Youtube comments of Manosij Roy (@manosijroy8282).

  1. Kinda same. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  2. Damn man that's sad and a bit scary too that you are 40 and in the same boat as me. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed so far. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted by the girls and one 20 year old girl who matched with me on one of the dating app even rejected me because she only prefers bad guys. Btw a week ago, I did see a girl in a class where I joined recently. She is also a college student from a different college and she is definitely 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too and I think I got a little crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her that day. I haven't been able to see her after that as she is out of city for 2 weeks and will come for classes again on 1st Nov but idk whether she would want me as she is from a different college and also I am a bit shy.
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  3. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  4. Thats sad man. I can understand how you feel as I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  5. Is 22 late too if I never even dated before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. After 3 rejections recently, I did ask out my childhood friend who is 21 year old now turning 22 soon by messaging her on Instagram and she did reply yeah ok but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and now again she hasn't been online for weeks and still yet to reply about when we can meet but I am still waiting. But since 28th May 2023, I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days. Now she is 19 year old and is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and we chat daily about pretty much everything and we send each other virtual hugs too and I think I started liking her too but so far it still looks like she just sees me as a friend as the chats doesn't get very flirty yet and we have been chatting for almost a month. We are also in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. I do wanna ask her out but my childhood friend didn't reject me too and I like both of them.
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  6. Wow man 71? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(20 now) and had my first hug too but sadly she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere and I also went out with a female friend 4 months ago who is also 23 and ate in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date. But almost 3 weeks ago, I got a new crush on this girl in a class where we go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 7 months ago but we are in different classrooms. She is also within the 21-23 age range and I had been too shy to talk to her but 2 weeks ago eventually with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was able to talk to her and again said her Hi last week. That classmate of her did say she is single but last week another of her classmate said that she probably has a boyfriend so that makes me feel confused whether to pursue her or not but I won't believe it unless she herself says she has a bf. 6 days ago, I again talked with her a bit and even we did handshake and she smiled too but I was definitely still sounding a bit nervous while talking with her. Sadly she still didn't follow me back or reply to my first dm to her on Instagram and its been 10 days already so idk whats up as she was still friendly with me 6 days ago. She is very very pretty almost model like and I just look average. Without my glasses, I look better but I have high power so should wear them all the time and look really nerdy and dorky in it so idk whether I even have a chance with her. I had crush on another girl in the same classes for the past 6-7 months and she also turned 23 last month. I liked her a lot and she even called me cute several times and I also gave her chocolate 2 weeks ago but was too shy to say her that I liked her but she probably knew I had a crush on her tho. Sadly she is ignoring me these days as she came to know about my new crush on this another girl. I also have been chatting with this girl on Instagram for the past 7 months and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other that time and now she is in a different college. She is 19(turning 20 in April) and she is super sweet and we are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs and chat daily talking about almost everything. We will meet soon too and go to eat somewhere but I am still single in the end.
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  7.  @ceooflonelinessinc.267  I am from Bangalore in India. You?
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  8. Same here. I don't have a good social life and only have few close friends who also lives far from my home. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had 2 crushes in college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches. The few 18-24 age girls who matches with me ends up ghosting me. Yesterday I saw a girl in a class where I newly joined for some courses. She is a college student too so she is like 19 or 20 or maybe 21(idk her exact age but I think she is 19-21 so within my age group) and she is beautiful and I might get a crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her. She will be going out of city for 2 weeks so she won't come for the classes for 2 weeks until 1st Nov so I can only see her again on 1st Nov.
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  9. Do you feel 19 and 22 is as problematic as 19 and 26? I am a 22 year old guy and I like girl who is 19 so we are only 3 years apart and we are both in college and we tend to get along well and don't notice any difference.
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  10. I am a guy who turned 22 almost 9 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and its bothering me so much. I use dating apps but hardly any matches. I got matched with 2 girls 2 weeks ago. One is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April but no plan of first date or anything. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I do follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are all 19-22 age range and I started chatting with this girl for 4 days who was my junior in my school days. Now she is 20 about to be 21 after 4 months and we only sent virtual hugs to each other today but she only sees me as a friend so idk whether I have chance with her or not
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  11. I am in the same boat as you but I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never kissed or hugged a girl in real life. After having no luck on dating apps, I started messaging girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me and are 18-23 year olds now(mostly 19-22). 4 days ago, I tried asking out one of the girl for a coffee who is 19 turning 20 in August. We had been chatting on Instagram for a month and were in the same school too but now in different colleges. She literally agreed to meet me up and said she will let me know when we can meet. I was super happy as this was the first time a girl didn't reject or block me(I was rejected by 3 girls before that) but I could see her replies getting slower and shorter after that. Yesterday she said she was just having mood swings so I said her how to feel better if she is sad and then sent her a virtual hug and then she replied Thanks and suddenly I saw she blocked me. I was shocked because we planned to meet up one day but it can no longer happen as I have no other way of contacting her. What hurt me a lot is that she gave me false hope by not rejecting or blocking me 4 days ago itself when I asked her out and she just agreed to it. Pretty much tears came into my eyes.
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  12. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Don't feel sad if you are a virgin. I am sure you are a very beautiful girl. Maybe you can go for younger guys in their early 20s like me because most men your age will be more experienced in relationships than you whereas we are both equally as inexperienced. The oldest I would go for is 28 for now but you are 29 which is only a year older than it and we are just 8 years apart which is less than 10 years. Here is one hug to you just to make you smile 🤗
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  13.  @pingeee  no it isn't. I am just 22 and that's still young enough. I have plenty of time
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  14. Wow man even at 32? BTW I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far recently and 2 were from my college and another was by a 19 year old girl who matched with me on a dating app and she literally insulted me. I tried following some girls on Instagram who were shown as suggested profiles and I knew those girls in my high school days. One of the girl even followed me back and she is also 21 now so the same age as me. We were in the same grade but weren't classmates. I didn't message her yet because I just don't know what to write to her because we never really interacted in high school as we weren't classmates.
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  15. Damn man really at 55? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon but I just have a massive crush on one of them who is also 22 or maybe 23. She initiated convo with me saying hi and telling her name and asking mine last week Thursday(our first class there) and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. I really can't stop thinking about this girl as she is very pretty and she is very sweet as she tries to initiate convo with me asking whether I had lunch and today she also asked how far my home is from the classes but I just answer what she asks and I am too shy to initiate a convo further with her but I really wanna get to know her and idk whether it would be fine to message her on Whatsapp by seeing her number from our class whatsapp group. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also this new 22/23 year old on whom I newly got crush.
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  16. Is 22 year old dating an 18/19 year old fine?
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  17. I am in the same boat as you. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend, never dated and never been kissed. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and got rejected by both. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and most of my matches who were in the 18-24 age range ended up ghosting me. Btw 2 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is a college student from a different college. Idk her age but she is definitely within the 19-21 age range and she is beautiful but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her. I can again meet her only on 1st Nov in the classes because she is going out of city for 2 weeks. But Idk whether she would like me or not as she is from a different college.
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  18. Same here but 4 years younger than you.I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and I tried to connect with girls whom I knew in my high school days by following them on IG but they didn't even accept my follow request and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls who matches with me on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me or end up ghosting me. But one 19 year old girl who matched with me last week turned out to be very mean to me 2 days ago and insulted me after I tried to ask her out after chatting with her for over a week and she literally called me ugly and said no girl would want me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  19. Damn man really at 40? Have you dated before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. Since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college last week and wanna study MBA next. There in the classes, I got a massive crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on our first class and introduced ourselves and she sometimes tries to initiate convos with me asking whether I had lunch or not and some more she does say me hi but I just answer what she asks or say hi back but I am still shy to initiate further talks with her. I am still kinda shy near girls in person so I don't really feel the confidence to initiate any conversation with her unless she initiates one with me. But yesterday she actually said I am cute as I keep smiling(like a shy smile) almost all the time in class and I blushed hard after she said I am cute and my friends too teased me about it hehe. I also had been chatting with this another girl who is 19 on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago and she is 21 now turning 22 soon. My childhood friend did agree to meet up but she is so inactive on Instagram that I still don't know when we will meet as she takes weeks or even a month to reply to me whereas I chat with the 19 year old daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs daily. We used to be in the same school but now she is in a different college which is very near to my home tho. I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I get rejected by 4 girls recently and it looks like she still sees me as just a friend.
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  20. I just want my first kiss for now. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and had no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since we were in high school. I got only 3 matches on tinder and 5 matches on Hinge so far after using them for almost 5 months but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come briefly online for 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  21. Dude at least you are lucky enough to have a girlfriend at 20 and probably could even experience teenage love. I just turned 22 yesterday and never had a girlfriend and never been kissed.
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  22. Did I miss out a lot as I am 22 now and never dated before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. I got rejected very recently by 3 girls( rejected by 7 girls in total so far tho). These 3 girls were all in the same school as me but now in different colleges and we had been chatting on Instagram for months. One of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up after I asked her out few weeks ago but she blocked me mysteriously after few days whereas another girl blocked me immediately after I asked her out. 5 days ago I tried asking out another girl who is 20 now and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she rejected me saying that even though I am really nice, she just isn't comfortable to meet up with me and it hit me hard. But there is still some hope as I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months. We were very close friends when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. But she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see that message in which I asked her out so still no reply yet. I am still waiting for her reply and hoping a positive reply as I genuinely like her a lot but idk.
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  23. Honestly after what happened yesterday I feel completely hopeless. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and I tried to connect with girls whom I knew in my high school days by following them on IG but they didn't even accept my follow request and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls who matches with me on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me or end up ghosting me. But one 19 year old girl who matched with me last week turned out to be very mean to me yesterday and insulted me after I tried to ask her out after chatting with her for over a week and she literally called me ugly and said no girl would want me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  24. You are probably from the boomer generation I guess who had things easier in the past. I am a guy who turned 22 almost 8 weeks ago and never had a gf and obviously a virg. It's much harder for us Gen Z guys to get a girlfriend compared to the Gen X and boomers when they were my age.
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  25. Really man at 43? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend but I have been on my first ever date and got my first ever hug almost 8 months ago at the age of 22 but didn't work out. Then got ignored or rejected by several of my crushes. My current crush is in my University where are both MBA 1st year students and graduated college 10 months ago and She is also within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like. She is in a different classroom so our conversations were mostly brief but I managed to get her number and almost 2 weeks ago, I even hugged her for the first time as it was our last exams and we won't be able to meet for 3 months as we have to complete an internship within May to July and our next semester classes will start in August. She did give an awkward smile when I hugged her. I literally wrapped her in my arms whereas she didn't really wrap me in her arms but she pat my back once and said ok i have to study for exam so bye. I also said her bye. It was my 2nd time I hugged a girl in person and I was so happy but I was worried whether she was comfortable enough or not but I called her on phone 5 days ago and she picked the call and we had a normal conversation in phone. I still don't whether she likes me back or not.
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  26. Damn man really at 55? Have you been on a date before? I am in the same boat as you but over 3 decades younger. I am a guy who turned 23 just over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date a bit over 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 a week ago) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and had my first hug ever from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she is really cute. 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean and toxic to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. For the past 6 months, I also have been crushing on this girl in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA next. She also just turned 23 over a week ago and she has called me cute before and I pulled her cheeks twice too but I am usually shy near girls in person so she is the one who usually initiates conversations with me and its usually short as I have nothing more to say as an introvert. I do see her with some male friends so that makes me worried thinking what if she goes for either of them. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in that same class and she is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends. We just roamed around our city and then had lunch in a big restaurant and had lots of fun. I did pull her cheeks once while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. We might go out again in Feb probably. But yesterday I got a new crush(yeah I am a mess haha) on this another girl who is also 22 or 23 in the same institute but different classrooms and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen but I was again shy to approach her but I got to know her name and followed her on Instagram but she is yet to accept it and maybe then I will message her after 2-3 days but its possible that she probably has a boyfriend too. I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram for over 6 months. She is 19(turning 20 in April). We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since July 2023. We are planning to meet up too and eat somewhere as we are both foodies and we send each other virtual hugs in the chats daily and she is really sweet too. But in the end I am still single.
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  27. I can't. Thats because I am a 21 year old guy and still a student who will be graduating college next year and still living with parents so I am not financially independent yet and I don't wanna waste my dad's money on a hooker and also I want a girlfriend.
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  28. Damn man really at 56? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to even get my first kiss. I started going some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and planning to study MBA next and there I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23. She does sometimes try to initiate conversations with me or just say me hi with a smile daily but I just answer what she asks or just say her hi back and I am still shy to initiate any further conversations with her. 3 weeks ago she did say she finds me cute and that made me blush hard and my friends too teased me about it hehe and last week I also gave her a chocolate and she smiled and thanked me and we did a handshake but I feel worried as I see her having 3-4 male friends so I feel scared that what if she goes for either of them. Also next Saturday, me and this girl who is 19 year old did plan to meet up in Mcdonalds. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other those days. We had been chatting on Instagram for several months and finally decided to meet but I am nervous whether she is serious about the meet up or not because I got rejected by 4 girls previously. I am excited but also afraid as I have never really hanged out with a girl before. I hope the plan doesn't get cancelled. I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago who is 21 now turning 22 next month and she did agree to meet up one day but I still don't know when exactly we will meet because she isn't really active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to my messages.
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  29. How old are you now? I am a 22 year old guy(so a Gen Z young man) who never had a girlfriend and no first kiss yet etiher. After getting rejected by 3 girls recently, I asked out my childhood friend on 6th May 2023 via Instagram and she is 21 year old now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it on 3rd June but she replied yeah ok which is a positive one but she is again offline and didn't reply yet about when we can meet up. I also had chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school but we didn't know each other those days and now we chat daily too about everything and send each other virtual hugs too but we are in different colleges now. Her college is super near to my home tho so can I ask her out even though my childhood friend didn't reject me and would she date someone like me who isn't her college? I like both of them honestly now.
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  30. Did you have a gf before? I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. After having no luck with 2 girls in my college and 2 girls whom I knew since my high school days and also no luck on dating apps, finally 3 days ago, a girl matched with me on one of the dating apps and for the first time, I had a decent chat with a girl on dating app without getting ghosted. She is a 19 year old girl and for the past 3-4 days, the chats were decent enough. We live in the same city but different college and different course too. Do you think this time I will at least get my first kiss? I also get worried thinking what if she ends up ghosting me too or wouldn't want me.
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  31. Don't feel sad about it. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Btw I am sure you are a very beautiful girl and I bet I would have got a crush on you if we were in the same college. Here is one virtual hug for you to make you smile 🤗. Honestly we would have goofed around a lot and ate lots of chocolates and ice creams and I would have hugged you a lot so you would have never felt lonely 😊
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  32. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far(2 from my college and another from a dating app who insulted me too). I tried following some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and one from my college too but we aren't classmates and 5 of them followed me back and I still didn't message them yet as idk what to write and they are all 20-22 year olds. But I am sad that the girl named Britney didn't accept my follow request yet. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and she is very pretty and I wish she follow me back because I think I again got a crush on her just seeing her profile pic on IG and she is even prettier now at 21 and I can't stop thing about her.
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  33. Would you find never being in a relationship at 22 is still as bad as it would have been at 30? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and it bothers me a lot. Btw is a month long enough to know whether someone is interested in me or not? I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up she haven't replied yet about when we can meet. I have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. We are in different colleges now but we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school. So we only have been getting to know each other for a bit over a month. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily and talk about literally everything and we are both foodies too and send each other virtual hugs but there isn't any flirting in the chats yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but is 1 month already long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not or does it take longer?
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  34. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat even though i am young? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  35. @Devin Christopher yeah man it's great. But it's been bothering me a lot that I am 21 and still didn't even get my first kiss yet and I will be turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas. I feel like I am missing out and feel sad that I couldn't experience young love at an younger age like 16. And most of these girls around my age are mean to me and one even insulted me yesterday and said I am too ugly and no girl will want me.
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  36. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. I feel like I am such a repellant to girls. 2 of my crushes in college rejected me recently. 3 days ago I heard a song which reminded me of a girl whom I knew since my school days and we were in same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so we are the same age. She is very beautiful and I followed her on Instagram. Her account is private so I sent her a follow request but she literally rejected my follow request and I am so down. Why did she do that? Is it because she can't recognize me or it's just I am too repellant to girls or is it because she finds me lame because I used to get bullied a lot in high school and was considered a loser by most guys in my grade? Is it fine if I send her a message?
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  37. How old are you man? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon. Those 3 girls are around 22-24 year olds and very pretty and initiated convo with me saying hi and telling names and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. Today too they tried to talk with me but I am still kinda shy near girls in person so we didn't talk much but for the past 2 days I can't stop thinking about them. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also the three 22-24 year olds on whom I newly got crush.
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  38. Wow man really even at 42? Did you have a girlfriend before? BTW I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend, never dated and never been kissed. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and got rejected by both. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and most of my matches who were in the 18-24 age range ended up ghosting me. Btw 2 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is a college student from a different college. Idk her age but she is definitely within the 19-21 age range and she is beautiful but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her. I can again meet her only on 1st Nov in the classes because she is going out of city for 2 weeks. But Idk whether she would like me or not as she is from a different college.
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  39.  @HonderdtachtigCC  How old are you? What about being a virg at 22? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend, never hugged or even kissed a girl in real life and I am having 0 luck when it comes to getting a girlfriend.
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  40.  @GoldKingsMan  It's hard for me to initiate a convo with a girl whom I don't know in person. I need to chat with them first on social media to gain some confidence before talking with them in person. I am afraid that they would find me creepy and I may get into trouble. I used Instagram to get to know even the 2 girls in my college on whom I had crush too before confessing my feelings to them because I was shy to initiate a convo with them in person for the first time.
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  41. Oh wow really? And here I am turning 22 tomorrow and I never had a girlfriend before and its bothering me so much. 3 days ago, I was matched with another girl who is 18 turning 19 in Feb and she seemed quite interested in knowing me but when we shared about our hobbies and I told her about my singing which I upload on my youtube channel(not this one, another one). She said she was gonna check it and then I saw she unmatched me. I guess she found me ugly in my videos or my singing is bad. I got matched by another girl too who is 21 on that same day 3 days ago and we had a good chat too and even added each other on Instagram but she said I seem like an introvert and she didn't chat much with me. When I asked, she said she is a medical college student so she isn't that much free. Idk whether she lied or she is genuinely busy.
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  42.  @vigneshdev9587  I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend either and got rejected by 2 of my crushes in my college recently. Btw yesterday I heard a song which was released in 2009 and I felt nostalgic hearing it and it reminds me of a girl whom I knew since my school days. She was in the same grade as me but we weren't in the same class and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so the same age as me and I followed her on Instagram but she hasn't accepted my follow request yet. I wish she could be my girlfriend now but she is too pretty and I was considered a loser by most guys in my grade in high school so maybe she would still find me lame even though she probably didn't know me properly. She also probably has a boyfriend. I really wish she follow me back so I can chat with her and get to know her.
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  43. Wow man really at 50? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend but I have been on my first ever date and got my first ever hug almost 8 months ago at the age of 22 but didn't work out. Then got ignored or rejected by several of my crushes. My current crush is in my University where are both MBA 1st year students and graduated college 10 months ago and She is also within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like. She is in a different classroom so our conversations were mostly brief but I managed to get her number and almost 2 weeks ago, I even hugged her for the first time as it was our last exams and we won't be able to meet for 3 months as we have to complete an internship within May to July and our next semester classes will start in August. She did give an awkward smile when I hugged her. I literally wrapped her in my arms whereas she didn't really wrap me in her arms but she pat my back once and said ok i have to study for exam so bye. I also said her bye. It was my 2nd time I hugged a girl in person and I was so happy but I was worried whether she was comfortable enough or not but I called her on phone 5 days ago and she picked the call and we had a normal conversation in phone. I still don't whether she likes me back or not.
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  44. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. After having no luck with 2 girls in my college and 2 girls whom I knew since my high school days and also no luck on dating apps, finally 3 days ago, a girl matched with me on one of the dating apps and for the first time, I had a decent chat with a girl on dating app without getting ghosted. She is a 19 year old girl and for the past 3-4 days, the chats were decent enough. We live in the same city but different college and different course too. Do you think this time I will at least get my first kiss? I also get worried thinking what if she ends up ghosting me too or wouldn't want me.
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  45.  @samgaming0626  btw what's your opinion about a 22 year old dating an 18/19 year old girl if both are in college? Like I said I turned 22 recently and I like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 next month.
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  46. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  47.  @elise9537  but I am just 22 and my crush is 19. We are only 3 years apart in age
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  48.  @userp67qjsbanwi  yeah true 19 and 26 is a big gap and weird too. I think 23 or maybe 24 at max should be the oldest to date a 19 year old anything more than that is weird.
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  49. I am a guy who turned 22 just 8 weeks ago and never even had a girlfriend before. I use dating apps and get few matches but get ghosted. Recently got 2 matches, one of them is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April and they are sweet but still no plan of first date or anything. I also got rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago. I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are within 19-22 age range. I chat with 3 of those girls so far. One of them is 19 almost 20, another one is 20 and another is 22. The 19 and the 22 year old doesn't chat regularly with me whereas the 20 year old does chat with me regularly but she gets a bit uncomfortable when I compliment her or something so I am too scared to even ask her out as she definitely doesn't seem to want anything more than just friends
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  50. So are you one or not? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. I started going for some classes to prepare for some exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3 weeks ago and I am planning to study MBA next. There in the class, I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She tries to initiate conversations with me and say me hi but I just say her hi back and answer what she asks but I am still shy to initiate any further talks with her. Almost 2 weeks ago, she actually said that I am cute and that made me blush a lot and 2 days ago I gave her chocolate too. I was really shy but with my friends being with me, I gave her the chocolate and she thanked me with a smile and we did a handshake but I am worried that what if I made her uncomfortable by giving her the chocolate as she didn't say me hi in class since yesterday and that made me upset. I do also feel a bit worried as she has 2-3 male friends in our class so I feel scared thinking what if she goes for either of them. Also in next Saturday, me and a girl who is 19 year old now planned to meet in a McDonald's near her college. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and we just have been kinda knowing each other for several months via Instagram. I have never been on a date or even a normal hang out with a girl so I am nervous. I am also worried whether she is really serious about hanging out with me on Saturday or she is joking as I just got rejected by several girls before. I am afraid that what if I mess up or something. I am hoping things will be fine and it won't get cancelled. I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago and she is 21 turning 22 soon and even she agreed to meet up but she is very inactive on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to my messages so she still haven't replied when we can exactly meet.
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  51. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and had no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since we were in high school. I got only 3 matches on tinder and 5 matches on Hinge so far after using them for almost 5 months but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come briefly online for 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  52. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. I got unmatched by 2 girls recently on dating apps after I asked them out for a coffee even though we had a good chat. I also got blocked by 2 girls on Instagram after asking them out and they were in the same school as me but now we are in different colleges. One of the girl who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up but she blocked me after few days and we had been chatting on insta for a month. I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 turning 22 after 3-4 months and I genuinely like her but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to my message yet but I am still waiting for her reply and hoping that she will agree. I also started newly chatting with another girl who too was in the same school as me but was my junior so she is within the 19-21 age range and she looks so pretty in her profile pic on insta with a smile and I would love to ask her out after knowing each other well but I am afraid that she might be having a boyfriend as she is really pretty and we aren't in the same college either plus she is a medical student so super busy.
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  53. Wow man really at 43? Did you have a gf? I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(turned 20 few weeks ago) and had my first ever hug too (she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere) and also 3 months ago went out with a female friend who is also 23 where we go for classes for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6-7 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had lunch in a big restaurant(but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends). I also had been crushing on this another girl(lets call her A) in that same class where I go now and she also turned 23 over 3 weeks ago and I even gave her a chocolate last week and she too knew I had a crush on her and has called me cute before too but things changed as last week I got a new crush on this another girl(lets call her B) in the same institute but different classrooms. She is within 21-23 age range and one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen and I was too shy to approach her but 6 days ago, with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was finally able to talk to her a bit and I was feeling butterflies and today I again met her and told her Hi first with a smile and she too smiled back at me and said me Hi back but she was going to her classroom so we couldn't have a conversation today but it was my first time ever saying Hi first to a girl in person so I was happy. Everyone including that girl A came to know about it and she isn't really trying to talk to me and said that I am not loyal enough so she won't talk to me(idk whether she was joking or not). 4 days ago, was chocolate day and one of my friend jokingly said me to give chocolate to A again but she said she doesn't want a chocolate from me. I am afraid that B is probably out of my league as she is very pretty almost model like and I am just average I guess and plus I was too nervous that day while talking with her in person so idk how it will go. I am such a mess that I like another girl(lets call her S) with whom I had been chatting on Instagram for the past 7 months. She is 19 now(turning 20 in April) and we used to be in the same school but didn't knew each other in school days and now she is in a different college. We send each other virtual hugs daily and we will meet up this month too to eat somewhere as we are both foodies and she has no idea about these 2 girls A and B. But after getting crush newly on this girl B, I am mostly thinking about her and not giving much attention to A and S whom I have known longer than B. Idk what to do. If B rejects me, then I won't have chance with A as she probably have a negative perception about me now for getting multiple crushes.
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  54. Is 22 still fine for an 18 or 19 year old? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and I kinda like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in a couple of weeks.
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  55. Is it still bad for me as an Indian guy to want to date a foreign woman who is an expat in our city? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India. Idk when I will go abroad but as Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. Today I went to this really posh area of our city and saw this white Caucasian woman walking on the sidewalk. Usually I used to be shy near women but today I said her excuse me and she said yes and then we begin our conversation. She looked to be anywhere within 26-35 age range(28-30 age range is the most likely). She is indeed an expat working in an IT company in the area. I then introduced myself and said her that I am an MBA student now and then asked where she is from and she said she is from Germany. Yeah she is a German and the conversation was decent but brief and she was friendly and smiling while talking with me. Then she did handshake and said each other it was nice to meet you and we went our own ways. As an introvert, I was pretty nervous while talking to her so forgot to ask her Instagram for further connection and idk whether I will meet her again and idk when I will again go to that posh area. I am also not sure whether she is even single or not. I also talked with a French woman near my University over 2 months ago where I am studying MBA but the conversation was much more brief. She was a foreign exchange student in another nearby University so she was definitely within 22-26 age range. I was nervous so didn't ask her socials as well and sadly never saw her again. Should I go for this German woman I met today and try to meet her again or maybe try to meet more foreign expat women?
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  56. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago. One was 19(20 now) and another was 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  57. ​ @kgbintimacycoach so if 26 is young for you then what would feel about 23 haha? I turned 23 a bit over a month ago
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  58. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and had no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since we were in high school. I get only 3 matches on tinder and 5 matches on Hinge so far after using them for almost 5 months but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come briefly online for 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  59.  @luis-lj7es  Whats wrong in that? It's just a positive comment to her. Plus she is 18 and I am 21 so we are both quite close in age too
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  60. I am a 22 year old guy and never had a girlfriend before. I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 19-22 age range. Yesterday I ended up messaging another girl who is 21 and suddenly she got angry on me for randomly messaging her even though i just messaged her hey whats up and she told a guy who is also 21 and we were friends during high school. He got mad at me because she happened to be his girlfriend but I didn't know it and he called me a creep and also said me to never message any girls and he kept insulting me for that. I got angry and gave an angry reply and blocked him. Suddenly I saw 3 or 4 girls blocked me which means I lost 4 followers. I am really angry and upset. I never said anything wrong to those girls and the chats were normal about college, hobbies, music etc and I was just trying to get to know them.
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  61. I don't care about virginity. All I want now is at least my first kiss. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had his first kiss and I never had a girlfriend. After having no luck with 4 girls I know in real life, finally 3 days ago I was matched with a girl on one of the dating apps who isn't ghosting me so far. She is 19 years old and we had a decent chat for the past 3 days and she too lives in my city but we are in different college and different course too. Do you think I will at least get my first kiss this time? I am scared that she might ghost me too or wouldn't want me
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  62. Women chasing him? He is 13 which is still a child. Women are adults and shouldn't be chasing your son. Thats illegal and inappropriate. BTW I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes and some more questions about myself. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  63. Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 22 almost 9 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and its bothering me so much. I use dating apps but hardly any matches. I got matched with 2 girls 2 weeks ago. One is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April but no plan of first date or anything. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I do follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are all 19-22 age range and I started chatting with this girl for 4 days who was my junior in my school days. Now she is 20 about to be 21 after 4 months and we only sent virtual hugs to each other today but she only sees me as a friend so idk whether I have chance with her or not
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  64. Damn man but at least you are better than me as you had a gf when you were a teen whereas I never had one. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but I just had my first ever date 2 months ago. She is 19 and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and then took pics and we hugged too and I was pinching her cheeks a lot. But 2 weeks after the date, she became toxic to me after I texted her and she replied very rudely saying me to go to hell and leave her alone forever and then she blocked me. She basically used me for free lunch and take pics of her so she can post them on Instagram and other social media. I was shocked and lost hope. Then few weeks ago, I went out with this another girl who is also either 22 or 23 now. We go to the same class for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 4 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We both roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant and we had fun. I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie but was a bit shy to ask her for a hug. We might hang out like this again. I also have crush on this another girl in that same class and she is also 22 but I am shy so she is the one who initiates conversations with me and last month she asked me how was she looking and I answered she looked cute and pinched her cheeks too which made her blush a bit. I also gave her a chocolate about 2 months ago. Nowadays she does smile often at me and wave her hand at me and the others tease me as they know I have crush on her and I blush a lot when she tries to talk to me these days. Sadly she has several male friends so I feel scared.
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  65. How old are you? I guess you are 40+ that's why saying these. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  66. My luck has been terrible so far. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far recently and 2 were from my college and another was by a 19 year old girl who matched with me on a dating app and she literally insulted me. I tried following some girls on Instagram who were shown as suggested profiles and I knew those girls in my high school days. One of the girl even followed me back and she is also 21 now so the same age as me. We were in the same grade but weren't classmates. I didn't message her yet because I just don't know what to write to her because we never really interacted in high school as we weren't classmates.
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  67. Idk I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and its definitely bothering me. I got rejected by 4 girls recently. I asked out my childhood friend 2 months ago and she is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took a month to reply to it but she agreed to meet up and again didn't reply for over a month about when we can meet up. I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023. She is 19 now and she used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We chat daily and she shares everything to me and I do the same too and we even send each other virtual hugs but there is still no flirting yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but I am nervous especially after getting rejected 4 times recently. Is 1 month long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not?
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  68. No they aren't. I am a guy who turned 22 just 3 weeks ago so I am pretty close to their age and would date a 19 year old for sure and protect her from people like you who thinks this way.
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  69. Damn man really? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. Recently I started going for some classes to get coaching for upcoming exams(which starts from Nov last week) to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 2 weeks ago and planning to study MBA next. There I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on our first class which was on 13th July 2023 and she sometimes tries to initiate convos with me asking whether I had lunch or not and says me hi but I just answer her what she asks or say hi back and I am still shy near girls in person so I am usually shy to try to initiate any talks with her unless she herself is the one who tries to talk with me first. BTW last week she actually said she finds me cute and that really made me blush hard and my friends too teased me hehe so I feel a little more hopeful now but she also has 2 or 3 male friends in our class so I feel really worried that she might go for them as they are more confident and much less shy than me. Since 28th May 2023, I also have been chatting with this 19 year old girl on Instagram. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other and now she is in a different college which is very near to my home tho and I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago who is 21 now turning 22 very soon. But my childhood friend is very inactive on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up, she didn't reply about when exactly we can meet up as she takes weeks and even a month to reply to me. I do chat with the 19 year old regularly sending each other virtual hugs and sharing everything like about our day, classes, about ourselves and many more but it still looks like she just sees me as a friend so I am still nervous to ask her out as I also got rejected recently by 4 girls.
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  70. I am in a similar boat but 11 years younger and never even been kissed. I am a guy who turned 23 almost 2 months ago(on 22nd December) and never had a girlfriend before and only had my first ever date 5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(20 now) and had my first ever hug but she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere and also almost 4 months ago I went out with a female friend who is also 23 and ate in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date. 2-3 weeks ago, I got a new crush on this girl in the classes where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I graduated college about 6-7 months ago, but she is in another classroom. She is within the 21-23 age range and I was really shy to talk her but almost 2 weeks ago I did talk a bit to her with the help of my friends and one of her classmate. Her classmate said she is single so I was happy and said her Hi again and she too smiled and said me Hi back. But 4 days ago one of her another classmate said that she probably has a boyfriend who isn't in the institute where I go for classes. Idk whether to believe it or not. Anyways I again talked a bit with her today and even did handshake with her and she has such a sweet smile and voice but its kinda bothering me whether she is really single or not. She is very very pretty almost model like whereas I look better without my glasses but I have high power so have to wear them which makes me look dorky and nerdy and I still sound a bit nervous while talking with her. I sent her a follow request on Instagram and a dm too but no reply yet and its been 4 days already so its bothering me too. Whats worse is I had crush on this another girl in our class there who also turned 23 last month and she has called me cute and i gave her chocolates too but was too shy to confess it to her. Now she is ignoring me and not talking with me after she came to know about my new crush on this other girl. I still have this girl who is 19 turning 20 in April and we have been chatting on Instagram for 7 months and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other that time and now she is in a different college and we send each other virtual hugs daily and are both foodies and plan to meet up and eat somewhere too one day but in the end I am still single.
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  71. Even dating apps aren't giving me any luck. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed so far. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted by the girls and one 20 year old girl who matched with me on one of the dating app even rejected me because she only prefers bad guys. Btw a week ago, I did see a girl in a class where I joined recently. She is also a college student from a different college and she is definitely 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too and I think I got a little crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her that day. I haven't been able to see her after that as she is out of city for 2 weeks and will come for classes again on 1st Nov but idk whether she would want me as she is from a different college and also I am a bit shy.
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  72. I am sure I would have if we were in the same city. I am a 21 year old guy so 5 years younger but we are both adults and close enough in age. I also never had a girlfriend before. I am sure you are a very beautiful girl. One virtual hug for you just to make you smile 🤗.
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  73. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. I got rejected very recently by 3 girls( rejected by 7 girls in total so far tho). These 3 girls were all in the same school as me but now in different colleges and we had been chatting on Instagram for months. One of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up after I asked her out few weeks ago but she blocked me mysteriously after few days whereas another girl blocked me immediately after I asked her out. 5 days ago I tried asking out another girl who is 20 now and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she rejected me saying that even though I am really nice, she just isn't comfortable to meet up with me and it hit me hard. But there is still some hope as I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months. We were very close friends when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. But she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see that message in which I asked her out so still no reply yet. I am still waiting for her reply and hoping a positive reply as I genuinely like her a lot but idk.
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  74. Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a gf before. After having not much luck on dating apps and getting rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago, I feel some hope as I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 19-22 age range. And I had been chatting with a really sweet girl on insta for over 2 weeks and she is 20 year old and we were in the same college but she was my junior. We send each other virtual hugs daily and she says I am sweet and cute too and that made me feel butterflies. But we are in different colleges but still same city and I think I am falling in love with her but idk whether she is just being friendly or does she actually like me.
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  75. By seeing your name "Sonia" I am sure you are a girl. Anyways I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Maybe you can go for a younger guy in his early 20s like me because most 29 and 30 year old men will be more experienced than you in relationships so it's hard whereas I am equally as inexperienced as you. Even though, 28 is the oldest I would date for now, you are just a year older than it and we are just 8 years apart which is less than 10 years. Here is one hug to you just to make you smile 🤗.
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  76.  @Herozonex200  Not really. I started feeling lonely since last year at 20. Now I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and 3 days ago got horrible rejected by a 19 year old girl who matched with me dating app and she called me ugly and said no girl will ever want me. But on Instagram, I saw some girls who were suggested to me. I knew them when we were in high school so I followed them but we weren't even classmates but still in the same grade. They are all 21-22 year olds. Today 2 of them did follow me back and both are 21 so the same age as me but I haven't messaged them yet and idk what to write because we never really interacted in high school days due to not being classmates.
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  77. It's hard when you are 22 and never dated. I am a guy who turned 22 just over 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and never had a real kiss with a girl either except getting kissed on the cheek by a female friend when we both were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls and they end up ghosting me. Only one girl who is 19 on dating app didn't ghost me yet and we have things in common to chat about but idk. I also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now. I had the best chat with a girl who is 20 now and she was 2 years my junior in school. She is better than most of the girls I have chatted with and we had been chatting for the past 10 days. But 4 days ago I kinda messed up by giving her a cheesy compliment after only 6 days of chatting with her which made her a little uncomfortable but I apologized and said I only said it to make her smile so she forgive me and thanked me. We still chat but idk whether I can try out my luck on her or not.
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  78. I already feel as if I am running out of time at just 22 as I never dated and just got my first handshake with a girl on 13th July 2023. I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  79. Is it still a bad idea as an Indian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to India as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 6 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners for the past 3-4 days. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again 2 days ago. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again maybe tomorrow but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  80.  @fredkeeler1234  I honestly got a massive crush on one of the 3 girls a lot but I am just too shy to initiate a convo with her. She is also 22 or maybe 23 and I am also 22. But she is just too pretty and cute and I cane to know from another guy on our class that she had a 7.5 year relationship and just had a breakup recently whereas I never even been on any date. I tried messaging her on Whatsapp yesterday as we have a class whatsapp group but deleted the message as I got scared thinking what if she gets angry on me for messaging her.
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  81. I am a guy who turned 22 just 2 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and never been kissed before. Honestly after getting ghosted and rejected by girls, I am thinking about trying my luck on a girl who was my childhood friend. She was friend when we both were in elementary school in 2008-2011. We used to play together, study together, have sleepovers etc but since 2011, we never really talked as my parents bought a new apartment and we came to a different area. She is 21 now and only 5 months younger than me. I messaged her on Instagram recently and she still remembers me. I think I kinda fall in love with her seeing her pics on IG as she looks very cute. I really wanna go on date with her but idk how. I would love to give her a long hug too but idk when it will happen.
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  82. I am a guy who turned 22 almost 9 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and its bothering me so much. But at 22, I wouldn't go for a woman your age as you are same age as my mom and I prefer 18-26 age range and 27 or maybe 28 is the absolute oldest i would go for now. I use dating apps but hardly any matches. I got matched with 2 girls 2 weeks ago. One is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April but no plan of first date or anything. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I do follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are all 19-22 age range and I started chatting with this girl for 4 days who was my junior in my school days. Now she is 20 about to be 21 after 4 months and we only sent virtual hugs to each other but she only sees me as a friend so idk whether I have chance with her or not
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  83. I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal and never had a girlfriend and only been on 1 first date many months ago at the age of 22 and then a month later hanged out with my female friend, hugged only 2 girls in person and still never had my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and in my University too had crush on this girl for 7 months who is also 23 now but 5 months ago got crush on another prettier girl(sadly she wasn't into me either but she was the 2nd girl I hugged in person) in the same University so my previous crush stopped talking to me and I miss her. I had a summer break from University for 3 months and today finally new semester started for us and I literally initiated conversation with 3 girls in my University who are MBA students too and within 21-23 age range and I had a long enough conversation with one of them who too was comfortable enough to talk to me but idk about my chances as I look like a nerd in my glasses and she is really pretty too. But it was a big change and improvement for me as I had always been shy near girls and in my high school days I completely avoided talking with girls as I was bullied a lot in school and continued being shy further too in my undergrad and even in my MBA too few months ago, I was still shy to initiate conversation with girls and even though I could talk with my crushes, there was still some nervousness here and there but today I went out of my comfort zone and talked with not 1 not 2 but 3 girls. Thats only because I initiated conversation with 3 expat women in my city Bangalore and they were white Caucasian women (yes foreigners do come to Bangalore as expats as its one of the major metropolitan city of India and popular for its IT(tech). First one was a French woman with whom I talked near my University almost 5 months ago who was within 22-26 age range and the next was a German woman 2 months ago and then yesterday again I saw another white blonde lady who looked to be within 26-30 age range and probably from Germany or maybe some Scandinavian country too and I waved my hand at her as she was walking and smiled at her saying her Hi and she too waved her hand back at me with a bit of a smile but couldn't have a conversation as the cab that I booked had arrived but would love to meet her again. So yeah I am happy that finally I can talk with women now whether Indian or foreigner but sadly it took me 23 years to get rid of my shyness.
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  84. Btw why am I not getting matches even on Hinge? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and have been using tinder, bumble and Hinge since June or July 2022 but pretty much no matches at all on tinder and bumble but got 15 matches so far on Hinge but most of the girls ended up ghosting and unmatching me. But Hinge is different than tinder. On tinder, its just swiping left and right whereas on Hinge, you can send likes and even comment. I comment and ask questions to the girls but still hardly any matches. Why is it that way?
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  85. ​ @christiandenault7606  Is it still bad to dm girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me? Like I said I am 22 now and never had a gf and after having no luck on dating apps, I have been following and messaging girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me and are 19-22 age range. I don't have to worry about fake accounts because I have seen them in school so they are all real people but many have ghosted and blocked me too because I was too shy near girls throughout my school days so never really interacted with them so many of them probably sees me as a stranger. Only 4 or 5 girls chat with me. 2 of them both 20 year olds are sweet to me and we send virtual hugs to each other and a 19 year old girl too chats regularly with me and she is single but has a male bestie so idk. I wanna try my luck on this girl who was my childhood friend in elementary and now she is 21 turning 22 after 4 months and I wanna ask her out but we haven't talked in person since 2011 and she isn't that active on Insta so idk whether she will be comfortable.
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  86. Same age. I am also a 21 year old guy who will be turning 22 next month just 3 days before Christmas and I never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far(2 from my college and another from a dating app who insulted me too). I tried following some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school but only 3 of them followed me back and I still didn't message them yet as idk what to write and they are also 21-22 year olds. But I am sad that the girl named Britney didn't accept my follow request yet. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and she is very pretty and I wish she follow me back because I think I again got a crush on her just seeing her profile pic on IG and she is even prettier now at 21.
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  87. I honestly feel as if I am already running out of time at just 22. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before either and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took a month to reply to it but she replied yeah ok. We also told that maybe we can meet on some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I have been going for some classes to prepare for some exams to get into MBA as I am pretty much done with college and there I got a new crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on the first day of our class and said our names and it was the first time I did handshake with a girl. Last week she was initiating convo with me asking whether I had lunch or not and some more and I answered them but I am still shy to initiate any further convos with her so the our conversations end soon and for the past 2-3 days she isn't trying to talk to me anymore and I am shy to try to start any conversation with her. I did follow her on Instagram yesterday and she followed me back too but I didn't dm her yet. I always think about her and wanna get to know her. I also have been chatting with this another girl who is 19 now on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she too used to be in the same school as me but now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho and we chat daily about everything and even send each other virtual hugs too but I am nervous to ask her out too as I got rejected by 4 girls recently and it still looks like she only sees me as a friend. Whats crazy is I like this 19 year old and I also like my childhood friend and this new crush who is 22/23 year old.
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  88.  @BLUESKY-zt1nv  wow man you are 60 and never even held a girl's hand? Why? What happened? I am in the same boat as you but much younger. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. After getting rejected by 2 girls in my college and no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since my high school days and also no luck on dating apps, finally 7 days ago, a girl matched with me on one of the dating apps and for the first time, I had a decent chat with a girl on dating app without getting ghosted. She is a 19 year old girl and for the past 5-6 days, the chats were decent enough but yesterday she didn't come online so we couldn't chat. We live in the same city but different college and different course too. Do you think this time I will at least get my first kiss? I also get worried thinking what if she ends up ghosting me too or wouldn't want me.
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  89. Wow man 46? Have you been on a date? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but had my first ever date and first hug 7 months ago at the age of 22 and sadly it didn't work out. Got ignored and rejected by several crushes. Currently having a crush on this girl in my University where I am pursuing my MBA and I am in 1st year and she too is an MBA 1st year student and she is also within 21-23 age range but we aren't in the same classrooms so we have brief conversations mostly and she has been my crush for the past 2 months. I even got her number 2 weeks ago in a clever way but she didn't see my whatsapp text and when I asked she said she had 2 exams in the same day. 2 days ago I even hugged her finally as it was her last exam that day and yesterday was my last exam so we won't be able to meet in person for 3 months as we all have to do a 2-3 months internship between May to July and our next semester classes will start in August so I gave her a goodbye hug for now. She did give a bit of an awkward smile tho when I hugged her. I literally put all my arms around her while hugging whereas she didn't really put both her arms around me but she pat my back once and said ok I have to study now as I have an exam in an hour so bye and then even I said ok bye and we walked our own ways. It was brief few seconds hug but it was also my 2nd time I ever hugged a girl in person. I hope she wasn't uncomfortable but it was really one of my happiest day and even my classmates were surprised seeing that.
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  90. I am 22 in last year of college and I like a girl in my college who is 19 in 1st year of college.
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  91. Is it fine for a 22 year old guy to date an 18/19 year old girl if both are in college? I am a 22 year old guy in last year of college and I like a girl in my college who is in 1st year of college so she can be either 18 about to turn 19 soon or is already 19 now so we are only like 3 years apart. Can I ask her out?
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  92. Is it still a bad idea as an Indian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to India as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 6 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners for the past 3-4 days. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again 2 days ago. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again maybe tomorrow but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  93. So is it really a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 5 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes and not yesterday either. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  94. I am also 21 and never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and tried to connect with girls whom I knew in high school by following them on IG but they didn't follow me back and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me and one 19 year old girl who matched with me turned out to be very mean to me yesterday and insulted me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me
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  95. Dude, 23 is still young. I am a 21 year old guy and we are both super close in age. And I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet.
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  96. I am a 21 year old guy who will be turning 22 this December and I messed up my college life. I am an electronic engineering student and previously I had failed in some subjects in 3rd semester and 5th semester and again in one subject in a 7th semester subject. Thankfully I managed to pass in those previous semester subjects in which I failed but I failed in one of my last semester subject too so I can't even graduate this year and can only write the exam in Feb 2023 and only after passing it, I can get my degree certificate and will graduate. My results were out in August 2022 and I still haven't told about it to my parents about it as I am too scared. I am planning to do my MBA either in my country or even abroad but I am a bit worried because I haven't got my degree certificate yet as I failed in that last semester subject. I wish I could go back in time and tell the 19 year old me to concentrate in studies and not fail in the subjects.
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  97. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I feel FOMO all the time. Honestly I am an introvert too so I am relying on online dating to meet girls but having no matches on dating apps. Even if I rarely get one, they ghost me all the time. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in school days and they are mostly 19-22 age range but many of them ghosted and blocked me too because I was too shy near girls in my school days so never interacted with them in school so I am almost a stranger to them. Only 4 or 5 of them chats daily with me and 2 of them both 20 year olds are sweet to me and we send virtual hugs to each other. I wanna try my luck with this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school. She is 21 now turning 22 after 3–4 months and I really wanna ask her out for a date but I don't know whether she would want to or not.
