving her a cheesy compliment but she forgive me and we still chat but I don't know whether I can ask her out or not.
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  65. Thats scary man that you are 43 and kinda in the same boat as me. Btw I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and 3 days ago got horrible rejected by a 19 year old girl who matched with me dating app and she called me ugly and said no girl will ever want me. But on Instagram, I saw some girls who were suggested to me. I knew them when we were in high school so I followed them but we weren't even classmates but still in the same grade. They are all 21-22 year olds. Today 2 of them did follow me back and both are 21 so the same age as me but I haven't messaged them yet and idk what to write because we never really interacted in high school days due to not being classmates.
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  66.  @hideinmind  so it's bad that I will be graduating college next year and still have no girlfriend? I am 21 and will be turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas. Isn't 21-22 still young enough and have plenty of time?
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  67.  @hideinmind  I don't. I never even had a female friend. I am a very introvert person and don't even have a social life. I am on dating apps like tinder and hinge but I get only few matches by girls who are 18-22 year olds but they all end up ghosting me and one 19 year old girl rejected me horribly last week calling me ugly and saying no girl would even like me.
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  68. I am a guy who turned 22 just 3 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and use dating apps but hardly get any matches. Rarely some 18-23 age girls match with me but they ghost or unmatch me for no reason. I really wanna try my luck on a girl who was my friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 but we never talked with each other in person since 2011. She surprisingly still remembers as I follow and chat with her on Instagram. She is 21 now and only 5 months younger than me and I would love to date her but she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or so. She turned off her activity status on IG so can't even see when she is online. I wanna meet her and maybe even hug her but idk how.
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  69.  @geraldtherat618  yeah maybe man but we were such close friends when we were in 3rd to 6th grade. We used to play together, study together and have sleepovers at night those days so why is she ignoring me now? Why can't we get along like those days?
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  70.  @geraldtherat618  Thats sad. I thought maybe we will fall in love and now she is 21 and I am 22 so we are adults and at same time really young too to have fun and sweet moments and warm hugs and stuffs. Btw how old are you? Did you have a gf before?
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  71. How old are you now? And yeah I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I get some matches on tinder and Hinge but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come online briefly for like 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  72.  @Yo_soy_Fish  how can I find women on Instagram? I tried following some around my age on Instagram but they just accept my follow request but never follow me back. Even if I message them they never reply probably because it goes to their requests as they don't follow me back and they probably don't even check their requests. On Instagram, girls never chat with or follow back guys whom they don't know.
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  73. So did I miss out as I am 22 now and never dated? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. Recently got unmatched by 2 girls(one is 19 and another is 21) on dating app after I asked them out even after a decent chat. I also tried asking out this girl who is 19 turning 20 in August and we were in the same school but now in different colleges and we have been chatting on Instagram for a month and she even agreed to meet up and I was super happy but she blocked me mysteriously for no reason last week. Then 4 days ago I tried asking out another girl who is turning 20 after a few weeks and we also were in the same school and have been chatting on insta for over 3 weeks but she immediately blocked me after I asked her out for a coffee. My only last hope is this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 and now she is 21 turning 22 after like 4 months. I asked her out too for a coffee but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't even see or reply to my message yet but honestly I am hoping for a positive reply but also worried that she might reject me too.
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  74. I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  75. Woah man really at 40? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 3 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now almost 22 but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took a month to reply yeah ok to it but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk exactly when due to her being so inactive on IG. Since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just completed college about a week ago and wanna study MBA now. There in the class I got a massive crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on the first day and introduced our selves and it was my first ever handshake with a girl. She sometimes try to initiate convo with me asking whether I had lunch or not and some more but I am shy to initiate further talks with her so our conversations are short. I am still kinda shy near girls in person and I see her having 2 male friends in our class so I feel scared thinking what if she goes for either of them. I also had been chatting with this another girl who is 19 on Instagram since 28th May 2023. We used to be in the same school but now she is in a different college and just entered 2nd year of college. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about many things and have a good laugh and send each other virtual hugs too but it looks like she still sees me as a friend so I am nervous to ask her out as I also got rejected recently by 4 girls.
