Comments by "worn down" (@worndown8280) on "Why Modern Dating is Broken" video.

@evilds3261 thats irrelevant. Most men, autistic or not, dont know how to approach women, let alone other men and engage in conversations. And what makes it even worse is most women dont either. But at the end, you wont date anyone and you wont make any friends at all if you dont talk to people. Social interaction is key. When I was a young man in the long long ago, I always told my male friends that had issues, talk to the ugliest least attractive women you can think of. And then work your way up from there. And I told my female friends the same. I mean even in your statement you went straight to dating. Just try talking to people.
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My physical therapist broke down the other day while working on my right shoulder, I have a rotator cuff tear. She said many of the same things you said and more. I think most people are maladapted due to multigenerational divorces, several social agendas that pit the sexes against one another and above all a fear that none of us is good enough. I truly feel bad for the younger generation. Every young lady I meet and ask out says yes. Most people are just starved for genuine affection.
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@Jaapst I am glad you are doing better. But we typically do keep things to ourselves in most modern environments, and its not the healthiest thing to do. Its one of the side effects of men having no men only spaces anymore.
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A serious question, since, by your own words, you were hurt so bad, have you had any counseling?
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If I may ask young man, how many women have you asked out?
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@yespls6260 I found it amusing when prognosticators thought that the pandemic would see an explosion in the birth rates. I was like, what world are you looking at? I am not sure what the answer is, but practice makes better. Keep socializing keep talking to people and be respectful. Thats what I tell my boys and my god daughters. So if you are trying, keep at it.
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Self improvement is so important. A lot of men want to be accepted as they are. Thats just not how nature works. If men accepted that and put in more effort, many would excel. But most wont.
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@evilds3261 I hope it does. I hate seeing what is happening to young men and women. I have sons and God daughters. Its hard seeing the state of society and the effects it has on all of you. I wish you nothing but the best.
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If you look at most of these graphs the inflection point is 2008. They year before the Iphone came out. As these hand held devices spread social interaction declined. And look how fast the decline took. Many people dont even know how to hold conversations anymore and god forbid you disagree on something. You are an evil monster. The first step in addressing this is rolling back some technologies which the majority of humans clearly cant handle. Among these would be any hand held viewing device(Cell phones and tablets), internet porn, and bringing back serious physical education in schools. I am not naive enough to think this will happen, but it would address the bulk of the issues.
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