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  98. I am turning 22 tomorrow and I never had a girlfriend before. 3 days ago, I was matched with another girl who is 18 turning 19 in Feb and she seemed quite interested in knowing me but when we shared about our hobbies and I told her about my singing which I upload on my youtube channel(not this one, another one). She said she was gonna check it and then I saw she unmatched me. I guess she found me ugly in my videos or my singing is bad. I got matched by another girl too who is 21 on that same day 3 days ago and we had a good chat too and even added each other on Instagram but she said I seem like an introvert and she didn't chat much with me. When I asked, she said she is a medical college student so she isn't that much free. Idk whether she lied or she is genuinely busy.
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  99. Damn man really at 44? I am over 2 decades younger than you and in the same boat as you. I am a 22 year old guy(turning 23 in just 7 days) who never had a girlfriend before but I did have my first ever date 3 months ago. She is 19(turning 20 in Feb) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and we hugged each other and I pinched her cheeks too but 2 weeks after the date she turned out of be toxic to me and blocked me on every social media. She basically just used me for free food and taking lots of pics to post on social media. I also have a massive crush on this girl who is also 22(turning 23 next month) in a class where I go for classes for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college about 5 months ago and about to study MBA next. I like her a lot but I am usually shy near her so she is the one who initiates conversations with me. Few weeks ago, she actually said I was looking cute that day and I also said she looked cute and I pinched her cheeks too and she blushed a bit. Sadly she has several male friends which makes me afraid that she might go for them. Almost 2 months ago, I went out with this another girl who is 23 from the same class. We roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant but I was shy to ask for a hug from her but finally I pinched her cheeks too and we might go out again next month but we are just friends. I also follow several girls on Instagram who are in the same institute where I go for this classes for exam preparations and they are all within 21-25 age range and some of them followed me back and I might message them too. I also have been chatting with this another girl who is 19 now(turning 20 in April) for several months on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but didn't know each other those days and we get along well now and have many things in common and send each other virtual hugs and we might meet up soon too especially to experiment with food as we are both foodies.
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  100. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  101.  @juice-mm7kj  Yeah but its not easy as I am shy and the previous 2 rejections did make me a bit scared.
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  102. Damn man but you can go for women in their mid or late 20s tho at 35. I am a 22 year old guy who too never had a girlfriend before and I was losing hope but I finally got my first ever date at the age of 22 on 16th September 2023 which was about 2 weeks ago. She is 19 year old and is in 2nd year of college and we used to be in the same school but didn’t know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since 28th May 2023 after chatting on Instagram. We went to the mall that day and ate in Mcdonalds there. I was pinching her cheeks too as she is really cute and finally we hugged a little and then took pics. I still didn’t get my first kiss and still single but at least I am not dateless and hugless anymore and gained some confidence. I also like 2 girls in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 2 months ago and now planning to study MBA next. One of the girl is also 22 and another one is 23 or 24 now. I was shy near them but hopefully after the date I will be more confident now but idk. I also like the 19 year old with whom I went to the date and she is really sweet too.
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  103. Is being a virg at 22 a red flag too? I am a guy who turned 22 just 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and never had a real kiss with a girl except getting kissed on the cheek by a girl when we were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched by 18-23 age girls but they ghost me for no reason. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but got rejected. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now and I had the best chat with a girl for the past 6-7 days. She is 20 and I knew her in school and she was 2 years my junior. She seems so much better than other girls I have chatted with. I kinda messed up a bit today by giving her a cheesy compliment today but I apologized and said that I just wanted to make her smile and she thanked me and said it was sweet of me. Btw I have no idea whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  104. Don't feel sad. I am a 21 year old guy so we are almost the same age and I never even had a girlfriend. You are a very beautiful girl and I would have dated you if we were in the same city or same college. Here is one hug for you just to make you smile 🤗. Honestly you can cry by keeping your head on my shoulder and I would slowly wipe your tears. 😊
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  105. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. After 3 rejections recently, I did ask out my childhood friend who is 21 year old now turning 22 soon by messaging her on Instagram and she did reply yeah ok but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and now again she hasn't been online for weeks and still yet to reply about when we can meet but I am still waiting. But since 28th May 2023, I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days. Now she is 19 year old and is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and we chat daily about pretty much everything and we send each other virtual hugs too and I think I started liking her too but so far it still looks like she just sees me as a friend as the chats doesn't get very flirty yet and we have been chatting for almost a month. We are also in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. I do wanna ask her out but my childhood friend didn't reject me too and I like both of them.
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  106. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never kissed or hugged a girl in real life. After having no luck on dating apps, I started messaging girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me and are 18-23 year olds now(mostly 19-22). 4 days ago, I tried asking out one of the girl for a coffee who is 19 turning 20 in August. We had been chatting on Instagram for a month and were in the same school too but now in different colleges. She literally agreed to meet me up and said she will let me know when we can meet. I was super happy as this was the first time a girl didn't reject or block me(I was rejected by 3 girls before that) but I could see her replies getting slower and shorter after that. Yesterday she said she was just having mood swings so I said her how to feel better if she is sad and then sent her a virtual hug and then she replied Thanks and suddenly I saw she blocked me. I was shocked because we planned to meet up one day but it can no longer happen as I have no other way of contacting her. What hurt me a lot is that she gave me false hope by not rejecting or blocking me 4 days ago itself when I asked her out and she just agreed to it. Pretty much tears came into my eyes.
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  107. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon. Those 3 girls are around 22-24 year olds and very pretty and initiated convo with me saying hi and telling names and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. Today too they tried to talk with me but I am still kinda shy near girls in person so we didn't talk much but for the past 2 days I can't stop thinking about them. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also the three 22-24 year olds on whom I newly got crush.
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  108.  @walkourwoofers853  That's just pulling face cheeks because I find them adorable and cute. Pulling cheeks is just one of my childhood habit.
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  109. Is it still bad for me as an Indian guy to want to date a foreign woman who is an expat in our city? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India. Idk when I will go abroad but as Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. Today I went to this really posh area of our city and saw this white Caucasian woman walking on the sidewalk. Usually I used to be shy near women but today I said her excuse me and she said yes and then we begin our conversation. She looked to be anywhere within 26-35 age range(28-30 age range is the most likely). She is indeed an expat working in an IT company in the area. I then introduced myself and said her that I am an MBA student now and then asked where she is from and she said she is from Germany. Yeah she is a German and the conversation was decent but brief and she was friendly and smiling while talking with me. Then she did handshake and said each other it was nice to meet you and we went our own ways. As an introvert, I was pretty nervous while talking to her so forgot to ask her Instagram for further connection and idk whether I will meet her again and idk when I will again go to that posh area. I am also not sure whether she is even single or not. I also talked with a French woman near my University over 2 months ago where I am studying MBA but the conversation was much more brief. She was a foreign exchange student in another nearby University so she was definitely within 22-26 age range. I was nervous so didn't ask her socials as well and sadly never saw her again. Should I go for this German woman I met today and try to meet her again or maybe try to meet more foreign expat women?
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  110. Sadly I am a 21 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 but both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot and she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted. 2 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined for some courses. She is a college student too from a different college and she is 19 or 20 or maybe 21(idk her exact age yet but she is definitely 19-21). She is beautiful and I might get a crush on her but that day I didn't have the confidence to initiate a convo with her and I won't be able to meet her for 2 weeks and I have to wait till 1st Nov as she is going out of city for 2 weeks and will come to classes from 1st Nov.
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  111. I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes and some more questions about myself. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  112.  @SniperFoxx420  I am 21 and I call her crush because she doesn't know I like her. She in my classes where I joined for some extra courses and she is a college student too from a different college. She is 19-21 so about my age anyways. Why is it wrong to have crushes?
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  113. Same here. I am a 21 year old guy so almost the same age as you and never had a girlfriend. Btw I am sure you are a very beautiful girl and I am sure I would have got a crush on you if we were in the same college. Here is one virtual hug for you just to make you smile hugggggssss 🤗.
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  114. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  115. Oh wow. Btw our age gap is fine?I turned 23 last month and like a girl who is 19 turning 20 in April so we will be 19 and 23 for almost 3 months and finally we will be 20 and 23. I really like her and we send each other virtual hugs on Instagram daily too. We are 3 years 4 months apart in age.
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  116.  @vigneshdev9587  you are also Indian and I am also Indian living in Bangalore so I will share which song is making me think of her as you probably would know the song. That same name is Kya Karoon from the movie Wake Up Sid. It was Ranbir Kapoor's movie. I remember I was in 4th standard when this song came out back in 2009. But this song is reminding me of this girl. I can't stop thinking about her but she still didn't follow me back on Instagram yet. She is very beautiful.
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  117. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. Recently I got unmatched by 2 girls(One is 19 and the other one is 21) on dating app after asking them out for a coffee even though we had a good chat. I also have been chatting with a girl who is 19 turning 20 in August on Instagram for a month and she was in the same school as me but now different colleges and I asked her out too for a coffee and she even agreed to meet up one day but she suddenly blocked me last week. I also tried asking out another girl 7 days ago and she is turning 20 after a couple of weeks and she too was in the same school as me but she blocked me immediately after I asked her out. Now my last hope is this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 and she is 21 now turning 22 after about 4 months. I asked her out too for coffee and I genuinely like her a lot but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to that message yet. I am honestly hoping a positive reply from her and she agrees to meet up but I am worried too that she might reject me but idk.
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  118. I am a 22 year old guy(turning 23 in just 6 days) who never had a girlfriend before but I did have my first ever date 3 months ago. She is 19(turning 20 in Feb) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and we hugged each other and I pinched her cheeks too but 2 weeks after the date she turned out of be toxic to me and blocked me on every social media. She basically just used me for free food and taking lots of pics to post on social media. I also have a massive crush on this girl who is also 22(turning 23 next month) in a class where I go for classes for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college about 5 months ago and about to study MBA next. I like her a lot but I am usually shy near her so she is the one who initiates conversations with me. Few weeks ago, she actually said I was looking cute that day and I also said she looked cute and I pinched her cheeks too and she blushed a bit. Sadly she has several male friends which makes me afraid that she might go for them. Almost 2 months ago, I went out with this another girl who is 23 from the same class. We roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant but I was shy to ask for a hug from her but finally I pinched her cheeks too and we might go out again next month but we are just friends. I also follow several girls on Instagram who are in the same institute where I go for this classes for exam preparations and they are all within 21-25 age range and some of them followed me back and I might message them too. I also have been chatting with this another girl who is 19 now(turning 20 in April) for several months on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but didn't know each other those days and we get along well now and have many things in common and send each other virtual hugs and we might meet up soon too especially to experiment with food as we are both foodies.
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  119.  @ItsMeggy04  What do you mean?
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  120.  @ItsMeggy04  How is 19 too young for 21? It's just a 2 year gap which is nothing. We are so close in age
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  121. Woah damn man really at 41? Its scary because I am in the same boat as you but almost 2 decades younger. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and no first kiss yet either. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  122. Yeah girls are so confusing. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 8 days and its been bothering me that I still don't have a girlfriend. I am on dating apps but only got some matches. Most of these matches are 18-23 year old girls and they end up ghosting or rejecting me. Sometimes I get ghosted for no reason at all. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me as well. I follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now and I even chat with some of them but many times, they kinda ignore my messages too for a day or so.
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  123.  @samgaming0626  it wasn't a relationship. She rejected me horribly after I asked her out and insulted me. I turned 22 just 8 weeks ago and still no girlfriend.
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  124. Same here. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend. Btw I am sure you are a very beautiful girl and I am sure I would have got a crush on you if we were in the same college. Here is one virtual hug for you just to make you smile hugggggssss
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  125. So am I dumb too? I am a 21 year old guy so I am a Gen Z person.
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  126.  @shelbylover1359  Actually I think I am dumb and lazy too and play video games in weekends and still act immature for my age
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  127. I am a 24 year old guy from West Bengal living in Bangalore and here in Bangalore there are many foreigners who are expats here as its a major IT hub. I have initiated conversations with 15 such expat women in this mall called UB City who were mostly white women but I was respectful and we had friendly conversations and I am a well educated guy about to finish my MBA and currently interning. Just 5 days ago i initiated conversation with a German expat woman near UB City and we had a decent conversation. As long as you are respectful its fine.
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  128.  Ashly Sosa  You are judging me. She is 23 and I am 22 so we are both super close in age so what's your problem? I prefer girls within 18 to 26 age range. Young Indian guys like me shouldn't be judged as we are more modern and open minded.
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  129. 29 isn't old tho. Why do you feel its old? I am a 21 year old guy so I am a Gen Z but I don't think 29 is old.
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  130.  @SweatyFatGuy  No I am not into arranged marriages at all and as a younger generation I don't want it in future. I don't believe in these caste systems and stuffs and I am from a general educated background who is almost an MBA student and live in a big metropolitan city like Bangalore. Are you telling me to get married at 23 even though I am still a student? Plus I was actually about 4-5 inches taller than those women. Would a 5'4 woman really find a 5'9 man short? Idk whether they are single or not tho but they are very pretty. Yeah I am an introvert thoughout my life and has been only coming out of shyness since the age of 21 but I am still a bit shy even at 23 now. Also did you read my comment about my crush in my class who is also an Indian? She is super pretty tho almost model like so yeah I overthink whether I have chance with her or not but we still have conversations briefly and the last time we talked was 3 days ago but as an introvert the conversations end fast.
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  131. Is it fine for a 22 year old to date an 18/19 year old if both are in college? I am a 22 year old guy in last year of college and I like a girl in my college who is in 1st year and she is 19 now so we are only 3 years apart in age and I wanna ask her out.
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  132. Yeah man 30 is too old for 18 or 19. Btw what do you feel about 22 year old dating an 18/19 year old? I am a 22 year old guy in last year of college and I like her a girl in my college who is in 1st year and she is 19 now so we are only 3 years apart in age so would it be fine to ask her out?
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  133. Dude no way. I am still a student who will be graduating next year so I am not even financially independent yet and I won't waste my dad's money on them. BTW I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had 2 crushes in college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches. The few 18-24 age girls who matches with me ends up ghosting me. Yesterday I saw a girl in a class where I newly joined for some courses. She is a college student too so she is like 19 or 20 or maybe 21(idk her exact age but I think she is 19-21 so within my age group) and she is beautiful and I might get a crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her. She will be going out of city for 2 weeks so she won't come for the classes for 2 weeks until 1st Nov so I can only see her again on 1st Nov.
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  134. Wow 50 and never had a gf? BTW I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend. Btw is it fine for me to think about trying my luck on a girl who was my childhood friend? There is a girl named Aishu who was my close friend when we were in elementary school and we were neighbors too so we used to often study together, play together, make silly drawings together etc and even fight sometimes but again become friends. But in 2011, my parents bought a new apartment so we came to a different area, so me and Aishu never really talked with each other since 2011. Now we are both 21 and I saw her on Instagram few days ago and I tried following her but she isn't even accepting my follow request and idk why and it makes me sad. I really wanna talk with her, hug her and kiss her but I feel like it won't happen.
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  135.  @BrianHARVET-fx6gk  did you read my full comment? Nothing about the girls with whom I went out?
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  136. Damn man 49? Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(turned 20 few weeks ago) and had my first ever hug too (she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere) and also 3 months ago went out with a female friend who is also 23 where we go for classes for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6-7 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had lunch in a big restaurant(but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends). I also had been crushing on this another girl(lets call her A) in that same class where I go now and she also turned 23 over 2 weeks ago and I even gave her a chocolate 5 days ago and she too knew I had a crush on her and has called me cute before too but things changed as last week I got a new crush on this another girl(lets call her B) in the same institute but different classrooms. She is within 21-23 age range and one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen and I was too shy to approach her but 3 days ago, with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was finally able to talk to her a bit and I was feeling butterflies. Everyone including that girl A came to know about it and she isn't really trying to talk to me and said that I am not loyal enough so she won't talk to me(idk whether she was joking or not). Yesterday was chocolate day and one of my friend jokingly said me to give chocolate to A again but she said she doesn't want a chocolate from me. I am afraid that B is probably out of my league as she is very pretty almost model like and I am just average I guess and plus I was too nervous that day while talking with her in person so idk how it will go. I am such a mess that I like another girl(lets call her S) with whom I had been chatting on Instagram for the past 7 months. She is 19 now(turning 20 in April) and we used to be in the same school but didn't knew each other in school days and now she is in a different college. We send each other virtual hugs daily and we will meet up this month too to eat somewhere as we are both foodies and she has no idea about these 2 girls A and B. But after getting crush newly on this girl B, I am mostly thinking about her and not giving much attention to A and S whom I have known longer than B. Idk what to do. If B rejects me, then I won't have chance with A as she probably have a negative perception about me now for getting multiple crushes.
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  137. How old are you both? Don't worry dude at least you have a girlfriend and got your first kiss. I am literally a 21 year old guy who will be turning 22 next month just 3 days before Christmas and didn't even get my first kiss yet.
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  138. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 8 days and its freaking me out as I am getting older and it feels as if my youth is over. I will be graduating college in 2023 and still living with parents. I am still single too which is bothering me a lot.
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  139. I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but had my first ever date and hug 7 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. Recently got ignored by this another girl who is 19 turning 20 tomorrow and I knew her for over 8 months and also were in the same school at one point but didn't know each other in school and we chatted on Instagram regularly for 8 months but she suddenly has been ignoring me since the past 3 weeks even though we even planned to eat in many restaurants and sent each other virtual hugs. I am currently having crush on this another girl who is within 21-23 age range and we go for the same institute but in different classrooms. I just graduated college 9 months ago and gonna pursue MBA now and going for classes. I have been having brief conversations with her and even complimented her twice but yesterday I finally got her number in a very clever way. I was learning about Google Forms in my classes so I created one car related survey on Google Form and told her that its a part of an assignment so I need many responses so she agreed to fill the form too so I asked for her number so I can send it to her on Whatsapp and she gave me her number. But after I sent her the form, she didn't even read the whatsapp text. She said she would fill it whenever she can but still she neither read my text nor replied but I am still keeping hopes. She is also very pretty almost model like whereas I am not that attractive especially in my glasses so idk whether she would like me back or not.
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  140. How old are you? I am 24 and never had a gf. I am just in my final semester of my MBA and I am an intern now in a Startup which will convert to full time in August and living in Bangalore in India but I am Bengali Indian. I was always shy to talk with girls and only started fully socializing with girls last year after entering my 2nd year (3rd sem) of MBA. Now as I am interning in a young startup, I get to meet plenty of girls in my age group too (21–26 range). I am socializing daily with many female interns now and approaching them but they already have their circle of friends and there isn’t a proper cafeteria or place to socialize during breaks in our office and many go out with their friends who are from their college or familiar friends making socializing with girls harder as I directly approaching them independently when I see them. One girl who is 21-22 and an intern too even gave her number to me a few days ago but even she is mostly with her friends. Its hard in a collectivist country like India even though I gained a lot of confidence when it comes to approaching and talking to girls.
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  141.  @aniketb3513  bro but I am not looking to get laid. I just want a girlfriend whom I can hug, cuddle and kiss. I just want my first kiss for now.
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  142.  @animestarlord9021  Yesterday itself I got matched by this girl who is also 22 on dating app and we kinda had many things in common. Like both our birthdays are in December. Her birthday is on 5th Dec and my birthday was on 22nd Dec so we both just freshly turned 22. We both will be graduating college in mid 2023. We both love the chocolate lava cake and both like listening to songs when sad and both of us love December the most as its our birthday month. I thought maybe she will be the one but unfortunately it looks she is ghosting me because she didn't chat with me at all today and I am so down.
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  143. Maybe you are right. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 5 days and still no girlfriend. Btw say honestly, is it really creepy of me to follow girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days? They are all 20-22 year olds now and I follow many of them and even chat with 2 or 3 of them. Why do some people say its creepy even though I knew them high school?
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  144. You are lucky. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Had crush on 2 girls in college recently and got rejected by both. Few days ago I heard a song which reminds me of a girl who was in my school and same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so same age as me and I followed her on Insta but she declined or rejected my follow request. I tried sending her a message but she didn't reply. Today I followed another girl on Insta who too was in my school and same grade but we weren't classmates either. I remember having a little crush on her when we were both in 10th grade and she has a beautiful smile too. She is also 21 so again the same age as me but I found out that she lives in another country now goes to college in that country abroad so I have no chance with her.
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  145. I am a 21 year old guy who will be turning 22 this December and I never had a girlfriend and didn't even get my first kiss yet and I feel lonely and down. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One of them is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I have been using 3 dating apps for 4 months but barely getting any matches at all and one 20 year old girl who matched with me 2 months ago rejected me saying she only prefers bad guys and that I am too nice for her. About 2 weeks ago, I saw another girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is from a different college tho and she is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but can be 18 too as idk her real age but I was too shy to even say her a hi that day and now I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she went out of city for 2 weeks and I am afraid that she might reject me as well especially because we are from different college.
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  146. Wow man it's scary that you never had a gf even at 55. I am a guy who just turned 22 last week and I never had a girlfriend and it's bothering me a lot. I had crush on 2 girls in my college who rejected me and dating apps aren’t giving me luck as most girls who match with me ghosts or unmatch me for no reason at times. I also follow few girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and only chat with 3 of them. 2 of them are 20-22 year old and another is an 18-19 year old who is one of their friend in their college.
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  147. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and it bothers me a lot. Btw is a month long enough to know whether someone is interested in me or not? I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up she haven't replied yet about when we can meet. I have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. We are in different colleges now but we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school. So we only have been getting to know each other for a bit over a month. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily and talk about literally everything and we are both foodies too and send each other virtual hugs but there isn't any flirting in the chats yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but is 1 month already long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not or does it take longer?
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  148. I am a 22 year old guy who has been using Hinge since June 2022 and only got 14 matches so far and I use the free version. Recently, I was matched with a 19 year old girl with whom I had been chatting for 2 weeks but her replies were slow and she unmatched me after I asked her out for a coffee. Then I got matched by another girl who is also 22 year old but she completely ghosted me. Then my most recent match was just 3 days ago by an 18 year old girl who will be 19 next month. She is a 2nd year college student with a late birthday and I am a 4th year college student but her replies have been mostly one word and she unmatched me yesterday even before I could ask her out probably because I told her I play video games every weekends but idk.
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  149. So is even 22 or 23 late too? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but went on my first ever date on 16th September 2023 which was just a bit over a month ago. She is 19 and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and we hugged and I was pinching her cheeks a lot. But 2 weeks after the date, she became toxic after I messaged her saying me to go to hell and said swear words and then blocked me on all social media apps. It looks like she just used me for free lunch and to take pics of her so she can post them on Instagram. I lost some hope. But almost 2 weeks ago, I went out with this another girl who is also either 22 or 23 now. She is in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3-4 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had a great day and I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie and had lunch in a restaurant too. We are just friends tho and we might again go out on 22nd November. I also have big crush on this another girl in the same class who is also 22. I am kinda shy near her and usually she is the one who initiates conversations with me but 3 weeks ago she asked me how was she looking and I said she is cute and I pinched her cheeks too and she blushed a bit. Nowadays I noticed she smiles at me whenever I look at her and tells her friend about me while looking at me and smiling. But she has several male friends so idk whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  150. Yeah your comment is right but why are people these days especially on reddit criticizing even smaller age gaps like a 22 year old dating an 18 year old even though both are close in age and both can be in college? I am a 22 year old guy in last year of college and I like a girl in my college who is in 1st year of college so she can be either 18 about to turn 19 soon or is already 19 now so we are only like 3 years apart. Can I ask her out? All these negative comments about even early 20s dating an 18/19 year old makes me worried. Also would you call me mentally stunted as I don't notice any maturity difference between us or is it normal?
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  151.  @guardianoftides2118  I am from Bangalore in India but I am not talking about real life tho because I haven't dated before so no one said me anything about it in real life and I would prefer girls within 18-28 age range now at 22. I am talking about the website reddit which is mostly full of Americans and they criticize age gaps like this.
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  152. Sadly I am also a 21 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 but both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot and she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted. 2 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined for some courses. She is a college student too from a different college and she is 19 or 20 or maybe 21(idk her exact age yet but she is definitely 19-21). She is beautiful and I might get a crush on her but that day I didn't have the confidence to initiate a convo with her and I won't be able to meet her for 2 weeks and I have to wait till 1st Nov as she is going out of city for 2 weeks and will come to classes from 1st Nov.
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  153. I just turned 22 yesterday and I never had a girlfriend before and its bothering me a lot now. Had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched by 18-23 age girls but they too ghost or reject me. I also follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now too but I only chat with 2 or 3 of them and they hardly chat much. I really wanna try my luck on them but we hardly chat much.
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  154. Not everyone has a social life especially the introverts. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. Recently I got unmatched by 2 girls(One is 19 and the other one is 21) on dating app after asking them out for a coffee even though we had a good chat. I also have been chatting with a girl who is 19 turning 20 in August on Instagram for a month and she was in the same school as me but now different colleges and I asked her out too for a coffee and she even agreed to meet up one day but she suddenly blocked me last week. I also tried asking out another girl 6 days ago and she is turning 20 after a couple of weeks and she too was in the same school as me but she blocked me immediately after I asked her out. Now my last hope is this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 and she is 21 now turning 22 after about 4 months. I asked her out too for coffee and I genuinely like her a lot but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to that message yet. I am honestly hoping a positive reply from her and she agrees to meet up but I am worried too that she might reject me but idk.
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  155. Is 22 year old dating an 18 year old fine? I am a 21 year old guy who is turning 22 on 22nd December and I really like a girl in my college who is 18.
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  156. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  157. Is it still as much of a problem at 22? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. I got rejected by 3 girls very recently(I got rejected by 7 girls so far in total). I got blocked by 2 of them on Instagram after I asked them out and they were in the same school as me too and one of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up but blocked me after few days. Today I tried asking out another girl who is 20 and she too was in the same school as me and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she too rejected me saying that I am nice but she isn't comfortable with meeting up with me so we can't meet up and she unfollowed me on Instagram. But there is still some hope as I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months and I genuinely like her too and we used to be very close friends when we were both in elementary school but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to my message yet. I am still waiting for her reply and I am honestly expecting a positive reply but idk.
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  158. Are you really 36? Btw yeah I still feel I missed out on young love. I am a 22 year old guy who too never had a girlfriend before and I was losing hope but I finally got my first ever date at the age of 22 on 16th September 2023 which was about 2 weeks ago. She is 19 year old and is in 2nd year of college and we used to be in the same school but didn’t know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since 28th May 2023 after chatting on Instagram. We went to the mall that day and ate in Mcdonalds there. I was pinching her cheeks too as she is really cute and finally we hugged a little and then took pics. I still didn’t get my first kiss and still single but at least I am not dateless and hugless anymore and gained some confidence. I also like 2 girls in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 2 months ago and now planning to study MBA next. One of the girl is also 22 and another one is 23 or 24 now. I was shy near them but hopefully after the date I will be more confident now but idk and the one who is 22 finds me cute too. I also like the 19 year old with whom I went to the date and she is really sweet too.
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  159. December 2000 born here. I am a 21 year old guy and will be turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas. Its scary how fast I am getting older. Its crazy how all of us who were born in the early 2000s are adults now.
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  160. But I don't wanna be 40 and date 20 year olds. I wanna date 18-25 year olds now at 22. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. Recently I got unmatched by 2 girls(One is 19 and the other one is 21) on dating app after asking them out for a coffee even though we had a good chat. I also have been chatting with a girl who is 19 turning 20 in August on Instagram for a month and she was in the same school as me but now different colleges and I asked her out too for a coffee and she even agreed to meet up one day but she suddenly blocked me last week. I also tried asking out another girl 8 days ago and she is turning 20 after a couple of weeks and she too was in the same school as me but she blocked me immediately after I asked her out. Now my last hope is this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 and she is 21 now turning 22 after about 4 months. I asked her out too for coffee and I genuinely like her a lot but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to that message yet. I am honestly hoping a positive reply from her and she agrees to meet up but I am worried too that she might reject me but idk.
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  161. I am in the same boat as you but I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. I got rejected very recently by 3 girls( rejected by 7 girls in total so far tho). These 3 girls were all in the same school as me but now in different colleges and we had been chatting on Instagram for months. One of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up after I asked her out few weeks ago but she blocked me mysteriously after few days whereas another girl blocked me immediately after I asked her out. Few days ago I tried asking out another girl who is 20 now and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she rejected me saying that even though I am really nice, she just isn't comfortable to meet up with me and it hit me hard. But there is still some hope as I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months. We were very close friends when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. But she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see that message in which I asked her out so still no reply yet. I am still waiting for her reply and hoping a positive reply as I genuinely like her a lot but idk.
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  162. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and had no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since we were in high school. I get only 3 matches on tinder and 5 matches on Hinge so far after using them for almost 5 months but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come briefly online for 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  163. So is it really a bad idea in your opinion as an Asian student to want to date a Westerner who came to my country as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses and I am well educated too with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  164. Is a 22 year old guy dating an 18 almost 19 year old girl fine if both are in college? Like a last year college student dating a 1st year college student?
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  165.  @peace2033  yeah true. Btw I am still confused. Why do you people these days even judge an 18 year old dating a 21 or 22 year old? It's understandable when they find a 30 or 40 year old dating an 18 year old weird but why do so many people criticize even 22 dating 18 even though the age gap is so small and both are legally adults?
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  166. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  167. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and its definitely bothering me. I got rejected by 4 girls recently. I asked out my childhood friend 2 months ago and she is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took a month to reply to it but she agreed to meet up and again didn't reply for over a month about when we can meet up. I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023. She is 19 now and she used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We chat daily and she shares everything to me and I do the same too and we even send each other virtual hugs but there is still no flirting yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but I am nervous especially after getting rejected 4 times recently. Is 1 month long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not?
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  168. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and had no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since we were in high school. I get some matches on tinder and Hinge but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come briefly online for 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  169.  @AM-kit00  Is it fine for a 22 year old to date an 18 year old? I am a 21 year old guy who is turning 22 on 22nd December and I really like a girl in my college who is 18.
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  170.  @j.d.s.1837  Haha true. Btw he is 41 so he is either the oldest millennial or starting of Gen X but yeah he talks like a boomer. Btw I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago so I am Gen Z and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  171. Wow man its scary that you are 40 and in the same boat as me who is about 2 decades younger than you. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. I had crush on 2 girls in college recently but both rejected me. I use dating apps but having no luck either. I got 2 matches recently on tinder. One of the match is 22 years old and the other match is 20 years old who matched with me today but both of them never replied to my message yet. 2 weeks ago, I did see a girl in a class I joined recently for some classes. She is from a different college tho and she is definitely 19-21 years old but she can be 18 too and I was too shy to talk with her that day. I can again see her on 1st Nov but I am scared that I might still be shy near her.
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  172. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I tried asking out my childhood friend who is 21 turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply. She agreed to meet up and we even decided that we will meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. Since 13th July 2023, I also started going for some classes for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I am pretty much done with college and I got a new crush on this girl in the class who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She tried to initiate convo with me on that day and we did handshake too and it was the first time I did handshake with a girl. She also asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she asked me some more things too about myself. I answered her all but I am still shy to initiate any further conversation with her. I wanna get to know her more but I am kinda shy. I also wanna ask her for a hug as she is really sweet and pretty but I am just not confident enough. I also had been chatting with another girl who is 19 now on Instagram. She also used to be in the same school as me but now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho and we chat a lot daily and even send each other virtual hugs but I am nervous to ask her out too as I got rejected by 4 girls recently and she still seems to see me just as a friend. What should I do as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also this new crush who is 22/23 year old?
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  173.  @anemopixie5220  You are just judging people for not having girlfriends. I can paste my experience however I want to kiddo
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  174.  @kingrobotnik6950  I am myself an Asian. I am an Indian living in Bangalore in India but born in West Bengal in India
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  175. Damn man really at 55? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and barely been on 1 first date and only hugged 2 girls in person so far and never been kissed. I had always been very shy near girls due to facing severe bullying and isolation in school so I even avoided talking with girls and then studied engineering in a college which had a skewed gender ratio. Now I am studying MBA and only recently I am talking with girls and overcame my shyness so it took me till 22-23 to finally come out of my shyness. I had a crush last year during my starting of my MBA but I messed up and currently like 2 girls in my MBA. One of them (lets call her D)(22F) is my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year 3-4 weeks ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far. She is a Punjabi girl and I am Bengali. She is an introvert similar to me and soft spoken and I got her Instagram too and we had some decent conversation in person and even sent her a funny relatable meme on Instagram too. Another one is a girl(Lets call her I)(22-24F) who is in the same year of MBA as me but different sections and we only talked in person for 5-6 days so far. She is also a North Indian from Lucknow who came to Bangalore for her MBA and I really like her confident nature while talking and she is beautiful too. We had a good conversation on our 1st interaction and she even shared her umbrella with me when it rained but our next conversations were short as she is accompanied by her friends or keeps seeing her mobile even though she smiles and says me Hi back. I even said her hope she isn't angry on me but she made a surprised expression and said "No not at all. Why?" I am overthinking a lot whether she is interested in talking to me or not. Plus I am currently in my hometown Siliguri for vacation too for a week so I am worried when D or I and even the other girls with whom I talk, will talk to me again after I return to Bangalore and go to college again as there had been an 8-9 days gap in communication because of the trip and we are all in early stages of getting to know each other. Plus as they aren't my classmates, they are in more close proximity to their male classmates than to me. I just recently came out of this shyness so completely clueless about how to make my move on girls and nervous about asking them out and feel that she might not be interested.
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  176. Damn man. I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago. She was 19(turned 20 a couple of weeks ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and got my first hug but yet to get my first kiss and I pulled her cheeks a lot but 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically used me for free lunch and to take pics of her which she can post on social media. I also have a big crush on this girl who is in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA. She also turned 23 just 2 weeks ago and she has been my crush for 6 months. She has called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too and 2 days ago I even gave her a chocolate but I am shy near her and girls in general in person so she is the one who initiates convos with me and she has some male friends too so I feel worried. 5 days ago, I got a new crush on this another girl in the same institute who is also within 21-23 age range and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen. We aren't in the same classrooms and I have been too shy to approach her but finally with the help of my friends and one of her classmate, I did approach her and was able to talk to her asking each other's names and which classroom we are in but I am afraid that she is probably out of my league but her classmate said she is single but idk whether my nervousness was a turnoff for her and I am still nervous about talking with her next time again. 3-4 months ago, I also went out with a female friend in the same class in that institute who is also 23 and we had a lunch in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date and we had fun and might go out again. For the past 7 months, I also have been chatting on Instagram with this another girl who is 19(turning 20 in April). She used to be in the same school as me but didn't know each other in school days. We are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs daily in the chats and plan to meet up to eat somewhere too and she is very sweet. Sadly in the end I am still single.
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  177. I turned 22 just 3 days ago and I never had a girlfriend either and its bothering me a lot. Got rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago and had not much luck in dating apps. Btw yesterday I got some hope after one girl finally accepted my follow request on Instagram. I knew her in high school days and we were in the same grade but we weren't classmates. I had crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. Now she is also either 21 or 22 and she is even prettier now and she accepted my follow request after about 2 months. I guess she doesn't remember me much tho as she didn't follow me back so idk how can I get to know her and I am afraid that she might be having a boyfriend now.
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  178. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something even though I am just 23? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 4 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 2 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  179. I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and it makes me feel really bad. I did go on my first ever date 5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(20 now) and had my first hug too but sadly she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere and I also went out with a female friend 4 months ago who is also 23 and ate in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date. But almost 3 weeks ago, I got a new crush on this girl in a class where we go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 7 months ago but we are in different classrooms. She is also within the 21-23 age range and I had been too shy to talk to her but 2 weeks ago eventually with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was able to talk to her and again said her Hi last week. That classmate of her did say she is single but last week another of her classmate said that she probably has a boyfriend so that makes me feel confused whether to pursue her or not but I won't believe it unless she herself says she has a bf. 3 days ago, I again talked with her a bit and even we did handshake and she smiled too but I was definitely still sounding a bit nervous while talking with her. Sadly she still didn't follow me back or reply to my first dm to her on Instagram and its been 7 days already so idk whats up as she was still friendly with me 3 days ago. She is very very pretty almost model like and I just look average. Without my glasses, I look better but I have high power so should wear them all the time and look really nerdy and dorky in it so idk whether I even have a chance with her. I had crush on another girl in the same classes for the past 6-7 months and she also turned 23 last month. I liked her a lot and she even called me cute several times and I also gave her chocolate 2 weeks ago but was too shy to say her that I liked her but she probably knew I had a crush on her tho. Sadly she is ignoring me these days as she came to know about my new crush on this another girl. I also have been chatting with this girl on Instagram for the past 7 months and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other that time and now she is in a different college. She is 19(turning 20 in April) and she is super sweet and we are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs and chat daily talking about almost everything. We will meet soon too and go to eat somewhere but I am still single in the end.
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  180. Is it fine for a 22 year old guy to date an 18/19 year old girl if both are in college? I am a 22 year old guy in last year of college and I like a girl in my college who is in 1st year of college so she can be either 18 about to turn 19 soon or is already 19 now so we are only like 3 years apart. Can I ask her out?
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  181. Same but 8 years younger. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  182. Damn man really at 51? Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 23 just over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date a bit over 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 a week ago) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and had my first hug ever from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she is really cute. 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean and toxic to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. For the past 6 months, I also have been crushing on this girl in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA next. She also just turned 23 over a week ago and she has called me cute before and I pulled her cheeks twice too but I am usually shy near girls in person so she is the one who usually initiates conversations with me and its usually short as I have nothing more to say as an introvert. I do see her with some male friends so that makes me worried thinking what if she goes for either of them. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in that same class and she is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends. We just roamed around our city and then had lunch in a big restaurant and had lots of fun. I did pull her cheeks once while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. We might go out again in Feb probably. But yesterday I got a new crush(yeah I am a mess haha) on this another girl who is also 22 or 23 in the same institute but different classrooms and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen but I was again shy to approach her but I got to know her name and followed her on Instagram but she is yet to accept it and maybe then I will message her after 2-3 days but its possible that she probably has a boyfriend too. I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram for over 6 months. She is 19(turning 20 in April). We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since July 2023. We are planning to meet up too and eat somewhere as we are both foodies and we send each other virtual hugs in the chats daily and she is really sweet too. But in the end I am still single.
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  183. At least you know girls like you but it's not the same for me. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. Got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently. Last week, I got matched by a 19 year old girl on one of the dating apps I use and we had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all in the app. So I am worried that this might not work so I tried keeping an option by following a girl named Britney on Instagram who was my classmate when we were in 6th to 10th grade. I remember having crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or probably even 22 now so same age as me. She was the prettiest girl in our class in high school days and she is even prettier now at 21 and I tried following her on Instagram today but she didn't even accept my follow request yet.
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  184. Idk I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon but I just have a massive crush on one of them who is also 22 or maybe 23. She initiated convo with me saying hi and telling her name and asking mine last week Thursday(our first class there) and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. I really can't stop thinking about this girl as she is very pretty and she is very sweet as she tries to initiate convo with me asking whether I had lunch and today she also asked how far my home is from the classes but I just answer what she asks and I am too shy to initiate a convo further with her but I really wanna get to know her and idk whether it would be fine to message her on Whatsapp by seeing her number from our class whatsapp group. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also this new 22/23 year old on whom I newly got crush.
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  185. Damn man really at 40? I am in the same boat as you but almost 2 decades younger. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. After 3 rejections recently, I did ask out my childhood friend who is 21 year old now turning 22 soon by messaging her on Instagram and she did reply yeah ok but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and now again she hasn't been online for weeks and still yet to reply about when we can meet but I am still waiting. But since 28th May 2023, I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days. Now she is 19 year old and is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and we chat daily about pretty much everything and we send each other virtual hugs too and I think I started liking her too but so far it still looks like she just sees me as a friend as the chats doesn't get very flirty yet and we have been chatting for almost a month. We are also in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. I do wanna ask her out but my childhood friend didn't reject me too and I like both of them.
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  186. Woah really at 47? I am a 22 year old guy and never had a girlfriend. I am getting upset at how unfair is everything for me. Girls are way too picky and they don't like me. I use dating apps and get almost no matches. Recently I got matched by a girl who is 20 and we had a great chat but she unmatched me for no reason at all. I also follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are usually 19-22 year olds now. But majority of them ghosted me but even the ones who were chatting me are kinda ignoring me just because I complimented them which is simple one. Only 4 girls chat with me and 2 of them both 20 year olds are sweet to me and we send hugs to each other but idk how things will be. I am getting angry at how these girls are. They only want the best looking guys and treats average guys like me like trash.
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  187. Come on dude you had a good life. I am the same age as you and have 0 experience in relationships. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. Recently I started going for some classes to get coaching for upcoming exams(which starts from Nov last week) to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 2 weeks ago and planning to study MBA next. There I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on our first class which was on 13th July 2023 and she sometimes tries to initiate convos with me asking whether I had lunch or not and says me hi but I just answer her what she asks or say hi back and I am still shy near girls in person so I am usually shy to try to initiate any talks with her unless she herself is the one who tries to talk with me first. BTW last week she actually said she finds me cute and that really made me blush hard and my friends too teased me hehe so I feel a little more hopeful now but she also has 2 or 3 male friends in our class so I feel really worried that she might go for them as they are more confident and much less shy than me. Since 28th May 2023, I also have been chatting with this 19 year old girl on Instagram. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other and now she is in a different college which is very near to my home tho and I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago who is 21 now turning 22 very soon. But my childhood friend is very inactive on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up, she didn't reply about when exactly we can meet up as she takes weeks and even a month to reply to me. I do chat with the 19 year old regularly sending each other virtual hugs and sharing everything like about our day, classes, about ourselves and many more but it still looks like she just sees me as a friend so I am still nervous to ask her out as I also got rejected recently by 4 girls.
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  188. So true. I am a guy who turned 22 almost 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and never had a real kiss with a girl except getting kissed on the cheek by a girl when we were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched by 18-23 age girls but they ghost me for no reason. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but got rejected. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now and I had the best chat with a girl for the past 6-7 days. She is 20 and I knew her in school and she was 2 years my junior. She seems so much better than other girls I have chatted with. I kinda messed up a bit today by giving her a cheesy compliment today but I apologized and said that I just wanted to make her smile and she thanked me and said it was sweet of me. Btw I have no idea whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  189. How old are you dude? Why do you hate women so much? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a gf before. After having not much luck on dating apps and getting rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago, I feel some hope as I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 19-22 age range. And I had been chatting with a really sweet girl on insta for over 2 weeks and she is 20 year old and we were in the same college but she was my junior. We send each other virtual hugs daily and she says I am sweet and cute too and that made me feel butterflies. But we are in different colleges but still same city and I think I am falling in love with her but idk whether she is just being friendly or does she actually like me.
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  190. But it's true. I am a 21 year old guy and I am a vìrgin and I still didn't even get my first kiss yet. Tinder isn't giving me luck as I only got 3 matches so far and none of the girls replied to me. On another dating app Hinge too I got 5 matches so far and even there I get ghosted and unmatched. Finally I got matched by a girl last week on Meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. We still chat on the dating app and haven't added each other on other social media yet. I am worried thinking why she isn't coming online.
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  191. Is it still bad for me as an Indian guy to want to date a foreign woman who is an expat in our city? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India. Idk when I will go abroad but as Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. Today I went to this really posh area of our city and saw this white Caucasian woman walking on the sidewalk. Usually I used to be shy near women but today I said her excuse me and she said yes and then we begin our conversation. She looked to be anywhere within 26-35 age range(28-30 age range is the most likely). She is indeed an expat working in an IT company in the area. I then introduced myself and said her that I am an MBA student now and then asked where she is from and she said she is from Germany. Yeah she is a German and the conversation was decent but brief and she was friendly and smiling while talking with me. Then she did handshake and said each other it was nice to meet you and we went our own ways. As an introvert, I was pretty nervous while talking to her so forgot to ask her Instagram for further connection and idk whether I will meet her again and idk when I will again go to that posh area. I am also not sure whether she is even single or not. I also talked with a French woman near my University over 2 months ago where I am studying MBA but the conversation was much more brief. She was a foreign exchange student in another nearby University so she was definitely within 22-26 age range. I was nervous so didn't ask her socials as well and sadly never saw her again. Should I go for this German woman I met today and try to meet her again or maybe try to meet more foreign expat women?
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  192. Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 23 like 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before. I went on my first ever date 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 few days ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds there and got my first hug from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she was cute. But 2 weeks after the date she became toxic and mean to me and blocked me on all social media. She basically used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. I also have massive crush on this another girl for the past 6 months where I go for some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college about 6 months ago and going to study MBA next. She also turned 23 just a few days ago. She has even called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too but I am shy near women in person so she is the one who initiates conversation with me. Few months ago I gave her a chocolate too but I often see her with her male friends so I get worried whether I have chance with her or not. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in the same class who is also 23 but so far we are just friends. We just roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant and I pulled her cheeks a bit too when we took selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. It was a fun day and we might go out again probably next month. I also have been following some girls on Instagram who are in the 21-25 age range from the same institute but different classrooms and messaged few of them and had been chatting with 2 or 3 of them who are also about 22 and 23 year olds. Since July 2023, I also have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who is 19(turning 20 in April). We were in the same school but didn't know each other in school days so we only have been knowing each other for 6 months. We also send each other virtual hugs and she is very sweet and we have many things in common like we are both foodies, like similar types of movies and many more and we plan to meet up to eat somewhere very soon too but in the end I am still single.
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  193. I am a 22 year old Indian guy living in Bangalore in India and I definitely don't want an arranged marriage in future. I never had a girlfriend before but I can't imagine being in an arranged marriage or anything traditional. I just wanna marry like people do in the West. Thankfully I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city
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  194.  @GreenToast01  It happens man. I had crush on 2 girls in college recently but both rejected me. I also use dating apps but very rarely get any matches.
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  195. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  196.  @petertherock7340  Did you even read my full comment about my conversation with the French woman? Nothing about that? Nothing about my crush in my class about whom I mentioned too?
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  197. I am a 22 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend before. Dating apps aren't giving me luck and 2 of my crushes in college too rejected me few months ago. I chat with some girls on Instagram who are 19-22 age range and we were in the same school but only 1 girl who is 20 year old chats with me regularly. We were also in the same school but now in different colleges in the same city. We send each other virtual hugs daily and she makes me blush. She is very sweet and I was falling in love with her but 2 weeks ago she said she is in a relationship but I am confused because she is still flirty to me and calls me cute and sends hugs so idk whether she lied to me about being in a relationship. We even talk about meeting up and hugging for real but idk when and unfortunately I still feel lonely maybe because its just a chat so far and we didn't hang out yet.
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  198. Same but its not happening. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 6 days and its been bothering me that I still don't have a girlfriend. I am on dating apps but only got some matches. Most of these matches are 18-23 year old girls and they end up ghosting or rejecting me. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me as well. I follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now and I even chat with some of them but many times, they kinda ignore my messages too for a day or so.
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  199.  @zealotreacts  You are lucky that you could experience young love. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and tried to connect with girls whom I knew in high school by following them on IG but they didn't follow me back and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me and one 19 year old girl who matched with me turned out to be very mean to me yesterday and insulted me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  200. 20 and 25 isn't a huge age gap at all. Both are close enough in age as its only 5 years. I am 23 and would definitely date a 28 year old for sure.
