Comments by "worn down" (@worndown8280) on "The Rise of Parents Who Regret Having Children" video.

My ex wife regretted having kids. I told her fine. Go live your best life. She was upset when she got neither child support nor spousal support. Why she would think you would get child support without having custody of the kids is mind boggling. Some people just dont think. But having kids was one of the greatest things I have done. Never regretted it. Even when my oldest totaled my truck.
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@Fearlessly91 I was happy just not to fight. Plus, even though I paid for her bachelor's, she was a stay at home mom. I'm not an unreasonable person.
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The certainly have a unique perspective on the world and children.
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@erikkovacs3097 my sons are well adjusted. I spent a lot of time with them when they were young preparing them for the challenges of life. Adversity need not harm you. With the proper foundation it can even make you better. My oldest is in the world and has excellent relationships with women. My youngest just graduated from high school two years early and is considering his options. Both seem better off without the toxic influence of their mother. That said I encourage them to stay in contact with her. She does her best to make that difficult.
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@rsmith4407 I guess I will have to take your word on it.
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@erikkovacs3097 never saw your post. My oldest had a real anger issue because of what happened, he was old enough to understand what happened. But he worked through it. My youngest graduated high school at 16 and has had a girlfriend since he was 14. Both are fine and civil with their mother.
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@ElizabethGeiger-ye1sf I did compensate her, by paying for her education. She now works in the high energy fast based world of being a orthodontic receptionist. Again, that was her choice. Me I got to retire at 45. That's what life is, a series of choices and trade offs. But you can hate me. I can take it.
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