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  76. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 on 22nd December who never had a girlfriend. Got rejected by 3 girls who are 19-21 year olds so far(2 from my college and 1 from a dating app). I tried following few girls on Instagram too whom I knew in my high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now but only 7 of them followed me back and 2 of my high school crushes who are 21-22 now didn't even accept my follow request. 6 days I got matched by 2 girls on dating app Hinge. One is 21 and the other one is 23 turning 24 next month. Unfortunately, the 21 year old girl stopped replying after a small chat whereas I had a decent chat with the 23 year old and she is super cute and I really wish she won't ghost me too.
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  77. Thats sad man and I am kinda in the same boat as you but 14 years younger. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and didn't even get my first kiss yet and I feel lonely and down. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One of them is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I have been using 3 dating apps for 4 months but barely getting any matches at all and one 20 year old girl who matched with me 2 months ago rejected me saying she only prefers bad guys and that I am too nice for her. About 2 weeks ago, I saw another girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is from a different college tho and she is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but can be 18 too as idk her real age but I was too shy to even say her a hi that day and now I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she went out of city for 2 weeks and I am afraid that she might reject me as well especially because we are from different college.
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  78. How old are you? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. After 3 rejections recently, I did ask out my childhood friend who is 21 year old now turning 22 soon by messaging her on Instagram and she did reply yeah ok but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and now again she hasn't been online for weeks and still yet to reply about when we can meet but I am still waiting. But since 28th May 2023, I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days. Now she is 19 year old and is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and we chat daily about pretty much everything and we send each other virtual hugs too and I think I started liking her too but so far it still looks like she just sees me as a friend as the chats doesn't get very flirty yet and we have been chatting for almost a month. We are also in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. I do wanna ask her out but my childhood friend didn't reject me too and I like both of them.
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  79. I turned 22 just 4 days ago and I never had a girlfriend either and its bothering me a lot. Got rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago and had not much luck in dating apps. Btw yesterday I got some hope after one girl finally accepted my follow request on Instagram. I knew her in high school days and we were in the same grade but we weren't classmates. I had crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. Now she is also either 21 or 22 and she is even prettier now and she accepted my follow request after about 2 months. I guess she doesn't remember me much tho as she didn't follow me back so idk how can I get to know her and I am afraid that she might be having a boyfriend now.
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  80. I am a 22 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend before. Dating apps aren't giving me luck and 2 of my crushes in college too rejected me few months ago. I chat with some girls on Instagram who are 19-22 age range and we were in the same school but only 1 girl who is 20 year old chats with me regularly. We were also in the same school but now in different colleges in the same city. We send each other virtual hugs daily and she makes me blush. She is very sweet and I was falling in love with her but 2 weeks ago she said she is in a relationship but I am confused because she is still flirty to me and calls me cute and sends hugs so idk whether she lied to me about being in a relationship. We even talk about meeting up and hugging for real but idk when and unfortunately I still feel lonely maybe because its just a chat so far and we didn't hang out yet.
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  81. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  82. Damn man did you have a girlfriend before? BTW I am a guy who turned 22 just over 8 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend. I use dating apps but hardly any matches. I got matched with 2 girls 2 weeks ago. One is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April but no plan of first date or anything. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I do follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are all 19-22 age range but still some of them don't chat regularly with and they probably doesn't see me as someone more than just a friend. I really wanna ask either of them out but Idk when.
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  83.  @neox9369  How old are you? I just turned 22 exactly 2 weeks ago and I am 7 years older than him
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  84. So did I miss out as I am 22 and never dated? I am a guy who turned 22 pretty recently and never had a girlfriend. I use dating apps and got some 3 matches recently but hardly any plan of first date. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently and both rejected me. But things look promising as I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 19-22 year olds. I chat with this very sweet girl on insta who was my junior in school days. Now she is 20 turning 21 after 4 months and we have been chatting for the past 8-9 days. We send each other virtual hugs daily and that makes me feel butterflies. Idk whether she really likes me or she is just being friendly and we also go to different colleges but still in the same city.