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  201. So is being a virg at 22 a red flag? I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  202.  @richirich999  So is it bad for me if I date an 18 year old girl? I am a 21 year old guy and I really like a girl in my college who is 18 and I will be turning 22 next month just 3 days before Christmas.
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  203. I am a 21 year old guy so same age as you and I never had a girlfriend. Btw I am sure you are a very beautiful girl just like the painting in your profile pic and I would have loved to date you if we were in the same city or same college. Here is one hug to you just to make you smile 🤗
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  204. Damn man really at 60? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, only been on 1 first date last year Sept, then hanged out with a female friend last year Oct, hugged only 2 girls in person and still didnt get my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and talking with several girls now after years of being shy near girls. Sadly one of this girl in my MBA who is 22 rejected me 12 days ago saying she doesn't wanna talk with me anymore and it left me confused as we had positive conversations before. Even with the other girls the conversations had been most short limited to just Hi and how are you and maybe a bit more but still the girls have been friendly enough. 5 days ago I did say a pickup line to one of my crush who is also within 21-23 age range and she was the 2nd girl I hugged 4 months ago but she just smiled and thanked me after the pickup line and she is one of the prettiest girl in our University.
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  205.  @emillyburton9959  Yuck your dad is disgusting for going for a 11 year old child at 30.
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  206. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. Recently got unmatched by 2 girls(one is 19 and another is 21) on dating app after I asked them out even after a decent chat. I also tried asking out this girl who is 19 turning 20 in August and we were in the same school but now in different colleges and we have been chatting on Instagram for a month and she even agreed to meet up and I was super happy but she blocked me mysteriously for no reason last week. Then 4 days ago I tried asking out another girl who is turning 20 after a few weeks and we also were in the same school and have been chatting on insta for over 3 weeks but she immediately blocked me after I asked her out for a coffee. My only last hope is this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 and now she is 21 turning 22 after like 4 months. I asked her out too for a coffee but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't even see or reply to my message yet but honestly I am hoping for a positive reply but also worried that she might reject me too.
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  207. So you are 42 and dating women half your age? Btw I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  208. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and I had been using tinder, bumble and hinge for 5 months but only got 3 matches on tinder, 1 match on Bumble and 6 matches on Hinge so far. I use the free version because I can't pay for premium. Sadly most of the time I end up getting ghosted. The girls on tinder never reply to me whereas the ones on Hinge have a small chat and eventually ghosts me.
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  209. How old are you? Is 22 still fine? I am a guy who turned 22 almost 7 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and its bothering me. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched with some 18-23 age girls but most of them ghost me. I am having a decent chat with 2 girls, one of them is 18 almost 19 and another one is 20 almost 21 but thats it. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago and both rejected me. I also follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds now. I am having a very good chat with a girl who is 20 for almost 3 weeks and I knew her in school too but idk whether she would wanna date me as she became uncomfortable once when I gave her a cheesy compliment. Another one is my childhood friend who is 21 now and only 5-6 months younger than me and she didn't reply to my last message for over 4 weeks. I also chat with another one who is 22 but she is pretty busy and doesn't chat regularly with me.
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  210.  @joeyshofner639  Woah thats scary. Did you have a gf before? Did you read my full comment?
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  211. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had his first kiss and I never had a girlfriend. After having no luck with 4 girls I know in real life, finally 2 days ago I was matched with a girl on one of the dating apps who isn't ghosting me so far. She is 19 years old and we had a decent chat for the past 2 days and she too lives in my city but we are in different college and different course too. Do you think I will at least get my first kiss this time? I am scared that she might ghost me too. I will be turning 22 this December and I at least want my first kiss before 22nd December which is my 22nd birthday.
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  212.  @beyondwilline3634  I just say sweet things to any girl within in the 18 to 28 age range.
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  213.  @shotgunmuscles4900  come on I am still 22 and young so I have plenty of time. At least I still have time to make mistakes now and get into a relationship without the girls finding it a red flag. It becomes a red flag if the guy who is 30+ and still a virg and never had a girlfriend.
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  214. At least you get matches. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a gf or even first kiss and I use 3 dating apps and barely get any matches even after using them for 4 months and even if I get one, then I get ghosted.
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  215. I am a guy who turned 22 just 2 weeks ago and never even had a girlfriend and it's bothering me a lot. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago and both rejected me and I use 4 dating apps but hardly get matches and even they ghost me for no reason. I also follow some girls on Instagram and chat with like 4 of them. I knew 3 of them in my high school days and they are 20-22 year olds but they hardly chat much with me and their replies are slow. I also started chatting with another girl who is 18 turning 19 after 2 months and she was suggested to me on IG as we have a common follower and she said she is fine chatting with me but her replies are slow or one word maybe because she doesn't know me and we go to different college but still live in the same city.
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  216.  @yasminflower5140  I turned 23 just last month and still single. I did go on my first ever date 4 months ago at the age of 22 but she turned out to be toxic
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  217.  @BerryBeastie  So is it bad that I never had a gf at my age? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(20 now) and had my first hug too but sadly she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere and I also went out with a female friend 4 months ago who is also 23 and ate in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date. But almost 3 weeks ago, I got a new crush on this girl in a class where we go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 7 months ago but we are in different classrooms. She is also within the 21-23 age range and I had been too shy to talk to her but 2 weeks ago eventually with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was able to talk to her and again said her Hi last week. That classmate of her did say she is single but last week another of her classmate said that she probably has a boyfriend so that makes me feel confused whether to pursue her or not but I won't believe it unless she herself says she has a bf. 6 days ago, I again talked with her a bit and even we did handshake and she smiled too but I was definitely still sounding a bit nervous while talking with her. Sadly she still didn't follow me back or reply to my first dm to her on Instagram and its been 10 days already so idk whats up as she was still friendly with me 6 days ago. She is very very pretty almost model like and I just look average. Without my glasses, I look better but I have high power so should wear them all the time and look really nerdy and dorky in it so idk whether I even have a chance with her. I had crush on another girl in the same classes for the past 6-7 months and she also turned 23 last month. I liked her a lot and she even called me cute several times and I also gave her chocolate 2 weeks ago but was too shy to say her that I liked her but she probably knew I had a crush on her tho. Sadly she is ignoring me these days as she came to know about my new crush on this another girl. I also have been chatting with this girl on Instagram for the past 7 months and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other that time and now she is in a different college. She is 19(turning 20 in April) and she is super sweet and we are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs and chat daily talking about almost everything. We will meet soon too and go to eat somewhere but I am still single in the end.
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  218. Yeah but I really wanna feel loved. I just turned 22 yesterday and I never had a girlfriend before and its bothering me a lot now. Had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched by 18-23 age girls but they too ghost or reject me. I also follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now too but I only chat with 2 or 3 of them and they hardly chat much. I really wanna try my luck on them but we hardly chat much.
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  219. I am in the same boat as you but not by choice. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Got rejected by 2 girks in my college on whom I had a crush. Btw yesterday I heard a song which was released in 2009 when I was in 4th grade and it made me feel so nostalgic. It reminded me of a girl who was in the same grade as me but we weren't in the same class and she changed school after 10th grade. She is 21 or 22 now so the same age as me and saw her Instagram profile yesterday and saw her reels and she is super pretty. I followed her but she haven't followed me back yet. I wish she could be my girlfriend now but she is just too beautiful and I remember seeing her break up with a popular guy in school when we were in 10th grade so I have no chance with her as I used to get bullied so much in high school and was a loser. Also she probably already has a boyfriend. I wish she follow me back so I can chat with her and get to know her more.
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  220.  @squamish4244  yeah but my birthday isn't too far. It's in December just 3 days before Christmas and I will turn 23 that day so it's scary.
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  221.  @camadams9149  I am a 21 year old guy so would you say the same about me?
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  222.  @camadams9149  is it still fine for a 21 or 22 year old to date an 18 year old? Like I said I am 21 and I really like a girl in my college who is 18 and I will be turning 22 next month just 3 days before Christmas.
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  223. I am 21 turning 22 after 5 days and still no girlfriend and its freaking me out and I feel like my youth is over so imagine how I feel. You are still so young at 17.
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  224. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  225. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend either and got rejected by 2 of my crushes in my college recently but I can't stop thinking about a girl. Actually yesterday I heard a song which was released in 2009 and I felt nostalgic hearing it and it reminds me of a girl whom I knew since my school days. She was in the same grade as me but we weren't in the same class and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so the same age as me and I followed her on Instagram but she hasn't accepted my follow request yet. I wish she could be my girlfriend now but she is too pretty and I was considered a loser by most guys in my grade in high school so maybe she would still find me lame even though she probably didn't know me properly. She also probably has a boyfriend. I really wish she follow me back so I can chat with her and get to know her.
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  226. At least you had a girlfriend before. I am a guy who turned 23 just 6 days ago and I never had a girlfriend before. I did have my first ever date 3 months ago at the age of 22. She is 19(turning 20 next month) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and then we hugged and took pics and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she was really cute. But 2 weeks after the date, she became toxic to me and blocked me on all social media apps. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her. I also have crush on this another girl who is also 22 (turning 23 next month) in a class where I go for preparation of several exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college like 5 months ago and planning to study MBA next. I am generally shy near her and she is the one who starts conversations with me. She also has called me cute a several times and I pulled her cheeks twice too and gave her chocolate once but I see her being with her male friends a lot and now due to exams we aren't able to meet. 2 months ago, I went out with this another girl in the same class who is also 23. We are just friends tho and we roamed around the city that day and had lunch in a big restaurant. We also took several selfie and I pulled her cheeks as well but was shy to ask for a hug. She even called me an amazing person on my birthday 6 days ago. I also am following several girls from the institute I go to who are within 21-25 age range on Instagram but I am yet to send them a message. I also have been chatting with this another girl for several months on Instagram and she is 19(turning 20 in April) and we used to be in the same school but she was my junior so we didn't know each other during school days. She is very sweet and caring and chatting with her makes my mood much better. We send each other virtual hugs daily too and we are both foodies and like talking about food a lot. We plan to meet one day too and eat somewhere nice. But in the end, I am still single.
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  227. Same here. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 of my crushes in college recently and no luck on dating apps either. Got a match on tinder 4 days ago by a 22 year old girl and she hasn't replied to my message at all. I did see a girl in a class 2 weeks ago where I joined recently who is from a different college and she is 19-21 but can also be 18 but I was too shy to talk with her that day and I can again see her on 1st Nov and I am worried that I might still be shy.
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  228. I am turning 22 tomorrow and I never had a girlfriend before. 3 days ago, I was matched with another girl who is 18 turning 19 in Feb and she seemed quite interested in knowing me but when we shared about our hobbies and I told her about my singing which I upload on my youtube channel(not this one, another one). She said she was gonna check it and then I saw she unmatched me. I guess she found me ugly in my videos or my singing is bad. I got matched by another girl too who is 21 on that same day 3 days ago and we had a good chat too and even added each other on Instagram but she said I seem like an introvert and she didn't chat much with me. When I asked, she said she is a medical college student so she isn't that much free. Idk whether she lied or she is genuinely busy.
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  229. Damn man really in your 50s? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon but I just have a massive crush on one of them who is also 22 or maybe 23. She initiated convo with me saying hi and telling her name and asking mine last week Thursday(our first class there) and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. I really can't stop thinking about this girl as she is very pretty and she is very sweet as she tries to initiate convo with me asking whether I had lunch and today she also asked how far my home is from the classes but I just answer what she asks and I am too shy to initiate a convo further with her but I really wanna get to know her and idk whether it would be fine to message her on Whatsapp by seeing her number from our class whatsapp group. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also this new 22/23 year old on whom I newly got crush.
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  230.  @andenixa  Damn man really at 42? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes and some more questions about myself. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  231. So is it still a bad idea as an Indian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to India as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 6 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners for the past 3-4 days. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again 2 days ago. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again maybe tomorrow but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  232. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to even get my first kiss. I started going some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and planning to study MBA next and there I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23. She does sometimes try to initiate conversations with me or just say me hi with a smile daily but I just answer what she asks or just say her hi back and I am still shy to initiate any further conversations with her. 3 weeks ago she did say she finds me cute and that made me blush hard and my friends too teased me about it hehe and last week I also gave her a chocolate and she smiled and thanked me and we did a handshake but I feel worried as I see her having 3-4 male friends so I feel scared that what if she goes for either of them. Also next Saturday, me and this girl who is 19 year old did plan to meet up in Mcdonalds. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other those days. We had been chatting on Instagram for several months and finally decided to meet but I am nervous whether she is serious about the meet up or not because I got rejected by 4 girls previously. I am excited but also afraid as I have never really hanged out with a girl before. I hope the plan doesn't get cancelled. I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago who is 21 now turning 22 next month and she did agree to meet up one day but I still don't know when exactly we will meet because she isn't really active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to my messages.
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  233. Dude at least you are only 15 and have plenty of time. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and still no first kiss either. I will be turning 22 next month just 3 days before Christmas and it has been bothering me so much. You are still a kid and shouldn't worry too much about it.
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  234. Haha you are lucky. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had 2 crushes in college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches. The few 18-24 age girls who matches with me ends up ghosting me. Yesterday I saw a girl in a class where I newly joined for some courses. She is a college student too so she is like 19 or 20 or maybe 21(idk her exact age but I think she is 19-21 so within my age group) and she is beautiful and I might get a crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her. She will be going out of city for 2 weeks so she won't come for the classes for 2 weeks until 1st Nov so I can only see her again on 1st Nov.
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  235. I am a guy who turned 22 just 8 weeks ago and never even had a girlfriend before and its bothering me a lot. I use dating apps and get few matches but get ghosted. Recently got 2 matches, one of them is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April and they are sweet but still no plan of first date or anything. I also got rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago. I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are within 19-22 age range. I chat with 3 of those girls so far. One of them is 19 almost 20, another one is 20 and another is 22. The 19 and the 22 year old doesn't chat regularly with me whereas the 20 year old does chat with me regularly but she gets a bit uncomfortable when I compliment her or something so I am too scared to even ask her out as she definitely doesn't seem to want anything more than just friends
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  236. Damn man thats sad. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never kissed or hugged a girl in real life. Recently got rejected by 3 girls(rejected by 7 girls in total tho). Like I have been chatting with girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me but now we are in different colleges and asked out 3 of them after months of chatting but they 3 rejected me. One of them who is 19 turning 20 in August actually agreed to meet up but blocked me whereas another one who is 20 just rejected me saying she just isn't comfortable to meet up. But I am having some hope now as 2 days ago my childhood friend whom I asked out finally replied and gave a positive reply. She is 21 now turning 22 in a couple of months. We were very close childhood friends when we were in elementary school. She isn't that active on Instagram tho so she took almost a month to reply to the message in which I asked her out but she replied "yeah ok" to it so I asked her when we can meet up. I am a bit worried about her 2 words reply tho but at least its a positive one and I genuinely like her a lot so I hope I get lucky with her this time.
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  237. Wow man did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy and never had a girlfriend. I am getting upset at how unfair is everything for me. Girls are way too picky and they don't like me. I use dating apps and get almost no matches. Recently I got matched by a girl who is 20 and we had a great chat but she unmatched me for no reason at all. I also follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are usually 19-22 year olds now. But majority of them ghosted me but even the ones who were chatting me are kinda ignoring me just because I complimented them which is simple one. Only 4 girls chat with me and 2 of them both 20 year olds are sweet to me and we send hugs to each other but idk how things will be. I am getting angry at how these girls are. They only want the best looking guys and treats average guys like me like trash.
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  238. I am a 24 year old guy from West Bengal living in Bangalore and here in Bangalore there are many foreigners who are expats here as its a major IT hub. I have initiated conversations with 15 such expat women in this mall called UB City who were mostly white women but I was respectful and we had friendly conversations and I am a well educated guy about to finish my MBA. Just 5 days ago i initiated conversation with a German expat woman near UB City and we had a decent conversation. As long as you are respectful its fine.
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  239.  @walkourwoofers853  No I just do it but they seem to be smiling. But usually I am shy to approach girls in person and that's the biggest problem and I feel so behind at 23 for being single
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  240. So is it a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  241. I am a guy who turned 22 just over 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and never had a real kiss with a girl either except getting kissed on the cheek by a female friend when we both were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls and they end up ghosting me. Only one girl who is 19 on dating app didn't ghost me yet and we have things in common to chat about but idk. I also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now. I had the best chat with a girl who is 20 now and she was 2 years my junior in school. She is better than most of the girls I have chatted with and we had been chatting for the past 10 days. But 4 days ago I kinda messed up by giving her a cheesy compliment after only 6 days of chatting with her which made her a little uncomfortable but I apologized and said I only said it to make her smile so she forgive me and thanked me. We still chat but idk whether I can try out my luck on her or not.
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  242. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 8 days and its freaking me out as I am getting older and it feels as if my youth is over. I am still single too which is bothering me a lot.
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  243.  @micheas_westward  Haha yeah true. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after just 3 days and never had a girlfriend. I only talk with girls via chatting on social media and the dating apps I am on but not face to face. I got matched by few girls on dating apps who are 18-23 year olds but they end up ghosting or rejecting me. I also follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and only 2 or 3 of them chats with me.
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  244. I am a 22 year old guy(same age as your daughter) who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? It looks like she still sees me as only a friend but will it take longer for her to develop feelings for me or is 3-4 weeks already long enough? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  245. Why is being over 25 such a big deal even though late 20s is young too? Btw I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  246.  @fayelis  but I am 22 now so is it still bad? I still have 3 more years to go to be 25 so give your opinion. I am a student who will be graduating college in mid 2023 and then study MBA so I will still be a student for 2 more years.
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  247. Damn man really at 58? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend but I had my first ever date on 16th September 2023 at the age of 22. She is 19 and the date kinda went ok and I even got my first ever hug but she turned out to be toxic. 2 days ago after I messaged her, she replied very rudely telling me go to hell and some more mean things and told me to leave her alone forever and then blocked me on both Instagram and Whatsapp. She basically used me and mainly met me so I can take lots of pics of her and she can post them on Instagram. I also had to pay the entire amount in Mcdonald's where we ate and she didn't contribute anything and it was my dad's money I spent as I am still a student. This made me lose some hopes and trust. I have crush on 2 girls in a class where I go these days to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 2-3 months ago and planning to study MBA next. One of the girl is also 22 and another one is 23 or 24 but after this I am afraid that they might do the same too. I heard another girl in the class who is 22 too likes me but I guess she is pranking or something as she kinda looks like a model so I have no chance with her. She tries to talk to me but I am kinda shy near girls so we don't talk much.
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  248. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 6 days and its been bothering me that I still don't have a girlfriend. I am on dating apps but only got some matches. Most of these matches are 18-23 year old girls and they end up ghosting or rejecting me. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me as well. I follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now and I even chat with some of them but many times, they kinda ignore my messages too for a day or so.
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  249.  @tino897  I am a grown adult and still have no girlfriend and that makes me sad. Sadly I am a 21 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 but both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot and she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted. 2 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined for some courses. She is a college student too from a different college and she is 19 or 20 or maybe 21(idk her exact age yet but she is definitely 19-21). She is beautiful and I might get a crush on her but that day I didn't have the confidence to initiate a convo with her and I won't be able to meet her for 2 weeks and I have to wait till 1st Nov as she is going out of city for 2 weeks and will come to classes from 1st Nov.
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  250. I am also a shy person and kinda socially awkward. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed so far. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted by the girls and one 20 year old girl who matched with me on one of the dating app even rejected me because she only prefers bad guys. Btw a week ago, I did see a girl in a class where I joined recently. She is also a college student from a different college and she is definitely 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too and I think I got a little crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her that day. I haven't been able to see her after that as she is out of city for 2 weeks and will come for classes again on 1st Nov but idk whether she would want me as she is from a different college and also I am a bit shy.
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  251.  @SniperFoxx420  Why should I cry? How old are you? Why are you being mean? I said I have a new crush so why should I cry?
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  252.  @veep0stal  OH you are young. I am 21 and never had a girlfriend and I want a girl in the 18 to 28 age range only as they are close in age to me.
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  253. Because I missed out on young love and I am well into my 20s now and I feel lonely. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. After having no luck with 2 girls in my college and 2 girls whom I knew since my high school days and also no luck on dating apps, finally 5 days ago, a girl matched with me on one of the dating apps and for the first time, I had a decent chat with a girl on dating app without getting ghosted. She is a 19 year old girl and for the past 5 days, the chats were decent enough. We live in the same city but different college and different course too. Do you think this time I will at least get my first kiss? I also get worried thinking what if she ends up ghosting me too or wouldn't want me or she would get bored of me.
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  254. Lucky dude. I am 21 turning 22 after 5 days and still no girlfriend. I just get rejected and ghosted by girls on dating apps and also got rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago.
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  255. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. I had crush on 2 girls in college recently but both rejected me. I use dating apps but having no luck either. I got 2 matches recently on tinder. One of the match is 22 years old and the other match is 20 years old who matched with me today but both of them never replied to my message yet. 2 weeks ago, I did see a girl in a class I joined recently for some classes. She is from a different college tho and she is definitely 19-21 years old but she can be 18 too and I was too shy to talk with her that day. I can again see her on 1st Nov but I am scared that I might still be shy near her.
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  256. Is it still a bad idea as an Asian student to want to date a Westerner who came to my country as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  257. So is it bad that I am still single? I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend so imagine how I feel. Got rejected by 3 girls so far recently and 2 were from my college and another was by a 19 year old girl who matched with me on a dating app and she literally insulted me. I tried following some girls on Instagram who were shown as suggested profiles and I knew those girls in my high school days. One of the girl even followed me back and she is also 21 now so the same age as me. I knew her too in high school and we were in the same grade but weren't classmates. I didn't message her yet because I just don't know what to write to her because we never really interacted in high school as we weren't classmates.
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  258. I already feel running out of time at my age. I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago. She was 19(turned 20 a couple of weeks ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and got my first hug but yet to get my first kiss and I pulled her cheeks a lot but 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically used me for free lunch and to take pics of her which she can post on social media. I also have a big crush on this girl who is in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA. She also turned 23 just 2 weeks ago and she has been my crush for 6 months. She has called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too and 3 days ago I even gave her a chocolate but I am shy near her and girls in general in person so she is the one who initiates convos with me and she has some male friends too so I feel worried. Last week, I got a new crush on this another girl in the same institute who is also within 21-23 age range and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen. We aren't in the same classrooms and I have been too shy to approach her but yesterday finally with the help of my friends and one of her classmate, I did approach her and was able to talk to her asking each other's names and which classroom we are in but I am afraid that she is probably out of my league but her classmate said she is single but idk whether my nervousness was a turnoff for her and I am still nervous about talking with her next time again. 3-4 months ago, I also went out with a female friend in the same class in that institute who is also 23 and we had a lunch in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date and we had fun and might go out again. For the past 7 months, I also have been chatting on Instagram with this another girl who is 19(turning 20 in April). She used to be in the same school as me but didn't know each other in school days. We are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs daily in the chats and plan to meet up to eat somewhere too and she is very sweet. Sadly in the end I am still single.
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  259. Damn man really at 45? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes and some more questions about myself. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  260. Is it still bad if he is 22 and in the same boat? I am a guy who turned 22 exactly 2 weeks ago and I never had a girlfriend and it's bothering me a lot. I am in last year of college who will be graduating in mid 2023 and then get into a grad school so I will be a student for 2 more years. I had crush on 2 girls in my college but both rejected me. I use dating apps and get matched by 18-23 age girls but they end up ghosting or unmatching me. I also follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days. I only chat with 4 of them. 3 of them are 20-22 year olds and another one is an 18-19 year old girl who was suggested to me on IG as we both have a common follower. Idk her really and we go to different college but same city and she said she is fine with chatting with me but her replies are short or one word so far and the other ones aren't chatting much with me either.
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  261. Is it still a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 4 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  262. Damn man really at 63? Did you have a gf before or have you dated before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and no first kiss yet etiher. After getting rejected by 3 girls recently, I asked out my childhood friend on 6th May 2023 via Instagram and she is 21 year old now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it on 3rd June but she replied yeah ok which is a positive one but she is again offline and didn't reply yet about when we can meet up. I also had chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school but we didn't know each other those days and now we chat daily too about everything and send each other virtual hugs too but we are in different colleges now. Her college is super near to my home tho so can I ask her out even though my childhood friend didn't reject me and would she date someone like me who isn't her college? I like both of them honestly now.
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  263.  @ilsanking4334  whats wrong in that? She is 20 and I am 21 so we are about the same age and both of us are adults.
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  264. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows but I wear glasses. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 4 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 2 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  265. How come at 49? I am 24 and never had a gf. I am just in my final semester of my MBA and I am an intern now in a Startup which will convert to full time in August and living in Bangalore in India but I am Bengali Indian. I was always shy to talk with girls and only started fully socializing with girls last year after entering my 2nd year (3rd sem) of MBA. Now as I am interning in a young startup, I get to meet plenty of girls in my age group too (21–26 range). I am socializing daily with many female interns now and approaching them but they already have their circle of friends and there isn’t a proper cafeteria or place to socialize during breaks in our office and many go out with their friends who are from their college or familiar friends making socializing with girls harder as I directly approaching them independently when I see them. One girl who is 21-22 and an intern too even gave her number to me 2 days ago but even she is mostly with her friends. Its hard in a collectivist country like India even though I gained a lot of confidence when it comes to approaching and talking to girls.
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  266. So men can't even open up their emotions? BTW I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and have always been shy near girls and only recently I am talking some girls in my University where I am studying MBA now and I have only been on 1 first date last year September, only hugged 2 girls in person and just pinched cheeks of one of my crush and still haven't been kissed. I am talking with some girls in my University but there is this girl with whom things have been a bit turbulent. She is 22 and my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year of MBA a month ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far but all our in person conversations were positive and she even smiled at times while talking. She is an introvert similar to me and an introvert too so we got along well but recently I had to go to my hometown Siliguri for 8-9 days and suddenly she unfollowed me on Instagram 5-6 days ago right after viewing my stories so I am confused what happened and sad as we only had positive conversations with her in person so far. I asked my close male friend for an advice and he suggested me to reach out to her in person and clarify any misunderstanding by keeping the conversation light at first so I will do it tomorrow when I meet her in person as I am back to Bangalore now but I am so nervous about it.
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  267. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend and didn't even get my first kiss yet and I feel lonely and down. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One of them is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I have been using 3 dating apps for 4 months but barely getting any matches at all and one 20 year old girl who matched with me 2 months ago rejected me saying she only prefers bad guys and that I am too nice for her. About 2 weeks ago, I saw another girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is from a different college tho and she is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but can be 18 too as idk her real age but I was too shy to even say her a hi that day and now I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she went out of city for 2 weeks and I am afraid that she might reject me as well especially because we are from different college.
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  268.  @pigsrock93  it sucks man. Even dating apps aren't giving me luck. Got 2 matches recently on tinder. A 22 year old girl matched with me on tinder 4 days ago and I messaged her but no reply yet. Today another girl who is 20 matched with me and even she isn't replying to my message. I wonder why they matched with me just to ghost me. I am 21 so both are pretty much the same age as me and Gen Z but still ignoring me.
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  269.  @kattodoggo3868  its not only dating apps. Nothing works. I heard a song 4 days ago which reminds me of a girl. We were in the same school and same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is 21 or maybe 22 now and I am also 21 so we are the same age too. I sent her a follow request on Instagram and yesterday I saw she declined or rejected the follow request I sent her. I even messaged her saying her in detail that we were in the same school and grade but she haven't replied to it either. I am really down since yesterday. I really wish she could be my girlfriend.
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  270. Wow man are you really 53 and never had a girlfriend? I am a 22 year old guy and never even had any girlfriend. I use dating apps, message girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but no luck at all. The only girl who is nice and sweet to me is a 20 year old girl with whom I had been chatting on Instagram for almost a month. We were in the same school but now in different college in the same city. She is very sweet and makes me blush and we send each other hugs. But a couple of weeks ago she said she has a boyfriend which confuses me because she is still being flirty to me calling me cute and we send each other hugs and when I say her that I am sad about something, she says sweet things and makes me smile and we also talk about hugging one day for real so idk whether she just lied that she has a boyfriend.
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  271. At least you had people asking you out whereas no one really asked me out at all. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  272. I am a guy who turned 22 just 2 weeks ago and I never had a girlfriend and it's already bothering me. I had crush on 2 girls in my college and both rejected me. I also use dating apps for months and get matches by 18-24 age girls and they all end up ghosting or unmatching me. I also follow some girls on Instagram and chat with 4 of them. I knew 3 of them in my high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds and another one is an 18-19 year old girl who was suggested to me on IG as we have a common follower and she is still fine chatting with me and followed me back but even she isn't chatting with me at all for the past 3 days and even the other 3 also are chatting rarely with me. These girls go to different colleges than me but we still live in the same city.
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  273. Is 21 or 22 year old dating an 18 or 19 year old fine?
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  274. So is it a bad idea as an Asian student to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  275. BTW Is it still fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 10 days ago, I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly last week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women and not today either. The only foreigner I saw last week was a black African guy 3 days ago. I really hope I meet one this week but I just have no idea what to talk with them about. Today actually I went to eat in this Thai restaurant in our city Bangalore and one of the female staff of the restaurant wore a more traditional Thai dress and I am sure she is Thai judging by her facial features and structures and she seemed to be in her 20s too or maybe even 30s and I also saw another South East Asian looking woman with blonde hair outside the restaurant but idk whether she is Thai or just from north eastern part of India where people look South East Asian. I could have started a conversation with them asking whether they are from Thailand or not but I was shy again. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked last week briefly too. So if I go to that restaurant again, should I try to get to know that Thai woman who is the restaurant staff or that other blonde South East Asian looking woman?
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  276. Does it mean I have no chance as an Indian guy to date a foreign woman? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. 2 days ago, I went to this really very posh area of our city and saw some foreign women who were all white blonde European who are expats in my city. I am usually shy but this time I tried cold approaching 2 of them by saying them excuse me to initiate a conversation the same way done in the video. The 1st woman who looked about 27-35 age range was wearing earphones so she never noticed me. The 2nd woman looked older probably in her late 30s or even early 40s and she wasn't even wearing earphones but she still didn't even look at me when I said her excuse me. I saw another younger white blonde woman who was definitely in her mid or late 20s but she was on a bicycle so I had no chance. I even saw a Hispanic and East Asian woman in another part of the city 2 weeks ago but was shy to talk to them. The only time this cold approach worked was 2 months ago with a French woman near my University where I am studying MBA but the conversation was brief and I never met her again.
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  277. Damn man really at 48? Thats too old tho, did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 23 just over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date a bit over 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 a week ago) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and had my first hug ever from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she is really cute. 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean and toxic to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. For the past 6 months, I also have been crushing on this girl in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA next. She also just turned 23 over a week ago and she has called me cute before and I pulled her cheeks twice too but I am usually shy near girls in person so she is the one who usually initiates conversations with me and its usually short as I have nothing more to say as an introvert. I do see her with some male friends so that makes me worried thinking what if she goes for either of them. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in that same class and she is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends. We just roamed around our city and then had lunch in a big restaurant and had lots of fun. I did pull her cheeks once while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. We might go out again in Feb probably. But yesterday I got a new crush(yeah I am a mess haha) on this another girl who is also 22 or 23 in the same institute but different classrooms and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen but I was again shy to approach her but I got to know her name and followed her on Instagram but she is yet to accept it and maybe then I will message her after 2-3 days but its possible that she probably has a boyfriend too. I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram for over 6 months. She is 19(turning 20 in April). We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since July 2023. We are planning to meet up too and eat somewhere as we are both foodies and we send each other virtual hugs in the chats daily and she is really sweet too. But in the end I am still single.
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  278. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows but also I wear glasses. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 5 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 3 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  279. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago and got rejected. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  280. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 8 days and its freaking me out as I am getting older and it feels as if my youth is over. I am still single too which is bothering me a lot.
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  281. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and it bothers me a lot. Btw is a month long enough to know whether someone is interested in me or not? I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up she haven't replied yet about when we can meet. I have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. We are in different colleges now but we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school. So we only have been getting to know each other for a bit over a month. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily and talk about literally everything and we are both foodies too and send each other virtual hugs but there isn't any flirting in the chats yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but is 1 month already long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not or does it take longer?
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  282.  @annabb19  btw is 22 a young adult or just an adult? I am a guy who just turned 22 a week ago so would you call me a young man or just a man?
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  283. Is 7 rejections still bad enough? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. I got rejected by 3 girls very recently(I got rejected by 7 girls so far in total). I got blocked by 2 of them on Instagram after I asked them out and they were in the same school as me too and one of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up but blocked me after few days. Today I tried asking out another girl who is 20 and she too was in the same school as me and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she too rejected me saying that I am nice but she isn't comfortable with meeting up with me so we can't meet up and she unfollowed me on Instagram. But there is still some hope as I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months and I genuinely like her too and we used to be very close friends when we were both in elementary school but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to my message yet. I am still waiting for her reply and I am honestly expecting a positive reply but idk.
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  284. Is 22 or 23 still kinda late to get first girlfriend? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but went on my first ever date on 16th September 2023 which was just a bit over a month ago. She is 19 and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and we hugged and I was pinching her cheeks a lot. But 2 weeks after the date, she became toxic after I messaged her saying me to go to hell and said swear words and then blocked me on all social media apps. It looks like she just used me for free lunch and to take pics of her so she can post them on Instagram. I lost some hope. But almost 2 weeks ago, I went out with this another girl who is also either 22 or 23 now. She is in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3-4 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had a great day and I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie and had lunch in a restaurant too. We are just friends tho and we might again go out on 22nd November. I also have big crush on this another girl in the same class who is also 22. I am kinda shy near her and usually she is the one who initiates conversations with me but 3 weeks ago she asked me how was she looking and I said she is cute and I pinched her cheeks too and she blushed a bit. Nowadays I noticed she smiles at me whenever I look at her and tells her friend about me while looking at me and smiling. But she has several male friends so idk whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  285. Wow you are 30 and never had a boyfriend? I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend either. You can go for guys in their early 20s like me because at your age most men your age are more experienced than you whereas we both are equally inexperienced in relationships. Even though 28 is the max I would go for, I can still date a 30 year old as long as she is single and sweet.
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  286. And you are about 50 years older than me haha. I turned 23 just a bit over a month ago.
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  287. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 8 days and its been bothering me that I still don't have a girlfriend. I am on dating apps but only got some matches. Most of these matches are 18-23 year old girls and they end up ghosting or rejecting me. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me as well. I follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now and I even chat with some of them but many times, they kinda ignore my messages too for a day or so.
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  288. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 8 days and its been bothering me that I still don't have a girlfriend. I am on dating apps but only got some matches. Most of these matches are 18-23 year old girls and they end up ghosting or rejecting me. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me as well. I follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now and I even chat with some of them but many times, they kinda ignore my messages too for a day or so.
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  289. Thats true. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and I tried to connect with girls whom I knew in my high school days by following them on IG but they didn't even accept my follow request and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls who matches with me on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me or end up ghosting me and one 19 year old girl who matched with me turned out to be very mean to me yesterday and insulted me after I tried to ask her out after chatting with her for over a week and she literally called me ugly and said no girl would want me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  290. Wow man really at 41? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before, only been on 1 first date months ago at the age of 22 and then hanged out with a female friend and hugged only 2 girls in person and never been kissed. I am studying MBA now and had a few crushes in my 1st year of MBA which didn't work but now 2nd year just started for me and I finally initiated conversation with 8 girls in these 3 days after University reopened. One of them(lets call her D) is also within 21-23 age range and is my junior who is in 1st year of her MBA and we have been having good conversations and yesterday we followed each other on Instagram too and yesterday met another girl(lets call her R) who is in my University too in my same year of MBA and also within 22-24 age range and we were walking and talking while going to University and then while going to the bus stop too we went together and she let me under her umbrella too as it was raining. So both D and R had been nice and friendly to me so far. Its a big improvement as I was shy during school days and avoided talking to girls due to facing severe bullying in school. Not only that I also talked with foreign women in our city Bangalore by initiating conversations with them. As Bangalore is a major metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. I talked with 3 expat women so far. Almost 5 months ago was with a French woman who was about 22-26 age range and then 2 months ago was with a German woman who was probably anywhere within 26-35 age range. But today I had the best conversation with an American woman in the cafe in this big shopping complex in the most upscale area of our city. She is an expat too and she is 29 and she was really friendly to me and was comfortable talking with me and we had a long conversation. I asked for her Instagram but unfortunately she said she doesn't even use Insta so we couldn't connect with each other but I really hope I get to meet her again as she is really pretty too but I look nerdy in my glasses too.
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  291. Is it still kinda late at my age? I am a guy who turned 23 just over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date a bit over 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 a week ago) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and had my first hug ever from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she is really cute. 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean and toxic to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. For the past 6 months, I also have been crushing on this girl in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA next. She also just turned 23 over a week ago and she has called me cute before and I pulled her cheeks twice too but I am usually shy near girls in person so she is the one who usually initiates conversations with me and its usually short as I have nothing more to say as an introvert. I do see her with some male friends so that makes me worried thinking what if she goes for either of them. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in that same class and she is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends. We just roamed around our city and then had lunch in a big restaurant and had lots of fun. I did pull her cheeks once while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. We might go out again in Feb probably. But today I got a new crush(yeah I am a mess haha) on this another girl who is also 22 or 23 in the same institute but different classrooms and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen but I was again shy to approach her but I got to know her name and followed her on Instagram but she is yet to accept it and maybe then I will message her after 2-3 days but its possible that she probably has a boyfriend too. I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram for over 6 months. She is 19(turning 20 in April). We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since July 2023. We are planning to meet up too and eat somewhere as we are both foodies and we send each other virtual hugs in the chats daily and she is really sweet too. But in the end I am still single.
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  292. @Matt-ru5rw Are you even a man or a woman? BTW I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 6 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners for the past 3-4 days. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again 2 days ago. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again maybe tomorrow but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  293. Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and never had a girlfriend before and only had my first ever date 5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(20 now) and had my first ever hug but she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere. 2 weeks ago, I got a new crush on this girl in the classes where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I graduated college about 6-7 months ago, but she is in another classroom. She is within the 21-23 age range and I was really shy to talk her but last week I did talk a bit to her with the help of my friends and one of her classmate. Her classmate said she is single so I was happy and said her Hi again and she too smiled and said me Hi back. But yesterday one of her another classmate said that she probably has a boyfriend who isn't in the institute where I go for classes. Idk whether to believe it or not unless she herself says she has a boyfriend. I sent her a follow request on Instagram and a dm too but no reply yet and its been a day already so I have been feeling down. Whats worse is I had crush on this another girl in our class there who also turned 23 last month and she has called me cute and i gave her chocolates too but was too shy to confess it to her. Now she is ignoring me and not talking with me after she came to know about my new crush on this other girl. What sucks is many girls in the institute are committed and its risky to approach them because yesterday I messaged another girl on Instagram and it was a normal chat but her boyfriend threatened me (I didn't know she had a bf) and I had to apologize. It makes me sad how most girls are taken and its hard to find someone who is single even at my age 23.
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  294. What age range guys would you prefer to date? I am asking because I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and last week got matched by a 19 year old girl on one of the dating apps I use. We live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat so far. But I will be turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas whereas her birthday is in June so she will still be 19 for 6 months even after I turn 22. Is it fine for a 21-22 year old guy to date an 18 or even a 19 year old girl?
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  295.  @ItsMeggy04  I just call any females under 30 as girls
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  296. ​ @M.F.V01 why will I go to jail if I like foreign women who are adults? She is French and I am an Indian and we are around the same age especially if she is a masters student making her 22-26 range and I am 23 and soon to be an MBA student too.
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  297. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something even though I am just 23? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows but also I wear glasses. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 5 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 3 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  298. You at least had girls interested in you. I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend but I have been on my first ever date and got my first ever hug almost 8 months ago at the age of 22 but didn't work out. Then got ignored or rejected by several of my crushes. My current crush is in my University where are both MBA 1st year students and graduated college 10 months ago and She is also within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like. She is in a different classroom so our conversations were mostly brief but I managed to get her number and over a week ago, I even hugged her for the first time as it was our last exams and we won't be able to meet for 3 months as we have to complete an internship within May to July and our next semester classes will start in August. She did give an awkward smile when I hugged her. I literally wrapped her in my arms whereas she didn't really wrap me in her arms but she pat my back once and said ok i have to study for exam so bye. I also said her bye. It was my 2nd time I hugged a girl in person and I was so happy but I was worried whether she was comfortable enough or not but I called her on phone 3 days ago and she picked the call and we had a normal conversation in phone. I still don't whether she likes me back or not.
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  299. Damn man. I am in the same boat as you. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never kissed before but I had my first ever date last month with this girl. She is 19 and we went to the mall. We hugged too and I pinched her cheeks a lot but she turned out to be toxic 2 weeks after the date and replied rudely to my messages and blocked me. She basically used me for free lunch and taking pics of her so she can post them on Instagram. But last Saturday I went out with another girl who is also either 22 or 23 now. She is in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We are just friends but we had a great day that day and had lunch. I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie but was a bit shy to ask for a hug but we might go out again next month. I also have crush on this another girl in the same class who is also 22. She too tries to initiate conversations with me but I am kinda shy in front of her. But 2-3 weeks ago, she asked me how she was looking and I said she looked cute and pinched her cheeks and she blushed a bit. Sadly I am still single tho.
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  300. I can understand how you feel man. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend. Btw is it fine for me to think about trying my luck on a girl who was my childhood friend? There is a girl named Aishu who was my close friend when we were in elementary school and we were neighbors too so we used to often study together, play together, make silly drawings together etc and even fight sometimes but again become friends. But in 2011, my parents bought a new apartment so we came to a different area, so me and Aishu never really talked with each other since 2011. Now we are both 21 and I saw her on Instagram few days ago and I tried following her but she isn't even accepting my follow request and idk why and it makes me sad. I really wanna talk with her, hug her and kiss her but I feel like it won't happen.
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  301. Wow dude you are Indian and lost it? How? India is much more conservative than the West. I am also an Indian and I am a 21 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend. Most Indian parents don't like if their son or daughter has a girlfriend or a boyfriend. I was pretty adamant last year that I will only date an American or European girl but it sucks that I might have to wait like 2 years before I can move abroad. Thankfully I still live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city in India so there is some hope as metropolitan cities are less conservative than the smaller cities and towns.
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  302. Woah 52 dating someone 22? Btw do you think it would be fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreign woman who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India. I am a well educated guy who completed his bachelor's in electronics engineering 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes now and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5. I already have crush on a girl in the classes where I go who is also an Indian and in the 21-23 age and we have brief conversations but idk how much chance i have with her as she is very pretty almost model like. I also got ghosted very recently by another girl whom I liked too and she is 19 turning 20 in 3 weeks and an Indian too and I knew her for almost 9 months. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, I do see foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians around the classes I go. Last week I did try to initiate a conversation with this white woman who is from France. We had a brief conversation and she is a student most likely a foreign exchange student who came to this University in Bangalore. She is definitely within 20-25 age range or more like 22-26 if she is a masters student because that University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees. We also said each other it was nice to meet you. She seemed friendly and I was nice and respectful to her too but this week I didn't see that French woman again in that area. Idk whether its because of her University timing or she probably went back to France. I wanted to get to know her more. But if I meet her again, should I again try to talk to her? Also if I see another foreign woman, should I try to talk to her too and get to know her or would she find it bad?
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  303. BTW Is it still fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 10 days ago, I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly last week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women and not today either. The only foreigner I saw last week was a black African guy 3 days ago. I really hope I meet one this week but I just have no idea what to talk with them about. Today actually I went to eat in this Thai restaurant in our city Bangalore and one of the female staff of the restaurant wore a more traditional Thai dress and I am sure she is Thai judging by her facial features and structures and she seemed to be in her 20s too or maybe even 30s and I also saw another South East Asian looking woman with blonde hair outside the restaurant but idk whether she is Thai or just from north eastern part of India where people look South East Asian. I could have started a conversation with them asking whether they are from Thailand or not but I was shy again. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked last week briefly too. So if I go to that restaurant again, should I try to get to know that Thai woman who is the restaurant staff or that other blonde South East Asian looking woman?
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  304. BTW Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 10 days ago, I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly last week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women and not today either. The only foreigner I saw last week was a black African guy 3 days ago. I really hope I meet one this week but I just have no idea what to talk with them about. Today actually I went to eat in this Thai restaurant in our city Bangalore and one of the female staff of the restaurant wore a more traditional Thai dress and I am sure she is Thai judging by her facial features and structures and she seemed to be in her 20s too or maybe even 30s and I also saw another South East Asian looking woman with blonde hair outside the restaurant but idk whether she is Thai or just from north eastern part of India where people look South East Asian. I could have started a conversation with them asking whether they are from Thailand or not but I was shy again. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked last week briefly too. So if I go to that restaurant again, should I try to get to know that Thai woman who is the restaurant staff or that other blonde South East Asian looking woman?
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  305. Would you still consider 22 or 23 late too to get your first gf? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but went on my first ever date on 16th September 2023 which was just a bit over a month ago. She is 19 and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and we hugged and I was pinching her cheeks a lot. But 2 weeks after the date, she became toxic after I messaged her saying me to go to hell and said swear words and then blocked me on all social media apps. It looks like she just used me for free lunch and to take pics of her so she can post them on Instagram. I lost some hope. But almost 2 weeks ago, I went out with this another girl who is also either 22 or 23 now. She is in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3-4 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had a great day and I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie and had lunch in a restaurant too. We are just friends tho and we might again go out on 22nd November. I also have big crush on this another girl in the same class who is also 22. I am kinda shy near her and usually she is the one who initiates conversations with me but 3 weeks ago she asked me how was she looking and I said she is cute and I pinched her cheeks too and she blushed a bit. Nowadays I noticed she smiles at me whenever I look at her and tells her friend about me while looking at me and smiling. But she has several male friends so idk whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  306. Yeah true. BTW is it a bad thing if a girl has many male friends her college and we go to different colleges? I am a guy who just turned 22 last week and I never had a gf before. I follow some girls on Instagram and chat with 4 of them. 3 of them are 20-22 year olds and I knew them in high school days and one of them is 18-19 year old who was suggested to me on IG as we have a common follower. Those girls go to different colleges compared to me and one of the 21-22 year old has freshly graduated college too. They all have many male friends too in their college and they all hang out often. Does it mean I have no chance with them?
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  307. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 8 days and its freaking me out as I am getting older and it feels as if my youth is over. I am still single too which is bothering me a lot.
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  308. Dude not everyone has luck with dating apps. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed so far. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted by the girls and one 20 year old girl who matched with me on one of the dating app even rejected me because she only prefers bad guys. Btw a week ago, I did see a girl in a class where I joined recently. She is also a college student from a different college and she is definitely 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too and I think I got a little crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her that day. I haven't been able to see her after that as she is out of city for 2 weeks and will come for classes again on 1st Nov but idk whether she would want me as she is from a different college and also I am a bit shy.
