Comments by "" (@chrismaxwell1624) on "Reacting to Estranged Parent TikTok" video.

  1.  @bipo819  A person who is scared of you is fawning, that is not even close to respect. To think that is respect shows me that the person never been respected so has no idea feels it's like.
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  2. I'm of the opinion respect is earned not given. It can be easily lost, just like trust can be lost.
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  3.  @Demonsta  Bullying does earn respect. What bully thinks is respect is fawning to avoid getting treat like shit. It's the opposite of respect.
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  4. I've seen a few examples of when it's the kid and not the parent and these are not uncommon. 1) drug addiction: Kids get into crazy things. I had no clue that over the counter stuff can be turned into opiod for example. A mild one that kids do just for fun because it's promoted on TikTok. When things turn side ways with the drug the child is hiding it with a ton of shame. The pain of shame and embarrassment that they go no contact to avoid feeling that way. (this on happen far too often) 2) Narcissistic predators: This pure manipulation as isolation tactic. The narcissists gaslights the victim so much they think that the parents are worst ever. It's win for the narcissist to get their victim going no contact with family and friends. Parents may not even be aware of this. They can be that charming the parent think they are good for their child.
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