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  85. How old are you? I am a 22 year old Indian guy living in Bangalore who is about 5'9(174-175 cm) and I never had a girlfriend before and never even kissed or hugged a girl before. After 3 rejections recently, 5 days ago finally my childhood friend who is 21 turning 22 soon replied positively to me after I asked her out via Instagram. We were close friends when we were in elementary school but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took almost a month to reply to it and her reply was "yeah ok". I asked her when we can meet but again she didn't come online so no reply to it so I probably have to again wait and I honestly like her a lot. But I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May. She was in the same school as me but she is few years my junior so we didn't know each other in our school days. Now she is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college so she is either 18 about to turn 19 soon or is already 19 now. We have been chatting daily unlike my childhood friend who takes weeks to reply. We both go to different colleges but her college is very near to my home and there is Starbucks near her college too where I can ask her out. We also send each other virtual hugs daily and she goes Awww but my childhood friend went Awww too when I sent her virtual hugs. Can I try asking her out too even though my childhood friend didn't reject me?
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  86. I am a 21 year old guy so a Gen Z who never had a girlfriend. I feel like I am such a repellant to girls. 2 of my crushes in college rejected me recently. 3 days ago I heard a song which reminded me of a girl whom I knew since my school days and we were in same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so we are the same age. She is very beautiful and I followed her on Instagram. Her account is private so I sent her a follow request but she literally rejected my follow request and I am so down. Why did she do that? Is it because she can't recognize me or it's just I am too repellant to girls or is it because she finds me lame because I used to get bullied a lot in high school and was considered a loser by most guys in my grade? Is it fine if I send her a message?
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  87. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend. Btw is it fine for me to think about trying my luck on a girl who was my childhood friend? There is a girl named Aishu who was my close friend when we were in elementary school and we were neighbors too so we used to often study together, play together, make silly drawings together etc and even fight sometimes but again become friends. But in 2011, my parents bought a new apartment so we came to a different area, so me and Aishu never really talked with each other since 2011. Now we are both 21 and I saw her on Instagram few days ago and I tried following her but she isn't even accepting my follow request and idk why and it makes me sad. I really wanna talk with her, hug her and kiss her but I feel like it won't happen.
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  88.  @suziepeaches321  I messaged her already about it but no reply or anything. Actually I am not really having luck on dating apps and got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently so I am trying to follow girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now but only 7 of them followed me back. 2 of the girls who were my high school crush too didn't accept my follow request.
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  89.  @suziepeaches321  no I am a Bengali Indian living in Bangalore in India so these girls are from my city and country. I am 5'8 1/2 almost 5'9 so it's above average in India and I am shy and introvert and don't have a social life. Last year I was pretty adamant to date an American or European girl because India is a more conservative country than the West as most Indian parents don't like it if their son or daughter has a gf or bf. But I have to wait probably like 2 years before I can move abroad. Thankfully Bangalore is a big metropolitan city so things are better and more advanced and less conservative here in the big metropolitan cities of India so I am open to dating an Indian girl as long as she isn't from a very traditional Indian family or isn't a Muslim.
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  90. Oh ok. Btw say honestly is it creepy of me to follow girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days? I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 6 days and never had a girlfriend before. Dating apps aren't bringing much luck for me so I follow girls on IG and even chat with some of them. They are all 20-22 year olds now too so like the same age as me but many times they don't reply or see my last message too even though we still have a decent chat. Btw some people on reddit said its creepy of me to follow them. Why? I mean I knew them in high school.
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  91. How old are you man? Btw I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and 3 days ago got horrible rejected by a 19 year old girl who matched with me dating app and she called me ugly and said no girl will ever want me. But on Instagram, I saw some girls who were suggested to me. I knew them when we were in high school so I followed them but we weren't even classmates but still in the same grade. They are all 21-22 year olds. Today 2 of them did follow me back and both are 21 so the same age as me but I haven't messaged them yet and idk what to write because we never really interacted in high school days due to not being classmates.
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  92. Wow man did you have girlfriend before? Btw I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and 3 days ago got horrible rejected by a 19 year old girl who matched with me dating app and she called me ugly and said no girl will ever want me. But on Instagram, I saw some girls who were suggested to me. I knew them when we were in high school so I followed them but we weren't even classmates but still in the same grade. They are all 21-22 year olds. Today 2 of them did follow me back and both are 21 so the same age as me but I haven't messaged them yet and idk what to write because we never really interacted in high school days due to not being classmates.
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