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  309. This is how sadly our generation young men are facing. I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and barely been on 1 first date and only hugged 2 girls in person so far and never been kissed. I had always been very shy near girls due to facing severe bullying and isolation in school so I even avoided talking with girls and then studied engineering in a college which had a skewed gender ratio. Now I am studying MBA and only recently I am talking with girls and overcame my shyness so it took me till 22-23 to finally come out of my shyness. I had a crush last year during my starting of my MBA but I messed up and currently like 2 girls in my MBA. One of them (lets call her D)(22F) is my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year 3-4 weeks ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far. She is a Punjabi girl and I am Bengali. She is an introvert similar to me and soft spoken and I got her Instagram too and we had some decent conversation in person and even sent her a funny relatable meme on Instagram too. Another one is a girl(Lets call her I)(22-24F) who is in the same year of MBA as me but different sections and we only talked in person for 5-6 days so far. She is also a North Indian from Lucknow who came to Bangalore for her MBA and I really like her confident nature while talking and she is beautiful too. We had a good conversation on our 1st interaction and she even shared her umbrella with me when it rained but our next conversations were short as she is accompanied by her friends or keeps seeing her mobile even though she smiles and says me Hi back. I even said her hope she isn't angry on me but she made a surprised expression and said "No not at all. Why?" I am overthinking a lot whether she is interested in talking to me or not. Plus I am currently in my hometown Siliguri for vacation too for a week so I am worried when D or I and even the other girls with whom I talk, will talk to me again after I return to Bangalore and go to college again as there had been an 8-9 days gap in communication because of the trip and we are all in early stages of getting to know each other. Plus as they aren't my classmates, they are in more close proximity to their male classmates than to me. I just recently came out of this shyness so completely clueless about how to make my move on girls and nervous about asking them out and feel that she might not be interested.
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  310. In your opinion, is 22 too old for 18? I am a 21 year old guy and will be turning 22 on 22nd December and few days ago I was matched with an 18 year old girl and we had a nice chat. Yesterday we added each other on Instagram and I was complimenting her too but she said she won't date me because I am not her type and my personality is opposite of what she is looking for and suddenly she started saying she won't date someone 4 years older than her and said I am too old for her. How is 22 too old for 18? I am not even 22 yet. Anyways I found out, she doesn't even live in my city but still why did she match with me if my age was a problem? My age 21 is clearly written on my profile.
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  311. I am 21 and really like a girl who is 18 and I will be turning 22 this December. Is it fine?
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  312.  @buzzlightyearandco  So even I can't date an 18 year old girl even at 21-22? It's just a 3-4 year age gap which isn't even an age gap. She will be 19 soon too. Is 19 and 22 bad too?
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  313. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far(2 from my college and another from a dating app who insulted me too). I tried following some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school but only 3 of them followed me back and I still didn't message them yet as idk what to write and they are also 21-22 year olds. But I am sad that the girl named Britney didn't accept my follow request yet. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and she is very pretty and I wish she follow me back because I think I again got a crush on her just seeing her profile pic on IG and she is even prettier now at 21.
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  314.  @samgaming0626  why are you calling me an elder? 3 year age gap is nothing when both are adults and we are both so close in age and match in maturity. The age gap would have been problematic if it was a 25 year old dating an 18 year old because 25 year olds have been out of college for few years and working whereas I am 22 and still a student just like her. I am just her senior in college. 22 year old dating an 18/19 year old is normal as they are all college age.
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  315.  @samgaming0626  yeah I understood what you meant by calling me an elder. It just surprises me how 5+ years ago, I was a kid compared to 18 year olds as I was a minor and 18 year olds used to call me kids whereas now at 22, I am 4 years older than 18 year olds. It surprises me that I am even older than 20 year olds by 2 years. Even the fact that I am a year older than 21 year olds kinda makes me feel surprised at times. At least I am still younger than 25 year olds but it will change after 3 years.
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  316. is it still a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 5 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners for the past 2-3 days. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  317. I am a guy who turned 23 just over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date a bit over 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 a week ago) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and had my first hug ever from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she is really cute. 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean and toxic to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. For the past 6 months, I also have been crushing on this girl in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA next. She also just turned 23 over a week ago and she has called me cute before and I pulled her cheeks twice too but I am usually shy near girls in person so she is the one who usually initiates conversations with me and its usually short as I have nothing more to say as an introvert. I do see her with some male friends so that makes me worried thinking what if she goes for either of them. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in that same class and she is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends. We just roamed around our city and then had lunch in a big restaurant and had lots of fun. I did pull her cheeks once while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. We might go out again in Feb probably. But today I got a new crush(yeah I am a mess haha) on this another girl who is also 22 or 23 in the same institute but different classrooms and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen but I was again shy to approach her but I got to know her name and followed her on Instagram but she is yet to accept it and maybe then I will message her after 2-3 days. I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram for over 6 months. She is 19(turning 20 in April). We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since July 2023. We are planning to meet up too and eat somewhere as we are both foodies and we send each other virtual hugs in the chats daily and she is really sweet too. But in the end I am still single.
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  318.  @harunoderso  what's bad in that? She is 18 and I am 21 so close enough in age. Also her name shows she is an Indian and even I am an Indian too.
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  319. Does it mean I still stand a chance as an Indian guy to date a foreign woman? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. 2 days ago, I went to this really very posh area of our city and saw some foreign women who were all white blonde European who are expats in my city. I am usually shy but this time I tried cold approaching 2 of them by saying them excuse me to initiate a conversation the same way done in the video. The 1st woman who looked about 27-35 age range was wearing earphones so she never noticed me. The 2nd woman looked older probably in her late 30s or even early 40s and she wasn't even wearing earphones but she still didn't even look at me when I said her excuse me. I saw another younger white blonde woman who was definitely in her mid or late 20s but she was on a bicycle so I had no chance. I even saw a Hispanic and East Asian woman in another part of the city 2 weeks ago but was shy to talk to them. The only time this cold approach worked was 2 months ago with a French woman near my University where I am studying MBA but the conversation was brief and I never met her again.
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  320. Wow man did you have a gf before? I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. After having no luck with 2 girls in my college and 2 girls whom I knew since my high school days and also no luck on dating apps, finally 3 days ago, a girl matched with me on one of the dating apps and for the first time, I had a decent chat with a girl on dating app without getting ghosted. She is a 19 year old girl and for the past 3-4 days, the chats were decent enough. We live in the same city but different college and different course too. Do you think this time I will at least get my first kiss? I also get worried thinking what if she ends up ghosting me too or wouldn't want me.
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  321.  @Dan-di9jd  Thanks man. BTW would you still call this an online relationship even though we live in the same city so we have a chance of meeting in real life? This won't be a long distance relationship tho as we are in the same city.
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  322. But its so hard for me. BTW are introvert guys a turn off for girls? I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after just 2 days and I never had a girlfriend before and after getting ghosted and rejected by girls on dating apps and also in college, finally 2 days ago I was matched with a girl on dating app who seemed much better than my previous matches. She is also 21 and she seemed interested in knowing me too and we talked about many things and yesterday we added each other on Instagram, but she said judging by my IG profile, she can tell that I am an introvert. Yeah I am an introvert and I am scared that it might be a turn off for her and she might ghost me as well.
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  323. I feel the same as you but I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  324. I am 21 at the moment and will be graduating college next year and never had a girlfriend but what makes me sad is that I could never experience young love and still didn't get my first kiss yet. I feel envious seeing couples who are in their 20s too or even worse younger than me. BTW would you still call it as young love if I get a girlfriend now?
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  325. Thats sad. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and didn't even get my first kiss yet and I feel lonely and down. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One of them is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I have been using 3 dating apps for 4 months but barely getting any matches at all and one 20 year old girl who matched with me 2 months ago rejected me saying she only prefers bad guys and that I am too nice for her. About 2 weeks ago, I saw another girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is from a different college tho and she is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but can be 18 too as idk her real age but I was too shy to even say her a hi that day and now I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she went out of city for 2 weeks and I am afraid that she might reject me as well especially because we are from different college.
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  326. Damn man really at 52? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and barely been on 1 first date and only hugged 2 girls in person so far and never been kissed. I had always been very shy near girls due to facing severe bullying and isolation in school so I even avoided talking with girls and then studied engineering in a college which had a skewed gender ratio. Now I am studying MBA and only recently I am talking with girls and overcame my shyness so it took me till 22-23 to finally come out of my shyness. I had a crush last year during my starting of my MBA but I messed up and currently like 2 girls in my MBA. One of them (lets call her D)(22F) is my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year 3-4 weeks ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far. She is a Punjabi girl and I am Bengali. She is an introvert similar to me and soft spoken and I got her Instagram too and we had some decent conversation in person and even sent her a funny relatable meme on Instagram too. Another one is a girl(Lets call her I)(22-24F) who is in the same year of MBA as me but different sections and we only talked in person for 5-6 days so far. She is also a North Indian from Lucknow who came to Bangalore for her MBA and I really like her confident nature while talking and she is beautiful too. We had a good conversation on our 1st interaction and she even shared her umbrella with me when it rained but our next conversations were short as she is accompanied by her friends or keeps seeing her mobile even though she smiles and says me Hi back. I even said her hope she isn't angry on me but she made a surprised expression and said "No not at all. Why?" I am overthinking a lot whether she is interested in talking to me or not. Plus I am currently in my hometown Siliguri for vacation too for a week so I am worried when D or I and even the other girls with whom I talk, will talk to me again after I return to Bangalore and go to college again as there had been an 8-9 days gap in communication because of the trip and we are all in early stages of getting to know each other. Plus as they aren't my classmates, they are in more close proximity to their male classmates than to me. I just recently came out of this shyness so completely clueless about how to make my move on girls and nervous about asking them out and feel that she might not be interested.
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  327. Damn man. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2-3 months ago I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 very soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took pretty much a month too reply to it but she did reply yeah ok and we even said we will meet maybe on some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. I also got crush on a new girl recently in a class where I started going for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I am about to finish college. She is also 22 or maybe 23 now and very pretty and on the first day of our class there (13th July 2023), she did handshake with me and we said our names and introduced ourselves. Till last week she was trying to initiate convo with me asking whether I had lunch or not and many more but for the past 5-6 days, she is no longer trying to talk with me. Actually I am still kinda shy near girls in person so I usually don't initiate further convos with her and just answer what she asks. I am shy to try to talk with her. I followed her on Instagram and she followed me back too but I am yet to dm her. I also have been chatting with this another girl who is 19 on Instagram since 28th May 2023. We used to be in the same school but now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We chat about literally everything daily and even send each other virtual hugs but it still looks she just sees me as a good friend and nothing more so I am nervous to ask her out too as I also got rejected by 4 girls recently.
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  328. Wow man really at 44? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before, only been on 1 first date months ago at the age of 22 and then hanged out with a female friend and hugged only 2 girls in person and never been kissed. I am studying MBA now and had a few crushes in my 1st year of MBA which didn't work but now 2nd year just started for me and I finally initiated conversation with 8 girls in these 3 days after University reopened. One of them(lets call her D) is also within 21-23 age range and is my junior who is in 1st year of her MBA and we have been having good conversations and yesterday we followed each other on Instagram too and yesterday met another girl(lets call her R) who is in my University too in my same year of MBA and also within 22-24 age range and we were walking and talking while going to University and then while going to the bus stop too we went together and she let me under her umbrella too as it was raining. So both D and R had been nice and friendly to me so far. Its a big improvement as I was shy during school days and avoided talking to girls due to facing severe bullying in school. Not only that I also talked with foreign women in our city Bangalore by initiating conversations with them. As Bangalore is a major metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. I talked with 3 expat women so far. Almost 5 months ago was with a French woman who was about 22-26 age range and then 2 months ago was with a German woman who was probably anywhere within 26-35 age range. But today I had the best conversation with an American woman in the cafe in this big shopping complex in the most upscale area of our city. She is an expat too and she is 29 and she was really friendly to me and was comfortable talking with me and we had a long conversation. I asked for her Instagram but unfortunately she said she doesn't even use Insta so we couldn't connect with each other but I really hope I get to meet her again as she is really pretty too but I look nerdy in my glasses too.
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  329. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend either and got rejected by 2 of my crushes in my college recently but I can't stop thinking about a girl. Actually yesterday I heard a song which was released in 2009 and I felt nostalgic hearing it and it reminds me of a girl whom I knew since my school days. She was in the same grade as me but we weren't in the same class and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so the same age as me and I followed her on Instagram but she hasn't accepted my follow request yet. I wish she could be my girlfriend now but she is too pretty and I was considered a loser by most guys in my grade in high school so maybe she would still find me lame even though she probably didn't know me properly. She also probably has a boyfriend and now it looks like she probably isn't in my country too but idk about that. I really wish she follow me back so I can chat with her and get to know her.
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  330.  @philspaghet  But I really knew her since we were in school. We weren't classmates but still in the same grade. She is very pretty but I am feeling upset that she isn't accepting my follow request on Instagram. Yeah I used to get bullied a lot in 9th and 10th grade so she probably might have seen it too but idk so maybe she would still find it lame. We are both 21 now too or maybe she is 22 now and even I will be turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas. But I remember seeing her break up with a guy from her class when we were in 10th grade and he was much smarter than me whereas I used to get bullied so I might have no chance with her. There is also a possibility that she probably isn't even in the same country as me anymore. But I just can't stop thinking about her for the past 2 days. I really wish she could be my girlfriend now.
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  331.  @philspaghet  oh ok man but I am having no luck with any girls. I even had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I use dating apps for 4 months but barely getting matches. I got matched by 2 girls(one is 20 and another is 22) few days ago on tinder and none of them replied back to my message yet.
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  332. Wow really at 41? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal and never had a girlfriend and only been on 1 first date many months ago at the age of 22 and then a month later hanged out with my female friend, hugged only 2 girls in person and still never had my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and in my University too had crush on this girl for 7 months who is also 23 now but 5 months ago got crush on another prettier girl(sadly she wasn't into me either but she was the 2nd girl I hugged in person) in the same University so my previous crush stopped talking to me and I miss her. I had a summer break from University for 3 months and yesterday finally new semester started for us and I literally initiated conversation with 3 girls in my University who are MBA students too and within 21-23 age range and today too had conversation with 3 more(6 in total so far) but I had a long enough conversation with one of them who too is comfortable enough to talk to me and seems kinda introvert too with just a few female friends and we had a decent conversation today too and I think I am getting crush on her as she is so damn cute and pretty but idk about my chances as I look like a nerd in my glasses and she is really pretty too plus idk whether she is single or not even though she never mentioned about any boyfriend so far. She is a North Indian and I am Bengali. But it was a big change and improvement for me as I had always been shy near girls and in my high school days I completely avoided talking with girls as I was bullied a lot in school and continued being shy further too in my undergrad and even in my MBA too few months ago, I was still shy to initiate conversation with girls and even though I could talk with my crushes, there was still some nervousness here and there but today I went out of my comfort zone and talked with not 1 not 2 but 3 girls. Thats only because I initiated conversation with 3 expat women in my city Bangalore and they were white Caucasian women (yes foreigners do come to Bangalore as expats as its one of the major metropolitan city of India and popular for its IT(tech). First one was a French woman with whom I talked near my University almost 5 months ago who was within 22-26 age range and the next was a German woman 2 months ago and then yesterday again I saw another white blonde lady who looked to be within 26-30 age range and probably from Germany or maybe some Scandinavian country too and I waved my hand at her as she was walking and smiled at her saying her Hi and she too waved her hand back at me with a bit of a smile but couldn't have a conversation as the cab that I booked had arrived but would love to meet her again. So yeah I am happy that finally I can talk with women now whether Indian or foreigner but sadly it took me 23 years to get rid of my shyness.
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  333. That's why I don't want a long distance relationship. I want the girl to be in my city too. Btw do you think my case is problematic too? I am a 21 year old guy and got matched by a 19 year old girl on a dating app and we both live in the same city and we had been chatting only for 4 days. We are from different college tho and idk where her house is tho. Will it be as problematic as the long distance relationships in which both lives in different cities or even country?
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  334. I am a guy who turned 22 just 9 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and its bothering me so much. I use dating apps but hardly any matches. I got matched with 2 girls 2 weeks ago. One is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April but no plan of first date or anything. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I do follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are all 19-22 age range and I started chatting with this girl for 4 days who was my junior in my school days. Now she is 20 about to be 21 after 4 months and we only sent virtual hugs to each other today but she only sees me as a friend so idk whether I have chance with her or not.
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  335. I am 23 turning 24 in just 7 days and never had a gf before, only been on 1 first date last year Sept, hugged only 2 girls in person and still didn't get my first kiss yet. I was shy near girls throughout school days and undergrad and only started talking to girls at 22-23. Now I am studying MBA and talking with several girls in my University who are within 21-25 age range. But so far the conversations have been short with most of them and one even distanced herself from me but with 3 girls the conversations have been long enough. But 3 weeks ago, when I asked 3 of them(one of them is 24, another is 22 and another is 23) separately to hang out with me, they all said they had class or assignment to complete. They are talking nicely to me in person and are friendly but on social media, they are less responsive to my messages. I am also interested in this another girl in my MBA who is 21 or 22 now but we only talked once 2 weeks ago and semester is ending and our lifestyle is different like she loves partying and nightlife whereas I am more of a loner so idk whether she will like me as I am having a hard time even with the introvert girls.
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  336. Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Btw is a month long enough to know whether someone is interested in me or not? I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up she haven't replied yet about when we can meet. I have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. We are in different colleges now but we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school. So we only have been getting to know each other for a bit over a month. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily and talk about literally everything and we are both foodies too and send each other virtual hugs but there isn't any flirting in the chats yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but is 1 month already long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not or does it take longer?
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  337. I am turning 22 tomorrow and I never had a girlfriend before. 3 days ago, I was matched with another girl who is 18 turning 19 in Feb and she seemed quite interested in knowing me but when we shared about our hobbies and I told her about my singing which I upload on my youtube channel(not this one, another one). She said she was gonna check it and then I saw she unmatched me. I guess she found me ugly in my videos or my singing is bad. I got matched by another girl too who is 21 on that same day 3 days ago and we had a good chat too and even added each other on Instagram but she said I seem like an introvert and she didn't chat much with me. When I asked, she said she is a medical college student so she isn't that much free. Idk whether she lied or she is genuinely busy.
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  338. I see people these days even criticizing a 22 year old dating an 18 year old. I am a 22 year old guy in last year of college and I like a girl in my college who is in 1st year of college so she can be either 18 about to turn 19 soon or is already 19 now so we are only like 3 years apart. Can I ask her out?
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  339. So is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 4 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 2 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  340.  @Fireandknives  come on did you read my comment fully? She isn't American. She is French.
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  341. I am a guy who turned 22 just 5 weeks ago and still a virg too so we are super close in age. I am sure you are a very beautiful girl and I am sure I would have got a crùsh on you if we were in the same college. Here is one virtual hug for you just to make you smile 🤗.
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  342.  Ashly Sosa  I don't live in a village. I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city in India. If you really think being a virg at 22 is bad then idk what to say. I use dating apps and also chat with girls on Instagram whom I knew in my high school days. Funny how you generalise me without even knowing me. I am not an IT tech support. I am an electronics engineering student who will be graduating college by mid 2023.
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  343. Wow man really? I am a 21 year old guy and I feel as if I am 14-16 probably because I got so many crushes recently. I got crush on a girl in a class where I joined recently and she is from a different college and she is most likely in the 19-21 age range but idk her real age so she can be 18 too but I am too shy.
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  344. I guess things are more open minded in big metro cities. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 8 days and its been bothering me that I still don't have a girlfriend. I am a Bengali guy living in Bangalore. I am on dating apps but only got some matches. Most of these matches are 18-23 year old girls and they end up ghosting or rejecting me. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me as well. I follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now and I even chat with some of them but many times, they kinda ignore my messages too for a day or so.
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  345.  @sankkham  I was really adamant last year that I will only date an American or European girl because Western countries are more open minded than India but I might have to wait few years before I can move abroad so I wanted to give Indian girls a chance too as I live in Bangalore which is a big city so things would be better here than smaller cities and towns. I can't pay for escorts because I still live with my parents and will be graduating college in 2023 so I am not financially independent for it and I don't wanna spend my dad's money on them.
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  346. Is it already late at 22 or do I have some time? I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  347. I am in the same boat as you but not given up yet. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. After 3 rejections recently, I did ask out my childhood friend who is 21 year old now turning 22 soon by messaging her on Instagram and she did reply yeah ok but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and now again she hasn't been online for weeks and still yet to reply about when we can meet but I am still waiting. But since 28th May 2023, I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days. Now she is 19 year old and is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and we chat daily about pretty much everything and we send each other virtual hugs too and I think I started liking her too but so far it still looks like she just sees me as a friend as the chats doesn't get very flirty yet and we have been chatting for almost a month. We are also in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. I do wanna ask her out but my childhood friend didn't reject me too and I like both of them.
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  348. Is it still problematic even if we live in the same city? I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. A week ago, I got matched by a 19 year old girl and we had a decent chat and we live in the same city but different college. But I am worried because she didn't come online yesterday. Maybe she is busy but I am too worried thinking what if she ghosts me or finds me boring. I never dated so I wanna see how it feels to go on a date, hold hands with a girl and get my first kiss. I am afraid because I also got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently.
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  349. Is it really a bad idea as an Asian to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. Yesterday while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had know idea what to say them. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  350. Dude I am also an Indian(Bengali) and I live in Bangalore. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had his first kiss and I never had a girlfriend. After having no luck with 4 girls I know in real life, finally 2 days ago I was matched with a girl on one of the dating apps who isn't ghosting me so far. She is 19 years old and we had a decent chat for the past 2 days and she too lives in my city but we are in different college and different course too. Do you think I will at least get my first kiss this time? I am scared that she might ghost me too or wouldn't want me.
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  351.  @jeepernj99  Wow man really? I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Had crush on 2 girls in college recently and got rejected by both. Few days ago I heard a song which reminds me of a girl who was in my school and same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so same age as me and I followed her on Insta but she declined or rejected my follow request. I tried sending her a message but she didn't reply. Today I followed another girl on Insta who too was in my school and same grade but we weren't classmates either. I remember having a little crush on her when we were both in 10th grade and she has a beautiful smile too. She is also 21 so again the same age as me but I found out that she lives in another country now goes to college in that country abroad so I have no chance with her.
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  352. So does it mean I have no chance of finding a gf? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, only been on 1 first date last year Sept, then hanged out with a female friend last year Oct, hugged only 2 girls in person and still didnt get my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and talking with several girls now after years of being shy near girls. Sadly one of this girl in my MBA who is 22 rejected me almost 3 weeks ago saying she doesn't wanna talk with me anymore and it left me confused as we had positive conversations before. Even with the other girls the conversations had been mostly short limited to just Hi and how are you and maybe a bit more but still the girls have been friendly enough. Over a week ago, I did say a pickup line to one of my crush who is also within 21-23 age range and she was the 2nd girl I hugged 4 months ago but she just smiled and thanked me after the pickup line and she is one of the prettiest girl in our University. I still talked with some girls today in my University but I am overthinking a lot whether things will work and when to ask one of them out.
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  353.  @dianaverano7878  I would never really do long distance relationship. BTW Is it really fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  354.  @samueljackson6188  Haha you got jealous reading my comment thats why you replied that.
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  355. Is 22 still late or is it normal? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and yet to even get my first kiss. I started going for some classes for almost 2 months for preparation of upcoming exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and I wanna study MBA next. There I got a crush on this girl in my class who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She says me hi daily with a smile and we do handshake and she tries to initiate conversations with me but I just answer what she asks or say hi back but I am still shy to initiate any further talks with her. 4 weeks ago, I came to know that she finds me cute and that made me blush a lot and my friends teased me too and 2 weeks ago I gave her a chocolate too and she smiled and thanked me with a handshake. Today she heard my singing too along with several of my friends and she seemed to have liked my singing too. The only problem is I am shy and I also smile a lot in class plus she has 3 or 4 male friends so I feel worried whether she will go for either of them. Also this Saturday, me and this other girl who is 19 year old planned to meet up in a mall in our city. We had been chatting on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other those days. We seem to have several things in common and send each other virtual hugs too but I am worried whether she is really serious about meeting and hanging out with me that day because I have been rejected by 4 girls so far so I don't trust my luck. I am also hoping to get my first kiss that day or at least a hug from her or hold hands. I hope the plan doesn't get cancelled. 4 months ago I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 by the end of this month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to me so even though she agreed to meet with me, I don't know yet when we will meet.
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  356. Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  357. Wow really at 40? Btw I am a guy who just turned 22 last week and I never had a girlfriend and it's bothering me a lot. I had crush on 2 girls in my college who rejected me and dating apps aren’t giving me luck as most girls who match with me ghosts or unmatch me for no reason at times. I also follow few girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and only chat with 3 of them. 2 of them are 20-22 year old and another is an 18-19 year old who is one of their friend in their college.
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  358. Damn man really at 55? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but I had my first ever date last month with this girl. She is 19 and we went to the mall. We hugged too and I pinched her cheeks a lot but she turned out to be toxic 2 weeks after the date and replied rudely to my messages and blocked me. She basically used me for free lunch and taking pics of her so she can post them on Instagram. But last Saturday I went out with another girl who is also either 22 or 23 now. She is in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We are just friends but we had a great day that day and had lunch. I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie but was a bit shy to ask for a hug but we might go out again next month. I also have crush on this another girl in the same class who is also 22. She too tries to initiate conversations with me but I am kinda shy in front of her. But 2-3 weeks ago, she asked me how she was looking and I said she looked cute and pinched her cheeks and she blushed a bit. Sadly I am still single tho.
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  359.  @BrianHARVET-fx6gk  you are probably jealous that I went out with 2 girls and I am just 22 whereas you are 55 and too old for them. I am much younger and still better than you.
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  360.  @jimmybastas3559  So is it still really a bad idea as an Asian student to want to date a Westerner who came to my country as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses and I am well educated too with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  361. So would find 20 and 23 too much too for dating or is it fine?
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  362. So would you find 20 and 23 bad too? I am 23 so what would you think about a guy my age who is only 3 years older?
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  363. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon but I just have a massive crush on one of them who is also 22 or maybe 23. She initiated convo with me saying hi and telling her name and asking mine last week Thursday(our first class there) and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. I really can't stop thinking about this girl as she is very pretty and she is very sweet as she tries to initiate convo with me asking whether I had lunch and today she also asked how far my home is from the classes but I just answer what she asks and I am too shy to initiate a convo further with her but I really wanna get to know her and idk whether it would be fine to message her on Whatsapp by seeing her number from our class whatsapp group. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also this new 22/23 year old on whom I newly got crush.
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  364. So is it still a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 5 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes and not yesterday either. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  365.  @redlord-blacksigma2795  Why do you think she is Western? They can be from any white country? They can be Russian too or maybe any European country so is it still bad? I am an Indian and just 23 year old so young enough to experiment.
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  366.  @redlord-blacksigma2795  Have you even read my full comment? I mentioned about my crush too who is also Indian like me. Nothing about her? She is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range so basically same age as me but idk how much chance I have with her.
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  367. Damn man really at 54? I am a guy who turned 23 like 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before. I went on my first ever date 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 few days ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds there and got my first hug from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she was cute. But 2 weeks after the date she became toxic and mean to me and blocked me on all social media. She basically used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. I also have massive crush on this another girl for the past 6 months where I go for some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college about 6 months ago and going to study MBA next. She also turned 23 just a few days ago. She has even called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too but I am shy near women in person so she is the one who initiates conversation with me. Few months ago I gave her a chocolate too but I often see her with her male friends so I get worried whether I have chance with her or not. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in the same class who is also 23 but so far we are just friends. We just roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant and I pulled her cheeks a bit too when we took selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. It was a fun day and we might go out again probably next month. I also have been following some girls on Instagram who are in the 21-25 age range from the same institute but different classrooms and messaged few of them and had been chatting with 2 or 3 of them who are also about 22 and 23 year olds. Since July 2023, I also have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who is 19(turning 20 in April). We were in the same school but didn't know each other in school days so we only have been knowing each other for 6 months. We also send each other virtual hugs and she is very sweet and we have many things in common like we are both foodies, like similar types of movies and many more and we plan to meet up to eat somewhere very soon too but in the end I am still single.
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  368. Is it still a bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 8 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy yesterday. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  369. Damn. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but finally had my first date just a week ago (on 16th September 2023) and got my first hug but still not my first kiss yet and still single. She is 19 btw and is in 2nd year of college and we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other those days and have been chatting on Instagram since 28th May 2023 but finally that day we decided to meet in the mall and we actually did and ate in the Mcdonald's there and then took photos and selfie and I pinched her cheeks a lot too as she is really cute and asked for a hug and she gave one hug too for a few seconds but it was still nice. I towered over her tho as I am like 5'9(174-175 cm) and she is only like 5' or probably even 4'11. But overall it was a good date. Idk what she feels about me but I still can't believe that everything went so well. But I also like this another girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and I am planning to study MBA next. She also says me hi almost daily and we do handshake and she smiles and sometimes initiates conversations with me but I only answer what she asks and I am still shy to initiate any further conversations near her but hopefully after today's date, my shyness near girls seemed to have reduced for sure. Last month I also came to know that she finds me cute and 3-4 weeks ago I gave her a chocolate too but I often see her having 3 or 4 male friends in our class so that kinda makes me worried that what if she goes for either of them. I honestly like both the girls.
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  370. So is 22 late? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2-3 months ago I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 very soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took pretty much a month too reply to it but she did reply yeah ok and we even said we will meet maybe on some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. I also got crush on a new girl recently in a class where I started going for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I am about to finish college. She is also 22 or maybe 23 now and very pretty and on the first day of our class there (13th July 2023), she did handshake with me and we said our names and introduced ourselves. Till last week she was trying to initiate convo with me asking whether I had lunch or not and many more but for the past 5-6 days, she is no longer trying to talk with me. Actually I am still kinda shy near girls in person so I usually don't initiate further convos with her and just answer what she asks. I am shy to try to talk with her. I followed her on Instagram and she followed me back too but I am yet to dm her. I also have been chatting with this another girl who is 19 on Instagram since 28th May 2023. We used to be in the same school but now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We chat about literally everything daily and even send each other virtual hugs but it still looks she just sees me as a good friend and nothing more so I am nervous to ask her out too as I also got rejected by 4 girls recently.
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  371. I am 24 now and living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf and not really having luck with Indian women as an Indian man. BTW as Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and major IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats and I spoke with several white(including American ones) and East Asian expat women in this luxurious mall of our city where they hang out. Even today I talked with a British and German woman and tried approaching in the same mall but with the Korean woman I couldn't even have a proper conversation due to language barrier and she said no sorry too which shows she wasn't interested in talking to me. She couldn't understand my English and same with a Japanese woman too I talked to previously in the mall and most East Asian women seem reserved when I approach them. I wonder whether its lack of interest or whether they genuinely can't understand English or its because I am an Indian. With the white ones especially the German, British and American women I spoke too, they were friendly or nice but never been able to exchange Insta or number.
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  372.  @Robert_Daniel  is 22 year old college senior dating an 18 year old college freshman fine?
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  373.  @Cousinbiddy1  I am a guy who just turned 22 and have crush on a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in Feb. I am afraid that people might judge our age gap. I also got matched by an 18 year old girl today on dating app and she doesn't seem that interested as her replies are one word and slow. Same thing happened with 2 more girls who were 20 and 22 and both unmatched me.
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  374.  @Robert_Daniel  I am a guy who just turned 22 a week ago and really like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in Feb. So I am wondering whether people will judge the age gap or not.
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  375.  @Cousinbiddy1  but I am only comfortable with a max 3-4 year age gap. So I will only date a girl now within the 18 to 26 age range.
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  376.  @Cousinbiddy1  How is 22 a cougar gf? She would be the same age as me too.
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  377. @Mozzarella stick Would you have dated a 22 year old guy who too never had a girlfriend before? I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before. You are a beautiful girl and I am sure I would have dated you if we were in the same college. Here is one virtual hug for you just to make you smile. *hugs*. I would have never made you feel lonely and taken you to parks and many lovely places and bought you lots of ice creams and chocolates.
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  378. @Mozzarella stick Haha thanks and you are super cute too. Also we would have got along well as I am a college student and you are one too probably and super close in age. I was really scared whether it will be a red flag to girls that I am still single at 22. I would love to see how it feels to hold hands with a girl and have my first kiss.
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  379. @Mozzarella stick I am also shy haha and I am in last year of college. I use dating apps but hardly get matches. I do get some matches from some girls mostly within the 18-23 age range but they end up ghosting me for no reason. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school but they hardly chat. Honestly we both could have got along so well as I am shy too. I would have given you a big hug whenever you felt shy so you could have felt protected in my arms and probably I would have felt protected too in your arms as well especially in this mean and cruel world.
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  380. @Mozzarella stick Me too. You are super cute and sweet too. 😊. Wish we could have get to know each other haha but we probably live in different countries too. 😅.
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  381. @Mozzarella stick I am in the city Bangalore in India so very far
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  382. I am a 21 year old guy and I never even had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls recently in college. Last week, a 19 year old girl matched with me on one of the dating apps I use. We had a decent chat so far and we live in the same city too but different college but idk how far this will even go. I tried keeping an option by trying to follow a girl named Britney on IG. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I remember having a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or probably even 22 now so same age as me. She was the most beautiful girl in our class in high school days but she is even prettier now at 21. Sadly she didn't even accept my follow request on IG and idk why.
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  383. Is it still bad for an Indian guy like me to want to date a foreign woman? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. 2 days ago, I went to this really very posh area of our city and saw some foreign women who were all white blonde European who are expats in my city. I am usually shy but this time I tried cold approaching 2 of them by saying them excuse me to initiate a conversation the same way done in the video. The 1st woman who looked about 27-35 age range was wearing earphones so she never noticed me. The 2nd woman looked older probably in her late 30s or even early 40s and she wasn't even wearing earphones but she still didn't even look at me when I said her excuse me. I saw another younger white blonde woman who was definitely in her mid or late 20s but she was on a bicycle so I had no chance. I even saw a Hispanic and East Asian woman in another part of the city 2 weeks ago but was shy to talk to them. The only time this cold approach worked was 2 months ago with a French woman near my University where I am studying MBA but the conversation was brief and I never met her again.
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  384. Honestly I just want my first kiss for now and see how it feels to hold hands with a girl. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. After getting rejected by 2 girls in my college and no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since my high school days and also no luck on dating apps, finally 6 days ago, a girl matched with me on one of the dating apps and for the first time, I had a decent chat with a girl on dating app without getting ghosted. She is a 19 year old girl and for the past 6 days, the chats were decent enough. We live in the same city but different college and different course too. Do you think this time I will at least get my first kiss? I also get worried thinking what if she ends up ghosting me too or wouldn't want me.
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  385.  @besbin7  Leopards and Bengal tigers do coexist in India but tigers kill leopards all the time in India.
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  386. I am a guy who turned 22 several weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before. I use dating apps and hardly get matched by some 18-23 age girls but they end up ghosting me and only one girl who is 19 chats with me and still didn't ghost me. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and have been chatting with one of the girl who is 20 now for about 2 weeks and she literally even invited me to a fest in her college which is on 3rd and 4th Feb but idk whether I can go or not as idk exactly which area of our city her college is and I still didn't learn to drive yet. Also its an all girls college so there will be many 18-22 year old girls there and I might end up being awkward in front of them. I am really sad.
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  387. I am a 22 year old guy who is an engineering student too who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. After 3 rejections recently, my childhood friend who is 21 year old now turning 22 soon has agreed to meet up after I asked her out via Instagram but she replied to it after almost a month as she isn't that active on the app and she replied yeah ok and then I asked her when we can meet and she is offline again and yet to reply and I am waiting. But I also have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days. Now she is 19 year old and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and we chat daily about pretty much everything and send each other virtual hugs and I think I started to like her too but idk whether it will be fine to ask her out as we are in different colleges and my childhood friend didn't reject me but her college is very near to my home tho and honestly like both of them
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  388. Damn man really at 41? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and have always been shy near girls and only recently I am talking some girls in my University where I am studying MBA now and I have only been on 1 first date last year September, only hugged 2 girls in person and just pinched cheeks of one of my crush and still haven't been kissed. I am talking with some girls in my University but there is this girl with whom things have been a bit turbulent. She is 22 and my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year of MBA a month ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far but all our in person conversations were positive and she even smiled at times while talking. She is an introvert similar to me and an introvert too so we got along well but recently I had to go to my hometown Siliguri for 8-9 days and suddenly she unfollowed me on Instagram 5-6 days ago right after viewing my stories so I am confused what happened and sad as we only had positive conversations with her in person so far. I asked my close male friend for an advice and he suggested me to reach out to her in person and clarify any misunderstanding by keeping the conversation light at first so I will do it tomorrow when I meet her in person as I am back to Bangalore now but I am so nervous about it.
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  389. Do you think it would be fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreign woman who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date over 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy who completed his bachelor's in electronics engineering 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes now and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5. I already have crush on a girl in the classes where I go who is also an Indian and in the 21-23 age and we have brief conversations but idk how much chance i have with her as she is very pretty almost model like. I also got ghosted very recently by another girl whom I liked too and she is 19 turning 20 in 3 weeks and an Indian too and I knew her for almost 9 months. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, I do see foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians around the classes I go. Last week I did try to initiate a conversation with this white woman who is from France. We had a brief conversation and she is a student most likely a foreign exchange student who came to this University in Bangalore. She is definitely within 20-25 age range or more like 22-26 if she is a masters student because that University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees. We also said each other it was nice to meet you. She seemed friendly and I was nice and respectful to her too but this week I didn't see that French woman again in that area. Idk whether its because of her University timing or she probably went back to France. I wanted to get to know her more. But if I meet her again, should I again try to talk to her? Also if I see another foreign woman, should I try to talk to her too and get to know her or would she find it bad?
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  390.  @2jcward  Woah 42 and never had one? I am a 22 year old guy and never had a girlfriend. I am getting upset at how unfair is everything for me. Girls are way too picky and they don't like me. I use dating apps and get almost no matches. Recently I got matched by a girl who is 20 and we had a great chat but she unmatched me for no reason at all. I also follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are usually 19-22 year olds now. But majority of them ghosted me but even the ones who were chatting me are kinda ignoring me just because I complimented them which is simple one. Only 4 girls chat with me and 2 of them both 20 year olds are sweet to me and we send hugs to each other but idk how things will be. I am getting angry at how these girls are. They only want the best looking guys and treats average guys like me like trash.
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  391. Is it still fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 8 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy yesterday. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  392. Damn man. Have you been on dates? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and barely been on 1 first date and only hugged 2 girls in person so far and never been kissed. I had always been very shy near girls due to facing severe bullying and isolation in school so I even avoided talking with girls and then studied engineering in a college which had a skewed gender ratio. Now I am studying MBA and only recently I am talking with girls and overcame my shyness so it took me till 22-23 to finally come out of my shyness. I had a crush last year during my starting of my MBA but I messed up and currently like 2 girls in my MBA. One of them (lets call her D)(22F) is my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year 3-4 weeks ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far. She is a Punjabi girl and I am Bengali. She is an introvert similar to me and soft spoken and I got her Instagram too and we had some decent conversation in person and even sent her a funny relatable meme on Instagram too. Another one is a girl(Lets call her I)(22-24F) who is in the same year of MBA as me but different sections and we only talked in person for 5-6 days so far. She is also a North Indian from Lucknow who came to Bangalore for her MBA and I really like her confident nature while talking and she is beautiful too. We had a good conversation on our 1st interaction and she even shared her umbrella with me when it rained but our next conversations were short as she is accompanied by her friends or keeps seeing her mobile even though she smiles and says me Hi back. I even said her hope she isn't angry on me but she made a surprised expression and said "No not at all. Why?" I am overthinking a lot whether she is interested in talking to me or not. Plus I am currently in my hometown Siliguri for vacation too for a week so I am worried when D or I and even the other girls with whom I talk, will talk to me again after I return to Bangalore and go to college again as there had been an 8-9 days gap in communication because of the trip and we are all in early stages of getting to know each other. Plus as they aren't my classmates, they are in more close proximity to their male classmates than to me. I just recently came out of this shyness so completely clueless about how to make my move on girls and nervous about asking them out and feel that she might not be interested.
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  393. I am a guy who turned 22 just 3 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and use dating apps but hardly get any matches. Rarely some 18-23 age girls match with me but they ghost or unmatch me for no reason. I really wanna try my luck on a girl who was my friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 but we never talked with each other in person since 2011. She surprisingly still remembers as I follow and chat with her on Instagram. She is 21 now and only 5 months younger than me and I would love to date her but she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or so. She turned off her activity status on IG so can't even see when she is online. I wanna meet her and maybe even hug her but idk how.
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  394. Wow man really you never had a date or girlfriend even at 40? BTW I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and its bothering me a lot. I use dating apps and sometimes rarely get matched by some 18-23 age girls but they all end up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are 20-22 year olds but even they hardly chat with me. I really wanna try my luck on this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 but we never talked in person since 2011 as my parents bought a new apartment in 2011 and we came to a different area of our city. She is 21 now and only 5-6 months younger than me and she still remembers me as we chat on IG sometimes too but we hardly chat either as she replies to me mostly on Saturdays only. I would love to meet her in person and hug her but idk when.
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  395. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  396.  @Lkjnn2287  I got rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago on whom I had crush. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot as I will be graduating college by mid 2023 and then study in a grad school for 2 years and then work. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  397.  @aniketb3513  Dude I am also an Indian. I am a Bengali guy living in Bangalore and even I would love to date a foreign girl but I have to wait 2 years before I can move abroad. I am 21 now and really want a girlfriend. I use dating apps but only got 9 matches so far. Yesterday I got matched by a cute 23 year old guy whose hometown is in Darjeeling and mine is in Siliguri in West Bengal and she looks like a south East Asian like Thai or Filipino and now she lives in Bangalore. We had a decent chat yesterday and I hope she won't ghost me.
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  398.  @aniketb3513  Yeah bro you are right but it has been bothering me so much because I will be turning 22 on 22nd December and still no girlfriend at all. It feels like my youth is over and I missed out a lot.
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  399. So is there any chance for an Indian student like me who want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows but also I wear glasses. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 5 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 3 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  400. ​ @riri-pz3by  is 22 fine for you? I am a 22 year old guy and like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in August and according to our birthdays we are only 3.5 years apart in age. She is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college
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  401. Oh wow even at 40? So will it be bad for me too? I am a guy who turned 22 just 6 days ago and I never had a girlfriend before and never been kissed. Its been bothering me a lot now. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago. One was 19(turned 20 last month) and another was 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I use dating apps but hardly get matches. Last week I was matched by 2 girls. One was 18 turning 19 in Feb and she unmatched me for no reason whereas another was 21 and she too ended up ghosting and unmatching me. Yesterday I was matched with this 20 year old girl who unmatched me after I told her that my hobby is singing and that was strange. I also follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds too and only like 2 of them chat with me.
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  402. Can being inexperienced at 22 still be a turn off? I am a guy who turned 22 just 6 days ago and I never had a girlfriend before and never been kissed. Its been bothering me a lot now. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago. One was 19(turned 20 last month) and another was 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I use dating apps but hardly get matches. Last week I was matched by 2 girls. One was 18 turning 19 in Feb and she unmatched me for no reason whereas another was 21 and she too ended up ghosting and unmatching me. Yesterday I was matched with this 20 year old girl who unmatched me after I told her that my hobby is singing and that was strange. I also follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds too and only like 2 of them chat with me.
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  403. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  404. I am a guy who turned 22 just 2 weeks ago and already feel old at times and feel as if my youth is over. I will be graduating college in mid 2023 and then go for MBA but I feel like I missed out on so many things and still living with parents too. I never had a girlfriend and it's bothering me so much. Girls either reject or ghost me most of the time. Also I see other college age people hanging out with friends in malls and cafes in group of both males and females whereas I never did all these as I hardly have much friends.
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  405. Damn man really at 40? Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(turned 20 few weeks ago) and had my first ever hug too (she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere) and also 3 months ago went out with a female friend who is also 23 where we go for classes for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6-7 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had lunch in a big restaurant(but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends). I also had been crushing on this another girl(lets call her A) in that same class where I go now and she also turned 23 over 2 weeks ago and I even gave her a chocolate 5 days ago and she too knew I had a crush on her and has called me cute before too but things changed as last week I got a new crush on this another girl(lets call her B) in the same institute but different classrooms. She is within 21-23 age range and one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen and I was too shy to approach her but 3 days ago, with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was finally able to talk to her a bit and I was feeling butterflies. Everyone including that girl A came to know about it and she isn't really trying to talk to me and said that I am not loyal enough so she won't talk to me(idk whether she was joking or not). Yesterday was chocolate day and one of my friend jokingly said me to give chocolate to A again but she said she doesn't want a chocolate from me. I am afraid that B is probably out of my league as she is very pretty almost model like and I am just average I guess and plus I was too nervous that day while talking with her in person so idk how it will go. I am such a mess that I like another girl(lets call her S) with whom I had been chatting on Instagram for the past 7 months. She is 19 now(turning 20 in April) and we used to be in the same school but didn't knew each other in school days and now she is in a different college. We send each other virtual hugs daily and we will meet up this month too to eat somewhere as we are both foodies and she has no idea about these 2 girls A and B. But after getting crush newly on this girl B, I am mostly thinking about her and not giving much attention to A and S whom I have known longer than B. Idk what to do. If B rejects me, then I won't have chance with A as she probably have a negative perception about me now for getting multiple crushes.
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  406. Same man too but I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after just 3 days and I never had a girlfriend so far and its bothering me a lot lately. Btw say honestly, is it really creepy of me to follow girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days? They are all 20-22 year olds now and I follow many of them and even chat with 2 or 3 of them. Why do some people say its creepy even though I knew them high school?
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  407. That's why I don't want a long distance relationship. I want the girl to be in my city too. Btw do you think my case is problematic too? I am a 21 year old guy and got matched by a 19 year old girl on a dating app and we both live in the same city and we had been chatting only for 4 days. We are from different college tho and idk where her house is tho. Will it be as problematic as the long distance relationships in which both lives in different cities or even country?
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  408. Really? And here I was confused whether I am a Gen Z or a Millennial. I was born in December 2000 so I am a 21 year old guy now turning 22 this December.
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  409. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  410. I am 24 and never had a gf. I am just in my final semester of my MBA and I am an intern now in a Startup which will convert to full time in August and living in Bangalore in India but I am Bengali Indian. I was always shy to talk with girls and only started fully socializing with girls last year after entering my 2nd year (3rd sem) of MBA. Now as I am interning in a young startup, I get to meet plenty of girls in my age group too (21–26 range). I am socializing daily with many female interns now and approaching them but they already have their circle of friends and there isn’t a proper cafeteria or place to socialize during breaks in our office and many go out with their friends who are from their college or familiar friends making socializing with girls harder as I directly approaching them independently when I see them. One girl who is 21-22 and an intern too even gave her number to me a few days ago but even she is mostly with her friends. Its hard in a collectivist country like India even though I gained a lot of confidence when it comes to approaching and talking to girls.
