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Comments by "Christopher Conard" (@christopherconard2831) on "Will Smith BRUTALLY Humiliated By Jada Pinkett Smith \u0026 New Video Clip! They're Trying To Ruin Him!" video.
@ewjiml They don't come into the relationship wearing a sign saying "I'm crazy". The term sociopathic narcissist is overused today, but I was with the real thing. Looking back or from the outside it seems insane. The easiest way to understand it is to check out interviews with former cult members. Most cult leaders have the same personality. Over time the constant gaslighting, blame shifting and being on the defensive from stuff like confession through accusation and isolation wears you down. It took me a while after my divorce to figure out the difference between reality and the "reality" she fed me. She could almost convince me black is white. Most are also very good at wearing masks. If you try to describe to others aspects of your relationship that worry you, you come across as the crazy one because everyone else believes the image they project. Not the real version you see when they occasionally let the mask slip. Their allies (willing and dupes) will tell you that you didn't hear them say what they said to you. That what you saw you are misinterpreting or taking out of context. They they would never say or do the things you clearly remember.
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