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  411. Is it really a bad idea for an Indian guy like me to want to date a foreign woman who is an expat in my country? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners do come here even as expats. yesterday I went to this very posh area of our city and even the French Embassy is in that area so you can see foreigners there. I saw 2 foreign women there. First one was a Hispanic/Latino woman. She was definitely of Spanish origin and looked very exotic and pretty and in her 20s or maybe even 30s. But I was too shy to even say her Hi. Then the 2nd foreign woman I saw was an East Asian most definitely a Korean who too is definitely in her 20s and I was again shy to talk to her and this way I am missing my chances of talking with women. The only foreign woman I had a brief conversation with was a French woman last month whom I met near my University where I am pursuing my MBA and I am in 1st year and she was a foreign exchange student in this University which is for MBA too so she is mostly within 22-26 age range but I never saw her again as maybe she went back to France or maybe our timings never matched. I do have crush on this girl in my University who is also within 21-23 age range and an Indian too but things seem so unsure as she is also very pretty almost model like and I am not that attractive in my glasses and even though I got number, she still didn't even see my text on Whatsapp which I sent her. I am upset because I missed my chances yesterday especially with that Hispanic woman.
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  412. Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and it bothers me a lot. Btw is a month long enough to know whether someone is interested in me or not? I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up she haven't replied yet about when we can meet. I have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. We are in different colleges now but we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school. So we only have been getting to know each other for a bit over a month. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily and talk about literally everything and we are both foodies too and send each other virtual hugs but there isn't any flirting in the chats yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but is 1 month already long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not or does it take longer?
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  413. Wow man have you been on a date before btw? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and have always been shy near girls and only recently I am talking some girls in my University where I am studying MBA now and I have only been on 1 first date last year September, only hugged 2 girls in person and just pinched cheeks of one of my crush and still haven't been kissed. I am talking with some girls in my University but there is this girl with whom things have been a bit turbulent. She is 22 and my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year of MBA a month ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far but all our in person conversations were positive and she even smiled at times while talking. She is an introvert similar to me and an introvert too so we got along well but recently I had to go to my hometown Siliguri for 8-9 days and suddenly she unfollowed me on Instagram 5-6 days ago right after viewing my stories so I am confused what happened and sad as we only had positive conversations with her in person so far. I asked my close male friend for an advice and he suggested me to reach out to her in person and clarify any misunderstanding by keeping the conversation light at first so I will do it tomorrow when I meet her in person as I am back to Bangalore now but I am so nervous about it.
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  414. Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. I got rejected by 3 girls very recently(I got rejected by 7 girls so far in total). I got blocked by 2 of them on Instagram after I asked them out and they were in the same school as me too and one of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up but blocked me after few days. Today I tried asking out another girl who is 20 and she too was in the same school as me and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she too rejected me saying that I am nice but she isn't comfortable with meeting up with me so we can't meet up and she unfollowed me on Instagram. But there is still some hope as I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months and I genuinely like her too and we used to be very close friends when we were both in elementary school but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to my message yet. I am still waiting for her reply and I am honestly expecting a positive reply but idk.
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  415. I would date an older woman now tho at 23 but I am usually shy near women in general and have no relationship experience. I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and never had a girlfriend before and only had my first ever date 5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(20 now) and had my first ever hug but she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere. 2 weeks ago, I got a new crush on this girl in the classes where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I graduated college about 6-7 months ago, but she is in another classroom. She is within the 21-23 age range and I was really shy to talk her but last week I did talk a bit to her with the help of my friends and one of her classmate. Her classmate said she is single so I was happy and said her Hi again and she too smiled and said me Hi back. But yesterday one of her another classmate said that she probably has a boyfriend who isn't in the institute where I go for classes. Idk whether to believe it or not. I sent her a follow request on Instagram and a dm too but no reply yet and its been a day already so I have been feeling down. Whats worse is I had crush on this another girl in our class there who also turned 23 last month and she has called me cute and i gave her chocolates too but was too shy to confess it to her. Now she is ignoring me and not talking with me after she came to know about my new crush on this other girl. What sucks is many girls in the institute are committed and its risky to approach them because yesterday I messaged another girl on Instagram and it was a normal chat but her boyfriend threatened me (I didn't know she had a bf) and I had to apologize. It makes me sad how most girls are taken and its hard to find someone who is single even at my age 23.
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  416. Is it still a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 4 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  417. ​ @THE_CHOAS_ENGINE  I am a 22 year old guy and never had a girlfriend and I feel really behind. I feel like I didn't enjoy my youth
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  418. ​ @timm8998  BTW did I miss out a lot too as I am 22 now and never had a gf and never dated?
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  419. Is it fine for a 22 year old guy to date an 18/19 year old girl if both are in college? I am a 22 year old guy in last year of college and I like a girl in my college who is in 1st year of college so she can be either 18 about to turn 19 soon or is already 19 now so we are only like 3 years apart. Can I ask her out?
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  420. Wow man really at 40? I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(turned 20 few weeks ago) and had my first ever hug too (she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere) and also 3 months ago went out with a female friend who is also 23 where we go for classes for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6-7 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had lunch in a big restaurant(but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends). I also had been crushing on this another girl(lets call her A) in that same class where I go now and she also turned 23 over 2 weeks ago and I even gave her a chocolate last week and she too knew I had a crush on her and has called me cute before too but things changed as last week I got a new crush on this another girl(lets call her B) in the same institute but different classrooms. She is within 21-23 age range and one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen and I was too shy to approach her but 5 days ago, with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was finally able to talk to her a bit and I was feeling butterflies and today I again met her and told her Hi first with a smile and she too smiled back at me and said me Hi back but she was going to her classroom so we couldn't have a conversation today. Everyone including that girl A came to know about it and she isn't really trying to talk to me and said that I am not loyal enough so she won't talk to me(idk whether she was joking or not). 3 days ago, was chocolate day and one of my friend jokingly said me to give chocolate to A again but she said she doesn't want a chocolate from me. I am afraid that B is probably out of my league as she is very pretty almost model like and I am just average I guess and plus I was too nervous that day while talking with her in person so idk how it will go. I am such a mess that I like another girl(lets call her S) with whom I had been chatting on Instagram for the past 7 months. She is 19 now(turning 20 in April) and we used to be in the same school but didn't knew each other in school days and now she is in a different college. We send each other virtual hugs daily and we will meet up this month too to eat somewhere as we are both foodies and she has no idea about these 2 girls A and B. But after getting crush newly on this girl B, I am mostly thinking about her and not giving much attention to A and S whom I have known longer than B. Idk what to do. If B rejects me, then I won't have chance with A as she probably have a negative perception about me now for getting multiple crushes.
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  421. Is it really a bad idea too as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 5 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes and not yesterday either. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  422.  @guardianoftides2118  yeah maybe. I am not an American so idk. I was worried because I have plenty of things in common to talk with this girl like about how tiring it is in college, about college assignments, skipping classes and also share Jokes and funny videos to each other and I didn't notice a huge difference in maturity between us so I thought maybe I am mentally stunted because many reddit people say how the maturity different between an 18/19 year old and a 22 year old is huge.
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  423. I am in the same boat as you but 15 years younger. I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but I had my first ever date and hug almost 6 months ago at the age of 22 with this girl who was 19(20 now) but it didn't work and then almost 5 months ago also went out with a female friend who is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date or not. But for a month, I have been having a crush on this girl who goes for the classes where I go these days. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student. That girl is also within 21-23 age range but we are in different classrooms. Initially I was shy to talk to her at first but with the help of friends I finally could and after that we have been talking briefly like 2 days ago we had a conversation and we again met today and had a decent conversation and even did handshake and it feels so good to talk with her as I am getting to know more about her and finally not being as nervous as before and she always give a cute smile when I say her Hi and she says me Hi back. But idk whether she is even single or not as one of her classmate said several weeks ago that she probably has a boyfriend whereas her another classmate said she is single. Also she is very pretty almost model like whereas I am not that attractive especially in my glasses so idk whether I even have a chance with her or not. Plus she still didn't accept my follow request on Instagram even after weeks even though she is nice and friendly to me in person. I had another crush on a girl in the same classes where I go who is also 23 but she is ignoring me after she came to know about my new crush on this other girl about whom I shared above. I also like another girl who is 19 turning 20 next month and we have been chatting on Instagram for the past 7-8 months. We were in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and now she is in a different college so we only have been knowing each other for 7-8 months. We send each other virtual hugs daily and we are both foodies and plan to meet each other soon too to eat somewhere.
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  424. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. I got rejected very recently by 3 girls( rejected by 7 girls in total so far tho). These 3 girls were all in the same school as me but now in different colleges and we had been chatting on Instagram for months. One of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up after I asked her out few weeks ago but she blocked me mysteriously after few days whereas another girl blocked me immediately after I asked her out. Few days ago I tried asking out another girl who is 20 now and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she rejected me saying that even though I am really nice, she just isn't comfortable to meet up with me and it hit me hard. But there is still some hope as I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months. We were very close friends when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. But she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see that message in which I asked her out so still no reply yet. I am still waiting for her reply and hoping a positive reply as I genuinely like her a lot but idk.
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  425. You are just an old man who doesn't know how things these days are as you grew up in a different time. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never kissed or hugged a girl in real life. After having no luck on dating apps, I started messaging girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me and are 18-23 year olds now(mostly 19-22). 4 days ago, I tried asking out one of the girl for a coffee who is 19 turning 20 in August. We had been chatting on Instagram for a month and were in the same school too but now in different colleges. She literally agreed to meet me up and said she will let me know when we can meet. I was super happy as this was the first time a girl didn't reject or block me(I was rejected by 3 girls before that) but I could see her replies getting slower and shorter after that. Yesterday she said she was just having mood swings so I said her how to feel better if she is sad and then sent her a virtual hug and then she replied Thanks and suddenly I saw she blocked me. I was shocked because we planned to meet up one day but it can no longer happen as I have no other way of contacting her. What hurt me a lot is that she gave me false hope by not rejecting or blocking me 4 days ago itself when I asked her out and she just agreed to it. Pretty much tears came into my eyes.
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  426. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  427. So did I miss out a lot as I am 22 now and never dated? I am a guy who turned 22 just 9 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and its bothering me so much. I use dating apps but hardly any matches. I got matched with 2 girls 2 weeks ago. One is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April but no plan of first date or anything. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I do follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are all 19-22 age range and I started chatting with this girl for 4 days who was my junior in my school days. Now she is 20 about to be 21 after 4 months and we only sent virtual hugs to each other today but she only sees me as a friend so idk whether I have chance with her or not.
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  428. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  429.  @spark300c  Have you read my full comment? Are you saying I would have no chance with that French woman?
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  430. So is 22 already too late? I am a 22 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend before. Dating apps aren't giving me luck and 2 of my crushes in college too rejected me few months ago. I chat with some girls on Instagram who are 19-22 age range and we were in the same school but only 1 girl who is 20 year old chats with me regularly. We were also in the same school but now in different colleges in the same city. We send each other virtual hugs daily and she makes me blush. She is very sweet and I was falling in love with her but 2 weeks ago she said she is in a relationship but I am confused because she is still flirty to me and calls me cute and sends hugs so idk whether she lied to me about being in a relationship. We even talk about meeting up and hugging for real but idk when and unfortunately I still feel lonely maybe because its just a chat so far and we didn't hang out yet.
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  431.  @doopy  No I am not. You are one I guess. I am fine. 21 is still young enough and I have plenty of time. If you are a teenager then don't even bother about me and the girls who are around my age.
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  432.  @doopy  I am not one. I just want a girl to cuddle and hug and I want some love and my first kiss. I haven't even got my first kiss yet and I am 21 and will be turning 22 this December. Thankfully I am still young enough. You are probably not even 18 so you don't know.
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  433. Damn she is the same age as me. I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but had my first ever date and hug 7 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. Recently got ignored by this another girl who is 19 turning 20 tomorrow and I knew her for over 8 months and also were in the same school at one point but didn't know each other in school and we chatted on Instagram regularly for 8 months but she suddenly has been ignoring me since the past 3 weeks even though we even planned to eat in many restaurants and sent each other virtual hugs. I am currently having crush on this another girl who is within 21-23 age range and we go for the same institute but in different classrooms. I just graduated college 9 months ago and gonna pursue MBA now and going for classes. I have been having brief conversations with her and even complimented her twice but yesterday I finally got her number in a very clever way. I was learning about Google Forms in my classes so I created one car related survey on Google Form and told her that its a part of an assignment so I need many responses so she agreed to fill the form too so I asked for her number so I can send it to her on Whatsapp and she gave me her number. But after I sent her the form, she didn't even read the whatsapp text. She said she would fill it whenever she can but still she neither read my text nor replied but I am still keeping hopes. She is also very pretty almost model like whereas I am not that attractive especially in my glasses so idk whether she would like me back or not.
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  434. I feel the same as you but a decade younger than you. I just got my first handshake from a girl on 13th July 2023 and nothing more than that so I somewhat got to feel how it feels to hold a girl's hand. I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes and some more questions about myself. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  435. What about French women especially for an Indian student like me? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  436. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and tried to connect with girls whom I knew in high school by following them on IG but they didn't follow me back and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls who matches with me on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me or end up ghosting me and one 19 year old girl who matched with me turned out to be very mean to me yesterday and insulted me after I tried to ask her out after chatting with her for over a week and she literally called me ugly and said no girl would want me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  437. Is 18 and 22 fine?
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  438. Did you have a gf before? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend and only been on 1 first date many months ago at the age of 22 and then a month later hanged out with my female friend, hugged only 2 girls in person and still never had my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and in my University too had crush on this girl for 7 months who is also 23 now but 5 months ago got crush on another prettier girl(sadly she wasn't into me either but she was the 2nd girl I hugged in person) in the same University so my previous crush stopped talking to me and I miss her. I had a summer break from University for 3 months and today finally new semester started for us and I literally initiated conversation with 3 girls in my University who are MBA students too and within 21-23 age range and I had a long enough conversation with one of them who too was comfortable enough to talk to me but idk about my chances as I look like a nerd in my glasses and she is really pretty too. But it was a big change and improvement for me as I had always been shy near girls and in my high school days I completely avoided talking with girls as I was bullied a lot in school and continued being shy further too in my undergrad and even in my MBA too few months ago, I was still shy to initiate conversation with girls and even though I could talk with my crushes, there was still some nervousness here and there but today I went out of my comfort zone and talked with not 1 not 2 but 3 girls. Thats only because I initiated conversation with 3 expat women in my city Bangalore and they were white Caucasian women (yes foreigners do come to Bangalore as expats as its one of the major metropolitan city of India and popular for its IT(tech). First one was a French woman with whom I talked near my University almost 5 months ago who was within 22-26 age range and the next was a German woman 2 months ago and then yesterday again I saw another white blonde lady who looked to be within 26-30 age range and probably from Germany or maybe some Scandinavian country too and I waved my hand at her as she was walking and smiled at her saying her Hi and she too waved her hand back at me with a bit of a smile but couldn't have a conversation as the cab that I booked had arrived but would love to meet her again. So yeah I am happy that finally I can talk with women now whether Indian or foreigner but sadly it took me 23 years to get rid of my shyness.
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  439. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon. Those 3 girls are around 22-24 year olds and very pretty and initiated convo with me saying hi and telling names and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. Today too they tried to talk with me but I am still kinda shy near girls in person so we didn't talk much but for the past 2 days I can't stop thinking about them. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also the three 22-24 year olds on whom I newly got crush.
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  440. Btw i am 23 male so would you prefer a guy my age or a man in his 30s or 40s?
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  441. So is it a bad idea as an Asian student to want to date a Westerner who came to my country as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  442. At least people say you are attractive. No one says that to me and I don't think girls ever had a crush on me. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend, never dated and never been kissed. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and got rejected by both. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and most of my matches who were in the 18-24 age range ended up ghosting me. Btw 4 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is a college student from a different college. Idk her age but she is definitely within the 19-21 age range and she is beautiful but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her. I can again meet her only on 1st Nov in the classes because she is going out of city for 2 weeks. But Idk whether she would like me or not as she is from a different college.
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  443.  @FexWasHere  OK I will. Btw I have another question. Actually like I said I don't know the real age of this new girl but she is a college student so she is 19-21 age range but there is a possibility that she can be an 18 year old college freshman. So should I still go for her even if she is 18? I mean I am 21 and will be turning 22 this December. Is 21 or 22 dating an 18 year old fine?
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  444.  @FexWasHere  How old are you? If you are younger than me then maybe yeah early 20s is mature to you. When I was 15, I used to feel 21 and 22 year olds are mature too. But 22 is not that much mature either. Most of our brain fully develops at 25. Usually a person who is 30 or at least in his late 20s are considered mature. Most 22 year olds are college students or freshly graduated from college. Plenty of guys in their early 20s including me are goofy and immature. 21 or 22 isn't too far from maturity from 18. Most 21 year old guys and 18 year old girls match in maturity so I can easily goof around with that 18 year old girl. I can get along well easily with 18 and 19 year olds too. And like I said she can be 19 or 20 or even 21 too so anything is possible. I would go for her but it sucks that I have to wait till 1st Nov as she is out of city for 2 weeks.
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  445. Wow man in your 50s? Did you have a gf? Is it still fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 8 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy yesterday. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  446. Same. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend either and got rejected by 2 of my crushes in my college recently. Btw yesterday I heard a song which was released in 2009 and I felt nostalgic hearing it and it reminds me of a girl whom I knew since my school days. She was in the same grade as me but we weren't in the same class and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so the same age as me and I followed her on Instagram but she hasn't accepted my follow request yet. I wish she could be my girlfriend now but she is too pretty and I was considered a loser by most guys in my grade in high school so maybe she would still find me lame even though she probably didn't know me properly. She also probably has a boyfriend. I really wish she follow me back so I can chat with her and get to know her.
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  447. Are you really 82 or lying? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, only been on 1 first date last year Sept, then hanged out with a female friend last year Oct, hugged only 2 girls in person and still didnt get my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and talking with several girls now after years of being shy near girls. Sadly one of this girl in my MBA who is 22 rejected me almost 3 weeks ago saying she doesn't wanna talk with me anymore and it left me confused as we had positive conversations before. Even with the other girls the conversations had been most short limited to just Hi and how are you and maybe a bit more but still the girls have been friendly enough. Over a week ago, I did say a pickup line to one of my crush who is also within 21-23 age range and she was the 2nd girl I hugged 4 months ago but she just smiled and thanked me after the pickup line and she is one of the prettiest girl in our University. I still talked with some girls today in my University but I am overthinking a lot whether things will work and when to ask one of them out.
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  448. I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but had my first ever date and hug 7 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. Recently got ignored by this another girl who just turned 20 today and I knew her for over 8 months and also were in the same school at one point but didn't know each other in school and we chatted on Instagram regularly for 8 months but she suddenly has been ignoring me since the past 3 weeks even though we even planned to eat in many restaurants and sent each other virtual hugs and couldn't even wish her in her birthday. I am currently having crush on this another girl who is within 21-23 age range and we go for the same institute but in different classrooms. I just graduated college 9 months ago and gonna pursue MBA now and going for classes. I have been having brief conversations with her and even complimented her twice but 2 days ago I finally got her number in a very clever way. I was learning about Google Forms in my classes so I created one car related survey on Google Form and told her that its a part of an assignment so I need many responses so she agreed to fill the form too so I asked for her number so I can send it to her on Whatsapp and she gave me her number. But after I sent her the form, she didn't even read the whatsapp text. She said she would fill it whenever she can but still she neither read my text nor replied but I am still keeping hopes. She is also very pretty almost model like whereas I am not that attractive especially in my glasses so idk whether she would like me back or not.
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  449. So is it still a bad idea as an Asian to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. Yesterday while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had know idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  450. Maybe you are right. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 5 days and still no girlfriend. Btw say honestly, is it really creepy of me to follow girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days? They are all 20-22 year olds now and I follow many of them and even chat with 2 or 3 of them. Why do some people say its creepy even though I knew them high school?
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  451. So is it still bad as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 4 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  452. BTW Is it still fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 10 days ago, I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly last week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women and not today either. The only foreigner I saw last week was a black African guy 3 days ago. I really hope I meet one this week but I just have no idea what to talk with them about. Today actually I went to eat in this Thai restaurant in our city Bangalore and one of the female staff of the restaurant wore a more traditional Thai dress and I am sure she is Thai judging by her facial features and structures and she seemed to be in her 20s too or maybe even 30s and I also saw another South East Asian looking woman with blonde hair outside the restaurant but idk whether she is Thai or just from north eastern part of India where people look South East Asian. I could have started a conversation with them asking whether they are from Thailand or not but I was shy again. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked last week briefly too. So if I go to that restaurant again, should I try to get to know that Thai woman who is the restaurant staff or that other blonde South East Asian looking woman?
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  453. I stopped using dating apps for the past 2-3 months as they never worked for me. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. Recently I started going for some classes to get coaching for upcoming exams(which starts from Nov last week) to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 2 weeks ago and planning to study MBA next. There I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on our first class which was on 13th July 2023 and she sometimes tries to initiate convos with me asking whether I had lunch or not and says me hi but I just answer her what she asks or say hi back and I am still shy near girls in person so I am usually shy to try to initiate any talks with her unless she herself is the one who tries to talk with me first. BTW 5 days ago, she actually said she finds me cute and that really made me blush hard and my friends too teased me hehe so I feel a little more hopeful now. Since 28th May 2023, I also have been chatting with this 19 year old girl on Instagram. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other and now she is in a different college which is very near to my home tho and I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago who is 21 now turning 22 very soon. But my childhood friend is very inactive on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up, she didn't reply about when exactly we can meet up as she takes weeks and even a month to reply to me. I do chat with the 19 year old regularly sending each other virtual hugs and sharing everything like about our day, classes, about ourselves and many more but it still looks like she just sees me as a friend so I am still nervous to ask her out as I also got rejected recently by 4 girls.
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  454. Wow really in your 40s? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. I got rejected by 3 girls very recently(I got rejected by 7 girls so far in total). I got blocked by 2 of them on Instagram after I asked them out and they were in the same school as me too and one of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up but blocked me after few days. 4 days ago I tried asking out another girl who is 20 and she too was in the same school as me and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she too rejected me saying that I am nice but she isn't comfortable with meeting up with me so we can't meet up and she unfollowed me on Instagram. But there is still some hope as I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months and I genuinely like her too and we used to be very close friends when we were both in elementary school but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to my message yet. I am still waiting for her reply and I am honestly expecting a positive reply but idk.
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  455. Wow really 45? I am 24 and never had a gf. I am just in my final semester of my MBA and I am an intern now in a Startup which will convert to full time in August and living in Bangalore in India but I am Bengali Indian. I was always shy to talk with girls and only started fully socializing with girls last year after entering my 2nd year (3rd sem) of MBA. Now as I am interning in a young startup, I get to meet plenty of girls in my age group too (21–26 range). I am socializing daily with many female interns now and approaching them but they already have their circle of friends and there isn’t a proper cafeteria or place to socialize during breaks in our office and many go out with their friends who are from their college or familiar friends making socializing with girls harder as I directly approaching them independently when I see them. One girl who is 21-22 and an intern too even gave her number to me 2 days ago but even she is mostly with her friends. Its hard in a collectivist country like India even though I gained a lot of confidence when it comes to approaching and talking to girls.
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  456. Does it mean I have no chance as an Indian guy to date a foreign woman? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. 2 days ago, I went to this really very posh area of our city and saw some foreign women who were all white blonde European who are expats in my city. I am usually shy but this time I tried cold approaching 2 of them by saying them excuse me to initiate a conversation the same way done in the video. The 1st woman who looked about 27-35 age range was wearing earphones so she never noticed me. The 2nd woman looked older probably in her late 30s or even early 40s and she wasn't even wearing earphones but she still didn't even look at me when I said her excuse me. I saw another younger white blonde woman who was definitely in her mid or late 20s but she was on a bicycle so I had no chance. I even saw a Hispanic and East Asian woman in another part of the city 2 weeks ago but was shy to talk to them. The only time this cold approach worked was 2 months ago with a French woman near my University where I am studying MBA but the conversation was brief and I never met her again.
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  457. Honestly I don't want a long distance relationship because it will be hard for me to meet her. I want the girl to be in my city too. Btw do you think my case is problematic too? I am a 21 year old guy and got matched by a 19 year old girl on a dating app and we both live in the same city and we had been chatting only for 4 days. We are from different college tho and idk where her house is tho. Will it be as problematic as the long distance relationships in which both lives in different cities or even country?
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  458. I am not a passport bro but I am a 23 year old guy living in the city Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf. Even though I am talking with several girls in my University where I study MBA now and they are Indian too but even after having some good rapport with some of them, none of them seem to be fully interested in me and are little to no responsive to me on social media chats even though friendly to me in person so not having much luck with Indian women. Idk when I will move abroad but as Bangalore is the major IT hub of India and a major metropolitan city, foreigners do come here as expats and many goes to this luxurious mall of our city named UB City. I talked with 7 such expat women so far in UB City and all were white Caucasian women from countries like US, Germany, France, Luxembourg and Australia. I have had long enough conversation with some of them especially the one from US and Germany and they were friendly to me but unfortunately we couldn't connect further on social media and never got to meet again as I don't frequent UB City that often and I was worried whether asking her social media was fine as we just met. One of them(the woman from Luxembourg) was married too and said she lives in the city with her husband. The American woman with whom I talked in a Cafe inside the mall is 29 and friendly but it ended, same with the German woman who was 27-30 age range. I also met another one from Germany who is a Law student in our city and she is 20 and we had a good conversation and I regret not asking her socials as she was dressing in UB City. I also had a chance of talking to an East Asian expat woman in the mall too but she seemed to be in a hurry so I just didn't get the chance.
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  459. Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy but I never had a girlfriend before and its definitely bothering me. I got rejected by 4 girls recently. I asked out my childhood friend 2 months ago and she is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took a month to reply to it but she agreed to meet up and again didn't reply for over a month about when we can meet up until today and she asked me when can I meet and I said we can meet on some weekend maybe when we both are full free as I have some exams going on now so she replied ooh ok we will see when we can meet and apologized for late replies. I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023. She is 19 now and she used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We chat daily and she shares everything to me and I do the same too and we even send each other virtual hugs but there is still no flirting yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but I am nervous especially after getting rejected 4 times recently. Is a month long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not?
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  460. Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes and some more questions about myself. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  461. Wow man really at 47? I am a 22 year old guy and never even had any girlfriend. I use dating apps, message girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but no luck at all. The only girl who is nice and sweet to me is a 20 year old girl with whom I had been chatting on Instagram for almost a month. We were in the same school but now in different college in the same city. She is very sweet and makes me blush and we send each other hugs. But a couple of weeks ago she said she has a boyfriend which confuses me because she is still being flirty to me calling me cute and we send each other hugs and when I say her that I am sad about something, she says sweet things and makes me smile and we also talk about hugging one day for real so idk whether she just lied that she has a boyfriend.
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  462. Wow really at 42? Did you have a girlfriend before?BTW I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 6 days and its been bothering me that I still don't have a girlfriend. I am on dating apps but only got some matches. Most of these matches are 18-23 year old girls and they end up ghosting or rejecting me. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me as well. I follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now and I even chat with some of them but many times, they kinda ignore my messages too for a day or so.
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  463. ​​ @TravelLoverForLife  By weird age gaps do you also mean smaller age gaps like a 23 year old dating an 18 year old or a larger age gap like a 40 year old dating a 20 year old? I am 23 and I prefer women in the 19-28 age range.
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  464.  @TravelLoverForLife  But what about a 5 year age gap between 18 with a 23 year old? Will 18 and 23 still raise eyebrows? What about 19 and 23? Or even 20 and 23? Is 19-28 a good range for dating for a 23 year old male?
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  465. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and I tried to connect with girls whom I knew in my high school days by following them on IG but they didn't even accept my follow request and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls who matches with me on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me or end up ghosting me. But one 19 year old girl who matched with me last week turned out to be very mean to me 2 days ago and insulted me after I tried to ask her out after chatting with her for over a week and she literally called me ugly and said no girl would want me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  466.  @o0RealLifeWerewolf0o  oh so you are a woman? I thought you were a man. Btw if you were single, would you have gone for a 21 or a 22 year old guy? I am 21 who never had a girlfriend and after seeing most girls around my age being mean to me, I really wanna date an older woman who is at least 27 and older.
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  467. I am in the same boat as you but I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. After 3 rejections recently, I did ask out my childhood friend who is 21 year old now turning 22 soon by messaging her on Instagram and she did reply yeah ok but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and now again she hasn't been online for weeks and still yet to reply about when we can meet but I am still waiting. But since 28th May 2023, I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days. Now she is 19 year old and is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and we chat daily about pretty much everything and we send each other virtual hugs too and I think I started liking her too but so far it still looks like she just sees me as a friend as the chats doesn't get very flirty yet and we have been chatting for almost a month. We are also in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. I do wanna ask her out but my childhood friend didn't reject me too and I like both of them.
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  468. How old are you? Did you have a gf before? BTW is it still a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 4 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  469.  @lachlanbrown409  A 35 year old is a grown adult. Even I would date a woman in her 30s or 40s now at just 23. BTW I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and never had a girlfriend before and only had my first ever date 5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(20 now) and had my first ever hug but she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere. 2 weeks ago, I got a new crush on this girl in the classes where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I graduated college about 6-7 months ago, but she is in another classroom. She is within the 21-23 age range and I was really shy to talk her but last week I did talk a bit to her with the help of my friends and one of her classmate. Her classmate said she is single so I was happy and said her Hi again and she too smiled and said me Hi back. But yesterday one of her another classmate said that she probably has a boyfriend who isn't in the institute where I go for classes. Idk whether to believe it or not unless she herself says she has a boyfriend. I sent her a follow request on Instagram and a dm too but no reply yet and its been a day already so I have been feeling down. Whats worse is I had crush on this another girl in our class there who also turned 23 last month and she has called me cute and i gave her chocolates too but was too shy to confess it to her. Now she is ignoring me and not talking with me after she came to know about my new crush on this other girl. What sucks is many girls in the institute are committed and its risky to approach them because yesterday I messaged another girl on Instagram and it was a normal chat but her boyfriend threatened me (I didn't know she had a bf) and I had to apologize. It makes me sad how most girls are taken and its hard to find someone who is single even at my age 23.
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  470. Nah I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore and I definitely don't want an arranged marriage in future.
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  471. Damn man did you have a gf or dates before? I am a guy who turned 23 just over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date a bit over 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 a week ago) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and had my first hug ever from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she is really cute. 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean and toxic to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. For the past 6 months, I also have been crushing on this girl in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA next. She also just turned 23 over a week ago and she has called me cute before and I pulled her cheeks twice too but I am usually shy near girls in person so she is the one who usually initiates conversations with me and its usually short as I have nothing more to say as an introvert. I do see her with some male friends so that makes me worried thinking what if she goes for either of them. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in that same class and she is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends. We just roamed around our city and then had lunch in a big restaurant and had lots of fun. I did pull her cheeks once while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. We might go out again in Feb probably. But yesterday I got a new crush(yeah I am a mess haha) on this another girl who is also 22 or 23 in the same institute but different classrooms and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen but I was again shy to approach her but I got to know her name and followed her on Instagram but she is yet to accept it and maybe then I will message her after 2-3 days but its possible that she probably has a boyfriend too. I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram for over 6 months. She is 19(turning 20 in April). We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since July 2023. We are planning to meet up too and eat somewhere as we are both foodies and we send each other virtual hugs in the chats daily and she is really sweet too. But in the end I am still single.
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  472. If that was true then I wouldn't have been single all my life. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and no first kiss either. I use dating apps and hardly ever get matches and few of the 18-23 age girls who matches with me ends up ghosting me. I follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds and even they hardly chat with me. One of the girl who is 20 or 21 now even said she isn't comfortable chatting as we never interacted in high school days. I bet she wouldn't have said that if I was more attractive. Why can't we just get to know each other and its just an online chat. I am not asking her now to go on a date with me. I wanna try my luck with another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. She is 21 now and only 5-6 months younger than me and she still remembers me but we hardly chat much because she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or so. I really wanna meet her in person and maybe give her a long hug but idk how.
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  473. How old are you now? Is she your gf now? I am a 21 year old guy who never even had his first kiss and I never had a girlfriend. After having no luck with 4 girls I know in real life, finally 2 days ago I was matched with a girl on one of the dating apps who isn't ghosting me so far. She is 19 years old and we had a decent chat for the past 2 days and she too lives in my city but we are in different college and different course too. Do you think I will at least get my first kiss this time? I am scared that she might ghost me too or wouldn't want me
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  474. I am a guy who turned 22 just 2 weeks ago and already feel old at times and feel as if my youth is over. I will be graduating college in mid 2023 and then go for MBA but I feel like I missed out on so many things and still living with parents too. I never had a girlfriend and it's bothering me so much. Girls either reject or ghost me most of the time. Also I see other college age people hanging out with friends in malls and cafes in group of both males and females whereas I never did all these as I hardly have much friends.
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  475. I am 23 and liked a girl who was 19 few months ago but she turned 20 in a month so we are 20 and 23 anyways but was it bad that we were 19 and 23 at starting?
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  476. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed too. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches. A week ago, I saw another girl in a class where I joined for some courses recently and she is also a college student from a different college and I think she is 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too. I think I got crush on her but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her. I can only see her again on 1st Nov because she went out of city for 2 weeks.
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  477.  @Sylentmana  But that girl is really beautiful and has a cute voice. She is also about the same age as me. Like I said I am 21 and she is also any age within the 18-21 age range so she in the same age group as me and both of us are students but she is in a different college but we go for the same class for that course.
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  478.  @Sylentmana  But I guess it's normal at my age to be shy and not have much confidence with girls and to get crush on beautiful girls. I am 14 years younger than you. When you were 27, I was only 13. Even though I am 21, I still feel mentally as if I am 14-16 especially with all these crushes I get on girls(don't worry I only get crush on girls within the 18 to 28 age range).
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  479. Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 22 just over 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and never had a real kiss with a girl either except getting kissed on the cheek by a female friend when we both were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls and they end up ghosting me. Only one girl who is 19 on dating app didn't ghost me yet and we have things in common to chat about but idk. I also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now. I had the best chat with a girl who is 20 now and she was 2 years my junior in school. She is better than most of the girls I have chatted with and we had been chatting for the past 10 days. But 4 days ago I kinda messed up by giving her a cheesy compliment after only 6 days of chatting with her which made her a little uncomfortable but I apologized and said I only said it to make her smile so she forgive me and thanked me. We still chat but idk whether I can try out my luck on her or not.
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  480. Have been on dates before? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend and only been on 1 first date many months ago at the age of 22 and then a month later hanged out with my female friend, hugged only 2 girls in person and still never had my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and in my University too had crush on this girl for 7 months who is also 23 now but 5 months ago got crush on another prettier girl(sadly she wasn't into me either but she was the 2nd girl I hugged in person) in the same University so my previous crush stopped talking to me and I miss her. I had a summer break from University for 3 months and today finally new semester started for us and I literally initiated conversation with 3 girls in my University who are MBA students too and within 21-23 age range and I had a long enough conversation with one of them who too was comfortable enough to talk to me but idk about my chances as I look like a nerd in my glasses and she is really pretty too. But it was a big change and improvement for me as I had always been shy near girls and in my high school days I completely avoided talking with girls as I was bullied a lot in school and continued being shy further too in my undergrad and even in my MBA too few months ago, I was still shy to initiate conversation with girls and even though I could talk with my crushes, there was still some nervousness here and there but today I went out of my comfort zone and talked with not 1 not 2 but 3 girls. Thats only because I initiated conversation with 3 expat women in my city Bangalore and they were white Caucasian women (yes foreigners do come to Bangalore as expats as its one of the major metropolitan city of India and popular for its IT(tech). First one was a French woman with whom I talked near my University almost 5 months ago who was within 22-26 age range and the next was a German woman 2 months ago and then yesterday again I saw another white blonde lady who looked to be within 26-30 age range and probably from Germany or maybe some Scandinavian country too and I waved my hand at her as she was walking and smiled at her saying her Hi and she too waved her hand back at me with a bit of a smile but couldn't have a conversation as the cab that I booked had arrived but would love to meet her again. So yeah I am happy that finally I can talk with women now whether Indian or foreigner but sadly it took me 23 years to get rid of my shyness.
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  481. I am a 21 year old male virgin and I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. After getting rejected by 2 girls in my college and no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since my high school days and also no luck on dating apps, finally 6 days ago, a girl matched with me on one of the dating apps and for the first time, I had a decent chat with a girl on dating app without getting ghosted. She is a 19 year old girl and for the past 6 days, the chats were decent enough. We live in the same city but different college and different course too. Do you think this time I will at least get my first kiss? I also get worried thinking what if she ends up ghosting me too or wouldn't want me.
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  482. Did I miss out a lot if I am 22 and never dated? I am a guy who turned 22 almost 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and never had a real kiss with a girl except getting kissed on the cheek by a girl when we were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched by 18-23 age girls but they ghost me for no reason. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but got rejected. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now and I had the best chat with a girl for the past 6-7 days. She is 20 and I knew her in school and she was 2 years my junior. She seems so much better than other girls I have chatted with. I kinda messed up a bit today by giving her a cheesy compliment today but I apologized and said that I just wanted to make her smile and she thanked me and said it was sweet of me. Btw I have no idea whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  483. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. I started going for some classes to prepare for some exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3 weeks ago and I am planning to study MBA next. There in the class, I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She tries to initiate conversations with me and say me hi but I just say her hi back and answer what she asks but I am still shy to initiate any further talks with her. Almost 2 weeks ago, she actually said that I am cute and that made me blush a lot and today I gave her chocolate too. I was really shy but with my friends being with me, I gave her the chocolate and she thanked me with a smile and we did a handshake. I do feel a bit worried as she has 2-3 male friends in our class so I feel scared thinking what if she goes for either of them. Also in this Saturday, me and a girl who is 19 year old now planned to meet in a McDonald's near her college. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and we just have been kinda knowing each other for several months via Instagram. I have never been on a date or even a normal hang out with a girl so I am nervous. I am also worried whether she is really serious about hanging out with me on Saturday or she is joking as I just got rejected by several girls before. I am afraid that what if I mess up or something. I am hoping things will be fine and it won't get cancelled. I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago and she is 21 turning 22 soon and even she agreed to meet up but she is very inactive on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to my messages so she still haven't replied when we can exactly meet.
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  484.  @pauleasley6488  Yeah thats another reason why I was hesitant to approach them. The bad reputation Indian men have among Western women. Again idk whether they are Americans or not like they can be Russian too or maybe German or any European. Because of some creepy Indian men online and these crime cases, Western women think most Indian men are bad. I am actually well educated and a respectful person but can also be really shy. I am just a student and a 23 year old with no relationship experience at all.
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  485.  @fatimahanwaar306  What is your opinion about a 21 or 22 year old guy dating an 18 year old girl? I am a 21 year old guy and got crush on a girl in a class where I joined recently and she is from a different college and she is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but idk her exact age yet so she can be 18 too. I will be turning 22 this December.
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  486. I can understand how you feel. I am also an only child too and I feel lonely. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks and she rejected me. I use 3 datings apps but barely get any matches and get ghosted if I get matched by one. 6 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined recently for some course. She is a college student from a different college and she is definitely within the 19-21 age range but idk her exact age so she can be 18 too and she is beautiful but she went out of city for 2 weeks so she hasn't come for the classes and I can see her again on 1st Nov. Idk whether I can go for her as she is from a different college.
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  487.  @enssorceler4754  Same here man I am 21 and too shy to approach girls. I use dating apps but barely get any matches. I saw a girl in a class 6 days ago where I joined and she is 19-21 year old but can be 18 too as idk her age yet and she is from a different college. I really don't know whether she would want me. Even I look younger than my age. Most of my friends say I look around 17.
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  488. Damn man did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and yet to even get my first kiss. I started going for some classes for almost 2 months for preparation of upcoming exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and I wanna study MBA next. There I got a crush on this girl in my class who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She says me hi daily with a smile and we do handshake and she tries to initiate conversations with me but I just answer what she asks or say hi back but I am still shy to initiate any further talks with her. 4 weeks ago, I came to know that she finds me cute and that made me blush a lot and my friends teased me too and 2 weeks ago I gave her a chocolate too and she smiled and thanked me with a handshake. Today she heard my singing too along with several of my friends and she seemed to have liked my singing too. The only problem is I am shy and I also smile a lot in class plus she has 3 or 4 male friends so I feel worried whether she will go for either of them. Also this Saturday, me and this other girl who is 19 year old planned to meet up in a mall in our city. We had been chatting on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other those days. We seem to have several things in common and send each other virtual hugs too but I am worried whether she is really serious about meeting and hanging out with me that day because I have been rejected by 4 girls so far so I don't trust my luck. I am also hoping to get my first kiss that day or at least a hug from her or hold hands. I hope the plan doesn't get cancelled. 4 months ago I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 by the end of this month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to me so even though she agreed to meet with me, I don't know yet when we will meet.
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  489. What do you feel about Indian men? Is it still fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 8 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy yesterday. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  490. Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  491.  @greydeathangel  oh that sucks. Btw did you read my full comment?
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  492. Is it still fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 8 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy yesterday. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  493. @HailUniverse I will date whoever I want to. You all people can date foreigners and I can't? Why? I will date which ever race I want to
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  494. @HailUniverse did you even read that full comment? In my last para I said about my crush in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too. She is very pretty almost model like and she is actually Marathi whereas I am Bengali and we both live in Bangalore.
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  495. @HailUniverse Grade? Dude I am 23 year old engineering graduate and now studying MBA
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  496. @HailUniverse My crush is Indian too where I go for MBA. She is Marathi tho but I am Bengali and we both live in Bangalore.
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  497. So is it really a bad idea as an Asian student to want to date a Westerner who came to my country as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses and I am well educated too with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  498. Woah man are you really a 70 year old? Please say the truth because its hard to believe that a 70 year old never had a girlfriend. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before either and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took a month to reply to it but she replied yeah ok. We also told that maybe we can meet on some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I have been going for some classes to prepare for some exams to get into MBA as I am pretty much done with college and there I got a new crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on the first day of our class and said our names and it was the first time I did handshake with a girl. Last week she was initiating convo with me asking whether I had lunch or not and some more and I answered them but I am still shy to initiate any further convos with her so the our conversations end soon and for the past 2-3 days she isn't trying to talk to me anymore and I am shy to try to start any conversation with her. I did follow her on Instagram yesterday and she followed me back too but I didn't dm her yet. I always think about her and wanna get to know her. I also have been chatting with this another girl who is 19 now on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she too used to be in the same school as me but now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho and we chat daily about everything and even send each other virtual hugs too but I am nervous to ask her out too as I got rejected by 4 girls recently and it still looks like she only sees me as a friend. Whats crazy is I like this 19 year old and I also like my childhood friend and this new crush who is 22/23 year old.
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  499.  @billmclaurin6959  Did you read my full comment? Why no reply about that?
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  500. So do you feel I missed out as I am 22 now and never dated? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. Recently got unmatched by 2 girls(one is 19 and another is 21) on dating app after I asked them out even after a decent chat. I also tried asking out this girl who is 19 turning 20 in August and we were in the same school but now in different colleges and we have been chatting on Instagram for a month and she even agreed to meet up and I was super happy but she blocked me mysteriously for no reason last week. Then 5 days ago I tried asking out another girl who is turning 20 after a few weeks and we also were in the same school and have been chatting on insta for over 3 weeks but she immediately blocked me after I asked her out for a coffee. My only last hope is this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 and now she is 21 turning 22 after like 4 months. I asked her out too for a coffee but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't even see or reply to my message yet but honestly I am hoping for a positive reply but also worried that she might reject me too.
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  501. How old are you? Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 22 just 19 days ago and never had a girlfriend and never been kissed before and I only have few friends who are males. Honestly after getting ghosted and rejected by girls, I am thinking about trying my luck on a girl who was my childhood friend. She was friend when we both were in elementary school in 2008-2011. We used to play together, study together, have sleepovers etc but since 2011, we never really talked as my parents bought a new apartment and we came to a different area. She is 21 now and only 5 months younger than me. I messaged her on Instagram recently and she still remembers me. I think I kinda fall in love with her seeing her pics on IG as she looks very cute. I really wanna go on date with her but idk how. I would love to give her a long hug too but idk when it will happen.
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  502. I turned 22 just 3 days ago and I never had a girlfriend either and its bothering me a lot. Got rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago and had not much luck in dating apps. Btw yesterday I got some hope after one girl finally accepted my follow request on Instagram. I knew her in high school days and we were in the same grade but we weren't classmates. I had crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. Now she is also either 21 or 22 and she is even prettier now and she accepted my follow request after about 2 months. I guess she doesn't remember me much tho as she didn't follow me back so idk how can I get to know her and I am afraid that she might be having a boyfriend now.
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  503.  Mabus Nero  how is it over when I am just 22? I don't have plenty of time still as I am still in my early 20s?
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  504. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas and will be graduating college next year and I never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far(2 from my college and another from a dating app who insulted me too). I tried following some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school but only 3 of them followed me back and I still didn't message them yet as idk what to write and they are also 21-22 year olds. But I am sad that the girl named Britney didn't accept my follow request yet. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and she is very pretty and I wish she follow me back because I think I again got a crush on her just seeing her profile pic on IG and she is even prettier now at 21.
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  505.  @kmagic11  Haha yeah but I was born in 22nd December 2000 so our years are different but yeah we have birthday on the same day
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  506.  @WideArthur  I am a 21 year old guy and literally got rejected by a 20 year old girl who matched with me on dating app because she prefers bad guys and I was being nice to her. I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had crush on 2 girls in my college too recently. One is 19 and another is 20 or 21. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot but she rejected me. I am barely getting matches on dating apps too and even if I get matched, the girl eventually ghosts me. My most recent match was an 18 year old girl just about 2 weeks ago but she too ghosted me after a small chat.
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  507.  @WideArthur  Sadly it's kinda hard for me as I have no social life and only have few close friends who doesn't live near my home. What's worse is I still live with parents and whenever I go out, most of the time my parents too come out with me which makes it harder for me to meet girls. But even without them coming, I am still shy. I recently joined some classes for some courses and saw a girl today who is a college student too and she is within the 19-21 age range and I am 21 so our ages are perfect but I saw her for the first time today so I was too shy to say her hi. I messed up my college life too. I will be turning 22 this December which makes me even more sad.
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  508. Woah really at 60? I am a guy who turned 22 just 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and never had a real kiss with a girl except getting kissed on the cheek by a girl when we were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched by 18-23 age girls but they ghost me for no reason. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but got rejected. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now and I had the best chat with a girl for the past 6-7 days. She is 20 and I knew her in school and she was 2 years my junior. She seems so much better than other girls I have chatted with. I kinda messed up a bit today by giving her a cheesy compliment today but I apologized and said that I just wanted to make her smile and she thanked me and said it was sweet of me. Btw I have no idea whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  509. I am a 22 year old guy and I don't wanna miss out on dating 18-24 year olds when I am myself in my young 20s. I never had a girlfriend before unfortunately. Now at 22, I would still have many things in common with early 20s and even 18 and 19 year old girls as I am a college age student too which will make the dating more fun. After 24 or 25, I will be too old for 18 and 19 year olds and in my 30s and 40s I would be too old for early 20s girls so I would have nothing much in common with them. I wanna date early 20s girls when I am myself in my early 20s too which is my current age now but sadly no luck so far.
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  510. What is your opinion between the 3 years 4 months age gap between us? I turned 23 just a bit over a month ago(I am a guy) and like a girl who is 19 turning 20 in April.
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  511. I am a guy who turned 23 like 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before. I went on my first ever date 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 few days ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds there and got my first hug from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she was cute. But 2 weeks after the date she became toxic and mean to me and blocked me on all social media. She basically used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. I also have massive crush on this another girl for the past 6 months where I go for some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college about 6 months ago and going to study MBA next. She also turned 23 just a few days ago. She has even called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too but I am shy near women in person so she is the one who initiates conversation with me. Few months ago I gave her a chocolate too but I often see her with her male friends so I get worried whether I have chance with her or not. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in the same class who is also 23 but so far we are just friends. We just roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant and I pulled her cheeks a bit too when we took selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. It was a fun day and we might go out again probably next month. I also have been following some girls on Instagram who are in the 21-25 age range from the same institute but different classrooms and messaged few of them and had been chatting with 2 or 3 of them who are also about 22 and 23 year olds. Since July 2023, I also have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who is 19(turning 20 in April). We were in the same school but didn't know each other in school days so we only have been knowing each other for 6 months. We also send each other virtual hugs and she is very sweet and we have many things in common like we are both foodies, like similar types of movies and many more and we plan to meet up to eat somewhere very soon too but in the end I am still single.
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  512. At least you had 2 relationships. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. After 3 rejections recently, I did ask out my childhood friend who is 21 year old now turning 22 soon by messaging her on Instagram and she did reply yeah ok but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and now again she hasn't been online for weeks and still yet to reply about when we can meet but I am still waiting. But since 28th May 2023, I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days. Now she is 19 year old and is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and we chat daily about pretty much everything and we send each other virtual hugs too and I think I started liking her too but so far it still looks like she just sees me as a friend as the chats doesn't get very flirty yet and we have been chatting for almost a month. We are also in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. I do wanna ask her out but my childhood friend didn't reject me too and I like both of them.
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  513.  @cico9117  I am a guy who turned 22 just several weeks ago and I really like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in March.
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  514. I understand how you feel as I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? It looks like she still sees me as only a friend but will it take longer for her to develop feelings for me or is 3-4 weeks already long enough? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  515. ​ @yasminogbu8929  Is it fine for a 22 year old guy to date an 18 almost 19 year old girl if both are in college? I am 22 and I like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in August so we are only 3.5 years apart in age. She is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. I actually never had a girlfriend before and got rejected by several girls recently who were in the 19-22 age range and now I like this girl who just happened to be 18-19 so is it fine to ask her out?
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  516.  @leandroleguizamontaz  But it isn't a long distance relationship. We live in the same city so we have a chance of meeting up.
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  517.  @leandroleguizamontaz  It's only been a week since we matched. Is it still bad if she doesn't come online? It's not like she is online but ignoring my messages. I am 21 and she is 19 so we are both super close in age too. We had a very good chat for the first 5 days but the past 2 days she didn't come online on the app itself.
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  518.  @leandroleguizamontaz  I had crush on 2 girls recently in my college. One was 19(now 20) and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl(who just turned 20 few days ago) on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Instagram for 3 weeks and she rejected me. Few days ago I heard a song which reminded me of a girl who was my high school crush. We were in same grade but we weren't classmates and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. Now she is also 21 or maybe even 22 and tried following her on Instagram thinking I could try my luck on her but she didn't even accept my follow request and she didn't even answer my message which I sent her.
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  519. Yeah I am a guy who turned 22 just 6 days ago and I never had a girlfriend before and never been kissed. Its been bothering me a lot now. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago. One was 19(turned 20 last month) and another was 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I use dating apps but hardly get matches. Last week I was matched by 2 girls. One was 18 turning 19 in Feb and she unmatched me for no reason whereas another was 21 and she too ended up ghosting and unmatching me. Yesterday I was matched with this 20 year old girl who unmatched me after I told her that my hobby is singing and that was strange. I also follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds too and only like 2 of them chat with me.
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  520. BTW Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 10 days ago, I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly last week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women and not today either. The only foreigner I saw last week was a black African guy 3 days ago. I really hope I meet one this week but I just have no idea what to talk with them about. Today actually I went to eat in this Thai restaurant in our city Bangalore and one of the female staff of the restaurant wore a more traditional Thai dress and I am sure she is Thai judging by her facial features and structures and she seemed to be in her 20s too or maybe even 30s and I also saw another South East Asian looking woman with blonde hair outside the restaurant but idk whether she is Thai or just from north eastern part of India where people look South East Asian. I could have started a conversation with them asking whether they are from Thailand or not but I was shy again. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked last week briefly too. So if I go to that restaurant again, should I try to get to know that Thai woman who is the restaurant staff or that other blonde South East Asian looking woman?
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  521. Thats sad man. Btw did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes and some more questions about myself. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  522.  @Aleksandar6ix  Btw yesterday I heard a song which was released in 2009 and I felt nostalgic hearing it and it reminds me of a girl whom I knew since my school days. She was in the same grade as me but we weren't in the same class and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so the same age as me and I followed her on Instagram but she hasn't accepted my follow request yet. I wish she could be my girlfriend now but she is too pretty and I was considered a loser by most guys in my grade in high school so maybe she would still find me lame even though she probably didn't know me properly. She also probably has a boyfriend. I really wish she follow me back so I can chat with her and get to know her.
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  523.  @anemopixie5220  I am not a kiddo. I clearly wrote I am 22.
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  524.  @BLUESKY-zt1nv  it's still scary that you are 60 and never had one. I am 22 now and already feel terrible that I have no girlfriend. I see all these teenagers on Quora saying they got girlfriend and boyfriend and they are like 13-15 year olds and I am like how can they have it so easy whereas I am 22 and still not even a single girlfriend. It's crazy that there are also people like you who are 60 and never had one so that shows things are unfair.
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  525.  @BLUESKY-zt1nv  it's scary. I am 22 and will be graduating college in mid 2023 and then study MBA and have 0 social life too as I am an introvert. All I am relying on is dating apps and Instagram to socialize with girls around my age. I chat with some girls on Instagram but my only hope is on my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months but it's been a long time since we talked in person so idk whether she would be comfortable if I dared to ask her out
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  526.  @Cole_Cross  How am I a baby? I am 22 now which is considered a grown adult. I never had a gf and having 0 luck
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  527. How old are you? Did you have a gf before? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and have always been shy near girls and only recently I am talking some girls in my University where I am studying MBA now and I have only been on 1 first date last year September, only hugged 2 girls in person and just pinched cheeks of one of my crush and still haven't been kissed. I am talking with some girls in my University but there is this girl with whom things have been a bit turbulent. She is 22 and my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year of MBA a month ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far but all our in person conversations were positive and she even smiled at times while talking. She is an introvert similar to me and an introvert too so we got along well but recently I had to go to my hometown Siliguri for 8-9 days and suddenly she unfollowed me on Instagram 5-6 days ago right after viewing my stories so I am confused what happened and sad as we only had positive conversations with her in person so far. I asked my close male friend for an advice and he suggested me to reach out to her in person and clarify any misunderstanding by keeping the conversation light at first so I will do it tomorrow when I meet her in person as I am back to Bangalore now but I am so nervous about it.
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  528. That's sad that you are alone. Honestly if we were in the same city, I would have tried my luck on you. I am a 21 year old guy so we are both close enough in age. I would have never make you feel alone. One hug for you just to make you smile 🤗
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  529. Wow man really at 43? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend but I have been on my first ever date and got my first ever hug almost 8 months ago at the age of 22 but didn't work out. Then got ignored or rejected by several of my crushes. My current crush is in my University where are both MBA 1st year students and graduated college 10 months ago and She is also within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like. She is in a different classroom so our conversations were mostly brief but I managed to get her number and almost 2 weeks ago, I even hugged her for the first time as it was our last exams and we won't be able to meet for 3 months as we have to complete an internship within May to July and our next semester classes will start in August. She did give an awkward smile when I hugged her. I literally wrapped her in my arms whereas she didn't really wrap me in her arms but she pat my back once and said ok i have to study for exam so bye. I also said her bye. It was my 2nd time I hugged a girl in person and I was so happy but I was worried whether she was comfortable enough or not but I called her on phone 5 days ago and she picked the call and we had a normal conversation in phone. I still don't whether she likes me back or not.
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  530. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  531. Wow man 62? BTW is it a bad idea as an Asian to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. Yesterday while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had know idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  532.  @theblackboxpodcastshow1791  ok man I will. Honestly I already feel as if I am running out of time as I am 23 year old and never had a relationship before. It feels as if I am kinda late at my age and it would be harder for me to overcome my shyness near women. Plus even if I talked with the foreigners, would they really be interested in getting to know a 23 year old student as they are in the working world now and what if they are actually in their 30s too(they can be in their 20s too tho)? I have no problem with age as long as they are adults but I see many women saying they don't want a younger man. I like my crush in the classes where I go too who is basically the same age as me but the conversations have been really brief as I am an introvert.
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  533. Wow man 49? Did you have a gf before? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(20 now) and had my first hug too but sadly she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere and I also went out with a female friend 4 months ago who is also 23 and ate in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date. But almost 3 weeks ago, I got a new crush on this girl in a class where we go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 7 months ago but we are in different classrooms. She is also within the 21-23 age range and I had been too shy to talk to her but 2 weeks ago eventually with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was able to talk to her and again said her Hi last week. That classmate of her did say she is single but last week another of her classmate said that she probably has a boyfriend so that makes me feel confused whether to pursue her or not but I won't believe it unless she herself says she has a bf. 6 days ago, I again talked with her a bit and even we did handshake and she smiled too but I was definitely still sounding a bit nervous while talking with her. Sadly she still didn't follow me back or reply to my first dm to her on Instagram and its been 10 days already so idk whats up as she was still friendly with me 6 days ago. She is very very pretty almost model like and I just look average. Without my glasses, I look better but I have high power so should wear them all the time and look really nerdy and dorky in it so idk whether I even have a chance with her. I had crush on another girl in the same classes for the past 6-7 months and she also turned 23 last month. I liked her a lot and she even called me cute several times and I also gave her chocolate 2 weeks ago but was too shy to say her that I liked her but she probably knew I had a crush on her tho. Sadly she is ignoring me these days as she came to know about my new crush on this another girl. I also have been chatting with this girl on Instagram for the past 7 months and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other that time and now she is in a different college. She is 19(turning 20 in April) and she is super sweet and we are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs and chat daily talking about almost everything. We will meet soon too and go to eat somewhere but I am still single in the end.
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  534. Wow did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 22 several weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before. I use dating apps and get matched by 18-23 age girls but get ghosted by them. Only one girl who is 19 didn't ghost me completely but we don't chat regularly. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds now. I had the best chat with a girl who is 20 for 2 weeks. She was my junior in school days. Unfortunately I messed up a bit a week ago by giving her a cheesy compliment but she forgive me and we still chat but I don't know whether I can ask her out or not.
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  535. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Btw is a month long enough to know whether someone is interested in me or not? I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up she haven't replied yet about when we can meet. I have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. We are in different colleges now but we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school. So we only have been getting to know each other for a bit over a month. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily and talk about literally everything and we are both foodies too and send each other virtual hugs but there isn't any flirting in the chats yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but is 1 month already long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not or does it take longer?
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  536.  @davethecave6847  so will it be hard for me as well? I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and didn't even get my first kiss yet and I feel lonely and down. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One of them is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I have been using 3 dating apps for 4 months but barely getting any matches at all and one 20 year old girl who matched with me 2 months ago rejected me saying she only prefers bad guys and that I am too nice for her. About 2 weeks ago, I saw another girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is from a different college tho and she is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but can be 18 too as idk her real age but I was too shy to even say her a hi that day and now I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she went out of city for 2 weeks and I am afraid that she might reject me as well especially because we are from different college.
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  537.  @davethecave6847  Btw would you call it young love anymore if I got a girlfriend now? Would it be that same special feelings like when teens fall in love for the first time? I am 21 now and will be turning 22 this December so it kinda makes me feel sad that I couldn't experience young love and couldn't experience that first kiss which many experience as a teen.
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  538.  @jlprescott7243  that's a bad advice. Men do all the approaching. Plus I am just 23 so I am young enough to try going for any woman I like. So I can't even like my crush who is Indian too in the classes where I go and she is also 21-23 age range so the same age as me?
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  539. Wow man really at 42? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend, barely been on 1 first date last year Sept, then hanged out with a female friend last year Oct, hugged only 2 girls in person and still didn't get my first kiss. I had always been shy near girls in person due to lot of bullying in school and only recently I am socializing with girls in my University where I am studying MBA. I am talking with several girls now in my MBA who are all within 21-25 age range but so far our conversations had been short just limited to Hi and How are you. One girl recently in my MBA who is 22 even distanced herself saying she doesn't wanna talk to me anymore after talking with her in person for 10-11 days probably because I got way too attached to her and she got overwhelmed but idk and I was broken and sad for over 2 weeks about it. Currently having the best conversations with another girl in my MBA who is also an introvert like me and 21 or 22 too but she said she doesn't have Instagram so we connected on LinkedIn which feels a bit unusual but our conversations has been more balanced so far and less one sided compared to with some of the other girls. I also said a pickup line recently to another girl (within 21-23 age range) who was my crush in previous semester and the 2nd girl I hugged and she did smile and thanked me but she is super pretty and she definitely doesn't seem to be into me.
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  540.  @anubis4032  So its bad that one of my crush is an 18 year old girl in my college? I am a 21 year old guy and will be turning 22 this December
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  541. Woah damn you are 50 and never had one? BTW I am a guy who turned 22 quite recently and never had a girlfriend either and after not having much luck on dating apps and getting rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago, I see some ray of hope as I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are within 19-22 age range. I have been chatting with this girl for the past 10 days on insta who was in the same school as me but she was my junior. She is 20 turning 21 after 4 months and she is super sweet. We chat often and we both send virtual hugs to each other and she says that I am sweet too and I feel butterflies. Yesterday I was tired so I told her that I might fall asleep on her shoulder while hugging her and she said she would have let me and told me to go home and have a good sleep while imagining that I am sleeping on her shoulder and that made me blush. Idk whether she is just being friendly or not. We both go to different college tho but still live in the same city.
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  542. Did I miss out a lot btw as I am 22 and never dated before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? It looks like she still sees me as only a friend but will it take longer for her to develop feelings for me or is 3-4 weeks already long enough? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  543. Would you consider 23 to be late too if he never had a relationship before? I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago. She was 19(turned 20 a couple of weeks ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and got my first hug but yet to get my first kiss and I pulled her cheeks a lot but 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically used me for free lunch and to take pics of her which she can post on social media. I also have a big crush on this girl who is in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA. She also turned 23 just 2 weeks ago and she has been my crush for 6 months. She has called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too and 2 days ago I even gave her a chocolate but I am shy near her and girls in general in person so she is the one who initiates convos with me and she has some male friends too so I feel worried. 5 days ago, I got a new crush on this another girl in the same institute who is also within 21-23 age range and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen. We aren't in the same classrooms and I have been too shy to approach her but finally with the help of my friends and one of her classmate, I did approach her and was able to talk to her asking each other's names and which classroom we are in but I am afraid that she is probably out of my league but her classmate said she is single but idk whether my nervousness was a turnoff for her and I am still nervous about talking with her next time again. 3-4 months ago, I also went out with a female friend in the same class in that institute who is also 23 and we had a lunch in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date and we had fun and might go out again. For the past 7 months, I also have been chatting on Instagram with this another girl who is 19(turning 20 in April). She used to be in the same school as me but didn't know each other in school days. We are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs daily in the chats and plan to meet up to eat somewhere too and she is very sweet. Sadly in the end I am still single.
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  544. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 9 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy 2 days ago. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  545. So is it still a bad idea in your opinion as an Asian to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. Yesterday while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  546. Thats scary man that you are 43 and kinda in the same boat as me. Btw I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and 3 days ago got horrible rejected by a 19 year old girl who matched with me dating app and she called me ugly and said no girl will ever want me. But on Instagram, I saw some girls who were suggested to me. I knew them when we were in high school so I followed them but we weren't even classmates but still in the same grade. They are all 21-22 year olds. Today 2 of them did follow me back and both are 21 so the same age as me but I haven't messaged them yet and idk what to write because we never really interacted in high school days due to not being classmates.
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  547.  @fayelis  so it's bad that I will be graduating college next year and still have no girlfriend? I am 21 and will be turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas. Isn't 21-22 still young enough and have plenty of time?
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  548.  @fayelis  I don't. I never even had a female friend. I am a very introvert person and don't even have a social life. I am on dating apps like tinder and hinge but I get only few matches by girls who are 18-22 year olds but they all end up ghosting me and one 19 year old girl rejected me horribly last week calling me ugly and saying no girl would even like me.
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  549. Will a 22 year old guy still be judged for dating an 18 year old girl? I am a guy who turned 22 just 2 weeks ago and kinda like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 next month.
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  550. I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before, only been on 1 first date months ago at the age of 22 and then hanged out with a female friend and hugged only 2 girls in person and never been kissed. I am studying MBA now and had a few crushes in my 1st year of MBA which didn't work but now 2nd year just started for me and I finally initiated conversation with 8 girls in these 3 days after University reopened. One of them(lets call her D) is also within 21-23 age range and is my junior who is in 1st year of her MBA and we have been having good conversations and yesterday we followed each other on Instagram too and yesterday met another girl(lets call her R) who is in my University too in my same year of MBA and also within 22-24 age range and we were walking and talking while going to University and then while going to the bus stop too we went together and she let me under her umbrella too as it was raining. So both D and R had been nice and friendly to me so far. Its a big improvement as I was shy during school days and avoided talking to girls due to facing severe bullying in school. Not only that I also talked with foreign women in our city Bangalore by initiating conversations with them. As Bangalore is a major metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. I talked with 3 expat women so far. Almost 5 months ago was with a French woman who was about 22-26 age range and then 2 months ago was with a German woman who was probably anywhere within 26-35 age range. But today I had the best conversation with an American woman in the cafe in this big shopping complex in the most upscale area of our city. She is an expat too and she is 29 and she was really friendly to me and was comfortable talking with me and we had a long conversation. I asked for her Instagram but unfortunately she said she doesn't even use Insta so we couldn't connect with each other but I really hope I get to meet her again as she is really pretty too but I look nerdy in my glasses too.
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  551. At least you had girlfriends before. I am a 22 year old guy and never even had any girlfriend. I use dating apps, message girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but no luck at all. The only girl who is nice and sweet to me is a 20 year old girl with whom I had been chatting on Instagram for almost a month. We were in the same school but now in different college in the same city. She is very sweet and makes me blush and we send each other hugs. But a couple of weeks ago she said she has a boyfriend which confuses me because she is still being flirty to me calling me cute and we send each other hugs and when I say her that I am sad about something, she says sweet things and makes me smile and we also talk about hugging one day for real so idk whether she just lied that she has a boyfriend.
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  552. Thats good. Sadly I am turning 22 tomorrow and I never had a girlfriend before and its bothering me so much. 3 days ago, I was matched with another girl who is 18 turning 19 in Feb and she seemed quite interested in knowing me but when we shared about our hobbies and I told her about my singing which I upload on my youtube channel(not this one, another one). She said she was gonna check it and then I saw she unmatched me. I guess she found me ugly in my videos or my singing is bad. I got matched by another girl too who is 21 on that same day 3 days ago and we had a good chat too and even added each other on Instagram but she said I seem like an introvert and she didn't chat much with me yesterday. When I asked why she isn't chatting much with me, she said she is a medical college student so she isn't that much free. Idk whether she lied or she is genuinely busy but today she apologized too saying she is busy with her college stuffs and I apologized too.
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  553. Is it still a bad idea as an Asian student to want to date a Westerner who came to my country as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  554. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2-3 months ago I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 very soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took pretty much a month too reply to it but she did reply yeah ok and we even said we will meet maybe on some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. I also got crush on a new girl recently in a class where I started going for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I am about to finish college. She is also 22 or maybe 23 now and very pretty and on the first day of our class there (13th July 2023), she did handshake with me and we said our names and introduced ourselves and she initiates convos with me asking whether I had lunch or not and many more but actually I am still kinda shy near girls in person so I usually don't initiate further convos with her and just answer what she asks. I am shy to try to talk with her but I always think about her and she has 2 male friends in our class too so I am a bit afraid too. I followed her on Instagram and she followed me back too but I am yet to dm her. I also have been chatting with this another girl who is 19 on Instagram since 28th May 2023. We used to be in the same school but now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We chat about literally everything daily and even send each other virtual hugs but it still looks she just sees me as a good friend and nothing more so I am nervous to ask her out too as I also got rejected by 4 girls recently.
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  555. Does it mean I have no chance as an Indian guy to date a foreign woman? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. 2 days ago, I went to this really very posh area of our city and saw some foreign women who were all white blonde European who are expats in my city. I am usually shy but this time I tried cold approaching 2 of them by saying them excuse me to initiate a conversation the same way done in the video. The 1st woman who looked about 27-35 age range was wearing earphones so she never noticed me. The 2nd woman looked older probably in her late 30s or even early 40s and she wasn't even wearing earphones but she still didn't even look at me when I said her excuse me. I saw another younger white blonde woman who was definitely in her mid or late 20s but she was on a bicycle so I had no chance. I even saw a Hispanic and East Asian woman in another part of the city 2 weeks ago but was shy to talk to them. The only time this cold approach worked was 2 months ago with a French woman near my University where I am studying MBA but the conversation was brief and I never met her again.
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  556. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows but I wear glasses. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 4 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 2 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  557. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner(even Western) who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows but also I wear glasses. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 5 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 3 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  558.  @tomwaters5651  did you even read my full comment? I clearly said I have crush on a girl in the classes where I go and she is Indian too and 21-23 age range and I am 23 too but she is very pretty almost model like so idk how much chance i have with her. I live in a big city like Bangalore so it's more westernized in the urbanized places here. I just don't want an arranged marriage in future and prefer love marriage with a woman I would love. Plus this other woman is French and not American so how can you say she is like other Western women? Plus she is a student too probably in her early or mid 20s and I am 23 too so we are both young enough.
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  559. I am a guy who turned 22 just 2 weeks ago and already feel old at times and feel as if my youth is over. I will be graduating college in mid 2023 and then go for MBA but I feel like I missed out on so many things. I never had a girlfriend and it's bothering me so much. Girls either reject or ghost me most of the time. Also I see other college age people hanging out with friends in malls and cafes in group of both males and females whereas I never did all these as I hardly have much friends.
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  560. Not really. I am a 21 year old guy and get crush on women in their late 20s too and also on 18-25 year olds.
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  561. Damn a woman who never had a boyfriend? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend, barely been on 1 first date last year Sept, then hanged out with a female friend last year Oct, hugged only 2 girls in person and still didn't get my first kiss. I had always been shy near girls in person due to lot of bullying in school and only recently I am socializing with girls in my University where I am studying MBA. I am talking with several girls now in my MBA who are all within 21-25 age range but so far our conversations had been short just limited to Hi and How are you. One girl recently in my MBA who is 22 even distanced herself saying she doesn't wanna talk to me anymore after talking with her in person for 10-11 days probably because I got way too attached to her and she got overwhelmed but idk and I was broken and sad for over 2 weeks about it. Currently having the best conversations with another girl in my MBA who is also an introvert like me and 21 or 22 too but she said she doesn't have Instagram so we connected on LinkedIn which feels a bit unusual but our conversations has been more balanced so far and less one sided compared to with some of the other girls. I also said a pickup line recently to another girl (within 21-23 age range) who was my crush in previous semester and the 2nd girl I hugged and she did smile and thanked me but she is super pretty and she definitely doesn't seem to be into me.
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  562. Damn man. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but finally had my first date just last Saturday(on 16th September) and got my first hug but still not my first kiss yet and still single. She is 19 btw and is in 2nd year of college and we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other those days and have been chatting on Instagram since 28th May 2023 but finally last Saturday we decided to meet in the mall and we actually did and ate in the Mcdonald's there and then took photos and selfie and I pinched her cheeks a lot too as she is really cute and asked for a hug and she gave one hug too for a few seconds but it was still nice. I towered over her tho as I am like 5'9(174-175 cm) and she is only like 5' or probably even 4'11. But overall it was a good date. Idk what she feels about me but I still can't believe that everything went so well. But I also like this another girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and I am planning to study MBA next. She also says me hi almost daily and we do handshake and she smiles and sometimes initiates conversations with me but I only answer what she asks and I am still shy to initiate any further conversations near her but hopefully after today's date, my shyness near girls seemed to have reduced for sure. Last month I also came to know that she finds me cute and 3-4 weeks ago I gave her a chocolate too but I often see her having 3 or 4 male friends in our class so that kinda makes me worried that what if she goes for either of them. I honestly like both the girls.
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  563. Damn man really at 44? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Btw is a month long enough to know whether someone is interested in me or not? I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up she haven't replied yet about when we can meet. I have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. We are in different colleges now but we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school. So we only have been getting to know each other for a bit over a month. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily and talk about literally everything and we are both foodies too and send each other virtual hugs but there isn't any flirting in the chats yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but is 1 month already long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not or does it take longer?
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  564. So did I miss out as I am 22 now and never dated before? I am a guy who turned 22 just over 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and never had a real kiss with a girl either except getting kissed on the cheek by a female friend when we both were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls and they end up ghosting me. Only one girl who is 19 on dating app didn't ghost me yet and we have things in common to chat about but idk. I also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now. I had the best chat with a girl who is 20 now and she was 2 years my junior in school. She is better than most of the girls I have chatted with and we had been chatting for the past 10 days. But 4 days ago I kinda messed up by giving her a cheesy compliment after only 6 days of chatting with her which made her a little uncomfortable but I apologized and said I only said it to make her smile so she forgive me and thanked me. We still chat but idk whether I can try out my luck on her or not.
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  565. I am a 22 year old guy who likes a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 by the end of this month so is 22 dating 18/19 still bad even if both are in college?
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  566.  @enniswhalen2428  come on I am just 23 and a student so no way I am ready for a marriage and I don't even want an arranged marriage in future. I live in a big city and I would marry someone I would love and I definitely don't wanna marry at 23
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  567.  @enniswhalen2428  How can you think I am gonna marry at 23? You are ignorant if you think that. I don't even want arranged marriage in future.
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  568.  @modalsoul6511  BTW man can you tell me how come you never had a girlfriend in all these years? You are 48 now(your comment was a year ago) so when you were young like my age, there wasn't so much internet and social media. Nowadays most young men like me have a hard time getting a girlfriend due to so much social media and dating apps so girls have too much unrealistic expectations these days but in your generation this wasn't a problem and most of you had to approach girls in real life so can you tell me what went wrong?
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  569. I am a 24 year old guy from West Bengal living in Bangalore and here in Bangalore there are many foreigners who are expats here as its a major IT hub. I have initiated conversations with 15 such expat women in this mall called UB City who were mostly white women but I was respectful and we had friendly conversations and I am a well educated guy about to finish my MBA and currently interning. Just 5 days ago i initiated conversation with a German expat woman near UB City and we had a decent conversation. As long as you are respectful its fine.
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  570. Damn man really at 38(middle age starts from 40 tho)? Have you dated before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  571.  @vaccinatedanti-vaxxer  I am not an American. I live in the city Bangalore in India so I am myself an Asian person.
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  572. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 8 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy yesterday. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  573. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Btw don't worry I would protect you if anyone shamed you. Honestly I am ready to take some beatings when it comes to protecting a girl. I would fight them all for you. Here is one hug for you just to make smile 🤗
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  574. BTW Is it still fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 10 days ago, I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly last week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women and not today either. The only foreigner I saw last week was a black African guy 3 days ago. I really hope I meet one this week but I just have no idea what to talk with them about. Today actually I went to eat in this Thai restaurant in our city Bangalore and one of the female staff of the restaurant wore a more traditional Thai dress and I am sure she is Thai judging by her facial features and structures and she seemed to be in her 20s too or maybe even 30s and I also saw another South East Asian looking woman with blonde hair outside the restaurant but idk whether she is Thai or just from north eastern part of India where people look South East Asian. I could have started a conversation with them asking whether they are from Thailand or not but I was shy again. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked last week briefly too. So if I go to that restaurant again, should I try to get to know that Thai woman who is the restaurant staff or that other blonde South East Asian looking woman?
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  575. Wow damn man. Did you have a girlfriend before? I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend and still didn't get my first kiss. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but I barely get any matches at all and even if I get one, I end up getting ghosted. I did see a girl a week ago in a class I joined recently for some course and she is from a different college. She is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too and she is really beautiful and I think I got a crush on her but I was too shy to even say her a hi that day. Now I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she is out of city for 2 weeks.
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  576. I am a guy who turned 22 just 3 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and use dating apps but hardly get any matches. Rarely some 18-23 age girls match with me but they ghost or unmatch me for no reason. I really wanna try my luck on a girl who was my friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 but we never talked with each other in person since 2011. She surprisingly still remembers as I follow and chat with her on Instagram. She is 21 now and only 5 months younger than me and I would love to date her but she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or so. She turned off her activity status on IG so can't even see when she is online. I wanna meet her and maybe even hug her but idk how.
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  577.  @geraldtherat618  yeah maybe man but we were such close friends when we were in 3rd to 6th grade. We used to play together, study together and have sleepovers at night those days so why is she ignoring me now? Why can't we get along like those days?
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  578.  @geraldtherat618  Thats sad. I thought maybe we will fall in love and now she is 21 and I am 22 so we are adults and at same time really young too to have fun and sweet moments and warm hugs and stuffs. Btw how old are you? Did you have a gf before?
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  579. I am a 24 year old guy from West Bengal living in Bangalore and here in Bangalore there are many foreigners who are expats here as its a major IT hub. I have initiated conversations with 15 such expat women in this mall called UB City who were mostly white women but I was respectful and we had friendly conversations and I am a well educated guy about to finish my MBA and currently interning. Just 5 days ago i initiated conversation with a German expat woman near UB City and we had a decent conversation. As long as you are respectful its fine.
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  580. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Got rejected by 3 girls who are 19-21 year olds so far(2 from my college and 1 from a dating app). I tried following few girls on Instagram too whom I knew in my high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now but only 7 of them followed me back and 2 of my high school crushes who are 21-22 now didn't even accept my follow request. Yesterday I got matched by 2 girls on dating app Hinge. One is 21 and the other one is 23. Unfortunately, the 21 year old girl stopped replying after a small chat whereas I had a decent chat with the 23 year old and she is super cute and I really wish she won't ghost me too.
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  581. True in my case too. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and I had been using tinder, bumble and hinge for 5 months but only got 3 matches on tinder, 1 match on Bumble and 6 matches on Hinge so far. I use the free version because I can't pay for premium. Sadly most of the time I end up getting ghosted. The girls on tinder never reply to me whereas the ones on Hinge have a small chat and eventually ghosts me.
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  582. At least women approached you. I am a guy who turned 22 just over 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and never had a real kiss with a girl either except getting kissed on the cheek by a female friend when we both were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls and they end up ghosting me. Only one girl who is 19 on dating app didn't ghost me yet and we have things in common to chat about but idk. I also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now. I had the best chat with a girl who is 20 now and she was 2 years my junior in school. She is better than most of the girls I have chatted with and we had been chatting for the past 10 days. But 4 days ago I kinda messed up by giving her a cheesy compliment after only 6 days of chatting with her which made her a little uncomfortable but I apologized and said I only said it to make her smile so she forgive me and thanked me. We still chat but idk whether I can try out my luck on her or not.
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  583. I am a 21 year old guy who is turning 22 on 22nd December and I never had a girlfriend before. I had crush on 2 girls in my college who were 19-21 age range and both rejected me. I tried following girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days but just 8 of them followed me back and they are all 20-22 age range. Only got 9 matches so far on Hinge and 3 matches on tinder even after using them for 5-6 months. Even a 23 year old girl who matched with me on dating app Hinge is kinda ghosting me I guess. Today one girl named Tanya whom I knew in high school days finally replied to me on Instagram and she is also 21 but she doesn't really remember me now so is it a good idea to get to know her?
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  584.  @Lebensmüder  So is it bad too that it took me till 23 to get rid of my shyness near girls? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend and only been on 1 first date many months ago at the age of 22 and then a month later hanged out with my female friend, hugged only 2 girls in person and still never had my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and in my University too had crush on this girl for 7 months who is also 23 now but 5 months ago got crush on another prettier girl(sadly she wasn't into me either but she was the 2nd girl I hugged in person) in the same University so my previous crush stopped talking to me and I miss her. I had a summer break from University for 3 months and today finally new semester started for us and I literally initiated conversation with 3 girls in my University who are MBA students too and within 21-23 age range and I had a long enough conversation with one of them who too was comfortable enough to talk to me but idk about my chances as I look like a nerd in my glasses and she is really pretty too. But it was a big change and improvement for me as I had always been shy near girls and in my high school days I completely avoided talking with girls as I was bullied a lot in school and continued being shy further too in my undergrad and even in my MBA too few months ago, I was still shy to initiate conversation with girls and even though I could talk with my crushes, there was still some nervousness here and there but today I went out of my comfort zone and talked with not 1 not 2 but 3 girls. Thats only because I initiated conversation with 3 expat women in my city Bangalore and they were white Caucasian women (yes foreigners do come to Bangalore as expats as its one of the major metropolitan city of India and popular for its IT(tech). First one was a French woman with whom I talked near my University almost 5 months ago who was within 22-26 age range and the next was a German woman 2 months ago and then yesterday again I saw another white blonde lady who looked to be within 26-30 age range and probably from Germany or maybe some Scandinavian country too and I waved my hand at her as she was walking and smiled at her saying her Hi and she too waved her hand back at me with a bit of a smile but couldn't have a conversation as the cab that I booked had arrived but would love to meet her again. So yeah I am happy that finally I can talk with women now whether Indian or foreigner but sadly it took me 23 years to get rid of my shyness.
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  585. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. Got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently. Last week, I got matched by a 19 year old girl on one of the dating apps I use and we had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all in the app. So I am worried that this might not work so I tried keeping an option by following a girl named Britney on Instagram who was my classmate when we were in 6th to 10th grade. I remember having crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or probably even 22 now so same age as me. She was the prettiest girl in our class in high school days and she is even prettier now at 21 and I tried following her on Instagram today but she didn't even accept my follow request yet.
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  586. Damn man really in your 40s? Have you been on dates before? I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago. She was 19(turned 20 a couple of weeks ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and got my first hug but yet to get my first kiss and I pulled her cheeks a lot but 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically used me for free lunch and to take pics of her which she can post on social media. I also have a big crush on this girl who is in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA. She also turned 23 just 2 weeks ago and she has been my crush for 6 months. She has called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too and 2 days ago I even gave her a chocolate but I am shy near her and girls in general in person so she is the one who initiates convos with me and she has some male friends too so I feel worried. 5 days ago, I got a new crush on this another girl in the same institute who is also within 21-23 age range and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen. We aren't in the same classrooms and I have been too shy to approach her but finally with the help of my friends and one of her classmate, I did approach her and was able to talk to her asking each other's names and which classroom we are in but I am afraid that she is probably out of my league but her classmate said she is single but idk whether my nervousness was a turnoff for her and I am still nervous about talking with her next time again. 3-4 months ago, I also went out with a female friend in the same class in that institute who is also 23 and we had a lunch in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date and we had fun and might go out again. For the past 7 months, I also have been chatting on Instagram with this another girl who is 19(turning 20 in April). She used to be in the same school as me but didn't know each other in school days. We are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs daily in the chats and plan to meet up to eat somewhere too and she is very sweet. Sadly in the end I am still single.
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  587. What is your opinion about a 21 or 22 year old dating an 18 year old girl? I am 21 and really like a girl who is 18 and I will be turning 22 this December.
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  588. How old are you now? And yeah I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I get some matches on tinder and Hinge but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come online briefly for like 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  589.  @RawFish_photo  how can I find women on Instagram? I tried following some around my age on Instagram but they just accept my follow request but never follow me back. Even if I message them they never reply probably because it goes to their requests as they don't follow me back and they probably don't even check their requests. On Instagram, girls never chat with or follow back guys whom they don't know.
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  590. Come on you have girls having lot of interests whereas it never happens with me and I am still kinda shy near girls in person even at 22. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before either and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took a month to reply to it but she replied yeah ok. We also told that maybe we can meet on some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I have been going for some classes to prepare for some exams to get into MBA as I am pretty much done with college and there I got a new crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on the first day of our class and said our names and it was the first time I did handshake with a girl. Last week she was initiating convo with me asking whether I had lunch or not and some more and I answered them but I am still shy to initiate any further convos with her so the our conversations end soon and for the past 2-3 days she isn't trying to talk to me anymore and I am shy to try to start any conversation with her. I did follow her on Instagram yesterday and she followed me back too but I didn't dm her yet. I always think about her and wanna get to know her. I also have been chatting with this another girl who is 19 now on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she too used to be in the same school as me but now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho and we chat daily about everything and even send each other virtual hugs too but I am nervous to ask her out too as I got rejected by 4 girls recently and it still looks like she only sees me as a friend. Whats crazy is I like this 19 year old and I also like my childhood friend and this new crush who is 22/23 year old.
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  591. How old are you? Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 22 quite recently and never had a girlfriend either and after not having much luck on dating apps and getting rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago, I see some ray of hope as I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are within 19-22 age range. I have been chatting with this girl for the past 10 days on insta who was in the same school as me but she was my junior. She is 20 turning 21 after 4 months and she is super sweet. We chat often and we both send virtual hugs to each other and she says that I am sweet too and I feel butterflies. Yesterday I was tired so I told her that I might fall asleep on her shoulder while hugging her and she said she would have let me and told me to go home and have a good sleep while imagining that I am sleeping on her shoulder and that made me blush. Idk whether she is just being friendly or not. We both go to different college tho but still live in the same city.
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  592.  @zekko600  BTW yesterday I saw a girl in a class where I joined for some extra course. She is a college student too but from a different college and she is 19 or 20 or maybe 21 so about the same age as me and she is very beautiful and has a very beautiful voice and I might get a crush on her too. But I only saw her for the first time yesterday so I was too shy to initiate any convo with her. Sadly I won't be able to see her for 2 weeks because she is going out of station so she won't come for the classes until 1st Nov.
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  593. So did I miss out as I am 22 now and never dated? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. Recently got unmatched by 2 girls(one is 19 and another is 21) on dating app after I asked them out even after a decent chat. I also tried asking out this girl who is 19 turning 20 in August and we were in the same school but now in different colleges and we have been chatting on Instagram for a month and she even agreed to meet up and I was super happy but she blocked me mysteriously for no reason last week. Then 4 days ago I tried asking out another girl who is turning 20 after a few weeks and we also were in the same school and have been chatting on insta for over 3 weeks but she immediately blocked me after I asked her out for a coffee. My only last hope is this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 and now she is 21 turning 22 after like 4 months. I asked her out too for a coffee but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't even see or reply to my message yet but honestly I am hoping for a positive reply but also worried that she might reject me too.
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  594. I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(turned 20 few weeks ago) and had my first ever hug too (she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere) and also 3 months ago went out with a female friend who is also 23 where we go for classes for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6-7 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had lunch in a big restaurant(but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends). I also had been crushing on this another girl(lets call her A) in that same class where I go now and she also turned 23 over 2 weeks ago and I even gave her a chocolate 5 days ago and she too knew I had a crush on her and has called me cute before too but things changed as last week I got a new crush on this another girl(lets call her B) in the same institute but different classrooms. She is within 21-23 age range and one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen and I was too shy to approach her but 3 days ago, with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was finally able to talk to her a bit and I was feeling butterflies. Everyone including that girl A came to know about it and she isn't really trying to talk to me and said that I am not loyal enough so she won't talk to me(idk whether she was joking or not). Yesterday was chocolate day and one of my friend jokingly said me to give chocolate to A again but she said she doesn't want a chocolate from me. I am afraid that B is probably out of my league as she is very pretty almost model like and I am just average I guess and plus I was too nervous that day while talking with her in person so idk how it will go. I am such a mess that I like another girl(lets call her S) with whom I had been chatting on Instagram for the past 7 months. She is 19 now(turning 20 in April) and we used to be in the same school but didn't knew each other in school days and now she is in a different college. We send each other virtual hugs daily and we will meet up this month too to eat somewhere as we are both foodies and she has no idea about these 2 girls A and B. But after getting crush newly on this girl B, I am mostly thinking about her and not giving much attention to A and S whom I have known longer than B. Idk what to do. If B rejects me, then I won't have chance with A as she probably have a negative perception about me now for getting multiple crushes.
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  595. How old are you? Would you date a 22 year old who never had a gf? I am asking because I am a guy who turned 22 just 9 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and its bothering me so much and might be a turn off for women. I use dating apps but hardly any matches. I got matched with 2 girls 2 weeks ago. One is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April but no plan of first date or anything. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I do follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are all 19-22 age range and I started chatting with this girl for 4 days who was my junior in my school days. Now she is 20 about to be 21 after 4 months and we only sent virtual hugs to each other today but she only sees me as a friend so idk whether I have chance with her or not.
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  596.  @60HMS60  Wow I am a 21 year old guy so 5 years younger than you and it sounds so scary as I can't imagine going for a war. I never had a girlfriend either. I did see a girl 6 days ago in a class where I joined recently. She is a college student too from a different college and is 19-21 but idk her age so she can be 18 too. I think I got a crush on her and I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she is out of city for 2 weeks.
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  597. Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy and never had a girlfriend before and I feel FOMO. Dating apps aren't giving me luck and 2 of my crushes in college too rejected me few months ago. I chat with some girls on Instagram who are 19-22 age range and we were in the same school but only 1 girl who is 20 year old chats with me regularly. We were also in the same school but now in different colleges in the same city. We send each other virtual hugs daily and she makes me blush. She is very sweet and I was falling in love with her but 2 weeks ago she said she is in a relationship but I am confused because she is still flirty to me and calls me cute and sends hugs so idk whether she lied to me about being in a relationship. We even talk about meeting up and hugging for real but idk when and unfortunately I still feel lonely maybe because its just a chat so far and we didn't hang out yet.
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  598. Btw is it really a bad idea to talk with or want to date a foreign women as an Indian man? I am not a passport bro but I am a 23 year old guy living in the city Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf. Even though I am talking with several girls in my University where I study MBA now and they are Indian too but even after having some good rapport with some of them, none of them seem to be fully interested in me and are little to no responsive to me on social media chats even though friendly to me in person so not having much luck with Indian women. Idk when I will move abroad but as Bangalore is the major IT hub of India and a major metropolitan city, foreigners do come here as expats and many goes to this luxurious mall of our city named UB City. I talked with 7 such expat women so far in UB City and all were white Caucasian women from countries like US, Germany, France, Luxembourg and Australia. I have had long enough conversation with some of them especially the one from US and Germany and they were friendly to me but unfortunately we couldn't connect further on social media and never got to meet again as I don't frequent UB City that often and I was worried whether asking her social media was fine as we just met. One of them(the woman from Luxembourg) was married too and said she lives in the city with her husband. The American woman with whom I talked in a Cafe inside the mall is 29 and friendly but it ended, same with the German woman who was 27-30 age range. I also met another one from Germany who is a Law student in our city and she is 20 and we had a good conversation and I regret not asking her socials as she was dressing in UB City. I also had a chance of talking to an East Asian expat woman in the mall too but she seemed to be in a hurry so I just didn't get the chance.
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  599. I am not a passport bro but I am a 23 year old guy living in the city Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf. Even though I am talking with several girls in my University where I study MBA now and they are Indian too but even after having some good rapport with some of them, none of them seem to be fully interested in me and are little to no responsive to me on social media chats even though friendly to me in person so not having much luck with Indian women. Idk when I will move abroad but as Bangalore is the major IT hub of India and a major metropolitan city, foreigners do come here as expats and many goes to this luxurious mall of our city named UB City. I talked with 7 such expat women so far in UB City and all were white Caucasian women from countries like US, Germany, France, Luxembourg and Australia. I have had long enough conversation with some of them especially the one from US and Germany and they were friendly to me but unfortunately we couldn't connect further on social media and never got to meet again as I don't frequent UB City that often and I was worried whether asking her social media was fine as we just met. One of them(the woman from Luxembourg) was married too and said she lives in the city with her husband. The American woman with whom I talked in a Cafe inside the mall is 29 and friendly but it ended, same with the German woman who was 27-30 age range. I also met another one from Germany who is a Law student in our city and she is 20 and we had a good conversation and I regret not asking her socials as she was dressing in UB City. I also had a chance of talking to an East Asian expat woman in the mall too but she seemed to be in a hurry so I just didn't get the chance.
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  600. So is it still a bad idea as an Asian to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. Yesterday while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had know idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  601. Is it still a bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 8 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy yesterday. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  602. What about for dating? I am 22 in last year of college and like a girl in my college who is 19.
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  603.  @TheCanaaniteUnionist  so 19 and 23 is still fine especially if the 19 year old turns 20 soon?
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  604. ​​ @petertherock7340 I am usually more worried about the fact that I am 23 year old and never had a girlfriend before and feel running out of time. I actually like another girl too who is 19 turning 20 next month and she is Indian too and we have knowing each other for 8 months and have been chatting with each other on Instagram pretty much daily for the past 8 months. She was in the same school as me but now in a different college. Suddenly for the past 2-3 days, it looks like she is ignoring/ghosting me because she is coming online but isn't even replying to me or even seeing my messages and I don't know why. I never said anything wrong to her and made sure she was comfortable and even made a bucket list of where we will eat but now she is suddenly ignoring me for no reason and she comes online too. I am extremely upset so talking with that French woman today made my mood much better but now I am again said as that girl still hasn't replied to my message.
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  605. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  606. Is it still bad at my age? I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. I feel like I am such a repellant to girls. 2 of my crushes in college rejected me recently. 3 days ago I heard a song which reminded me of a girl whom I knew since my school days and we were in same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so we are the same age. She is very beautiful and I followed her on Instagram. Her account is private so I sent her a follow request but she literally rejected my follow request and I am so down. Why did she do that? Is it because she can't recognize me or it's just I am too repellant to girls or is it because she finds me lame because I used to get bullied a lot in high school and was considered a loser by most guys in my grade? Is it fine if I send her a message?
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  607.  @csolisr  Will it be fine if I send her a message saying who I am and also saying we were in the same school and grade?
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  608. Wow man 56? BTW Is it still fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 8 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy yesterday. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  609.  @Hornycavil  I never said I won't go for an Indian woman. Did you even read my full comment especially the last para where I mention my crush? My crush in my classes is Indian too and I complimented her today too saying she was looking cute. I live in big metropolitan city so many are westernized too. I just happened to meet a French woman yesterday who is very pretty. I just don't want a traditional arranged marriage in future and only want to marry someone whom I love via love marriage.
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  610.  @IsraelLlerena  what about 21 or 22? Is it weird? I am a 21 year old guy who never even had my first kiss yet. I will be turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas.
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  611. So I have no chance as an Asian student to want to date a Westerner who came to my country as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  612. What's your opinion about a 21 or 22 year old guy dating an 18 year old girl?
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  613.  @zealotreacts  you both in high school?
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  614. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows but I wear glasses. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 4 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 2 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  615. So Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 10 days ago, I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly last week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women and not today either. The only foreigner I saw last week was a black African guy 3 days ago. I really hope I meet one this week but I just have no idea what to talk with them about. Today actually I went to eat in this Thai restaurant in our city Bangalore and one of the female staff of the restaurant wore a more traditional Thai dress and I am sure she is Thai judging by her facial features and structures and she seemed to be in her 20s too or maybe even 30s and I also saw another South East Asian looking woman with blonde hair outside the restaurant but idk whether she is Thai or just from north eastern part of India where people look South East Asian. I could have started a conversation with them asking whether they are from Thailand or not but I was shy again. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked last week briefly too. So if I go to that restaurant again, should I try to get to know that Thai woman who is the restaurant staff or that other blonde South East Asian looking woman?
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  616. Thats sad man. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  617. Is it still fine for an Indian student like me to want to just date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 8 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy yesterday. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  618. I am turning 22 tomorrow and I never had a girlfriend before and its bothering me so much. 3 days ago, I was matched with another girl who is 18 turning 19 in Feb and she seemed quite interested in knowing me but when we shared about our hobbies and I told her about my singing which I upload on my youtube channel(not this one, another one). She said she was gonna check it and then I saw she unmatched me. I guess she found me ugly in my videos or my singing is bad. I got matched by another girl too who is 21 on that same day 3 days ago and we had a good chat too and even added each other on Instagram but she said I seem like an introvert and she didn't chat much with me yesterday. When I asked why she isn't chatting much with me, she said she is a medical college student so she isn't that much free. Idk whether she lied or she is genuinely busy but today she apologized too saying she is busy with her college stuffs and I apologized too.
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  619. Do I still have some time at 22 or is it late too? I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  620. Sadly I am 22 and never had a girlfriend and no girl really seems romantically interested in me. I feel FOMO all the time
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  621. Wow man you are almost the same age as my dad(he is 53 almost 54). BTW I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(turned 20 few weeks ago) and had my first ever hug too (she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere) and also 3 months ago went out with a female friend who is also 23 where we go for classes for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6-7 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had lunch in a big restaurant(but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends). I also had been crushing on this another girl(lets call her A) in that same class where I go now and she also turned 23 over 3 weeks ago and I even gave her a chocolate last week and she too knew I had a crush on her and has called me cute before too but things changed as last week I got a new crush on this another girl(lets call her B) in the same institute but different classrooms. She is within 21-23 age range and one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen and I was too shy to approach her but 6 days ago, with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was finally able to talk to her a bit and I was feeling butterflies and today I again met her and told her Hi first with a smile and she too smiled back at me and said me Hi back but she was going to her classroom so we couldn't have a conversation today but it was my first time ever saying Hi first to a girl in person so I was happy. Everyone including that girl A came to know about it and she isn't really trying to talk to me and said that I am not loyal enough so she won't talk to me(idk whether she was joking or not). 4 days ago, was chocolate day and one of my friend jokingly said me to give chocolate to A again but she said she doesn't want a chocolate from me. I am afraid that B is probably out of my league as she is very pretty almost model like and I am just average I guess and plus I was too nervous that day while talking with her in person so idk how it will go. I am such a mess that I like another girl(lets call her S) with whom I had been chatting on Instagram for the past 7 months. She is 19 now(turning 20 in April) and we used to be in the same school but didn't knew each other in school days and now she is in a different college. We send each other virtual hugs daily and we will meet up this month too to eat somewhere as we are both foodies and she has no idea about these 2 girls A and B. But after getting crush newly on this girl B, I am mostly thinking about her and not giving much attention to A and S whom I have known longer than B. Idk what to do. If B rejects me, then I won't have chance with A as she probably have a negative perception about me now for getting multiple crushes.
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  622. How old are you man? I am a 21 year old guy who never even had his first kiss and I never had a girlfriend. After having no luck with 4 girls I know in real life, finally 2 days ago I was matched with a girl on one of the dating apps who isn't ghosting me so far. She is 19 years old and we had a decent chat for the past 2 days and she too lives in my city but we are in different college and different course too. Do you think I will at least get my first kiss this time? I am scared that she might ghost me too and wouldn't want me.
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  623.  @portman8909  We are the same age. Even I will be turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas. I really wanted my first kiss before my 22nd Birthday.
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  624. True. I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(20 now) and had my first hug too but sadly she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere and I also went out with a female friend 4 months ago who is also 23 and ate in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date. But almost 3 weeks ago, I got a new crush on this girl in a class where we go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 7 months ago but we are in different classrooms. She is also within the 21-23 age range and I had been too shy to talk to her but 2 weeks ago eventually with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was able to talk to her and again said her Hi last week. That classmate of her did say she is single but last week another of her classmate said that she probably has a boyfriend so that makes me feel confused whether to pursue her or not but I won't believe it unless she herself says she has a bf. 6 days ago, I again talked with her a bit and even we did handshake and she smiled too but I was definitely still sounding a bit nervous while talking with her. Sadly she still didn't follow me back or reply to my first dm to her on Instagram and its been 10 days already so idk whats up as she was still friendly with me 6 days ago. She is very very pretty almost model like and I just look average. Without my glasses, I look better but I have high power so should wear them all the time and look really nerdy and dorky in it so idk whether I even have a chance with her. I had crush on another girl in the same classes for the past 6-7 months and she also turned 23 last month. I liked her a lot and she even called me cute several times and I also gave her chocolate 2 weeks ago but was too shy to say her that I liked her but she probably knew I had a crush on her tho. Sadly she is ignoring me these days as she came to know about my new crush on this another girl. I also have been chatting with this girl on Instagram for the past 7 months and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other that time and now she is in a different college. She is 19(turning 20 in April) and she is super sweet and we are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs and chat daily talking about almost everything. We will meet soon too and go to eat somewhere but I am still single in the end.
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  625. I am in the same boat as you when it comes to my luck with girls but 8 years younger than you. I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago. She was 19(turned 20 a couple of weeks ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and got my first hug but yet to get my first kiss and I pulled her cheeks a lot but 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically used me for free lunch and to take pics of her which she can post on social media. I also have a big crush on this girl who is in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA. She also turned 23 just 2 weeks ago and she has been my crush for 6 months. She has called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too and 3 days ago I even gave her a chocolate but I am shy near her and girls in general in person so she is the one who initiates convos with me and she has some male friends too so I feel worried. Last week, I got a new crush on this another girl in the same institute who is also within 21-23 age range and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen. We aren't in the same classrooms and I have been too shy to approach her but yesterday finally with the help of my friends and one of her classmate, I did approach her and was able to talk to her asking each other's names and which classroom we are in but I am afraid that she is probably out of my league but her classmate said she is single but idk whether my nervousness was a turnoff for her and I am still nervous about talking with her next time again. 3-4 months ago, I also went out with a female friend in the same class in that institute who is also 23 and we had a lunch in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date and we had fun and might go out again. For the past 7 months, I also have been chatting on Instagram with this another girl who is 19(turning 20 in April). She used to be in the same school as me but didn't know each other in school days. We are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs daily in the chats and plan to meet up to eat somewhere too and she is very sweet. Sadly in the end I am still single.
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  626. Is it really a bad idea for an Indian guy like me to want to date a foreign woman who is an expat in my country? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners do come here even as expats. Today I went to this very posh area of our city and even the French Embassy is in that area so you can see foreigners there. I saw 2 foreign women there. First one was a Hispanic/Latino woman. She was definitely of Spanish origin and looked very exotic and pretty and in her 20s or maybe even 30s. But I was too shy to even say her Hi. Then the 2nd foreign woman I saw was an East Asian most definitely a Korean who too is definitely in her 20s and I was again shy to talk to her and this way I am missing my chances of talking with women. The only foreign woman I had a brief conversation with was a French woman last month whom I met near my University where I am pursuing my MBA and I am in 1st year and she was a foreign exchange student in this University which is for MBA too so she is mostly within 22-26 age range but I never saw her again as maybe she went back to France or maybe our timings never matched. I do have crush on this girl in my University who is also within 21-23 age range and an Indian too but things seem so unsure as she is also very pretty almost model like and I am not that attractive in my glasses and even though I got number, she still didn't even see my text on Whatsapp which I sent her. I am upset because I missed my chances today especially with that Hispanic woman.
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  627. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows but I wear glasses. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 4 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 2 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  628. At least you had girlfriends before. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and tried to connect with girls whom I knew in high school by following them on IG but they didn't follow me back and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me and one 19 year old girl who matched with me turned out to be very mean to me yesterday and insulted me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  629.  @Wealo1001  Sadly so far most girls around my age have been mean to me or ghosting me so I am trying to go for a woman who is 27 or older because yesterday that 19 year old girl on the dating app was being very mean to me in the chats after I tried to ask her out after having a chat with her for over a week. She called me ugly and a loser and said no girl will like me. So I am trying to go for older women for real as I want a mature woman now. I am 21 and will be turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas and I am too down since yesterday.
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  630.  @riri-pz3by  Is it bad for a 21 or 22 year old to date an 18 year old? I am 21 and really like a girl in my college who is 18 and I will be turning 22 this December just 3 days before Christmas.
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  631.  @testcovid5524  Is 21 or 22 year old dating an 18 year old fine? I am 21 and kinda have a crush on a girl in my college who is 18 and I will be turning 22 next month.
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  632.  @testcovid5524  actually it's just a crush and idk whether I will get lucky or not. I am 21 and sadly I never had a girlfriend before. I have crush on many girls in the 18-23 age range. Few months I also had crush on 2 girls in my college who was 19 and another was 20 or 21 but both rejected me. On dating apps, I mostly get matched by 18-22 age girls but they mostly end up ghosting me. I am trying to connect with the girls whom I knew in high school by following them on Instagram but sadly only 6 of them followed me back and all of them are 20-22 year olds now. Sadly 2 of my high school crushes didn't even accept my friend request yet and both are 21-22 year olds now.
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  633. Wow man really? Its scary that you are 53 and in the same boat as me. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Had crush on 2 girls in college recently and got rejected by both. Few days ago I heard a song which reminds me of a girl who was in my school and same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so same age as me and I followed her on Insta but she declined or rejected my follow request. I tried sending her a message but she didn't reply. Today I followed another girl on Insta who too was in my school and same grade but we weren't classmates either. I remember having a little crush on her when we were both in 10th grade and she has a beautiful smile too. She is also 21 so again the same age as me but I found out that she lives in another country now goes to college in that country abroad so I have no chance with her.
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  634. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  635. So is it fine right for a 22 year old guy to date an 18 almost 19 year old girl if both are in college? I am 22 and I like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in August so we are only 3.5 years apart in age. She is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. I actually never had a girlfriend before and got rejected by several girls recently who were in the 19-22 age range and now I like this girl who just happened to be 18-19 so is it fine to ask her out?
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  636.  @scr4932  I turned 23 just just over a month ago and still single
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  637. Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and yet to even get my first kiss. I started going for some classes for almost 2 months for preparation of upcoming exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and I wanna study MBA next. There I got a crush on this girl in my class who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She says me hi daily with a smile and we do handshake and she tries to initiate conversations with me but I just answer what she asks or say hi back but I am still shy to initiate any further talks with her. 4 weeks ago, I came to know that she finds me cute and that made me blush a lot and my friends teased me too and 2 weeks ago I gave her a chocolate too and she smiled and thanked me with a handshake. Today she heard my singing too along with several of my friends and she seemed to have liked my singing too. The only problem is I am shy and I also smile a lot in class plus she has 3 or 4 male friends so I feel worried whether she will go for either of them. Also today, me and this other girl who is 19 year old planned to meet up in a mall in our city but I had to cancel the plan as my dad has a medical appointment in hospital so I had to come with him to the hospital. Me and this girl had been chatting on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other those days. We seem to have several things in common and send each other virtual hugs too. I was excited about meeting her today as it was my first time going out with a girl but had to cancel it and hopefully we will meet next week. 4 months ago I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 by the end of this month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to me so even though she agreed to meet with me, I don't know yet when we will meet.
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  638. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Btw is a month long enough to know whether someone is interested in me or not? I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up she haven't replied yet about when we can meet. I have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. We are in different colleges now but we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school. So we only have been getting to know each other for a bit over a month. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily and talk about literally everything and we are both foodies too and send each other virtual hugs but she isn't flirty to me in the chats yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but is 1 month already long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not or does it take longer?
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  639. Is 22 dating 18/19 fine? I am a guy who turned 22 just over 5 weeks ago and I really like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in March.
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  640. Woah really at 45? I am a 22 year old guy and never had a girlfriend. I am getting upset at how unfair is everything for me. Girls are way too picky and they don't like me. I use dating apps and get almost no matches. Recently I got matched by a girl who is 20 and we had a great chat but she unmatched me for no reason at all. I also follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are usually 19-22 year olds now. But majority of them ghosted me but even the ones who were chatting me are kinda ignoring me just because I complimented them which is simple one. Only 4 girls chat with me and 2 of them both 20 year olds are sweet to me and we send hugs to each other but idk how things will be. I am getting angry at how these girls are. They only want the best looking guys and treats average guys like me like trash.
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  641. Damn man. I am a guy who turned 23 just over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date a bit over 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 a week ago) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and had my first hug ever from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she is really cute. 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean and toxic to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. For the past 6 months, I also have been crushing on this girl in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA next. She also just turned 23 over a week ago and she has called me cute before and I pulled her cheeks twice too but I am usually shy near girls in person so she is the one who usually initiates conversations with me and its usually short as I have nothing more to say as an introvert. I do see her with some male friends so that makes me worried thinking what if she goes for either of them. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in that same class and she is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends. We just roamed around our city and then had lunch in a big restaurant and had lots of fun. I did pull her cheeks once while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. We might go out again in Feb probably. But yesterday I got a new crush(yeah I am a mess haha) on this another girl who is also 22 or 23 in the same institute but different classrooms and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen but I was again shy to approach her but I got to know her name and followed her on Instagram but she is yet to accept it and maybe then I will message her after 2-3 days but its possible that she probably has a boyfriend too. I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram for over 6 months. She is 19(turning 20 in April). We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since July 2023. We are planning to meet up too and eat somewhere as we are both foodies and we send each other virtual hugs in the chats daily and she is really sweet too. But in the end I am still single.
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  642. Just turned 22 yesterday and never had a girlfriend before. At this point, its bothering me so much.
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  643. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. Got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently. Last week, I got matched by a 19 year old girl on one of the dating apps I use and we had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all in the app. So I am worried that this might not work so I tried keeping an option by following a girl named Britney on Instagram who was my classmate when we were in 6th to 10th grade. I remember having crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or probably even 22 now so same age as me. She was the prettiest girl in our class in high school days and she is even prettier now at 21 and I tried following her on Instagram today but she didn't even accept my follow request yet.
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  644. I wouldn't mind dating an older woman and I am myself a 23 year old guy but my current crush is within 21-23 age range too.
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  645. Damn man really at 44? Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 23 just over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date a bit over 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 a week ago) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and had my first hug ever from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she is really cute. 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean and toxic to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. For the past 6 months, I also have been crushing on this girl in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA next. She also just turned 23 over a week ago and she has called me cute before and I pulled her cheeks twice too but I am usually shy near girls in person so she is the one who usually initiates conversations with me and its usually short as I have nothing more to say as an introvert. I do see her with some male friends so that makes me worried thinking what if she goes for either of them. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in that same class and she is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends. We just roamed around our city and then had lunch in a big restaurant and had lots of fun. I did pull her cheeks once while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. We might go out again in Feb probably. But yesterday I got a new crush(yeah I am a mess haha) on this another girl who is also 22 or 23 in the same institute but different classrooms and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen but I was again shy to approach her but I got to know her name and followed her on Instagram but she is yet to accept it and maybe then I will message her after 2-3 days but its possible that she probably has a boyfriend too. I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram for over 6 months. She is 19(turning 20 in April). We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since July 2023. We are planning to meet up too and eat somewhere as we are both foodies and we send each other virtual hugs in the chats daily and she is really sweet too. But in the end I am still single.
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  646.  @RebrandSoon0000  What catfishes? They were either in my same school or are in the same institute as me currently. The one who is 19 almost 20 was in my school and 3 years my junior. She is in 2nd year 4th semester of college. We didn't meet via dating app. We have several mutuals on Instagram and she is in college and we met through Instagram as we were in the same school. I literally saw her college ID card. At 23, dating someone 19-20 is very normal.
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  647. So is it a bad idea as an Asian student to want to date a Westerner who came to my country as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  648. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  649. Whats so good about being 35+? BTW is it really a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 5 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes and not yesterday either. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  650. Haha you are still young and have plenty of time. Sadly I am a 21 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 but both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot and she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted. 2 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined for some courses. She is a college student too from a different college and she is 19 or 20 or maybe 21(idk her exact age yet but she is definitely 19-21). She is beautiful and I might get a crush on her but that day I didn't have the confidence to initiate a convo with her and I won't be able to meet her for 2 weeks and I have to wait till 1st Nov as she is going out of city for 2 weeks and will come to classes from 1st Nov.
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  651. In your opinion is it a bad idea as an Asian(Indian) student to want to date a Westerner who came to my country as an expat and I have no chance with them? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses and I am well educated too with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and now gonna study MBA too. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  652.  @gravepatch  True man. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and another one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl from my college on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. Last week I heard a song which reminded me of a girl who was in my school and same grade too but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and I am 21 so we are the same age and I followed her on Insta too but she declined my follow request and didn't reply to my message too. That shows I haven't been lucky.
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  653. Same but I don't workout and I am just average and I have been shy near girls almost throughout my life. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon. Those 3 girls are around 22-24 year olds and very pretty and initiated convo with me saying hi and telling names and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. Today too they tried to talk with me but I am still kinda shy near girls in person so we didn't talk much but for the past 2 days I can't stop thinking about them. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also the three 22-24 year olds on whom I newly got crush.
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  654.  @beyondwilline3634  How? She is an adult and so am I and so close in age.
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  655.  @jackiechan1148  How am I creepy? We are both only 3 years apart in age and she is 18 so she isn't underage.
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  656.  @bernthalbabe313  Come on I am just 21 and only 3 years older. She can also be a college freshman. I also like a girl in my college who is 18 and in 1st year and I will be turning 22 this December. The age gap is even less than 5 years.
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  657.  @bernthalbabe313  What if she is almost 19? Would you still find it weird for me to date a 19 year old? Actually I also got matched on a dating app by a 19 year old girl with whom I had a decent chat for 2 days and she lives in my city but we are in different college. What's your opinion about 21 or 22 year old dating a 19 year old girl?
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  658.  @bernthalbabe313  Well I live in Bangalore in India so thankfully age gaps aren't seen as such big deal in Asian and European countries as long as both are 18 and older, like how it is seen in US. You Americans even have problem with a small 3 or 4 year age gap. In my college, lots of 18 year old girls in 1st year dates 20 to 22 year old seniors. It's totally normal in most Asian countries and even in Europe most people don't care. Only American judge age gaps.
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  659. I am also a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. I feel like I am such a repellant to girls. 2 of my crushes in college rejected me recently. 3 days ago I heard a song which reminded me of a girl whom I knew since my school days and we were in same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so we are the same age. She is very beautiful and I followed her on Instagram. Her account is private so I sent her a follow request but she literally rejected my follow request and I am so down. Why did she do that? Is it because she can't recognize me or it's just I am too repellant to girls or is it because she finds me lame because I used to get bullied a lot in high school and was considered a loser by most guys in my grade? Is it fine if I send her a message?
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  660.  @Missunseen  I mainly asked because I am worried whether girls will find it a turn off or not. I prefer girls in the 18 to 26 age range because I prefer someone within 3-4 years my age. Honestly after getting ghosted and rejected by girls, I am thinking about trying my luck on a girl who was my childhood friend. She was friend when we both were in elementary school in 2008-2011. We used to play together, study together, have sleepovers etc but since 2011, we never really talked as my parents bought a new apartment and we came to a different area. She is 21 now and only 5 months younger than me. I messaged her on Instagram recently and she still remembers me. I think I kinda fall in love with her seeing her pics on IG as she looks very cute. I really wanna go on date with her but idk how. I would love to give her a long hug too but idk when it will happen.
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  661. They are lucky enough whereas its hard for me to get a girlfriend. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far(2 from my college and another from a dating app who insulted me too). I tried following some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school but only 3 of them followed me back and I still didn't message them yet as idk what to write and they are also 21-22 year olds. But I am sad that the girl named Britney didn't accept my follow request yet. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and she is very pretty and I wish she follow me back because I think I again got a crush on her just seeing her profile pic on IG and she is even prettier now at 21.
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  662. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never been kissed. After having no luck on dating apps, I had been chatting with some girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me and are 18-23 year olds(mostly 19-22). But there is this girl who is 19 turning 20 in August whom I tried asking out for a coffee 2 days and we had been chatting for a month on insta and we were in the same school too but now in different colleges. And I can't believe that she agreed to meet me. She didn't say when but she said she will let me know when we can meet preferably in the cafe near her college as she is a medical student so she is busy. This is the first time I didn't get rejected or blocked or ghosted so I am still not able to believe it and really happy too but idk when we will meet exactly and I kinda feel worried that what if she ghosts me even though we have been chatting for a month.
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  663. Wow man did you have a girlfriend before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and I feel the FOMO so much. I get ghosted by girls on dating apps and got rejected by 2 girls I liked in my college few months ago. I also follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 19-22 year olds now but many of them ghosted me too and only 4 or 5 of them chats with me and only 2 of them both 20 year olds are nice to me and we send virtual hugs and they calls me sweet.
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  664. I am an Indian and don't want an arranged marriage in future. I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. 2 days ago, I went to this really very posh area of our city and saw some foreign women who were all white blonde European who are expats in my city. I am usually shy but this time I tried cold approaching 2 of them by saying them excuse me to initiate a conversation the same way done in the video. The 1st woman who looked about 27-35 age range was wearing earphones so she never noticed me. The 2nd woman looked older probably in her late 30s or even early 40s and she wasn't even wearing earphones but she still didn't even look at me when I said her excuse me. I saw another younger white blonde woman who was definitely in her mid or late 20s but she was on a bicycle so I had no chance. I even saw a Hispanic and East Asian woman in another part of the city 2 weeks ago but was shy to talk to them. The only time this cold approach worked was 2 months ago with a French woman near my University where I am studying MBA but the conversation was brief and I never met her again.
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  665. I am 5'9(174-175 cm) which is well above average in my country but still no luck. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? It looks like she still sees me as only a friend but will it take longer for her to develop feelings for me or is 3-4 weeks already long enough? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  666. Is it still late at 23? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but had my first ever date and first hug 7 months ago at the age of 22 and sadly it didn't work out. Got ignored and rejected by several crushes. Currently having a crush on this girl in my University where I am pursuing my MBA and I am in 1st year and she too is an MBA 1st year student and she is also within 21-23 age range but we aren't in the same classrooms so we have brief conversations mostly and she has been my crush for the past 2 months. I even got her number 2 weeks ago in a clever way but she didn't see my whatsapp text and when I asked she said she had 2 exams in the same day. 2 days ago I even hugged her finally as it was her last exam that day and yesterday was my last exam so we won't be able to meet in person for 3 months as we all have to do a 2-3 months internship between May to July and our next semester classes will start in August so I gave her a goodbye hug for now. She did give a bit of an awkward smile tho when I hugged her. I literally put all my arms around her while hugging whereas she didn't really put both her arms around me but she pat my back once and said ok I have to study now as I have an exam in an hour so bye and then even I said ok bye and we walked our own ways. It was brief few seconds hug but it was also my 2nd time I ever hugged a girl in person. I hope she wasn't uncomfortable but it was really one of my happiest day and even my classmates were surprised seeing that.
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  667. ​ @Yeahbruh200 did you even read my full comment? I literally said I hugged my crush. How is 23 late? I am still young and have plenty of time.
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  668. There is no pressure because you are still young. Once you hit 20, you will want a girlfriend. I was also happy being single in my teenage days but since last year when I was 20, I started feeling sad and lonely and wished I had a girlfriend. Now I am a 21 year old guy and still no girlfriend. Most girls in my age group are rude and mean to me and probably only wants gigachad type of guys. Thats why I would go for an older woman who is at least 27 or older because I want a matured woman who would treat me better and love me a lot.
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  669. Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never kissed or hugged a girl in real life. After having no luck on dating apps, I started messaging girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me and are 18-23 year olds(mostly 19-22) Last Sunday I tried asking out one of the girl who is 19 turning 20 in August for a coffee and she even agreed to meet up one day. We have been chatting on Instagram for a month and were in the same school too but different colleges now but suddenly 3-4 days ago she blocked me mysteriously but I could see her replies getting slower and shorter after I asked her out but I was sad because she gave me false hope and this was the first time a girl didn't reject me so it hit hard. Yesterday I tried asking out another girl for a coffee who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 turning 22 after 4 months and I feel I genuinely like her but she isn't that active on Insta so she didn't see or reply to the message yet in which I asked her out yesterday. I really hope she replies positively and agrees to meet up but I am scared that she might reject me too.
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  670. Same man too but I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after just 3 days and I never had a girlfriend so far and I only have some chat with girls in the 18-23 age range on social media and sometimes on dating apps who eventually ghosts me but I never really talk with a girl in person. Btw say honestly, is it really creepy of me to follow girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days? They are all 20-22 year olds now and I follow many of them and even chat with 2 or 3 of them and I would try my luck on one of them. Why do some people say its creepy even though I knew them high school?
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  671. So is it also bad that I am 22 now and never dated? I am a guy who turned 22 almost 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and never had a real kiss with a girl except getting kissed on the cheek by a girl when we were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched by 18-23 age girls but they ghost me for no reason. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but got rejected. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now and I had the best chat with a girl for the past 6-7 days. She is 20 and I knew her in school and she was 2 years my junior. She seems so much better than other girls I have chatted with. I kinda messed up a bit today by giving her a cheesy compliment today but I apologized and said that I just wanted to make her smile and she thanked me and said it was sweet of me. Btw I have no idea whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  672.  @tarcisiasiniscalchi6641  But most girls end up ghosting me whereas she isn't. I like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 but we didn't talk in person since 2011 as my parents bought a new apartment back then so we came to a different area. She is 21 now and only 5-6 months younger than me and we chat on Instagram but she didn't reply or even see my last message for over 2 weeks. I am the most comfortable with asking her for a date because I knew her before but she isn't chatting at all with me.
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  673. And I am 11 years younger than you(if you are 34) and in the same boat as you. I am a guy who turned 23 just over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date a bit over 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 a week ago) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and had my first hug ever from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she is really cute. 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean and toxic to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. For the past 6 months, I also have been crushing on this girl in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA next. She also just turned 23 over a week ago and she has called me cute before and I pulled her cheeks twice too but I am usually shy near girls in person so she is the one who usually initiates conversations with me and its usually short as I have nothing more to say as an introvert. I do see her with some male friends so that makes me worried thinking what if she goes for either of them. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in that same class and she is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends. We just roamed around our city and then had lunch in a big restaurant and had lots of fun. I did pull her cheeks once while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. We might go out again in Feb probably. But yesterday I got a new crush(yeah I am a mess haha) on this another girl who is also 22 or 23 in the same institute but different classrooms and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen but I was again shy to approach her but I got to know her name and followed her on Instagram but she is yet to accept it and maybe then I will message her after 2-3 days but its possible that she probably has a boyfriend too. I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram for over 6 months. She is 19(turning 20 in April). We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since July 2023. We are planning to meet up too and eat somewhere as we are both foodies and we send each other virtual hugs in the chats daily and she is really sweet too. But in the end I am still single.
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  674. Wow man 52? BTW is it still a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 4 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  675. True. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and I had been using tinder, bumble and hinge for 5 months but only got 3 matches on tinder, 1 match on Bumble and 6 matches on Hinge so far. I use the free version because I can't pay for premium. Sadly most of the time I end up getting ghosted. The girls on tinder never reply to me whereas the ones on Hinge have a small chat and eventually ghosts me.
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  676.  @nicolotiraboschi  btw what does it mean if I only got 6 matches so far after using it for 5 months? Is it still bad?
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  677. Really at 45? BTW I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it never worked out. I graduated college about 8 months ago and I am an soon to be MBA student and going for several classes so I am well educated and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm). In the classes, I got crush on this girl(she is Indian too) who is also within the 21-23 age range. At first I was shy, but nowadays we have brief conversations and today for the first time I complimented her too saying she was looking cute and she smiled and said thanks. But she is very pretty almost model like whereas I am not that attractive especially in my glasses so idk how much chance I have with her plus idk whether she is even single or not. Btw as Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, I do see some foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go and I have seen several foreign women too but I was shy before but yesterday I finally initiated a conversation with a white woman and she is from France. She is a student too in a nearby University there and I am guessing she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. I was pretty much fumbling while talking with her as I was feeling nervous and shy at the same time but she was nice and friendly and we said it was nice to meet you to each other. We had to go as we were getting late for classes. I forgot to ask her name or number tho. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(more like 22-26 if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees). Idk whether I will meet her again or not but hope I will meet her tomorrow. But idk whether she is single too or not plus idk whether as a French woman she would date an Indian man. I also like another girl who is 19 turning 20 next month who is an Indian too. We have been knowing each other for the past 8 months and have been chatting on Instagram daily but suddenly for the past 4 days she isn't reply or even seeing my texts. We have been sending each other virtual hugs and are both foodies and made a big bucket list of where we will eat but suddenly she isn't chatting with me and I feel she is ghosting me even though I didn't say her anything wrong. She is coming online normally too. We were in the same school but didn't know each other in school days. I am missing chatting with her honestly and feeling down and I am hoping she will reply.
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  678. I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  679. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 8 days and its freaking me out as I am getting older and it feels as if my youth is over. I am still single too which is bothering me a lot.
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  680. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend and still didn't get my first kiss. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but I barely get any matches at all and even if I get one, I end up getting ghosted. I did see a girl a week ago in a class I joined recently for some course and she is from a different college. She is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too and she is really beautiful and I think I got a crush on her but I was too shy to even say her a hi that day. Now I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she is out of city for 2 weeks
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  681.  @j31b  Damn man really at 40? I am a guy who turned 23 just over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date a bit over 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 a week ago) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and had my first hug ever from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she is really cute. 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean and toxic to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. For the past 6 months, I also have been crushing on this girl in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA next. She also just turned 23 over a week ago and she has called me cute before and I pulled her cheeks twice too but I am usually shy near girls in person so she is the one who usually initiates conversations with me and its usually short as I have nothing more to say as an introvert. I do see her with some male friends so that makes me worried thinking what if she goes for either of them. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in that same class and she is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends. We just roamed around our city and then had lunch in a big restaurant and had lots of fun. I did pull her cheeks once while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. We might go out again in Feb probably. But yesterday I got a new crush(yeah I am a mess haha) on this another girl who is also 22 or 23 in the same institute but different classrooms and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen but I was again shy to approach her but I got to know her name and followed her on Instagram but she is yet to accept it and maybe then I will message her after 2-3 days but its possible that she probably has a boyfriend too. I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram for over 6 months. She is 19(turning 20 in April). We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since July 2023. We are planning to meet up too and eat somewhere as we are both foodies and we send each other virtual hugs in the chats daily and she is really sweet too. But in the end I am still single.
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  682. Woah man really at 40? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 3 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now almost 22 but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took a month to reply yeah ok to it but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk exactly when due to her being so inactive on IG. Since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just completed college about a week ago and wanna study MBA now. There in the class I got a massive crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on the first day and introduced our selves and it was my first ever handshake with a girl. She sometimes try to initiate convo with me asking whether I had lunch or not and some more but I am shy to initiate further talks with her so our conversations are short. I am still kinda shy near girls in person and I see her having 2 male friends in our class so I feel scared thinking what if she goes for either of them. I also had been chatting with this another girl who is 19 on Instagram since 28th May 2023. We used to be in the same school but now she is in a different college and just entered 2nd year of college. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about many things and have a good laugh and send each other virtual hugs too but it looks like she still sees me as a friend so I am nervous to ask her out as I also got rejected recently by 4 girls.
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  683. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and recently on dating apps I got unmatched immediately by 2 girls(One is 19 and the other one is 21) after I asked them out after a decent chat. I also tried asking out 2 girls recently who were in the same school as me. One of them is 19 now and we were chatting on Instagram for a month and I asked her out on last Sunday and she even agreed that we will meet up one day but 6 days ago she blocked me mysteriously for no reason and it hurt me. Then yesterday I asked out another girl who is turning 20 next month and I asked her out very politely for a coffee after chatting with her on Instagram for over 3 weeks but she immediately blocked me after seeing it. My last hope is my childhood friend now who is 21 now turning 22 after 4 months and I asked her out for a coffee too but she isn't that active on Instagram so still didn't see or reply to my message yet. I hoping for a positive reply this time but I am so worried that what if she rejects me too.
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  684. You are lucky. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. I feel like I am such a repellant to girls. 2 of my crushes in college rejected me recently. 3 days ago I heard a song which reminded me of a girl whom I knew since my school days and we were in same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so we are the same age. She is very beautiful and I followed her on Instagram. Her account is private so I sent her a follow request but she literally rejected my follow request and I am so down. Why did she do that? Is it because she can't recognize me or it's just I am too repellant to girls or is it because she finds me lame because I used to get bullied a lot in high school and was considered a loser by most guys in my grade? Is it fine if I send her a message?
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  685. So is it still a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 4 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  686. I am a guy who turned 22 just over 4 weeks ago and I never had a girlfriend before and never had a real kiss with a girl except getting kissed on the cheek by a female friend when we both were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and rarely get matches by 18-23 age girls but they end up ghosting me. Even 2 of my crushes in my college too rejected me few months ago. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and now they are 20-22 year olds but there is one girl with whom I had the best chats for the past 5 days compared to any other girl. She is 20 now and I knew her in school days too and now we go to different colleges and she seems really sweet and we share about so many things and she doesn't seem as shallow as most girls are and our names sound very similar too but she is a bit nerdy so idk whether she wants to even date or not.
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  687. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian guy to try to even initiate conversation with foreign women who are expats? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before. No Indian woman has ever been interested in me and even my crush in my University where I am studying MBA isn't into me. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians do come here as expats. I went to this really posh area of our city and even tried initiating conversation with expat women there who are usually white Caucasian women but got ignored as they either had earphones or didn't look at me. Yesterday I again tried initiating conversation with another one walking on the sidewalk. She looked 27+ in age and I said her excuse me and she even looked at me but I suddenly became nervous and waved my hand at her instead and then she continued walking too so couldn't have a conversation. I am still kinda shy near women but I did have a brief conversation with a French woman near my University 2 years ago but I never saw her again. I am also going to this nearby coastal city Pondicherry for trip where I will see foreigners too but it will just be a 3-4 days trip and they will mostly be tourists too. I am kinda planning to go near this big University in our city Bangalore where many international students come too mostly for MBA. I will try to meet a foreign woman there in cafes or restaurants around. But idk whether it will be a good idea or not but at least most of them will be in their 20s too and around my age and I will have a more common topic to initiate conversation about as I am also an MBA student like them. What do you think?
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  688. Wow 46? Did you have a gf before? I am 24 and never had a gf. I am just in my final semester of my MBA and I am an intern now in a Startup which will convert to full time in August and living in Bangalore in India but I am Bengali Indian. I was always shy to talk with girls and only started fully socializing with girls last year after entering my 2nd year (3rd sem) of MBA. Now as I am interning in a young startup, I get to meet plenty of girls in my age group too (21–26 range). I am socializing daily with many female interns now and approaching them but they already have their circle of friends and there isn’t a proper cafeteria or place to socialize during breaks in our office and many go out with their friends who are from their college or familiar friends making socializing with girls harder as I directly approaching them independently when I see them. One girl who is 21-22 and an intern too even gave her number to me 2 days ago but even she is mostly with her friends. Its hard in a collectivist country like India even though I gained a lot of confidence when it comes to approaching and talking to girls.
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  689. I am a guy who just turned 22 last week and I never had a girlfriend either. I had crush on 2 girls in my college who rejected me and dating apps aren’t giving me luck as most girls who match with me ghosts or unmatch me for no reason at times. I also follow few girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and only chat with 3 of them. 2 of them are 20-22 year old and another is an 18-19 year old who is one of their friend in their college.
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  690. Woah man really at 64? Did you have a gf or even a date? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend but I went on my first ever date a bit over 2 months ago. She is 19 and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and we hugged too and I was pinching her cheeks a lot. But 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be toxic and mean and blocked me on social media. I also have a massive crush on this girl who is also 22. We go to the same class for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 4-5 months ago and planning to study MBA next. I am usually shy near her and she is the one who tries to talk with me. I pinched her cheeks last month and again last week when she actually said that I am looking cute and I also said she looks cute too and pinched her cheeks. She smiled and I also blushed after she called me cute. Sadly she does have several male friends which makes me worried that she might go for either of them. A bit over a month ago, I also went out with this another girl from the same class who is also 22 or 23 now. We are just friends tho but we roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant. I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie but I was kinda shy to ask her for a hug. Overall it was a great day and we might go out again. I also chat daily with this another girl who is 19 on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but didn't know each other in school days. We send each other virtual hugs daily and she is very sweet and caring too and we always talk about our favorite food as we are both foodies haha and we will meet soon too and eat somewhere and hug each other for real. Sadly, in the end I am still single.
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  691. Woah 43 and still a virg? I am 22 and never even had a girlfriend and feel FOMO all the time so I can't imagine how someone your age would feel.
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  692. Seriously man at 56? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and barely been on 1 first date and only hugged 2 girls in person so far and never been kissed. I had always been very shy near girls due to facing severe bullying and isolation in school so I even avoided talking with girls and then studied engineering in a college which had a skewed gender ratio. Now I am studying MBA and only recently I am talking with girls and overcame my shyness so it took me till 22-23 to finally come out of my shyness. I had a crush last year during my starting of my MBA but I messed up and currently like 2 girls in my MBA. One of them (lets call her D)(22F) is my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year 3-4 weeks ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far. She is a Punjabi girl and I am Bengali. She is an introvert similar to me and soft spoken and I got her Instagram too and we had some decent conversation in person and even sent her a funny relatable meme on Instagram too. Another one is a girl(Lets call her I)(22-24F) who is in the same year of MBA as me but different sections and we only talked in person for 5-6 days so far. She is also a North Indian from Lucknow who came to Bangalore for her MBA and I really like her confident nature while talking and she is beautiful too. We had a good conversation on our 1st interaction and she even shared her umbrella with me when it rained but our next conversations were short as she is accompanied by her friends or keeps seeing her mobile even though she smiles and says me Hi back. I even said her hope she isn't angry on me but she made a surprised expression and said "No not at all. Why?" I am overthinking a lot whether she is interested in talking to me or not. Plus I am currently in my hometown Siliguri for vacation too for a week so I am worried when D or I and even the other girls with whom I talk, will talk to me again after I return to Bangalore and go to college again as there had been an 8-9 days gap in communication because of the trip and we are all in early stages of getting to know each other. Plus as they aren't my classmates, they are in more close proximity to their male classmates than to me. I just recently came out of this shyness so completely clueless about how to make my move on girls and nervous about asking them out and feel that she might not be interested.
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  693. Because you grew up in a different time compared to young men like me and you didn't have internet back then. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. I got unmatched by 2 girls recently on dating apps after I asked them out for a coffee even though we had a good chat. I also got blocked by 2 girls on Instagram after asking them out and they were in the same school as me but now we are in different colleges. One of the girl who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up but she blocked me after few days and we had been chatting on insta for a month. I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 turning 22 after 3-4 months and I genuinely like her but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to my message yet but I am still waiting for her reply and hoping that she will agree. I also started newly chatting with another girl who too was in the same school as me but was my junior so she is within the 19-21 age range and she looks so pretty in her profile pic on insta with a smile and I would love to ask her out after knowing each other well but I am afraid that she might be having a boyfriend as she is really pretty and we aren't in the same college either.
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  694. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and tried to connect with girls whom I knew in high school by following them on IG but they didn't follow me back and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me and one 19 year old girl who matched with me turned out to be very mean to me yesterday and insulted me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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  695. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. I got unmatched by 2 girls recently on dating apps after I asked them out for a coffee even though we had a good chat. I also got blocked by 2 girls on Instagram after asking them out and they were in the same school as me but now we are in different colleges. One of the girl who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up but she blocked me after few days and we had been chatting on insta for a month. I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 turning 22 after 3-4 months and I genuinely like her but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to my message yet but I am still waiting for her reply and hoping that she will agree. I also started newly chatting with another girl who too was in the same school as me but was my junior so she is within the 19-21 age range and she looks so pretty in her profile pic on insta with a smile and I would love to ask her out after knowing each other well but I am afraid that she might be having a boyfriend as she is really pretty and we aren't in the same college either.
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  696. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 on 22nd December who never had a girlfriend. Got rejected by 3 girls who are 19-21 year olds so far(2 from my college and 1 from a dating app). I tried following few girls on Instagram too whom I knew in my high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now but only 7 of them followed me back and 2 of my high school crushes who are 21-22 now didn't even accept my follow request. 6 days I got matched by 2 girls on dating app Hinge. One is 21 and the other one is 23 turning 24 next month. Unfortunately, the 21 year old girl stopped replying after a small chat whereas I had a decent chat with the 23 year old and she is super cute and I really wish she won't ghost me too.
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  697. Thats sad man and I am kinda in the same boat as you but 14 years younger. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and didn't even get my first kiss yet and I feel lonely and down. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One of them is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I have been using 3 dating apps for 4 months but barely getting any matches at all and one 20 year old girl who matched with me 2 months ago rejected me saying she only prefers bad guys and that I am too nice for her. About 2 weeks ago, I saw another girl in a class where I joined recently for some courses. She is from a different college tho and she is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but can be 18 too as idk her real age but I was too shy to even say her a hi that day and now I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she went out of city for 2 weeks and I am afraid that she might reject me as well especially because we are from different college.
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  698. Would you consider 22 a zoomer too if I was born in December 2000? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life and I feel terrible. I got rejected very recently by 3 girls( rejected by 7 girls in total so far tho). These 3 girls were all in the same school as me but now in different colleges and we had been chatting on Instagram for months. One of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up after I asked her out few weeks ago but she blocked me mysteriously after few days whereas another girl blocked me immediately after I asked her out. Few days ago I tried asking out another girl who is 20 now and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she rejected me saying that even though I am really nice, she just isn't comfortable to meet up with me and it hit me hard. But there is still some hope as I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months. We were very close friends when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. But she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see that message in which I asked her out so still no reply yet. I am still waiting for her reply and hoping a positive reply as I genuinely like her a lot but idk.
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  699. Damn man really 42? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal and never had a girlfriend and only been on 1 first date many months ago at the age of 22 and then a month later hanged out with my female friend, hugged only 2 girls in person and still never had my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and in my University too had crush on this girl for 7 months who is also 23 now but 5 months ago got crush on another prettier girl(sadly she wasn't into me either but she was the 2nd girl I hugged in person) in the same University so my previous crush stopped talking to me and I miss her. I had a summer break from University for 3 months and today finally new semester started for us and I literally initiated conversation with 3 girls in my University who are MBA students too and within 21-23 age range and I had a long enough conversation with one of them who too was comfortable enough to talk to me but idk about my chances as I look like a nerd in my glasses and she is really pretty too. But it was a big change and improvement for me as I had always been shy near girls and in my high school days I completely avoided talking with girls as I was bullied a lot in school and continued being shy further too in my undergrad and even in my MBA too few months ago, I was still shy to initiate conversation with girls and even though I could talk with my crushes, there was still some nervousness here and there but today I went out of my comfort zone and talked with not 1 not 2 but 3 girls. Thats only because I initiated conversation with 3 expat women in my city Bangalore and they were white Caucasian women (yes foreigners do come to Bangalore as expats as its one of the major metropolitan city of India and popular for its IT(tech). First one was a French woman with whom I talked near my University almost 5 months ago who was within 22-26 age range and the next was a German woman 2 months ago and then yesterday again I saw another white blonde lady who looked to be within 26-30 age range and probably from Germany or maybe some Scandinavian country too and I waved my hand at her as she was walking and smiled at her saying her Hi and she too waved her hand back at me with a bit of a smile but couldn't have a conversation as the cab that I booked had arrived but would love to meet her again. So yeah I am happy that finally I can talk with women now whether Indian or foreigner but sadly it took me 23 years to get rid of my shyness.
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  700. Is a 22 year old dating a 19 year old still bad? I am 22 and I like a girl who is 19 turning 20 after 3 months and I wanna ask her out. She is in 2nd year of college and I am in last year of college and will graduate after 2 months and study MBA so I will still be a student 2 more years. I see reddit people finding 18/19 dating even 22 year old weird even though it's only a 3-4 year age gap. In fact the age gap between me and this girl is only 2.5 years.
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  701.  @fatimahanwaar306  No it is not. 16 is a minor whereas 19 is legally an adult and so is 22. 16 year olds are in high school whereas 19 year olds are in college and even 22 year olds are in last year of college. Both 19 and 22 are considered college age so the life stages of 19 and 22 year olds are more similar compared to 16 and 19.
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  702.  @elbiscochogamer8095  Thanks but she still haven't followed me back on Instagram. I probably have no chance with her I guess. I remember seeing her breaking up with a guy from her class when we were in 10th grade and that guy was much smarter and popular than me whereas most guys in my grade used to pretty much consider me a loser and I used to get bullied a lot in high school so she probably still finds me lame maybe and that's why she isn't following me back but idk.
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  703.  @cadedrury  No she is on Instagram so I am trying to know her by chatting with her on Instagram but she isn't even accepting my follow request.
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  704.  @rezzo1802  I am saying I am 23 and how I am better than him as I get to talk with my crush whereas he is 70+ and been single most of the time. I write this comment to 40+ age men who never had a girlfriend just to show I am better than them.
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  705.  @terenarosa4790  India. I turned 24 just 13 days ago and still single tho
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  706.  @terenarosa4790  I am from India
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  707.  @autumnislovely  I am not a passport bro but I am a 23 year old guy living in the city Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf. Even though I am talking with several girls in my University where I study MBA now and they are Indian too but even after having some good rapport with some of them, none of them seem to be fully interested in me and are little to no responsive to me on social media chats even though friendly to me in person so not having much luck with Indian women. Idk when I will move abroad but as Bangalore is the major IT hub of India and a major metropolitan city, foreigners do come here as expats and many goes to this luxurious mall of our city named UB City. I talked with 7 such expat women so far in UB City and all were white Caucasian women from countries like US, Germany, France, Luxembourg and Australia. I have had long enough conversation with some of them especially the one from US and Germany and they were friendly to me but unfortunately we couldn't connect further on social media and never got to meet again as I don't frequent UB City that often and I was worried whether asking her social media was fine as we just met. One of them(the woman from Luxembourg) was married too and said she lives in the city with her husband. The American woman with whom I talked in a Cafe inside the mall is 29 and friendly but it ended, same with the German woman who was 27-30 age range. I also met another one from Germany who is a Law student in our city and she is 20 and we had a good conversation and I regret not asking her socials as she was dressing in UB City. I also had a chance of talking to an East Asian expat woman in the mall too but she seemed to be in a hurry so I just didn't get the chance.
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  708. ​ @alle_lustwill_ewigkeit2999  Is it fine for a 22 year old guy to date an 18 almost 19 year old girl if both are in college? I am 22 and I like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in August so we are only 3.5 years apart in age. She is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. I actually never had a girlfriend before and got rejected by several girls recently who were in the 19-22 age range and now I like this girl who just happened to be 18-19 so is it fine to ask her out?
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  709. How old are you? I am a 22 year old guy and never even had any girlfriend. I use dating apps, message girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but no luck at all. The only girl who is nice and sweet to me is a 20 year old girl with whom I had been chatting on Instagram for almost a month. We were in the same school but now in different college in the same city. She is very sweet and makes me blush and we send each other hugs. But a couple of weeks ago she said she has a boyfriend which confuses me because she is still being flirty to me calling me cute and we send each other hugs and when I say her that I am sad about something, she says sweet things and makes me smile and we also talk about hugging one day for real so idk whether she just lied that she has a boyfriend.
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  710. Woah really at 43? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before, only been on 1 first date months ago at the age of 22 and then hanged out with a female friend and hugged only 2 girls in person and never been kissed. I am studying MBA now and had a few crushes in my 1st year of MBA which didn't work but now 2nd year just started for me and I finally initiated conversation with 8 girls in these 3 days after University reopened. One of them(lets call her D) is also within 21-23 age range and is my junior who is in 1st year of her MBA and we have been having good conversations and yesterday we followed each other on Instagram too and yesterday met another girl(lets call her R) who is in my University too in my same year of MBA and also within 22-24 age range and we were walking and talking while going to University and then while going to the bus stop too we went together and she let me under her umbrella too as it was raining. So both D and R had been nice and friendly to me so far. Its a big improvement as I was shy during school days and avoided talking to girls due to facing severe bullying in school. Not only that I also talked with foreign women in our city Bangalore by initiating conversations with them. As Bangalore is a major metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. I talked with 3 expat women so far. Almost 5 months ago was with a French woman who was about 22-26 age range and then 2 months ago was with a German woman who was probably anywhere within 26-35 age range. But today I had the best conversation with an American woman in the cafe in this big shopping complex in the most upscale area of our city. She is an expat too and she is 29 and she was really friendly to me and was comfortable talking with me and we had a long conversation. I asked for her Instagram but unfortunately she said she doesn't even use Insta so we couldn't connect with each other but I really hope I get to meet her again as she is really pretty too but I look nerdy in my glasses too.
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  711. So in your opinion is it really a bad idea as an Asian student to want to date a Westerner who came to my country as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses and I am well educated too with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  712. So is it still a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 4 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  713. How old are you? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. After 3 rejections recently, I did ask out my childhood friend who is 21 year old now turning 22 soon by messaging her on Instagram and she did reply yeah ok but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and now again she hasn't been online for weeks and still yet to reply about when we can meet but I am still waiting. But since 28th May 2023, I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days. Now she is 19 year old and is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and we chat daily about pretty much everything and we send each other virtual hugs too and I think I started liking her too but so far it still looks like she just sees me as a friend as the chats doesn't get very flirty yet and we have been chatting for almost a month. We are also in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. I do wanna ask her out but my childhood friend didn't reject me too and I like both of them.
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  714. So is it a bad idea as an Asian student to want to date a Westerner who came to my country as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  715. What about an Asian student like me wanting to date a Westerner who came to my country as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  716. I turned 22 just 4 days ago and I never had a girlfriend either and its bothering me a lot. Got rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago and had not much luck in dating apps. Btw yesterday I got some hope after one girl finally accepted my follow request on Instagram. I knew her in high school days and we were in the same grade but we weren't classmates. I had crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. Now she is also either 21 or 22 and she is even prettier now and she accepted my follow request after about 2 months. I guess she doesn't remember me much tho as she didn't follow me back so idk how can I get to know her and I am afraid that she might be having a boyfriend now.
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  717. So is it unusual that I still never had a gf at 23 in India? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal and never had a girlfriend and only been on 1 first date many months ago at the age of 22 and then a month later hanged out with my female friend, hugged only 2 girls in person and still never had my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and in my University too had crush on this girl for 7 months who is also 23 now but 5 months ago got crush on another prettier girl(sadly she wasn't into me either but she was the 2nd girl I hugged in person) in the same University so my previous crush stopped talking to me and I miss her. I had a summer break from University for 3 months and yesterday finally new semester started for us and I literally initiated conversation with 3 girls in my University who are MBA students too and within 21-23 age range and today too had conversation with 3 more(6 in total so far) but I had a long enough conversation with one of them who too is comfortable enough to talk to me and seems kinda introvert too with just a few female friends and we had a decent conversation today too and I think I am getting crush on her as she is so damn cute and pretty but idk about my chances as I look like a nerd in my glasses and she is really pretty too plus idk whether she is single or not even though she never mentioned about any boyfriend so far. She is a North Indian and I am Bengali. But it was a big change and improvement for me as I had always been shy near girls and in my high school days I completely avoided talking with girls as I was bullied a lot in school and continued being shy further too in my undergrad and even in my MBA too few months ago, I was still shy to initiate conversation with girls and even though I could talk with my crushes, there was still some nervousness here and there but today I went out of my comfort zone and talked with not 1 not 2 but 3 girls. Thats only because I initiated conversation with 3 expat women in my city Bangalore and they were white Caucasian women (yes foreigners do come to Bangalore as expats as its one of the major metropolitan city of India and popular for its IT(tech). First one was a French woman with whom I talked near my University almost 5 months ago who was within 22-26 age range and the next was a German woman 2 months ago and then yesterday again I saw another white blonde lady who looked to be within 26-30 age range and probably from Germany or maybe some Scandinavian country too and I waved my hand at her as she was walking and smiled at her saying her Hi and she too waved her hand back at me with a bit of a smile but couldn't have a conversation as the cab that I booked had arrived but would love to meet her again. So yeah I am happy that finally I can talk with women now whether Indian or foreigner but sadly it took me 23 years to get rid of my shyness.
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  718. I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(20 now) and had my first hug too but sadly she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere and I also went out with a female friend 4 months ago who is also 23 and ate in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date. But almost 3 weeks ago, I got a new crush on this girl in a class where we go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 7 months ago but we are in different classrooms. She is also within the 21-23 age range and I had been too shy to talk to her but 2 weeks ago eventually with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was able to talk to her and again said her Hi last week. That classmate of her did say she is single but last week another of her classmate said that she probably has a boyfriend so that makes me feel confused whether to pursue her or not but I won't believe it unless she herself says she has a bf. 4 days ago, I again talked with her a bit and even we did handshake and she smiled too but I was definitely still sounding a bit nervous while talking with her. Sadly she still didn't follow me back or reply to my first dm to her on Instagram and its been 8 days already so idk whats up as she was still friendly with me 4 days ago. She is very very pretty almost model like and I just look average. Without my glasses, I look better but I have high power so should wear them all the time and look really nerdy and dorky in it so idk whether I even have a chance with her. I had crush on another girl in the same classes for the past 6-7 months and she also turned 23 last month. I liked her a lot and she even called me cute several times and I also gave her chocolate 2 weeks ago but was too shy to say her that I liked her but she probably knew I had a crush on her tho. Sadly she is ignoring me these days as she came to know about my new crush on this another girl. I also have been chatting with this girl on Instagram for the past 7 months and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other that time and now she is in a different college. She is 19(turning 20 in April) and she is super sweet and we are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs and chat daily talking about almost everything. We will meet soon too and go to eat somewhere but I am still single in the end.
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  719. I am a 22 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend before. Dating apps aren't giving me luck and 2 of my crushes in college too rejected me few months ago. I chat with some girls on Instagram who are 19-22 age range and we were in the same school but only 1 girl who is 20 year old chats with me regularly. We were also in the same school but now in different colleges in the same city. We send each other virtual hugs daily and she makes me blush. She is very sweet and I was falling in love with her but 2 weeks ago she said she is in a relationship but I am confused because she is still flirty to me and calls me cute and sends hugs so idk whether she lied to me about being in a relationship. We even talk about meeting up and hugging for real but idk when and unfortunately I still feel lonely maybe because its just a chat so far and we didn't hang out yet.
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  720. I am a 24 year old guy from West Bengal living in Bangalore and here in Bangalore there are many foreigners who are expats here as its a major IT hub. I have initiated conversations with 15 such expat women in this mall called UB City who were mostly white women but I was respectful and we had friendly conversations and I am a well educated guy about to finish my MBA. Just 5 days ago i initiated conversation with a German expat woman near UB City and we had a decent conversation. As long as you are respectful its fine.
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  721. Btw is 22 year old dating 18 year old fine if both are in college? I am a 22 year old guy and like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in a few weeks
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  722. In your opinion is it a bad idea as an Asian student to want to date a Westerner who came to my country as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses and I am well educated too with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and now gonna study MBA too. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  723. So is it really a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 5 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes and not yesterday either. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  724. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and it bothers me a lot. Btw is a month long enough to know whether someone is interested in me or not? I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up she haven't replied yet about when we can meet. I have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. We are in different colleges now but we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school. So we only have been getting to know each other for a bit over a month. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily and talk about literally everything and we are both foodies too and send each other virtual hugs but there isn't any flirting in the chats yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but is 1 month already long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not or does it take longer?
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  725. True. I was born in December 2000. I am a 21 year old guy now and will be turning 22 this December but I wonder whether I am a millennial or a Gen Z.
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  726. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 9 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy 2 days ago. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  727. I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  728.  @Cousinbiddy1  I am a guy who just turned 22 a week ago and never had a girlfriend. I use dating apps and you won't believe that in just 3 days, 3 girls on dating apps matched with me and lost interest in me. First one was a 20 year old girl with whom I had a good chat but when I said that singing is one of my hobbies, she unmatched me. The 2nd one was a 22 year old girl who matched with me 2 days ago and we had things in common like both have birthday in December so we are just freshly 22 now, both liking chocolate cake, both in last year of college and graduating in mid 2023 etc but she unmatched me too today for no reason. Then today I got matched by this another girl who is 18 and she is in 1st year of college but she doesn't seem that interested in me either as her replies are one word and very slow.
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  729. I don't care much about the virginity part. I really wanna just feel how it feels to hug, kiss or hold hand with a girl. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. Recently I started going for some classes to get coaching for upcoming exams(which starts from Nov last week) to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 2 weeks ago and planning to study MBA next. There I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on our first class which was on 13th July 2023 and she sometimes tries to initiate convos with me asking whether I had lunch or not and says me hi but I just answer her what she asks or say hi back and I am still shy near girls in person so I am usually shy to try to initiate any talks with her unless she herself is the one who tries to talk with me first. BTW last week she actually said she finds me cute and that really made me blush hard and my friends too teased me hehe so I feel a little more hopeful now but she also has 2 or 3 male friends in our class so I feel really worried that she might go for them as they are more confident and much less shy than me. Since 28th May 2023, I also have been chatting with this 19 year old girl on Instagram. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other and now she is in a different college which is very near to my home tho and I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago who is 21 now turning 22 very soon. But my childhood friend is very inactive on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up, she didn't reply about when exactly we can meet up as she takes weeks and even a month to reply to me. I do chat with the 19 year old regularly sending each other virtual hugs and sharing everything like about our day, classes, about ourselves and many more but it still looks like she just sees me as a friend so I am still nervous to ask her out as I also got rejected recently by 4 girls.
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  730. So is it really a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 4 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  731. Wow man really 55? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend but I have been on my first ever date and got my first ever hug almost 8 months ago at the age of 22 but didn't work out. Then got ignored or rejected by several of my crushes. My current crush is in my University where are both MBA 1st year students and graduated college 10 months ago and She is also within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like. She is in a different classroom so our conversations were mostly brief but I managed to get her number and over a week ago, I even hugged her for the first time as it was our last exams and we won't be able to meet for 3 months as we have to complete an internship within May to July and our next semester classes will start in August. She did give an awkward smile when I hugged her. I literally wrapped her in my arms whereas she didn't really wrap me in her arms but she pat my back once and said ok i have to study for exam so bye. I also said her bye. It was my 2nd time I hugged a girl in person and I was so happy but I was worried whether she was comfortable enough or not but I called her on phone 3 days ago and she picked the call and we had a normal conversation in phone. I still don't whether she likes me back or not.
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  732. Wow man did you have a gf before? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but had my first ever date and first hug 7 months ago at the age of 22 and sadly it didn't work out. Got ignored and rejected by several crushes. Currently having a crush on this girl in my University where I am pursuing my MBA and I am in 1st year and she too is an MBA 1st year student and she is also within 21-23 age range but we aren't in the same classrooms so we have brief conversations mostly and she has been my crush for the past 2 months. I even got her number 2 weeks ago in a clever way but she didn't see my whatsapp text and when I asked she said she had 2 exams in the same day. Today I even hugged her finally as it was her last exam today and tomorrow is my last exam so we won't be able to meet in person for 3 months as we all have to do a 2-3 months internship between May to July and our next semester classes will start in August so I gave her a goodbye hug for now. She did give a bit of an awkward smile tho when I hugged her. I literally put all my arms around her while hugging whereas she didn't really put all her arms around me and she pat my back and said ok bye I have to study now as I have an exam in an hour and then even I said ok bye and we walked our own ways. It was brief few seconds hug but it was also my 2nd time I ever hugged a girl in person. I hope she wasn't uncomfortable but today was my really happy day and even my classmates were surprised seeing that.
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  733. Damn man did you have a girlfriend before? BTW I am a guy who turned 22 just over 8 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend. I use dating apps but hardly any matches. I got matched with 2 girls 2 weeks ago. One is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April but no plan of first date or anything. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I do follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are all 19-22 age range but still some of them don't chat regularly with and they probably doesn't see me as someone more than just a friend. I really wanna ask either of them out but Idk when.
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  734.  @neox9369  How old are you? I just turned 22 exactly 2 weeks ago and I am 7 years older than him
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  735. Nowadays I see people criticizing even a 22 year old dating an 18 year old saying its a huge gap. I am a 22 year old guy in last year of college and I like a girl in my college who is in 1st year of college so she can be either 18 about to turn 19 soon or is already 19 now so we are only like 3 years apart. Can I ask her out?
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  736. Did I miss out a lot because I am 22 and never dated? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. I got unmatched by 2 girls recently on dating apps after I asked them out for a coffee even though we had a good chat. I also got blocked by 2 girls on Instagram after asking them out and they were in the same school as me but now we are in different colleges. One of the girl who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up but she blocked me after few days and we had been chatting on insta for a month. I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 turning 22 after 3-4 months and I genuinely like her but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to my message yet but I am still waiting for her reply and hoping that she will agree. I also started newly chatting with another girl who too was in the same school as me but was my junior so she is within the 19-21 age range and she looks so pretty in her profile pic on insta with a smile and I would love to ask her out after knowing each other well but I am afraid that she might be having a boyfriend as she is really pretty and we aren't in the same college either.
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  737. Wow really 56? I am 24 and never had a gf. I am just in my final semester of my MBA and I am an intern now in a Startup which will convert to full time in August and living in Bangalore in India but I am Bengali Indian. I was always shy to talk with girls and only started fully socializing with girls last year after entering my 2nd year (3rd sem) of MBA. Now as I am interning in a young startup, I get to meet plenty of girls in my age group too (21–26 range). I am socializing daily with many female interns now and approaching them but they already have their circle of friends and there isn’t a proper cafeteria or place to socialize during breaks in our office and many go out with their friends who are from their college or familiar friends making socializing with girls harder as I directly approaching them independently when I see them. One girl who is 21-22 and an intern too even gave her number to me 2 days ago but even she is mostly with her friends. Its hard in a collectivist country like India even though I gained a lot of confidence when it comes to approaching and talking to girls.
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  738. Damn man really at 50? Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 23 just over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date a bit over 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 a week ago) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and had my first hug ever from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she is really cute. 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean and toxic to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. For the past 6 months, I also have been crushing on this girl in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA next. She also just turned 23 about 2 week ago and she has called me cute before and I pulled her cheeks twice too but I am usually shy near girls in person so she is the one who usually initiates conversations with me and its usually short as I have nothing more to say as an introvert. I do see her with some male friends so that makes me worried thinking what if she goes for either of them. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in that same class and she is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date as we are just friends. We just roamed around our city and then had lunch in a big restaurant and had lots of fun. I did pull her cheeks once while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. We might go out again in Feb probably. But 3 days ago, I got a new crush(yeah I am a mess haha) on this another girl who is also 22 or 23 in the same institute but different classrooms and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen but I was again shy to approach her but I got to know her name and followed her on Instagram but she is yet to accept it and maybe then I will message her after 2-3 days but its possible that she probably has a boyfriend too. I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram for over 6 months. She is 19(turning 20 in April). We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and only have been knowing each other since July 2023. We are planning to meet up too and eat somewhere as we are both foodies and we send each other virtual hugs in the chats daily and she is really sweet too. But in the end I am still single.
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  739. Btw is it fine for a 22 year old college senior to date an 18 year old college freshman? I am a guy who turned 22 a week ago and really like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in Feb.
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  740. Hey man are you seriously 46? Did you have a gf before? I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend so think how sad I feel. I also had crush on 2 girls in my college recently(both my juniors). One is 19 and the other one is 20 or maybe 21. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use dating apps too but no luck so far and most of my matches who were in the 18-24 age range ghosted me. But yesterday I saw another girl in a class where I joined for some extra courses. She is a college student too but from a different college and she is 19 or 20 or maybe 21 and very beautiful and has a very beautiful voice and I might get a crush on her too. But I only saw her for the first time yesterday so I was too shy to initiate any convo with her. Sadly I won't be able to see her for 2 weeks because she is going out of station so she won't come for the classes until 1st Nov.
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  741. So did I miss out as I am 22 and never dated? I am a guy who turned 22 pretty recently and never had a girlfriend. I use dating apps and got some 3 matches recently but hardly any plan of first date. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently and both rejected me. But things look promising as I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 19-22 year olds. I chat with this very sweet girl on insta who was my junior in school days. Now she is 20 turning 21 after 4 months and we have been chatting for the past 8-9 days. We send each other virtual hugs daily and that makes me feel butterflies. Idk whether she really likes me or she is just being friendly and we also go to different colleges but still in the same city.
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  742. I am a 22 year old guy and never even had a girlfriend before and feel FOMO most of the time. Dating apps aren't giving me luck and 2 of my crushes in college too rejected me few months ago. I chat with some girls on Instagram who are 19-22 age range and we were in the same school but only 1 girl who is 20 year old chats with me regularly. We were also in the same school but now in different colleges in the same city. We send each other virtual hugs daily and she makes me blush. She is very sweet and I was falling in love with her but 2 weeks ago she said she is in a relationship but I am confused because she is still flirty to me and calls me cute and sends hugs so idk whether she lied to me about being in a relationship. We even talk about meeting up and hugging for real but idk when and unfortunately I still feel lonely maybe because its just a chat so far and we didn't hang out yet.
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  743. Did you have a gf before? I am a guy who turned 23 like 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before. I went on my first ever date 4 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 few days ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds there and got my first hug from a girl but still yet to get my first kiss and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she was cute. But 2 weeks after the date she became toxic and mean to me and blocked me on all social media. She basically used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her so she can post them on social media. I also have massive crush on this another girl for the past 6 months where I go for some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college about 6 months ago and going to study MBA next. She also turned 23 just a few days ago. She has even called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too but I am shy near women in person so she is the one who initiates conversation with me. Few months ago I gave her a chocolate too but I often see her with her male friends so I get worried whether I have chance with her or not. 3 months ago, I went out with this another girl in the same class who is also 23 but so far we are just friends. We just roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant and I pulled her cheeks a bit too when we took selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. It was a fun day and we might go out again probably next month. I also have been following some girls on Instagram who are in the 21-25 age range from the same institute but different classrooms and messaged few of them and had been chatting with 2 or 3 of them who are also about 22 and 23 year olds. Since July 2023, I also have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who is 19(turning 20 in April). We were in the same school but didn't know each other in school days so we only have been knowing each other for 6 months. We also send each other virtual hugs and she is very sweet and we have many things in common like we are both foodies, like similar types of movies and many more and we plan to meet up to eat somewhere very soon too but in the end I am still single.
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  744.  @MRWINDYMETHANE  btw are you still single in your 40s? Did you have a gf before?
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  745. He is better than me as well. I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend, been on only one date, hugged only 2 girls in person and still didnt get my first ever kiss. I graduated my undergrad almost a year ago and now studying MBA and in my University I had several crushes and even gave chocolate to one of them but sadly I lacked the courage to ask them out. I was more confident with my most recent crush who is also within 21-23 age range and I hugged her last month too(she is the 2nd girl I ever hugged) but she gave n awkward smile during the hug and then she even avoided my phone calls which shows she isn't into me at all. I wasted 3 months(Feb to May 2024) running behind her which was really one sided. Now we are having a summer break from University and next semester classes will start in August so can't meet anyone.
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  746.  @walkourwoofers853  oh okay. Btw I am 23 not 22. And yeah it's my childhood habit. I also get crush on every beautiful girls I see who are usually in the 19-28 age range. Currently I have also got crush on some girls but found out that they have a boyfriend.
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  747. Think about how people like me feel who never had a gf. I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(20 now) and had my first hug too but sadly she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere and I also went out with a female friend 4 months ago who is also 23 and ate in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date. But almost 3 weeks ago, I got a new crush on this girl in a class where we go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 7 months ago but we are in different classrooms. She is also within the 21-23 age range and I had been too shy to talk to her but 2 weeks ago eventually with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was able to talk to her and again said her Hi last week. That classmate of her did say she is single but last week another of her classmate said that she probably has a boyfriend so that makes me feel confused whether to pursue her or not but I won't believe it unless she herself says she has a bf. 6 days ago, I again talked with her a bit and even we did handshake and she smiled too but I was definitely still sounding a bit nervous while talking with her. Sadly she still didn't follow me back or reply to my first dm to her on Instagram and its been 10 days already so idk whats up as she was still friendly with me 6 days ago. She is very very pretty almost model like and I just look average. Without my glasses, I look better but I have high power so should wear them all the time and look really nerdy and dorky in it so idk whether I even have a chance with her. I had crush on another girl in the same classes for the past 6-7 months and she also turned 23 last month. I liked her a lot and she even called me cute several times and I also gave her chocolate 2 weeks ago but was too shy to say her that I liked her but she probably knew I had a crush on her tho. Sadly she is ignoring me these days as she came to know about my new crush on this another girl. I also have been chatting with this girl on Instagram for the past 7 months and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other that time and now she is in a different college. She is 19(turning 20 in April) and she is super sweet and we are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs and chat daily talking about almost everything. We will meet soon too and go to eat somewhere but I am still single in the end.
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  748. How old are you? I am a 22 year old Indian guy living in Bangalore who is about 5'9(174-175 cm) and I never had a girlfriend before and never even kissed or hugged a girl before. After 3 rejections recently, 5 days ago finally my childhood friend who is 21 turning 22 soon replied positively to me after I asked her out via Instagram. We were close friends when we were in elementary school but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took almost a month to reply to it and her reply was "yeah ok". I asked her when we can meet but again she didn't come online so no reply to it so I probably have to again wait and I honestly like her a lot. But I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May. She was in the same school as me but she is few years my junior so we didn't know each other in our school days. Now she is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college so she is either 18 about to turn 19 soon or is already 19 now. We have been chatting daily unlike my childhood friend who takes weeks to reply. We both go to different colleges but her college is very near to my home and there is Starbucks near her college too where I can ask her out. We also send each other virtual hugs daily and she goes Awww but my childhood friend went Awww too when I sent her virtual hugs. Can I try asking her out too even though my childhood friend didn't reject me?
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  749. Is 22 still late? I am a guy who turned 22 just 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and never had a real kiss with a girl except getting kissed on the cheek by a girl when we were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched by 18-23 age girls but they ghost me for no reason. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but got rejected. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now and I had the best chat with a girl for the past 6-7 days. She is 20 and I knew her in school and she was 2 years my junior. She seems so much better than other girls I have chatted with. I kinda messed up a bit today by giving her a cheesy compliment today but I apologized and said that I just wanted to make her smile and she thanked me and said it was sweet of me. Btw I have no idea whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  750. Is 23 too late tho if I just overcame my shyness towards girls at this age? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before, only been on 1 first date months ago at the age of 22 and then hanged out with a female friend and hugged only 2 girls in person and never been kissed. I am studying MBA now and had a few crushes in my 1st year of MBA which didn't work but now 2nd year just started for me and I finally initiated conversation with 8 girls in these 3 days after University reopened. One of them(lets call her D) is also within 21-23 age range and is my junior who is in 1st year of her MBA and we have been having good conversations and yesterday we followed each other on Instagram too and yesterday met another girl(lets call her D) who is in my University too in my same year of MBA and also within 22-24 age range and we were walking and talking while going to University and then while going to the bus stop too we went together and she let me under her umbrella too as it was raining. So both D and R had been nice and friendly to me so far. Its a big improvement as I was shy during school days and avoided talking to girls due to facing severe bullying in school. Not only that I also talked with foreign women in our city Bangalore by initiating conversations with them. As Bangalore is a major metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats. I talked with 3 expat women so far. Almost 5 months ago was with a French woman who was about 22-26 age range and then 2 months ago was with a German woman who was probably anywhere within 26-35 age range. But today I had the best conversation with an American woman in the cafe in this big shopping complex in the most upscale area of our city. She is an expat too and she is 29 and she was really friendly to me and was comfortable talking with me and we had a long conversation. I asked for her Instagram but unfortunately she said she doesn't even use Insta so we couldn't connect with each other but I really hope I get to meet her again as she is really pretty too but I look nerdy in my glasses too.
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  751. Come on dude you are 27 now. You are a grown adult now so you should feel like an adult. Even I am a 21 year old guy which is a grown adult too and it has been bothering me so much that I am an adult and still no girlfriend or even my first kiss yet and you are 27 and not ready?
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  752. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but yesterday I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  753. Damn man really at 53? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and not even a kiss or hug. I feel FOMO all the time and feel terrible when I see couples and also that even younger teenagers are dating so easily whereas I am still single and full inexperienced at 22. Got rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago. Honestly I am an introvert too so I am relying on online dating to meet girls but having no matches on dating apps. Even if I rarely get one, they ghost me all the time. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in school days and they are mostly 19-22 age range but many of them ghosted and blocked me too because I was too shy near girls in my school days so never interacted with them in school so I am almost a stranger to them. Only 4 or 5 of them chats daily with me and 2 of them both 20 year olds are sweet to me and we send virtual hugs to each other and I also chat with a 19 year old girl regularly. I wanna try my luck with this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school. She is 21 now turning 22 after 3–4 months and I really wanna ask her out for a date but I don't know whether she would want to or not.
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  754. Is a 22 year old dating an 18/19 year old fine?
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  755. So is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 8 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy yesterday. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  756. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? Are French women better? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  757. True especially in my case. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. Got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently. Last week, I got matched by a 19 year old girl on one of the dating apps I use and we had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all in the app. So I am worried that this might not work so I tried keeping an option by following a girl named Britney on Instagram who was my classmate when we were in 6th to 10th grade. I remember having crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or probably even 22 now so same age as me. She was the prettiest girl in our class in high school days and she is even prettier now at 21 and I tried following her on Instagram today but she didn't even accept my follow request yet.
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  758. Wow 44? I am 24 and never had a gf. I am just in my final semester of my MBA and I am an intern now in a Startup which will convert to full time in August and living in Bangalore in India but I am Bengali Indian. I was always shy to talk with girls and only started fully socializing with girls last year after entering my 2nd year (3rd sem) of MBA. Now as I am interning in a young startup, I get to meet plenty of girls in my age group too (21–26 range). I am socializing daily with many female interns now and approaching them but they already have their circle of friends and there isn’t a proper cafeteria or place to socialize during breaks in our office and many go out with their friends who are from their college or familiar friends making socializing with girls harder as I directly approaching them independently when I see them. One girl who is 21-22 and an intern too even gave her number to me 2 days ago but even she is mostly with her friends. Its hard in a collectivist country like India even though I gained a lot of confidence when it comes to approaching and talking to girls.
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  759. Is it still bad at 22 if I never dated before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  760. What age range guys do you prefer? I am a 21 year old guy and got matched with a 19 year old girl 6 days ago on one of the dating apps I use and we had a decent chat for the past 6 days. We live in the same city but different college. But I will be turning 22 this December and her birthday is in June so I will be turning 22 about 6 months before she turns 20. Is it fine for a 21-22 year old guy to date an 18 or a 19 year old girl?
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  761.  @emiemorin1540  he is so lucky for dating an older girl. I literally got rejected by a 24 year old girl recently and she said I am young for her even though I am 21. The oldest I would date would be 28 for now but most girls who are 24 and older doesn't want me and don't take me seriously. I wonder how some guys get older girls whereas I am an adult in my 20s and still 24+ girls find me young for them.
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  762.  @SphaxPlays  I would date any girl within the 18 to 28 age range. I am 21 so 24 is only 3 years older than me. The oldest I would go for is 28 which is only 7 years older than me
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  763. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 4 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 2 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  764. Wow man really 41? Have you been on dates before? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but had my first ever date and my first ever hug 5 months ago at the age of 22 with a girl who was 19(20 now) but it didn't work and also went out with a female friend who is also 23 but idk whether to count it as a date. Recently got indirectly rejected by one of my crush due to my shyness. But for a month, I have been having a massive crush on this girl in the classes where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 7 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA Student. She is also within 21-23 age range. I was shy to talk to her too initially but I finally could with the help of my friends and one of her classmate. The last time we talked was 4 days ago and I got to know more about her and I was a lot less nervous this time. She is honestly very very pretty almost model like and has a very sweet voice whereas I am definitely not that good looking especially with my glasses(without them I look a bit better) and slightly chubby too. I don't even know whether she is even single or not. One of her classmate said she probably has a boyfriend whereas her another classmate who helped me talk with her said she is single and idk whom to believe. She has some male friends too in her class(we aren't in the same classrooms). She still haven't accepted my follow request on Instagram yet and its been 2 weeks even though she is nice and friendly to me in person. This another girl who is also 23 and on whom I had been crushing on for 7 months is ignoring me after she came to know about my new crush on this girl about whom I shared above. I also like this another girl who is 19 turning 20 in April and we have been chatting on Instagram for the past 7 months too. She used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other that time so we only have been knowing each other for 7 months and she is in a different college. We chat daily and send each other virtual hugs and talk about food a lot as we are both foodies and she is super sweet and we plan to meet up soon too one day and hopefully will get a longer hug this time.
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  765. I am a 21 year old guy so a Gen Z who never had a girlfriend. I feel like I am such a repellant to girls. 2 of my crushes in college rejected me recently. 3 days ago I heard a song which reminded me of a girl whom I knew since my school days and we were in same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so we are the same age. She is very beautiful and I followed her on Instagram. Her account is private so I sent her a follow request but she literally rejected my follow request and I am so down. Why did she do that? Is it because she can't recognize me or it's just I am too repellant to girls or is it because she finds me lame because I used to get bullied a lot in high school and was considered a loser by most guys in my grade? Is it fine if I send her a message?
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  766. Damn man. I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but had my first ever date and first hug 7 months ago at the age of 22 and sadly it didn't work out. Got ignored and rejected by several crushes. Currently having a crush on this girl in my University where I am pursuing my MBA and I am in 1st year and she too is an MBA 1st year student and she is also within 21-23 age range but we aren't in the same classrooms so we have brief conversations mostly and she has been my crush for the past 2 months. I even got her number 2 weeks ago in a clever way but she didn't see my whatsapp text and when I asked she said she had 2 exams in the same day. Today I even hugged her finally as it was her last exam today and tomorrow is my last exam so we won't be able to meet in person for 3 months as we all have to do a 2-3 months internship between May to July and our next semester classes will start in August so I gave her a goodbye hug for now. She did give a bit of an awkward smile tho when I hugged her. I literally put all my arms around her while hugging whereas she didn't really put all her arms around me and she pat my back and said ok bye I have to study now as I have an exam in an hour and then even I said ok bye and we walked our own ways. It was brief few seconds hug but it was also my 2nd time I ever hugged a girl in person. I hope she wasn't uncomfortable but today was my really happy day and even my classmates were surprised seeing that.
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  767. Thats sad man. BTW I am a guy who turned 22 just over 8 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and its bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but hardly any matches. I got matched with 2 girls 2 weeks ago. One is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April but no plan of first date or anything. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I do follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are all 19-22 age range but still some of them don't chat regularly with me and they probably doesn't see me as someone more than just a friend. I really wanna ask either of them out but idk when.
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  768. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian guy to try to even initiate conversation with foreign women who are expats? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before. No Indian woman has ever been interested in me and even my crush in my University where I am studying MBA isn't into me. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians do come here as expats. I went to this really posh area of our city and even tried initiating conversation with expat women there who are usually white Caucasian women but got ignored as they either had earphones or didn't look at me. Yesterday I again tried initiating conversation with another one walking on the sidewalk. She looked 27+ in age and I said her excuse me and she even looked at me but I suddenly became nervous and waved my hand at her instead and then she continued walking too so couldn't have a conversation. I am still kinda shy near women but I did have a brief conversation with a French woman near my University 2 years ago but I never saw her again. I am also going to this nearby coastal city Pondicherry for trip where I will see foreigners too but it will just be a 3-4 days trip and they will mostly be tourists too. I am kinda planning to go near this big University in our city Bangalore where many international students come too mostly for MBA. I will try to meet a foreign woman there in cafes or restaurants around. But idk whether it will be a good idea or not but at least most of them will be in their 20s too and around my age and I will have a more common topic to initiate conversation about as I am also an MBA student like them. What do you think?
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  769. So there is no chance for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  770. So is it still a bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 8 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy yesterday. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  771. A 10 year age gap isn't big enough to be a parent child dynamic. Like I am a 23 year old guy and wouldn't consider a 33 year old to be old enough to be my mom but 43 would be as its a 20 year gap.
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  772. I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend. Btw is it fine for me to think about trying my luck on a girl who was my childhood friend? There is a girl named Aishu who was my close friend when we were in elementary school and we were neighbors too so we used to often study together, play together, make silly drawings together etc and even fight sometimes but again become friends. But in 2011, my parents bought a new apartment so we came to a different area, so me and Aishu never really talked with each other since 2011. Now we are both 21 and I saw her on Instagram few days ago and I tried following her but she isn't even accepting my follow request and idk why and it makes me sad. I really wanna talk with her, hug her and kiss her but I feel like it won't happen.
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  773.  @suziepeaches321  I messaged her already about it but no reply or anything. Actually I am not really having luck on dating apps and got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently so I am trying to follow girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now but only 7 of them followed me back. 2 of the girls who were my high school crush too didn't accept my follow request.
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  774.  @suziepeaches321  no I am a Bengali Indian living in Bangalore in India so these girls are from my city and country. I am 5'8 1/2 almost 5'9 so it's above average in India and I am shy and introvert and don't have a social life. Last year I was pretty adamant to date an American or European girl because India is a more conservative country than the West as most Indian parents don't like it if their son or daughter has a gf or bf. But I have to wait probably like 2 years before I can move abroad. Thankfully Bangalore is a big metropolitan city so things are better and more advanced and less conservative here in the big metropolitan cities of India so I am open to dating an Indian girl as long as she isn't from a very traditional Indian family or isn't a Muslim.
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  775. Oh ok. Btw say honestly is it creepy of me to follow girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days? I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 6 days and never had a girlfriend before. Dating apps aren't bringing much luck for me so I follow girls on IG and even chat with some of them. They are all 20-22 year olds now too so like the same age as me but many times they don't reply or see my last message too even though we still have a decent chat. Btw some people on reddit said its creepy of me to follow them. Why? I mean I knew them in high school.
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  776. Thats scary man. I am a 22 year old guy and never even had any girlfriend. I use dating apps, message girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but no luck at all. The only girl who is nice and sweet to me is a 20 year old girl with whom I had been chatting on Instagram for almost a month. We were in the same school but now in different college in the same city. She is very sweet and makes me blush and we send each other hugs. But a couple of weeks ago she said she has a boyfriend which confuses me because she is still being flirty to me calling me cute and we send each other hugs and when I say her that I am sad about something, she says sweet things and makes me smile and we also talk about hugging one day for real so idk whether she just lied that she has a boyfriend.
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  777. How old are you man? Btw I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and 3 days ago got horrible rejected by a 19 year old girl who matched with me dating app and she called me ugly and said no girl will ever want me. But on Instagram, I saw some girls who were suggested to me. I knew them when we were in high school so I followed them but we weren't even classmates but still in the same grade. They are all 21-22 year olds. Today 2 of them did follow me back and both are 21 so the same age as me but I haven't messaged them yet and idk what to write because we never really interacted in high school days due to not being classmates.
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  778. You are a Boomer at 63. They are born between 1946-1964 so yeah anyone in their 60s in 2024 is a Boomer. I am a 23 year old guy so I am a Gen Z.
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  779.  @williamsaloka9043  Anyways I am 23 and you are a solid 4 decades older than me. You don't know how it is for us Gen Z guy. I have crush on this girl in my University where are both pursuing MBA and in our first years and she is also within 21-23 age range. I even got her number 2 weeks ago but she didn't even see my text on Whatsapp. I asked her yesterday about it and she said she had 2 exams on the same day so she was studying but even I am having exams so idk whether to believe her.
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  780. So would you have still found 23 too old at 20? 3 or 4 years is still too much?
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  781. Damn man really at 45? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and barely been on 1 first date and only hugged 2 girls in person so far and never been kissed. I had always been very shy near girls due to facing severe bullying and isolation in school so I even avoided talking with girls and then studied engineering in a college which had a skewed gender ratio. Now I am studying MBA and only recently I am talking with girls and overcame my shyness so it took me till 22-23 to finally come out of my shyness. I had a crush last year during my starting of my MBA but I messed up and currently like 2 girls in my MBA. One of them (lets call her D)(22F) is my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year 3-4 weeks ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far. She is a Punjabi girl and I am Bengali. She is an introvert similar to me and soft spoken and I got her Instagram too and we had some decent conversation in person and even sent her a funny relatable meme on Instagram too. Another one is a girl(Lets call her I)(22-24F) who is in the same year of MBA as me but different sections and we only talked in person for 5-6 days so far. She is also a North Indian from Lucknow who came to Bangalore for her MBA and I really like her confident nature while talking and she is beautiful too. We had a good conversation on our 1st interaction and she even shared her umbrella with me when it rained but our next conversations were short as she is accompanied by her friends or keeps seeing her mobile even though she smiles and says me Hi back. I even said her hope she isn't angry on me but she made a surprised expression and said "No not at all. Why?" I am overthinking a lot whether she is interested in talking to me or not. Plus I am currently in my hometown Siliguri for vacation too for a week so I am worried when D or I and even the other girls with whom I talk, will talk to me again after I return to Bangalore and go to college again as there had been an 8-9 days gap in communication because of the trip and we are all in early stages of getting to know each other. Plus as they aren't my classmates, they are in more close proximity to their male classmates than to me. I just recently came out of this shyness so completely clueless about how to make my move on girls and nervous about asking them out and feel that she might not be interested.
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  782. @Provo Beats I have been using tinder, bumble and hinge for 4 months but barely get any matches. I got few matches recently but they always end up ghosting me and idk why.
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  783. Wow man did you have girlfriend before? Btw I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and 3 days ago got horrible rejected by a 19 year old girl who matched with me dating app and she called me ugly and said no girl will ever want me. But on Instagram, I saw some girls who were suggested to me. I knew them when we were in high school so I followed them but we weren't even classmates but still in the same grade. They are all 21-22 year olds. Today 2 of them did follow me back and both are 21 so the same age as me but I haven't messaged them yet and idk what to write because we never really interacted in high school days due to not being classmates.
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  784. Have you never been on a date or just recently no dates? I am a 23 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before but I had my first ever date and first hug over 7 months ago at the age of 22 but it never worked out. Mostly got ignored or rejected by my previous crushes. Currently I have a crush on this girl in my University where we are both are pursuing MBA and are in 1st year now and she is also within 21-23 age range and we both graduated undergrad 10 months ago. But we are in different classrooms so our conversations had been mostly brief but I clever got her number too almost 3 weeks ago but she didn't see my text on Whatsapp and when I asked her about it, she said she had 2 exams in the same day so she had to study. 3 days ago, I hugged her as it was our last exam and we won't be able to meet for 3 months as we have to do an internship for 2-3 months between May to July and our next semester classes will start in August, so it was just a goodbye hug. She did give a bit of an awkward smile when I hugged her and I literally wrapped her in my arms whereas she didn't fully wrap me in her arms but she pat my back once and said ok I have to study now so bye and even I said ok bye. I am a bit worried whether she was comfortable enough or not but it was one of my happiest day and it was my 2nd time I hugged a girl in person and she is one of the prettiest girl in our University so it felt even more good and even my classmates were surprised seeing it.
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  785. At least you had your first kiss. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had his first kiss and I never had a girlfriend. After having no luck with like 4 girls I know in real life, finally 2 days ago I was matched with a girl on one of the dating apps who isn't ghosting me so far. She is 19 years old and we had a decent chat for the past 2 days and she too lives in my city but we are in different college and different course too. Do you think I will at least get my first kiss this time? I am scared that she might ghost me too. I will be turning 22 this December and I at least want my first kiss before 22nd December which is my 22nd birthday.
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  786.  @whatdoinamethischannel9749  BTW you are 18 now so say me what's your opinion about a 21 or 22 year old guy dating an 18 year old girl? I am a 21 year old guy and recently got crush on a girl in a class where I go for some courses. She is a college student and I think she is 19-21 age range but idk her age so there is a possibility that she can be 18 too. Should I try my luck even if she is 18? I will be turning 22 this December. She could be any age in the 18-21 age range.
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  787. Did you have a gf before? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend but I have been on my first ever date and got my first ever hug almost 8 months ago at the age of 22 but didn't work out. Then got ignored or rejected by several of my crushes. My current crush is in my University where are both MBA 1st year students and graduated college 10 months ago and She is also within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like. She is in a different classroom so our conversations were mostly brief but I managed to get her number and almost 2 weeks ago, I even hugged her for the first time as it was our last exams and we won't be able to meet for 3 months as we have to complete an internship within May to July and our next semester classes will start in August. She did give an awkward smile when I hugged her. I literally wrapped her in my arms whereas she didn't really wrap me in her arms but she pat my back once and said ok i have to study for exam so bye. I also said her bye. It was my 2nd time I hugged a girl in person and I was so happy but I was worried whether she was comfortable enough or not but I called her on phone 5 days ago and she picked the call and we had a normal conversation in phone. I still don't whether she likes me back or not.
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  788.  @anonymmynona8219  How is 33 dating someone 23 bad even though 23 is a grown adult? Btw what is your opinion about a 21 or 22 year old dating an 18 year old? I am 21 and really like a girl who is 18 in my college and I will be turning 22 this December.
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  789.  @veep0stal  are you a girl? How old are you? I am a 21 year old guy btw.
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  790.  @veep0stal  yeah I got crush on a girl in a class where I joined recently for some course. She is also a college student but from a different college. She is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but she can be 18 too as idk her exact age yet but I was too shy to even say her hi haha. She is really beautiful and has a cute voice too.
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  791.  @SniperFoxx420  Dude leave her alone. She is only 17 and you are 20. You are an adult so leave her alone. Go pick on someone your age.
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  792. I am a guy who turned 22 quite recently and never had a girlfriend either and after not having much luck on dating apps and getting rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago, I see some ray of hope as I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are within 19-22 age range. I have been chatting with this girl for the past 14 days on insta who was in the same school as me but she was my junior. She is 20 turning 21 after 4 months and she is super sweet. We chat often and we both send virtual hugs to each other and she says that I am sweet too and I feel butterflies. Yesterday I was tired so I told her that I might fall asleep on her shoulder while hugging her and she said she would have let me and told me to go home and have a good sleep while imagining that I am sleeping on her shoulder and that made me blush. Idk whether she is just being friendly or not. We both go to different college tho but still live in the same city.
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  793. I am kinda unlucky too. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Got rejected by 3 girls who are 19-21 year olds so far(2 from my college and 1 from a dating app). I tried following few girls on Instagram too whom I knew in my high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now but only 7 of them followed me back and 2 of my high school crushes who are 21-22 now didn't even accept my follow request. Yesterday I got matched by 2 girls on dating app Hinge. One is 21 and the other one is 23. Unfortunately, the 21 year old girl stopped replying after a small chat whereas I had a decent chat with the 23 year old and she is super cute and I really wish she won't ghost me too.
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  794.  @jamespain2138  btw man tell me is 22 really too old for an 18 year old? Like I said I am 21 and will be turning 22 on 22nd December and few days ago I was also matched with an 18 year old girl and we had a nice chat. Yesterday we added each other on Instagram and I was complimenting her too but she said she won't date me because I am not her type and my personality is opposite of what she is looking for and suddenly she started saying she won't date someone 4 years older than her and said I am too old for her. How is 22 too old for 18? I am not even 22 yet. Anyways I found out, she doesn't even live in my city but still why did she match with me if my age was a problem? My age 21 is clearly written on my profile.
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  795. Dating is just hard for us Gen Z guys due to so much internet and social media. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. After 3 rejections recently, I did ask out my childhood friend who is 21 year old now turning 22 soon by messaging her on Instagram and she did reply yeah ok but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and now again she hasn't been online for weeks and still yet to reply about when we can meet but I am still waiting. But since 28th May 2023, I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram who used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days. Now she is 19 year old and is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and we chat daily about pretty much everything and we send each other virtual hugs too and I think I started liking her too but so far it still looks like she just sees me as a friend as the chats doesn't get very flirty yet and we have been chatting for almost a month. We are also in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. I do wanna ask her out but my childhood friend didn't reject me too and I like both of them.
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  796. What about 21 or 22? I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and another is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks and she rejected me. I use 3 datings apps but barely get any matches and get ghosted if I get matched by one. 5 days ago, I saw a girl in a class where I joined recently for some course. She is a college student from a different college and she is definitely within the 19-21 age range but idk her exact age so she can be 18 too and she is beautiful but she went out of city for 2 weeks so she hasn't come for the classes and I can see her again on 1st Nov. Idk whether I can go for her as she is from a different college.
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  797. Would you have dated a guy like me who is really shy near women in person? I turned 23 just 7 days ago and never had a girlfriend before and still shy near women in person.
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